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Please get yourself tested.
/r/MensRights13/10/22 10:40 PM
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Soap and Condoms do a way better job at decreasing infection or STDs than circumcision do That's because circumcision does not curb STD infection rate at all. Agree with the rest of the sentiment
/r/MensRights13/10/22 11:50 AM
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Toxic masculinity as it's used today is a corruption of the original term coined by the mythopoets who believed that men should be able to be men, and to dictate how men should act is toxic masculinity. Feminists have turned this term on it's head by dictating how men should act and feel in a self serving way. This is why most people who see people tell others about toxic masculinity are often met with disdain because at the end of the day, it's dictating men how to act and feel. Telling men and…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 10:37 AM
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and girls would think I was less masculine So these girls are exhibiting toxic masculinity by telling you what defines masculinity. Pretty sure a lot of boys and young men are growing up being conditioned to think that being caring and empathic, talking about how you feel makes you somehow vulnerable, likely primarily because potential romantic or sexual interests would shame them for it.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 10:33 AM
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Nobody ever said anything about retention. Cultivating an addiction and milking users does not require them to stay for prolonged periods of time. Just look at most apps in the app store nowadays, especially games. They're so incredibly streamlined to get users to spend, that it barely matters of the user turnover is high. Dating apps by intent aren't meant to be long term use anyway (because why would you use an app where it takes you a year+ to meet a partner?) So they focus on whatever psycho…
/r/MensRights14/08/22 08:41 PM
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So you took the argument that dating sites and apps are designed to create an addiction or to milk the users instead of actually trying to get proper matches and turned the focus on the banning practices of the platforms instead, just so you could feel like you won something. Congrats mate You are a person, much like most redditors, who simply cannot be wrong about anything and nor will ever admit to being wrong because your ego is so precious Touché
/r/MensRights14/08/22 05:27 PM
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You are really grasping to the ban argument and completely disregarding the point I was actually making huh? If these are the endorphins and feelings of victory you need to get you through your day, then by all means....
/r/MensRights14/08/22 02:25 PM
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"skill deficit" is really just a way of describing a rise of entitlement in requirements that a male partner 'must have' in order to be considered a match.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 05:53 AM
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Once again, strawmanning instead of actually engaging in a discussion about the point being made regarding dating apps and their actual disinterest in finding a partner.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 05:48 AM
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That's not what I wrote though, the intent is to keep you using the app instead of doing what is advertised (finding a partner which would inevitably lead to an end to the use of the app). What you are referring to is primarily breaches in the platform's terms of use, which will lead to a termination of the user's ability to participate on the platform.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 05:48 PM
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For what it's worth, anyone who has trouble finding dates using apps: don't despair. Dating apps aren't designed to get you a date. They're designed to keep you using the app, ideally purchasing a subscription or other product. Any business claiming to find you the partner of your dreams, or any partner is working against their goals by providing you with what you are actually looking for. Why would you keep using a dating app when you've found your partner? Why spend more money and time on the …
/r/MensRights13/08/22 02:01 PM
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What nonsense is this? If you actually feel like losing a few braincells reading it: https://archive.ph/5MpuX TL;DR: men bad and stupid, women smart and intelligent. "Toxic masculinity" go brrrrrr. Society forcing men to work out to increase "toxic masculinity" in order to oppress and intimidate women.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 09:51 PM
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Probably take that down since brigading is against the rules.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 07:35 AM
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Thank you, I will take a look at these.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 10:35 AM
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Do you have some books that you can recommend?
/r/MensRights09/07/22 08:08 AM
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This sounds like the usual feminist trickle down equality: "feminism is for men, too". But sure, I'll bite, how do you think women's rights would benefit men in these scenarios?
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:50 PM
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They couldn't vote or hold most jobs or have any say in a relationship. So focusing on them was leveling the playing field. This is a very feminist-lens-tinted interpretation of history. Women could vote as much as men could (until suffrage, read my other comment). They had a say in their relationship, however ultimately the responsibility of anything that happened rested with the men. Women could not incur debt in their own name, rather their husband's, since they then we're responsible for pay…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:45 PM
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Yeah, you're right. Men gained suffrage shortly before women did, simply because they were drafted into a war for a country that they had no voting rights for. Women could have received suffrage at the same time but voted against it, fearing the draft. Later when they gained suffrage, they gained it without any strings attached, while men are still required to register for the draft (at least in the US)
/r/MensRights07/07/22 03:37 PM
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The first hand and second hand cringe is strong with this. This is what happens when you unquestioningly buy into the feminist narrative. These are the kinds of people who say "yes all men" while implying "except us of course". I'll never trust these kinds of people because chances are, the louder they shout or pander, the more they are trying to drown out their own transgressions.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 05:34 AM
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Apologizing for something that doesn't exist and never happened. All this lending legitimacy to feminist doctrine just to get a crumb of pussy.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 05:31 AM
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Yet the people who make decisions or pass legislation don't seem to think so
/r/MensRights07/07/22 05:29 AM
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Feminists want what we want. Fairness and Equality Good one 🤣 Secondly: don’t forget to separate Female Supremists from Feminists. There is a difference. No true Scotsman
/r/MensRights05/07/22 03:25 PM
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The original definition of toxic masculinity defined by the mythopoets refers to the constant push to feminize men, to control how they behave in unnatural ways that harm men and boys. Feminism has corrupted this term, now referring to anything that 'threatens' feminist ideals, primarily using it to shame men into behaving in ways that feminism approves of (often not in beneficial ways for men, or even harmful to men).
/r/MensRights04/07/22 03:50 PM
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Insult Men While Demanding Our Help This is called shaming into compliance
/r/MensRights02/07/22 05:43 AM
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This is all just hysterical circle jerking, concern trolling to ensure "women's health and well-being". The knee-jerk response from these folks after the overturn of roe v Wade was "sterilise all men!" For 'equality' (read: as punishment). Ignore these lunatics, with every passing moment it becomes easier to identify these kinds of people since they wave their red flags around like badges of honour on platforms like Reddit and Twitter.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 05:43 PM
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"women should be able to get their tubes tied, no questions asked. I'm glad a woman was asked when a man wanted a vasectomy though, keeps things 'fair'." Do they not see the problem here? It doesn't keep things fair, because once their fight inevitably causes them to no longer require any positive confirmation, the systemic requirements for men will remain. Also, 'fair' is when men's perceived advantage is removed, or when women's privilege is elevated above men's apparently.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 08:41 PM
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citing fears men would lie they are on birth control. So just like the argument they used to block a gender neutral definition of rape... "MeN wOuLd UsE iT tO aCcUsE wOmEn Of RaPe!"
/r/MensRights29/06/22 06:31 AM
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I told her that being naturally aggressive is just a male attribute Not really a good way to argue by providing her with additional reason to hate you for your gender. High levels of testosterone dont cause aggression, it amplifies what's already there. My advice: move away and cut her out of your life as soon as you are able. Take up a physical hobby or play a sport/take up exercise. Going to the gym or running regularly helps your body produce and regulate testosterone.
/r/MensRights29/06/22 06:29 AM
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It's all about shaming people into silence or submission. Keep fighting the good fight.
/r/MensRights29/06/22 06:24 AM
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You were talking about legislating People's bodies, not specifically reproductive rights. conservatives that so easily have zero problems legislating a woman's body but wouldn't ever dream of doing the same thing to men Sending someone to die in a war via legislation, legislates their bodies...
/r/MensRights28/06/22 03:09 PM
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but wouldn't ever dream of doing the same thing to men You know men have no reproductive rights as is, right? There's nothing left for them to legislate. Aside from that, how about selective service? As a man in the US you have basically 0 rights without signing away your life should the government deem it fit to be thrown away... This whole 'sterilize men for a decision that both men and women of the "pro life" Camp made' is disingenuous
/r/MensRights28/06/22 05:51 AM
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Good point actually, now you can see which potential partners are willing to manipulate you by withholding sex (or by dangling the carrot of sex in front of you) to do things for them.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 05:45 AM
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Just goes to show that their game is all about shaming any opposition
/r/MensRights26/06/22 02:44 PM
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By taking a break from supporting each others needs and show sympathy and concern for our fellow citizens of another gender We are capable of doing more than one thing. We are able to sympathise as well as advocating for our rights. Using the overturn of roe v Wade is another convenient time to backseat men's issues and silence any divergent topics
/r/MensRights25/06/22 07:00 PM
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no body has enough emotional bandwidth to even listen to us this week and rightly so FTFY
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:58 PM
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Yeah for sure but I feel like doing any mens rights stuff this week is like when our citizen enemies starting screaming all lives matter at BLM supporters So when is it time to advocate for men's human rights? This week just isn't about us at all even though we do matter all the time Do we? Nobody gave two shits about men's reproductive rights, even before this shit hit the fan. This sounds like when the war in the Ukraine started and men were being forcibly alienated from their families because…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:57 PM
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This would be a great opportunity to bundle reproductive rights of both men and women, to have unified push to get these rights... Unfortunately this will never happen, the only likelihood might be half, and you can guess who is going to continue missing out on these rights just like before..
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:42 PM
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Completely missed the point. Even if it's his, he doesn't get to opt out. There's no abortion for men.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 04:19 PM
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And yet you can force a man into body breaking labour or imprisonment for a child that may or may not even be his, regardless of whether or not they wanted to have a child.. funny how that works
/r/MensRights25/06/22 10:48 AM
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I get what you're saying but.. Today isn’t about us. It never is. When women still had the choice to choose, where was the support for men's reproductive rights? Deafening silence. When will it be time to talk about men's reproductive rights? I'm not saying we should do nothing, I'm just saying we should find a solution where everyone benefits, not just a select few. Now is the time to combine men's and women's reproductive rights and to fight for both as a single cohesive unit.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:53 AM
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It's always hilarious to me when I hear people nonchalantly say things like "men should get a vasectomy until they're financially able to handle a child", or "women shouldn't need contraception.. men should all get vasectomies instead" with their reasoning being "because it's easily reversible". It shows that these people overindulge in feminist talking points and have no actual idea about what having a vasectomy means, the risks it carries and the increasingly diminishing chance of a successful…
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:46 AM
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A good dad can make a world of difference in the life of a child, just as a good mom can. Here’s to many more Father’s Days. Wholeheartedly agree. It's sad that in this day and age this needs to be 'rediscovered' time and again while still no authority acts on it.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:59 AM
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Feminism is using the tried and true tactics of divide and conquer. They are actively seeking to divide society by gender to conquer a larger portion. So far it's been incredibly successful
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:44 AM
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Frame this in a positive light and watch how quickly they'll backpedal or tack on other things.. "Wow, free vasectomies for all men would absolutely curb paternity fraud and finally give men some form of reproductive security".
/r/MensRights18/06/22 11:31 AM
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I appreciate the time taken to respond to my request for clarification, as well as your anecdotes regarding transitional housing. I understand that the burden of proof is on the claimant If that's the case, then this is uncalled for: however in the future if you want me to do any research for you that could have just as easily been done by you typing your question into a search engine instead of your reply to me... Imma need $10 over Venmo per research request. You make the claim, you back it up…
/r/MensRights17/06/22 09:06 AM
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Also transitional housing is typically only available to individuals with children. And when men try for full custody in court, men win more often than women. It's just that typically men don't want full custody. Can you share some sources for these claims?
/r/MensRights17/06/22 05:14 AM
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Care to share some more recent ones?
/r/MensRights17/06/22 05:12 AM
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@thetinmen on Instagram. They usually have sources in their posts
/r/MensRights17/06/22 05:11 AM
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Or "he probably did something to make her do it"/" he probably did something to deserve it"
/r/MensRights17/06/22 05:09 AM
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This article basically exposes how ridiculous a lot of the feminist theories and musings are in a nutshell.. they'll go out of their own way to demonize even the lowest status men just to feel superior
/r/MensRights16/06/22 10:02 PM
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Further proof that career feminist lobbying and the attached feminist organisations are over-funded... The fact that they actively go out of their way to find some way to blame men who are down on their luck, or who have been ostracised or fallen through the cracks in society for "their own toxic masculinity", meanwhile purporting to have a solution for it: feminism shows how it's nothing more than mere propaganda designed to draw in more funding to pad these exploiters' pockets.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 09:59 PM
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this is actually pretty spot on. Men often get ostracised from society for questioning beliefs or doctrine. This leads them to gravitate to the only circles where they are welcome or even remotely tolerated.. Obviously these circles tend to move further and further towards radicalisation. One could even go so far as to say that modern feminism is playing an active role in radicalizing men and boys.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 10:06 AM
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Many don't outgrow the zero sum game mentality, and most rarely outgrow their adversarial nature after being indoctrinated. If they're constantly told men are evil, scheming to dominate women or otherwise harm or exploit them, it's incredibly difficult to reverse that kind of brain washing. It's a combination of their willingness to have their mind changed, the power of the truth they see to change their mind and their willingness to relinquish the cheap dopamine hits from the feminist and SJW o…
/r/MensRights16/06/22 05:50 AM
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Ng Eng Hen If double standards had a name.
/r/MensRights12/06/22 11:53 AM
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I wonder if part of the reason is the lack of men's groups that receive government funding to push these issues, like the ones that feminism has
/r/MensRights10/06/22 04:16 PM
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Let's petition those lawmakers to redefine the term "suicide" as "male suicide" as men are predominantly victims of this. Watch how fast their heads spin and those women's organisations start spewing vitriol
/r/MensRights10/06/22 12:03 PM
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I thought it was funny but there is no debunking the pay gap. This is NOT a sex issue this is a class issue I think you misunderstood, there is no need to debunk anything, the pay gap myth has been well and truly debunked already... When we're talking about pay were talking about your wages being stolen by the owners in the form of "profits" those profits are yours and we need to ALL seize them back. What are you talking about? The pay you receive is renumeration for the work you provided. Runni…
/r/MensRights08/06/22 10:06 PM
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On the plus side, I think she just single-handedly solved the male/female pay gap statistics by accounting for any discrepancy in wages in any other company or sector. This is actually a hilarious take on it, I love it. Solve the debunked pay gap by hiring a single overpaid executive, then wait for the statistics to roll in and show that women actually out-earn men.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 03:25 AM
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Strong, independent women who don't need no man, would like their student debts erased.
/r/MensRights04/06/22 05:47 AM
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Incel in your underwear Pretty sure you'll find them anywhere but there 😋
/r/MensRights03/06/22 08:52 PM
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This is literally a case of feminists saying "but what about women???" You know, cause they like to point out that they NeVeR do it, only men ever say "what about men??" On women's issues...
/r/MensRights02/06/22 05:05 PM
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Well deserved victory for Depp. Not holding my breath for Loreal to drop Heard like a hot potato though
/r/MensRights02/06/22 07:15 AM
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Why is it always about power and being CEO's with you people This is literally all it's about. It thrives on apex fallacy
/r/MensRights01/06/22 06:54 AM
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However, I'm single right now and I'm not going to pass up on commitment free sex, because she'll just end up giving it to someone else, so it might as well be me. Can't wait to see another post somewhere down the line about how a lying manipulative ex that came back for a fling while with a new partner has now accused the OP of rape/sexual assault/whatever and that his life is now in shambles. These kinds of stories are always foreshadowing and 9/10 they end up with all guys involved getting fu…
/r/MensRights31/05/22 12:47 PM
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It's a classic no true Scotsman fallacy. Karen straughans comment just speaks volumes: So what you're saying is that you, a commenter using a username on an internet forum are the true feminist, and the feminists actually responsible for changing the laws, writing the academic theory, teaching the courses, influencing the public policies, and the massive, well-funded feminist organizations with thousands and thousands of members all of whom call themselves feminists... they are not "real feminis…
/r/MensRights30/05/22 06:31 AM
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All of them if you ask feminists, because you are 'distracting' from real issues like mansplaining, manspreading, "violence against women" and the pay gap...
/r/MensRights30/05/22 06:26 AM
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This is a free course for women and marginalized genders With how men are being marginalized in society nowadays, would men get to sign up for this shit show? The fact that this says "how to hurt cis men" specifically shows that it's more about hating a demographic than providing actual self defense. You can swap in literally any group and suddenly look like a super radicalised and hateful individual that will go out of their way to hurt people from said group...
/r/MensRights27/05/22 06:27 AM
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Literally swap in any demographic to see your bias.. Honestly it makes sense, a lot of blacks are out here committing atrocities. Or Honestly it makes sense, a lot of Jews are out here committing atrocities. And all of a.sudden you end up looking like some radical "alt-righter"...
/r/MensRights27/05/22 06:21 AM
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the Depp-Heard trial hurts REAL victims of DV Which is interesting because Depp was a real victim of DV... it kinda sounds that only women can be victims of DV, because only female victims get hurt by this trial This is exactly what they mean when they say this. Also the whole 'imperfect victim' mental gymnastics bullshit they are spewing out now. Feminists have had a monopoly on Domestic Violence 'Violence against women' and the monies that came with it. Now that the time is ripe for them to sh…
/r/MensRights25/05/22 01:28 PM
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And it’s not only gay dads or Democratic champions of paternity leave who have spoken up This is what really gets me.. we get it "gay dads good", between those and the "democratic champions of paternity leave", the overwhelming majority of men who also take care of kids are implied to not give a shit... Or worse, to be complicit in the stranglehold economic policies that are (as implied) primarily affecting mothers.. Classic feminist gaslighting, putting men (while excluding whatever subgroups f…
/r/MensRights25/05/22 06:28 AM
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Not sure I'd expect avoiceformen to Crosspost c&h stuff but totally saw this coming.
/r/MensRights22/05/22 12:27 PM
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Free state funded mandated vasectomies? Huh, what's that, you want declining birth rates and a sterile population over time because of kneejerk feminist outrage? No worries. At least men who get the vasectomies done will have less of an issue with paternity fraud.
/r/MensRights22/05/22 12:23 PM
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It seems like you didn't even bother to read the article, since that would show that your views are irrelevant to the findings of this study.
/r/MensRights22/05/22 07:45 AM
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Who are you trying to convince with your wall of text other than yourself?
/r/MensRights21/05/22 10:33 AM
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Don't forget that even if you're not legally married, in the case.of a split in a long year relationship, it can be considered 'as marriage' if living together for several years. I think it was Australia (don't remember the exact details) where you'd be on the hook for alimony and half your stuff if your relationship partner lived with your for something like 2 years and left+sued you or some insane shit... Especially when claiming false DV or Rape. Also most legal partnerships carry the same le…
/r/MensRights21/05/22 05:49 AM
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Commonplace when I worked security, commonplace when working out in a mixed gym.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 04:07 PM
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Depends on how watertight your lawyers can make them, and how well they argue them in court when the time comes... Realistically, when the false accusations are rolled out, any prenup usually has a pretty high chance to be thrown out...
/r/MensRights20/05/22 11:12 AM
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Finally finished reading the article. Excellent piece of journalism, the kind we don't see much of these days. Many things become evident after reading, especially that educational and research institutes are now more interested in being seen as progressive than providing actual education or innovation. Younger generations have picked up on this and are exploiting it by causing adult versions of temper tantrums in order to bully the institutions into getting what they want. The fact that countri…
/r/MensRights20/05/22 09:26 AM
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A real step 'forward' for "gender equality" 😂
/r/MensRights20/05/22 06:41 AM
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People generally use the word incel as a shut down. They forget that incel actually has a meaning, and that incels are actually people...
/r/MensRights19/05/22 11:27 PM
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Truly the best thing to do with these kinds of people is not to give them what they want: attention or validation.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 11:23 PM
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Classic case of playing both sides, having your cake and eating it too, whatever you wanna call it. It's about getting the sexual validation from being desired sexually while getting the outrage boner from chastising those same people they are getting their sexual validation from. "Your brand of ‘feminism’ isn’t real feminism if you’re dictating what a woman can do, look like and dream," Nance shot back. "Women aren’t objects. We don’t exist for conception. The point is that we can be everything…
/r/MensRights19/05/22 11:07 PM
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Until feminists stop trying to associate men's rights and MRAs with neo nazis and the like, you won't see many hollywood celebrities stake their careers on being open about their men's rights activism. For many of them it's just cheap lip service since the current trend of wokeness is to over-eagerly spout feminist talking points (especially as a man). Maybe this post from 4 years ago, asking the same thing could help you get closer to an answer to your question: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRig…
/r/MensRights19/05/22 11:04 PM
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There is so much to unpack here... I don't know where to begin..
/r/MensRights19/05/22 05:52 AM
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Men still don't get guaranteed salary or health benefits.. classic case of Orwellian 'equality' Watching this post on uplifting news get destroyed in the comments is a refreshing change
/r/MensRights19/05/22 05:26 AM
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Modern notion of SJW privilege is bullshit, it's all about shutting down people you disagree with our making oneself feel morally superior. Don't buy into that shit too much and try to avoid spending too much time on social media.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 05:15 AM
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Isn't it funny how so many people accuse men of "toxic masculinity" (today's corrupted term, not the real meaning), while simultaneously forcing the same toxic standards on men...
/r/MensRights19/05/22 05:12 AM
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Welcome to the world of men's reproductive rights... Your can deal with the risk by using as many of the contraceptive options that you feel comfortable with, but at the end of the day if your partner gets pregnant, you're at the mercy of their decisions.
/r/MensRights19/05/22 05:00 AM
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To be fair, I wasn't referring to you specifically supporting the film. I was writing it to anyone who was considering it given the Depp v Heard case. My apologies if it came across that way. And yes, I know what you meant regarding being paid, I am fully aware. And yet there are people out there who think her being erased means she won't get a cent.. which is why I referred to it in my initial comment. This is also why I wrote that her being removed from the movie basically is only a symbolic g…
/r/MensRights18/05/22 12:42 PM
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Exactly, so even if they drop her and erase her hoofprint from the entire movie, she will still have gotten paid for it and there is nothing anyone can do about it. So support the movie as you see fit, or don't, I'm not the boss of you.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 12:21 PM
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So many clickbait articles now cashing in on the trial. She has not been cut, she still has screen time. Producers were considering removing her but have not done so. Besides, even if she doesn't appear in the movie, she was still paid.. nothing to do about that now. Stop giving these shitty tabloids revenue.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 07:20 AM
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If there’s one thing I can’t stand it’s cowardly historical revisionism Then why keep peddling feminist narrative? Can you seriously sit there and pretend that men have been oppressing women for centuries while ignoring that 99% of men AND women were oppressed by 1% of men AND women? This is like the discussion around abortion where some women claim that it's MEN dictating what women can do with their bodies, when it's almost 50/50 men AND women. Your points apply today's viewpoints of gender eq…
/r/MensRights18/05/22 06:54 AM
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You’re too lost in the sauce my dude, men in this country have always had more rights than women, that is just a fact Hilariously bad take on actual history... It’s only now that we’re getting closer to actual equality Are we though? sure there have been some missteps and power grabs from reactionary feminists Ah yes, those dastardly reactionary feminists, they aren't real feminists, amirite? but for the most part we’re both working out the kinks and striving towards better results for both sex’…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 05:42 PM
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One of the most significant portions of our population only got the right to vote 100 years ago You're right, men only gained suffrage in the past 100 years. And only because they were drafted into a war for a country they had no rights in. For the rest, what you are describing is oppression of middle and lower class by the ruling class. To infer that only men were oppressing all women is disingenuous at best. Stop wanting to be the victim so much that you’re willing to twist history to do it. S…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 11:03 AM
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This is the real answer. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 07:40 AM
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Women do have a point with the toxic masculinity thing No they don't. Toxic masculinity as used today is a corruption of the actual term, which was meant to refer to the way society was forcing men to behave more feminine. You also have strangely skewed opinions about historical events and supposed 'oppression' of women... If you think men are and have been oppressing women, you are falling victim to the apex fallacy.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 07:38 AM
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From what I've seen, it's just feminists teaching men how to be "properly masculine". How can women who don't know anything about the male experience tell men how to be men? To provide perspective, should men be telling women how to be women? It's an absurd ans controlling concept that has no positive side. Initially the term was coined by the mythopoetic mens movement, as a way to refer to the increasing societal pressures for men to be more feminine, instead of letting men be men. Feminists tw…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 07:32 AM
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Understandable for the most part. However they can't prove that he's not taking it for period related reasons.. for example my initial question; what about men taking it to support their partners during their partner's period. It seems to me that they are upset that a policy that was implemented to be gender neutral, should (in their opinion) only be given to people of one gender instead... Sounds like blatant sexism if you ask me.. And that person even going so far as to suggest that the man sh…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 07:25 AM
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Agreed. My current employer has a policy where if employees are sick for 1-3 days, they can call in sick without a doctor's note. This results in the odd day's absence for employees, but in the long run, the employees are happier since they aren't required to spend hours at the doctor for a sick note for minor Illnesses. Additionally, the company benefits because employees actually spend less time off work sick (1 day off to recover vs. 1 week off because the doctor encouraged it). This policy h…
/r/MensRights16/05/22 10:55 PM
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So would women who aren't using it for period related things also be abusing the policy?
/r/MensRights16/05/22 10:49 PM
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…in those moments of sitting across from my enemy, I wasn’t listening. What was I doing? I was anticipating. I was waiting to hear a sentence, or even just a couple of words in succession that proved what I wanted to believe: that I had found the misogynist. The ground zero of the war on women Oh man, such a true quote.. it also encapsulates the mindset of "my enemy", not even engaging in discussion meaning that there really is no way to reach equality for men with these feminists
/r/MensRights16/05/22 10:46 PM
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Why shouldn't men get period leave to be home and help their partners who suffer so much during their periods?
/r/MensRights16/05/22 05:35 PM
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Check out Millicent Fawcitt, one of the campaigners who actually worked for women's suffrage by working with politicians who were actually already in favour of women's suffrage. She refused to work with the Pankhursts due to their methods. Meanwhile the Pankhursts tried to sabotage said politicians, also committed domestic terrorist acts like arsons and attempting bombings
/r/MensRights16/05/22 06:29 AM
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The Pankhursts were the most vitriolic misandrist scum of their time.. no wonder campaigners for women's rights actively refused to work with them.. Goodness knows why they are being celebrated as feminist heroes.. but it's incredibly telling
/r/MensRights15/05/22 06:03 AM
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Has it aged poorly? An anonymous source claiming to be involved in production reaches out to POPTOPIC and alleged that Warner Bros plans to cut Amber Heard out of Aquaman and The Lost Kingdom. They are "planning" to cut her out, like they said many times before... Also, 'anonymous source' on a tabloid article (wtf at the number of Autoplay video ads)... Warner Bros. have already been noticed trying to remove any mention of Amber Heard from Aquaman promotional material. The actress has been cut o…
/r/MensRights14/05/22 07:04 AM
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Remember the "bring back our girls" campaign a few years back? Yeah, this is that all over again. No mention of the men who were gone (with numbers magnitudes higher)...
/r/MensRights13/05/22 10:01 PM
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The situation in Germany is not much better, am in a similar boat for playing with my son at the park...
/r/MensRights13/05/22 07:12 AM
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RemindMe! 6 Months
/r/MensRights13/05/22 06:58 AM
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Completely missed the point about double standards... I don't think strippers need to be protested against. So you think that those women protesting against the stripper were in the wrong for protesting?
/r/MensRights12/05/22 05:31 PM
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It was more the point of the fact that FGM is already illegal, thus doesn't need to be protested against... Whereas MGM is completely legal
/r/MensRights12/05/22 12:46 PM
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I wonder who will have to pick up the slack on that extra missed work every month... 🙄
/r/MensRights12/05/22 05:48 AM
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Good news in theory... Only downside is, petitions aren't binding. Loreal won't drop Heard, Depp will likely not get his roles back as they were already rewritten... A few months after the case concludes people will forget and latch onto the next big thing to virtue signal about...
/r/MensRights11/05/22 11:31 AM
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Hollywood is circling the drain of the woke shitter, likely as an attempt to absolve themselves of their past misdeeds. One movie I can recommend is the northman. One of the few movies recently that doesn't throw woke signals or messages around and simply focuses on telling it's own story. It also doesn't tell the viewer what to think about complex moral choices, unlike many movies today, which is very refreshing. Just gotta find those rare gems that leave woke signalling by the side of the road…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 06:16 AM
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Why is it seen as acceptable to dramatically state that you "hate all men?" Because it's virtue signalling. It loudly states that you are toeing the line of social media "acceptable" dogma.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 06:11 AM
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I hate to say but there is some kind of weird gender war going on and men are no longer "equal" or whatever. What happened to working together? That is being replaced with finger pointing and blame. Exactly. Feminists are teaching that "punching up" and "smashing the patriarchy" are worth martyring oneself. That's why you get these kinda of situations where women will stop using dating apps or stop being with men. But you know what? By the time that they realize their biological clock is running…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 06:07 AM
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Yeah, from your other post I saw that it was the Reddit post from a while back. Thanks for sharing.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 04:14 PM
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Living up to your username. Also playing right into the 'fathers are bad parents' feminist propaganda. By your logic women's place is in the kitchen too, huh?
