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I've been thinking about becoming a certified yoga instructor! Do you love it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 04:49 PM
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Fake like you're about to be sick, go to the bathroom, gather yourself, come out and say sorry but you're feeling very unwell and need to go - then promptly leave and ghost. Source: unfortunately had to use this one a couple times, works like a charm if they think you're about to puke on them (added bonus of subtly insulting their lack of sexual prowess)
/r/askFDS29/03/21 07:42 PM
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They realize even 'ugly' women have no issue catching a dick, right? But this objectively beautiful woman can't find one? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:12 PM
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Ooh can I see it too? Sorry, I just like to see scrote-talk in the wild 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 02:39 PM
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Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:54 PM
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Just working and school for the most part.
/r/askFDS12/03/21 04:27 PM
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The men who complain about gold diggers never even have any gold to dig so I'm not sure what they're so afraid of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:27 PM
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Same. I love my mom to death but she definitely played a role in me becoming a pick-me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:12 AM
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I mean, according to Christianity, doesn't the entire downfall of humanity get blamed on Eve? It's no wonder so many of them are unapologetically sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:39 PM
4

I'm pretty sure there's also an appearance-focused chapter that tells you to lighten your hair since 'men prefer blondes'. Pretty antiquated (and wildly racist!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:45 PM
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We support you here ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:16 AM
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So many young guys seem to have a thing for older women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:18 AM
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Oh, they know. It's what makes them full of rage. They wish they had the same options. That's why they act like the fictitious 'wall' is a fate worse than death
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:25 PM
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What is their logic behind feminism 'destroying society'?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:21 PM
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She is precious 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:37 PM
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Why does it seem like so many women are accepting this treatment?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:28 PM
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They want to be oppressed so bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:10 PM
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They're either gamers or they pretend they're outdoorsy. That is it. Those are the two types of males on OLD. But we're the basic ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:00 AM
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I would be totally down to have sex earlier than three months if most men weren't trash. 🤷🏻‍♀️ They ruin it for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:00 AM
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Never forget that Instagram got rid of the feature that let you see what others were 'liking'. Hmm I wonder why...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 05:44 PM
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I enjoy the myth that we're all jealous of anyone younger than us. I actually care about women younger than me (because I remember being in their shoes) and want to see them grow and shine with as minimal damage from scrotes as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:15 PM
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Ngl sometimes I watch this scene to hype myself up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:10 PM
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Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:07 PM
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I think it's more that men only respect other men, but want to violate and degrade women because, to them, we're lesser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 04:21 PM
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This gave me a 'eureka' moment. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:22 PM
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It may be the optimist in me, but the fact that he's asking for help at such a young age suggests he may be salvageable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:14 PM
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Do you think it's the testosterone? I can't help but wonder where the seemingly intrinsic lack of empathy for women comes from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:13 PM
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As usual, porn is the culprit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:24 AM
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Haha great way to end up single. Let them out themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:38 AM
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This is true. He didn't bother to keep up communication with me while he was out of state, so...
/r/askFDS19/02/21 10:35 PM
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coughBelle Delphinecough
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:00 PM
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Love the use of the word miscreants 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:07 PM
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Sexual attention from a man means absolutely nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:44 PM
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So true tho. Nothing can compete with the honeymoon phase.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:19 PM
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Happy Valentine's Day to us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:18 PM
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It boggles my mind, too. I've had a string of 18 year olds hit on me lately for some reason and I find it both funny and slightly horrifying because they look and act like children in my eyes. How these men well into their 30s can go after, let's face it, kids...it's disgusting, straight up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:36 AM
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I feel like my 30s will just be a more confident version of my 20s and I'm starting to really look forward to it tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:56 AM
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FDS has been super helpful to me in this regard. Whenever I get the urge to answer a thirsty text or go check an ex's page, I make sure I browse here first. Never fails to make the desire go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:56 PM
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I love when they cry that "women don't know how to cook these days!" when you know damn well they can't build/fix shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:52 PM
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Can you even imagine having this on your body for life? I'm going to have nightmares...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:32 PM
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I couldn't help but notice we have the same goals regarding education and wanting to teach English abroad and it made me feel warm inside. You've got this. I've got this. Here's to us! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:03 PM
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Benefits (but only for him)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:02 PM
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Exactly. The only time my old fwb ever talked to me was in the context of when we were meeting up for sex. These men don't see you as a friend, just a breathing sex doll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 03:02 PM
