auepoch Archive

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1	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. I just want to say thanks for the replies. It's helped me a lot. Lately I've been getting a lot of things done that I put off and it feels good to have time to myself to be productive instead of being consumed in a relationship. Self improvement feels good and I plan it being my one true relationship.	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/15 09:37 PM
1	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. Update: I was super sad about it for about a week. Then it started getting better when I internalized that it's for the better. It seems funny what started to happen though. I realized that it was a hidden opportunity to grow and I see it now as a gift. Of course I'm never going to be "cool" with it, because specifically her choice, after all that she said (mostly bs), put me in a really shitty situation and I'm always going to think that was a really bitch move on her part (her problem). I'm no…	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/15 09:25 PM
1	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. I guess some opportunities aren't really there until we realize they are. Thanks for the insight.	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/15 08:51 PM
1	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. Do you recommend some specific further reading?	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/15 08:49 PM
1	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. Looking back, this is solid advice.	/r/TheRedPill	27/01/15 08:44 PM
1	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. She did, I made the mistake of listening. She returned right back to disrespect. Hung up and left her with a positive "have fun."	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/15 08:21 PM
1	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. Yeah it sucks but this is correct.	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/15 08:19 PM
1	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. She didn't say anything that could be taken as a threat. Not this time anyway. She needs to learn that shit isn't to be used for leverage. Her new buddy is going to find that out fast. Your comment reminded me again that I'm glad I'm done with her. She's someone else's responsibility now and it shouldn't be looming in the back of my mind anymore.	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/15 08:10 PM
1	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. I don't feel as bad anymore. She acted really shitty so I care so much less. It's usually two months for 100%?	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/15 08:01 PM
2	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. I fucked up. I ignored her for a couple days and she was moaning about how she fucked it up and how she can't be without me. She asked to talk to me and I ignored her. Then after another day I called her, immediately she picked up. I told her I'm not going to be in a relationship where I'm not respected and she admitted she's not good at making decisions and that she wasn't loyal or honest to me and said I deserve better. "I don't want to lose you but I have feelings for x." She said "give me so…	/r/TheRedPill	20/01/15 07:29 PM
1	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. 'Blindsided' was probably a self cop out. I was way more BP/lazy when we started dating, thinking it would never happen to me. Generally she's a good girl and when I met her, after we started getting to knowing each other better, she asked me if I wanted to be committed. I kind of skirted the topic and as soon as she directly asked me, she added that it would be okay if I wanted to see other girls because she'd stay loyal to me. Like a semi-retarded beta I said no it should be an equal relations…	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/15 04:44 PM
5	Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming. 7 hours after I said bye to her she tried to call me 6 times and left me about 12 messages. She sent me more this morning and asked to talk to me. I still haven't said anything back. I know for a fact that this guy is not bigger than me. He may do the c/a teasing and pretends to be a poser 'thug.' I'm kind of pisssed/insulted that she would even consider this guy because I know weight for weight I have more substance. They were platonic friends before I met her but she recently found out via his…	/r/TheRedPill	18/01/15 04:28 PM