/r/MensRights10/05/22 02:53 PM
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I read this post on Reddit when it was initially posted. Made me even more vigilant when I took my kid out and about
/r/MensRights10/05/22 02:51 PM
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Just links me to the main way back machine page on mobile mate
/r/MensRights10/05/22 02:49 PM
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Authorities said the woman eventually gave the baby back to its mother Seriously? And what happened to the baby while the woman had it? As a parent, even just as a normal functioning human being this makes me fucking livid... Official authorities letting some stranger hold onto my newborn until they decided to return them???? Are you fucking insane? This is why I carry ID for myself and my children at all times, because it's not the first time some hawk eyed Karen questioned why I was 'hanging a…
/r/MensRights10/05/22 01:42 PM
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Another 'trick' is to falsely conflate MRAs with neo nazis and other 'radical right wing' groups.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 01:35 PM
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Pretty clear they are more interested in hating men than helping women. Yeah pretty much. It's easier to blame the fictional 'patriarchy' than admit that women also oppose abortion. The men who already support abortion rights are conveniently dismissed
/r/MensRights10/05/22 05:21 AM
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Like what if men all over went on a country wide push to hold back sperm cause of male rights. You want babies? We will pull out until we get what we want. Probably never going to happen, there are enough simps to cover the whole thing just to get their dicks wet.. then again I'm not in favour of this extortionate way of groups getting what they want. They know that they hold all the cards in a reproductive or even recreatively sexual situation, and are capitalising on it. If men manage to someh…
/r/MensRights09/05/22 04:39 PM
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Artificial wombs are great for both sexes actually. There are many women I know of for example that had horrible complications during their pregnancies and some almost died. They really wanted to have kids, so this would also be a great option for couples wanting to have kids in those situations (all your points included too).
/r/MensRights09/05/22 06:13 AM
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You are literally crying about how we're exposing feminist's agendas and the misinformation they're peddling to do so.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 06:10 AM
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men need to learn how to take a joke 😭 If you want to play that game: "Women need to learn how to make jokes"
/r/MensRights08/05/22 10:10 PM
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Why is it menstruation and not womenstruation?
/r/MensRights08/05/22 10:06 PM
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Seen this a while back. Most of the islands are adjusted by the production team. For example the women didn't progress so the producers added an inflatable pool disguised and filled it with fresh water. Also the baked beans in the stump towards the end... Added piglets to let them hunt. They also added stuff for the men, like the grown boar. I think if I remember, the men's group did it with barely any assistance. Either way, Bear Grylls shows are mainly for entertainment, a lot of what happens …
/r/MensRights08/05/22 06:09 AM
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Alright, how? And don't give me that "just don't have sex then lol" nonsense
/r/MensRights08/05/22 06:04 AM
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All I can say is flip the genders and see which options are available then... Then we see who has 'bodily autonomy' or whatever...
/r/MensRights08/05/22 06:02 AM
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An ad hominem, if you will
/r/MensRights07/05/22 06:41 PM
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Let's not forget that SHE had a prior for IPV in a previous relationship as the aggressor
/r/MensRights07/05/22 01:15 PM
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Good. This sets an important legal precedent. Bit disappointed that it was a 6month suspended sentence despite being premeditated, but better than getting away with it.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 01:12 PM
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How do you call it when women kill men ? Murder
/r/MensRights07/05/22 11:06 AM
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Yep, it's added food for thought in the whole reproductive rights discussion.
/r/MensRights07/05/22 11:05 AM
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In these discussions I keep having to point out that as a contrast to America, in Germany abortion is already illegal. 99% of doctors will carry out the procedure if requested by a patient (and other conditions are met). Doctors are not allowed to recommend an abortion unless absolutely necessary. One major factor is a functioning healthcare system in Germany...
/r/MensRights07/05/22 05:18 AM
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Less nerve endings, lowered sensation. You wouldn't know the difference though
/r/MensRights06/05/22 06:05 PM
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"I would like to speak to America's men for one minute," the New York Democrat said in a press conference. "Imagine you do not have authority over your own body for 10 months. She asked men to imagine not being able to have that autonomy even if it meant they could die." So wait, we finally get bodily autonomy after 10 months?!?!? Oh.. nevermind...
/r/MensRights06/05/22 06:03 PM
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I don't, I left shortly after another incident. And no, I'd have to prove without a shadow of a doubt that discrimination occurred
/r/MensRights05/05/22 01:39 PM
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Don't ever apologize for being a man. You owe those people nothing. If they start bashing your masculinity as a cheap way to make themselves feel superior then they aren't very good friends. Not saying you should ditch them at all. Just stand your ground firmly, no need to retaliate by any means. Next time you play darts or something, communicate your own goals instead. If they want to play by their rules or whatever rules, let them. Just tell them that instead, you want to try and hit the numbe…
/r/MensRights05/05/22 07:20 AM
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It's the age old gynocentric mindset at work. Gotta make sure not to overburden women, when as a seemingly physically capable man it would traditionally be men's job to do physical labour. There are just too many instances of double standards to name for me, one stands out though. Back when I went to the gym regularly (pre-covid) there was the usual "women only" section, and the rest of the gym was gender neutral. The women only section kept getting new machines while other areas of the gym fell…
/r/MensRights05/05/22 07:15 AM
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Feminists having a moral panic, trying to desperately maintain their grip on the monopoly of "violence against women". Not surprising since anything else would lend credibility to the fact that men are abused at equal rates to women (higher in nonreciprocal cases) and that misandrist protocols like the Duluth model actively harm men.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 07:07 AM
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dude I’m watching the rest of the testimony right now and I’m literally cringing. The pauses, the contrived stutters to appear candid. It’s all thespian and forced That's because she's not actually a very good actress. This is likely all a 'bit' for her.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 05:50 AM
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People sometimes forget that "professional witness" doesn't mean that that person is a professional in the sense that a master mechanic is a professional/specialist in his field. Rather that they are literally paid witnesses, they give their opinions in court for a living. Granted, there are some specialists that do this but I doubt this is a case of an actual specialist.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 05:48 AM
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This is furious virtue signalling because for once the public opinion is against the female abuser. In any other situation there would be crickets or outcry against the male victim. Hopefully Depp's case will change some minds for the long term
/r/MensRights05/05/22 05:43 AM
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Twitter takeover- Adding protection for men from false accusations online, holding accusers accountable I am torn on this but am leaning towards the anti-takeover side, mainly because musk has proven himself to have a clear disregard for other people. Particularly when he accused a random person of something heinous and destroyed their reputation. Freedom of speech is good and all, but when there is no accountability for what's being said, it poses na even greater risk imo. Regarding your other …
/r/MensRights04/05/22 01:46 PM
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Not what I would advocate for. What I was saying is that mensrights is not run like feminist subs in terms of censorship. Subs like menslib dictate what's acceptable in terms of masculinity and what men can discuss, which makes it useless for actually discussing issues that actually face men. But I think that's what you were saying anyway
/r/MensRights04/05/22 12:29 PM
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But blaming it entirely on a group of people (that fights for equality, but of course, all feminists are the same, right?) https://humanity87.home.blog/2020/11/27/indian-feminists-fight-against-gender-neutral-rape-laws/ Ah yes, equality..
/r/MensRights04/05/22 12:25 PM
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If mras could say what kind of feminism was acceptable I sure think you would love that? Small nitpick, we can say that... here in this sub. Difference is, that in other subs they can actually dictate what's acceptable. Other than that, agreed.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 12:21 PM
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You walked right into that one, full force... Also, what you're basically saying is that because some people of a certain gender made some decisions, all others of that gender must suffer?
/r/MensRights04/05/22 12:14 PM
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Women could not vote till the 1800s. Read up on men's suffrage to find out what men had to sacrifice (and still have to sacrifice) to get voting rights
/r/MensRights04/05/22 12:13 PM
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As an example, in Germany, technically abortion is illegal. Most clinics or doctors will still perform the procedure if requested by a patient. They're just not allowed to endorse it as an option unless absolutely medically necessary. Then again the healthcare system in Germany is a far stride better than in the US...
/r/MensRights04/05/22 07:43 AM
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If anything, the rejection of Roe V Wade will hopefully give men a chance to attach THEIR reproductive rights to any movement to restore Roe V Wade This is nice in theory but will never happen. You will be accused of backseating women's issues and whatabouting, misogyny, etc. Attaching the two would force feminists to either agree with MRAs on paper abortions, or highlight their extreme hypocrisy They will fight tooth and nail to keep them separate, then drop men's issues again the moment they g…
/r/MensRights04/05/22 07:41 AM
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Also a case of instead of convincing someone to be on their side, they manipulate someone. But then again this has happened for centuries, what's new
/r/MensRights04/05/22 05:07 AM
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Solves the abortion issue one way or another... If they straight up sabotage their relationships and refuse to have sex, there won't be a need for them to get an abortion, but you already covered that part
/r/MensRights03/05/22 09:30 PM
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IMAGINE FOR A SECOND they were talking about committing suicide and the whole comment thread was about how it's their own fault and other women's fault she wants to. Or "but men attempt it more!!!"
/r/MensRights03/05/22 09:28 PM
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Because holding people responsible for their actions is something that is currently a taboo when it comes to certain groups or demographics. Reasons vary, all are invalid logically, but indulged by society for goodness knows what reason...
/r/MensRights03/05/22 02:57 PM
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Implying that the intent was not to leak it. I'm pretty sure that this was the purpose, to incite riots, protests and the full force of every feminist organisation out there to provide a more solid foundation for future legislation similar to roe v Wade.
/r/MensRights03/05/22 02:49 PM
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Ah, Now I see your edit
/r/MensRights03/05/22 01:16 PM
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Men are privileged ... But seriously i hate this society. Always gaslights men The irony is palpable
/r/MensRights03/05/22 11:25 AM
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'gender corrective mechanism', is the most undemocratic thing I've heard in a while. Glad to hear that it's having trouble bypassing people with actual common sense.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 05:27 PM
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'disinformation' is right. Unsurprisingly it's headed by a feminist. This is their bread and butter, the fact that the government endorses this kind of societal fracturing of their own populace is worrying at the very least. Not unusual for feminists to preemptively discredit any and all dissent as radicalised neo Nazism. It makes people less open to hearing men's rights views out of fear of being seen supporting Nazism. This tactic has been suffering from diminishing returns lately, it's becomi…
/r/MensRights02/05/22 05:25 PM
22

"your father must be very disappointed in how you turned out."
/r/MensRights02/05/22 08:50 AM
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Are you happy with the way things are for you, all things considered? If so, there's nothing wrong. Many people choose not to be in relationships or have children etc. Everyone has different goals and needs in life.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 05:45 AM
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This isn't AITA tbh... Not sure how this relates to men's rights.. On the other hand, you are not obligated to be pleasant to people who treat you badly. In my opinion, let it go. I'm sure they've already forgotten about you so forget about them.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 05:42 AM
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If you think Musk is doing it for anything other than his own personal goals then you're pretty naive. He's been known to make baseless accusations against strangers, who have had their lives ruined. Imagine if there's nobody to put a lid on his insanity...
/r/MensRights30/04/22 12:57 PM
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It's at roughly the same level of juvenility as having a mug saying "male tears". Agree on the second part
/r/MensRights29/04/22 05:09 PM
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Yeah I've seen enough "male tears" mugs to know the problem isn't men expressing themselves Not to mention that male tears also has another meaning... At this point it's just an unironic self-own...
/r/MensRights29/04/22 04:25 PM
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Feminists: "men need to learn to express their feelings*" Men expressing their feelings: "fragile male" ** The star is that they want men to only express their emotions in acceptable™ ways.
/r/MensRights29/04/22 03:41 PM
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Good for you mate. And thanks.
/r/MensRights29/04/22 07:55 AM
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Maybe it's a troll or someone trying to be edgy. Still trying to find out where the misplaced resentment comes from or what they hope to achieve. Not realistically expecting a response from them either way
/r/MensRights29/04/22 07:52 AM
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Thanks for stopping by. Why would you assume that men campaigning for their human rights takes away from women and their ability to campaign for their rights? Would you say that men are human beings? Would you agree that as human beings, men's rights should be protected? If not, why not?
/r/MensRights29/04/22 07:43 AM
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I dunno, after 12 years of problem free marriage it seems like the logical conclusion given that they were both still very much together. The only real wedge was her body image. No reason not to get back together once that issue was resolved 🤷‍♂️
/r/MensRights28/04/22 12:00 PM
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What a clown show. He knows he has to be respectful in court, mad props for keeping his cool.
/r/MensRights28/04/22 10:27 AM
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Of course women are infallible, therefore any attempt to expose incompetence is twisted to be misogyny, makes it much easier to dismiss because there are enough social media white knights that are blindered enough to react to this...
/r/MensRights28/04/22 10:16 AM
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iTs MiSoGyNiStIc BeCaUsE yOu ClEaRlY hAtE wOmEn SiNcE yOu WoNt ToE tHe LiNe AnD bLiNdLy BeLiEvE wOmEn!!!1
/r/MensRights28/04/22 10:13 AM
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Anyone seen what they’re saying over at r / feminism Nope, haven't bothered to check that place since the auto-ban bot for posting here. Can't wait for people backing Heard for being a strong woman suffering with multiple personality disorders or some shit..
/r/MensRights28/04/22 10:10 AM
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“I was miserable and I hit rock bottom. I avoided any pictures of myself, my marriage broke down, I couldn’t look at myself and I didn’t want my husband to look at me." “Paul loved me no matter what size I was, but I didn’t love myself." TL;DR: she was insecure about her weight, ended her 12-year marriage to get the surgery done, once she felt better about herself they reconnected and are back together. The end. Also, not really related to men's rights since nypost is tabloid trash and loves tak…
/r/MensRights28/04/22 10:07 AM
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Australian feminist lobby group demands YouTube censor "manosphere" & "antifeminist" videos Of course they would. Because infesting tech companies to bring about their ideological changes hasn't been as effective as they'd hoped... Because infesting politics and education hasn't been as effective as they'd hoped... Now they're going the direct route and just making entitled demands like the children that they are...
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:33 AM
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This is usually a way to provide an 'out'. It's meant to imply to the public "she's not actually a bad person, it's just her bad disorders". It's a way for Heard to protect her public image and provides her with a new campaigning opportunity (spokesperson for mental health, anyone??) It's a scummy move to bring this up in the context of abusing Depp, the public needs to not let all of her transgressions slide because of some diagnosis.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 06:14 AM
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Most of the support is just virtue signalling. Primarily coming from people who believed Heard's accusations initially. At the very least, this is drawing attention to male victims of DV
/r/MensRights26/04/22 04:11 PM
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Part of me thinks he's planning to buy it to tear it apart bit by bit. One of the supporting factors for this assumption is that there are a few people tracking his whereabouts via his personal jet with Twitter bots.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 02:47 PM
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Just like how actual real world statistics refute a lot of feminist ideas and theories.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 05:53 AM
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Duh, women are obviously exempt from this
/r/MensRights25/04/22 05:52 AM
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Kinda telling that all these murderers and serial criminals are high figureheads or role models within feminism...
/r/MensRights24/04/22 04:44 PM
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It's a case of if all you have a hammer, every problem looks like a nail. These domestic violence officers will bend everything to seems like domestic violence just so their position is justified and they can use it to push their agenda. This ideological self gratification is nothing new, also not restricted to feminists. The main difference is that in this case, it's being endorsed by the state and legislators, who are very keen on validating their overlapping agendas.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 06:32 AM
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Precisely this.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 06:17 AM
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Metoo shut up the moment one of it's spearheading members' paedophilic grooming came to light...
/r/MensRights21/04/22 05:01 PM
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They always said I shouldn't "repress my emotions" Once you start showing your emotions like anger, disgust, etc. They'll spin that around to what they actually mean: express emotions ina way that they want... one of them posted a video of an influencer confessing that he cries every day. They want you to have uncontrolled outbursts like a child... I say, not only avoid their advice, but call on their crap and fight against that dumb idea that a feminist should dictate how men behave. Good.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 08:53 AM
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In some countries, the child takes the mother's name by default. Sometimes it's also possible to combine mum and dad's last names for the child
/r/MensRights20/04/22 08:22 AM
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All a woman needs to do to void it is to claim DV or rape. Any judge will throw out the prenup, even if done 'correctly'
/r/MensRights20/04/22 08:19 AM
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Precisely this. It's sometimes beneficial to date people outside of your usual spectrum just so you can help define your own needs and boundaries.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 03:39 PM
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it’s “empowering” apparently The same way a schoolyard bully is "empowered" by picking on the scrawny quiet kid that knows that retaliation won't change the situation...
/r/MensRights18/04/22 03:36 PM
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The laws will be changed further in their favour with exceptions for gender, you know, just in case so it can't apply to anyone else.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 03:33 PM
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In fact, to many women and feminists, NAM is a joke, a way to deflect the conversation, arguing in bad faith, etc.. Or as an implication of "but almost all". This is precisely why I asked to be sure. Cheers.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 03:29 PM
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Goodbye, wage gap. Hello, partner gap. As true take-home-pay equality looms, psychologists warn it could interfere with women's evolutionary drive to seek out a partner who provides. So you're telling me: Women want a partner who earns more than them? These same women won't date 'down', instead blame men for their dwindling dating pool? Woman actually don't want to be strong and independent, but rather want to be provided for? All this is 'biology' all of a sudden? This seems like a massive back…
/r/MensRights18/04/22 12:58 PM
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I'm confused, are you asking whether these self proclaimed feminists are able to distinguish between "men" and "all men"?
/r/MensRights18/04/22 12:53 PM
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These people brigade subs, goad certain behaviour via trolling and then screenshot out of context
/r/MensRights17/04/22 05:01 PM
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Truly the feminist's utopia despite what they'll say
/r/MensRights16/04/22 05:00 PM
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Ok ladies, you heard it here first. If you don't want to get pregnant, keep your legs closed - /u/steinmas
/r/MensRights15/04/22 02:35 PM
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Would that even work? If you get it in writing that they deny you a vasectomy, sue them for child support?
/r/MensRights14/04/22 04:53 PM
1

And shaming/ostracizing them
/r/MensRights14/04/22 07:52 AM
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Posting to see how long it takes before you get your automatic ban from feminist subreddits
/r/MensRights13/04/22 01:33 PM
1

Oh wow that's hilarious. Wasn't this the guy who also did the consent comic strip about circumcision?
/r/MensRights12/04/22 12:41 PM
0

Stop using biased search providers like google
/r/MensRights12/04/22 06:01 AM
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She's going to go to jail. No she's not....
/r/MensRights12/04/22 06:00 AM
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this woman is a young (54) healthy, educated woman and it's okay to treat her like she's incapable of earning a very decent income. This was her investment. Settle with a dude who can cater to her every financial whim, divorce after X years to collect the golden parachute and be set for life. The way the legislation is set actually encourages this. These cases happen on the full spectrum, from the wealthiest to the poorest men... There isn't much that will change, even prenups are often thrown o…
/r/MensRights12/04/22 05:54 AM
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Honestly, the more I see things like this, the more I start to notice that the feminists (especially male ones) who shout the loudest or go out of their ways to push their ideals, the more skeletons they have in their closet that they are trying to hide via diversion...
/r/MensRights11/04/22 01:04 PM
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How about simply being human with thoughts and feelings. Insecurities, worries and needs... Completely healthy and normal human behaviour, not sure why you are so averse.. Your response is very telling though.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 12:58 PM
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Makes my head spin that this kind of brainwashing is allowed and so commonplace. I would hazard a guess that if you were to challenge these ideals, you'd basically kiss your education goodbye. The best thing would just be to deconstruct the propaganda amongst yourselves and not buy into it.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 11:59 AM
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That sounds like personal regret, no need to project it on other young people. It's like telling anorexic or overweight people to stop thinking about their weight,or telling bald or balding people to stop thinking about their hair, or an amputee to stop thinking about their leg... You see it as "self gratification" but it's more than that
/r/MensRights11/04/22 10:29 AM
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Maybe you just need to learn to wash your penis properly....
/r/MensRights10/04/22 05:06 AM
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(Obviously) sex wise, its better for the girl. How? I don't see how a guy having his foreskin removed makes sex better for the woman
/r/MensRights10/04/22 05:03 AM
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Most gender quotas are pretty fucking undemocratic
/r/MensRights10/04/22 04:41 AM
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Ok mate, you are free to keep having any of those opinions. Why not let someone ask for advice to help their sex life? Or is that part of this nefarious liberal conspiracy to "recruit children into deviant lifestyles"?
/r/MensRights09/04/22 10:28 PM
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My suggestion is to spend less time thinking about liberals. seriously. spend that time working on your education, your physical condition, your investment portfolio. If you got enough spare time that you spend it thinking about liberals? You aint busy enough .. seriously though, maybe stop dictating what people are allowed to be concerned about
/r/MensRights09/04/22 04:34 PM
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With blocking STDs forever Get yourself tested ASAP
/r/MensRights09/04/22 04:32 PM
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Do you think having longer sessions where you feel nowhere near as much to be more enjoyable? It's possible to ejaculate and still stay hard, but it takes practice and a cooperative partner. Probably not something you can work on with one night stands. Alternatively, different positions stimulate different parts, so try different angles until you find one where it's not as fast for you
/r/MensRights09/04/22 12:44 PM
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Wouldn't getting circumcised be getting 'help'?
/r/MensRights09/04/22 08:42 AM
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Don't get circumcised just because you think it'll help you enjoy sex more. You'll regret it, cutting off most of your nerve endings means you'll feel way less. Isn't the point of having sex to enjoy it? Look at the people trying to regrow their foreskins to find out more about the effects of circumcision. Why do you want to last longer specifically? Maybe also work on foreplay etc. Another thing is communication, when you feel the tingle, slow down or take a break. Switch positions, play with y…
/r/MensRights09/04/22 08:42 AM
1

"to all my subscribers, as you all know I'm now single and ready to mingle again. Here's my new sub price: $$".... Would be hilariously macabre if this was the first post after...
/r/MensRights09/04/22 08:37 AM
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"Woman stabs man"... What did he do to deserve it? You mean "woman stabs man, he totally deserved it".. let's give her a way out, any excuse will do
/r/MensRights09/04/22 08:33 AM
6

This is one way to get fascistic ideals into government. This is one way to get harmful legislation into parliament. This is one way to get human rights legislation stripped from societal groups. When the public is no longer able to vet who represents him through legitimate votes, it's not a democracy.
/r/MensRights08/04/22 05:57 AM
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Interesting how the article depicts them as "staying behind" rather than "being left behind". As if they have much choice in the matter
/r/MensRights06/04/22 04:59 PM
11

What a time to be alive.. what's next? Letting people breathe in your odour as you walk past them is now considered penetration and classified as rape? Of course this only applies when it happens to women...
/r/MensRights06/04/22 04:06 PM
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"no dick, no dollar". Spin the argument around to child/spousal support and how only men should (using this feminist logic) decide how and when they need to pay, especially in cases of paternity fraud, or when men cannot choose to opt out via abortion
/r/MensRights06/04/22 11:45 AM
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True, I wonder if this will impact rape and/or domestic violence statistics though.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 09:49 AM
2

In the eye of the beer-holder
/r/MensRights06/04/22 09:25 AM
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Absolutely not. My son is intact, my future other son will also be. Obviously people in our circle of acquaintances pulled faces after asking us if we were going to mutilate our boys and hearing our response... If the kids, when they are adults, decide that they want the procedure done, they can choose to have it done...
/r/MensRights06/04/22 09:22 AM
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Under the old rules in England and Wales, anyone who wanted to split swiftly had to accuse their partner in a divorce petition of desertion, adultery or unreasonable behaviour. Or rape/domestic violence. Still, many other countries had no fault divorce laws for decades. It's a theoretical good move that only has benefits if the couple isn't already slinging dirt at one another...
/r/MensRights06/04/22 09:19 AM
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Aye, because nowadays it's easier and more acceptable to say "men bad" than dealing with underlying psychological issues and admitting that humans are complex individual creatures
/r/MensRights04/04/22 09:19 PM
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You are right about one thing, men primarily feel the effects of societal misandry..
/r/MensRights04/04/22 02:29 PM
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Really interesting article, thanks for sharing. One of the best takeaways was this sentence: testosterone isn’t causing aggression, it’s exaggerating the aggression that’s already there.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 01:32 PM
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These celebrities have lost touch with reality, it's no surprise they'd spout this drivel, especially when reinforced by social media.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 01:19 PM
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Check out Norah Vincent's self made man. It's another sobering account of how men are treated in society.. Basically these posts show that everything that's perpetuated about men and 'male privilege' is bullshit
/r/MensRights04/04/22 01:16 PM
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Feminists: women have to shoulder all the side effect of birth control, it's not fair!! Men should have to as well!! Also feminists: I'd never trust a man to take it!! Men should suffer from hormonal pills just like women have for years!! But I couldn't be sure they took it!! Sheer. Fucking. Lunacy. Also, FDS.. nuff said
/r/MensRights04/04/22 12:57 PM
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But as soon as the water gets too hot and its time for someone to do the dying, men are great again. It's not that men are great again, rather that men are just as expendable as before, and are now being shamed or forced under threat of death to die in a war they want no part in. White feather movement all over again, how times have not changed
/r/MensRights03/04/22 04:34 PM
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According to reports, Russian forces killed all males aged 18-60 in the city of Bucha, northwest of Kyiv. “All men who were and young and healthy were shot.” Is this that gendercide that feminists keep going on about? On a more serious note, this is fucking horrifying. All those men and boys who were forced to stay behind getting brutally murdered just for existing...
/r/MensRights03/04/22 04:30 PM
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It's a simple case if getting the best if both worlds. They get their ego boost, and get their outrage endorphins at the same time.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 11:55 AM
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Best of both worlds
/r/MensRights02/04/22 11:53 AM
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No matter how many times, or how many people told her "he is gay" she just kept coming. "I BeT I cOuLd ChAnGe ThAt". Yeah, had friends who heard that line so many times in the same situation...
/r/MensRights02/04/22 11:48 AM
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Defo would go to a men only gym. I actually stopped going due to being repeatedly harassed, while the staff mocked me for "not liking it, are you gay or what??" I mean my sexual orientation does not change me not wanting to be sexually harassed. When a woman grabs my ass while in deadlifting, causing me to throw out my back from a reflexive motion it also presents a significant health risk
/r/MensRights02/04/22 11:45 AM
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This. People like Millicent Fawcitt were spited by the suffragettes for actually working with politicians from the labour party (who were already in favour of women's voting rights) in order to secure women's suffrage. Meanwhile the suffragettes tried to sabotage them as best they could with domestic arson attacks and bombings, as well as publicly harassing and shaming the above politicians.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 11:25 AM
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Yes, "girl" is right, because that's exactly her mindset. That of an entitled child.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 06:15 PM
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Raising awareness is great. The next step is to reform the necessary services to actually provide help to people struggling with suicidal thoughts instead of turning them away or dismissing their thoughts and feelings.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 07:22 AM
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AnD wOmEn AtTeMpT iT mOrE tOo!!!
/r/MensRights31/03/22 06:31 AM
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Based on all these standards people have of real men, I am ficticious
/r/MensRights30/03/22 08:02 AM
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It's just a huge motte and Bailey.
/r/MensRights30/03/22 08:00 AM
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"ok, I'll be the HR person today, you be the engineer" Wonder if that's the change she means
/r/MensRights30/03/22 08:00 AM
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Based article. Thanks for sharing Anti-masculinity is the luxury ideology of people so pampered and cossetted that they don’t even know that there are swarms of blokes out there taking risks on their behalf every single day
/r/MensRights30/03/22 07:54 AM
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Jada is apparently a pretty hardcore feminist, she would have circlejerked the whole thing back around
/r/MensRights28/03/22 04:08 PM
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If you ever wonder why it's rarely appreciated when men express their emotions? It's less than that. He's lashing out emotionally like a child, and that's exactly why it's so embarrassing to watch. For the rest, I completely agree.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 04:07 PM
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True empowerment. Sit back and let other people fight the battles you create
/r/MensRights28/03/22 02:47 PM
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That poor child doesn't deserve this...
/r/MensRights28/03/22 06:08 AM
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This is the standard response when people see links from this sub or that you're active here. The feminist propaganda is quite successful in that regard.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 06:05 AM
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“Men need to learn how to express their emotions like women do”. Is my assessment correct, or am I way off the mark? Precisely, or to express them in an "acceptable" way. They also don't want you having emotional outbursts like a child (like when they say 'men need to cry'). They don't want you expressing anger, despite the fact that it's a legitimate emotion, because it makes them feel 'unsafe'. In the end it's nothing more than emotional manipulation and control. The other side of this dogwhis…
/r/MensRights27/03/22 06:34 AM
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Good on them, hope they weather the social media fallout/blowback well.
/r/MensRights26/03/22 05:21 PM
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If there is anything to be gained from this video, it's the reminder that war time propaganda, crossover of traditionalist attitudes into supposedly more rational, progressive politics and attempts to justify men's existence by pointing out forced military servitude of men as some sort of virtue are still very much present and sadly there are men who seem to derive some sort of security and enjoyment out of the idea that their forced servitude is needed. This is the biggest takeaway from the who…
/r/MensRights26/03/22 07:28 AM
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Well according to feminists, if the baby is biologically male then he's automatically a rapist (or future rapist)
/r/MensRights26/03/22 06:56 AM
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Do you think it was satire, or do you know for a fact that it was satire?
/r/MensRights23/03/22 01:10 PM
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The 'update' makes it seem less like satire.
/r/MensRights23/03/22 10:04 AM
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Are you referring to Clementine ford? Because she didn't change her tune one bit Then again she's not that famous
/r/MensRights23/03/22 10:01 AM
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Downvoted because of your edit, and only because of your edit
/r/MensRights23/03/22 09:59 AM
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Women pay more for common household items than men do. (So what? Stop paying.) Huh? Is it by choice that women buy more expensive household items? Most household items aren't gender exclusive. The "pink tax" isn't just for personal care items. (So what? Stop paying.) There is no pink tax. Women's razors are often used as an example of why there's a pink tax. Women's razors are designed to deal with other types of hair. Many swimmer friends (men) often end up buying women's razors to get rid of d…
/r/MensRights22/03/22 12:49 PM
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Let's also not forget that humanitarian aid (food, etc.) Is often only distributed to women. Single men or adolescent boys who are alone often miss out and resort to stealing to survive.
