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Fundamentalsautist_advice/r/seduction13/07/21 06:50 AM
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21

If you want something you've never had, you must be willing to do something you've never done. Go and get yours
/r/seduction15/09/25 03:57 PM
9

Bro what? Women are absolutely goated as wingmen.
/r/seduction10/05/25 03:32 AM
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There was a time when people shared their Field Reports (an actual flair btw) on their nights out with that kind of detail you're asking for but the commenters found it cringe to have those kind of write ups b/c it's too tryhard. Just look at how people reacted to 5'7 bro's Vegas reports. Funny to see that we've come full circle.
/r/seduction21/04/25 11:46 PM
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I went out with a friend some time ago and two girls sat right next to us. They were right there so I opened and we ended up taking them home at the end of the night but I got into a small argument with my friend that they were the ones who approached me. Something along the lines of women don't really directly approach men but they 'drop their handkerchief' and bait men to talk to them. I got heated cuz it felt like it was taking away from my effort of breaking the ice first but apparently sitt…
/r/seduction18/04/25 07:34 AM
1

If there are fat guys pulling, it's in spite of their size and not because of it. You'll need to compensate for the physical unattractiveness somewhere else but if you take two guys who are equally well traveled, well connected, and charismatic, the guy who's more fit will win out.
/r/seduction16/04/25 08:15 AM
4

Your friend rejecting himself is a better problem to have than overthinking and never going out. He's applied himself and knows that his weakness is his mentality as opposed to people just watching YouTube infields all day.
/r/seduction30/03/25 10:30 AM
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I'd say it is. I went to downtown Phoenix and the only poppin place was the Cobra Arcade Bar, everywhere else on the street was pretty low key. Scottsdale's Old Town was a lot more like Vegas but my biggest gripe is their clubs' layout being mostly tables b/c I still have a pretty big hangup on approaching girls at their tables. Definitely go visit bro, you'll have a good time.
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:49 PM
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Half the battle is logistics. So getting access to social events, parties and the like where every single woman is 8-10 is the biggest hurdle and weeding out mechanism of most lesser men. The entry level version of this advice is to set up shop near your city's party district. Gotdamn were there some beautiful girls in Scottsdale.
/r/seduction13/10/24 09:13 PM
2

Honestly, has there ever been a time where women didn't have leverage over men?
/r/seduction13/10/24 08:57 PM
8

C'mon bro, don't be foldin on every single s*** test. Play the game a little bit
/r/seduction19/09/24 10:10 AM
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Nothing in your post is wrong but it'd command a lot more respect if you played the game in the same difficulty setting as the rest of us. It's like you're the best player in the junior varsity basketball team giving advice to the benchwarmers in the NBA.
/r/seduction30/08/24 06:37 AM
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The real answer to this that people are tip-toeing around is to just get the paternity test in secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:11 PM
2

Sounds like club promoter or bartender.
/r/seduction20/08/24 10:43 PM
17

Let's be real, that's two lays more than 99% of this sub
/r/seduction20/08/24 01:54 AM
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Naw dude, you can't be this naive if you're going to sin city. If she's chilling at a bar by herself, she's 99% a working girl, which is why I dislike approaching girls at those hotel bars. I remember how I opened a two-set in the Palms casino and I asked if they were working cuz I wasn't trying to waste my time and the look they gave me lol.
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:20 PM
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Can't tell if people are saying this unironically or not but in case they are, getting hookers defeats the entire point of seduction. You actually want them to fuck you instead of being obligated to.
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:11 PM
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Ahh, I know what you feelin bro. There's nothing wrong with you, it's just you're in your ho phase. You'll know you're ready for something more when you wake up in the bed of another random girl and just get bored of it all. Get it all outta your system now, cuz you don't want to be wishing you chased skirts a bit more when you're 50 with a wife and kids.
/r/seduction13/06/24 06:58 AM
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I just read CommentsEdited's reply on how TRP defines the wall and yeah, their definition for sure could've been a lot more graceful but as far as acknowledging that there is such a thing as peaking in beauty, it just doesn't seem that farfetched to believe that women will receive less attention from men the farther they are from their peak, where it would require more effort on the women's part to maintain the same dating standards they had or make some compromises and relax said standards.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 07:47 AM
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The concept of the wall makes more sense if you work backwards from its logical extreme. Surely we can all agree that men aren't lining up to date 85 year old Gertrude chilling in her retirement home but the problem is that 30 is a wayy harder argument to sell since that's still quite young(May or may not be biased because I'm heading there). It's less that the wall exists, but where the wall exists.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 01:03 AM
1

