| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Chasing her or showing no interest? | australopitecul | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 09:15 PM |
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| -1 | When a girl rejects you, does this mean she thinks you're not hot enough?When you don’t pass the shit tests you blame it on feminists. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?Sir, you deserve everything when it comes to girls. The way you reply and find the right words reminds me of a Bond movie. I have no idea how you find these replies and flirt. Everything you say is unexpected and funny. I don’t like to say it, but I really can’t do it. I cannot flirt like you. I think it requires a special kind of intelligence, but at this moment I am not able to come up with this words and I have no idea how to improve. I know things can be learnd but I don’t know how one can d… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Some of you don't have a personality, that's your problem.even making summaries for each You are really putting in the work. Props to you. I usually forget everything from charisma on command videos (my fault) but maybe if I would take notes I would be able to actually learn something. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Some of you don't have a personality, that's your problem.Have you got any advice from him? | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 07:47 PM |
| 6 | What’s the fastest way to loose your virginitycome off as super confident (even if you don't feel it at the moment) I love this. Sometimes, I like to think there are very few girls out there that don’t get turned off if you slip a few unsecure emotions and they take it as a human characteristic. But I’m deluding myself lol. Nonetheless, I’m working on being the super confident mf if that’s the way. Probably it is to my own good. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 02:29 PM |
| 6 | What’s the fastest way to loose your virginityBy ‘finding’ these 100 women, do you mean to approach them? Been trying to find a way to meet women for years. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 02:18 PM |
| 8 | Don’t ever sweat the low body count.i laugh at them, truth is they only have looks for most part, I have personality Love this! | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 12:52 AM |
| 8 | Be aware of her non-verbal communication patterns and mannerisms. Constantly gauging attraction levels is important, especially in long-term relationshipsYou do really drop knowledge! Deferring to her for the majority of the decision -making, especially for planning dates. No matter what society tells us, men are supposed to be the leader in the relationship and handle shit. It doesn’t mean being a rigid, controlling asshole. It means you are the primary problem solver, the one who makes things happen. Is it always fair that the burden falls on the man? No, but attraction isn’t a choice, it’s also not always fair or logical, either This is a subj… | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Thanks for the tips! | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 01:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This is an extremely honest and down to earth comment. Much appreciated, thank you! It is exactly how you said, I had terrible social anxiety during high school, managed to make friends during college but they were mostly playin’ computer games, which is fine because I still love my friends. Now that I’ve graduated, I’m looking forward to join some sport clubs, and other hobbies and I will try to make friends who go to parties too as you said. Hopefully I will figure this out in my 20s. Thanks a… | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 01:17 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]How do I get to go to parties? Like what are the steps needed to go to one? I go home and I search for parties online? I go make a frined and ask him if he knows any party? I haven’t gone to any party | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 06:00 PM |
| 5 | How do I get dates? Is 23 too late for me to start dating?Yeah, I tought the same. 23? Seriously? | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 12:01 PM |
| 1 | It's about time you became the man women want you to beDespite the decades of effort to tear down masculinity What do you mean by this? Who is putting this effort to tear down the masculinity? | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 09:11 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel around beautiful women?Exactly. But at the end of the day I still don’t care. So don’t worry. We are there for the gainz | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 11:05 PM |
| 4 | How do you feel around beautiful women?I do exactly the same. Even more, I feel like I avoid looking at them sometimes. I don’t know if it’s weird(or maybe the correct approach as you said) but I don’t want to lose my focus in the gym or to be labelled by them as creep. So I avoid them altogether. | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Stop chasing women who put you in second placeHow easy is to get to know women (and hook up with them) at your job? I was always curious how a bartender does with women because you get to talk to dozens of women every day/night but on the other hand the environment doesn’t seem perfect for picking up. At least that’s how I imagine. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Do you believe weird stereotypes about Russian women?Thanks for the answers, and to OP too. No wonder you guys have girlfriends, these are some good qualities that one must have. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe weird stereotypes about Russian women?What are in your opinion the masculine qualities that Russian women seek? Or how would they define a man? | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe weird stereotypes about Russian women?I knew that I saw somewhere that website. It was this video. As a personal opinion, I’d suggest staying away from that website. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 09:05 PM |
