audiophilistine Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	What are your most effective ways to make a woman horny? Did you not read the title of the subreddit: Seduction? You don't have to seduce a woman you are already having sex with. You only have to seduce a woman you haven't had sex with YET. I think you misunderstood the assignment.	/r/seduction	16/02/26 11:51 AM
-8	What are your most effective ways to make a woman horny? "Oh hello, nice to meet you." (reaches to stroke inner thighs) She slaps you and calls for security. How could that ever go wrong?	/r/seduction	16/02/26 08:17 AM
1	She told me I can do whatever I want to her Man, you don't know shit. I had a girl tell me damn near the exact same thing: "do whatever you want to me." She told me later that she wanted me to put it in her butt. Don't be telling these people bullshit like you know something when you don't.	/r/seduction	03/04/22 06:20 PM
6	My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidence So you're off to make the old wobbly H? Be sure to high five your buddy to complete the Eiffel Tower achievement.	/r/seduction	17/01/22 06:55 AM
2	What’s the best US City for a single man? Yeah, that’s fair. We men are shit on constantly, by life, by women, by other men. There is literally nowhere I can think of where men are supported and encouraged. Why not give a little encouragement on a seduction sub?	/r/seduction	16/01/22 11:57 PM
6	What’s the best US City for a single man? It is your job to outshine those men. I live in Denver, which has been called Menver supposedly because of the ratio of men to women. Personally I have never had a problem. Learn how to be a desirable man and the women will chase you.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 04:28 PM
10	What’s the best US City for a single man? I went to Scottsdale with my girlfriend at the time. It seemed like every place we went the only women in the club were the waitstaff. I had to work overtime to keep all the single dudes from hitting on my girl.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 04:23 PM
1	The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labels Supposedly public speaking is more scary to many people than the prospect of death. Your story reminds me of giving the toast for my brother's wedding. He invited an absolutely ridiculous amount of people, like several hundred, and had rented out a huge church to fit them all. My dad was best man and was supposed to give the toast, but he bailed before the reception because he didn't want to deal with all the people. So, my brother asked me to give the toast. I had nothing written down or prepar…	/r/seduction	30/12/21 12:27 PM
15	How to approach girls in the club? I kinda hate telling this because I don't want my move to become too overused. I will approach a table of girls with no men around and straight up ask them, "Are you guys scaring off all the men who come around?" You have to be confident enough to show you are not scared by them. This line usually gets a laugh and they often say "no, they're too scared to come talk to us." From there it's just getting to know them and building some comfort with you becoming less of a stranger. Introduce yourself…	/r/seduction	22/11/21 07:18 AM
-28	How do you respond when a girl you’re interested in is complimenting you? Nah, own that shit. You started with a strong frame; you should keep it up. Ok, here's a break down. You fucked up, no getting around that. But, admitting fault is a sign of weakness. Any weakness is not attractive, but assertive confidence is. You gotta get creative and make some magic happen from that. Sadly this only comes from experience from fucking up multiple times. As the saying goes, you only become a master at anything after making every mistake along the way. (Ok, that's paraphrased a…	/r/seduction	31/10/21 01:23 PM
-48	How do you respond when a girl you’re interested in is complimenting you? Bah! Strongly disagree. I am an unabashed asshole and I offend people so often that I have become used to it. It works in my favor because I naturally filter out the weak. If you cannot stand my banter then it is not worth my effort to get to know you. Never lower youselvelf, kings! My problem is it is often hard to find a woman who combines beauty with brains. In most cases it is either one or the other. I do not suffer fools. I judge people on the content of their character.	/r/seduction	31/10/21 01:09 PM
123	If I always get compliments from gay men, am I attractive? The truth is women don't have to chase, they are constantly chased by other men more bold than you. Men, traditionally, have to be the ones pursuing. It is part of our hunter nature. Gay men are the same. So gay men feel comfortable pursuing you, but it is a very rare woman who will do the same. It's an evolutionary test as well. Men who aren't strong enough to overcome their internal fears and pursue a woman they are interested in are not strong enough to be attractive mates to the overwhelming…	/r/seduction	29/09/21 01:13 PM
