| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | [need advice] any book on picking up sub communication/hints from women | autumnwolf27 | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 08:58 PM | |
| 0 | To all nice guys: Please give up facebook | autumnwolf27 | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 02:52 PM |
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| 3 | Tinder hookups according to this tinder chick I've been seeing, uhh what?You've struck diamond. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 03:06 PM |
| -1 | How does one become a fuckboy?Advice : don't be a fuckboy. Unhealthy/manipulative women end up with fuckboys. Healthy, happy, emotionally stable women avoid fuckboys like cancer. Do you want to lead an unhealthy life surrounded by toxic people? | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | I asked someone out for the first time ever and got shut down HARD, I think she's afraid of me now. Can you guys please help me learn from this.congratulations on overcoming the fear and asking her out. It was messy for me at the beginning as well. Just try to develop the skill of reading body language. If it's a positive welcoming vibe, you can start with small talk and then ask her. If you don't find her body language any positive or welcoming, don't bother. Consider this a step ahead! Congrats again :) | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | 53 years old...out of the game for years: is it all over?This is your field to command. Women usually go for older men. You have the money, and experience (emotional and financial stability, a huge book of unique interesting stories to tell in your head, intelligence built over the years) | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | I often notice girls looking at me, how do I proceed?I just noticed you from there...how are you? (smile.. Show a welcoming body language) | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 02:14 AM |
| 2 | How do you relax when talking to girls?Don't focus on sex as the end result | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 04:33 AM |
| 47 | Why Are Hot Girls Hard To Pick Up? It's Not What You Think..In reality they've low self esteem. When they were 8 or 9 years old girls, they would get many compliments on their looks and other traits won't get appreciated as much. Environment/society teaches them that their looks is their most valuable asset. Around the age of 12/13 they start noticing boys and grown up men talking all nice, but just want their hand on her. Also, there's this threat from other women jelly of her. All these repeated experiences make her to create this tough shield around h… | /r/seduction | 22/03/18 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Free yourself from outcome. Focus on having a great time. Do things you love.So true. There's a verse in Geeta which says the same: Don't worry about results, just do your duty. | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 02:09 AM |
| 2 | How to make it clear I'm interested without being too obvious/intense?You've to make yourself vulnerable at some point. I've learned the hard way. Tell her. It takes courage to do that, which she'll appreciate | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson says the only real dating advice is self improvement. What would be your top 5 tips for someone to improve themselves?That's a no brainer then. I've my gay friend, and female friend point out so many things I missed out when we were hanging out at clubs. I felt like a dumb guy. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 10:02 PM |
| 20 | Today a very sad event made me come to a realization.Its hard to do when it's not the norm unfortunately. But, op's post has motivated me to do it anyway. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Mark Manson says the only real dating advice is self improvement. What would be your top 5 tips for someone to improve themselves?Learn and understand the sub communication women make. | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 03:39 AM |
| 1 | [need advice] any book on picking up sub communication/hints from womenI have been drawing for like 6 months. I'll continue it I guess. Thanks I'll look at Max, Julien, and Jeffy | /r/seduction | 07/08/17 11:58 PM |
| 22 | Eight years after finding this community, I no longer need 'seduction.' Here are the most basic things experience has taught me.I think #2, and #4 are closely related or almost the same. point 4 is an extension/explanation of point 2. I agree with OP on self reflection. Non manipulative decisions and behaviors are key to a good healthy emotional journey in general. I'm saving this post to keep coming back and reading it. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 03:08 PM |
| 2 | NEVER Do This On A Datea wholesome bot! | /r/seduction | 28/06/17 09:47 PM |
| 7 | NEVER Do This On A DateSummary: don't self sabotage | /r/seduction | 28/06/17 09:53 AM |
| 2 | ManspreadingDamn..that's brutal. It hurts a lot. I feel you bro. Yeah crowd mentality can blind us from reason. Ego is something we must keep an eye on. Anyone who's used the sub .. wow.. in Trump's words: it's a witch Hunt !(disclaimer: I don't support Trump) | /r/MensRights | 18/06/17 08:00 PM |
| 11 | ManspreadingWhy are comments negative? I agree with you. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/17 11:43 PM |
| 14 | 17M Indian guy who will study in American university, what advice do you have for dating American women?Learn about consent. Give yourself some time to adjust to the new environment. Read the book: Models by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 29/11/16 03:28 AM |
| 1 | "We're not having sex tonight."I think it's about consent. If it's not an enthusiastic yes, then exercise caution and move on. I'm not in for manipulation or anything. I value honesty. Last thing I want is sexual assault. It's scary for me. | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 08:47 PM |
| 42 | "We're not having sex tonight."girls are confusing as fuck | /r/seduction | 27/10/16 07:55 PM |
| 0 | How do you find casual sex in Las Vegas?Find a sex positive community in your area | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Why do people take pleasure in bad habits despite knowing its consequences?Instant gratification. Strong neural pathways take less energy for brain. | /r/seduction | 25/08/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | To all nice guys: Please give up facebookSorry, I didn't mean to convey that you should delete it (I should have reviewed my post. Sorry again!). I have just stopped reading the news feed, posting stuff, checking out other's profiles. Not active anymore. That's all. | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 06:10 PM |
| 2 | To all nice guys: Please give up facebookPersonally, my parents were critical. My need for genuine appreciation while growing was unfulfilled. This need got exaggerated to unhealthy levels into adulthood. | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 05:20 PM |
| 1 | For the romantics out there - Advice from a 49 yr. oldYes, and I read the one by Dr.Robert Glover. I just checked in Amazon and there are more than one book with same title. Just want to make sure you don't pick the wrong one | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 07:46 PM |