/r/MensRights22/03/22 11:56 AM
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It's blatant propaganda and male disposability in a nutshell. The nail in the coffin is that lack of support and resources allocated to veterans, people who served and end up with severe trauma. It's often more convenient for governments that soldiers die in war. At least then all they need to do is offer empty platitudes of heroism to grieving families, rather than actually helping the survivors. Anybody claiming it's not a major human rights violation to force people (men) to go into war or hu…
/r/MensRights22/03/22 09:56 AM
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The implication is that the remainder is true, when in reality only around 2-8% of accusations are true as well. The rest fall into being dropped, withdrawn or not enough evidence to either charge the accused or accuser.
/r/MensRights21/03/22 08:08 AM
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Ok, so how do we go about getting it in the western world?
/r/MensRights20/03/22 01:09 PM
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I sometimes get the feeling that "strong empowered women" (note: feminists, not women who are actually empowered already) leave a vacuum in relationships that need to be filled by men adopting certain roles. This leads to an imbalance and forces men to be stuck in heavily traditional roles with other responsibilities, and no real way to be freed from them without GTOW ..
/r/MensRights19/03/22 05:53 AM
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Most feminists are pro-abolishing the draft for men, too, And then It’s not our responsibility to fight to abolish the draft. If you start a movement, I’d gladly support it as I’m sure a lot of other feminists would. The duality of feminism, ladies and gentlemen.. "We're helping men too... It's not our responsibility to help men, do it yourself... You misogynistic sexist pigs, how dare you fight for your rights, you really only want to oppress women"
/r/MensRights17/03/22 08:44 AM
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"Women should not be drafted because we still don't have equality" Start giving men more rights, then women can finally be drafted too.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 08:41 AM
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It doesn't even need to be said. The ammunition is a tool of patriarchal oppression designed to sate male bloodlust. It doesn't even target men by design.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 10:46 AM
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Exactly right, it's basically an exclusive men's club where men are handed their patriarchy badges and everyone talks about how to oppress women.......
/r/MensRights15/03/22 05:05 PM
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Tell me for one second, HOW is a man more safe from aerial carpet bombing or a 120mm tank round Duh, "the partiarchy" protects men from all this. I thought everyone knew this 🙄
/r/MensRights15/03/22 01:42 PM
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While we're at moving goalposts for climate change arguments, agricultural GHG account for around 10% of all emissions https://www.epa.gov/ghgemissions/sources-greenhouse-gas-emissions
/r/MensRights15/03/22 01:27 PM
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None that are able to keep the numbers under control without human intervention. (Dingoes, wedge tailed eagles)..
/r/MensRights15/03/22 12:56 PM
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I think you might find this interesting: https://blog.csiro.au/beef-protein/?fbclid=IwAR0uxwLxkGRSRci2otnyJncbTRFBtoG-BnulPl-yL4pJlbpr9aPWPQmddL4 Part of the efficiency equation for Australian beef is that cattle mainly graze on land we can’t grow crops on. This is because of its terrain or soil type.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 12:53 PM
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The population explosion was caused by severe flooding after drought, which led to increased growth of food in the area for the kangaroos
/r/MensRights15/03/22 12:48 PM
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Many years ago kangaroo populations in Australia were destroying habitats of other animals, while native to some regions, they became invasive in others (not being raised for food or through any other human interaction). The easiest way to deal with it was to allow them to be hunted for food. Would you consider eating kangaroo in this sense ethical too?
/r/MensRights15/03/22 11:51 AM
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Isn't there? When an invasive species destroys an ecosystem and hunters help restore order, what would you prefer them to do with the leftover meat? Also, what about all the rodents and insects that are being poisoned by fertilisers and pesticides just so you can have your bug free salad?
/r/MensRights15/03/22 11:41 AM
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ITT: vegans and vegetarians trying to reaffirm their supposed moral superiority
/r/MensRights15/03/22 11:39 AM
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I want to take a moment to talk about animals Too preachy mate. I tried to become a vegetarian before but I just couldn't do it - I am literally addicted to meat. This sounds like a personal issue, not a men's rights issue. Not sure why you are trying to project your guilt on others... I really do think vegetarians have the moral high ground. That's debatable, but good for you. Forcing your diet restrictions on others is morally ambivalent
/r/MensRights15/03/22 09:36 AM
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It's not about being scared, it's about them also toeing the line themselves.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 08:23 AM
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And I do not believe the general public are stupid enough to assume 'men' would literally mean every man from a practical standpoint You'd be surprised, especially with the early indoctrination in schools, etc... Also that many people rush to try and get their feminist cookie by reinforcing the point of men as the collective (except that individual of course). I appreciate the repetition of these kinds of stories must be disheartening. But when statements are obviously false, the reader should g…
/r/MensRights14/03/22 02:11 PM
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Or unbiased
/r/MensRights14/03/22 01:36 PM
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But it seems like a big fuss and offence about nothing ngl Would you feel the same about the sentence "women are bad mothers because women throw their children into dumpsters and abandon them"? The distinction is between the collective (men) and the miniscule subset of people who commit the action (a small minority of people)
/r/MensRights14/03/22 01:33 PM
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I can be pedantic and say why he did not ask women to change as well to solve the issue but that would have came off very poorly with victim blaming All women are victims now? As an example, mothers not educating their children are not responsible for how their children act later in life? Women taking precautions for their own safety is victim blaming? Both genders can work on the issue So which is it? Is it victim blaming to suggest that women address violence, or is it victim blaming?
/r/MensRights14/03/22 01:31 PM
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Yes
/r/MensRights13/03/22 07:36 AM
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Hey, this is all good news, hear me out. Never before in history has it been this easy to see what people really think. Imagine going to meet someone for a date, check their Twitter profile first. If you come across these red flags you can save yourself some hassle and dodge a massive bullet.
/r/MensRights11/03/22 10:52 AM
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Yeah pretty much, many of these people that I met IRL are just unhappy with choices they made in their lives, but find it much easier to blame men for it. It's a pathetic outlet which doesn't really lead to self improvement. If you take away their hatred for men, they'll just find another demographic to blame. Anything to avoid owning up and taking responsibility for their decisions and actions.... Kind of like a child. Except that children usually outgrow this
/r/MensRights10/03/22 09:45 AM
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Awfully nice of these people to wave their huge red flags so openly and with so much pride. Makes it so much easier to avoid them.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 09:41 PM
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On the afternoon of her arrest, Larner appeared in Bay County District Court for arraignment on one count of false report of a felony, itself felony punishable by up to four years in prison and a $2,000 fine. Yep you are right, I must've glossed over this part. The STI part was only briefly mentioned later on, but no mention if there was punishment in that regard.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 01:36 PM
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Not for falsely accusing, that's for sure. At the very least for breaking the law by not disclosing being HIV+ having an STI before having sex with someone
/r/MensRights09/03/22 06:55 AM
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fuck her I hope nobody does, don't need her spreading her HIV any further
/r/MensRights09/03/22 06:53 AM
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1) As I said to the other gent who asked about real feminists, I'm referring to the majority of real-life feminists. Small minorities ideologues on social media are a lot louder than their actual numbers. TIL a government funded feminist organisation is not really feminist Also, I'm not worried so much about what social media ideologues say, rather about what real life influential feminists are doing/have done to restrict men's rights, such as implementing a highly sexist Duluth model, opposing …
/r/MensRights08/03/22 10:35 AM
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Would you consider processing emotions to be suppressing them? Why should men have emotional outbursts like a toddler? And to directly address your question, why are the emotions being suppressed, what emotions are they, and how does the individual normally express them? As I wrote, everyone deals with their emotions differently. Shaming men for not expressing them in a way dictated by feminists is the true toxicity here.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 09:08 AM
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Thank you for reinforcing why 'toxic masculinity' is a dog whistle. You are telling me that it's about traditional values, stoicism, bravado, machismo, manning up and how they hurt men. By labelling them as toxic masculinity, you are defining them as traits primarily exhibited by men and defining characteristics of men. When you break down these things and the reasoning behind them, you start to unravel that they aren't actually primarily masculine traits, or even being perpetuated by people who…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 08:49 AM
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Feminists don't want to empower women, they want to empower feminists This is precisely it. It's a ruthless business that sells lies of equality in order to enrich a few people who are nothing more than modern day snake oil salespeople. The fact that it's so heavily rooted in legislation, education and other influential parts of society is worrying in the very least.
/r/MensRights08/03/22 08:29 AM
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I feel like you would be hard-pressed to find real feminists who would be against equalizing the playing field in family court, so it is more equitable. Who would you consider a real feminist? Would you say the National Organisation for Women (NOW) is a real feminist organisation? To further burst your bubble about real feminists being willing to equalise parenting laws, have a deep dive into the topic here: https://avoiceformen.com/mens-rights/opposing-shared-parenting-the-feminist-track-record…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 08:25 AM
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in my brief expedition I’ve come across many a comments from men that seem to be highlighting an immense dissatisfaction with the dreaded concept of ‘toxic masculinity’—though seldom ever with that term. That's because it's a dogwhistle. It is a corrupted term that is intended to shame men for an immutable characteristic, masculinity, or being a man. I genuinely struggle to see how this places individuals at such severe odds with feminism, as they both seem to share a common enemy in that respec…
/r/MensRights08/03/22 06:57 AM
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It's this real? Can't wait to hear the reactions to this all over social media...
/r/MensRights08/03/22 06:46 AM
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Basically, the message seems to be that men need to be more valuable and fit for women to pay attention to then, that all men's issues are because men are weak. Straight out of the FDS playbook
/r/MensRights07/03/22 08:31 AM
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TIL: having human emotions and emotional needs is a kink.....
/r/MensRights07/03/22 06:36 AM
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I tried to tell her to stop but she was a strong independent woman Oh yes of course, a strong independent woman doesn't need to abide by anything men say. Hilarious that they managed to slip this one in there
/r/MensRights06/03/22 12:27 PM
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Let's be real here, no one would possibly care even if you die or destroy your life, by indulging in immoral, mind weakening activities. Wait, by complaining to an empathetic crowd since nobody else will empathise, we are engaging in mind weakening activities? Where else in life would men find outlets to vent their frustrations? Or are you suggesting that men should bottle up their 'inconvenient' emotions and hit the gym? Why do feminists ask for rights? Because they were weak. We as men should …
/r/MensRights06/03/22 09:59 AM
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Holy cow, good on him.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:37 PM
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Whenever I see Wikipedia asking for donations, things like this come to mind and remind me why I don't financially contribute to that shit hole
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:19 PM
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Oh hey so I guess men and women are biologically different after all...
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:18 PM
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Changed the definition of rape to exclude male victims.. Oh.. you meant something positive?
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:13 AM
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That sounds like the title of a porno
/r/MensRights05/03/22 06:06 AM
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FDS? What a shocker..... Do I even need to put a /s?
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:28 PM
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The no true scotsmen are ripe for picking in that thread...
/r/MensRights03/03/22 05:56 PM
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When people tell me it's "not the right time", I ask them when it will be the right time. I won't hold my breath to see these people help raise awareness for men's issues once that time comes
/r/MensRights02/03/22 08:44 AM
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Another day, another no true scotsman
/r/MensRights02/03/22 08:42 AM
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Thanks for this write-up. Seems that this sub is a prime target for sociologists to try and reinforce an agenda
/r/MensRights02/03/22 06:50 AM
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Oh boy... This article full of self entitlement and blame-shifting to cover her red flags will surely help her find a match... Right?.... Right????!!! Edit: some of her red flags when she was dating her ex: She was jealous of him allegedly flirting with other people... 'I suggested breaking up. I really wanted him to fight for me and he didn't. He bloody didn't. No shit, telling someone you want to break up signals the end of a relationship, not that you want them to try harder.. what fucking ga…
/r/MensRights01/03/22 10:27 PM
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for starters, there are female condoms that go inside the vagina, so yes. Alternatively, she puts the condom on the penis or else she gets the hose again The main thing is that women are as responsible for using condoms as men are.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 04:03 PM
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"we want to reduce the gap in earnings between part time working women and full time working men" That's the essence of the argument here.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 12:19 PM
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Correct, the lack of adequate support for veterans (especially those suffering from PTSD) is further proof that it's in society's best interest for men to die at war... As that would absolve the government of additional "burdens" and responsibilities. This is why they fill young men's heads with empty platitudes of glory, and widowing families' ears with empty platitudes of condolences and heroism.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 09:32 AM
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Look mate, you seemed upset that you were getting downvoted for sharing your opinion, I simply wanted to clear up why that might have been the case with my latest comment.
/r/MensRights01/03/22 08:54 AM
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Pretty sure you got downvoted because you opened your reply with: Personally, I believe men should fight and not women because they are far superior with areas like that generally Which is just the tip of the iceberg for male disposability. It also reads like you are constantly switching between viewpoints of "men should sacrifice themselves instead of women because biology", "women fought too and are capable" and "we shouldn't even have a draft"
/r/MensRights01/03/22 06:50 AM
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men can just use condoms Fun fact, and not many of the people spouting the BS rhetoric you referred to know this, but women are also capable of using condoms. As in, condoms are for both men AND women, and it's the responsibility of both to use them. Also, they protect against STIs too, not just unwanted pregnancies, so it's an even more ridiculous take on their behalf
/r/MensRights28/02/22 08:02 AM
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Would he be willing to suit up and head to the front lines of this war to battle against 'toxic masculinity'?
/r/MensRights26/02/22 01:58 PM
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The alternative is, that once they evacuated all the women and children, they can bomb/shell/whatever without having to worry about 'accidentally' killing civilians, since men and boys between the ages of 18-60 are generally considered combatants in warzones...
/r/MensRights26/02/22 10:56 AM
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When will it be time to talk about men's issues then?
/r/MensRights26/02/22 06:52 AM
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So by your logic, you should go now and help prevent them from spreading further
/r/MensRights26/02/22 06:51 AM
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Look, suddenly men and women are biologically different. Where were you when James damore or whatever his name was published his documents?
/r/MensRights26/02/22 06:49 AM
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Russians would feel less comfortable with the war I doubt it. The people who call the shots just want to annex Ukraine no matter what. The people doing the shooting mostly don't want to participate already but are forced into it.
/r/MensRights26/02/22 06:42 AM
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And typically, all surviving veterans will be left out to dry without any support to deal with their PTSD, etc...
/r/MensRights26/02/22 06:38 AM
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Be mindful of falling into entitlement traps like the antiwork movement. There's no doubt that working conditions should be improved, but it's easy to forget that some jobs just cannot be made any safer, or that someone will always need to fill certain job vacancies in order to keep society functioning properly. It's up to you to decide how much of your free time you want to exchange for money, and at which rate. Don't let other people pressure you into spending your free time into ways you are …
/r/MensRights23/02/22 06:22 PM
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Wait, so if you decide not to want another, regardles of being able to or not, she would destroy the lives of you, your child and her? This seems a bit entitled to me that someone would just sabotage so many people's lives for such a childish reason.. If your marriage or relationship is based on the number of children you want, despite already having one, you're having this conversation a bit too late...
/r/MensRights23/02/22 09:11 AM
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Whatever happened to innocent until proven guilty in a court of law?
/r/MensRights21/02/22 07:34 AM
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I understand the words "in general", as in, a broad generalisation. I've listed my experiences, just as you've listed yours. My point was always that men and women have equal levels of skill but that in general women's resumes tend to understate their skill. Pointing out specific examples of women exaggerating doesn't invalidate my point. Doesn't invalidate your experience, but also doesn't invalidate mine. Your sample set differs, so your conclusion does too. Just because you have had the exper…
/r/MensRights20/02/22 05:33 PM
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Wait, we are reading an invasive article about two victims of false accusations and their lives.. the identity of the false accuser remains protected.. oh right, it's the daily mail.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 07:08 AM
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In my case the resumes came straight from the applicants, no recruiters involved. The blame lied squarely with the applicants. It wasn't also purely about the resume structure. You can tell in an interview when someone actually knows a topic, or is just covering up a lack of knowledge by throwing in catchy buzz words. Also you can gauge a person's experience by the questions they asked. Both of these were in-line with what I wrote above. In my case, I intend to see women applying for junior posi…
/r/MensRights20/02/22 06:59 AM
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Not sure what the downvoting here is about, but to address your point, it can go both ways... I've interviewed more women than men due to a 'diverse' hiring Initiative, where 99% of the female candidates were unqualified or underqualified despite their resumes saying otherwise. The same cannot be said for the handful of male applicants, whose resumes were moderate compared to their actual qualifications.
/r/MensRights19/02/22 05:12 PM
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If she'd have taken it a step further in the US, she might have been offered a spot as a Loreal spokesperson
/r/MensRights18/02/22 08:19 AM
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Just you wait, they will cancel the invaders on social media. That'll show them!!
/r/MensRights15/02/22 12:27 PM
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Wokeism is an arms race down a bottomless pit. If you're not on the forefront spouting rhetoric while simultaneously apologising for your non-minority existence, you're doomed to fall behind. If you fall behind or sing out of tune, you risk being cancelled. Your best bet is to avoid those cancerous mindsets, find people whose identities don't revolve around acceptance by sjws.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 12:16 PM
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Innocent until proven guilty is a myth.. It's either guilty until death, despite being found innocent, or innocent despite evidence of perjury. The distinction between these two is based on gender
/r/MensRights15/02/22 06:16 AM
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could we as a comuntity come up with a term that we can use in positive situations to show how good men are what term could that be Easy, masculine/masculinity. It's inherently positive, no need to add more to that.
/r/MensRights13/02/22 06:42 AM
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Read some stories a while back of father's who had to challenge the adoption system to get their biological children after the mother's didn't want the children... Shit like that makes it blatantly obvious that the whole child support and custody shit is never in the actual interest of the child, rather in the interest of the organisations and lawyers involved....
/r/MensRights12/02/22 05:38 PM
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Where do you live, and do you have links to these male only shelters?
/r/MensRights12/02/22 05:04 PM
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Fair point
/r/MensRights12/02/22 02:44 PM
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Calling someone an incel to deflect criticism is nothing more than an ad hominem. One that has no bearing on the discussion.... The sexual activity of one party does not lend validity to one or the other party. The flip side would be to call the person slinging incel as a deflection a whore slut.
/r/MensRights12/02/22 12:44 PM
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TIL: MRAs are synonymous with Nazis according to the menslib mods...
/r/MensRights11/02/22 06:41 AM
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But menslib is not even about men's issues... It's what feminists mean when they say "feminism is for men, too". It's about looking at how women are affected by issues men face, and how men can/need to change to better women's lives...
/r/MensRights11/02/22 06:36 AM
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Case in point: number of domestic violence shelters for men Vs number for women
/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:17 PM
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Why not make this about ALL people who are subjects of abuse Because that would mean the funding would need to be spent on MEN instead of the feminist organisations that rely heavily on these cash injections to keep spreading their doctrine
/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:16 PM
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She's an actress, any tears from her are part of the act.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:12 PM
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This is what I assumed, given that it was reported by the daily mail
/r/MensRights09/02/22 03:16 PM
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These so-called therapists that approve transitions for minors seemingly willy-nilly need to be held accountable.
/r/MensRights09/02/22 02:43 PM
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Apple engineer father, 54, Wait, why is his profession relevant here? Edit: She has now moved from family court to criminal court and has been replaced on Ted's case by a new judge but he is not hopeful anything will be done to help him. Oh man, good luck to anyone who has the displeasure of being at her mercy in criminal court Also: In June, the teen was 'greenlit' for receiving the implant with a doctor writing: 'Checklist complete'. In August, it was fitted and in a disturbing November file w…
/r/MensRights09/02/22 01:07 PM
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Wow so many white Knights up in here today....
/r/MensRights08/02/22 11:14 PM
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...And thereby showing that organisations have no repercussions for discriminating against men, and breeding the law. Thanks for linking the tweet, was about to do the same
/r/MensRights08/02/22 06:24 AM
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Makes me think I would not have been driving a full 100mph on the interstate as I did for my daughter. That's.... Disheartening.... People like you, with this "hypothetical" hypocrisy are why we have so much actively discriminatory shit going on in society today. If you still can't see why this is so fucked up, let me put it this way: Makes me think I would not have been driving a full 100mph on the interstate for my black student as I did for my white student.
/r/MensRights08/02/22 06:19 AM
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The issue is less about serving in the military by choice... The problem is more that most of men's privileges in the US are tied to registering for selective service, whereas women are not required to do so, to receive the same privileges. When there are strings attached for one demographic, but not another, it's blatant discrimination
/r/MensRights05/02/22 06:58 AM
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First of all , they got rid of all their male reporters for some reason. Diversity™ The rest is so they can circlejerk about how they are "punching up" and "smashing the patriarchy" or some shit. Pure woke self gratification
/r/MensRights04/02/22 09:20 AM
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Or dead
/r/MensRights04/02/22 08:58 AM
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Keep evidence of her unlawful and violent behaviour, file for sole custody when the child is born. Also, get a good lawyer, not one who will just fuck you over.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 08:56 AM
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For some women the shape and size even varies throughout their menstrual cycle due to the position of the cervix.. Basically one size doesn't fit all, nor all the time even.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 08:24 AM
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I find the analogy to shoes to be quite fitting in terms of sexual compatibility.. If you put on shoes that are too small, you will end up having sore feet, and the shoes will break. Inversely, wearing shoes that are too big won't hurt as much, and you can always use inlay soles or thicker socks to wear them more comfortably. Neither are perfect, the best is finding shoes that are the right fit.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 08:19 AM
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both male and female patients were prepared to wait up to 11 weeks to access a male psychologist; on occasion I was the only male assistant psychologist able to assess and provide CBT. I completely understood the needs of these male patients; if for example I had a bad experience with a female psychologist or I just felt more comfortable with a man, I too would be prepared to wait for psychologist who was male. Being understood and receiving empathy from your psychologist is vital. If this conne…
/r/MensRights04/02/22 06:52 AM
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This reads like "well, because of sexism.. Yeah, definitely sexism and feminist doctrine telling men to go to the back of the bus... But aaaactually it's because I was just working class and had no 'valid' input." The self blame framing here is real.. Good insights though...
/r/MensRights04/02/22 06:45 AM
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Is this another no true Scotsman in disguise?
/r/MensRights03/02/22 12:29 PM
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So what will happen is she'll disappear for a little while, reemerge with an apology or generic PR statement, sing a few woke phrases and revitalise her career as a woke mouthpiece in Hollywood.
/r/MensRights02/02/22 02:41 PM
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Gotta emasculate typically male spaces
/r/MensRights01/02/22 06:51 PM
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Good for you, hopefully this whole deal won't sour your relationship with your daughter, and that she won't be dragged into some poisoning scheme to discredit you.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 06:48 PM
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Men now comprise only 40.5% of college students and are failing in high school at much higher rates. There’s a crisis among American boys and men that is too often ignored and is definitely going unaddressed. This is apparently all he has to say about it, save yourselves the click. The rest of the article just tries to jumble together some statistics to attribute it to yang.
/r/MensRights01/02/22 06:45 PM
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He's doing it until he has the numbers, then he'll switch sides again like last time
/r/MensRights01/02/22 06:42 PM
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My point exactly, yet for some reason with entry fee disparities between genders, people attempt to somehow justify this with some mental gymnastics
/r/MensRights01/02/22 02:26 PM
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Watch people justify this as "supply and demand", like how letting women into clubs for free is a ploy to get men into clubs due to high ratios of women... Or something like that. Edit: also, this completely explains why they cranked up the prices for straight white men: The Facebook page of event organiser Pxssy Palace said it was 'a space that prioritises womxn and femmes of colour and other queer, intersex and trans people of colour'. Also: The website also said that 'allies and accomplices' …
/r/MensRights01/02/22 09:54 AM
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Good to know that false allegations with the intent to extort are documented in an official capacity. All this despite mainstream media and certain social circles believing that this never happens..
/r/MensRights01/02/22 07:25 AM
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Of course it's a real thing: https://www.psychguides.com/behavioral-disorders/sex-addiction/ But that also doesn't mean there aren't people that hide behind medical issues to justify their lack of willingness to take responsibility for their actions.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 04:58 PM
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Thanks for telling me that my lived experiences are wrong, and are in fact how you claim instead...
/r/MensRights31/01/22 03:34 PM
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I've only heard of 'players' in the context of 'manwhores'. Granted, this was back when I went to school, but AFAIK there was never any positive connotations associated with being a player...
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:59 PM
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User /u/Droechai raises a valid point to what you wrote, here: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/sgx4ig/comment/huzfv33/ I'll quote it for posterity: At what point should the BF know she says yes because she wants the interaction or yes due to her addiction? Its on her to be in platonic relationships if nonplatonic versions allows her to selfharm to that extent. When is yes yes, and when is yes no? Should her BFs set a standard of vanilla missionary and deny her any other kind of sex …
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:57 PM
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I'm so torn on this.. On the one hand it reads like she's demonizing her own high sex drive in order to not stray too far from the feminist narrative and blames all the men around her for alleged predatory behaviour... On the other hand, sex addiction is a real thing that can be incredibly damaging to both men and women experiencing it. I guess that person needs help on two fronts: dealing with her sex addiction in a safe and controlled environment via therapy dealing with her inadvertent misand…
/r/MensRights31/01/22 10:31 AM
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Good approach, other option is to throw back "well, a real woman...". Watch them turn purple after that
/r/MensRights31/01/22 07:21 AM
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Thanks for doing this, got my next one due soon. Will fill this out when I get home
/r/MensRights30/01/22 10:57 AM
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My dad growing up told my brother to suck it up and not cry when he hurt himself as a toddler - is that useful stoicism or a weird message to send to little boys that tears in appropriate moments aren't okay? This was likely a miscommunication on your father's part, but it's based on one of your previous sentences: I've seen both women and men online claim a guy being emotional is a turn-off, which sucks When guys express their emotions, and at some stage in their lives are shamed, ridiculed or …
/r/MensRights30/01/22 08:07 AM
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all good mate, no worries
/r/MensRights29/01/22 03:28 PM
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yeah, but then i would have had to reconstruct the quote instead of simply commenting on the quote in the title...
/r/MensRights29/01/22 02:14 PM
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"the use of terms like 'toxic masculinity' could be inadvertently widening gender divisions" No shit, Sherlock.
/r/MensRights29/01/22 09:07 AM
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Masculinity is inherently positive. What passes as 'toxic masculinity' isn't even inherently part of masculinity. Things like not being allowed to show your emotions is not an inherently masculine trait but rather something that has been perpetuated by both women and men in modern society. It's a negative abstraction of stoicism, the original being, where in situations of emotional turmoil stoicism usually suggests that 'cooler heads prevail'. That is to say, temper yourself and resolve the issu…
/r/MensRights29/01/22 08:13 AM
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Andrew "chop the Wang" yang supports men and boys now? What changed? Oh yeah he didn't get elected last time he dropped his male-supporting schtick for a more PC man-hating pro-MGM one. This is just him doing the rounds to garner support from both sides. Anyone who believes he actually has men's issues at heart is deluded. Just need to look at all the linked quotes to see what's really going on in his head.
/r/MensRights28/01/22 08:23 AM
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fact is if you get too many men alone and leave us alone for a while we kind of become morons I love this quote of his, primarily because he doesn't even need to be left alone or with other men to fulfil his own criteria
/r/MensRights28/01/22 07:25 AM
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That would assume a shred of prevailing common sense at that level of discussion
/r/MensRights28/01/22 07:19 AM
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But but "every day section is men's day section" Obvious /s
/r/MensRights28/01/22 07:18 AM
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I think it's more for mAiNtAiNiNg a NoN-tOxiC eNvIrOnMeNt... People grunting, dropping weights or even lifting very heavy weights could cause their fragile egos to be hurt.
/r/MensRights28/01/22 07:14 AM
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such an exception could be invoked to exclude women based on the privacy interests of men and could justify discrimination against transgender individuals because some customers, "due to modesty, find it uncomfortable" to be around such people. What the fuck is this supposed to mean? Women only gyms might discriminate against women because of... Men? Oh and let's throw in transgender people too to add an extra crutch on this lopsided argument...
/r/MensRights28/01/22 07:10 AM
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Wait, wasn't this the dude that was huge on men's issues until he realized he had a chance to run for some position, then went absolutely batshit feminist while spouting pro MGM things? I guess things didn't work out so he's back to appeasing the male crowd... Seems like a typical politician, flag in the wind waving whichever way the current blows..
/r/MensRights28/01/22 07:04 AM
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OK mate, thank you for your valuable input. I guess none of us in this sub will ever be one of those 'sane' people you mentioned. Also, speaking of conflations... Social media cancellings and sanity. Good one.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 06:33 AM
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It's not weird to state that men and women pay significantly different ratios of tax and don't retire at the same age in some countries. In fact it's the truth. Pointing out the truth doesn't mean someone believes that men and women should be treated equally any less. Your argument is akin to "if you believe men and women are equal, stop pointing out that there is actual inequality facing men and women in today's society".
/r/MensRights26/01/22 09:15 PM
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Mate, the out of context quote you posted of his has nothing to do with your initial quote regarding: "The issue is with feminism, not women " He literally responded to your post claiming that men and women contribute equally. The fact that they disagree with your statement regarding equal contributions on the basis of taxation and financial contributions doesn't make them anti woman
/r/MensRights26/01/22 07:17 PM
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Getting a fancy clothing iron would also be a pretty dope present imo, especially if people knew I wanted/needed one..
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:41 PM
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I actually want socks, not tools...
