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Oh okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:41 AM
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Still in the relationship- just out in the world alone right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:30 AM
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In Las Vegas working for the next couple of days. Perhaps my confidence is really shining through. I found a seat at the bar and now have 2 drinks sitting in front of me. I didn’t think guys still bought drinks!!! Been in a relationship for 6 years - I forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:27 AM
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I’m hoping that he has- unfortunately he is a bit stuck in the past. He’s a work in progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 04:43 PM
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👌
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:46 AM
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BF is just being insecure. I feel bad for him. Some guys are just never satisfied. Then he will come on here and blame women for branch swinging and leaving men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/24 04:40 AM
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Sounds like a fun day. They are thrifty like you, so I know they got some good stuff. Love this!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 10:49 PM
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This is only relevant when you have a free ranged method of parenting!! When you are actually partaking in parenting it can be a big job. Example- kids in sports and activities, helping with homework, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 12:56 AM
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Call!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:01 AM
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He is hot AF!!! Just my type!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/24 02:02 AM
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Cowgirl (or reverse cowgirl) control penetration this way and allows maximum clitoral stimulation. Doggy when he wants full control and depth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 10:17 PM
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This is so true!!! I am 51F partner is nearly 60 and he is still going strong!!! We are definitely a match!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:46 AM
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***FactCheck- he’s NOT lying!!! Well…wake up is 5:30a!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 02:45 AM
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Ask his GF- yes he is!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/24 04:17 AM
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GF here- this shit show should be interesting!! She wants to meet some hot guys- I’m going to show her the way! I’ll be good. Love you-mean it!! #womenareloyal<wink>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 07:59 AM
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I would beg to differ on that. I am a more than willing woman. But when my SO post that his “ideal” is 5’9” and 420 - no where near my measurements. I am 5’5” and a bit over 300. Then this smart guy has the audacity to not understand why I’m a bit turned off!! Our bedroom gets action minimum 2 times per day - on average 10-14 times per week. I pay half the rent and make dinner. The men wonder WHY we are just a bit put off on the bedroom. Personally, I am real sick of dissatisfied guys who do eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 11:19 PM
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Married/Cohabiting sex vs casual random sex. Only if both parties enjoy it. My preference is exclusive sex because I like to let myself go and not hold back. For instance-married/cohabiting sex- random fucking all over the house whenever you want it. No condom, fucking constantly. As opposed to casual sex and vetting people hoping they don’t have COMMUNAL dick!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:12 AM
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This only works for young - old geezers get what they get!!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 06:43 PM
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Because some men believe they have "options" perhaps they may be able to find "someone" to F*ck but is hardly a partner. They are dumb enough to believe ALL women are created equal. No...most women walk away the first time a washed out OLD (over 50) starts breaking down. The women that TRY to stay, they proceed to be abusive and shitty. Eventually she leaves his stupid ass too. It's a NO win.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 01:00 PM
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Of course, I'm certain she was a bottom feeder and had very few options (of course you will deny this). People can get laid- yes, we know!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 09:27 PM
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I agree with this poster completely. Just because something gets you laid doesn't means its something someone is going to "stick around" for. If you have had an ungodly amount of relationships or partners - that doesn't mean you're a great catch - that simply means DGAF is not working.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:38 PM
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My SO is in this subreddit. I see it as a time waster. Although, I do read some things he writes that are nothing like he is IRL. Saddens me because he's really influential here and often comment strong opinions that I feel are distasteful.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:43 PM
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I'm sure they won't be discussing you at all. Sorry to break it to you...adult women have this way of finding commonalities amongst themselves. Perhaps they will give you credit for bring 2 great women together. Besides that...you have nothing to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 08:19 PM
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Men are valued for being smart. Dumb men will not get panties wet! Smart in career...smart in relationships (not making dumb decisions) of you have a good woman...don't do dumb shit to mess it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:14 AM
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She's pregnant, I know her IRL!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:24 PM
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You read my mind. I love reading them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:57 AM
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I saw this weird question somewhere- Would you rather deal with a married man who never tells you NO (except he won't be with you exclusively)...OR your man who tells you NO 45% of the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:03 PM
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I will take an average, fun, interesting EXTRA points if he likes to get out and do things guy - over a hot guy any day of the week. I would totally feel suppressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:48 PM
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Who TF has time to read all this???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:41 PM
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My favorite way- makes me extra hot horny and sexy. Heavy metal mostly!!! Not something I normally listen too-but while riding it's the absolute BEST!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:37 PM
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Way too much work.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:28 PM