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Nope. I'd rather be celibate than go through that. That must have broken this poor girl's heart. Edit: It also baffles me how men will have sex with women they aren't even attracted to. Absolute dogs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 04:22 AM
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What a shame. A lot of them are quite handsome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:29 AM
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He is an incredible author. Highly recommend his books.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:19 PM
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I would be much more likely to engage in casual sex with a man who was up front and honest about it. Since they can't even do that, I don't give in to any casual sex anymore. They know how to ruin the very things they want!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:21 AM
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It's interesting how no matter what we look like (I'm white and have experienced similar comments from non-white men) we get fetishized. We really are just objects to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 04:46 PM
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This makes me wonder how much men into women with super childlike features is preference vs. giving them a feeling of power...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:33 PM
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Bernie would never let himself be in that position; don't let it happen to you, either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 04:32 PM
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It's because they can't fathom life without us, so clearly us having a life without them is a fate worse than death. Pure projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:13 AM
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Exactly. The way men talk about it, you would think it was some reverse Red Pill advocating for taking advantage of vulnerable guys...when it's literally just about working on yourself and learning how to spot LVM who are trying to use you. The horror!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:37 PM
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Yep. That's how I discovered this place. Good old Streisand Effect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:19 PM
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Why are you trying to make the person you're supposed to love miserable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:08 PM
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Self-professed INTJ men are the same men who like to think they're Rick from Rick & Morty. Not to be taken seriously, ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:30 AM
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They legitimately fantasize about societal collapse because "then women would be helpless lolz"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:28 AM
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I talked to quite a few and made one good friend from it, but I totally see what you mean. Most of the women around me seemed to be moms looking for mom friends (not me) and the rest seemed...self-centered? Just know you aren't alone. Finding friends as an adult is the worst, haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:24 AM
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I curse myself every day for being born a heterosexual. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 10:29 PM
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"And real men are not short" would be my reply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:11 PM
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As someone who is admittedly not too knowledgeable about jewelry, what is wrong with Pandora?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:55 PM
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Not a movie, but the lead in The Queen's Gambit is a total HVW who overcomes her personal demons and becomes a legend. Very inspiring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:50 PM
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You dropped this 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:46 PM
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But "women have life on easy mode", right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:26 PM
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hugs Just remember this happens to those of us who are not bigger as well. It's not a you problem. It never is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:48 PM
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The only way we get men to not be gross is refuse to entertain this tomfoolery. Women who enable this (literal) shit are holding us all back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:28 PM
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Will never forget showing up to a date in a dress with full makeup and hair while he showed up in a tee shirt and looked like he hadn't washed his face that morning. Felt like a straight up 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:26 PM
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He's a tall white guy. That's legitimately the only criteria for some people for what constitutes attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:22 PM
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I wish I had known this. I feel guilty for having participated in such a nasty culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 04:20 PM
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THANK YOU Let's be real: the vast majority of men are not half as intelligent as the ones who made huge contributions to the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:06 PM
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Mommies they can fuck 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:04 PM
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Mmm Simon tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:33 AM
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Remember, we're the emotional ones!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:57 PM
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In the same boat here with wanting to eventually leave the country. It's a wonderful feeling to not have to answer to anyone and make your future your own!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:07 PM
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Good thing Tinder's useless for anything more than hookups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:20 PM
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Bless this poor woman's heart. Couldn't be me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:17 PM
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Hey, same here! You are not alone 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:11 AM
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Just imagine him picking his nose and skid-marked boxers. Appeal is instantly gone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:13 PM
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Right?! Some of the stories I've heard are so tragic and horrifying. Also, what's with their vilification of cats anyway? Cats are incredible little creatures and humanity does not deserve them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:10 PM
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Muahaha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 09:19 PM
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Whitening teeth is literally as easy as putting some strips in your mouth for 30 minutes a day for two weeks twice a year and even that is too much effort for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:23 PM
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We really aren't people to them, are we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:34 PM
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I am actually going to keep this video saved for future panic attacks over whether a guy is into me or not. A nugget of wisdom from an otherwise pickme program.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:42 AM
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I felt that anger. Dating as a woman should not be as frustrating as it normally is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:00 AM
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Cher is a queen and totally correct. Once in awhile is one thing; every day is an addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:35 AM
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If I ever find out a scrote is using my image (or any other woman's, for that matter), I'm going to create a deep fake of him with a micro dick and send it to his friends list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:54 PM