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:39 PM
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Men are essentially now the equivalent of what the jewish people were subjected to pre war Germany. Not during Hitler's time. That was a whole other holocaust. There is a lot to unpack in your post, but wow... The far right movement. To the democratic party. They don't think that the democratic party should be able to vote in a free election. Well that's not right either. The funny thing is, the vast majority of these women are in the democratic party. Go figure, huh! Weird, a lot of the things …
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:27 PM
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So all I want to ask for tomorrow is if anyone has ideas what we could do to make our men feel more welcome/included/safe Stop them from shutting down male only spaces or groups. Maybe advocate for the creation of a few male-only spaces like a men's health group or something. Stop painting men as perpetrators and acknowledge that both men and women can be victims. Allow men to form meetings without a woman present. Men are human beings, they don't need to be babysat, just like how women don't ne…
/r/MensRights26/01/22 01:15 PM
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You really think he was cancelled for "being a self-indulgent jackass"? Not because Heard lied about being abused by Depp, and social media took her side? After all the evidence that was presented, these " sane" people you refer to, still refuse to see Heard as the abuser she is/was...
/r/MensRights26/01/22 06:32 AM
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Also, and people tend to forget this, but heard had a prior domestic abuse conviction before getting involved with depp...
/r/MensRights26/01/22 06:30 AM
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[The court] accepted that the allegations Heard had made against Depp had damaged her career and activism Lmao, what?! If anything, her accusations and claims helped her 'career' more than anything in the decade preceding it. Not to mention that it was basically the cornerstone of her 'activism'. Loreal still keeping her as a spokesperson /role model after all this shit is also pretty trashy.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 06:22 AM
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"Not all X" is a loaded term.. It implies "but most" while also encompassing "some", " many", "a few" and "nearly all". It's a way of saying "all X" while providing a motte as "not all". It's incredibly important to take back control of the argument, instead of stating something like " not all men or women do X", it's far more effective and productive to state "a small outlying group of men and women do X".
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:00 PM
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Unexpectedly good take from someone who is so infamous on social media. Looking forward to seeing how the backlash from religious groups and circumcision proponents will affect her. If she genuinely believes what she wrote, I hope she won't backpedal and call out the people advocating for infant mutilation Edit: I confused her with someone else, but my point about her online infamy stands
/r/MensRights24/01/22 03:37 PM
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I'm not excusing her behaviour And you are literally excusing it in the next part of your paragraph
/r/MensRights24/01/22 03:34 PM
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Firstly, my gender has no bearing on this discussion. Secondly, not everyone grows up in sexualised environments, and not everyone is running around desperate to "sneak looks at xxx sites" or "daddies private magazines". Also, maybe this is new info to you, but for many people, their porn fetishes or fantasies often don't carry over to actual sexual desires. There was an interesting post on this a few months back on this sub.. Why would I need to get my head out of my ass if it's nowhere near th…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 01:34 PM
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No doubt, I am completely aware of this and agree, though there actually are incel communities, or groups of people who would consider themselves incels. In said groups or communities, if there is enough negativity and frustration about their given sexual situation it ends up in the downward spiral I mentioned (this is true for pretty much any other community as well). Which is why I mentioned that it's important that society stops placing such a major emphasis on self worth and status through s…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 12:48 PM
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How else would I refer to incel communities other than by the name? How am I using incel as a negative when referring to a common spiralling that occurs in those communities if not dealt with?
/r/MensRights24/01/22 11:28 AM
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But that doesn't mean 8th grade me wouldn't have felt like a God and had the time of my life. The mentality of excusing female predators and labeling the rape of boys as "getting lucky", or that they should have enjoyed it is enabling this kind of behaviour. it falsely teaches young boys that they should appreciate it, and that this behaviour is not really abuse.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 10:12 AM
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You really want to tell me that you didn’t fantasise about getting lucky as a 13 year old Your choice of words is telling here, and no, I didn't fantasize about being raped as a 13 year old. Would you also say that your 13yo son might have similar fantasies, and that he'd "certainly enjoy getting laid" by one of his teachers? There is nothing hypocritical, just the difference in life experience and understanding of the world that comes from an additional 21 years on this planet. The cognitive di…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 10:05 AM
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To clarify, if someone did it to my sons then I will move heaven and earth to get them sentenced for ad long as possible, but I can appreciate it from the perspective of having been a very horney 13 year old myself once upon a time Does not compute, do you not see your own hypocrisy here? You'd, as you said "move heaven and earth" to convict someone who raped your son, whose brain is still going through important developmental phases, but you would project your own fantasy from your current stat…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 08:54 AM
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This is pure projection from those people who comment those things. They are projecting their fantasies of their current selves onto the young boys who are still not mentally developed to process what is happening.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 08:52 AM
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A lock which can be opened by every key is worthless. It takes zero effort for a woman to have sex. Avoid such women like a plague. They are damaged, make bad choices, cannot pair bond and will cheat on you. A key which opens many locks is worth gold. It takes a lot of effort for a man to have sex with a woman. This kind of mentality regarding men's sexuality places an unhealthy amount of importance on number of sexual partners to determine self worth for young men.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 08:48 AM
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I'm 22 years old and I've quit the apps and I've flirted in college, and I've done much better, I'm not so shy anymore and I'm just being myself and not pretending to be someone else. This is the best course of action. Those apps aren't really designed to get you a hookup, they are designed to get you hooked on the dopamine hits from swiping. https://bootcamp.uxdesign.cc/are-you-falling-for-dating-apps-b523c56e2e11
/r/MensRights24/01/22 06:43 AM
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Also let's not alienate all the women who support the men in their lives, and the ones who support the men's rights movement..
/r/MensRights23/01/22 11:21 PM
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I really like this one, its incredibly effective
/r/MensRights23/01/22 07:59 AM
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Yes, many feminist leaning subs automatically ban you once you post here.. One of their reasonings is " to prevent brigading" which, honestly is a laughable excuse...
/r/MensRights23/01/22 07:58 AM
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No need for such an ovaryaction
/r/MensRights23/01/22 07:56 AM
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My general response to "incel" is along the lines of: "How does my sexual activity have any bearing on the context of the discussion at hand? By that logic you shouldn't run your mouth like a slut" Obviously it depends on the civility of the discussion, but generally by the time ad hominems like "incel" roll around, no valuable discussion can be had
/r/MensRights23/01/22 07:54 AM
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Well yeah, because according to feminist patriarchy theory, ALL boys today benefit from "oppressive patriarchal power structures of the past".
/r/MensRights22/01/22 07:12 AM
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"But we can't legally say that, lol, which is why I'm writing it publicly on social media instead"... The furious backpedaling from a stance of genuine equality to one of sexist gynocentrism is no less astounding as it is unexpected
/r/MensRights21/01/22 03:53 PM
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True, but that's why I requested some sources to make up my mind based on the evidence presented
/r/MensRights21/01/22 01:20 PM
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Could you link them for me please?
/r/MensRights21/01/22 01:19 PM
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Those are some bold claims, do you have sources for this?
/r/MensRights21/01/22 07:25 AM
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"How women get trapped in feminism" 🤡
/r/MensRights20/01/22 09:06 AM
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You wrote: And when they investigated it, they found that the gap was the other way round; Google was underpaying men. And here's what I wrote: Is this why google had to pay men more, because they were being paid less than women? I don't see much of a disparity between our findings....
/r/MensRights20/01/22 07:15 AM
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I get where you're coming from, and i do appreciate the time taken to have a civil discourse. I guess the issue with the comment you were directly replying to was, that the initial discussion was about the fact that "feminism has successfully allowed men to not be shamed for crying", however the pushback was that this was not in fact the case, that feminism has not allowed for this to happen at all (how would it? given that people are free agents and not under direct control of some feminist min…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 09:01 PM
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No point feeding the troll imo, just down vote and move on. Save your sanity 😉
/r/MensRights19/01/22 05:32 PM
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When Radtke was an adult and no longer worked at the comedy club, they had a consensual romantic relationship on and off for a few years, he lost touch but she kept reaching out. Eventually she got bitter and accused most of the people involved of things that never happened in an attempt to extort or otherwise monetize her fabrications.
/r/MensRights19/01/22 04:24 PM
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5 Until recently, very little was known about defendant Radtke. That quickly changed after Radtke began publicly making false accusations about Ross. According to records and multiple witnesses who have come forward, including Radtke’s own family members, Radtke is a habitual accuser who has lied about criminal conduct on multiple occasions. Indeed, Radtke has repeatedly falsely accused her family members and others of crimes. Jeez, her own family too? 6 Now, in opportunistic fashion, Radtke, wh…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 04:16 PM
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For a similar job a white man will be making slightly more than a kidless white woman Is this why google had to pay men more, because they were being paid less than women? I mean, they did have to investigate it after the company was accused of paying women less after all... Just the first example that came to mind
/r/MensRights19/01/22 03:59 PM
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Uhh actually possibly. You asked why the other user was down voted for their opinion and I responded with a possibility. The user posts contrarian opinions in nearly every thread on this sub and is often down voted for it. This could also be why people are just instinctively down voting them. Also, why is it funny that I responded the way I did? Do you need me to deconstruct your entire post word for word? Up and down votes have little bearing on whether or not someone is right or wrong, just an…
/r/MensRights19/01/22 03:50 PM
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"BuT iTs mEn WhO aRe KiLliNg MeN!!!11!!" Can't wait to see these responses... Edit: nvm they're already there lol
/r/MensRights19/01/22 09:20 AM
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Also cancelled, doxed and harassed
/r/MensRights19/01/22 06:36 AM
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It's more the fact that he's sealioning every post on this sub
/r/MensRights19/01/22 06:25 AM
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Exactly this
/r/MensRights19/01/22 06:24 AM
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So whenever a woman does anything wrong, it's feminisms fault? Nah, it's the fault of "the patriarchy" 😀
/r/MensRights19/01/22 06:23 AM
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Women voting. This is good and strengthens the country when all citizens can vote. While it wasn't granting rights to men, it is a benefit to us that our wives, mothers, daughters etc are represented. If this wasn't a thing already I would for sure be out there advocating for it. When women get involved in politics it helps break down the stereotype that men are the ones who have to run everything. This was not feminism's doing by any means... It came about through lobbying behind closed doors, …
/r/MensRights18/01/22 07:51 PM
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most feminism has done for men is allowing them to not be shamed for crying When has this realistically happened? I still often see women shaming men for crying or opening up emotionally.. There was a topic posted in this sub in the last week about how a woman lost all respect for a man she was romantically interested in, all because he finally opened up and dared cry in front of her...
/r/MensRights18/01/22 07:45 PM
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"You got a loicense for that loicense?!"
/r/MensRights18/01/22 04:59 PM
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Who's gonna pay those extra taxes required to lower men's retirement ages? Assuming of course that a government would even consider lowering men's retirement ages...
/r/MensRights18/01/22 02:01 PM
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I'm a regular bus user and very few womens' backsides don't take up some of my part of the seat. "Stop womassing my seat"?
/r/MensRights18/01/22 09:12 AM
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"Anymore"
/r/MensRights18/01/22 09:10 AM
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It's an attack on men's sexuality, even in cases where it bears no relevance to the topic at hand (which is 100% of the time). It perpetuates the toxic notion of men's worth being tied to the number of sexual partners a man has. If nothing else, it's a lazy ad hominem
/r/MensRights15/01/22 06:57 AM
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I thought it was "niece"
/r/MensRights14/01/22 01:21 PM
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And let them flood to every other media platform instead? I think tumblr is a good quarantine zone tbh..
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:38 AM
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She was made partially by a man.. If what men make is worthless, what does that make her? 🙂
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:36 AM
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Her father must be disappointed
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:35 AM
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I really wonder if they understand how miserable their online spaces are making them. People who identify with and participate in hate communities feed into each others misery, reinforcing each other and normalizing feeling awful all the time. Misery loves company. It's just a downward spiral without a bottom
/r/MensRights13/01/22 06:34 AM
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Better than no consequences at least...
/r/MensRights12/01/22 09:47 AM
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loss (financial, etc.) Thanks for spelling it out I guess, whoever now plans to get involved with her has black and white proof of what they're getting themselves into
/r/MensRights11/01/22 06:10 PM
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And another thing about mansplaining is it is gender neutral: mansplainer is just another word for tone deaf bore, and you don’t have to be a man to excel at that. Huh? If its gender neutral, why is it called mansplaining, and why is the description basically "when a man condescendingly talks to a woman"? Prime example of a sanitisation attempt of a misandrist term. It's not gender neutral, it's hateful towards men, and it's hypocritical since it employs the same condescending dismissal that the…
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:50 PM
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I think this was the premise of the redpilling and subs where they would at some stage resort to tricking guys into improving themselves at least enough to get positive responses, if nothing else helped.. FDS however is based on the premise that the women who frequent it are perfect and are owed the richest and most handsome men to attend to their every whim and desire, without having to make a single sacrifice or change a single thing about themselves.
/r/MensRights10/01/22 10:42 PM
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where two persons who have the same talent and ambition enjoy the same chances of success, regardless of their particular social characteristics So they're going to help abolish the female-favoritism-under-the-guise-of-diversity that they initially instigated? Nice! Finally some progress towards equality /s
/r/MensRights10/01/22 04:25 PM
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It's a motte and bailey
/r/MensRights10/01/22 04:22 PM
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This bitch literally tried to leverage every pussy pass in existence once she got in trouble. And she succeeded every time...
/r/MensRights09/01/22 07:21 AM
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They like to call it "punching up"
/r/MensRights08/01/22 06:30 AM
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no matter what a man does, he alone is responsible for his actions To add onto this: no matter what a man does or doesn't do, he alone is responsible for the actions he may or may not have done. This applies directly to the AH and JD case
/r/MensRights08/01/22 06:27 AM
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Trial by social media is so incredibly effective, especially for youths who are hard wired to consume social media en masse. Good on you for trying to help this guy, be aware though that this probably will make you a target of similar campaigns, and will likely end you up in a similar situation. IMHO in situations like this it's important to maintain that it's not a victim/perpetrator case until charged, rather an accuser/accused situation. Is there a police investigation into her claims? Is the…
/r/MensRights08/01/22 06:20 AM
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my biggest takeaway was "how am I going to be able to stop my son from being treated this way as he grows up?". If I could, I'd gladly take all the heat and hate in his entire life if it meant he didn't have to be treated like a disposable, evil, worthless workhorse by society. There will never be a moment in my life where I don't support, reassure and uplift my son to his full potential. And if need be, I'll gladly take the hit standing up for him against society's double standards. This was ex…
/r/MensRights07/01/22 11:14 PM
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This sort of incident is why I always say that false accusations of rape etc are very common Considering the actual prosecution rate of rape accusations, I would say you aren't far off with that statement. Further reading from another user on this sub: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/c4waw8/understanding_false_accusation_statistics/
/r/MensRights07/01/22 06:09 AM
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Feminist teachings use men as an accessory or a convenient scapegoat. There is no benefit in feminism teaching men in a positive manner, since by creating what feminism tells women to be scared of, they apply the self-fulfilling prophecy that the doctrine relies on in order to stay relevant. It's a cheap and incredibly effective way to maintain the pursuit of profit and control. "Equality for women" is the facade that is necessary to retain compliance.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:25 AM
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Embezzle billions, give birth. Easy get out of jail free card.
/r/MensRights04/01/22 11:00 PM
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Thanks for sharing. If anything, the positive outcome here is that men have been empathising more with other men who have been raped.
/r/MensRights04/01/22 01:44 PM
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Teach him to respect himself. Keep his values and beliefs as number 1, this way it's less likely he'll let himself get stepped on trying to pursue a relationship with someone that is using/abusing him. Teach him also that it's okay to just walk away, he doesn't owe anytime his time. Also and I think this is most important, that it doesn't matter how many relationships he's had, or how many people he's slept with, his worth as a person is based on who he is.
/r/MensRights04/01/22 08:14 AM
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Who cares what the pope says? Who cares what one of the most influential religious leaders of our time has to say? A lot of people do apparently. He also has a lot of reach on social media just like most influencers and celebrities do, so whatever they say can have quite an impact.
/r/MensRights03/01/22 07:20 AM
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Remember when the church openly stated homosexuality was a sin? And remember how they recently backpedaled on that stance, accepting a more 'tolerant' stance on homosexuality because it would shift focus away from scandals such as the paedophilia charges and investigations that were taking place? This is more of that, appealing to popular narrative, flying a rainbow flag, etc. to try and bring in more followers. Gotta keep the donations rolling in somehow...
/r/MensRights02/01/22 10:47 PM
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This stems from there being no repercussions for making false rape claims, and apparently no due diligence in investigating the claims thoroughly... For every exposed case of serial rape accusations there are hundreds that fly under the radar
/r/MensRights02/01/22 06:35 AM
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men's rights are human rights human rights should be protected It's as simple as that. People who hate men's rights advocates need to be confronted with the reality that they are actively arguing against protecting human rights.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 06:28 AM
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How would you say his first sentence in his quote would apply to your snippet? More specifically this part: men must be held responsible for their action
/r/MensRights01/01/22 06:42 AM
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Career politician, no surprise that he has no grip on reality. Maybe instead of spouting his bullshit he could quit politics and go work one of those "shitty jobs" that he thinks men need to work at instead of being on pornhub or video games....
/r/MensRights31/12/21 05:01 PM
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“Responsibility is one of God’s greatest gifts to mankind, and men must be held responsible for their actions. Still, can we be surprised that after years of being told they are the problem, that their manhood is the problem, more and more men are withdrawing into the enclave of idleness, and pornography, and video games?” Wait is this legit the whole quote from him? He's literally saying men are tired of being held responsible for all of society's problems, and in the same breath holding men re…
/r/MensRights31/12/21 04:57 PM
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The most common reason for dropping out of treatment was reported as a lack of connection or understanding on the part of the therapist (54.9%). Men also reported that therapy was unhelpful or “didn’t feel right” Well, yeah.. When men are told that their "masculinity" is the issue, they get disenfranchised. Thanks for citing the studies.
/r/MensRights31/12/21 03:52 PM
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You're right, men should also be included in these personal safety lectures and taught how to protect themselves from danger
/r/MensRights31/12/21 08:27 AM
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Aren't most rapes perpetrated by known and trusted people, not complete strangers? Wouldn't it then stand to reason that women are more likely to be raped during curfew since rapists would be at home and therefore more prone to raping, instead of being out doing other things?
/r/MensRights31/12/21 08:20 AM
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I found this out as my daughter has asked me if this really was the law and could I do something about it, but please don't tell her mum it was her idea (my daughter is 7). Your daughter is a smart kid, well done for her not being brainwashed by her mother. Sounds to me like you're raising her right, the fact that she enjoys spending time with you over your ex means a lot. Keep it up and definitely go for 50/50.. Who knows, eventually you might get sole custody if your ex keeps winding
/r/MensRights29/12/21 04:01 PM
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Sounds like a blanket apex fallacy cash grab too..
/r/MensRights29/12/21 09:43 AM
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Which is weird because you'd think illegal discrimination would be the primary reason
/r/MensRights29/12/21 09:42 AM
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Yes it was
/r/MensRights28/12/21 06:17 PM
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Probably because many know that there are no consequences for their actions, whereas men often don't have that luxury
/r/MensRights28/12/21 02:27 PM
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Basically got off with "now pat yourself on the back"
/r/MensRights27/12/21 07:53 AM
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Feminism is slowly dying down ... yet somehow the media as a whole still supports feminism This shows that feminism is not actually dying down. The fact that you may be seeing a bit less of it in your circles could be because feminism is actually shifting focus, as it does frequently.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 07:50 AM
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TIL: feminism is "the patriarchy" and "toxic masculinity"
/r/MensRights27/12/21 07:47 AM
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Unless applying to government positions
/r/MensRights26/12/21 11:50 AM
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saw this one Ted talk or a tedx talk about a feminist that stopped being a feminist after having interviews with MRAs. Yep, Cassie jaye. She also made the documentary 'the red pill', which didn't go over well with feminists. Definitely worth a watch
/r/MensRights26/12/21 07:19 AM
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I would love to have these citations please. The best way to go at them is just to start citing actual evidence to show that men are victims at a much higher rate than what is recorded This one is generally conveniently dismissed as "but its mostly men perpetrating it". Which is about as empty as saying "your male neighbour burned your house down, so you don't deserve to be helped since its another man who perpetrated it". If people are willing to dismiss valid arguments and concerns of human ri…
/r/MensRights26/12/21 07:18 AM
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That's the thing though, there's a difference between being an entertainer/content creator and an Esport athlete. Sometimes they have many overlaps because many Esports are entertaining to watch, but to claim that bathtub streamers are responsible for the lack of women in Esports is a bit disingenious. ​ I get that when given the choice of whether to be a bathtub/titty/asmr streamer or practicing for countless hours to be the best in a game, most people would simply take the "easy" route. This d…
/r/MensRights25/12/21 09:40 AM
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How do bathtub streamers play into this? Aren't eSports separate from streaming? I get most top tier players stream too to supplement income or for enjoyment, but that doesn't mean that streaming popularity immediately equates to export compatibility.. Or maybe I missed something that you meant?
/r/MensRights24/12/21 11:27 PM
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This way all individuals involved will be fully mature Bold of you to think that most people are mature at age 30.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 07:12 PM
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As men we need to stop being brought up with the idea that our self worth is dictated by how many people we have sex with or who we date. Instead, that we dictate our self worth by who we are or what we do. I think that's a cornerstone in the process of stemming incel hate and people believing they are owed these things by society. It's an uphill climb since mainstream media constantly pushes these notions onto men, that being a virgin is somehow being a failure, etc...
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:58 PM
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Sounds like you are in a manipulative, toxic relationship. I'm not saying you should bail, but consider getting professional help via couple's counselling if you can afford it... If you can't, you're 24.. Ask yourself if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who invalidates how you feel, dredges up all your past 'failings' in order to hold power over you.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 09:15 AM
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My standard reaction to the sexist accusation of 'mansplaining' is: "I'm not talking to you condescendingly because you're a woman, I'm doing it because you're a fucking idiot." I mean, why else would someone use such a loaded sexist term off-cuff? This is usually responded to with some other ovaryaction
/r/MensRights24/12/21 08:00 AM
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Also why do you think straight men are more open to dating bi women? Fetishisation, they (I'm aware it's not all but many and I'm talking about that group specifically) want to date bi women because they think bi women will be open to a FFM threesome That's a pretty broad generalisation, and a pretty weak dismissal. Could it also be due to the fact that many men would simply be willing to date bi women to increase their chances of a successful match? With the dating pool skewed heavily in the fa…
/r/MensRights23/12/21 04:59 AM
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Very interesting analysis, Also very interesting how porn preferences differ from actual sexual/dating preferences. It's almost as if for most people, porn is purely for their own fantasies, and can be at odds to how they interact in real life.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 04:53 AM
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Some people like to claim or pretend that men aren't targets of harassment, or that men can't be ridiculed or mocked on mainstream media... Yet when evidence is presented, like in the provided link, people like you dismiss it as broad generalisations.. Also, wow, your post history...
/r/MensRights22/12/21 04:37 PM
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The point still stands though, someone bragging about assaulting a man, others applauding this action. If the OP was making up a story or exaggerating, it doesn't excuse the responses who applaud these actions, fictional or not.
/r/MensRights22/12/21 09:05 AM
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It's important that you made the journey and came to this realisation by yourself. At least you've found your way here, where you'll generally be able to discuss without fear of having your points of view censored.
/r/MensRights22/12/21 07:50 AM
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When surveyors uncover surprising data suggesting that women staff are more likely than men to sexually abuse men and boys in their custody, they tend either to ignore the counter-stereotypical findings, or to reinterpret them in accordance with conventional gendered expectations This is a key reason why stuff like this is swept under the rug. People are not willing to have their beliefs shattered that women can be active perpetrators of rape, especially when the victims are male and/or criminal…
/r/MensRights21/12/21 10:31 PM
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Obviously age disparities within reason are a completely mixed bag. You'll have just as many bad eggs on either side of the fence, but I agree with your statement on the reasoning of that sub.
/r/MensRights21/12/21 04:58 PM
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Good luck, let us know how it goes for you
/r/MensRights21/12/21 08:41 AM
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Marvel has been a raging dumpster fire for quite some time now. The constant sexualization of the male characters (remember that helicopter scene where Chris Evans injured his shoulder?) as well as the constant push to pass the baton of their success onto "the next diverse (read: female) generation" have just derailed the initial great storytelling. It's become a race to appear woke and follow the most "politically correct" social media trends. See the falcon and the winter soldier, at the clima…
/r/MensRights20/12/21 09:54 AM
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This sounds like a grave miscarriage of justice at best... Maybe look into the standard procedures for these cases and start a case against the prosecution, check with your lawyer if such a thing is possible.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 09:43 AM
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Why not? Sometimes it helps detach them from sticking to the other thigh, as opposed to physically detaching them. Sometimes it's a way to just readjust them.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 05:58 AM
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Will make a new account and debate them and see how fast i get banned; will share results when i m done. Don't actually do this.
/r/MensRights20/12/21 05:46 AM
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By showing these people a powerful female character, like Lara Croft, you are highlighting their own inadequacy or something...
/r/MensRights19/12/21 06:30 AM
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Thanks for posting this. Good concise write up
/r/MensRights17/12/21 12:37 PM
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Classic ovaryaction
/r/MensRights16/12/21 05:20 PM
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Haven't been able to find any local ones for me in the EU, specifically Germany. Not for a lack of trying either. Any I found stopped providing that service since covid hit. Also lacking the space in the apartment for gym equipment so I might just stick to bodyweight exercises
/r/MensRights15/12/21 04:24 PM
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Ah bummer, was hoping you'd be in the EU. That way I might have found a new gym to go to... Thanks though
/r/MensRights15/12/21 04:21 PM
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Never heard about gyms with daycares, are you in the EU?
/r/MensRights15/12/21 08:31 AM
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This is exactly what I did when I first started working out, it felt silly at first but it definitely pulled the focus away from comparing myself with others, to tracking my own personal progress. Also it stopped me from fizzling out and losing my motivation.
/r/MensRights15/12/21 08:28 AM
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Many of these "studies" that are cited are intentionally misrepresented to suit a certain agenda. This is how things like the pay gap myth are propagated. Thanks for pointing out the bias in this reporting though
/r/MensRights14/12/21 12:48 PM
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Criticising, mocking, or expressing contempt Protected from this, as per the AutoModerator message. Not really sure what straws you are grasping at with the rest of your comment
/r/MensRights14/12/21 09:00 AM
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Yet men have no way out, sometimes even when it's proven to not be theirs Or when men or boys were victims of rape
/r/MensRights14/12/21 07:39 AM
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So wait, do I understand that right? Are white cisgender people who happen to have two X chromosomes not protected as a group either? Or is it a case of "must contain at least 3 of these"?
/r/MensRights14/12/21 07:34 AM
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Also feminists, probably: See?! This is proof that women can do everything men can!!
/r/MensRights13/12/21 06:22 PM
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The interviewer must have smoked something. Where is the mysoginy in assuming men are the taller ones in the relationship? Buzzfeed logic
/r/MensRights13/12/21 03:32 PM
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It's not like women don't contribute to women's suffering, yet those issues are still addressed. The thing that matters is that men's human rights need protecting just like women's human rights.
/r/MensRights13/12/21 01:00 PM
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You know that people are allowed to disagree with other people's opinions, right? This sub is one of the more open ones on reddit, where a wide variety of viewpoints are tolerated (within reason).. That's the point of having a community as opposed to an echo chamber. Just as you are allowed to disagree with criticisers, they are allowed to disagree with the OP
/r/MensRights13/12/21 09:41 AM
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Am I the only one who found this post to be patronising and insulting? Basically reinforcing gender stereotypes for men as the self-sacrificing breadwinner that has to put his life on the line at every twist and turn just to 'be a man'.. Also the end of the post was the icing on the cake: Do not commit suicide. Do not commit violence. But do not be silent. Why shame men who commit suicide, or are suicidal? You are insinuating that men who are suicidal are "not real men". You don't know what othe…
/r/MensRights13/12/21 09:34 AM
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Good luck mate, be prepared to be brigaded, doxxed or worse. You'll have people try to skew the perspective and sanitize whatever is brought to light
/r/MensRights12/12/21 07:52 AM
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They finally realize the power of women's vote, and feminism has effectively leveraged that. Usually they'd have to form organisations that would, in name, address some issue in society (real or self a constructed) in order to receive government funding. They have effectively managed to find a way to optimize even that, getting money for free now. If you were offered free money for nothing, you'd be silly to take it. There is not much men can do against it alone. While 5000 rs is around 58€ at t…
/r/MensRights12/12/21 06:04 AM
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Interesting but accurate analogy
/r/MensRights11/12/21 09:38 AM
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I think you may be asking the wrong crowd
/r/MensRights10/12/21 09:00 AM
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Had the same thoughts, made a separate post regarding potential shadow banning of the sub.. Likely it's just that any non approved subs are filtered out of any kind of meaningful statistic
/r/MensRights10/12/21 08:59 AM
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Good to know, thanks. I'm still curious however as to why none of my comments on this sub were captured in the recap metrics..