10	How to deal with the high energy overly flirty girls? I have had some minor success dealing with women like this. A girl might snuggle close and put my arm over her shoulder saying she's cold or something. I'll look down at her and say simply, "I'm not that easy, you know." It flips the script on her making it seem like she's the one chasing. Also, by saying no early, you're telling her she can't have you. It's human nature to want what you can't have...	/r/seduction	22/07/21 05:47 AM
5	Don't fear approaching girls that are in groups. It is actually WAY easier than when they are alone. You just have to approach them the following way... In my experience, if a woman is not immediately put off by the idea of this sub, she's likely open minded and honest enough to give some decent feedback. Your mother will probably give you bad dating advice, but there are plenty of girls who are savvy. I'm willing to give them the benefit of the doubt until they prove otherwise. You can usually tell pretty quickly by the attitude they present. No group is a monolith, meaning you can't just generalize all of them with one broad, sweeping statemen…	/r/seduction	11/03/21 07:56 PM
3	Don't fear approaching girls that are in groups. It is actually WAY easier than when they are alone. You just have to approach them the following way... Why wouldn't you want a woman's perspective? Women that can stomach the idea of a sub devoted to men learning how to get good at talking to women are usually pretty cool in my experience. When I first got into game a girl picked up and thumbed through my copy of The Game by Strauss. She got all huffy and pissed about it because she felt manipulated. I told her that if I hadn't read that book I might have been too timid to talk to her in the first place. Didn't help, she remained pissed for no lo…	/r/seduction	11/03/21 07:06 PM
18	A woman's POV Maybe I'm an outlier, but I prefer a strong woman. Not because I want a mommy or someone to dominate me, but rather someone I can trust as an equal who can handle her shit in an emergency if I'm incapacitated. Confidence is always attractive in my book.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 10:25 PM
9	A woman's POV This definitely rings true. You know how men have the 1-10 hotness scale? Most men tend to hit on women near to their perceived level of attractiveness and would be too intimidated to hit on a "10" (or even a 8 or 9) figuring they'd have no chance.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 10:22 PM
25	A woman's POV If anyone came here and said that to a man, they’d be lynched. This is utter fiction. Nobody gives a shit about men, least of all other men. No honor amongst thieves and whatnot. Otherwise I agree with your comment.	/r/seduction	04/03/21 10:17 PM
9	Twelve Attractive Traits and Behaviors of a High Status Man Yeah, with that mindset, I'm sure they're not buying what you are selling. Look, I'm not trying to put you down, but you're looking at things the wrong way. You shouldn't go through the work and effort to improve yourself just to get a woman. You should do it purely for selfish reasons and to be a better person. Attracting quality women is a side benefit of becoming a quality man. Also, you're looking at relationships in a very transactional way. If all you want is a piece of ass, I guess I can …	/r/seduction	22/01/21 10:13 PM
8	Twelve Attractive Traits and Behaviors of a High Status Man I'm sure you've heard the phrase "fake it till you make it," right? Well you can totally do that with this list. For instance, I used to talk in a higher pitch. When I got defensive I would go even higher. So I made a conscious effort to speak in a lower tone of voice, a deeper note. After a short while of conscious effort, I found myself speaking that way naturally. It became an effort to talk the way I used to because I had acquired, internalized and incorporated the tone of voice I was going …	/r/seduction	22/01/21 08:41 PM
3	What topics are good to way to start with? There is an art to conversation. Luckily it's a skill you can learn. You can learn things like mirroring their posture and language then trying to lead. You can try triangular vision between her eyes and mouth, and all these other techniques and whatnot, but in the end you just have to suck it up and be confident, or at least pretend to be. Just talk to girls like they're normal people, because they are. Context is pretty key. Where are you meeting girls and why are you both there? A school envi…	/r/seduction	08/09/20 02:58 PM
2	What’s the best seduction advice you learned? Because of the implication?	/r/seduction	25/07/20 11:22 AM
6	Is there any special way of eye contact? Where do you see manipulation? It's sexual communication. There was no manipulation in the comment you replied to.	/r/seduction	14/04/20 09:47 AM
