austinrose7 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Best daygame spots in Oklahoma City area?	Logistics	austinrose7	/r/seduction	12/10/21 07:23 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to stop caring what she’s doing? You have “one-itis”. You need to go out and spam cold approach until you get a rotation of at least 3-4 women (preferably more like 20-25, but realistically that would take you a long time to develop). That way if you lose one you still have several, you won’t really care.	/r/seduction	23/08/22 12:52 PM
3	Are there any skinny guys here that have no trouble getting women? Sounds like you’ve already given up.	/r/seduction	21/08/22 07:14 PM
1	Are there any skinny guys here that have no trouble getting women? That’s insane lmao. I have to eat perfectly, zero sugar, processed, and/or caloric dense foods, to only eat 2,000 calories in a day. Eat two large spoonfuls of peanut butter every two hours and drink a half-gallon of milk a day and watch your weight go up.	/r/seduction	21/08/22 07:10 PM
1	Are there any skinny guys here that have no trouble getting women? As long as you’re not on either extreme end, i.e obese or anorexic, you’re good looking enough to attract women. Learn game, hit the gym, get a cool haircut, perfect your hygiene and fashion, work on your body language and vocal tonality, etc etc. Women are much more concerned with your perceived value and social status, confidence, and your “vibe” more than pure looks like us men are.	/r/seduction	21/08/22 06:24 PM
13	Men of Reddit, what are some of the best places to meet and interact with women? Thanks man, I appreciate it. I’m trying to do 1,000 approaches by the end of my school year, which is starting tomorrow. Only got one in today (“I have a boyfriend”, ugh), but I was busy, oh well. When I hit 1,000 I’m going to attempt to write out everything I’ve learned and experienced to make the most value-packed post this sub has ever seen.	/r/seduction	21/08/22 02:37 AM
77	Men of Reddit, what are some of the best places to meet and interact with women? Everywhere. Make approaching women just something that’s a part of your day-to-day life, like brushing your teeth. The cute barista at the coffee shop? Approach her. The slim blonde in the frozen aisle of Walmart? Approach her. The nerd at the campus/city library with glasses and some weird underground band t-shirt on? Approach her. The fit brunette always doing glute raises and high-rep squats at the gym, getting a fat ass? Definitely approach her. Get it? You don’t need to dedicate an entire a…	/r/seduction	21/08/22 01:30 AM
2	Do BJs and the frequency of sex decline after marriage? Yep	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/22 11:33 PM
2	What's your response to this shit test? "You're not going to murder me are you?" Yeah I like it too, but I like taking risks, generating polarizing responses, and just saying things I find funny or amusing. You’ll often get another shit-test off of misinterpretation, and often a harsher one, like “As if I’d ever go back to your place lol”, or “Trust me, that was the last thing on my mind.” It’s important to take that as a joke and hold your frame, just say like, “Oh good, glad we’re on the same page. My mom always told me not to go home with strangers so they don’t rob you, …	/r/seduction	14/08/22 08:11 PM
3	What's your response to this shit test? "You're not going to murder me are you?" Do you really recommend it? I’m a big fan of Alex’s, really like his libertarian approach to everything (not just game).	/r/seduction	14/08/22 07:57 PM
9	What's your response to this shit test? "You're not going to murder me are you?" ”Naw I gave that up for lent this year" ”Ok we can meet at x,y,z location.. but just to be sure you're not gonna steal my liver for the black market are you?" Do you happen to watch “Playing With Fire” on YouTube? Those are verbatim lines Alex recommends often.	/r/seduction	14/08/22 06:55 PM
11	What's your response to this shit test? "You're not going to murder me are you?" Yep, always default to one of two options: A.) Agree and exaggerate (Hannibal Lector or Ted Bundy’s long-lost son joke in this case, or if you’re attuned to pop-culture, riff off something popular currently that deals with murder like “Where the Crawdads Sing”) B.) Misinterpretation. You have to be slightly more calibrated for this, but just saying something like, “Woah woah, this is all moving a little too fast for me. Let’s get to know each other a minute first before you start inviting yourse…	/r/seduction	14/08/22 06:52 PM
4	How do you chat up a girl in a coffee shop? Your advice is actually pretty solid but you gotta stop spamming your plug lmao	/r/seduction	13/08/22 01:31 AM