| 4 | I missed out on my teens, and I fear my 20s will be the same. Advice?It’s incredible how much sex and getting girls can affect us. It’s just unbelievable. I’ve been jobless >1 year, kinda fucked up my career because of lonliness now I’m trying to get out of this shit. All my other friends who weren’t doing better in school than me now have successful careers because they didn’t have to deal with this shit (of having no girls). But I believe being a strong person means doing your stuff and working towards your goals with all the pain on your shoulders. Ain’t easy … | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:29 AM |
| 4 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!They will FEEL that you are screening them - and that's HEALTHY - they should be screening you too if they know what's good for them. Facts. People like you OP are adding great value to this sub. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!Agree. I don’t know why they downvote you. The whole argument with the average guy is that the only solution for them is to have boundaries and screen girls. If they start simping they lose. If anything, simping would work for the handsome guy not the other way around. But yeah, whatever for them. If they want to simp cuz they think they are average good for them. Makes no fking sense if you ask me. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 02:08 PM |
| 5 | Want Beautiful Women? Start Walking Away!Knowing your value and not simping for a girl is a trait that women are really looking to in a man because not everyone can do that. I think this is well understood among people here. I don’t really understand what’s your alternative to this. Because you are saying having requirements won’t work but you also say not to simp. So there’s nothing left here. It’s either one or another. but lets not delude ourselves into thinking that a pretty woman (most of which are career oriented women nowadays) … | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 05:55 AM |
| 17 | This girl rejected me three times and I still took her home that night.Like what’s your thought process to go again for a girl when she already said no 2 times? Moreover, to screw another guy so you look cool by implying you are ‘protecting’ her. | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 11:38 AM |
| 6 | This girl rejected me three times and I still took her home that night.If I would get a no then I wouldn’t even try to look at that girl. I honestly would not dare to go there for a second time. I don’t want to get into the creep zone and I also have some self respect. If she’s interested she won’t reject me in the first place. If she’s not decided? Sorry I’m not a puppet to chase her whenever she feels interested. Just think about how many times op tried this before and it didn’t work out. “Approached her 4 times and she said no, I’ll go again”. | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 11:36 AM |
| 4 | How to cold approach correctlySo in case she looks back and you are still looking at her you have 2 options: wait for her to look away again (for good now) or you look away so you don’t appear as staring. Which one is the best? | /r/seduction | 18/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | When To Go For A Kiss: a method to always time it rightI liked the ‘theory’ part too and I agree with it. Where I struggle is when she gives neutral responses. I have no idea what to do there. I still try to be touchy and playful and make a lot of eye contact but it doesn’t improve the situation much. Also what am I supposed to talk about? I believe here relies the problem as the discussion isn’t neccesary very personal. | /r/seduction | 11/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 2 | What is your hobby?My past hobbies with some commets: weight lifting - makes you look good, it depends on you how many friends you make. I don’t approach people so I made 0 friends in years lol kyokushyn karate - pretty cool but it was hard to meet people my age, let alone girls tennis - I see myself doing this all my life. It depends who you play it with when it comes to meeting people volunteering - best so far in making new friends and meeting girls, though it requires some time from your daily schedule. Right … | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 11:55 PM |
| 8 | This is often overlooked but important thing when dealing with womenHow can I make my eyes smile? | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditYes. I totally agree with you. I also stated in another comment that we don’t know exactly what her intentions really were. I’m glad it worked out for OP though. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditThe intentions matter. And it’s not about getting butthurt. Did she met with her friends while on a hookup and chated with them a bit? Seems perfectly resonable and you must be pretty unconfident to get mad at that. Did she intentionally got those guys to the table in order to make her date jealous? Was that something she wanted to accomplish or she was just nice to her friends? If the first case, those are some red flags. | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 01:50 PM |