1	Something you may want to try I'm guessing you're in your late teens or early 20s. You are just starting. Someone said to be great at something you first have to be terrible at something. You don't know what to say, what to do, how to hold yourself, or how to react to her shit tests. So try everything. There's literally no consequences for trying. Fake it till you make it. Be James Bond, be sexy, suave and sophisticated. The only failure is when you don't learn from your mistakes.	/r/seduction	16/06/19 10:03 PM
4	Something you may want to try Well duh, I mean they are the gate keepers of what you want. That doesn't make them any less desirable, it only makes you more desperate. Act as if you don't need it and you'll be swimming in pussy. What I mean is be a desirable man and you'll find plenty of opportunities. You have a scarcity mentality, when there's literally dozens of women who'll sleep with you if you only take the chance.	/r/seduction	16/06/19 11:21 AM
10	Something you may want to try I love this. I just got a compliment I've never had before last night. I rolled up on a group of people in my neighborhood and was chatting with some friends I knew. This woman, who I didn't know, said "I love your energy, give me a hug". That was awesome. Attitude brings so much to the table.	/r/seduction	16/06/19 11:08 AM
17	How to open in a nightclub? A favorite of mine is while at the bar ordering a drink, sometimes a girl with rub her butt on me, or accidentally brush my butt. I'll say something like "are you trying to get my attention?" with an amused expression on my face. This puts her in the frame of the one chasing and has worked with very hot girls I could never approach successfully when they're with their pack of friends. Banter with her a bit and don't be afraid to make a sexual joke or innuendo (without being creepy). Even if you …	/r/seduction	25/05/19 11:25 AM
2	I'm ready to be the girl who has game. Why did you think I was disagreeing with you? Maybe I was just trying to add to the conversation.	/r/seduction	30/04/19 03:46 PM
2	I'm ready to be the girl who has game. Game is hard for men. It takes a lot of practice and failure to get good at it. Many guys get pissed because women are the gate keepers, and they haven't found the key. So they get resentful when they see the girl they want leaving with another dude. The impression is all a woman has to do to get laid is say yes. There is some truth to that, but not if you have any standards at all. Took me awhile to realize there's a whole lot of competition among women, and there's no guarantee the guy they li…	/r/seduction	30/04/19 03:03 PM
2	I'm ready to be the girl who has game. While I believe it is far easier for girls to game, I'm also sure there's still a skill set involved. Most importantly you have to grow a personality. A 6 with a great personality can move easily to an 8. A 10 will always be a 10, but you'd get bored and drop that 10 if she was dull. Then she has to know how to flirt for her targets. You can't be a bitchy-brat to a low esteem guy or too easy for a hot guy, I'd guess. Also, as much as we all say we want women to be more forward, there's limits to…	/r/seduction	30/04/19 02:51 PM
18	I'm ready to be the girl who has game. Long hair on women is known as a sexual signifier, one of the traits that defines the sexes. True, guys with long hair and girls with short hair are acceptable these days, but traditionally girls have long hair. It's definitely my preference on a girl. A pixie cut seems to have a particular message when a woman wears it. Women often attack their hair and chop it off when they're upset, like after a break up. Also after a break up women are more open to a ONS situation. So, pixie cut hair is a si…	/r/seduction	30/04/19 02:33 PM
1	Looking for London wing. A wing will help you relax and shake off a set you bust. It's someone to talk to while you gather your courage to go in again. In truth, there are a very few times a wing actively helps you get the girl. I had a wingman for a while and many times he would screw up my game or try to move in on my target so I'd wind up in direct competition with the one who's supppsed to help me out. My point is a wingman is overrated. Yeah, it's great to have a friend to hang out with, but you can waste an evenin…	/r/seduction	19/03/19 09:17 PM
1	Gillette doubles down on hating all men - removes all downvotes. Boycott>Downvote Well, jokes on them then. Hardcore feminists don't shave.	/r/PussyPass	24/01/19 04:55 PM
44	The deal with “hot” girls... and why they’re definitely not out of your league. Some really hot girls I've talked to complain that most guys won't talk to them because they're literally afraid of them. Women are definitely the fairer sex. Fortunately for us men, they aren't as attracted by simple looks as men are. While attractiveness is still a factor, it's far, FAR from the only factor they're looking for to trigger their attraction. They're also looking for strength, confidence, assertiveness, and the ability to lead. Unfortunately these characteristics are also displaye…	/r/seduction	07/01/19 10:21 PM