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I'm sure you get lots of loving for taking care of home.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:43 PM
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I will be starting my self improvement on Monday. My BF does the grocery shopping and was away for the week. I'm starving. Starting Monday - I'm going to insist he shops before he leaves. There...I'm FIXED!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 01:46 AM
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This is true. I can attest to this personally. I am a larger woman and there are is always an abundance of guys to choose from (don't mean to brag). Not all of them I give a second look to but they are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 11:13 PM
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Awesome - this is great!! I wondered what was behind that plywood (or what condition the fireplace was in). Great find for sure. This is a WIN. Better than the makeshift coat rack that was there before.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:55 PM
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5'5"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:54 PM
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Omg...you totally get it. Yes yes yesssssss lol Fly high sister
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:15 PM
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I can relate!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:14 PM
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Calm down - it's my OWN man so why would I not take advantage? Not some random off the street. I didn't pick him because of his height (he would beg to differ).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:12 PM
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Thanks - looked into this as well. But it's something heavy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:10 PM
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I will be so glad when my man gets home so he can grab something of the top shelf!!! Who else love the things tall guys can do? For reddit geniuses - yes, I have a ladder...it's not tall enough!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 09:03 PM
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Great question.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:37 AM
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Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 01:02 AM
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Of course - I want to ask here!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:55 AM
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Damn it!!! This is about to get interesting...yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:50 AM
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I was looking through photos on my phone and coworker notice one of my photos contained an upside down pineapple. He proceeded to ask if I was into "that kind of thing"? I said, "I have no idea what you are talking about!" He then proceeded to make small talk all throughout the day. Keeping in mind he is a doctor and I have never seen him in my department this much before. Does anyone know what an upside down Pinapple mean? Or its significance?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:49 AM
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Like magic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:30 PM
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Taking notes and posting this on the refrigerator - I love when debates settle themselves. This means no more trying to help "decorate" with hideous runner rugs. Got it!!! And a woman job is to make the house rules and men are to follow them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:27 PM
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I love this!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:15 AM
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If she use it after, what do you think that means?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:43 AM
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Definitely sex. I need it to sleep!! But I also need it to start my day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:22 AM
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Hypergamy!!! *Some points copied from another user who perfectly put it: Guys here believe that hypergamy is some super secret drive specifically in women to dump perfectly kind and sweet men they are in love with to go and chase money, status, or hotness. NO, that's a rejection coping mechanism. That's a dude who got dumped explaining that she left him because failed to meet money expectations and got sick OR [insert insecurity here]. Her new boyfriend has a more money, better job, a bigger dic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:48 PM
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The only thing missing would have been starting a family together. However, we were both in our 40-50s so that would have been a long shot. Otherwise, I have heard from several of his exs that he has "improved"and partially "matured" since meeting me. So, perhaps I'm getting some form of an improved him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:26 PM
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I don't mind taking care of the household chores - cooking, cleaning, sex! I get a bit put out when it involves cleaning up after someone. I don't know why this is so difficult for some. Just clean up after yourself - immediately. Just leave things ready for the next person.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 09:12 PM
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No way!!! I saw the Cure in 2018. Score. Such a cool kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 07:25 PM
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Men are completely clueless when it comes to being sexy. It's so much more than looks. Being sexy is deeper than that - much deeper. Men come to this forum and get fed BS about how to behave and end up failing. Jumping from bed to bed with their same boring tactics (be tall...and put in very little effort is NOT sexy). Engaging, being funny, stop being so uptight and just enjoy the moment. Don't just FUCK just to be FUCKING - that's boring!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 03:05 PM
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I'm not seeing anything wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:31 PM
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It's so much deeper than..."if I am tall, make six figures and have a large penis". With ALL of those things - they mean nothing without backup. The height (yeah, you're strong looking)- means nothing if you are a coward. The six figure income (looks good on paper)-money in but you have no savings or assets. The 6"+penis means nothing if you are selfish in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 07:43 PM
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That was my thought. Or maybe guided wrong. Perception of women are very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:21 PM
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This is not my personal story. Just heard it from someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 03:19 PM
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Where we have to nearly fight over paying the bill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:59 PM
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A hot man for me is physically taller than me - I'm 5'5" - 6' or taller is great. A sense of humor, outgoing, loves trying new things. Whether it's a board game or new music. I appreciate effort in a relationship. Even if things are not the best...he tries to make it better. Income - that he is generous and can take care of himself. Takes care of his responsibilities. Knows how to be vulnerable and communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:51 PM