| 5 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditI agree with you here although I don’t know exactly the context of their date. If I am on a date with a girl why would she bring other guys to the table mid date? If I were to meet some girl friends while on a date, I would just greet them, ask them how they are and ‘see ya!’. We don’t know the actual intentions of that girl from OP’s story, but if I were to bring other girls to the table just to make my date jealous, I’d feel horrible doing that. I don’t want to acuse anybody but if someone doe… | /r/seduction | 04/04/21 01:43 PM |
| 5 | For men, being ‘Good Looking’ and ‘Physically Attractive’ are different thingsI just don’t think that changing oneself to become more attractive by societal standards is a good path to go down. I understand you here, but I don’t think this works for everyone. Why? Because not all people have a decent body. It would be nice if the attraction wouldn’t be based on looks at all but life doesn’t work like that. There are people who have good genetics who are just big enough to not need any kind of gym. The kind of dude who never went to the gym but still has a more solid body … | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 09:37 AM |
| 1 | For men, being ‘Good Looking’ and ‘Physically Attractive’ are different thingsIf someone is motivated to eat right and exercise based purely on desire to be physically attractive to others... so be it I like this one. Am I being a muppet that works to fit the society standards of beauty? I don’t ultimately care. I genuinly like having a muscular body and it works at attracting other people so at the end of the day I am happy with that. | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 08:57 AM |
| 2 | I approached a girl todayAm I the o ly one who doesn’t feel happy/good after approaching? After the few appraches I made I never felt happy that I had the courage to do it, but more disappointed that I didn’t ask for the number. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 12:51 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel like the masks really hurt their seductive levelTell me more about your smile! | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 03:05 AM |
| 3 | How to use Rejection to gain Attraction!Man I got the same thing. I was the most confident ever and I went for the kiss. And she rejected. I couldn’t understand the situation but somehow kept it cool. Didn’t give a fuck, 10min later we were having the best time ;) | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 08:21 PM |
| 0 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.K | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 03:35 PM |
| 0 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.Dude who are you to tell her that she will get a divorce? Or that she is not good at dating because it’s a nurse. Shame on you. This is r/seduction not incelTears. Get out with this attitude. | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 03:19 PM |
| 3 | While you’re at home sulking, the woman of your dreams is building a well rounded life. Make sure you meet half way.Please do not listen to the other guy that replied to this. I think he came straight out of his basement. Being a nurse/doctor and taking care of people is one of the noblest jobs. I have huge respect for every nurse/ambulance volunteer/doctor etc. Thinking that a carrer path makes someone bad at dating is stupid, even more if it’s in the medical field. | /r/seduction | 14/12/20 03:17 PM |
| 17 | Do not underestimate the value of having friends, especially female friends. Expand your social circle and you will thank yourself later.Happy for you mate. You’re nailing it. Wherever you are in life don’t forget to appreciate what you have. I’ve never got invited to a party, what you have is a dream I can only hope one day I’ll make it true. So enjoy it. You’re doing so good :) | /r/seduction | 09/12/20 12:19 PM |
| 6 | Do not underestimate the value of having friends, especially female friends. Expand your social circle and you will thank yourself later.Your comment gives me hope | /r/seduction | 09/12/20 11:54 AM |
| 7 | Do not underestimate the value of having friends, especially female friends. Expand your social circle and you will thank yourself later.How do you do this? Where do you know all these people from? | /r/seduction | 09/12/20 11:52 AM |
| 2 | So many girls find you attractive, don't focus on the ones who don'tYes, I have no excuses. I just don’t know what social activities to pick and I’m too sceptic but I’ll find out somehow. I have to work on that. Thanks for the motivation, and for sure I will post my success story! | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | So many girls find you attractive, don't focus on the ones who don'tI find it interesting because I believe joining teams, going to events, etc. takes more time than texting and tbh judjing from past (karate, tennis, students ngos), I don’t put a lot of hope in this, but also it’s bad to rely only on texting. Nonetheless thank you bro for the response, I appreciate it! and I’m thinking how I can implement what you said :) | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 08:56 PM |