3	The 10-10-10 rule helps with approach anxiety (Tiny FR) Sound it out in your head.	/r/seduction	17/09/18 05:52 PM
1	Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this. My advice applies for all of North America, from Mexico to Canada. I've been to Europe, but didnt try to pick up there. I know in Spain, for instance, they have a culture where lots of people go out in groups and that's how they meet. Where do you live where talking to people is taboo? U.A.E.? Do you have arranged marriage? There has to be some way for people to meet and interact.	/r/seduction	15/09/18 03:16 AM
2	Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this. Fair enough. The same rules apply in day-game environments. Be observant and comment on something you see. Be friendly and, if possible, funny too. Clubs are tricky because girls have their guards up. There's tons of creepers about. With day-game it's much more relaxed. You can literally go up to someone you like and say "Hey, I think you're cute. I just had to say hi or I'd be kicking myself the rest of the day. I'm (your name here). What's your name?" Happy hunting and best of luck!	/r/seduction	15/09/18 01:26 AM
12	Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this. It really doesn't matter. I like to work the room, wander around and talk to different groups of people. I'll cheers the girls and sometimes guys too. You'll look alpha as fuck and get an idea of where your best prospects are. This is just socialising, so no pressure. Be observant. Notice what's happening, and comment on that. Last weekend I was at a club and saw a blonde with a blue skirt and red top. I said "I like your outfit, you look like supergirl with that color scheme." This was an easy …	/r/seduction	14/09/18 07:40 PM
3	Overthinking this I know, but when you’re straddling a guy are you supposed to sit on his crotch? Which is pointed up for most men, I believe. Also that way the sensitive frenulum is aimed out.	/r/seduction	02/09/18 05:15 AM
12	[FR] "I don't want to bother her" or "she's out of my league". How many times have you said this to yourself and not approached her? A story this weekend opened my eyes to why that's bullshit and I'll never use that excuse again. Yep, whenever you meet 2 girls out together and one is far more attractive than the other, you make friends with the less attractive girl first. You engager her in conversation and laugh at her jokes while sparing little attention to the attractive girl. This creates a "jealously plotline" because the attractive girl sees her friend getting the attention she craves, thus making you more attractive in her eyes. You can switch your attention later if she "earns" your attention. This has the side b…	/r/seduction	29/05/18 11:43 PM
1	Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college) Hey, old dude checking in. I've so totally been there, but my memory of college is how many missed opportunities I had. Looking back, here's some advice I'd like to share. Learn to be unaffected. If she says something offensive to you, otherwise known as a "shit-test," don't react. Just let it wash over you with a slight grin. Check her body language. Is she open or closed to you? If open, this is just an opening for banter. If she's closed it'll take more work to pique her interest. Observe the…	/r/seduction	08/05/18 10:02 AM
1	How to know what to do in the moment? Make a move. If you feel like its a "moment" you gotta make a move. Once during a "moment" I had a girl ask "Do you have game?" So I kissed her. Afterwards she said "Yep, you've got game." The thing that practice will teach you is that you totally should always make a move when you feel a moment of connection with a girl. I've never regretted it when I did make a move, and I always regret it when I don't. Even if your move isn't well received, which happens, all is not lost. Got a date with a gi…	/r/seduction	29/04/18 07:44 AM
1	The absolute BEST way to Day Approach a cute girl This is definitely a self-limiting belief. I used to hang out with a dude who was 6' 7". Everywhere we went girls would exclaim "You're so tall!" It got old even for me. So there I was, around 6 feet and overweight with this tall skinny dude who was like a signpost girls could see from across the bar. He was fairly confident, but also just a bit awkward. I used to have crippling social anxiety till I learned (painfully) to get over it. Eventually I learned to be charming as fuck and how to bante…	/r/seduction	17/04/18 04:36 PM