9	How do you chat up a girl in a coffee shop? This. I find that situational/observational openers are best because when you eventually transition to your premise it “just happens”, but it’s hard to pull off in a coffee shop. There’s just something about them where it’s very obvious what you’re doing (I think bc people are usually working/studying in coffee shops), so in that specific environment I just go direct.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 01:30 AM
1	Why do girls do this? When she pulls away, it’s a test. The way to pass the test is to be unreactive and act like you don’t give a shit (even if you have to fake it lol, but you should have enough options so you don’t have to fake it). Then she’ll realize, “Oh shit, this guy’s actually high-value and will be seeing another girl soon if I let him go, okay time to really commit to him.” Keep in mind this all happens on a subconscious level.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 12:08 PM
1	Books Eh. I know I don’t have the look of the imposing 6’3” Chad (I’m in good shape, but I run and swim in addition to lifting weights so I’m leaner), so I like to play up the mysterious, intelligent, well-dressed, culturally-sophisticated, suave Sebastian Stan/Tom Hiddleston/Benedict Cumberbatch persona. I often tell girls these long-winded stories or monologues about some philosophy I have that can loosely be tied back to spontaneity and living without regrets (“100% Perfect Girl” is perfection for …	/r/seduction	09/08/22 03:29 AM
4	Books Don’t read any game/seduction books. Seek to be well-read instead, that will be much more valuable in game. Read fiction (and by that I don’t mean YA shit like Twilight, read quality but entertaining literature like The Great Gatsby and Les Miserables), read philosophy (Marcus Aurelius is my favorite), read politics (and for the love of God, actually form your own opinions about shit), read history (Erik Larson and David Grann are personal favorites of mine for this), read psychology (How to Win…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 12:58 AM
4	What are your second date ideas? First date high energy activity based date (art museum say). Art museums are high energy? Within four dates you’ve got her to perform in all the environments you’d expect her to spend time with you so that you know if she’s a fit your lifestyle (outside your fam, but too early)… Gotta add going to the gym together. Lots of opportunity for physical escalation and playful banter obviously (I shouldn’t need to elaborate on that), and as a man you should be in the gym 4-5x a week, and if she doesn’t…	/r/seduction	09/08/22 12:45 AM
6	What are your second date ideas? By making it physical. There’s been eight billion threads in here on how to physically escalate an interaction in a smooth and non-creepy way.	/r/seduction	09/08/22 12:42 AM
3	I think the idea that men have it easier time getting relationships is incredibly false. For every guy who’s attracted to that like this guy above, that’ll make 10 guys find someone who doesn’t have sexual hangups.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/22 01:49 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Strengths: Ambitious as fuck/“being on my purpose”, fairly funny/witty (dry sense of humor), very emotionally intelligent/able to “read” people well, very culturally attuned (film, literature, art, music, wine, etc), physically fit/exercising 1-2x daily/eats well/sleeps 8+ hours a night. Weaknesses: Somewhat of a lack of self-confidence lingering from when I used to be fat, and I like the chase more than the actual girl, which causes me to lose some attraction the second I “win” her. I don’t kno…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 11:52 AM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Well that’s terrifying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 11:43 AM
2	Women of Reddit, how do you want to be approached if you’re single and looking to date? Bet	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/22 01:32 AM
25	Taking girls on expensive dinner dates r/femaledatingstrategy likes this message	/r/seduction	25/04/22 05:39 PM
2	Cold approaching is really insane I was being slightly hyperbolic, your ratio of approach to close should be better than 100:1 lol, but my point stands that high volume solves a lot of problems bc you just don’t give a shit about those problems anymore. Girl is acting disinterested, giving those dreaded one-word answers over text? Not a problem bc you’re texting 10 other girls. Girl flakes on you? Who cares, you have three other dates scheduled that same week! I won’t say that Tinder is a complete waste of time, but for for all …	/r/seduction	18/04/22 01:34 AM
15	Cold approaching is really insane Let him have his moment of happiness. It really sounds like OP is just getting into cold approach/pickup, bc it doesn’t take long to learn that she probably won’t even respond to your first message and it’s all about volume, if she doesn’t immediately blow you out with “oh I have a boyfriend”. The secret to an abundant dating life is to approach 100 women, get rejected by 60, 40 give you their number, 25 of those respond to the first message, you get 10 of those to agree to a date, 5 confirm on …	/r/seduction	17/04/22 03:54 PM