| 0 | For the romantics out there - Advice from a 49 yr. oldThat's pretty much everything written in "no more Mr nice guy" | /r/seduction | 27/07/16 06:21 PM |
| 7 | Where to go besides bars and clubs...I picked up a girl at a hackathon. Do what you love. If you have read "models", he mentions about finding your demographic. Go to events you are interested in | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Would you recommend hiring an escort to lose virginity?It's similar to porn. Easy access. No feelings. No skills required. | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 23 year old hugless, kissless, dateless virgin who lives in a really small town with few places to meet people, let alone women. What can I do to make relationships not only with women but just make friends too?Follow and act on your interests. If you wanted to learn dance for a long time, now is the time to enroll in a dance class. If you are into programming, participate in a hackathon. If you are into surfing, go surfing. Just go to a local bar and play pool. | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 11:22 PM |
| 42 | What attracts women based on 9 years and 600+ dates (Warning: It makes NO sense sometimes)Chill bro. I am 5'4". That's not even in the graph :) | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 10:28 PM |
| 4 | The key to EVERYTHING is cultivating your inner worldi have been avoiding fiction because I thought they had zero value to offer. Thanks, I ll begin reading the authors you mentioned. | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 10:40 PM |
| 1 | For any females out there, don't expect everyone you're into to approach you first.This is wonderful. Its hard for me to understand women. They are never direct, always beating around the bush .. its so fuckin confusing and some times hard to decipher what you gals want .. Thanks a lot for saying it out :) | /r/seduction | 01/04/16 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Getting rejected by some of the more cool and attractive people in my school years led me to places on the internet like this. I find myself still chasing that validation I didn't get growing up, how do I finally break free and live a happy life?Dr Robert Glover | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 04:09 PM |
| 5 | Getting rejected by some of the more cool and attractive people in my school years led me to places on the internet like this. I find myself still chasing that validation I didn't get growing up, how do I finally break free and live a happy life?Read the 'No more mr. nice guy' book. Don't seek validation from external world bro. Please yourself. Don't worry about the rejections. Seek the thing that you always wanted to do and do it (With this I mean getting your dream job or getting in shape). I agree 100% with stiltoncheez. | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 02:57 AM |
| 7 | To the guy that cold approached my girlfriend last Friday night right in front of me..OP is the real man! | /r/seduction | 09/02/16 12:17 PM |
| 62 | Girls love being approached2 things stuck most to me: I am always doing something with my life. Yeah, most of the time we are on autopilot. To make conscious decisions frequently is awesome. I follow the 3 second rule. Yup, missed so many pretty girls. Thanks, will try to follow these along with others :) | /r/seduction | 30/12/15 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Studied this content, attracted a girl, fell in love, got dumped, didn't get over it until 9 months later. My journey and story. And some words for guys who are new to women.Thanks for posting bro. This was valuable. | /r/seduction | 04/12/15 06:33 PM |
| 1 | How to stop living in my head?Well I took the inspiration from meditation beads, which is a long necklace of 108 beads. It helps repeat mantra 108 times. I had seen old people use them back in India, and I understood its purpose. I didn't want to buy it, since it would be one more of many endless things to buy. So, with a bit of trial and error (what worked for me and what didn't), I came up with this method. | /r/seduction | 30/11/15 03:52 AM |
| 8 | How to stop living in my head?Meditation has and is helping me. I meditate for 30 minutes everyday. I simply count my breaths in sets of 10s, moving from one finger to next. If I lose the count, I begin from 1 for current finger. In a few weeks I noticed my mind's drama, and patterns, and it has been so helpful. | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Assume she's not interested?You can't flirt until she gets comfortable with you. You can try to make her laugh initially. Don't comment on her looks or anything. If you just met, just try to know her and tell her about you (if she asks .. and be careful to not be boastful).. genuinely ... You can flirt after that initial connection/comfort is established. If she is already friends and is comfy with you .. there is no reason to stop you .. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 07:18 PM |
| 8 | Touch is so important!! (kino)if you can read the right signals physical escalation should be done by the man. | /r/seduction | 18/11/15 03:22 PM |
| 2 | /r/ am i the only guy who is ever got upset because he looked a girl in the eye and said hey and she ignored me?if she doesnt like you and still gave signals of liking you how would you imagine things going on from there? i think it would get even more embarassing/awkward/wierd or even more painful. | /r/seduction | 14/11/15 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Today I hit rock bottom: Seduction will not save you.your anxiety was gone specifically because of noFap or it was the combination of those choices? | /r/seduction | 05/11/15 05:52 AM |
| 1 | 24 years old and going on my first date ever. What are some things I should know?keep the skeletons in the closet for now and focus on having a good time. good luck. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Guys, I just got legally accused of sexual assault, and I'm in the worst state of my life. Please helpI had filed for a sexual assault complaint against one of my 'supposed' friends. I asked what exactly constitutes a sexual assault at my University, where I complained. The first thing they told me was 'consent'. She clearly consented to you giving a BJ, so BJ part is not a sexual assault. It is important to keep communicating if the other person is OK with something or not. If you get any resistance or a clear 'NO', you should stop. According to you, she did not object to your fingering, and he… | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 09:16 PM |
| 35 | Has anyone read "models: attracting women through honesty"?I have read it. From what I remember: * Get over rejection. There can be many reasons you don't know. * Engage with girls whose values are similar to those of yours. Eliminate the ones that don't agree. * Be genuine and vulnerable. Eliminate flaky/manipulative/not-genuine ones. * Wear well fitted dress. Correct your posture esp. your back. * Fix your emotional issues. Address that through your other friends, family, therapist etc., but don't bring that up to your girl. * Fix your work. Do someth… | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 04:22 AM |
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