2	I’m a college guy being “set up” with a girl by mutual friends. Any tips to avoid awkwardness? You absolutely must defuse the situation by acknowledging the awkwardness right off with some humor. The words don't matter, but you should convey that even though your friends want some juicy story, you're just two people having lunch who happen to be single. In the same joking way, you should also acknowledge the first date is like an interview. When you're on your date together, practice active listening. This means you should listen for interesting "handles" to grab onto, or interesting side…	/r/seduction	18/01/18 10:51 PM
4	How can I make hugs more natural? I'm a hugger, so this is no big deal. Spread your arms wide with one arm higher than the other. This is so one arm goes over the shoulder and one goes under their arm. This lets her do the same and its even for both people. Go heart to heart. Don't hug at a distance, go chest to chest. Yes, you perv, you get to feel her boobies with your chest. If you're lucky she'll give them a little shake during the hug. It happens. Wrap them up in your arms and give a little squeeze for a beat or two. Usuall…	/r/seduction	03/11/17 11:46 PM
6	It's legitimately amazing how nice girls are! That may be accurate. It is a numbers game after all. You never know when a girl you meet has a boyfriend, is having a bad day, just had a bad break up, etc. You have to talk to many girls to get a positive reaction. You have to make yourself vulnerable to rejection. This is hard to do and multiple rejections are discouraging. I understand first hand how hard it is to do because I've done it and still do. When you start a new hobby or nearly any activity, the more you do something the better you…	/r/seduction	17/06/17 12:32 PM
19	It's legitimately amazing how nice girls are! Bullshit. This may sound cliche, but if that's your experience you're coming in with the wrong energy somehow. If you can't be confident, act like you are. Don't react to bullshit she might throw at you and laugh it off. Take a chance and challenge her. And if at first you don't succeed, try try again.	/r/seduction	17/06/17 10:43 AM
4	Is locking eyes seductive? (24f) Hi I'm _____________. You look interesting/fun/lovely, I just had to say hello. What's your name?	/r/seduction	07/06/17 09:36 AM
25	Pussy Passes Denied While I agree with you, I'd say it's pretty long odds anyone in these videos are conservative.	/r/PussyPassDenied	11/04/17 11:01 AM
2	Is this what shit tests are? Next time you're in the club, really watch the interactions between girls and the men who approach them. You'll notice hot girls get hit on a LOT. Hell almost every girl gets hit on a lot on an average day. There's really no need to be nice to guys since there's an endless stream of them approaching. Some girls just get tired of it and put up the "bitch shield" to avoid wasting too much time. It also goes back to tribal behavior, with women being attracted to strong alpha males who can defend he…	/r/seduction	30/11/16 01:55 AM
6	How do you pivot when you notice a girl is attracted to you? Not trying to be a smart ass, but I'm sure you can google just as well as I can. I actually picked up a small book on it and just skimmed it. You only need the very briefest of info to sell it for a few minutes. Know the life-line, the heart-line, and the Mount of Venus.	/r/seduction	12/11/16 02:24 AM
26	How do you pivot when you notice a girl is attracted to you? Find an excuse to grab her hand. This sounds super-cheesy but learn some simple palm-reading techniques. First, this gives you an excuse to hold her hand and second, girls eat up fortune teller/supernatural BS for some reason. Plus you can always start to banter about a handsome stranger in her near future who will rock her world.	/r/seduction	12/11/16 01:11 AM
3	Techniques I've picked up for using Kino and Body Language to build intimacy While I totally agree grabbing her hand and not ever letting go on a first date is pretty cringe-worthy, I think there are times for some brief hand holding that can help things. For example, if you're trying to move through a crowd, hold her hand and lead the way. This is very natural and shows confidence/leadership without being awkward. Similarly if you go hiking on a 2nd date, you can offer your hand to help her over an obstacle. Of course after both of these examples you should let go after…	/r/seduction	15/06/16 11:04 AM
13	Man Sues Gym over 'Women Only Hours' Safe space is the modern, sanitized way of saying segregation.	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/06/16 04:24 AM
28	Man Sues Gym over 'Women Only Hours' Don't forget about Starship Troopers!	/r/PussyPassDenied	07/06/16 04:22 AM
1	21 years old and first date ever tonight. Help! Rub one one out before you go. That will relax you, keep you from constantly thinking of sex, And if you happen to get some first-date sex, will help you last longer in the sack.	/r/seduction	12/12/15 12:56 AM