| 8 | So many girls find you attractive, don't focus on the ones who don'tThis is what people fail to understand. You don’t go here in Eastern Europe at a random girl on the street and tell her she’s cute. It is weird just because nobody does that meanwhile in the US is the opposite | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 08:39 AM |
| 6 | So many girls find you attractive, don't focus on the ones who don'tSo where do you meet and find options? Honest question. | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 08:36 AM |
| 1 | A book to build my confidence?OP listen to this guy. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 01:33 PM |
| 1 | What is the best smelling cologne for guys?I just got La nuit de L’homme and I really like it. Maybe OP will like it too cuz it’s more on the subtle side and usually for night occasions. | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Post RSDMax deleted YouTube videos here.Who is YouTube? | /r/seduction | 05/11/19 04:10 PM |
| 17 | The fool-proof way of making more connections, meeting more women, and meeting likeminded people. This is impossible to mess up.Very good advice. I do volunteering which is awesome. But I need to find 2 more hobbies. | /r/seduction | 16/10/19 03:51 AM |
| 24 | I was initially attracted to this community because it taught “I’m not good enough” was just a limiting belief that kept you from a good dating life. But after approaching hundreds of girls & getting rejected countless times, I feel like maybe that belief was right all along. Anyone else feel this?How is this upvoted? | /r/seduction | 07/10/19 12:45 AM |
| 6 | The reality if my situationThat’s just bullshit. | /r/seduction | 29/09/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Chasing her or showing no interest?Really nice explanation. Thanks | /r/seduction | 17/09/19 11:53 AM |
| 1 | I’m so bad with women I just want to end it all tbh (20)If it helps you, just think of it as an another skill in your life. If you just start you won’t be as good as others more experienced, but as time passes and and you practice and learn you become good. And confidence comes with practice and experience. This is what I think and helps me with motivation. | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 07:49 AM |
| 2 | I’m so bad with women I just want to end it all tbh (20)I agree with you. I think we should have something more important going on in our lifes than attracting women, a dream, something that motivates us. I think if we have this, it would be much more easier to attract them. I like how you said we have to find something else to be happy about in life. Good advice! I only thought about motivation but happiness is equally important. | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 12:26 PM |
| 2 | I’m so bad with women I just want to end it all tbh (20)What if his depression is caused by this?(although he didn’t said anything about it) Not having girls makes you sad and you don’t have them because you are not having a happy life. I’d say he needs to stay strong and be patient, he’s not alone in this. | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Daygame Field Report: Day 3. Got my first number!Great job. I like how well those 2 girls responded to your approach. Seems like you were doing something good mate. Also, I’m curious, what was the compliment you said to the first girl? | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How I stopped being a pussyKinda the same with me. I’m in computer science college and have very few girls to talk to. BUT I found a solution. Here we have college associations with students(mostly girls) meeting and doing stuff together. I met more girls and made new friends in 2 months than I did in 3 years at my shitty college. So yeah.. search for those associations and join one or more. At least that’s the only solution I found but it’s a good one. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 03:34 PM |
| 10 | How I stopped being a pussyI'm honestly surprised people actually still have dating issues in 2019. Why? Not everybody is the same. I mean if this surprises you then you should be surprised that people have other issues such as depression or financial problems. Like “It’s 2019 how they can still have this issues?” The truth is not everybody is born with confidence or financial skills and others like that. Some have to work on this. If everybody would be good at dating than it would exist other ways to differentiate them. … | /r/seduction | 08/02/19 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Am i cockblocking myself with my social media account(s)?I think it’s not a must have. I know people who have a lot of girls and they have few pictures or followers on instagram. BUT it can be useful. I consider it as a plus. In the worst case you won’t get women with social media so you have nothing to lose. So how you can improve it? I’m in your position too. No friends to do cool things(at least not in my current city), but I traveled a bit in the past year so I have some pretty decent pics with me. They were taken by my brother and strangers or by… | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Anyone in the Phoenix area?I’m not in Pheonix currently, but wait util I die so I can ressurect there | /r/seduction | 27/05/18 02:52 AM |
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