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Not to mention it being a seemingly HVM like Keanu. They especially hate that such a smart, handsome, successful, and overall good man doesn't play into their weird pedo-lite fixation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 06:51 PM
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Yes! And forget about decent sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 05:20 PM
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Yep I used to hook up with a stoner. He did it multiple times a day. I was just like, man...don't you ever get tired of it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 04:58 PM
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But we're the 'emotional' gender 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 02:09 PM
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Sounds like a certain 'movement' here in the west that shall not be named.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:47 PM
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As a former pickme who was definitely a sucker for a good-looking man, I applaud you! I know it's not easy, but you did it! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:55 PM
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One of the OG FDS movie queens 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:40 AM
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EXACTLY. Why are we normalizing the 'dad bod'? Have men become that lazy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:43 PM
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Women's breakup songs are beyond superior, let's be honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:36 AM
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"You're so interesting" from a HVW I really admire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:18 AM
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I've seen them use the same 'logic' to celebrate white men's inventions before. Like, okay Robert, but you do realize that's only because your men enslaved and stepped on everyone else, right? Also, the only thing you have ever personally invented are your own fictional problems. So, for once, kindly stfu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 09:51 PM
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It makes me sad that I've only experienced this much effort from men before sex, and how immediately it dissipated after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:13 PM
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Right?! If she made it into a book I'd definitely read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:49 PM
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I have never felt 'empowered' from hookups. Just unsatisfied, used, and unhappy. Thanks for this reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 03:56 AM
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Highly recommend this movie, ladies! Marilyn is absolutely radiant and her character is a total FDS woman of her time. 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:23 PM
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Loool right? In what world is Pixar Face sexy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:26 PM
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To use their logic, why would I want a used up male? I'd rather drive a new car than one that's had endless miles put on it! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 10:25 PM
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Beards are nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:01 PM
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https://youtu.be/ePKugerH3Ls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:04 AM
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Yes! Ladies, watch his video on these clowns. He tears them apart and it's glorious to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:59 PM
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Freud would have a field day with this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:54 PM
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In regard to the "just pretend shit never happened" part, I honestly think that's a decent method to help get over exes. Always looking forward instead of backward. It's helped me a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:08 AM
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Knowing the hypocrisy of scrotes, probably more like 250.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:21 AM
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I can't find her TikTok account. Did she delete it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:07 PM
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Because they know they can't compare haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:05 PM
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Yep. It's a power play to them, not a lifetime commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:46 PM
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I love when men are the ones exposing LVM behavior, not gonna lie. I'm a pretty private person myself but if I'm with someone and feel like he's hiding me (either online or in person), it's gonna be a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:42 PM
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Exactly. It's like they're incapable of self-reflection and owning up to their unhealthy addictions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:41 PM
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But I thought men never hit The Wall?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:27 PM
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This was my first thought too tbh. Like why?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 10:25 PM
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I'll take being a ~promiscuous~ western floozy over being treated like cattle by a religious extremist any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:17 PM
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They're either too stupid to get it or they're pretending to be. It's extremely simple to tell the difference between a vibrator and degrading pornography.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 05:10 PM
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Bets on him not looking half as good as she does? And I guarantee it she stopped getting her hair done he'd be hounding her about 'letting herself go'. DUMP HIM YOU CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:58 PM
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What's that quote? "If you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't fuck them"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:24 PM
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ANY DAY. I remember watching Beauty & the Beast as a child and swooning over the enormous library more than the 'love story' (cough Stockholm syndrome cough).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:22 PM
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As a book-lover, this broke my heart. Absolutely no man is worth throwing out your precious literature, sis. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:21 PM
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Done this many times. Spoiler alert: it still doesn't deter them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:01 PM
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Honestly one of the many reasons I'm childfree. The risk of this happening seems too high and I know it would destroy me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:44 AM
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The question is how do we get white pick-mes to see the light? I'm a WW myself and don't know what the solution is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:55 AM
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Same tbh. I've low-key sworn off (American at least) white men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:53 AM
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I wouldn't want a man who wanted me to chase him anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:02 PM
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Their new favorite word for men who respect women is 'simp'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:26 PM
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Lol okay byeee. I would hope most women would see right through this shit and happily leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 03:15 PM
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If anything, women are the visual ones. Have you seen how the average man dresses/decorates?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 02:18 AM