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This right here!! And because they lack the tools to express themselves they lash out. I witnessed it last evening. Then after lashing out and making no sense...they pretend the woman did something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:43 PM
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Sadly, the woman who goes out of her way to make a man's life easier...i.e. Career, high income, no drama, partaking in helping with his children from previous marriage, elderly parent. Doing all these things - still does not matter to a man who just wants to take take take. I believe there are men out there who will appreciate a woman like this. Unfortunately there are many who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:32 AM
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Bought a cruise to Alaska for my BF for Christmas - a bit bummed to find out (we have been on 2 cruises together in 4 yr relationship!)-via Reddit that it's not his "Thing". What a way to communicate this. Why even bother being nice to jerks!?!?! CANCELED
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 09:31 PM
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I am African American - BF is white(he claims Puerto Rican- except for times he needs to claim white) so. Ex husband and all before him where white.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/22 11:19 PM
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I'm an Accountant. And I could NEVER date/marry an Accountant. I could imagine them being boring AF!!! But I'm not! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 10:01 PM
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If the relationship has gone sour outside of the bedroom...it will soon catch up! Nothing worse than trying to stomach having sex with someone you have grown to dislike.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 03:37 PM
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Being aware - does not mean that YOU think you have anything to change or adjust. If more than 50% of the people you come in contact with (friends and family) notice the same character challenges. Maybe it's something to look at. But don't just continue behaviors that you now know are potentially harmful to your circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:32 AM
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Purple - When someone tells you that you have "model" looks with a strong jaw lines and dimples=you are hot!! Oh and the height is a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:01 PM
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I totally get this - height makes me LOOK, personality KEEPS me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:41 PM
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I was thinking the same thing!!! Low self esteem or something. Meanwhile, her dude gets on here bragging about using her for sex and paying half. Sounds like roommates that are Fuck buddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:49 PM
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That's my point...height doesn't matter. At least be interesting. However, personally I PREFER a man who is 6'4 or taller. But it's NOT a deal breaker. There is nothing worse than a tall dumb dude. Who probably has not idea how to work the "equipment" he has. That's weird!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 08:08 PM
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Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:56 PM
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OR maybe you get laid because you have a girl who loves to Fuck 4 5 9 times a day!!! Yup, that could be it!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:56 PM
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This is the "dumb" I'm talking about!!! When it comes to SEX who the Fuck care that you are 6'4"? I wouldn't care if you were 5'11". My panties are not coming off if you can hold some sort of conversation. PERIOD! Height doesn't matter in bed anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:54 PM
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Any man that I date- especially LT has to be intelligent. Dumb is such a turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:51 PM
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Heavy sex toys!!! At least she has sex toys and not planning to slip and fall on the real thing. You're welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:47 AM
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Mine are WHOPPERS!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:44 AM
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Is this good or bad!!!???? This is your future lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 05:03 AM
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I love your style.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:33 PM
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Just because "fit" women find her attractive...doesn't mean they want to mirror her. Think!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:21 PM
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I like to go early as well. There is something satisfying about starting the day off pumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 07:00 PM
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I picked out the perfect costume. Having a blast!!! Age has nothing to do with fun!!! Don't let age stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 04:34 AM
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I agree. It's sad that some people don't realize their shitty behavior. Maybe it wasn't easy. Perhaps there was no other choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 09:48 PM
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Why would you WANT to be that? A cold hearted monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:12 PM
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Finding love is the most wonderful thing in life...you know it will end by death or differences. But to experience it - unconditionally - is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:11 PM
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I love entertaining. I don't enjoy cooking but I certainly love having friends and family around. The past few years have felt super suppressed and can't entertain the way I would like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:08 PM
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Ego has everything to do with it when the person you are in the relationship wonders if you are thinking of them and you response is..."I don't do "that"!". A quick phone call cost you nothing. It's not childish or a waste of time if it makes the person you love feel appreciated. I think the OP mentioned "text" as the simplest way to communicate. Not the ONLY way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:52 PM
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It's just basic courtesy. Even if it not YOU. Some things are not about you. Relationships involve two people loving the other and taking a chance on love. At least, TRY! Don't let your ego get in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:45 PM
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I agree with this. Being in a relationship takes letting your guard down just a little. I'm not saying that it is either partners responsibility to "make" the other fulfilled. But there is nothing wrong with letting them know you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:42 PM