/r/MensRights10/12/21 06:18 AM
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this is actually a good point, and i did consider this as being part of the reason why no posts from here show up on the front page... but i'm still surprised that even site-wide metrics filter out posts and comments made on this sub
/r/MensRights09/12/21 09:41 PM
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i get that they try to filter out this stuff, but i didn't realize they would even filter it out of site-wide metrics like the recap
/r/MensRights09/12/21 09:39 PM
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From a true feminist Another day, another no true Scotsman. I appreciate the sentiment though
/r/MensRights09/12/21 09:01 AM
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Nice, thanks. Can't wait for mainstream media to catch wind and label it as a misogynistic incel cesspit or something
/r/MensRights08/12/21 06:11 PM
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Notice how OP doesn't say there's piss and dirt everywhere. Notice how I never said they did. OP simply stated that (as opposed to the boys restroom) the girls' walls were clean. But maybe if you worked in schools (like I do) you'd know that right now it is very common for things in school bathrooms to be busted or stolen because of that stupid tik tok trend It's always some different excuse, back when i was in school it was magazines with their outrageous fads that were to blame, or the interne…
/r/MensRights07/12/21 08:13 PM
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Judge Vasta’s barrister, Jeremy Kirk SC, told the court he was only “a human being” who made a mistake And yet this logic was not applied by Vasta when he jailed the father... Mr Stradford’s barrister, Perry Herzfeld SC, told the court that Judge Vasta’s behaviour was the “grossest parody of a court hearing”. He also likened the judge to Lewis Carroll’s foul-tempered Queen of Hearts by saying the court that Judge Vasta operated in was in the “jurisdiction of Wonderland”. “Her catchphrase was alw…
/r/MensRights07/12/21 03:00 PM
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You don't believe that a school has an obligation to clean and repair spaces so that they are hygienic and safe to use regardless of gender?
/r/MensRights07/12/21 09:17 AM
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Yet another gender gap that's widening every year and nobody seems to give a shit...
/r/MensRights07/12/21 06:41 AM
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And when we look at some of the laws that have been put through, particularly by, ironically, President Biden … the Adoption and Safe Families Act is another. These, for example, the Adoption and Safe Families Act … offers financial incentives to the states that increase adoption numbers. To receive the adoption incentives and bonuses, local CPS or Child Protection Services must have more children, they must have more merchandise to sell. And funding is available when a child is placed in a fost…
/r/MensRights06/12/21 02:21 PM
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somehow women are still not being as productive and proactive as men? Why should they, when the government ensures that if they retain their status quo, they will get shit for free? Maybe we should accept that women and men are different with unique strength and trying to make women same as men is just waste of resources. Yes, we should definitely accept this. All of this tax money that's being blown on woke shit can be used to finance other things like better education or healthcare. I know tha…
/r/MensRights06/12/21 02:11 PM
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Waters4simping Also he doubles down with some more bullshit after getting called out
/r/MensRights06/12/21 06:43 AM
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Of the boys and young men, 9% have harassed – far from the notion that all or most men engage in such behavior. But the findings also revealed that the proportion of girls and young women who committed the same sexual harassment was the same – 9% – and the girls’ harassment was directed primarily, like the boys’, toward the opposite sex. Very interesting. Thank you
/r/MensRights06/12/21 06:21 AM
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Sure, but for starters we'd need to agree on what are the greatest issues facing men today. In my experience being a man and talking to other men about it, it seems that that prevalent ideas about masculinity (tough/buff/guardian/breadwinner/stoic etc.) are what's leading to many men being unable to properly deal, let alone express their emotions in a healthy manner. This massively hurts our relationships with ourselves and the people around us. Case in point: literally every dad I've ever met s…
/r/MensRights05/12/21 01:57 PM
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Your comment shows just how indoctrinated you are. The fact that you dismiss actual historic evidence of a lack of "the patriarchy" in order to state that the "balance" was tipped to the men's side as opposed to women indicates that you are either unwilling to do some actual historic research, or are so blinded by feminist doctrine that anything that contradicts this is automatically false or irrelevant. If the balance was historically tipped to the men's side, slight corrections might indeed fe…
/r/MensRights05/12/21 01:19 PM
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What on earth is a: Failure-to-Launch Ex-Husband And what would be the female equivalent of that derogatory slang?
/r/MensRights05/12/21 09:48 AM
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They seem to genuinely critically engage with the ails of being a man in the 21st century You mean that they generally look at men's issues through a feminist lens, placing emphasis on the female perspective and how men's issues affect women. In essence it's spinning men's issues into actually affecting women worse, and trying to find ways to deal with that fallout as opposed to helping men.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 03:11 PM
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feminism is far from the root of all your issues. (Quite to the contrary, it's the solution but that's another topic) Care to elaborate? How exactly do you see feminism as being the solution to men's issues?
/r/MensRights04/12/21 03:07 PM
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I'm inclined to agree. I see no benefit in this day and age for blanket bans on abortion. Abortion is an important topic for both men and women, like you stated. For women it's for bodily autonomy, men generally have less say when it comes to abortions, but men should be part of the discussion. This is especially true in cases where men were raped, and have no desire to pay child support to their rapist.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 03:04 PM
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Better watch out or r/hydrohomies might get upset and cancel you 😋
/r/MensRights04/12/21 02:53 PM
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[...] Men are meant to be expendable; women are not. - Justin J Waters No need to beat around the bush, at least he shows his true colours right off the bat... Still doesn't help men though. I find it so weird that there guys throw their gender under the bus, but I would bet that come a time of war he would find a way to weasel out of the draft to let other men be expendable instead... Edit: his response to being called out: A population can recover faster from losing males than females. When fe…
/r/MensRights04/12/21 07:05 AM
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valid point, at least they didn't omit misandry entirely, but specifically mentioned it
/r/MensRights02/12/21 09:24 PM
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As a part of our commitment to end violence towards women and girls Yeah and they were doing so well up until this point. At least they got misandry in there for what it's worth....
/r/MensRights02/12/21 07:51 PM
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I fucking knew it, she'd try to weasel out of it by using her ex bf as a fall guy
/r/MensRights02/12/21 06:57 AM
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Guess you'll never hear about this from circumcision proponents or people claiming mutilating baby boys is "cleaner" and "healthier". Thanks for posting this, gonna add it to my anti-MGM arsenal.
/r/MensRights02/12/21 06:53 AM
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She is sorry that all of this hit the public spotlight, just sorry enough to use it as free publicity...
/r/MensRights01/12/21 10:42 PM
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Congratulations mate, it's the start of a helluva journey for you. If you ever feel like you need someone to talk to about dadding or just wanna vent about things feel free to dm me.
/r/MensRights01/12/21 10:36 PM
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But she's two-faced. When she's not in this aggressive mode, she can sometimes be somewhat likeable. And it is then that I make the mistake to engage in conversation. She's not likeable, she's manipulative. My advice: keep things strictly professional, never engage in small talk or conversation not related to work anymore. Separate work life from your private life and never give that person access to your private life. Chances are, she will dig up and overturn your whole life and you will not be…
/r/MensRights30/11/21 08:46 AM
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If not then feminism would simply collapse under the weight of its hypocrisy. That's cute... Their hypocrisy is a cornerstone of the movement, if anything it'll strengthen them somehow.
/r/MensRights29/11/21 01:17 PM
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Frankly it seems like a race to the bottom these days as to who can find the most innovative way to make their culture inefficient This is also because society rewards this behaviour. Any kneejerk reaction or opinion can now be voices publicly via social media. The squeakiest wheel gets the grease, and politicians who subjugate themselves willingly tend to be seen as more favourable by those social circles. This leads to changes in policy which don't favour society at large, as opposed to enrich…
/r/MensRights28/11/21 10:57 PM
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Therefore in order to make it even we need to have priority now This alone indicates that it's vindictive and nothing more than revenge in order to amass privileges, using 'equality' as a facade.
/r/MensRights28/11/21 10:53 PM
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Wow this is fantastic, I somehow lost the link to this a while back. Thanks for sharing!
/r/MensRights28/11/21 06:54 PM
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Since many governments have ministers specifically for women's issues, it stands to reason that there should be a male counterpart to address men's issues. Ideally this minister would not utilise the feminist approach like menslib....
/r/MensRights28/11/21 11:03 AM
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I dunno about y'all, but this whole thing: My boyfriend (20M) is a very traditionally conservative man and loves the idea of gender roles, so I (20F) tried to get him to dislike them, then he told me he wanted to follow them because he wants to provide everything for me, and protect me from harm. So I asked him what he wants in return, and he said that he just wants me to love him. Then I started rethinking gender roles. Sounded a whole lot like "I was against gender roles, but when I found out …
/r/MensRights28/11/21 09:09 AM
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I am still of the opinion that men and women should not be interchangeable, instead they should be complementary. The way things are going, it's heading towards the former and away from the latter
/r/MensRights27/11/21 11:29 AM
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The issue was that this apparently happened thanksgiving morning, so basically leaving the partner to do everything last minute
/r/MensRights26/11/21 01:24 PM
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The issue was that she sprung it on him on thanksgiving morning
/r/MensRights26/11/21 01:24 PM
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The way I read it: "I am such an empowered woman that I don't want to cook for my husband anymore. I decided to sabotage thanksgiving by refusing to cook in the morning of the day, thereby leaving my husband to do everything last minute. Meanwhile I'm being a lazy alcoholic. Also the food was average, so I told him to do it every year from now on.. I did so the dishes though because I'm such a good partner, he should be grateful, lolz. Haters gonna hate!"
/r/MensRights26/11/21 01:21 PM
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So she's admitting that its nothing more than petty revenge for imagined/perceived oppression...
/r/MensRights26/11/21 07:56 AM
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What's this? More agenda pushing from out-of-touch Hollywood celebrities? Colour me shocked and surprised /s
/r/MensRights25/11/21 04:21 PM
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Seems like she's fishing for sympathy or attention
/r/MensRights25/11/21 04:17 PM
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On the witness stand, Sebold identified him as her rapist. Seems you glossed over this
/r/MensRights24/11/21 05:29 PM
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Of course she falsely accused this man, perhaps not with malicious intent or knowingly. The fact remains that one person suffered, and nobody that was involved is facing any repercussions.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 01:17 PM
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Do you come here to troll? The article states: A rape conviction at the center of a memoir by award-winning author Alice Sebold has been overturned because of what authorities determined were serious flaws with the 1982 prosecution and concerns the wrong man had been sent to jail. So, serious flaws with the prosecution and apparently compelling enough evidence that an innocent person was convicted, makes Anthony Broadwater the falsely accused and falsely convicted party in this instance. After B…
/r/MensRights24/11/21 01:09 PM
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So wait, dude was wrongfully accused, wrongfully convicted and lost 16 years of his life before it was overturned? He then remained on the sex offenders registry despite being cleared? Meanwhile the accuser led a successful life by selling her wrongful accusation without repercussions? What the fuck is going on here... Clown world, that false accuser should be held accountable and pay reparations at the very least...
/r/MensRights24/11/21 10:25 AM
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When you got someone who was accused of raping a minor spearheading a movement, you know that no good can come of it...
/r/MensRights24/11/21 08:53 AM
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Hilarious: Given that friends don't tend to abandon people who are completely innocent What fucking reality does this person reside in? People abandon others for all sorts of reasons so this is the most abstract indicator to choose to support a claim...
/r/MensRights24/11/21 07:05 AM
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Funny how the first person is saying that jobs need to be made 'lucrative' or promoted specifically for women to work in those fields.. Fucking hilarious how the entitlement of that alone is not evident to the person writing that shit.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 05:55 PM
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Another day, another no true Scotsman
/r/MensRights23/11/21 09:15 AM
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Women voicing their dating and sexual preferences: "Yaas Queen!!!" Men voicing their dating and sexual preferences: "fucking misogynistic piece of incel trash!!!"
/r/MensRights23/11/21 08:40 AM
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Can't really relate, the only thing I've noticed is that wages on the ends of the experience spectrum have compressed and evened out a bit. Entry level STEM professionals are starting out with salaries that are nearly identical to those of moderate (5y) experience roles. Those on the other end have been lowered in turn. Granted, this does not apply as a kind of catch-all. There are still significant variances based on specialisations
/r/MensRights23/11/21 08:38 AM
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Interestingly they claim you are dragging women down, yet in your initial post you didn't write anything negative about women, as far as I can see. Either they failed reading comprehension or they admit that their slice of "equality" is "women first" or at the cost of men.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 06:53 AM
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At least you're consistent
/r/MensRights22/11/21 06:48 AM
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Every time a woman goes "EvErY dAy Is MeN's DaY" I answer: men-dying-more-in-the-workplace-day? Yeah, that's every day! Men-committing-80%-of-sucides-day? Yeah, that's every day. Men-getting-screwed-in-child-custody-day? Yeah that's every day. Courtesy of /u/gre2704 (https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/qtz784/comment/hkorh2t/)
/r/MensRights20/11/21 07:16 AM
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updated the initial post. All in all we had a good discussion on men's issues. Most were in agreement already on a lot of the issues raised, which was good to hear. The two others didn't bother to join in on the conversation.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 07:39 PM
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These questions were asked, the responses were "the patriarchy" and "toxic masculinity".
/r/MensRights19/11/21 07:37 PM
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While I agree that it's nobody's duty to help anyone, as a society we should try to help each other regardless of gender. This of course only applies if the safety of the person trying to help can be guaranteed. I sure as shit am not going to put myself and my children in danger just to help someone who put themselves in a dangerous position. If I'm incapacitated, who will take care of my family?
/r/MensRights18/11/21 08:23 AM
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What a roundabout way of admitting to sexist discrimination...
/r/MensRights18/11/21 07:08 AM
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What was their response?
/r/MensRights17/11/21 05:43 PM
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It's become less about compelling storytelling and more about reinforcing a certain political agenda. Just look at how many people believe that the handmaid's tale is actually based on facts, or refuse to acknowledge that it's fiction...
/r/MensRights17/11/21 06:43 AM
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it's an easy tactic to detract from poor writing. If critics point out that the movie/show/book/whatever is poorly written or structured, having social commentary allows the creators to deflect and dismiss the argument as "wrongthink". I mean look at the latest charlie's angels, the disastrous recent ghostbusters reboot and captain marvel to name a few. All of these were horribly written and poorly executed, lacked any semblance of depth, instead filling those voids with gender politics and "pun…
/r/MensRights15/11/21 11:11 PM
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I just want well written characters without political discourse being shoehorned in. Nowadays many writers substitute good storytelling and writing with wokeness and doctrine, because it's easier than coming up with compelling back stories and motivations.
/r/MensRights15/11/21 06:22 PM
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I just respond to accusations of mansplaining with: "I'm not explaining it to you in a condescending way because you're a woman, I'm explaining it in a condescending way because you're a fucking idiot." When people start throwing around accusations of sexism by using sexism themselves (yes, mansplaining is a sexist term) then you may as well stoop to their level by calling them out on their bullshit
/r/MensRights13/11/21 11:08 PM
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That's rich coming from you, who has ignored every piece of solid evidence provided, and are just deluding yourself. Men don't want to be seen as victims, however what we do want is that society finally recognises that men CAN be victims, and do face numerous issues that need to be addressed, without some feminist stating how women supposedly have it worse. The fact that you're in here talking about 'male privilege' shows how clearly deluded you are thanks to your doctrine, and that you don't ac…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 05:21 PM
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You are why feminists exist, because you continue to provide cover and ballast for their harmful doctrine by providing excuses that it's in the name of 'equality'. If me wanting men to be able to advocate for their own rights without being boycotted by feminists is harmful for women, reexamine your notion of "equality". Gender pay gap has been debunked thoroughly many times. It's interesting that you posted the GII because that measure is sexist as fuck. When men are better off than women, it's …
/r/MensRights13/11/21 03:59 PM
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You are right, of course. The responses mostly serve as a way to get the statistics out there, even if the discussion partner ignores them. If anyone else on the sub can now quickly find them from where I linked them when they need them, then that's a win in my books
/r/MensRights13/11/21 02:57 PM
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Someone else already posted Karen Straughan's response to this, I'll not care to post it again. What you think doesn't matter. You can believe what you want. In the end, feminism has never been about equality.
/r/MensRights13/11/21 02:54 PM
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Feminists are advocating for equality for women. You are obviously free to believe this, regardless of the validity of this statement. When you are advocating for equality, what is the metric that feminism measures equality against? Is it against reality or fictional constructs created by feminist theories? Men are perfectly capable of advocating for their own rights and it’s ludicrous for men to whinge that a women doesn’t want true equality if she’s not putting men’s issues first. Of course, m…
/r/MensRights13/11/21 12:30 PM
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Feminism hasn’t harmed men. It has taken away some of the preferentialtreatment they previously received, which looks to some men like harm,but really isn’t. Are you sure? Because Feminists have: successfully opposed laws that would make it illegal for women to rape men in Israel, India and Nepal. actively used their power via the biggest organization in the USA (National Organization for Women) to actively oppose joint parenting laws and actively fight against father's rights groups. actively i…
/r/MensRights12/11/21 09:23 PM
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why should women prioritise fighting for men’s issues over fighting for women’s issues? Hmm fair point, why should they when just as you said: And there are actually plenty of feminists fighting for men’s issues, it isn’t mutually exclusive If its not mutually exclusive, why should feminists even prioritise? Without spinning a yarn about toxic masculinity or some patriarchy theory nonsense, what issues are these feminists fighting for? Why aren’t men fighting for men’s issues? They are, yet when…
/r/MensRights12/11/21 07:55 PM
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Her: Like I said we don't mean it Then why say it? Truth is they actually do mean it, but just like the motte and bailey of using it as an abstraction or a joke to fly under the radar when called out.
/r/MensRights12/11/21 07:22 PM
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Meghan, the Duchess of Sussex Hold up, rewind. Didn't she cause harry to throw away their titles so that they could gallivant around with Hollywood 'royalty' instead of following their royal duties? Also, didn't she throw tons of dirt at the royal family which contributed to her loss of title? Also, why keep giving this two-faced woman more attention via mass media?
/r/MensRights12/11/21 06:59 PM
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These women watch too much porn....
/r/MensRights12/11/21 06:55 AM
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The older I get, the more I realize that this is the only real way to approach this. It's all well and good to have 'work-quaintances' but setting boundaries is still important here. For me personally this segregation of work and private life automatically happened over time the more effort I put into starting my own family.
/r/MensRights11/11/21 01:34 PM
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Jeez, sounds like she was trying to milk it for all its worth without actually putting in anything substantial. I really hope this doesn't go ass backwards on you.
/r/MensRights09/11/21 09:55 AM
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Unlikely. These two are a lost cause, and not just in terms of men's rights...
/r/MensRights09/11/21 07:34 AM
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a very common counterargument is the phrase "FeMiNiSm HeLpS mEn ToO" Because they will invent a construct that allegedly harms men, and whose removal would be beneficial to feminism (such as the fictional "patriarchy" or "wage gap"). This is then spun in a way to "harm men" in order to rally them to the feminist cause as useful idiots. Actual issues are dismissed
/r/MensRights08/11/21 06:43 PM
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I think you may be missing the point a bit still. You seem to be clinging to the ideal of retaining your idealized notions of what you believe feminism to be, all the while dismissing things that are actually happening with the current and historic feminism's deeds or misdeeds. Feminism just has never been about equality, no matter which individual's intentions are tainted by this. Deferring to radical feminism or other splinters or sub-factions of feminism just serves to drag even more disambig…
/r/MensRights08/11/21 11:30 AM
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This sounds like a large scale social media instigated witch hunt with the premise of reputational destruction or worse. Anyone can make allegations, which is why in a court of law there generally needs to be a burden of proof from the accuser. Alongside this, there is also usually due process where the accused is innocent until found guilty in the court of law. These trials by the court of opinion bypass all that, and take even anonymous accusations as unblemished proof. It doesn't take a geniu…
/r/MensRights08/11/21 09:20 AM
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To quote Karen Straughan: So what you're saying is that you, a commenter using a username on an internet forum are the true feminist, and the feminists actually responsible for changing the laws, writing the academic theory, teaching the courses, influencing the public policies, and the massive, well-funded feminist organizations with thousands and thousands of members all of whom call themselves feminists... they are not "real feminists". That's not just "no true Scotsman". That's delusional se…
/r/MensRights08/11/21 08:36 AM
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State Street aims to triple number of black, Asian and other minority senior staff Interesting, will they be implementing this for white men once they are inevitably phased out into 'minority' status? Failure to meet target by 2023 will result in executives' bonuses being lowered Ah I see, this is why they are pushing for this. Understood. It's not actually about 'diversity', but rather about keeping executive bonuses... Recruiters must show that candidates have been interviewed by a diverse pan…
/r/MensRights07/11/21 04:00 PM
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Good luck, chances are that you'll get the short end of the stick though. Sorry. Even if you aren't transferred, your boss and the accuser will make sure that you will suffer where you are.
/r/MensRights07/11/21 03:55 PM
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So basically boys make up the majority of those 43%. Luckily for the UN, they can be included under the banner of children in order to inflate the numbers for women in order to garner sympathy.......
/r/MensRights07/11/21 03:51 PM
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The issue here is that you're trying to compare your definition to my definition, whereas I'm comparing your definition to the one that the people who you claim are "doing feminism wrong" have. These three groups might all give themselves the same label, but to judge all three groups are equally bad for gender equality simply because they share a common label does not make sense, nor does it follow that the label itself is bad or that the doctrine/agenda of that label is bad, since there is no c…
/r/MensRights05/11/21 08:09 PM
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I think you may be right, I have spent many years of my life following the feminist doctrine, only to arrive at my current conclusions of the movement. In other words, I have little interest in listening to more contritious hyperbolic postulation... Thank you for taking the time to respond though.
/r/MensRights05/11/21 04:19 PM
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I'm not saying that at all. I fully agree that harm has been perpetrated in the name of feminism (both intentionally and unintentionally). That doesn't make all people who call themselves feminist bad; it makes some people who call themselves feminist bad at being feminist (using the word 'feminist' as they themselves would use it, to mean promoting gender equality.) This is literally no true Scotsman again. People who are malicious are (in your opinion) misguided or are "bad at being feminist".…
/r/MensRights05/11/21 03:13 PM
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You are employing a classic feminist motte and bailey by indicating that you believe that feminism is synonymous with gender equality. Therefore any pushback on anything that feminism stands for is automatically categorised as harmful to gender equality. What you believe and what is actually happening due directly to feminism are two different things entirely, and go back to my previous statement about the no true Scotsman fallacy. If feminism stands for equality, why is it not called egalitaria…
/r/MensRights05/11/21 01:30 PM
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What do you expect when men's spaces are constantly eroded or invaded for the sake of 'inclusion'?
/r/MensRights05/11/21 08:12 AM
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Feminist wishes she had more chances of being murdered or assaulted on buses and trains. Hahah, holy shit. Title champ right here. Basically points out their cognitive bias. They are all strong and empowered women who 'don't need no man', until there is actual danger or inconvenience... That's when they screech for men to put themselves in danger to save them.
/r/MensRights05/11/21 07:55 AM
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He was accused of sending inappropriate messages to other staff around the time he criticised Rudge of discrimination. However, Judge Broughton said Mr Champayne would have rightfully faced a gross misconduct investigation anyway over allegations of 'inappropriate' messages and 'potential' sexual harassment. He would have been investigated on the allegations of inappropriate messages and 'potential' sexual harassment. These investigations never took place to determine whether or not the allegati…
/r/MensRights04/11/21 11:21 PM
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Yikes, consequences avoided by the racist sexist lady AND she got the media to spin her as the victim. My condolences to anyone who ever tries to blow the whistle on this kind of discrimination in the future
/r/MensRights04/11/21 11:09 PM
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Self-love is an interesting concept. Primarily because it has become (or always has been?) less about actually appreciating yourself, but rather has become a way for women to tell each other "you don't need to change, you're perfect. Society needs to change to accommodate you". Whereas for men it is primarily a case of "you can be better, you can improve yourself in order to be accepted by society". These dynamics are incredibly prevalent, now even more so than ever thanks to social media.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 11:01 PM
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The same logical fallacy applies both ways though. You claim feminism is about equality. We claim that feminism is harmful to equality due to the constant and historic advocacy of male-hostile legislation. You claim that that's not true feminism.
/r/MensRights04/11/21 10:56 PM
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Feminism isn't really about raising up women, well not all women anyway. Only the few women who actually stand to profit from it significantly. If feminism was about raising up women, it would not demean or discredit women who are successful in their own right without attributing their successes to feminism. It would not tear down women who are strong and independent in their pursuit of their own personal goals, which are at odds with feminist doctrine such as women who strive to be great mother…
/r/MensRights04/11/21 10:50 PM
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I personally know of at least four women who jumped on the STEM bandwagon when it took off, thinking they would finally have a career they would like. None of them lasted longer than a year before quitting, and looking for jobs in other fields. Another thing I saw with these same people is that they were generally offered highly paid positions as entry level software engineers, straight as trainees, earning as much as some of my 5+ year experienced colleagues. The only difference is, they put in…
/r/MensRights04/11/21 02:37 PM
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When we spin this argument around, what's to stop women from going into STEM fields? There was never anything stopping women from pursuing careers in these fields, and many actually successfully made those choices long before affirmative action became commonplace.. Yet here we are with active pushes for "gender diversity" to press women into STEM, and in the process devalue these career paths in the process
/r/MensRights04/11/21 02:31 PM
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"Nice guy" syndrome is a symptom of society's overvaluation of male sexuality. Men are expected to lose their virginity early and have many sexual partners in order to be 'successful'. This places the burden on men to pursue in order to have 'worth'. Once men stop buying into this nonsense, it starts to unravel the issue that we currently have with 'incels' and 'nice guys', as it removes the societal pressure. Edit: also probably remove the links to subs like TwoX to prevent brigading
/r/MensRights04/11/21 06:13 AM
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Pretty funny that this kind of mentality automatically classes any woman, even those who legitimately outperformed other candidates, as 'diversity hires'. It's a celebration of mediocrity in order for them to pat themselves on the back for being "woke" and "diverse", which just hurts everyone in the end.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 04:21 PM
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I like this one, it keeps the scope of argument tight and lets you reel discussions back to an airtight argument. It's also probably one of the least incendiary or accusatory discussion points to make on men's rights.
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:58 AM
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Bookmarked. Thanks for the well sourced rant
/r/MensRights03/11/21 11:54 AM
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They always give me a very hard time about it, always saying there's no need for men's rights movements, that I'm and incel (which I'm obviously not, being friends with them...) and that mainstream feminism is not a men hating movement and a mostly good thing. First of all: that mainstream feminism is not a men hating movement and a mostly good thing. What is 'mainstream feminism'? Get them to define it. And why is it only 'mostly' a good thing? What do they find bad about it. What good is it do…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 10:31 AM
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Funny how each one of these exemplifies feminism in a nutshell. They claim women are not responsible for their choices, blame patriarchy, claim misogyny, when women do wrong they fall back to blaming 'historic oppression of women by men', sidelining men's issues via 'but women have it worse', just plain old blaming men and last but not least, projection. They ticked every box themselves, but inevitability lack the self awareness to realize that feminists have resorted to each one of these points…
/r/MensRights03/11/21 10:17 AM
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Have you got some handy stats ready that we can throw out at these kinds of claims?
/r/MensRights03/11/21 10:13 AM
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It was always a mixed bag honestly, some would just go off somewhere else together... Some would split, and ditch the minors.. Others would plead with or harass us. We were lucky that we never had any real shit go down at any of our events or establishments
/r/MensRights03/11/21 06:46 AM
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That's not the point. The point is that the establishment is actively enforcing the rules in a legal capacity. There will always be people who will try to circumvent those rules even by criminal means, it's not humanly possible to catch everyone who does this. By your logic, we should not even bother with checking IDs, because people would just use fake ones? Why stop there? Take all warning labels off products and let the issue solve itself...
/r/MensRights02/11/21 06:22 PM
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A large public event (18+) including alcohol for example. Had people try to get in with dyed hair and obscuring clothing on at least one occasion
/r/MensRights02/11/21 02:38 PM
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This outrage culture is such a bunch of manufactured nonsense and takes away from real issues in the world. Yes, but that's how they stay relevant. It's a classic case of the squeakiest wheel gets the grease. How else would they fund their multi million dollar agenda?
/r/MensRights02/11/21 10:31 AM
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Gonna be dropping these in my dad group again this year. Last year there were some arguments from two dads that "men's day is every day and women have it worse". Keen to see how the tune goes over this time around. Edit: So i dropped it in the group today and we had a pretty good discussion on men's issues and men's health. The two dads from last time were completely quiet this time around.
/r/MensRights02/11/21 10:28 AM
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"Women urged to campaign for end to male homelessness", and other things we'll never see....
/r/MensRights02/11/21 06:57 AM
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When I trained in security, the requirement was to inspect EVERYONE'S ID. No matter what. We caught out so many minors (mostly groups of girls) trying to sneak into clubs on a daily basis because of this... Depending on the type of event, the requirement was to check the IDs of people who look older (gray hair, etc..). Most of those people actually went along with it so it wasn't an inconvenience. If a place is strictly 18+ or 21+ or whatever, these rules need to be enforced by the establishment…
/r/MensRights02/11/21 06:50 AM
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If in doubt, get a second opinion. Take that however you like.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 05:34 PM
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Classic divide and conquer approach. Works every time. Also explains why the doctrine has wormed it's way into most facets of society. At the end of the day the only thing that wins is feminism itself, and the few feminists at the top who profit off it.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 11:57 AM
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I wonder how the media will spin this to turn the perpetrators into victims... Will it be abuse by family, mental health issues, or will it be something else? Place your bets ladies and gentlemen.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 10:22 AM
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I saw this and called it out the moment I saw it. Instant argument IRL... The fun thing is, the men's rights activists are caricatured in such a way that they mirror actual feminists. People seem to love the character, I just see her as an obsessive, controlling individual that has little to no respect for boundaries for most of the series. In the end, it's a feminist driven show with a political feminist agenda. Guess why Aziz Ansari is involved...
/r/MensRights01/11/21 09:51 AM
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Disregarded what you said and made up a fictitious moral high ground by bashing you as an incel.