2	Fickleness of Women: How little your approach would impact their lives Sure man, go right ahead	/r/seduction	15/02/22 06:42 PM
11	Fickleness of Women: How little your approach would impact their lives End of thread. You have to go from 0-2, just tell her she looks nice one day. Next time you hang out, do some light and playful, but flirtatious, banter, like say “I wonder if people ever think we’re dating, you and I would never work out though so it’s good we’re not”. 2-4. Third time, maybe start doing some very innocent physical touching, like put her hand on her thigh when she makes a funny joke or lightly push her away when she says something that you could take offense to. 4-6. Etc, etc, e…	/r/seduction	15/02/22 05:45 PM
2	Have you ever turned a low/medium interest into sex within a date or two? Yes, usually in nightgame or college parties when girls are all dolled up, looking their best, and they know there will be a lot of guys hitting on them and so she thinks you’re just the next loser making his move. It often only takes 10-30 seconds of busting hard through that proverbial “wall” with demonstrations of high-value to completely turn around that initial dismissal, or “hot girl blase”, as Todd V puts it. At least for me, I get more immediate blowouts in the day, but also more really …	/r/seduction	07/02/22 02:26 PM
3	What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count? lol	/r/seduction	02/02/22 11:01 PM
29	What are predictors/ indicators that a women has a high body count? Agreed. Guys who are insecure about a woman’s body count being too high are insecure in their own masculinity 🤷‍♂️	/r/seduction	02/02/22 10:26 PM
2	Today's approach report Okay since you say you have all the non-verbals down, like I said try different verbals. Maybe go with something observational, spontaneous and in the moment, something that she knows isn’t canned. Something I use a ton is, “Oh wow hey I like your shirt (can be anything), I wouldn’t wear it myself personally but you pull it off nicely”. It gets a laugh bc on the surface it’s kind of a backhanded compliment, but obviously you’re not going to wear women’s clothing so it’s just a joke.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 06:58 PM
2	Today's approach report How is your initial first impression? Is your vocal tonality and volume on point, breaking rapport, booming from your abdominals, deep pitch? If people occasionally look over at you when you make your approach, that’s a good thing. Obviously if it happens everytime that’s just weird, but occasionally means you’re being nice and loud. Are you well-groomed, obviously shaved (or beard maintained) and showered, or do you look like an gaming addict who’s left their mom’s basement for the first time i…	/r/seduction	01/02/22 02:25 PM
1	Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar? nope, it’s about value and percieved status	/r/seduction	30/01/22 10:17 PM
3	Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar? watch some professionals and learn how they do it. Todd V, Coach Kyle, Playing With Fire, Austen Summers, and Prince O are good places to start	/r/seduction	30/01/22 04:24 AM
1	I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys but ”Coaches” are nothing more than snake oil salesman and scam artists so what’s a guy to do? First of all, if you’re so defeated and in a losing mindset than why are you even in this sub? To bring those of us who are actively improving and getting better and better results with women down? Second of all, there’s plenty of great teachers of game, and they come up at the top of YouTube when you type in pretty much any dating/pickup term or phrase (i.e “how to flirt”), so that tells me you haven’t ev…	/r/seduction	28/01/22 01:15 PM
1	Is being a "cute" and "adorable" men a good thing ? No	/r/seduction	28/01/22 02:28 AM
1	I used to be fat and low self-esteem. Now I'm good looking and get hit-on or checked-out by pretty women in public, but my lack of experience sometimes makes me eject myself from the situation. Tips on relaxing when talking to women? Yeah I wouldn’t say I’m fat, but I’m definitely husky. I lift weights so I can just say I’m bulking and/or a powerlifter and I’m fine. It doesn’t really affect my results too much I don’t think. All about confidence and your percieved value in her eyes.	/r/seduction	28/01/22 02:00 AM
12	No friends No hobbies...help Get hobbies, build a social circle. Without those your results will be severly limited even if you’re as charming and confident as Hank Moody. Watch Coach Kyle on YouTube for help with this, he’s the best dating coach for social circle in the game.	/r/seduction	28/01/22 01:57 AM