Tattoos help to give you that edge to your look, imo
/r/seduction07/10/23 07:20 PM
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Bro, I fell for the Meetups and hobby space advice and it's absolute BAIT. That or the scene in my city was dogshit. You need to go to the mall or beach for daygame or just get over yourself and hit the clubs for night game.
/r/seduction11/04/23 06:57 PM
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In online dating, most guys make the mistake of choosing pictures that makes them look good instead of pics that make them look interesting. You can have one or two vain pics but make sure that everything else is something that a girl can look at and start conversation on.
/r/seduction19/05/22 06:10 PM
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But there’s a saying, “The self is always shining through.” Fake it till you become it - if you do this long enough, all this becomes second nature to you. The only reason why seduction seems so exhausting with people throwing around verbage like "calibration" and "escalation" is that you do have to be conscious about it when starting out and the majority of this sub are beginners.
/r/seduction03/05/22 07:00 PM
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Cold approaching is insane! Gets one number Bro, getting numbers has always been easy. Getting them to show up is the hard part.
/r/seduction16/04/22 10:52 PM
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You guys find this cringe but upvote posts of the stuttering 30 year old virgin who talked to a girl for the first time in his life. The front page here is nothing but a circlejerk of dudes patting each other on the back for doing their first cold approach.
/r/seduction31/01/22 06:44 PM
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T-t-today I talked to a girl for the first time in 35 years! But she told me to get the fuck out of her face but I'm still happy I approached :). Edit: Gold??? Thanks guys teehee
/r/seduction10/01/22 09:30 PM
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Guys would not be complaining about girls' privileges if they were afforded any in the first place. Personally, I got mixed feelings cuz I can't blame them for not wanting to play a skewed game but we're bordering on sexpat tourism here with some of these comments.
/r/seduction01/01/22 03:10 AM
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Not that I disagree but I hope this doesn't discourage people from gaming here. While you absolutely can have a fulfilling dating life here, American girls will make you work for it.
/r/seduction31/12/21 08:46 AM
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My boy asking the real questions. Bitches? gtfo of here, I wanna know what programming languages you using!
/r/seduction17/12/21 04:40 PM
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PickUpAlpha on YouTube.
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:30 AM
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First things first: I'm proud of you, bro. It's all a numbers game, you gotta score eventually. Secondly, it's hilarious how you're being criticized by people who can only swipe under the safety of their covers. Or at best, the ones who get all proud talking to a girl, getting rejected, and karma farming (like what, how do people think this is an achivement?). This place is getting diluted, it's turning into r/dating_advice or /r/socialskills. Now I know that subreddits like /r/TrueOffMyChest an…
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:20 PM
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Lol, do women even know when they're getting gamed? Most relationships where they say things "just happened!" is the guy being smooth. Honestly, I do agree that some of this stuff is over the top but there's this hint of "oh my god, i fell for this?" that I get from girls since this is an open forum and you guys now have access to the way men have gone about seduction.
/r/seduction04/08/21 03:04 PM
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That being said the number of entitled people -- particularly women in dating -- is astonishing. I actually talked to a hapa guy in one of my Meetup groups about this exact thing. He said while in Bangkok, he was scheduling two or three dates a day, to the point where he was just ditching girls because his schedule was too tight. Now here in the American Southwest, he found the scenery to be dry both literally and figuratively. Other subreddits I'm a part of reported better results swiping in La…
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:19 PM
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Maximize your looks and go to a professional dating photographer if you have to. You can read all the psychology and "how to be a good boyfriend 101" books all you want but level up your style and fitness and be amazed at just how much leeway you have socially.
/r/seduction20/07/21 03:39 AM
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The idea of “be patient, someone who appreciates you will come along” is a shortened version of “work on yourself, don’t worry about women because they will come”, which is true. You're not saying anything wrong with people needing to improve themselves but bruh, this is such a non sequitur interpretation that I physically recoiled. "Someone who appreciates you will come along" means "you're perfect just the way you are, something will happen eventually". You're the only one here who thinks this…
/r/seduction14/07/21 05:43 PM
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Make sure to always wear your helmet when asking a girl out.
/r/seduction13/07/21 05:29 PM
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Let this be a lesson to the lurkers: this is why you never use direct openers with 8s, 9s, and 10s.
/r/seduction13/07/21 05:26 PM
1

I don't really expect girls to understand, the vast majority of guys aren't swimming in matches and giving signals and graciously granting girls an audience, as if they're special out of a sea of right swipes. Initiators gotta initiate.
/r/seduction13/07/21 05:23 PM
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It's not just you, a bunch of girls would've rejected your boyfriend if he cold approached. But this is what it means for someone to put himself out there and take a risk. If he gets rejected by 99 girls but 1 likes him, that's actually a win. The numbers are rough af but that's also why thinking in abundance is so important.
/r/seduction13/07/21 05:05 PM
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Long term game. It's risky if you're trying to number close a girl in the first interaction. Since this is a place you'll be seeing her frequently, build some rapport first before getting her socials.
/r/seduction13/07/21 04:35 PM
1

Based Zeus would say that you have approach anxiety because you haven't really internalized the abundance mentality. The logic is that even if you fail that approach, chances are that the next girls you talk to have no idea how you messed up that interaction. So because you have nothing to lose, you shouldn't feel so nervous.
/r/seduction03/07/21 02:52 AM
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