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It's normal to reach out when you think of someone. Or to care about how they slept OR wish them a good night. There is nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:38 PM
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It is perhaps a guy who actual thinks about her - and when he does, he sends a simple text. Perhaps something like..."How are you?" or "Did you make it safe?" These things cost you nothing. Doing this shows you care. This is what sets you apart. Be careful with leading with your EGO. Get out of your EGO. Instead of looking for the next person, look for the little things that you can do to show love in the relationship you already have. But people like you tend to get in their own way in relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:37 PM
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50-and because I love sex a few times a day...it may be rough to find a dude my age to satisfy me. And if did, all of a sudden couldn't keep up, he would probably "create" something wrong to walk! And I'm okay with that. Far more guys into SEX than not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:41 PM
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I believe I am an outlier and so is me BF because we BOTH enjoy sex - min twice per day. And go at it "rabbit style" on the weekend. For reference, 50(f) & 58(m).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:52 PM
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50, BF/single/unmarried, socialize often but non sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:40 PM
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Soon
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:25 AM
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NO!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:35 PM
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There comes a time when you have to let men work through things. They will resent you if you are always mothering them. Let them trip and fall sometime. They learn this way. Know your cues as a woman. Sometimes "fails" can pan out if you allow the person to work through it. My BF purchased a house that could be a disaster or could be the best thing ever. But I have to give him space to find that out. He doesn't need me to be negative all the time. Because of that...if I feel the need to step I. …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:43 PM
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Some guys want to do things the hard way...up to the day they die. And sometimes a woman has to know when to shut her mouth and understand when to stand on the sidelines...survey the madness(if the cost gets too high- step in)....and know when to just be there when the chips fall. She has to understand that by no means is she to make him feel like shit. He already will - he don't need her ass making it worse! Women control everything...men just don't know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 03:38 PM
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They are a lot smarter at running game. But I digress.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:17 AM
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Totally understandable. Those are the very things that make older men appear to be a prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 12:11 AM
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This was my life story. I always "thought" I was so mature because I had well developed breasts and ass. The high school guys were so immature. The 20 somethings were standing in line. Years later I understood there wasn't much talking going on. Yes please keep an eye on her. While you may think it's fancy that she has "standards", there are older guys waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 11:05 PM
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I couldn't have said it better!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:53 PM
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I like to be the big spoon ONLY sometimes...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:28 AM
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As I mentioned - options are slim. Some is better than none.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:50 PM
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It's almost comical the things guys post here. ALL guys what to know they are satisfying their partner in bed. When you are younger changing partners can be considered a sport. As a man gets older...not only does his options dwindle his libido is rusty as well. Sure you say NEXT as if it's a noble thing. However, quantity is one thing quality is another. But it's your life...carry on!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:32 PM
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Come on now-this is just going too far. People are becoming immobile on purpose? I'm done!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:34 PM
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But have you ever met someone that was handsome by "standards" but you just did not connect with? Such a bummer. Looks only go so far. And when you reach a certain age...they start to matter even less. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:24 PM
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So very true!!! I have seen the same. Personally, if a guy socializes well and seem to connect with others without a side kick...lol. Whether he looks good or not starts to fade. I think an interesting guy is hot by itself. And if he has the rest that's a bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:16 PM
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Black woman here- I agree. I was raised in a predominantly Caucasian suburban area of Missouri. High school known for water polo and golf!!! I was a band geek on the debate team. Pickings were non existent when it came to dating within my race. Fast forward...I have never dated nor "been" with a black man. I only realized it later in life. After my 23 year divorce from a WM. My current BF is white/PR. I don't think I go out seeking a certain race...it just subconsciously happens. Or perhaps I gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 10:11 PM
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I've been there-just to pee!!! But it was a no go...the homeless crowd ruined it! Had to go to Rodeo Dr instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:35 AM
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This is true. He is clueless. When people live in small confined areas they think their sampling is appropriate. It's not. A sample of 20 women he knows in a town of 200 is not an accurate sample for the world of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:38 AM
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No condom. My dude is quite old so I don't think his boys are stepping up to the plate..<Wink>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:34 AM
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I agree!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 06:35 PM
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When was the last time you grocery shopped and paid for groceries? If so, you did your beta duties - yaaay! Oh wait...you're an alpha so you don't do those things!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:09 AM
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Raccoons are smart and very resourceful. There is no telling what went down. Hope he is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:15 PM
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"generous" money is hot. There is a difference. Just because he has it doesn't mean he's doing anything special with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:21 AM
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Totally agree!! This part. This mean everyone is picking up after themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:11 AM