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Scrote just admitted to being an abusive piece of shit. Like what was his goal with this lol?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:42 AM
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This was a difficult lesson for me to learn but I'm glad it finally sank in. No sex until commitment ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 01:40 AM
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Yes, love all the representation! Another couple I thought of who aren't pictured are Marisa Tomei and Cate Blanchett.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:16 PM
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And they would totally turn down every single one of these ladies because only 18 year olds are sexy, obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:03 PM
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Run, don't walk!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:51 PM
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"Man fetus" 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:40 PM
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You're right. They don't deserve that power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:36 PM
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Why do these men go after HVW if their egos can't handle it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:34 PM
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She sounds like such a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:32 PM
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This! When the light bulb went off for me that men will pretty much stick their dick in anything, so did my annoying thirst for attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:30 PM
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Yes! As a natural go-getter, I definitely relate. I try to re-direct my assertive nature into school and work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:29 PM
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Waiting for sex is definitely a struggle for me as well. It's also disturbing to know how we're judged for having sex too early (huge double standard) but it's simply an unfortunate truth in dating men. Whether we like it or not, it really is a game and if we want to win we need to follow these unspoken rules.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 08:27 PM
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I love this author. She's gotta be an FDSer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:22 PM
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"Doesn't really take no for an answer"? There's a word for that. She needs to run. This sounds horrific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:20 PM
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The accuracy 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:15 PM
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Yep. Don't give them what they want. Either you find out they actually like you for you or the trash takes itself out eventually. Win/win
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:38 AM
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They're so emotional!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:36 AM
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We need to stop being so damn kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 05:30 AM
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Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:10 AM
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Because they don't get to control us anymore and who else is going to be their bangmaid mommy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:50 PM
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Don't tell this to the breaking mom sub 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:43 PM
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I'll never understand the idea of choosing to be childfree being a selfish decision. The world is overpopulated and going to shit; if anything, bringing an innocent baby into this mess is the selfish act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:42 PM
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This is true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 08:20 PM
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Men are so used to unrealistic beauty standards for women that they see them as our default appearance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:32 PM
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Not said,, but an action. He took me on his fucking plane to see fireworks from the sky on the 4th of July. Started dating someone else a week later. I'm mostly pissed because how is any date meant to top that?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:28 PM
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Yep! Exactly why I've decided not to date again until I move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:09 AM
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How odd, that is the exact state I am from. Looking forward to leveling up to a big city like you did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:39 PM
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Lol girl the amount of YouTube videos I used to watch about how to make a lvm like me in the past...you are not alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:29 PM
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Not to sound weird, but your hand is as pretty as the ring! I am envious on both counts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:25 PM
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This is legitimately my dating pool and why I have decided to stop dating until I move far away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 08:58 PM
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I blocked him. He basically went on a three paragraph tirade about how without male strength we would still be living in the stone age, apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:43 PM
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Are they ever going to go actually "go their own way" like they keep screeching about?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:28 PM
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Lol I made a comment saying I may just avoid men for the rest of my life and received a PM from a scrote listing to me all the ways my life would apparently end without a male. Like honey why do you care so much 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:29 PM
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Thailand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 02:51 PM
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Ooh thanks for the tip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:40 AM
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Manifesting this energy for the whole year 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:39 AM
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So true. After 25, nothing makes you feel your age more than stepping into a college bar. If you find anything appealing about them, you may still have some maturing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:51 PM
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Exactly. TRP likes to conveniently ignore the fact that the only 30+ year old men who get attention from young girls are the exceptionally attractive ones, which absolutely no scrote perusing TRP possibly is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 10:48 PM
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I may just avoid men for the rest of my life tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 06:10 PM
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Oops, sorry. Just made it public
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 05:01 AM
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So what if single mothers are choosing themselves/their children? Why does this make them so mad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:25 PM
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Nope. Wait for him to say it first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:30 PM
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This is why I think that for those of us who have spent most of our adult lives in relationships, it's important to be single for awhile. You need to cultivate and cherish a life that is completely your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:54 PM
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This tears me apart. Makes me determined to live out my dreams not only for myself but for all the sisters before me who could not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 05:45 PM
70

