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Inner Game au_fait_bromate/r/seduction05/03/26 02:53 AM
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Outer Game au_fait_bromate/r/seduction22/11/25 03:24 AM
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Outer Game au_fait_bromate/r/seduction28/04/26 06:46 PM
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This is hard to hear, but women act that way as a protective mechanism. Guys left and right interpret “niceness” from a girl as “she’s into me”, so women adapt and instead make it very obvious to guys they don’t want. My advice, work on your game and appearance and you’ll get less and less of these types of responses.
/r/seduction29/06/26 07:53 PM
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Very solid post
/r/seduction29/06/26 03:47 AM
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What made him a chad? Looks? Height?
/r/seduction27/06/26 10:48 PM
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What made you a chad? Looks? Height?
/r/seduction27/06/26 10:48 PM
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Happened to me bro, could be anything, just keep working on yourself and keep trying
/r/seduction07/05/26 12:04 AM
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I did that the first couple times to, just keep going and keep trying
/r/seduction20/04/26 01:18 AM
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I do not know, please enlighten
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:00 AM
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Some guys feed off it, but the pattern that I’ve noticed for myself and my friends is that we’ll pursue it for a bit of time, have a handful of casual flings, come to the conclusion that the amount of time spent far exceeds the payout, start dating a girl monogamously, eventually break up with her in half a year to two years, start sleeping with a handful of girls, repeat
/r/seduction12/04/26 09:44 PM
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I see tons of posts like this, and honestly without video of you in the field you’re not going to get much useful help
/r/seduction11/04/26 09:19 PM
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1) Be a great lay for them. This included a lot of foreplay (tease with hands, makeout, go down on them, etc). 2) Keep touching them after hooking up. Scratch their back, give them a massage, play with their hair. 3) Cook for them or order food for them. It’s biology. If she has a great time with you, the likelihood that she comes back is very high.
/r/seduction10/04/26 08:36 PM
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No way, what’s the race realist stuff he’s doing now? I just checked out his yt, maybe I’m missing it
/r/seduction31/03/26 03:41 AM
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What made her select you over the other guys?
/r/seduction29/03/26 08:18 PM
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What made her select you over the other guys?
/r/seduction29/03/26 08:18 PM
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What made her select you over the other guys?
/r/seduction29/03/26 08:18 PM
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The “talk to every human you meet” is the best advice on the subject
/r/seduction27/03/26 03:47 PM
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Come on mate, skinny girls exist
/r/seduction05/03/26 11:21 PM
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Someone having an underweight BMI does not automatically qualify them as being malnourished. Prior to western diets, more people with adequate access to nutrition had an underweight BMI than an overweight one. I get that you once struggled with such an eating disorder, as did I, but don’t let that misinform your judgement of others.
/r/seduction05/03/26 10:52 PM
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I think you’re right in this assessment. Mystery talks about using girls, Orion Taraban talks about women preselecting based on others having already done so, hell, even John Gottman mentions it. My take definitely is not the whole story, being liked by other females will definitely make most other females more into you than they would have been otherwise. I didn’t put it in the post, but I mentioned in a comment to someone else that embodying an archetype can be very beneficial for this specifi…
/r/seduction05/03/26 10:49 PM
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I guess want is a strong word, I wouldn’t wish that upon anyone, but I find I have a very strong “protecting” instinct when it comes to girls with rough childhoods that tends to favor the relationship
/r/seduction05/03/26 10:46 PM
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The title was admittedly click bait. Did you ever tell her the scar was cute? I bet that’d make her week
/r/seduction05/03/26 10:45 PM
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Maybe that was a poor term to use, “underweight BMI” would have been a better one
/r/seduction05/03/26 10:44 PM
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The advice is more specific to your case, but it might behoove you to start acting / dressing like the guys a “baddie” might prefer. If you’re after a specific archetype of female, just maxing your SMV may not be good enough, you may need to adopt behaviors that make that pairing more likely. For example, I’ve found that the type of girl you listed tends to like a successful guy with a clean look, think Travis Kelci. Now obviously we can’t all be Travis Kelci, but some behaviors you could adopt …
/r/seduction05/03/26 02:18 PM
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I’d recommend practicing game right now, but lose weight alongside that. I personally notice better results when I’m very lean.