/r/MensRights01/11/21 09:44 AM
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However, many have expressed displeasure with the way Levine reacted to this situation, with some feeling as though he was looking down on the overenthusiastic fan. One person tweeted that he ‘should cancel his shows if he’s going to treat the people that make him as if they are diseases’, while another scolded him, ‘You need to lay off the attitude and find what is humble.’ What the fuck is wrong with these people?! Consent applies to both men and women. Just because he's a celebrity doesn't me…
/r/MensRights01/11/21 09:43 AM
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Phonetically they are both as ridiculous as each other. It just plays into your personal biases as to which you dislike or like more. What do you think of genucide? Stemming from genus, the Latin for gender.
/r/MensRights31/10/21 06:20 AM
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It's absolutely bewildering to me that this approach is often encouraged for the mothers, and yet at the same time the court argues that it's "in the interest of the child".. If it truly was in the interest of the child, would these stalling and dismissing tactics not be sidelined, true hard facts be presented in order to resolve the case as quickly as possible? But realistically we all know " in the interest of the child" just means "in the interest of the court and the mother"... What a fuckin…
/r/MensRights31/10/21 06:15 AM
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Also, gendercide is a stupid word. There has to be something better come on What's your take on 'feminicide'?
/r/MensRights31/10/21 05:46 AM
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That really sucks, what other options do you have career-wise that don't involve direct personal contact? I know of people who work as diesel mechanics out in the Australian desert who only rarely deal with people, and mainly spend time driving from checkpoint to checkpoint maintaining the heavy drilling stuff there.. Maybe something like this could fit your areas of expertise, or some kind of niche job.
/r/MensRights29/10/21 09:27 PM
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Can completely relate and confirm. An extended family member of mine survived a deadly conflict where his entire unit was killed. The military didn't even want to recognise the issues he faced after. He was no longer able to function in everyday life, and was denied proper assistance by the military and state. His immediate family had to fight tooth and nail with military and state officials to first of all get recognition of the trauma (meanwhile the military tried to discredit him by stating t…
/r/MensRights29/10/21 04:41 PM
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Also likely because the optimal outcome for the state and military is that wounded or veterans who have been in conflict don't come back. That way they can throw empty platitudes at the surviving family members about 'heroism'. When veterans return, and inevitably require treatment for their severe PTSD among other things, they are discarded faster than you can say "mental health".
/r/MensRights29/10/21 04:29 PM
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Jesus Christ... He suffers from service-connected post-traumatic stress disorder, and his 2-year-old Belgian Malinois Sunshine was his Veterans Affairs-prescribed treatment, according to an official letter from the VA provided to Military Times by Rohrer. They tazed his fucking service dog after it responded to him being in distress... The dog then got hit by a car and died, meanwhile he was tormented by the cops.. What a fucking society that treats the people who give their lives for their coun…
/r/MensRights29/10/21 11:55 AM
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In Germany both parents have a combined pool of parental leave per child. They can divide it among themselves however the parents see fit. An approach like this is the best IMO, that way the parents can decide or divide it on a case by case basis. That being said, paternity leave is just as important as maternity leave. Fathers should have the opportunity to bond with their children, even at a young age. I took parental leave right after we had our first child, and I'm glad I did because it woul…
/r/MensRights29/10/21 09:12 AM
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Scientists have been "on the verge" of developing a good male contraceptive for years now. Each time something happens that torpedoes it before it reaches the market. iirc the latest one a few years back went through human trials but was cancelled because a few of the men who tried it ended up killing themselves. It wasn't established that the contraceptive was the cause, not that it wasn't. The worrying part was some folks calling to continue primarily because "women have suffered for years, no…
/r/MensRights29/10/21 05:58 AM
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how do you not see that toxic masculinity implies that traits that are inherently masculine are toxic? This means that immutable characteristics that define a gender are being labelled as being harmful to society. I have done enough research on the term and feminism to know where i stand. People who 'suggest' that others "do some research" off the cuff in order to discredit generally don't argue in good faith. Men are being feminized in the west through aggressive pushes by movements like femini…
/r/MensRights28/10/21 06:59 PM
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Yes. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-us-canada-55460888.amp https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.dispatch.com/news/20190206/all-girl-boy-scout-troop-starts-in-ohio%3ftemplate=ampart Obligatory reddit post: https://www.reddit.com/r/facepalm/comments/aqimzv/allgirl_boy_scout_troop/
/r/MensRights28/10/21 05:36 PM
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Thanks for the link. I tried to follow it down to the sources, but those were all danish PDF documents which i haven't been able to make heads or tails of yet...
/r/MensRights28/10/21 03:46 PM
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A form of "punching up". Basically an attempt to say it's discrimination but not actually discrimination because of some perceived form of innate privilege due to race or gender. Basically something a sexist racist would say.
/r/MensRights28/10/21 08:54 AM
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Until visitation is involved..
/r/MensRights28/10/21 06:42 AM
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Just like the boy scouts... "Let girls join". Then it became " change the name to be more inclusive". Then it became "we're splintering off a girl-only variant".
/r/MensRights28/10/21 06:39 AM
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Do you have a link to the sources or data? Maybe we can try to weed through it together to get some clarity
/r/MensRights28/10/21 06:23 AM
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Absolutely! “I’m for men’s rights and all, but you gotta admit that women are paid less.” My response would be: "I completely agree, women should definitely start working more hours on average and start participating in the super dangerous but lucrative jobs that men primarily do. I also agree that educational institutions and workplaces should put in place more programmes to lure men into safer but less lucrative jobs that are primarily fielded by women. Especially since men are outnumbered alm…
/r/MensRights28/10/21 04:20 AM
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And it was mentioned support against abuse in family and ofc it was mainly women being abused by men (which ofc happens more often) and she mentioned that it women can abuse men to. Not to be pedantic, but does it happen more often? In the US for example: Almost 24% of all relationships had some violence, and half (49.7%) of those were reciprocally violent. In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articl…
/r/MensRights27/10/21 10:36 PM
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Fair enough, i agree that there is a stigma against men who seek help from mental health services, no doubt about that.. To encourage men to make more use of these services, we need to weed out all the toxicity that is so prevalent within these services and the way they are structured. For example a lot of them still reference the duluth model mindset, which, if you don't know basically always puts men as the aggressor/perpetrator and the woman as the victim in every scenario. There have been co…
/r/MensRights27/10/21 06:49 PM
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"Toxic Masculinity" is a feminist dogwhistle that's intended to shame men for their innate 'maleness'. This is the swipe that i was referring to, also the fact that the representative is trying to bring attention to the attempted feminisation of men in the west (albeit by telling mothers to raise "monsters" which is sending the wrong message). The fact that the representative is a republican, which the woke crowd is at odds with kind of seals this as a whole package. The fact that the candidate'…
/r/MensRights27/10/21 06:40 PM
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The biggest problem is that they don't seek mental health help. I can't tell you how wrong you are. Many of my brother in law's peers who suffered the same actively tried to get assistance from mental health professionals. It's not the victims who are to blame here... Mental health should not be pushed on anyone by force. It should be encouraged, yes, the stigma should be ended. That being said, mental health should first and foremost be taken away from the gynocentrism that it is infested with.…
/r/MensRights27/10/21 04:08 PM
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I understand the 14 year old boy was super horny So you're saying it's okay because the child, who was underage was apparently horny? Big yikes, would you feel the same about a male teacher when the girl is "super horny". Either way, it's statutory rape. She had a duty of care.
/r/MensRights27/10/21 04:03 PM
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As sad as it is to say but the best outcome for the military/government after combat deployment is that the soldiers die on duty. This way they get to circlejerk about heroism without having to provide any after care. When soldiers retire and inevitability suffer from PTSD they have outlived their usefulness to the military and are discarded instead of being provided with the necessary care. We really need to start treating those who lay their lives on the line with more dignity when they end up…
/r/MensRights27/10/21 09:19 AM
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At the risk of inviting down votes, would this mean that Joe biden has sexually assaulted many strangers including minors? Or does this only apply to select people via cancel culture?
/r/MensRights27/10/21 07:39 AM
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Hmm, calls them pedo, refuses to mention that it was rape. Also, I hate how they post a bunch of glam photos to manipulate readers. I get that journalists scour social media for photos to use, but stop sensationalising these fucking criminals. Just use the mugshot that's provided...
/r/MensRights27/10/21 05:31 AM
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For posterity's sake: Symptoms of prostate cancer can include: - needing to pee more frequently, often during the night. - needing to rush to the toilet. - difficulty in starting to pee (hesitancy) - straining or taking a long time while peeing. - weak flow. - feeling that your bladder has not emptied fully. - blood in urine or blood in semen. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/prostate-cancer/symptoms/
/r/MensRights25/10/21 08:02 AM
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Wasn't it also only for reciprocal violence, and that nonreciprocal violence is overwhelmingly perpetrated by women?
/r/MensRights25/10/21 07:17 AM
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"Be thankful" Lmao, a blatant threat of violence. And yet it slides because "equality", imagine a man was pictured holding a severed head of a woman with the headline "be thankful men strive for equality not oppression, just saying".. Social media and mainstream media would lose their collective shits and the poster would be banned/doxxed and/or hounded off the face of the earth
/r/MensRights24/10/21 03:54 PM
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Do you split the bill, or do you straight up not pay at all?
/r/MensRights23/10/21 04:03 PM
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Imo first date is generally better having something quick like tea/coffee with cake. That way it's usually under 10 bucks and either party can bail quickly. Second date like you say.
/r/MensRights23/10/21 04:02 PM
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Next! Seriously though, if she wants to play games, ask you to choose and then decline by asking for something else, then you're better off spending your time on/with someone that values it. These kinds of people either have no idea what they want and will make it up as they go (good luck with your mystery bag), or they know exactly what they want and are expecting you to magically guess this somehow. Also: "Foodie" translates to "treat me to fancy/expensive foods often"
/r/MensRights23/10/21 03:59 PM
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Bruh... Trashing a woman for being single after she died? Get outta here
/r/MensRights22/10/21 05:07 PM
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Good on you for stepping in. Saved an innocent young man from ending up in jail or worse. What I find amazing is that his parents actually seemed to realize the value of what you did.
/r/MensRights22/10/21 03:33 PM
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The crux of the issue is: actions have consequences. These kinds of people are generally incapable of processing or facing the consequences that their actions have, often blaming them on the recipients. Another issue is the lack of foresight based on actual real-world precedents. Intention X must result in Y, without considering that, like you said, intentions very rarely ever result in the intended way. Often times, any related variables, or necessary requirements are invalidated or handwaved a…
/r/MensRights22/10/21 10:14 AM
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Thanks for compiling this evidence of misandry at a government level. The fact that they were willing to oppose assistance for men which was sorely needed, shows how feminists don't really mean "feminism is for men, too" positively. The phrase "feminism is for men, too" is more an indicator that men should champion women's (or rather, feminism's goals only).
/r/MensRights22/10/21 08:02 AM
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I really wish I could give you some try helpful advice, but sadly I don't know what your options are at this point, aside from continuing with how things are going... Your father has complete control over your life via your daughter and seems like he is using that fact to try and regain control of his... If possible, try to plan an exit strategy where you revert the custody claims. How exactly that's gonna work will depend on how good the legal professionals are that can help you. This will also…
/r/MensRights22/10/21 06:05 AM
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Turns out i signed a full custody agreement, basically under duress What?! First of all, what a fucked up situation.. Secondly, what kind of fucked up family do you have, that they would steal your own child from you? ​ My condolences that all this crap happened to you, at the very least you are able to spend time with your daughter now. Being a parent as well, i can attest to how important this is. Hang in there mate, keep being the best dad for her that you can possibly be.
/r/MensRights21/10/21 06:48 PM
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All this feminist propaganda is bearing fruit. Deadbeat mothers are given a free pass, as they have a multitude of excuses that are being provided by the dogma, whereas deadbeat fathers and those who are forcibly alienated from their children against their will are vilified. Another issue is that there is no support for men in these situations, nobody wants to hear the male side of things because then there is nobody to blame, as opposed to working through a complicated issue and finding a resol…
/r/MensRights21/10/21 10:23 AM
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Not sure why you would want to make yourself a deliberate target of this lunatic and her followers... You can bet this will be the topic of her conversation for the foreseeable future. You may need to find a different college to continue the program, as you may hit a wall here. Besides, your student fees are going towards paying her...
/r/MensRights20/10/21 10:14 AM
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North Carolina’s Republican representative Madison Cawthorn claimed society is trying to “de-masculate young men” and urged mothers to raise their sons to be “monsters,” in a blatant display of toxic masculinity Thanks for telling me what to think with your heavily biased reporting, yahoo... Also nice of the journalist to immediately take a swipe at men as a whole right in the first paragraph. Thus kind of subtle manipulation really annoys me in the media, since it's almost impossible to read th…
/r/MensRights19/10/21 09:54 PM
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It's dumb that she quit over it She is throwing a temper tantrum to try and use "gender pay gap" arguments via social media pressure to double dip and get more money for herself without adding any additional value. I would laugh if she ends up with nothing at the end of all this.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 12:13 PM
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I see it more closely falling under reproductive coercion or sperm theft, the latter of which falls under fraud
/r/MensRights18/10/21 12:43 PM
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You'd best buckle up because you're in for a wild ride. There is a significant portion of online SJWs and feminists who consider the handmaid's tale to be actual historical evidence of oppression by "the patriarchy"
/r/MensRights18/10/21 05:51 AM
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Last year, a regional branch of the Women’s Institute recommended one of Mola’s works as part of a selection of books by female authors including Margaret Atwood that could “help us understand the reality and the experiences of women in different periods of history and contribute to raising awareness about rights and freedoms”. Ah yes, feminist organisation puts forward fictional work that portrays a woman's struggle, of course only by accepted female authors. Endorsed author turns out to be 3 m…
/r/MensRights17/10/21 09:51 PM
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Interesting discussion, also the note that nobody has managed to change the OPs mind yet. Vasectomies were brought up, but people forget that this procedure is not as temporary as people think. Especially the more time that passes after the procedure takes place. This is akin to implying that women should just get their tubes tied. Yet when this argument is brought up as a comparison, it's almost always dismissed and claimed "it's worse for women". People need to stop assuming that vasectomies a…
/r/MensRights17/10/21 04:27 PM
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"Well good luck with it" Lmao, pretty much the only thing to say at that point.
/r/MensRights17/10/21 02:03 PM
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This is a large part of the real answer in my opinion. Men need to find self worth in themselves instead of in who they date or have sex with. This is also why virginity for men is still viewed with negativity for men, as if something is defective. It's also why there had been such a rise of incels lately, it's mostly misguided people who are frustrated because they have been conditioned that their self worth is tied to their sexual activity. Teaching men to value themselves outside of this shou…
/r/MensRights16/10/21 11:17 PM
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women have always been the primary victims of war. Hillary Clinton
/r/MensRights15/10/21 12:51 PM
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Amazing how this moral panic now hits home and her argument is that women are basically baby making machines.... This reminds me of the twitter post about sex robots, how a woman responded with "a robot won't wash your clothes or cook your dinner"... All of a sudden their posturing about not wanting traditional gender roles is flipped around
/r/MensRights15/10/21 12:49 PM
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That is really disappointing. I mean, it's great that they are doing something about the discrimination that the indigenous people face. It would be nice, like you say if they applied this standard unilaterally as well.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 11:39 AM
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Through the Commission’s work in almost all areas there is a strong intersect with men and boys and it is not at odds with our vision. Indeed, all people have the same human rights and freedoms and are born free and equal in dignity and rights. Huh??? If all people have the same human rights and freedoms, and are born free and equal, then how come they write this: The Commission is committed to advocating for and protecting the rights of all New Zealanders. However, some groups have historically…
/r/MensRights15/10/21 09:45 AM
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Ah yes, social work. The place where bias is ripe and rampant. I commend you for choosing this field to try and make a difference. Unfortunately this display of blatant unchallenged bias won't be the first you'll encounter.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 03:08 AM
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"If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve my best" kinda energy
/r/MensRights14/10/21 09:29 PM
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You could make women feel safe by stopping the constant fear mongering by feminist organisations that women are likely to be harassed, raped or murdered statistically every day. You could also make women feel safe by enacting symbolic changes into society or legislation. This would change nothing about their safety. An important thing to note is, you cannot appease everyone's feelings. What we as a society CAN do, is make society safer for men and women. This way, people will actually BE safe, r…
/r/MensRights14/10/21 01:04 PM
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He's well aware of what mankind actually stands for, but he's trying to win brownie points from the feminists that he's surrounding himself with so that he can pat himself on the back for being woke
/r/MensRights13/10/21 11:37 AM
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What are their sources? Or are they blowing hot air out of their asses again to instigate public discord? Can't wait for smoothbrains to jump on their quote as if it's some kind of statistic or fact and use it to push an agenda
/r/MensRights13/10/21 05:45 AM
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Manslaughter with one month of community service, to be served in the comfort of her own home?
/r/MensRights12/10/21 04:28 PM
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I prefer to call it 'peoplekind' Canadian prime minister Justin Trudeau, trying to get his feminist cookie
/r/MensRights12/10/21 04:26 PM
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I get what you and the other user are saying. Just remember that it's not only women who are feminists, but also many men who push to KAM.. Which is precisely why it matters when calling out women as a whole like in the other user's post, as opposed to the actual group of people who are advocating for killing all men (feminists). It's an important distinction to make
/r/MensRights12/10/21 07:00 AM
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bUt ItS aLL jUsT sAtIrE! /s
/r/MensRights12/10/21 06:17 AM
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So you mean because some men enjoy that kind of humor, that all men must automatically enjoy it too? And that by extension men are not individual beings capable of independent thought, in order to be offended by a phrase such as this? Why are women offended by a flipped version then when there are also women out there who enjoy that kind of dark humour?
/r/MensRights11/10/21 08:22 PM
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It seems as though she has received no backlash from the university, who continues to publish and thereby endorse her opinions. The comment section is also pretty toxic there... Whether or not this one will mature out of this depends on the kind of affirmation she receives for publishing these kinds of things. At this rate, given the positive response and endorsements from her peers, it seems unlikely. Rather that this will be radicalised further down the road...
/r/MensRights11/10/21 08:19 PM
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You mean because of this: "So the humor and irony of the phrase are clear, but its purpose runs deeper than comedic catharsis. It exposes the unnoticeable nuance of misandry that pervades the lives of all women. Further, it shows how deeply misandry is embedded into the fabric of our culture, and how men and women are socialized alongside those beliefs. Perhaps some of the most dangerous elements of any form of prejudice are the insidious ways in which it bleeds into everyday life. "? Flipped ar…
/r/MensRights11/10/21 08:17 PM
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I wouldn't really put it this way... Women definitely are capable of horrific things regardless of whether or not they are weaponised, just as men are... Women are able to run a society without men. Granted it would be a different society than one we live in currently. Same goes for a society without women. I get your sentiment, but I think vilifying women as a whole is no better than the feminists who write articles like this. Not to mention it also excludes women who do not buy into the femini…
/r/MensRights11/10/21 08:14 PM
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The fact that the university of California in Santa Barbara has decided to endorse this absolute mind fill of an opinion is a good indicator of what male students on their campus should expect to have to deal with...
/r/MensRights11/10/21 08:09 PM
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the phrase has attracted negative attention Well no shit from the MRA and incel communities respectively Oh, so firstly mentioning incels to discredit any criticism, secondly lumping in men's rights advocates with incels to discredit us too. They understand it as a personal insult, as a sentiment meant to attack every man on Earth individually Well, yeah. The phrase is literally to kill all men... What's not to understand here? The fact that lunatics like this exist who try to explain away and d…
/r/MensRights11/10/21 08:06 PM
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Good stuff, definitely a documentary that more people should see, regardless of prior misconceptions.
/r/MensRights11/10/21 03:46 PM
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For all this talk of inclusiveness, they sure aren't very inclusive when it comes to men's issues...
/r/MensRights11/10/21 12:48 PM
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Theoretically, there is no reason men should not be qualified. But they have proved remarkably unable to adapt. Maybe if they pushed for more men in these fields, like they have been doing for women in STEM and middle-upper corporate management, we'd see a sharp incline in men occupying these fields too...
/r/MensRights11/10/21 07:47 AM
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Across all specific offence groups examined4 , there was an association between the sex of the offender and the odds of imprisonment whereby males were more likely to be imprisoned than females. The association varied across offence groups. For example, the analysis found small increases of 35% in the odds of imprisonment for males within shoplifting or theft (non-motor), but large increases of 267% for violence against the person and public order and harassment offences, and 362% for drug impor…
/r/MensRights11/10/21 07:41 AM
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the issue with you is that you take everything i say and assume that i mean the opposite for men. you will literally never learn another thing in life w this mentality. picking apart every word i say and devaluing the meaning is wrong and u know it. This is because you have already indicated that mentioning men's rights is insulting because due to the apex fallacy, men shouldn't advocate for their issues. You're free to feel how you like, the reason why i "pick apart" what you write, is because …
/r/MensRights10/10/21 07:17 PM
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He's right, as much as I dislike the guy. Good on him for not jumping on the crazy train here. Of course feminist outlets are spinning this as him dismissing the issue of sexual harassment as mere "locker room talk" or "harmless wolf whistling/catcalling", which is a dangerous oversimplification. It comes after the Prime Minister brushed off calls to formally recognise misogyny as a hate crime. He instead arguing the 'abundance' of existing laws should be better enforced rather than new legislat…
/r/MensRights10/10/21 04:40 PM
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women are in further need due to the effects of rape has on her body What about the effects that rape has on men's bodies? Do they not also deserve the same kind of assistance? they will be in need of menstrual products and could have children w them as well. they need specialized care when it comes to these situations and to ignore that is simply ridiculous Sure, menstrual products are something that doesn't affect men here as much, but men can also be in the same situation with children in tow…
/r/MensRights10/10/21 04:26 PM
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obviously women are in more need of these services/specifically for them bc they could need prenatal care or to be away from men in fear of abuse. Just to clarify, why would women need these services more than men in exact same situations? If a woman needs to be away from men in fear of abuse, should not men also have the necessary options to be away from women in fear of abuse? republican agenda is literally designed against women and especially low/middle class women Which part of the republic…
/r/MensRights10/10/21 03:29 PM
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but you can never deny that this world is run by men Not by choice, but by necessity. And I find it more fitting that instead of saying "the world is run by men", it's more appropriate to say "men continue to make the wheels of society turn"
/r/MensRights10/10/21 02:21 PM
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TIL Male Privilege means being used as a stepping stone for a female supremacist movement.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 02:17 PM
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The crazy thing is how many people still think that she is being unjustly treated, and how many people still believe that the taxi driver raped her. Poor guy has lost the respect of his community which he will never regain, and yet she laments that she won't get her dream job after something that SHE did... Bit late in life to realize that actions have consequences, but better late than never
/r/MensRights10/10/21 06:25 AM
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It seems that you either intentionally or unintentionally misread what I wrote. saying that feminists are the reason why r*pists and murderers do what they do is very dismissing I wrote that the prime reasons why there is a lot of fear and suspicion of men as a whole in society now is due to fear mongering identity politics that are pushed primarily by feminism. you're basically invalidating their trauma and saying that the victim is the reason for the culprit commiting the crime By calling said…
/r/MensRights09/10/21 07:55 AM
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What makes you believe this?
/r/MensRights09/10/21 07:40 AM
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Fathers really are invisible on TV and in Movies. Except when they are the butt of everyone's jokes, or portrayed as hopelessly incompetent in order for (female or minority) lead to step in and take over
/r/MensRights08/10/21 12:33 PM
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Anyone got sources to actual figures? Somehow the 3x likelihood to attempt seems incorrect.
/r/MensRights08/10/21 12:22 PM
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to solve an imaginary problem. Also so that they could pat themselves on the back for being 'progressive' or woke, and to try and cash in via virtue signalling
/r/MensRights07/10/21 06:43 PM
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How can I proof her wrong? You can do this: I told her that i want to be a lawyer to help men in family court Do exactly what you set out to do. Be successful in your own right and prove with your own actions that she is worth nothing as a mother to you. Don't do it all for her though. Do it for yourself and what you believe in. I'm sure your father will be proud of you no matter what.
/r/MensRights06/10/21 09:40 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Circular_reporting the situation can be intentionally contrived by the original source as a way of reinforcing the widespread belief in its information.
/r/MensRights05/10/21 04:36 PM
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No shit, its the court of public opinion. A SJW's favourite character assassination option nowadays because fuck evidence and due process, because those get in the way of outrage porn and kneejerk virtue signalling opportunities
/r/MensRights05/10/21 03:32 PM
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Your feelings don't exist to others, you exist for others. Addendum to this is: your feelings as a man are an achievement for romantic partners in the sense that they will have gotten a man to open up to them intimately. Afterwards these emotions and feelings from male partners become burdensome or a nuisance at which point the man is often shamed into putting them back in the proverbial box, never to be opened again.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 02:26 PM
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Because most men who have been circumcised will need to come to terms with the fact that they have been mutilated against their will. It's an incredibly inconvenient and uncomfortable reality to have to face, so it's generally easier to keep ignoring it and living in blissful ignorance.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 02:24 PM
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The idea that "feminism is only about equality" is one big Motte and Bailey Fallacy. Pretty much spot on. When put in question with undeniable proof, it becomes "feminism is only about equality for women". Which means even less than the initial implication, because it's impossible to have something be equal for only one party. And yet at the same time, like you say, it creates a motte in the sense of "do you not want women to be equal?!".
/r/MensRights03/10/21 07:34 PM
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The patriarchy is a feminist dogwhistle which doubles as a scapegoat. Its easy to blame things on a fictional construct in order to reinforce a political movement, mainly because it's easy to scale it to fit the need, and because there is no need to prove it exists. The nature of "the patriarchy" is flexible enough to fulfil the self reinforcing prophecy requirement that feminism needs to stay relevant nowadays.
/r/MensRights03/10/21 07:30 PM
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I'll start you off with this: http://www.johndclare.net/Women2_Lang_WhyFailed.htm Its pretty comprehensive on the issue of women's suffrage and the role that the suffragettes played in the hindrance of it's success. Something like this might also be an interesting short read: https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2018/jun/10/suffragettes-did-commit-terrorist-acts It might also be helpful to read up on Millicent Fawcett and the NUWSS, which splintered from the suffragettes, and was essentially a p…
/r/MensRights03/10/21 01:10 PM
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It's amazing how successful feminism's historical revisionism has been, that so many people forget it's terroristic roots. Feminism was founded by suffragettes, who carried out domestic arson attacks and bombings before and around the first world war. They actually nearly caused women's suffrage to fail with their terroristic actions. In the end they attributed women's suffrage to themselves while it came about due to discussions behind closed doors from both men and women who were not affiliate…
/r/MensRights03/10/21 10:54 AM
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I actually came here to write something similar, but you sourced and compiled it excellently
/r/MensRights03/10/21 10:45 AM
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Because these cases are always dismissed since it complicates their narrative
/r/MensRights03/10/21 10:01 AM
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If I went and killed someone based on the negative karma bombers I received from my comment could I hold others accountable? Firstly, pretty sure you're getting close to skirting the reddit rules. Secondly, it's a false equivalent. Receiving down votes is in no way relevant to lying about someone having raped you, and inciting violence against that person. Still not sure how a judge is mean to take a definitive position on this A judge won't take this position, and that's the main issue. People …
/r/MensRights02/10/21 05:49 PM
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Precisely this, if showing kindness affection and courtesy towards others regardless of gender is a good way to normalise showing these things without any sort of connotations.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 01:40 PM
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the people present failed to do the right thing and detain them both until the truth and facts of a matter could be established Sure, in theory you are right, but in practice this is incredibly unrealistic. She didn't kill that man, her actions seemed to cause a reaction that resulted in his death She killed him by proxy. Inciting violence through manipulation and deception.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 01:38 PM
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What about "yeah but these situations occur so rarely that it's not a REAL issue"
/r/MensRights02/10/21 01:36 PM
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Didn't even have to read the article to know that it's yet another laundry list of generalised expectations and/or demands for the opposite sex. God forbid when a man has vague preferences about his romantic partners though...
/r/MensRights02/10/21 01:34 PM
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Successful rebranding of failure
/r/MensRights02/10/21 01:32 PM
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At first glance she looked like amber heard, so i was a bit surprised that someone would approach her after what happened to johnny... but so not surprised by these 'revelations'. Just another ploy to try and extort someone via trial by social media/public opinion
/r/MensRights02/10/21 09:06 AM
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All these women are going to actively pursue a guy. Maybe this might start a change eventually which could become beneficial for men in the sense that men won't be the primary pursuers or initiators in the dating world anymore.
/r/MensRights02/10/21 07:00 AM
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Saving Private Ryan could become Saving Private Ryanna - Seagant Joanna Miller is given the task of finding Ryanna whose 3 sisters have been killed in the war. All the soldiers are played by females and many female deaths are shown through out the whole film. Nothing but wave after wave of female body parts spraying across the screen. I always still vividly remember the knife scene.. I wonder how people would react when both parties were women...
/r/MensRights02/10/21 06:38 AM
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That's honestly not a good response to someone who is suicidal. Shaming them for being "privileged" is just a race to the bottom of the barrel. This is exactly the kind of reason that OP seems to be considering their course of action. The dismissal of being at the end of their rope because you believe someone else has it worse, is just plain ridiculous and insensitive.
/r/MensRights01/10/21 04:35 PM
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What? Female supremacy, greater physical endurance? If women have eclipsed men in many things, would it not then imply that men are in fact in need of affirmative action to make them equal to women again? That is assuming of course that equality is what is desired, and not as they state: "female supremacy". I guess now that they technically reached their goal they can start letting the facade slip
/r/MensRights01/10/21 04:25 PM
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Gotta reward people for wasting their time through getting a gender studies degree somehow...