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My question to you is this... It seems as though you do whatever you can to sabotage the relationship(if you clearly know she does not want to go to the courthouse - why not compromise?) then blame the woman for the demise of the relationship. You have to do more than show up. You have to participate in it. Doesn't seem like you do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 09:46 PM
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That's just it...this is my point. Everyone has their OWN individual idea of what looks good to them!!! That's why I said "I like". Not sure if you are a man or woman. But if you are a man...if you are looking at men's bodies- hopefully it's for "comparisons" purposes. Well...I am a woman- I'm looking at a man's body for a totally different purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:43 PM
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I think dad bods are hot. So a dad bod would get my attention first.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:35 PM
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That was a low blow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:34 PM
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This is where you are very wrong!! It takes more than just standing there. A woman who only requires you stand there doesn't expect much. Plus that's boring. A guy has to let me know he's interested and have great conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 06:03 PM
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I love this sub too. My guilty pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:58 PM
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I agree 100%. Guys here focus too much on the wrong shit. Then they walk away acting like the victim. Have balance- that's the key.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:35 PM
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I love strong arms. And a nice strong back!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:59 PM
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I have a substantial amount of ass - and he accommodates perfectly. I should probably measure for accuracy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:34 PM
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My BF (we live together) was away handling business for a week. I'm not sure if I missed getting fucked multiple times a day OR him bringing coffee and breakfast to bed for me every morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:45 PM
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Painful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:41 PM
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I've always thought people here were probably at best 4-5. Living in their mother basement. Perhaps on disability or work from home. Introverts. Posting all day...Or sitting on Reddit...or if in a social setting pretending to care but really wanting to run and see what their reddit "friends" responded. Mostly ignored and average in society. Just my opinion. But hardly the Stacey and Chad's they claim to be. Again..my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:15 PM
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Cheaper than a mid life crisis. I can get behind this. Are you fixing it up to live or rent...sell?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:38 PM
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My hero!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:11 PM
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..only my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 01:12 AM
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Sloppy means "untidy" or "messy." If your bedroom has clothes all over the floor, it's sloppy. And, if you end up with food all over your shirt every time you eat something, you're sloppy!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 04:05 PM
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Being sloppy Hoarding-messy-dont clean up after themselves Abusive (physically or mentally No job Drug use
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 01:43 PM
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I was actually seriously pissed this morning. I got up...went downstairs to a mess(coffee stains on the counter/dirty dishes) my BF left -I was instantly turned off. We go at it 10+ times a week. So of course I love f$cking him. But this just turned me off!!! And of course pissed because i wanted to f$ck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 04:50 PM
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Good luck on your job search. I wonder what his reason will be for walking back the offer? I'm certain he knew your credentials before the interview...right? When things like this happen, I think- perhaps it wasn't the job for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:19 AM
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That would be a real deal breaker. And big chunky asses on dudes look weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 03:48 AM
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I love Tulum...definitely on my list of places. I can relate to beach life. We live about 1.5 miles from the beach. And about to move to place where we can see it from our house. So apparently beaches do it for me. Seattle and Oregon are both pretty interesting to me. Now I love the lights and people watching in Vegas. It never disappoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 04:09 PM
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Do you ever wonder if there could have been something about you THEY didn't care for? This is all one sided. Makes you look like the damsel beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:16 PM
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You are on the right track sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:37 PM
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I'm certain this comment comes on the heels of YEARS of constant let downs and the man checking out whenever he wants. Sadly men like you come to these groups to whine and cry- all the while never mentioning the part about her having your back for years- while you were too blind to see it. Then all of a sudden..she's exhausted, because she invested time and energy in something. Now you want her up front and center. I call BS sir! Tell YOUR part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 12:41 AM
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Girth and length would have to be money shot- he needs LOTS to handle this round booty!!! That's HV to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:40 PM
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I am a 49 year old black female. And have been consistently(since my 20s) wanting and getting sex a minimum of 2 times per day. Anything over 24 hours makes me cranky!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:37 AM
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Since you are aware that they suck at it - change it!!! Or do you just want to suck at it? Do better...be creative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 04:14 PM
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Dear Gawd don't ask him that. Just read his posts...he posts about it everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:45 AM
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Bread
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 04:48 AM
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I always think about biting then licking my man's face!!! Haven't done it...but I think about it- especially when he's rattling on about something I don't care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:13 AM