7	24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know? Oh man, so many things to cover here! Of course keep it light and fun, try not to rapid fire questions at her, and remember a couple jokes to make her laugh. One thing that took me a lot of trial and error to learn is don't be afraid to push your luck a little. If you don't show any kind of sexual interest early on you can find yourself in the friend zone. I am by no means saying you should start pawing at her or leering. I mean at some point hold her hand, and do go for a kiss at some point in …	/r/seduction	29/10/15 06:13 AM
5	What's a good way to meet older women? Dancing classes. Any dance class will have a very good ratio of women to men and women of all ages. During the lesson they often require you to change partners every few minutes. Way less awkward than a speed dating thing, plus women LOVE men who know how to dance.	/r/seduction	15/07/15 07:33 AM
1	How to approach girls in group of 2 or more ... example of ice breakers ? Anything to get attention? Generally girls in bars or clubs are there to meet guys, so don't feel bad for interrupting their conversation. They want you to interrupt (unless it looks intense). As many others have said, just saying "Hi" is a great opener. Talk to everyone in the group, even the guys. Be interesting. Easily said, I know, but it's not too hard. Ask basic questions like "what are you guys up to tonight?" "How did you all know each other?" etc. Don't feel like you have to do all the talking. Most people's favo…	/r/seduction	12/06/15 07:25 AM
1	Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few do Some women are trapped in a prison of their own minds that their cultural upbringing has created. I dated a devout catholic girl for a while and she only achieved climax after several months of patient work. Alternately I dated a girl from Spain who was the most uninhibited sexual being I've ever been with. TL;DR: it's not all your fault. Above all, be patient and try your very best to have no expectations on her performance/pleasure. As for myself, I try to be a gentleman in bed and let her go …	/r/seduction	28/04/15 08:10 AM
1	Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few do In a word, kegels. Women are told to practice their kegels all the time but they work for men too. Besides giving you harder erections, with practice and skill, you can even use the PC muscles the kegels work to achieve the mythical male multiple orgasm.	/r/seduction	28/04/15 07:49 AM
10	[FR] Took a girl from Tinder hiking, went back to my place, F-Close This is something I love to argue with my friends about. With today's 24 hour news media (at least in America) even a minor story gets national air time and plenty of pundit's opinions. And then there's Nancy Grace (shudder). If you do a street poll you'll find most people think crime is on the rise and things are worse than ever. This is utter bullshit. The facts are that violent crime has dropped something like 50% in the U.S. since the mid 1990's. Proof.	/r/seduction	06/04/15 09:10 AM
1	What's the etiquette when pursuing more than one girl, being monogamous at what point do you say "Hey I'm seeing someone" Follow up resonse: I've found, in my years of dating experience, if you don't risk anything, you don't get anything. You should be aggressive in your interactions, meaning don't hover hand, don't just hug and part; go for the kiss, go for the little bit extra to tell her you want more. Take it to a sexual level and express your interest in her. If you don't you could miss out on her completely.	/r/seduction	14/03/15 07:08 AM
1	What's the etiquette when pursuing more than one girl, being monogamous at what point do you say "Hey I'm seeing someone" [Is] where feelings develop where you draw the line? No, that's too much of a 'nice guy' mentality. What I mean is when you have 'the talk' with a girl. Once you have had sex (3 dates or less), usually she'll initiate by asking you something like "where do you see our relationship going" or a variation. This is what I mean by 'The Talk.' She's asking if you want to be committed to each other in a monogamous relationship. If you agree to those terms, you should stick to them. It's only a betrayal…	/r/seduction	14/03/15 07:02 AM
3	What's the etiquette when pursuing more than one girl, being monogamous at what point do you say "Hey I'm seeing someone" Don't sweat it. Cute girls do this all the time. I had no idea and like you I was feeling guilty about seeing two girls at once. I talked about it to my friend's hot girlfriend. She opened my eyes when she asked innocently "What's the big deal? Doesn't everyone do this?" Now once you find a girl you like and feelings start developing and you have 'the talk,' this is definitely a no no. Until then, go for it! Dating is a buffet bar, sample everything. No need to commit to one till you figure out …	/r/seduction	13/03/15 11:12 PM