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:06 PM
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I disagree, the attractiveness of your face normally improves by a couple points from 20% to something like 10%
/r/seduction27/02/26 03:05 PM
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I’ll be an outlier voice and say it made a huge difference to me. Started getting “okay” responses from girls to having them approach me.
/r/seduction17/02/26 01:44 PM
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Good post. This is a bit off topic, but I find that girls tend to respond to “lazy texting” and short texts way more, maybe because of perceived effort
/r/seduction17/02/26 04:19 AM
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Panoptikon is Friday and the church is Sunday, what’s Saturday?
/r/seduction15/02/26 12:06 AM
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Getting lean definitely helps getting more attraction from females, but it’s not about abs, it’s about facial aesthetics. Losing weight makes your face more defined, which makes you more conventionally handsome.
/r/seduction11/02/26 04:19 AM
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Well we appreciate it man. At least put a “buy me a coffee” link so we can support someone who does good work like this :)
/r/seduction02/02/26 09:03 PM
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Mate, put this in an ebook, sell it for $10, and I’ll buy it
/r/seduction02/02/26 08:42 PM
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Getting higher numbers is all about putting yourself out there, handling rejection well, and learning from your experiences. Getting better quality women in these hookups is about increasing SMV. These are general statements but generally true. Also, it helps to shoot for a point or two below your own attractiveness if a hookup is what you want. A 6 female is far more likely to hook up with an 8 male, whereas an 8 female probably won’t, as a 9 or 10 male would be willing to hook up with her. Als…
/r/seduction12/12/25 07:31 PM
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Good field report. I agree with the observation “could tell it would go somewhere within half a second”, something in the eyes gives it away
/r/seduction28/11/25 12:26 AM
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I appreciate the comment, that’s something I hadn’t considered previously. That makes a lot of sense. Naturally I thought “oh she’s inviting me to smoke and back to her place, score”, but that’s also her controlling the situation. And you’re right, she’s probably fine controlling the situation for a fun fuck, but the bar for sleeping with someone is lower than building something more, and I may have fallen under that bar by not leading more. Legitimately very insightful comment, thank you.
/r/seduction24/11/25 10:58 PM
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Yeah I think they were trolling. Now time to get ahead of the other 6.4% of guys.
/r/seduction22/11/25 08:53 PM
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I’d have to say I agree. These “strategies” are very good for building initial attraction, but the ball game changes after some intimacy has been shared.
/r/seduction22/11/25 08:52 PM
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😩
/r/seduction22/11/25 04:39 PM
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Would you mind expounding upon what the restaurant test is? And yeah, I should have worn a condom.
/r/seduction22/11/25 02:24 PM
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She does have her life in order (good career, educated, lots of friends, etc), so this may have been the case. I know she’s had relationships in the past with guys, so she may not be totally closed off, but you’re probably right in that she doesn’t view me as potential for that.
/r/seduction22/11/25 02:21 PM
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I definitely don’t think we’re exclusive or anything close to it, I was more so asking if there was a way to steer the boat towards that rather than leaving it as a hookup. I’d expect it to take 3+ dates to get there, but I’m afraid she’ll want to leave it at one then maybe just a couple of more casual hookups in the future. That’s a really good point about just wanting the relationship vs wanting her, I think you’re right about that. Damn… That’s good advice, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction22/11/25 03:58 AM
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Yeah… it seems that “have an abundance mindset” really is the answer to a lot of situations. Would you recommend I continue texting her the same way I was and maybe set up a second date in a week or two, or should I only casually message her and let her set up us seeing each other again?
/r/seduction22/11/25 03:51 AM
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