It sucks how you can't change youth and fertility, like you can't change height. Find a partner when you're you are young and invest in the relationship so you don't have to worry about this bs.
We also have access to a greater amount of potential partners than ever before. So in order to compete and stand out, of course people will lie. Men can even lie easier though, say I only make $60k a year, I can put my income at $100k and it'll be awhile before the girl finds out, if we are together long enough for her ever to. Or add a few inches to height. Or only use pictures of me on vacation to make it seem like it's a more common occurrence for me. Dating apps and social media are terrible…