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That part!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 06:10 PM
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I was thinking the same thing. But he took it too far. At least have good hygiene.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:49 AM
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He didn't ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:49 AM
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California suburbs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:28 AM
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I was even hopeful when he removed his goodie. I even let the bus thing go. Although, I was NOT interested in dropping off or picking up an adult. But I gave him the benefit of having his car out of commission. But I learned that he hadn't driven in over 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:18 AM
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I second this!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:03 AM
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I once went out on a date with a guy where he showed up....walking from the bus... Okay I am not bougie or anything so I figured there was an explanation for that...car down or he's a bike rider. But the part that put me off was his hygiene - we met at a restaurant with cloth napkins (but even if it was McDonald's)...he wore a dirty stained goodie. Then once he sat down...he started to take the hoodie off (I'm thinking I'm sure this will get better)...nope that shirt was even more stained. He wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:03 AM
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First and foremost, my love for my partner isn't centered around the way he looks. I have an average looking mate who I think is HOT and sexy...even if he had additional weight! It wouldn't be a deal breaker. Some people are so shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:52 AM
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Home alone for the weekend. But contemplating hoping on a flight tomorrow for a couple of days.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:38 AM
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I scored a 4-
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:57 AM
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Nope I think he's just always on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 08:31 PM
2

I full on cornrowed my BF chest hair!! His back is even more impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 03:03 AM
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We say that...and they say we are lying! Men can't handle the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 02:28 AM
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My 2 cents- Black men, white men,Asian men, Mexican men etc. Love our curves!! I'm a bbw black woman and I ride a white/Puerto Rican a few times a day. These people are haters because they have been lead to believe larger black women can't pull attractive men. They are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 12:25 AM
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Too late...he has already started!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 09:35 PM
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Yes I know it sucks. You have to accept that people are selfish and only think of themselves. And that's OK-THEY get to do whatever is best for them. The advice I have for you is to realize that them leaving is NEVER about you ultimately. It was about THEM. People do what they want to do...no matter what you look like or how much money you make. And often time you will get hurt and never get an apology. The thing to remember is to never lose who you really are. There is someone out there who wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 05:58 PM
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I have consistently had a huge sexual appetite so that has been consistent. Most of my relationships have been long term which includes regular sex. However my current LTR is much more than "regular" it's consistently daily on average 2-5 times per day (we live together). Anything less would be insulting!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/21 05:44 PM
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Do you think going on the date with woman A will sway the pendulum closer to making her a contender? If the answer is yes...I would go. If not, I wouldn't waste her time or mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 01:40 AM
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Sad he doesn't realize this. Unfortunate. A little effort does a long way. Being selfish does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 06:08 PM
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THANK YOU!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 10:50 PM
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For some people...nothing is ever enough. Never satisfied = insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:49 AM
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I don't think he is capable of moving on!!! Simp behavior. When you move on...you move on, even if you have kids together.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:44 AM
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That's what she was looking for but didn't specify. She thought being called a slut or whore was normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:57 PM
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Don't you have cellphones?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 03:49 AM
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Large amounts of body hair- only if he is not a slob and it's within reason. Balding- it happens with age and as long as he is handsome enough to pull it off-it won't be a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 04:54 PM
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reluctantly_red is in good health and doing fine. Misses the forum...but made the decision to focus on his family and GF - IRL. Yes, he is an amazing person. Well wishes to you all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 05:29 PM
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Candied Mushroom
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 06:36 AM
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This is awesome...now if I can't convince my man that he can't be the lumberjack outside...then come inside and man the kitchen as well. Pick a side!! Maybe if I sent him to chop wood while I clean...that might work. And I like - mop the kitchen LAST. Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:45 AM
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Absolutely ridiculous. They want June Cleaver and Claire Huxtable in ONE!!! Half the rent PLUS expects clean house, home cooked meal...and good sex(minus the sex- that's mutual) lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:42 AM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 03:48 AM
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...I call it getting to know myself better!!! BFF lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 10:16 PM
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I can orgasm through oral or internal - dick feels good inside. When it has the right curvature. Of course that varies. In the meantime, women need to be able to make themselves orgasm through masterbation...get familiar with your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/21 09:44 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 02:28 AM
