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Sometimes it can be good. Other times, if you're really paying attention, it will be much better to ask another question relating to the story or (gasp) tell them a little bit about you.
/r/seduction06/06/15 08:21 AM
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You don't have to read anything on the sub before going out. Do what is normally suggested here and pre-game. Pre-gaming is basically just bringing the party with you. Talk to everybody on your way to the club/bar/party/whatever, and be in a good mood before you get to the place. It's much easier to open yourself up in an easy situation (walking on the street) as opposed to a harder situation. Get hyped before you go in the club. One other thing: I would probably advise doing something other tha…
/r/seduction21/03/15 10:37 AM
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When we talk about a nice guy on this subreddit, or in seduction in general, we're talking about somebody who will change who he is to be with a girl. If you've read Models this was referred to as neediness. It's perfectly fine to be a kind person and volunteer at the food bank and open doors for her. It's mostly about taking charge of your life and actions, instead of suggesting a date, lead her on the date.
/r/seduction27/12/14 11:03 PM
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Gotta play the game to win, or even to improve. Keep at it man!
/r/seduction23/12/14 08:53 AM
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Set a boundary. Say that if she doesn't want to see you, it would be best for the both of you to save the time and just not see each other. start asking me about the girl and why i'm with her, try to convince me to leave Unless you're in a committed relationship, you should just tell them that you're a people person and that you like to see what other people have to offer.
/r/seduction21/10/14 06:23 AM
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You should really only focus on eye contact with people who you're talking to. Unless you're really really submissive in public, just keep focusing on eye contact during conversations and in notime it will become a natural habit.
/r/seduction21/10/14 06:18 AM
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As much as we all like to think, you're not in control most of the time. Lead a happy life independent from relationships with girls and it'll not only make you a happier man, but more attractive.
/r/seduction21/10/14 06:15 AM
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In the club I'm far too scared to dance with a girl because it means displaying attraction, and I feel like if I do that, I'll just get rejected You may get rejected. You most likely WILL get rejected. 90% of approaches will be some form of rejection even for PUA's. Treat it like an adventure. Have fun, and although you may look like a fool to 90% of women, only your own opinion of yourself is important. Look for the 10% that will like your moves!
/r/seduction21/10/14 03:37 AM
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The little bits of helpful information you'll find on /r/TheRedPill is overshadowed by their condescending, "life is shit and you're a victim" attitude. What makes us human is our ability to rationalize a stimulus and make independent decisions, and a victim's attitude will only dig you into a deeper hole. In short, the main difference is that /r/seduction will tell you to actually be the best you can be, whereas /r/TheRedPill will tell you to appear to be the best you can be.
/r/seduction17/10/14 05:50 AM
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For me at least, it helps to just move on, frankly. The last girl or thing is always stuck in my head until something else replaces it. Maybe reading a book on seduction would help you, to put that and not past failures into your mind.
/r/seduction16/10/14 05:23 AM
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I've felt the same way. Honestly, right now you should focus on making good friends and having fun. The rest will more or less just happen when you stop focusing on how much of a fraud you think you are.
/r/seduction16/10/14 05:15 AM
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Posts like this are why I keep coming to seddit.
/r/seduction09/10/14 02:51 AM
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The ends don't justify the means in something like seduction. Real relationships revolve around being genuine and honest.
/r/seduction21/09/14 05:05 PM
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ewwwwwwwwww
/r/seduction21/09/14 05:00 PM
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Next time when he's telling you a sob story, tell him the only way he can change is if he grows some balls and stops complaining about shit. People just want to be liked, so tell him that he should go out there and take more risks.
/r/seduction14/09/14 08:26 PM
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Eye contact doesn't just mean staring, and should never be really intense. It should be inviting. Maybe it's just natural for me, but my eyes are never super wide-open and creepy looking, so I don't need to focus on not looking creepy. Smile, and when she's next to you, tilt your head a bit to the side, orient yourself in her direction, and it won't be creepy.
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:56 PM
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You can get away with it if after the joke you say something deep and serious.
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:51 PM
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It's probably just more in your mind than anything. After being mega attached to texting in the past, I've shifted to texting as little as possible. The idea is that texts are equivalent to using a megaphone across campus, and provide basically no level to connect on- physically or emotionally. My challenge to you is to ONLY text when setting up dates. I've only texted my current girlfriend once, and it's good not to feel phantom vibrations all day.
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:49 PM
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You seem like you already know the answer. The only way you can keep yourself from messing up like this is to go for it. You'll never see her again if she denies you, so there's nothing to lose.