/r/MensRights30/09/21 03:54 PM
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I was opening a bank account last week and explored five different banks and all of them had special "women savings accounts" which give more interest, lower charges, etc. Makes it obvious which gender is paying extra to make these kind of deductions possible
/r/MensRights30/09/21 02:56 PM
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all this "suicide is gender neutral" argument would suddenly disappear in their eyes. Wonder how they would feel about "keeping domestic violence gender neutral"
/r/MensRights29/09/21 01:42 PM
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Funny how feminists complain that allegedly men come into posts uplifting women, to make it about men... Yet they do the exact same thing
/r/MensRights29/09/21 08:32 AM
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Wonder what would have happened if you had an 'acceptable' post history of only feminist centric stuff. What a lot of these volatile people will do, is comb through your profile to find something they disagree with, slap a label on you "mysogynist", " homophobe", "trump supporter"... Whatever sticks in order to try and discredit your talking points. Best not to dwell in those circles.
/r/MensRights28/09/21 03:45 PM
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For some it's the: "Yes all men, but not me" that comes by association. For others it's the belief that they can cover up or repent for their own transgressions by toeing the line. Some are just trying to deflect any criticism and hatred by siding with the bully per se. Some are just there to pick up whatever crumbs of vag they can get... There are of course some who don't know any better and just believe women are oppressed or feminism is actually about equality.
/r/MensRights28/09/21 12:27 PM
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So neutral masculine traits such as being strong, firm, stoic, decisive and leading are now toxic Does this mean that hyper aggression, machismo and other, more destructive traits are not toxic? Or are those automatically lumped into that category too? Regardless, the way they are pushing men into hyperfeminine traits seems to go hand in hand with the increasing amount of articles by women asking "where have all the good men gone!?" They literally force men into feminine behaviour, but in the en…
/r/MensRights28/09/21 05:39 AM
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Don't forget, now she has another lifeline: she was allegedly being abused by her business partner and boyfriend, which seems to somehow give her a pass
/r/MensRights26/09/21 07:32 AM
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It makes me feel ashamed to be a man sometimes, until I remember that it's not MEN who are causing this problem, but r*pists and murderers. It's not even mostly rapists and murderers who are causing this... It's primarily feminists, since it's easier to control people with fear it makes it an incredibly useful tool to further their agenda. All feminists have to do is fear monger and they will retain perceived relevance as to why feminism is still needed in this day and age; to counteract "all th…
/r/MensRights26/09/21 06:42 AM
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Classic case of: hard times grow strong people. Strong people create easy times. Easy times grow weak people, which cause hard times.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 07:29 AM
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As a whole, who knows... Then again, what is the US doing to address this issue? You know, other than punishing boys for their gender and stripping them of their rights one by one
/r/MensRights25/09/21 07:24 AM
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Not a move I expected from China to be honest. Throughout history it's always been important for boys to learn healthy masculine behaviour from male role models in their lives. Currently however, any and all masculinity is suppressed, vilified or corrupted, so boys grow up not really knowing their place in society, and end up developing all sorts of behavioural problems. Advocating for healthy masculinity and male role models is a big plus not only for boys, but ultimately society as a whole. I'…
/r/MensRights25/09/21 07:20 AM
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Remember when they got grid girls banned in motorsports? Whatever happened to women choosing what they do? Their body their choice? I guess not when it's at odds with what outrage culture supports...
/r/MensRights24/09/21 02:58 PM
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This proves that women are so oppressed because society shows that it's perfectly acceptable to assault women in the street without consequence. Bystanders will even join in on the assault, thanks patriarchy. Wait, no... (Obvious /s)
/r/MensRights24/09/21 02:56 PM
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It plays into the feminist power fantasy, tearing down strong males, subjugating them and/or replacing them with women while over exaggerating the macho and masculinity
/r/MensRights24/09/21 12:57 PM
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And yet its much easier riding on the coattails of successful existing things, corrupting them with feminism and passing them off as "women's accomplishments".
/r/MensRights24/09/21 12:50 PM
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Family time, couple time, and time alone with children contributes significantly to mothers’ and fathers’ well-being. Fathers enjoy family time more than mothers do. Unequal division of labour during family time explains this discrepancy. Weird reasoning. Can confirm though, I enjoy family time more than my partner, but I'm not sure that it's because I also do most of the housework, or planning, etc. During family outings and such. People in the comments act like this is the reasoning that they …
/r/MensRights23/09/21 05:02 PM
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Because it's a staple of the doctrine. Everything can be explained by substituting in "the patriarchy" as a bogeyman. It's the cornerstone of patriarchy theory and why it's so critical to feminism. Without men or "the patriarchy" as scapegoats, there is a real risk of the feminist deception becoming unveiled.
/r/MensRights22/09/21 06:35 AM
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The overwhelming majority of women do not give a single fuck about any men's issue whatsoever And most feminists care deeply enough about men's issues. Deeply enough to the extent that they care about how supposedly giving men's issues any form of attention somehow takes away from women's issues. Deeply enough to boycott, protest and otherwise slander any attempts to raise awareness for men's issues by back seating men and their issues. Deeply enough to pretend that men talking about their issue…
/r/MensRights20/09/21 02:49 PM
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part of me always thinks "You want a mens shelter? Start one! You want mens advocacy? Start it! Make a hashtag, start a social media campaign Funny that this is the response to men's shelters. " do it yourselves ". Yet they won't do the things they are advocating for themselves. Also, when men do go into heavy debt to do things like founding men's shelters, feminists boycott them and cut their federal funding. See: earl Silverman
/r/MensRights20/09/21 01:33 PM
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Why are men being treated like they’re monsters??? Because it's easy to demonize something and tear it down. It's easy and self gratifying with the right justification. It's easier than actually dealing with difficult issues that actually need to be dealt with.
/r/MensRights18/09/21 09:23 PM
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I fired both therapists. Both had a feminist agenda in every conversation. Always talking like I was somehow a bad person and I had to prove that I wasn't. That fucked me up for a while. Flip the script on those feminist therapists: "Marriage is a tool of the patriarchy to oppress and enslave women. I don't believe we should subject women to this in the 21st century" or some nonsense like that. If you base your reasonings loosely on some patriarchy theory bullcrap you can get them to believe you
/r/MensRights18/09/21 12:32 PM
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A family member is getting married soon and everyone is very giddy about it. So one of my aunts look over at me and says “I think you might be next”. Reminds me of that one joke... The one where you start doing that to them at funerals
/r/MensRights18/09/21 12:28 PM
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Putting pressure on men to be sexually active and teaching them they have to get laid to earn respect is one of the main causes of rape/sexual assault and sexual entitlement It's basically the cause of incels. Men who feel disenfranchised because they have been conditioned to believe that their self worth is tied to their sexual activity.
/r/MensRights18/09/21 07:33 AM
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Jeez I would hate to be a man or boy in India... My condolences
/r/MensRights17/09/21 10:26 AM
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Same here, my first thought was "how loud would you have to sing for that to happen?" Lmao
/r/MensRights16/09/21 02:40 PM
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I can barely pay my rent on my own, I need child support to pay the bills! Lmao, now there's a red flag if I ever saw one.... The part "I need child support to pay [my] bills!" Is what so many people think of child support, that it's somehow a free meal ticket from the baby daddy, which is horribly wrong. Child support is meant to support the child. If these people can't live within their means without it, what hope will the children have in their upbringing?
/r/MensRights16/09/21 02:33 PM
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Funny thing is, they refused to acknowledge their loss. A short while after they picked someone at a 350 rating or lower and boasted how they could beat that person...
/r/MensRights16/09/21 07:46 AM
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Reminds me of the top female tennis seeds losing to a sub 200 drunk, out of shape, chain smoking male tennis seed. https://www.theguardian.com/observer/osm/story/0,,543962,00.html
/r/MensRights15/09/21 08:00 PM
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Classic sour grapes
/r/MensRights15/09/21 07:56 PM
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Yet more proof that feminists aim for destructive "equality" wherever "equality" is applicable (as opposed to privilege). Tearing down other things is easier than building something positive using hard work. It's also why you don't see many feminists founding successful companies these days (especially when compares to non feminist women's companies), because it actually is hard work and carries a lot of risk and self sacrifice. Instead, they lobby to have mandatory women placements through all …
/r/MensRights15/09/21 07:53 PM
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It's also due to men being paid based on performance. When they don't play for whatever reason (sick, injured, etc.) They don't get paid for those matches. Women's teams on the other hand have a more fixed salary, they get paid whether or not they play. This in turn means their fixed salary also doesn't scale up with high performance.
/r/MensRights15/09/21 07:48 PM
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Funny how quickly "my body, my choice" becomes: "men's bodies, my choice"... Not entirely unexpected to see an out of touch celebrity having a temper tantrum over not having her feminist way.
/r/MensRights15/09/21 07:46 PM
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Women and men are complimentary to one another.
/r/MensRights14/09/21 10:17 AM
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Let them parrot on about pain tolerance this, pain tolerance that when they are asking for an epidural during birth... It's literally just shitting on men in order to 'empower' themselves for literally having a specific set of chromosomes...
/r/MensRights14/09/21 10:12 AM
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Apex fallacy. Fact is, that had kavanaugh never gone for the position, he would have never been falsely accused. Also funny how dismissively those false accusations are being acknowledged in the image... Especially given how livid people were at the time when anyone dared question the accusations... To verify them as false now, but dismiss them, claiming that in two cases, where one person's reputation was irreparably damaged (though the damage has been mitigated -- kavanaugh), is a kick in the …
/r/MensRights13/09/21 06:18 PM
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Sounds like the start of a positive friendship or at least some form of mateship. I'm really happy for you.
/r/MensRights12/09/21 10:27 AM
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I find places like r/leftwingmaleadvocates and r/egalitarianism great as other sources for men's rights
/r/MensRights11/09/21 05:13 PM
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from paying man tax Hold up, what? Seriously?
/r/MensRights11/09/21 10:52 AM
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relationship contract Excuse me, what? Also, it's a 17-page red flag. If he doesn't bail from that alone, tough shit. Edit: “I made the idea as a joke, then he said, ‘No, seriously. We can do that and talk about it,’ ” ... Additionally, she asked for “a romantic gesture once every two weeks” and to work out “at least five times a week.” Haha holy shit. OK fair enough.. No compassion from me The interesting thing is that these people don't realize that relationships change over time. Unless you'r…
/r/MensRights11/09/21 08:07 AM
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Right, that's why the logical conclusion is for fathers to rape their daughters in order to cash in on this free money! It seems to be what our patriarchy wants after all... (Obvious /s)
/r/MensRights11/09/21 08:04 AM
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Thats probably because it's easy for most people to understand what rape is, and why it's so heinous. Where things get confusing is when the waters are muddied by these types of people stretching the definition of rape to suit whatever they like (or don't)... Also, it's mostly for shock value. Trying to push an agenda without shock value is much more difficult, than simply using their tactic of shaming men into compliance by confronting them with the alternative of "if you're not going to toe th…
/r/MensRights10/09/21 02:07 PM
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Must be nice to have a scapegoat that can tale the fall for any consequences.. I wonder what it must be like to live life on such an easy mode?
/r/MensRights10/09/21 06:36 AM
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Pretty sure she knew exactly what she was doing
/r/MensRights10/09/21 06:34 AM
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Facts?! Who needs facts?! Best not to dispel their outrage porn by shattering their strongly held beliefs with actual truth or you may find one day that your dog has been shot, or that you are being falsely accused of sexual crimes by several women you've never met (or that don't even exist). Stranger things have happened... On a more serious note, thanks for posting this to clear up that bit of feminist misinformation.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 05:34 AM
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FDS? FDS ☑. Nothing to see here, move along.
/r/MensRights10/09/21 05:31 AM
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Meanwhile in other news, men's mental health issues are exacerbated by the fact that they are being socially alienated even further
/r/MensRights09/09/21 01:32 PM
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When will they ban women from applying for nurse/daycare/teaching jobs to diversify those areas? Oh wait....
/r/MensRights09/09/21 01:30 PM
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Equal Opportunity Act Ah yes, the Orwellian equal opportunities...
/r/MensRights09/09/21 01:28 PM
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This proves the feminist claim is a sham. In fact female health is much better funded. You don't have to look very far to see that most of their claims boil down to "men dying, women most affected" or similar notions.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 01:26 PM
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"Shut up, I don't care what you have to say because you're a man and your opinion doesn't matter" So why do they want us to stand with them then?
/r/MensRights09/09/21 12:36 PM
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“I suggest that all women refuse to have sex with men until they are guaranteed the right to choose by Congress,” Hilarious, out of touch celebrity dictates how women should sabotage their relationships, to manipulate and/or guilt their partners into somehow changing legislation... This approach can't possibly backfire in any way shape or form...
/r/MensRights08/09/21 03:51 PM
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Wasn't there a thing that women's soccer teams get a fixed paid salary regardless if they played (and regardless of performance), whereas the men did not receive this guarantee but their entire pay is based off their performance and whether or not they played at all?
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:07 AM
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So it's charity then? Or a stupidity tax.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 06:02 AM
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embrace their responsibility as a community member and take a role in preventing and reducing violence against women. So not really focused on domestic violence, only against women. Basically ignoring half the violence victims. Broader social policy initiatives that address gender inequality and improve the status of women are critical to reducing violence against women. How exactly does improving the status of women directly reduce gender based violence? The strategy will use the link between g…
/r/MensRights06/09/21 10:40 AM
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The issue is polarisation. Feminism has successfully marketed itself as being for equality. Opposing feminism thereby means you oppose everything they stand for, and by abstraction support everything they stand against. It's a major logical fallacy, but it's incredibly effective in forcing compliance or shaming dissent into silence. Many people would prefer to yield and toe the line rather than be threatened with social ostracism or worse, which is why this underhanded tactic works so well in th…
/r/MensRights06/09/21 08:12 AM
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Personally, I think anti-abortion ideology is caused by strong religious beliefs This is actually the case, there was/is a pinned post in this sub detailing exactly that. There were more women in favour of (and also crafted) the legislation than men.
/r/MensRights05/09/21 07:12 AM
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Funny how they quote this fiction while focusing primarily on the women who are forced into these 'handmaid' positions. These women, called Handmaids, are assigned to the homes of the ruling elite This as a primer is basically pure distilled apex fallacy. And the fact that feminists are throwing their weight fully behind this story shows just how out of touch they are with reality. To add some perspective to this, from what I understand, men who are not loyalists or part of the elite are sent to…
/r/MensRights05/09/21 07:09 AM
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Now: it's all because of him
/r/MensRights01/09/21 03:26 PM
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"Why does a neurosurgeon at the top of their specialisation or a petroleum engineer earn 6 figures or more and a daycare worker doesn't???" Well gee, I wonder... That's why this argument: it’s more that occupations which employ mostly women are paid less than those which employ mostly men Is absolute bullcrap and shows the kind of chip these people have on their shoulder
/r/MensRights31/08/21 02:58 PM
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being on death row but for the rest of your life If you're on death row, it's for the rest of your life.. 😉
/r/MensRights29/08/21 10:41 AM
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will do, thanks for the tip
/r/MensRights26/08/21 09:40 PM
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maybe a part of it is the gradual claiming of masculinity for women by feminism, which pushes men further down the spectrum, or to the feminine side, that's causing this.. who knows..
/r/MensRights26/08/21 08:45 PM
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They get a kick out of emasculating these hypermacho men because it plays into the feminist power fantasy. Interestingly many of these "strong female leads" are not actually strongly written characters, but instead built on hypermacho masculine characters that female cast are pressed into. A truly strong female character wouldn't need to tear down others to achieve it. A truly strong female character would receive respect deservedly for their actions. See Ripley from the original alien series. S…
/r/MensRights26/08/21 04:27 PM
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Majority of world's population is heterosexual. Just like being gay, no one chose to be straight. Why the hate? Because being heterosexual is seen as the stereotypical "default" or "mainstream". These types of people who "stick it to the man" by being edgy and anti-mainstream are trying to do so literally. That's how it became 'cool' to demonize the stereotypical "default" because it's an easy and cheap target.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 05:48 AM
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I notice this at the playground with my kid. Other mums there always give me the stink eye, other dads give me a knowing or understanding look.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 03:56 PM
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Lmao what if these people primarily frequent all the feminist subs before going out and committing the horrendous acts? What conclusions are people gonna draw from it then? Basically people making up their own conclusions from nothing in order to support their agenda.
/r/MensRights22/08/21 05:53 AM
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They are trying do hard to preemptively discredit us, almost like they are scared of us
/r/MensRights22/08/21 05:29 AM
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Well it makes sense why they'd be targeting men and boys, because those are the ones that would be most likely to fight back and resist, and even be a threat..
/r/MensRights21/08/21 10:37 AM
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Almost all professional basketball players are over 6ft, so by extension so are all men. Why do women keep asking for our height then? 😀
/r/MensRights21/08/21 06:12 AM
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disagree, legislating and regulating sex throughout society would have even more harmful effects on society. The best approach would be to destigmatize virginity for men. This would in turn drop the catch-22 that many of these men feel is being applied to them when looking for a sexual partner.
/r/MensRights20/08/21 11:19 AM
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Interesting finds, thanks for sharing
/r/MensRights19/08/21 05:34 PM
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That's the issue I see with stigmatising virginity for men, these people just become more radicalised over time as they are pushed further and further by people from the other end of the spectrum. It's like the pick up artists, many end up there because the Redpillers (not to be confused with Cassie Jaye's documentary), are able to trick men into improving themselves (even slightly) to get out of the incel mentality, maybe even having success in getting laid. But this is where the buck stops, be…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 07:30 AM
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Do you have some sources and further reading material on this?
/r/MensRights19/08/21 07:26 AM
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It's a well known phenomenon where people who are ostracised will eventually gravitate towards more radical social circles (in either direction). Especially if those circles welcome them with open arms, or that they feel like they are being heard. The people who shame incels are often also directly responsible for their hatred.
/r/MensRights18/08/21 05:14 AM
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Thanks for putting all these together in a post.
/r/MensRights18/08/21 05:11 AM
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Agree, anonymity of either party until resolution of the trial should be standard, but is almost. never the case nowadays
/r/MensRights17/08/21 04:20 PM
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That's probably because it would counteract the immediate "believe the accuser" mentality as opposed to staying neutral, or even providing evidence in an ongoing case.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 04:19 PM
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That is an incredibly meticulous account of that time. Thanks for sharing
/r/MensRights17/08/21 02:24 PM
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Thanks for the detailed list. Noticed point 8 and 9 as well.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 02:22 PM
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The accuser has the burden of proof However with today's tailwind of social media and trial by popular opinion, sometimes that's enough to discard due process. At least enough to irreparably damage someone's reputation
/r/MensRights17/08/21 01:51 PM
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How come? I'm generally curious since I'm not too familiar with bob Dylan and his history.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 01:49 PM
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The now 65-year-old woman from Greenwich, Connecticut says it all took place in 1965, according to a 13-page complaint filed at 9.31pm on Friday, less than three hours before New York's deadline for old childhood sex abuse lawsuits. I...see.... Anyone else get the feeling that the article tries very hard to legitimise the claim?
/r/MensRights17/08/21 11:55 AM
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To be fair though, your post was pretty emotional and buys pretty heavily into the no true Scotsman fallacy, claiming that the first two feminist waves were pillars of true equality, completely disregarding all the horrible things that they did. Not sure what you hope to gain by seeking affirmation for arguing in a feminist sub though, since brigading is against the rules.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 06:38 AM
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That's the reason why they are using empowerment and equality interchangeably, this gives the impression that both are one and the same thing, when in reality the gap separating the two widens by the day.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 06:32 AM
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This is all not to take away from the real feminists the first and second wave feminists who bravely fought and sometimes died for their rights Huh? Did you forget about all the misandric and hateful shit those waves did, as well as the suffragettes that spawned the feminist movement? They were basically domestic terrorists, carrying out arson attacks and attempted bombings to further their agenda. it was because of them, that women almost DIDN'T get the right to vote. You have a rose coloured v…
/r/MensRights17/08/21 05:59 AM
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Realistically, you will just get banned. Mocked and then banned.. And maybe mocked some more. No benefit to posting there though, as you say
/r/MensRights13/08/21 06:10 PM
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It's simple polarisation.
/r/MensRights13/08/21 06:06 PM
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The epitome of cancel culture
/r/MensRights10/08/21 05:21 PM
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Wow another circle jerk hate sub that pretends they are fighting for the only true just cause... While calling themselves AgainstHateSubreddits Who would have thought?!
/r/MensRights10/08/21 05:19 PM
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I've seen hundreds of posts in this bloody sub. and they somehow find the perfect sexist comment/post to post in that sub. To add onto this, most of the hateful comments are removed by mods. Of course, when people create sock puppets to write hateful comments, and screenshot them immediately after, it lets them make up whatever they like about the subs they are trying to attack
/r/MensRights10/08/21 05:15 PM
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This hashtag alone is so bewilderingly sexist, it lets these lunatics project their wildly skewed perception of reality. It shows how privileged and entitled they are, since it ignores all the positivity men bring to the world, in favour of peddling their delusional misandrist ideology
/r/MensRights09/08/21 05:05 AM
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as i mentioned in the other response, there is a distinction between preferring some kind of stimulant in the morning, and deliberately using it as an excuse to be an asshole to others while using this as a kind of free pass.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 09:56 PM
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the distinction is though, if you use it as an excuse to deliberately be an asshole to people by deflecting it onto your lack of coffee...
/r/MensRights08/08/21 09:54 PM
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Same goes for "don't talk to me before I've had my morning coffee". Basically means " I'm insufferable unless I'm on drugs".
/r/MensRights08/08/21 05:12 PM
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Good reason to stay away from that shit show
/r/MensRights08/08/21 06:56 AM
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Reminds me of a guy I met while traveling somewhere with my pregnant wife. He made some remarks about how he liked seeing foreign people in the country and he's happy for our pregnancy (we're not foreigners). Then he went on about being with antifa and how he hates all the nazis with their hateful conduct. At this point we were like "OK, that's nice for you, go away now". Then he just went on and on and he proudly told me how he stabbed someone he claimed was a Nazi in the back, and broke anothe…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 06:55 AM
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Imagine making a hate subreddit called AgainstHateSubreddits
/r/MensRights07/08/21 05:23 PM
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most people who lack respect for feminism have failed to understand or even adequately research it. Most people who lack respect for feminism have done enough research to know that their lack of respect is justified. What they meant is that these people have failed to adequately indoctrinate themselves and fail to believe the lies that are constantly pushed. the rest just hate women Two things here: classic zero sum mentality, utter polarization, anyone who doesn't explicitly agree and toe the l…
/r/MensRights31/07/21 10:33 AM
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Along with none of the responsibility
/r/MensRights30/07/21 10:16 AM
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This is like when Sandra bullock plugged it on Ellen I think it was... She tried to explain it away like it was manufactured from some people "very far away". It is an extraction from a...um...a piece of skin that came from a young person, far, far away, and they somehow figured out how to extract..." And then admitted it was with foreskins from babies, passing it off with attempted hilarity as " the penis facial". The crowd laughed and applauded. Fucking disgusting. https://www.eonline.com/news…
/r/MensRights23/07/21 03:08 PM
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Pretty sure it would get piled on by the majority of the sub for going against the actual feminist agenda of their sub.
/r/MensRights22/07/21 08:56 AM
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This kinda correlates to Norah Vincent's experiences when she went 'undercover' as a man.
/r/MensRights22/07/21 08:55 AM
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Precisely, also to add on to what you said, not all feminists are women. A lot of male feminists tend to spew some of the most vile and vitriolic things I have ever read/seen/heard.
/r/MensRights22/07/21 08:53 AM
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Also that it's a cherry picked stat. I wonder when male and female model salaries are compared, what the disparity shows....
/r/MensRights21/07/21 06:37 PM
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When I told him it's not good, he told me that it's good for health and social purposes. How is it good for health? What social purposes exactly?
/r/MensRights20/07/21 05:37 PM
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surprised pikachu face
/r/MensRights13/07/21 04:43 AM
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You don’t have to make male characters insufferable and/or lazy/stupid/evil/selfish to have a strong female lead and cast. This just shows how bad the writers are, that they NEED to do this in order to give the illusion of having something resembling 'strong' characters. Actual good characters regardless of gender are able to act without the need for creating 'punching bags'.
/r/MensRights10/07/21 03:32 PM
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This is in part thanks to social media conditioning us to polarise everything, even things that can't normally polarized. We are trained to see everything as like/dislike, for/against, friend/foe. For many there just isn't a middle ground anymore, either you toe the line, or you are automatically everything that they stand against. It's an atlassian struggle to try to get people thinking critically again.
/r/MensRights07/07/21 05:55 AM
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Yep, applies to both genders. Was still keeping with the gendered side in my discussion for relatability
/r/MensRights06/07/21 02:19 PM
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that experience taught me a valuable lesson that not all men are creeps. I find that there is a very important semantic distinction here. The implication is: "but most are". This in turn perpetuates that same stereotype. I think changing your approach or point of view to: "very few men are creeps" or "some men can be creepy at times" will get you more mileage. Another approach is figuring out why someone seems to be creepy, maybe it's just personal biases or a misinterpretation of intentions or …
/r/MensRights06/07/21 07:47 AM
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Could you link to your figures please?
/r/MensRights02/07/21 02:29 PM
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here, in israel here, in india ​ also, not directly related, but Mary Koss was responsible for legislating rape as a gendered crime in the US, basically preventing men who are raped by women (forced penetration) to not count as rape victims.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 07:46 PM
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We have a Gender Equality Ministry, which costs us 450M € per year That actually explains a lot... How is the gender disparity of male/female ministers in this department?
/r/MensRights01/07/21 04:20 PM
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Feminists all across the country are protesting the law, claiming that "many men will legally change their gender". Remember how feminists successfully lobbied against a gender neutral definition of rape, claiming that men would use it to accuse women of rape? This is the same thing all over again. Somehow a moral panic because it pokes more holes in all their fictional theories.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 04:18 PM
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I am a feminist, except I'm a feminist who actually cares about equality and actually cares about people. The fact that you had to clarify which kind of feminist you are, is pretty telling...
/r/MensRights29/06/21 06:41 AM
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Stranger things have happened.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 02:28 PM
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Still not a reliable metric to determine whether a story is true or not.. Some of the most far fetched sounding stories may be true, and some of the most mundane sounding may not. At the end of the day, there's just no way to tell.
/r/MensRights26/06/21 02:19 PM
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So you're the arbiter of what can and can't be believed online?
/r/MensRights26/06/21 12:54 PM
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By that logic, would you also dismiss all the accounts of sexual abuse suffered by women that are shared online?
/r/MensRights26/06/21 07:54 AM
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my dear men, are you not offended? Yes, I'm offended that men and masculinity is constantly portrayed in a negative way (primarily by feminism). Unless of course we sacrifice our lives entirely for "feminism", but careful now, can't be seen doing it too selflessly because martyrdom is reserved for those who follow the doctrine and have the 'correct' genitalia.... I'm so tired of these half-assed false attempts to appeal to men by gaslighting us, dismissing our issues and misrepresenting men's ri…
/r/MensRights25/06/21 06:51 AM
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Men and boys getting left behind in education: women most affected.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 09:34 AM
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CPS gives £44,000 for filing police report of rape. For real? It's almost like they are giving people women an incentive to accuse anyone of rape
/r/MensRights13/06/21 04:03 PM
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Of course, back then people didn't threaten to kill you for doing so. Because back then it was harder to fall into an echo chamber for these sorts of things. When people are exposed to these kinds of doctrines from an early age, or with constant reinforcing through echo chambers, people tend to build their own sense of self, personal values and personality around these core beliefs. That means when you threaten to undo the foundation for who they built themselves to be as people, they feel perso…
/r/MensRights13/06/21 04:24 AM
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It's basically the no true Scotsman fallacy
/r/MensRights12/06/21 03:17 PM
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I've said this in another similar post: We should stop using "not ALL men" as well, since the implication is "but most". When in reality it's "a small minority of people" who do whatever they claim. Language is their way to control the narratives, let's stop giving them a free pass here.
/r/MensRights11/06/21 08:39 AM
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So make a change, start caring about the men in your life, and support each other.
/r/MensRights11/06/21 08:32 AM
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But I think there is a pattern where a lot of this self-help and positivity stuff seems geared more towards woman. Which is interesting, considering the first iterations of the self help genre were seemingly written for men by men: The earliest progenitor of self-help books was an Ancient Egyptian genre called “Sebayt,” an instructional literature on life (“Sebayt” means “teaching”). A letter of advice from father to son, The Maxims of Ptahotep, written circa 2800 B.C., advocated moral behavior …
/r/MensRights10/06/21 05:52 AM
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What a lot of people don't understand is that whenever feminists lobby for policy that specifically targets women, they actively exclude men from receiving help And then they have the audacity to turn around and say things like "but feminism is for men, too". Of course, that only applies to the fictional constructs that they believe that they are liberating the misogynistic and toxic males from, who are willing to indoctrinate themselves into their own dogma..
/r/MensRights09/06/21 10:59 AM
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To piggyback on what you said, it's pretty telling when someone who is suicidal gets no support, but once they kill themselves, people around them, who should have supported them start spouting shit like "men need to talk about their feelings more". Essentially using the tragedy of one man to fuel an incorrect narrative which harms more men. Just to clarify, sometimes when with enough support, you can't save someone. But the people who actively oppose people who need help or ignore people who ne…
/r/MensRights08/06/21 06:09 AM
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Classic /r/WomenWritingMen/ material
/r/MensRights07/06/21 05:01 AM
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female teacher was in relationship with her male student, both had sex You mean she raped her student?