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I have never seen anyone post so much of their sad pitiful life on the internet. You must be miserable!!! I thought you had a GF? That relationship must be a complete joke. Some guy is going to scoop that lonely woman. - and please don't blame her...it will be your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 10:25 PM
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You should have NO problem finding a mate. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/21 01:53 PM
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I had a recent debate about the guy on the right. I called that a "dad bod" my BF argued otherwise. His perception was a dad bod having a lot more flab and tummy!!! Which I am totally OK with a guy with a belly- but I call his body something else. Thank you for confirming.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 03:17 PM
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All those boxes checked can be quite enduring but without an engaging personality...all goes to shit. I am super social...so I find myself to be much more compatible (long term) with someone with a friend base that I can talk to about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 07:46 PM
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But there you were in the drive thru...nothing like someone around to enable bad habits and behavior. Carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 02:57 AM
2

10x + is great!!! If my man is not performing to this level...I would have lots of questions!!! We have a great time. And I don't think either of us feel that it's a chore or pressure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 04:54 AM
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The major point being missed here is that - she expressed how she was feeling and he didn't love her enough to listen OR was too selfish to make concessions. That's the problem...people are too lazy to do the work it takes to make the relationship strong!!! You learn people by communicating (talking AND listening). You both have to decide...it's WORTH it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 08:07 PM
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No, fucking his brains out IS the deal sealer!! Says this girl. Although, let me be clear...you have to be able to back bring something of value to the table afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:04 PM
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This ONLY becomes a problem when past relationships are ALL they talk about. I completely understand bringing up past relationships when they relate to the conversation at hand - but if that's your constant conversation point YOU begin to sound pathetic. As if you are still holding onto the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 03:04 PM
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LMAO true!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:56 AM
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Sadly, I don't think this guy is very young... This guy can have the best woman ever (caring for his kids, professional, responsible, have sex constantly, financially secure) and because he is standing in quicksand and selfish - he will always be pathetic!!! And in my opinion...should move aside and stop wasting her time. If he doesn't wake up...she will eventually move on...then he will cry that-all "women"are the same...when HE ruined it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:30 PM
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This is true...and unfortunate for the hurt bitter guy. Because in turn they end up letting their bitterness make them lose out on someone great!!! No matter what the next woman does...this guy will NEVER believe her...she is wasting her time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:13 PM
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...sadly, you end up doing the same to the next woman(telling her what she wants to hear-wasting her time) because you can't let go of the fact that there are shitty people out there. Such an unfortunate cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 05:08 AM
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So true- being a woman and knowing women nature...trust me, she left waaaaayyyy before she knew of any illness. Because a person keeps repeating something - doesn't make it true or even logical.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:03 AM
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Hands down...if he is a jerk...NEXT!!! No time for BS...there are plenty of guys out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 11:10 PM
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I have always wondered about masturbation induced erectile dysfunction. Makes me wonder if older guys having regular sex (10-14 times per week) add porn - could be depleting the "reserve"? That would really suck if his over indulging could land him in erectile dysfunction land!!!!lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/20 03:49 PM
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I have been with a guy for about a year now...unfortunately, he has allowed his previous marriage to tarnish his thought of persuing marriage again. I...on the other hand look forward to marriage (I was previously married as well - didn't end well...so there is hurt to go around). I don't punish my current BF for my previous marriage. I hate to feel as though I'm wasting my time and resources on a dead end.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:49 PM
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Good luck to you. It's a pretty sad state of affairs that we are in 2020-and "fantasy" is viewpoint when it comes to black women. Disheartening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 03:50 PM
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That's one way to generally subjectify a race of women. Very low quality and low standards...fucking is one thing...LTR /marriage is another. Sounds like you just want to fulfill a fantasy. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 07:07 AM
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This is so far from true!!! I personally love sex...because I love it and enjoy it. Initially, it's about attraction - but if he has no skills...no matter how attractive he is physically, it becomes a dead bedroom. Looks only get you so far. Attractive does NOT equal good in bed...by far!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:09 PM
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YOU CAN SAY THAT AGAIN!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 12:42 AM
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The ONLY time I have been asked is with my current BF...only because I think he wanted to replenish his high count (it wasn't a deal breaker) but I believe he had partaken in the false narrative that high -n equals GREAT in bed. Nonetheless, it didn't turn me on at all. Initially, it made me feel sorry for him... Since I felt he was worth getting to know...beyond his insecurities...I was able to learn more interesting things about his character. So, maybe it was a blessing to get that out of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:40 PM
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This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:55 AM
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Your current "black" GF must be all natural? I fluctuate between natural and human hair. I keep my natural hair conditioned and Virgin (do you know what that means)?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:55 AM
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Consequences are involved. It could be huge lose that's hardly worth it!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 10:33 PM
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I was thinking the same thing!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 02:01 AM