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:41 PM
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You can call them out on this, as well as basically anything they do. "hey, you're talking to a real human being right now, look at me"
/r/seduction14/09/14 04:37 PM
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If you build yourself an amazing life, people will want to be a part of it. Whatever crazy thing you want to try do it! Whether it's dancing, singing, skydiving, or playing guitar, learn how to do it and get better at it. Wonder what you'd be doing if the internet hadn't been invented yet.
/r/seduction14/09/14 02:19 AM
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Pretend like you're not a virgin if it bothers you so much.
/r/seduction11/09/14 11:32 PM
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Depends on the setting, but it's pretty much always following the formula of hello -> comment about her -> my name
/r/seduction24/08/14 08:35 PM
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This sounds interesting. I'm just gonna stick to the basic intro for now though. I'd get too caught up in trying to drop my name in a story since it's normally such an easy thing to do without thinking.
/r/seduction24/08/14 01:14 PM
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If this were true, then you only wait for girls to approach you? A good consumer always wants to find out more about the product. Imagine you are buying a car. A car salesman will almost never knock on your front door, you have to walk into that dealership and talk to him. Studies have shown that both men and women like to talk about themselves, and when they talk about themselves they are generally more happy and entertained. By being the buyer, you make the girl feel happy and she will associa…
/r/seduction20/08/14 08:45 PM
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They're sitting out there waiting to give you their pussy. Are you gonna take it? Are you Man enough? I think that's how it goes.
/r/seduction19/08/14 12:28 PM
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You can set up a date for a closer time, like if it's a Wednesday you should go out on a Thursday, so you don't need to keep texting her the entire week. Also, I just feel like the girls I do get close to end up waiting on me to always make the first move and then they lose interest Please, please, please watch this Nick Sparks seminar on how to hold a conversation like a man! It's really empowering and quite entertaining to make people (but especially girls) feel awkward in a conversation as a …
/r/seduction19/08/14 08:26 AM
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What's the setting? in a club or party atmosphere you can go outside or someplace quieter.
/r/seduction19/08/14 06:08 AM
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You know what the easiest way is to revert back to the early transitional phase you talked about? Talking to those girls again. There's more than 3 billion girls out there, you can't let one or two get in the way of the rest.
/r/seduction19/08/14 06:00 AM
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"I bet I could bench press like 5 hot babes like you!"
/r/seduction19/08/14 05:54 AM
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If everybody does it, you're doing nothing to differentiate yourself from others. Plus, it's more fun to go out and do different things!
/r/seduction16/08/14 03:58 AM
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"I was almost in a porno..."
/r/seduction15/08/14 08:59 AM
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It should be at least in your confidence or intonation that you can attract a girl. You don't need to talk about a certain thing or make her burst into laughter. My advice is whatever's on your mind; talk about it. You could be talking about toenails, and as long as she's having fun, you can get her number.
/r/seduction14/08/14 05:19 AM
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It's a matter of being genuinely relatable and very emotional. Charismatic people talk directly from the heart and balls, not their head.
/r/seduction10/08/14 09:38 PM
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Good on you for actually doing this. However I'm not so sure about reminding her of the boyfriend, since you're hitting a point where if you acknowledge that fact, she'll think you just want to be friends. Also for future reference, it's better to form your invitation to grab coffee as a statement instead of a question. For example: "Let's go grab a coffee at 3 tomorrow, it'll be fun."
/r/seduction07/08/14 06:28 AM
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Or you could just, you know, not come across as needy and only use texts to set up dates. I don't want to be a dick here, but "text game" is overused and not necessary at all. It is most likely that you could be spending your time actually out gaming somewhere instead of trying to cheer up the lady. Different strokes for different folks, but its bad to be dependent on affirmation in the form of a text from others.
/r/seduction07/08/14 06:21 AM
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Don't forget to build relationships with the people where you hang out! Befriend the coffee shop barista-dudeorladydude, and have conversations with people you're not sexually attracted to. Creating attraction and networking is more worthwhile in the long run than just cold approaching. Gotta give you props for your dedication though, dude. Keep at it!
/r/seduction07/08/14 06:12 AM
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TIL how to pick up Grandmothers.
/r/seduction06/08/14 04:00 PM
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If you are being told your world view is wrong, it's probably not a good program. Becoming a better version of yourself does not mean changing your principles or values.
/r/seduction06/08/14 03:54 PM
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Interesting
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:03 PM
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You should really watch this Nick Sparks video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI. In it, he explains that if someone asserts themselves as the center of attention, don't try to 1up him and get into a dick measuring contest, instead be genuinely interested in his stories or whatever he says, and ask him questions. Eventually you'll be the center of attention because he is giving you his attention.