/r/MensRights03/06/21 06:30 AM
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That's what true feminism stands for. Maybe this is what your definition of feminism is, and that's fine.. But i have yet to see it actually be used in this sense.
/r/MensRights03/06/21 06:28 AM
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I wrote about a lot of this when arguing with someone else, but i guess a lot of the points are still valid here in terms of reporting and knowing how the data is constructed.. I think in general there is a bit of a gray area when it comes to suicide attempts.. The quality of the data on nonfatal suicidal behavior is even more problematic than that of suicides. The concerns about discrepancies innomenclature19-23 and accurate reporting11,24 apply here even more than with suicides. Also, except f…
/r/MensRights31/05/21 07:29 PM
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According to the National Institute of Mental Health, in 2019 the disparity between male and female suicide attempts was 0.3% (females at 0.7% and males at 0.4%).
/r/MensRights31/05/21 06:10 PM
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Respecting men will get you a man. It won’t get you “any” man. Why do need “any” man? That’s bizarre. And not respect. This hits the nail on the head I think. Wanting just a man? Why? Why any? That also generally leads to unrealistic expectations, which will poison the well per se for future relationships. I mean, it's like setting the bar so low that you'd take literally any person with a dong. That can't be a good sign for either party. And yeah, you get out what you put in, in most cases. Res…
/r/MensRights31/05/21 05:52 PM
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Really? The numbers I last saw from the relevant data (from like 2018 most recently) showed that it was the case, not by a large margin though.. Could you share your data with me please?
/r/MensRights31/05/21 05:20 PM
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Probably because it's being pushed as a requirement by government officials that are increasingly buying into this nonsense. Taxpayers usually end up footing the bill for this kind of crap, so that's where the money is likely coming from
/r/MensRights31/05/21 01:14 PM
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A lot of these people who very loudly parrot these issues do so in order to cover up their own transgressions. I guess they might see it as a way to deflect suspicion, or use it as a currency for penance.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 09:59 AM
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Because of virtue signalling higher ups that want to appeal to the youth of today. Talk about being out of touch.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 09:55 AM
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Holy shit people pay top dollar to let themselves be cucked so hard by this SJW bullshit.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 09:54 AM
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So basically ticking a box while minimising the issue, spending more time doing damage control and protecting the doctrine. No surprises here unfortunately...
/r/MensRights31/05/21 09:52 AM
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Huffing-tin-paint
/r/MensRights31/05/21 09:02 AM
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"I didn't mansplain it because you're a woman, I explained it to you like you're a fucking imbecile, because that's what you are."
/r/MensRights30/05/21 11:50 AM
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The response from this upright anal tube that wasn't even in the original conversation, they just popped in, was, "We don't need you to mansplain 'cancer' to us. Thank you muchly" "If you think I was 'mansplaining', you might have felt that I was being condescending. If that were ever the case, it wouldn't be because of your gender, it would be because you're a fucking imbecile."
/r/MensRights30/05/21 11:46 AM
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Not to mention that it's often misinterpreted as "more women attempt suicide", which is incorrect due to repeat attempts, especially from those who use it as a method to get attention. That's not to say that women's suicide attempts aren't worth discussing as a whole... Just that discussion should not be shut down simply because the fact that men die in several magnitudes higher, makes people uncomfortable, or is somehow inconvenient to a narrative
/r/MensRights30/05/21 07:29 AM
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yeah i had similar discussions with people last international men's day. According to these people, the fact that allegedly "women attempt it more" means that men deserve no help. Just to clarify, i had these discussions with other men, on international men's day... All of this was preceded by the usual "isn't men's day every day?"
/r/MensRights30/05/21 06:15 AM
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it's more than that. If they just simply didn't care about us, they would leave us alone to deal with our issues ourselves. The fact that they deliberately and actively demonize men and stigmatize mental health issues shows that it's not enough for them.
/r/MensRights30/05/21 05:56 AM
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No shit lmao. Every time men's mental health is brought up, people become irate and furiously virtue signal about how women have all these other issues which are way worse. Then a backhanded remark is thrown in implying men are to blame for their own issues due to some bullshit notion of "toxic masculinity", and brushed aside by claiming something along the lines of "men just need to talk about their feelings more". Meanwhile men who want to open up, talk or seek help are constantly back seated …
/r/MensRights30/05/21 04:23 AM
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Gillette 2.0 Not surprising for a company that doubled down on picking a known and convicted domestic abuser as a spokesperson.
/r/MensRights27/05/21 05:56 AM
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Wasn't there a phrase along the lines of: If you have lived a life of privilege and special treatment, equality seems like oppression. I think this applies to her.
/r/MensRights26/05/21 10:40 AM
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I think the main issue that many people on this sub have is not that someone is supporting their parent's charity. Rather it's the fact that almost all domestic violence charities or institutions that help people in these situations tend to hang men out to dry. Men who are brutalised by their spouses really have nowhere to turn to get help, and are sometimes even considered to be the perpetrators. I'm pretty sure this is an issue serious enough to be vocalised, don't you?
/r/MensRights25/05/21 03:12 PM
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Raising this as a major issue makes people not pay attention to the actual major issues You mean like how mansplaining and man spreading are being raised as major issues instead of the male suicide epidemic?
/r/MensRights25/05/21 01:35 PM
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So basically, you are unable to have a discussion after you feel like you were insulted by someone, and would like to be accommodated regardless.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 05:09 PM
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You seem to be using autism as a shield to avoid criticism, which honestly is pretty insulting to the rest of us who might also have autism.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 05:09 PM
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As mentioned in another reply, we can see your comment history. There was no evidence to support your claim. There is no hate train going on here, other than the one you are constructing in your own head.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 05:08 PM
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So how do you expect to have a discussion? It seems like you're just here to be coddled or to receive affirmation without changing your views.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 05:06 PM
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Your comment history is readily available via your profile, there was nothing indicating anything that you were implying.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 05:05 PM
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fair point, but they can still provide you with information that you can learn from
/r/MensRights24/05/21 04:47 PM
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That's because you haven't provided any information other than ardently trying to claim to be a victim, while calling everyone else who responded to you toxic. ​ This is a simple deduction mate, the conclusion is not one you're gonna like.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 04:46 PM
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have you looked at the evidence that they have provided for their argument? Maybe if you researched the topic, you would come to a similar conclusion.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 04:45 PM
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which insults mate? You haven't given any information to work with here.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 04:44 PM
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Without knowing exactly what you wrote, it's hard to reason whether the responses were justified, or what even the responses were. You seem to be resistant to growing yourself by accepting criticism, or learning from your behaviour. This subreddit is intended for people to have open discussions about various topics, some inevitably resulting in downvotes or heavy criticism. Your point regarding verbal toxicity was not proven in the slightest, as there was no sliver of toxicity in the comment you…
/r/MensRights24/05/21 04:19 PM
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wait, this is your excuse? You seem to be unable to process having people disagreeing with you. /u/DaBlockObama gave you reasoning and a neutral response, and you automatically feign outrage. ​ He didn't make fun of people with autism, not even in the slightest. If you can't take criticism or engage in discussions, then you may need to consider your approach.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 04:16 PM
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A down vote is not necessarily ostracism, people are free to vote how they see fit. This sub is not alone when it comes to being downvoted for sharing an unpopular opinion. In fact, it's one of the few where the extent of downvoting is minimal in comparison. Elsewhere you would also run the risk of being banned, which is really only likely to happen here if you break the rules severely. This alone shows that this sub is significantly more accepting than others.
/r/MensRights24/05/21 02:54 PM
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Thanks for posting the story. So basically the own son gets disowned at a whim without any question or thought, the lying stepdaughter gets put into 'therapy' scot free. What a fucked up situation.
/r/MensRights23/05/21 08:21 AM
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Later in the video, Sky News plays a clip of someone who is reportedly a senior journalist with Fairfax Media admitted that, "ultimately, we want [McLachlan] out of that job." Yeah no shit. This is just more evidence that journalism has completely abandoned the initial intent of reporting on actual world events in an unbiased manner, in favour of cheap tabloidism while appealing to their prime viewership's political leaning or world views. Nowadays people don't want to have their beliefs challen…
/r/MensRights22/05/21 06:38 AM
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Like a fucking trophy.. Absolutely disgusting. It's almost like a constant reminder of the disposability of men hanging right on their walls...
/r/MensRights22/05/21 06:32 AM
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The officer also warned her that if she returned to the house it may be considered trespassing and cautioned her that if she lied she would get in trouble with the law. And then Rosie was later arrested for assault and for trespassing after she returned to the house to collect her bike. Doesn't matter if she's the first complainant or not if she still breaks the law...
/r/MensRights21/05/21 05:26 AM
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The article tries so hard to continuously paint her as an innocent victim, despite the fact that the officers did their job well. She was merely charged for trespassing as she returned to the property after being asked not to return there. The fact that they add a whole segment to the bottom to conflate this with other cases of women being found as the perpetrators of domestic violence is bewildering and skews the actual scope of this particular incident.
/r/MensRights21/05/21 05:19 AM
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False accusation rate is higher than actual rape conviction rate iirc
/r/MensRights20/05/21 09:49 PM
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Yeah its just the no true Scotsman fallacy all over
/r/MensRights20/05/21 02:25 PM
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those aren't real feminists, they are just as bad as men Alright then, we have our answer. "Those people who hate men aren't real feminists. they're just as bad as men, whom I, as a real feminist hate"
/r/MensRights20/05/21 09:04 AM
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I presume that men who are being battered by their wives will take any resort to get out of that situation, even if it means taking on the label of the abuser. It's still completely fucked up how we as a society in 2021 completely ignore this massive statistic that is men as victims. It shouldn't be a zero sum game, but unfortunately for many feminist organisations who stand to profit heavily from the victimhood monopoly, any threat to that revenue must be crushed and buried under lies and doctr…
/r/MensRights19/05/21 12:45 PM
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This assumption that any man interacting with a child is a pedophile is just. It's so nauseating. I do not look forward to taking my daughter to a park and having to defend myself from the baseless accusations of these PTA moms. Yeah holy shit, I hate this. Had a similar issue when I took my kid to the playground before work at the start of this week. He's still too small to go down one of the higher slides at this playground so I climbed up with him. Obviously at his age he wants to do things i…
/r/MensRights19/05/21 07:08 AM
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It's almost like each of us is an individual with different needs and ways to express ourselves... Obviously what works for one person, regardless of gender might not work for another. There's just too much polarisation and generalisation going on today.
/r/MensRights18/05/21 07:20 AM
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[Benefits from said thing] "I'm not mad about it"
/r/MensRights18/05/21 07:17 AM
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Explains why she is writing for the heaping pile of trash that is buzzfeed instead of a reputable paper.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 04:46 AM
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Could you provide sources to some of these? Would love to add this information to my collection
/r/MensRights17/05/21 04:44 AM
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Who exactly is paying for this "unpaid work" then? Maybe westpac should put their money where their mouth is, and start offering people free money for doing "unpaid work". That should really get the economy going, using their logic.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 04:42 AM
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Time to get that student some "reeducation" to fix that wrongthink - the university, probably
/r/MensRights16/05/21 05:15 AM
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The issue is less in statistics and rather the reporting. The main reason is because it's an emotional hook. Remember the "bring back our girls" farce? Almost nobody reported on the staggering majority of boys and young men who were killed in those raids. Society is incredibly willing to jump the moment women and children are at risk, however men are often left to fend for themselves. This is nothing new, and has been part of social conditioning for generations.
/r/MensRights14/05/21 10:04 AM
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do see a new imbalance of employers abusing virtual working by making all hours work hours. Precisely this, a lot of employers notice that this blurs the boundaries between private life and work, and try to exploit that by invading personal life with extra work. Fortunately for me, my higher ups cut this mentality off at the roots and strongly enforce a healthy work-life balance even during covid times.
/r/MensRights13/05/21 04:15 PM
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Yeah, it's wrong to imply that people of a certain demographic are justifiably murdered because other people of that demographic commit a high number of murders. It's the fallacy of the converse.
/r/MensRights11/05/21 10:50 AM
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Inb4 "but men commit the most murders" in an attempt to somehow justify this....
/r/MensRights11/05/21 09:43 AM
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Ah yes, a steady decline in educational quality for future generations in favour of cheap woke points couldn't possibly come back to haunt us....
/r/MensRights11/05/21 06:13 AM
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Was just about to post this link myself. Guess you beat me to it. Not really all that surprising to most of us that this is happening, I guess it's not really a wonder that for many other people it's going to come as some sort of unwanted revelation that'll be whatabout-ism'd away
/r/MensRights10/05/21 04:01 AM
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Yeah, historically women have wielded power just as men have, however this facet is generally conveniently ignored. Much like the suffrage of men, up until which only men and women who held significant property were allowed to vote. Once this is pointed out, unless the person is already drowning in dogma, you generally see the wheels turning in their head to put pieces together.
/r/MensRights09/05/21 03:45 PM
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It really is mind boggling that people need to explicitly be told this in order for it to start seeping in, and eventually lead to this kind of realisation that men are humans with emotions and struggles as well.
/r/MensRights09/05/21 03:42 PM
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This pbf comic is very appropriate here: https://pbfcomics.com/comics/deeply-held-beliefs/
/r/MensRights09/05/21 02:43 PM
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TIL feminism is actually "the patriarchy"
/r/MensRights09/05/21 06:40 AM
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Very good and thorough write up, excellently sourced too. Maybe see if menarehuman.com will publish this
/r/MensRights08/05/21 07:44 AM
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Thank you for your service. Seeing the lack of support services available for veterans with severe PTSD in many countries leads me to believe that the intention of sending youth off into war is so they don't return alive. any other outcome appears to be an undesired inconvenience that is often swept under the rug. On the ironic flip side, many of these institutions actually love to preach about the heroics of people who died on the battlefield. It's an absolute travesty that people who have serv…
/r/MensRights06/05/21 08:30 AM
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100% women: maximum diversity achieved
/r/MensRights05/05/21 06:29 AM
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Don’t like working with men, pick up a hammer, make your own company and hire women. Reminds me of this: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dadNBfNmh5I
/r/MensRights03/05/21 06:46 AM
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You know how a lot of feminists claim that women are singled out and discriminated against in male dominated fields? Yeah it's projection because that shot happens in female dominated fields too. The fact that they bully you shows that they see you as a threat, stand your ground and keep doing what you set your sights on. It's sad that men really are still seen as predators when interacting with children. Even as a parent I get dirty suspicious looks when I take my son to the playground. Yeah, a…
/r/MensRights02/05/21 07:25 AM
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A reminder that when you use the term "incel" as an insult, you're tying a man's worth to his sexual activity. This is pretty much it. If we should stop reducing women down to their sexual worth, stop doing the same to men. The main fact that it's still in use is that it's an effective ad hominem to derail discussions. It's the same as bringing up penis size in completely irrelevant discussions in order to shame men.
/r/MensRights02/05/21 07:17 AM
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The pill doesn't reduce the transmission of STI
/r/MensRights02/05/21 07:10 AM
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This is them trying to claim the term toxic femininity and sanitise it before it becomes as mainstream as "toxic masculinity" has become.
/r/MensRights01/05/21 04:00 PM
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You mean this? A modern folk etymology holds that the phrase is derived from the maximum width of a stick allowed for wife-beating under English law, but no such law ever existed. The nonexistent law that is often used as a cornerstone by people of certain beliefs to claim that beating female spouses was once legal, and thus is evidence of a system designed to oppress women?
/r/MensRights30/04/21 06:39 AM
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A good rule of thumb (God, I love the hidden meaning in that phrase) Just out of curiosity, what hidden meaning?
/r/MensRights29/04/21 10:08 PM
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This goes back to letting people express their emotions in a way that is natural for them, instead of policing people and shaming them. Everyone is different after all. Some people like to mull things over in their head, process their emotions internally. Others like to express their emotions outward, both are okay within reason, and it's time we accept that. When you force people to conform to a certain method of emotional expression, it restricts their ability to process them properly and can …
/r/MensRights29/04/21 10:01 PM
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At least it was not an outright hostile response, like those that we usually get
/r/MensRights29/04/21 09:58 PM
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But there’s another, older model that’s been mostly ignored by the young men of America: the HPV vaccine. Using data from the 2010-2018 National Health Interview Surveys, Michigan Medicine researchers found that just 16% of men who were 18 to 21 years old had received at least one dose of the HPV vaccine at any age Well gee... I wonder why that is the case: But although girls aged 12 and 13 have been vaccinated on the NHS since 2008, vaccinating boys is not considered ‘cost-effective’. https://w…
/r/MensRights29/04/21 07:55 AM
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Do you even lift bro? Seriously... lots of your problems will vanish if you start to do heavy weight training. While this might sound like posturing, its actually true. Sport and exercise can have a drastically positive effect on mood and wellbeing even during depression. I can't find the sources on some research I read on it back when in was going through pretty severe depression. It actually genuinely helped me once I mustered the courage to go to the gym.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 10:08 PM
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No need to be sorry, its not representative of Australia, rather representative of a few dickheads trying to score woke points
/r/MensRights27/04/21 12:03 PM
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Nothing will happen to her, this is literally what people like her do for a living, that's why they are booked by schools and organisations. If anything, this will get her more gigs with places that want to promote this kind of "diversity" in order to appear woke and appeal to like minded individuals
/r/MensRights27/04/21 12:01 PM
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EdUcAtE yOuRsElF Learn about the history of feminism Did it occur to these people that this might be the exact reason why people choose to join r/mensrights ? The fact that we did our research and saw that we actually need to support men and their rights since feminism has done sweet bugger all positive things for men and their rights.
/r/MensRights22/04/21 09:21 AM
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Should also stop using Firefox/chrome and android then. Google is just so heavily ingrained in many facets of everyday life
/r/MensRights22/04/21 09:15 AM
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You mean like "mxn" ? 🙄
/r/MensRights22/04/21 09:13 AM
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I prefer #believeEvidence Or #dontJudgeUntilAJudgeDoes, #dueProcess
/r/MensRights19/04/21 08:14 AM
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Not really a men's rights issue mate. See: https://www.reddit.com/r/iamatotalpieceofshit/comments/mr8j3y/comment/gul5lnn
/r/MensRights16/04/21 01:09 PM
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One of the comments in the original post stated something similar, that he was throwing it to the girl since she was wearing his jersey. It just fell short and he managed to catch it. You can also see how almost nobody else is reaching to grab it initially.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 01:07 PM
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You can literally see them desperately trying to throw as hominems at you in order to get you to back down. Stand your ground, the people who cut themselves out of your life over this are better left out of your life.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 01:03 PM
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Sit down and watch Cassie Jaye's documentary: the red pill together. Also: She thinks women’s rights are more important than men So her brand of feminism is not about equality. It tells you a lot about the way your interactions are going to be from here on out. Are there any statistics to quote, that could tweak her view? No, there are no statistics that could convince your friend otherwise. No matter how legitimate, real or obviously contrarian they are to her beliefs, she will probably not rel…
/r/MensRights16/04/21 12:55 PM
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Please do mate, I think a lot of others here would agree with me when I say that if we get enough exposure on this with well sourced and easy to understand data, we could once and for all eliminate the "but it's men who are most violent" crutch that feminists have used to dismiss men who are victims of violence.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 05:42 AM
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What's more is people who are necessary aren't the type of people who don't show up when they are needed. This is exactly it. This makes it harder to organise some kind of men's strike.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 09:51 AM
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First of all: by Janet Bloomfield [Indefinitely retired because of threats against her children. Janet has graciously allowed us to republish some of her now vanished articles.] What the fuck?! But I guess knowing what happened to others who publish data that refute feminist dogma it's not out of the ordinary. Secondly, if men globally striked for a day, it would mean more work for men on the next day... Society would still function mostly unimpeded (probably just heavily inconvenienced) thanks …
/r/MensRights12/04/21 08:05 AM
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ok, so nothing about the points i raised then. Thanks.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 06:36 PM
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Women make great leaders because we show empathy and speak up for the most vulnerable people. Women are decisive ... and women can be more willing to find a compromise Interesting, where is the empathy towards the homeless, the most vulnerable of whom are male... Where is the empathy for male suicides, who are the most vulnerable demographic when it comes to suicide.... Where is the empathy for young men and boys who are the most vulnerable in our education system, most at risk of falling throug…
/r/MensRights11/04/21 02:47 PM
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She basically filmed child pornography by raping a minor. Let's not mince words here, this is how it would be called in any other situation.
/r/MensRights11/04/21 05:58 AM
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https://archive.is/wkMW6
/r/MensRights07/04/21 05:24 PM
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What I meant was that there are plenty of much more good looking women out there than the one in the video, but I admit I over exaggerated & put it like she is not worth 20 guys. Or as if she is very ugly.. which she isn't. You seem to have misunderstood what i meant. It's entirely irrelevant whether you think the person is "too ugly" or not to be harrassed by people. It's like saying that people deserve to be raped because of what they were wearing. There are also plenty of women out there who …
/r/MensRights06/04/21 08:38 PM
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You wrote: And... and... She is NOT even moderate hot. Just an low IQ goofy attention looking pos. This invalidates your argument since you are basing everything on how attractive you find her. Responses like yours can often be found in comment sections of articles showing female teachers raping boys. It feels like you're coming here to get us to brigade the sub to rescue your heavily down voted post...
/r/MensRights06/04/21 07:42 AM
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"Men need to start sharing their spaces"
/r/MensRights06/04/21 07:39 AM
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This is known as the fallacy of relative privation: The fallacy of relative privation rejects an argument by stating the existence of a more important problem. The existence of such a worse issue, the fallacy insists, thereby makes the initial argument irrelevant. This fallacy is also known as the appeal to worse problems or “not as bad as”. Now that you know what it's called and what it looks like, you can call it out easier.
/r/MensRights06/04/21 07:37 AM
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The same Amy schumer who is actually a rapist? https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/anqsdx/never_forget_amy_schumer_is_an_actual/ Of course she'd be welcomed there with open arms, she is immune to any kind of repercussions.
/r/MensRights06/04/21 07:21 AM
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I wonder if the response would have been different had they posted it in feminism before men's rights... That sub tends to heavy handedly remove anything other than post by people who are "verified feminists"
/r/MensRights04/04/21 02:28 PM
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Its a step at least... The same can't be said for a lot of other countries that continue to bury their heads into doctrine...
/r/MensRights04/04/21 08:49 AM
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Thanks mate, posting the sources here again for posterity's sake: And here’s the receipts 👇 [1] tinyurl.com/nju98uza [2] tinyurl.com/y27khz7n [3] tinyurl.com/y4v2a5oc [4] tinyurl.com/y6clz7tj [5] https://tinyurl.com/ha4wn35z [6] https://tinyurl.com/jx2pm4du [7] https://tinyurl.com/34b5d9y6 [8] https://1in6.org/ [9] https://tinyurl.com/3mdchbaz [10] https://tinyurl.com/fnck7x9k [11] https://tinyurl.com/mvcmnzpr [12] https://tinyurl.com/h6b8erew [13] https://tinyurl.com/949jtyz5 [14] https://tinyu…
/r/MensRights03/04/21 06:25 PM
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ah fair enough, thanks for clarifying. Still a good step in the right direction and something that needs to happen across the world.
/r/MensRights03/04/21 06:24 PM
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Wasn't this research also buried by MGM proponents and the cosmetic industry?
/r/MensRights03/04/21 01:01 PM
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Good rundown of issues facing men. Could someone please link the sources here?
/r/MensRights03/04/21 12:58 PM
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Damn, too bad I don't live there so I can't vote for them.. If we ever get one in Germany, I'm throwing my vote behind em
/r/MensRights03/04/21 07:27 AM
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Prime example of an ad hominem instead of an actual educated response.
/r/MensRights02/04/21 02:19 PM
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Let's be honest, feminism provides heat too.. How else would it escape the heads of those who shout it at you? Obvious /s just in case
/r/MensRights26/03/21 06:28 PM
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When you figure out that those woke narrative and pandering is part of their business plan, you start to realize why the "fact" that tech corporations founded and owned by a woman/women just makes about 1% of the total profits in the tech industry despite 10% of the companies in said branch is has a woman CEO. Might be a thing. If instead of trying to justify wokeness in order to secure revenue, they decided to actually sell their product, they might actually be more successful instead of dividi…
/r/MensRights26/03/21 06:22 PM
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Reminds me of this in a way: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=bLGHPCpo8mw
/r/MensRights26/03/21 07:20 AM
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Is that your best response?
/r/MensRights25/03/21 12:09 PM
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feminist want equality The same feminists that advocate against men's issues, campaign for legislation to deny men from being recognised as victims of rape? feminazi are the monsters you generalise all women as You're the only one making these kinds of generalisations. maybe change your attitude and do some research I did my research and thusly changed my attitude, which is why I don't buy into your false narrative. Source: a white guy dating a black chick You must feel proud being this woke, so…
/r/MensRights23/03/21 05:38 PM
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Do you mean the suffragettes or actual suffrage? Suffrage is the right to vote in political elections or referendums. While women's suffrage is something that is generally well known, men's suffrage is not. Here is a link to a well sourced post on this subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/bz2hc4/on_universal_manhood_suffrage/ If you are referring to the suffragettes, then it's a group of women, led by political activists under a banner of women's voting rights. While their tru…
/r/MensRights22/03/21 09:22 AM
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Most of the men didn't really know how to approach it either since a lot of them either had no experience with that kind of struggle or had similar experiences to mine. It really only takes one person to reach out or provide some kind of meaningful consolation to have a positive domino effect. I can see it in our dad group now, issues are brought up that many of us struggled with but never really knew how to address.. When some of us responded there was almost a kind of resounding "oh yeah!" Mom…
/r/MensRights22/03/21 09:09 AM
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If we are to assume "they" were able to sanitise their own history In the articles I posted, you can literally see this. There is evidence provided by the first historian that discredits the accounts of the second one. The second one "coincidentally" teaches women's studies, which relies heavily on feminist doctrine, which in turn came from the suffragette movement. It's not so much an assumption that they sanitised their history, rather an actual observation. Not entirely sure what implication …
/r/MensRights21/03/21 06:14 PM
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For starters, they have successfully managed to sanitise their own history, allowing themselves to justify their acts of terrorism under the guise of "revolution". Suffragette Mary Leigh poured petrol over the carpets of a crowded theatre, set fire to it and then detonated a bomb. https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2018/jun/10/suffragettes-did-commit-terrorist-acts In the years leading up to the First World War, the suffragettes conducted a ferocious and prolonged bombing campaign across the w…
/r/MensRights21/03/21 04:20 PM
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Just "neo feminism"? What are your thoughts on the suffragettes and their domestic bombings and arson attacks?
/r/MensRights21/03/21 02:35 PM
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Thanks for sharing, was in a similar situation and became immediately aware that there was NO support for men in these situations. Women rallied around my partner but I was constantly ignored or told to sideline my emotions since I didn't "really suffer" and should be supporting my partner instead of "having false feelings". Anyway similar thing happened when our first was finally born, there were hundreds of mums groups where the mums would share info or help each other etc, but nothing like th…
/r/MensRights21/03/21 06:26 AM
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Also feminists: fEmInIsM iS fOr MeN tOo!!
/r/MensRights21/03/21 06:19 AM
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First off, "not all men" is a loaded argument implying "but most men". Correct them via " a small number of people". The next would be asking the people implying silence is violence or as bad as the act, why they are complicity violent against men or causing men's suicides. In the end it's just a bullshit polarisation to force people to conform to an ideological perspective under threat of ostracism.
/r/MensRights20/03/21 08:27 AM
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"If you feel uncomfortable, that's too bad. You can always delete your post". Not sure why the baby gloves come out for these lunatics...
/r/MensRights19/03/21 03:19 PM
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That's horrible mate, I genuinely feel for you. This reminds me of the Australian men's helplines that deliberately incorrectly categorize male victims of abuse as perpetrators..
/r/MensRights19/03/21 12:01 PM
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"Why are we losing so many men to suicide?" How about the constant sidelining of men's concerns and issues, disenfranchisement in pretty much all aspects of society and constantly demonizing them. Not to mention thought policing them and telling them how to behave, or else risk repercussions for perceived "toxic masculinity".
/r/MensRights19/03/21 11:57 AM
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Watch this be misconstrued or used as an argument to twist the narrative into "male on male violence is actually male on female violence".
/r/MensRights19/03/21 10:41 AM
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Ask them when they think you're allowed to discuss issues facing men and see how they respond. If it's some arbitrary answer of "when women have reached equality" then you can fire back with asking why they're still backseating men's issues then. Otherwise it's likely an attempt to move goalposts, or keep the goals flexible enough to do so. Either way, the more they try to shut down discussion, the more it shows that they value virtue signaling over your friendship and your concerns.
/r/MensRights19/03/21 10:39 AM
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It's the "I can't dominate this man by shaming him about his gender through feminist dogma, therefore I need to reclaim control via damseling" tactic. It's only effective as long as gynocentrism thrives, and while simps and white knights will blindly obey.
/r/MensRights19/03/21 07:29 AM
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It's usually seen as a "cry for help", yet I don't understand why men who are suicidal aren't generally given the same kind of support which leads to the higher rate of lethal suicides. And then any men who try to raise awareness and ask for more help to be given to men who are struggling are back seated, told they are "dunking on women", " women have it worse since they attempt it more", etc. This is largely the reason why we are facing such high rates of male suicide in the first place... That…
/r/MensRights18/03/21 04:39 PM
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