23	Why do female friends get jealous when their male friends flirt with and talk with other women? Girls like guys who are attractive to other women. You flirting with other women, and doing it well enough that they are responding well to you and are showing signs of attraction towards you, make your friend-girls suddenly think, “Oh shit, is this guy I’ve friend-zoned actually high-value? Did I fuck up not dating/sleeping with him?”. Even if she’s not consciously thinking this in her mind, her subconscious biological “attraction triggers” are going off.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 06:17 PM
1	Women love kind men. You’re just obsessive. Yeah. I do think it’s important to note the distinction between husky and being actually fat though. I used to be 35 pounds heavier than I currently am (I dropped 50 pounds at one point, but am on a slow and controlled bulk for weightlifting rn), and was legitimately fat and I wasn’t getting great results. Interestingly enough though even when I was fat I still got some dates because I still acted somewhat confidently and displayed enough intent and just put myself out there, and this was even b…	/r/seduction	19/01/22 06:08 PM
2	Women love kind men. You’re just obsessive. I mean most beta males end up married or with girlfriends, because most people in general in modern times end up married or with girlfriends. Just because you have a woman, or even multiple women in your life, doesn’t make you an Alpha Chad.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 05:23 PM
1	Women love kind men. You’re just obsessive. Man I would kill to live both Lake Tahoe and NYC. I love all the outdoor stuff and the magic of the big city.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 05:21 PM
1	Women love kind men. You’re just obsessive. can confirm: I am a husky guy with a cool haircut and clothes that fit and I kill it. If you lift weights like I do and put a solid layer of muscle underneath your little layer of flab, and run/swim/bike/any cardio to keep off the excess fat and don’t let your muffin top start spilling over your waistline, you get a really solid big look that fills out shirts and just makes you look strong and dominant. The downside is you can’t take off your shirt too early in bed or you might lose the girl lol…	/r/seduction	19/01/22 05:19 PM
2	Women love kind men. You’re just obsessive. you people are pathetic lol	/r/seduction	19/01/22 05:15 PM
2	My first love Yeah dude move on. Learn cold approach and you can have multiple girls a week just like her.	/r/seduction	18/01/22 01:46 PM
-3	What is a good way to meet a lot of women? Lol, cold approach works everywhere, you’re just not good at it yet.	/r/seduction	05/01/22 12:48 PM
1	Being lean vs being big This. Not sure why it’s at the bottom lol. Plenty of the most successful men in the world are guys that are literally overweight like RSD Luke or just have a dad-bod like Todd V. Girls don’t care about your body nearly as much as other guys do. I’m running about 20-22% body fat rn bc I’m committed to slow bulking until I hit 225 on bench and 315 on squat, and it hasn’t really affected my results/game from when I was more like 16-18%. I’ve never been close to having abs, I’m naturally a bigger gu…	/r/seduction	01/01/22 06:35 PM
2	Appreciation for Models by Mark Manson r/lostredditors	/r/seduction	31/12/21 03:47 PM
1	Appreciation for Models by Mark Manson Precisely. In addition to Craig, Todd V does this really well.	/r/seduction	31/12/21 03:46 PM
2	Appreciation for Models by Mark Manson Todd was the first person I learned from when I was a complete beginner and absolutely clueless around women, and he’s still my favorite. As someone who’s highly intelligent and analytical like myself, I actually like how he breaks game down to a science, with very specific and actionable steps (i.e insert push-pull here, seed close after she says this, etc) instead of the more ambiguous “natural” game, ra-ra stuff. That being said, I do believe inner game and self-confidence is the most importa…	/r/seduction	31/12/21 03:45 PM
2	Stop deluding yourselves that cold approach isn't necessary I’m late to this thread, but I love coffee shop game. It’s a cozy and intimate environment, but still socially acceptable to be, well, social with strangers (unlike say, approaching a girl at a steakhouse lol), you can get away with a lot more (escalation) bc she’s seated and either with a friend or doing homework, so she’s not going anywhere, and if you can get seated down without hearing a hard “no”, boom easiest instant date ever done.	/r/seduction	29/12/21 08:59 PM
1	What are things to talk about on 3rd date? she probably is	/r/seduction	26/12/21 01:27 AM
1	How many guys here actually approach? Just wanted to say I learned everything I use from Todd V also, he’s the best in the business imo	/r/seduction	15/10/21 07:56 PM
1	Fear and approach anxiety. why are you getting downvoted?? I thought the three-second rule was a basic principle.	/r/seduction	16/01/21 12:41 AM