/r/seduction02/08/14 09:40 PM
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It's probably worth a shot as an opener. However, when you're just talking to her, the golden rule is if she's smart, compliment her looks, and if she's beautiful, compliment her intelligence.
/r/seduction02/08/14 08:47 AM
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Cya later beautiful is desperate?
/r/seduction31/07/14 05:29 AM
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Tough night! Next time you break contact, don't go to the bathroom though. It happens to everybody at some point, but the girl can't read your mind. Turn away, recognize your mistakes more quickly, then pounce on it. You could have made out with her right there if you turned back and looked her in the eyes.
/r/seduction28/07/14 08:59 AM
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I admit I have no experience in this situation, but I can say that you should surround yourself with people: men and women that you can look up to. Look at what the guys that are pulling all of the girls there are doing, befriend them, and maybe they'll show you the ropes.
/r/seduction28/07/14 08:49 AM
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the fallowing days texting go pretty well with a funny and flowing conversation Call her if you want to set up the next interaction! Nobody ever said you needed to text. Even if it comes across as a bit weird, she'll still remember you as somebody different, because nobody calls anymore.
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:32 AM
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It's not really the action of texting a few times or every once in a while that's bad, its that in many cases it can outright replace regular healthy everyday communication. You lose out on the many different great things about talking face to face (voice, touch). Far and away the MOST important thing about why texting is not advised is that if you do it enough, you'll start to get a rise out of it. I can speak from experience, checking my phone every 10 minutes from phantom vibrations, I got ge…
/r/seduction21/07/14 08:57 AM
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So drink green tea? Or mega doses of supplements?
/r/seduction21/07/14 08:04 AM
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Even if you don't approach, you'll still feel an incredible boost in confidence and power. It knocks the "HB 10" right off her pedestal in your mind.
/r/seduction13/06/14 05:11 AM
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Next time you see one, hold your breath and stare her right in the fucking eyes. She'll look away, and it's no longer a cold approach.
/r/seduction13/06/14 04:35 AM
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Since he doesn't give an example of how this relates to game: By eliminating negative thoughts, you become a positive person. To create attraction is to be positive. Interestingly enough, after enough time being positive, you'll notice that other people change as well, and become more positive. This, to me, is more powerful than any exchange.
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:06 AM
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Being "alpha" just means being a leader. Be the person that a girl would want to spend time with, and maybe being the "life of the party". Having confidence just makes being alpha much easier.
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:51 AM
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Even though you say you can't ditch him, you should at least threaten it if he's ruining your game so much. Tell him straight up that what he's done isn't cool and that go out with him next time if he's gonna be such a big blocker. The way you paint him seems like he's a jerk, but it's probably that he's afraid if you get a girl he'll be left out to dry. Tell him that if he stops blocking you, you'd still be friends and hang out all the time.
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:26 AM
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people come to the studio, practice and leave right away In my opinion, do your best to talk to a girl during your break, just something to break the ice; ask her something dance related "how long have you been dancing?". Be confident. It's the only thing that matters. Then, after the practice is done, walk towards her and continue the conversation, or ask her if she can stay for a bit just to talk. Don't get into your head so much. Ask questions, bring up something funny about how you're the on…
/r/seduction03/06/14 07:02 AM
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It's a way to distinguish yourself at the very least. In my opinion, as close as you can get to an actual physical reaction, the better. For example, skype calls would be better than phone calls because it's verbal and visual, whereas texting is totally removed from both aspects.
/r/seduction25/05/14 09:53 AM
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Or just get rid of texting until after a few dates. Calling is much more effective, since it's more direct and prompts an instant response.
/r/seduction25/05/14 07:55 AM
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Then there's that one lurker in here working his ass off to release a fake FR on saturday for reddit gold.
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:39 AM
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It's certainly a factor, but girls care about confidence much more than looks. You could be the most handsome man in the world but if you don't have the balls to talk, you're not getting anything.
/r/seduction28/04/14 04:39 AM
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Disagree with the HB6 part, she just should be attractive if you want a # close. The HB 1-10 scale doesn't really matter all that much and many here should just use the HB1 or HB0 method. Attractive vs unattractive, since people's standards are very biased.
/r/seduction28/03/14 01:55 AM
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Would the kiss on the cheek be considered push/pull? If not, I would have probably gone for the lips.
/r/seduction15/03/14 06:39 PM
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Yeah, being yourself if you're boring is not good. What I always say is: "Be who you want to be" If you were an alphamale and gaming every night you would probably not be on this subreddit in all honesty.
/r/seduction15/03/14 06:11 AM
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"lets go to the mall", "we should hang out sometime", Whatever you like to do. Movies are good too.
/r/seduction13/03/14 01:23 AM
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