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"Better" is always available- on the surface!!! Who the Hell wants to keep weeding through folks and starting over. But I think this only applies to the potential LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 07:11 PM
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I'm a woman and if I'm living with a man - and we haven't had sex in 24 hours, I don't care how good he looks are how much he makes...he better worry...because I'm NOT happy!! I wouldn't say I'm a nympho but I enjoy sex 10-15 times a week regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:35 PM
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This is true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 05:27 PM
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Taking care of yourself/ needs FIRST hardly equals not being "nice" to your significant other. One has nothing to do with the other. I would always encourage my man to solidify his interests - self care is first and foremost for everyone. No one should be dating or perusing a LTR relationship if they are not ready anyway. Ready means that they are secure in themselves and do not have to prove anything. A secure man does not have to prove that they are strong - because they are!!! Little boys pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 06:08 PM
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Locker room talk is what men do!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:53 PM
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As a woman: Sex is required in a relationship. It's very important. It is the most intimate thing 2 people can share. Yes...real life happens and you have to have a certain amount of compatibility with other things - and get along. I have a larger than average sex drive to begin with-(outlier for sure) therefore it's my #1 need. I can't be with someone who doesn't feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 06:49 PM
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"dick cheese" sorry this made me laugh!!! But maybe if he had to put his face down there...he would clean it better!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 09:00 PM
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The Slovenian model-often times seem mortified!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:02 PM
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***delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:09 PM
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Well behaved men do their chores...they get treats!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 11:05 PM
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I personally don't see anything wrong with taking a breather. I think it's rather responsible. Behaving so wreck less shows very little value in the person you are with...equal to trash tossed away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 08:11 PM
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As a woman who loves sex regularly (10+ times per week) being in a LTR with someone who enjoys the same trumps scattered one night stands with various people I find sexy. The attachment comes with intimacy and consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:21 PM
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That's true!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:57 AM
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You sound bitter AF!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:13 AM
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Hand jobs in 2020- WTF!?!???...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:16 AM
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Exactly the way I visualized!!! Looks accurate. A bunch of whiny brats. I have never seen so many big titty men whining like babies...."ohhh I've been hurt"...."women are ALL the same"...."NOW, I'm a follower of OTHER whiners who understand the hurt I have endured". All the while never mentioning how much of a Jackass you have been to the women you have been with. Quite playing the victim and grow up!!!waawaaawaaa.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:11 AM
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This made me giggle!!! Stop dreaming
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:30 PM
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Accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 05:45 PM
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So can dudes with hairy bodies!!! So much hair it pokes out of their shirts...yeah that's HOT!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 12:10 AM
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When he spends MOST of his time on Reddit or the internet! He can't then wonder why she STRAYS. It's a dumb beta move if you ask me. A sex loving, beautiful, successful woman hardly wants a dumb ass with no self control. Her options immediately puts him low in the game. Not worth the effort. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:52 PM
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People have preferences and they can choose who they want without being racist. I have ONLY been with a certain group- outside of my race. But it does mean I don't LOVE my own race.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:21 AM
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That's good.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:48 PM
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Women who post here have too much time on their hands and need to be in real life taking care of their men. That's the problem! Either they are single or in an unhappy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 10:46 PM
1

So true- there may be physical attributes the rest of society deem-hideous (too thin/too fat)!!! Oddly, there are people who will argue this!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 05:29 PM
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Doggy--I have a large ass...allows for deep pleasure!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:35 AM
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This EXACTLY!!! And the sad part is...if pride and ego wasn't playing such a huge part...the relationship could have probably been saved or salvaged. So exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:49 PM
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First of all...I don't believe it happens all of a sudden. Things have been dwindling over time. She has been unhappy for a while by the time he realizes it. The only thing that happens all of a sudden is her realizing she has had enough. Everyone has their thresholds/taken all they can take...some more than others...but when a person is DONE they are DONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:42 PM
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Yes it is equivalent. Everyone uses everyone one way or another. No one ever does anything without there being something in it for them. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:37 PM
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I think it's important starting out that you find something physically attractive about the person. The real challenge is when you get to know the person better and you find out they have an addiction (drugs, food, porn, reddit...you name it) then the physical doesn't look so great anymore!!!! That's the real test.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 06:29 PM
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Yes...conveniently confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 10:15 PM
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Confidence is so sexy. Dominance turns me off because to me, it shows insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 09:25 PM
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