Would not recommend med school students either. They won't have time for you to begin with and already have that God complex because they think they're "practically a doctor" (this was actually said to me by a first year).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:38 PM
24

It's a shame because I find musicians so attractive. Not worth the inevitable heartache, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 04:36 PM
21

Lovely article! I would bet dollars to donuts the author is a FDSer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:45 PM
18

Yep! Have bangs + wear lots of skirts = MPDG to lots of these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 03:38 PM
19

Yesss I'm also taking the year off men/dating. Go us! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 06:51 AM
90

Yes! And a man wanting to fuck you means nothing. These men will fuck furniture if they're desperate enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 01:41 AM
13

I have one! Search " 👑 " on Spotify. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:23 AM
5

It's on my FDS-themed Spotify playlist! Such a banger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:13 AM
22

Girl, yes! I have the exact same plans for 2021. We're going to have our best year yet! 🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:10 AM
6

There were endless comments from them hoping she'd be injured. The level of animosity over something so innocuous was shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:06 PM
51

It feels like the majority of women haven't seen the light yet. I wish all of us FDSers lived close to each other so we could be friends. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 09:44 PM
2

She's a yogi! It's so good for the body and mind. Highly recommend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:12 PM
3

Right?! I can't wait to have some gorgeous long, silver hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:11 PM
8

I adored the contrast between the gorgeous bubble gum setting/clothing/music and the tragic matters at hand. It was just so unabashedly, in-your-face 'girly' and I loved every second of it. Can't wait to see it again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:59 AM
30

It's saddening that so many of us have similar stories like this. We need to be vigilant in watching out for young girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:31 PM
84

No shame on your part. He was a grown ass adult manipulating a kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 10:30 PM
5

Yesss witches epitomize feminine power to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:20 PM
4

You're a queen and should feel proud! Treat yourself to a bubblebath and some expensive chocolate 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:56 PM
3

I paid for a ticket at my local theater then found it online (so I was still able to support the film)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:53 PM
3

There's still revenge! Promise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 08:53 PM
5

They hate to see us succeeding in ways they cannot, and on our own to boot. I live for their tears tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:46 PM
10

Love the crystal and cactus! We have the same taste in decor. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:44 PM
244

I remember being 16 and having a 27 year old online 'boyfriend'. Now I'm that age and absolutely disgusted. I was mentally a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:43 PM
30

They've been babied their entire lives. They don't even know what taking responsibility is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:41 PM
3

I wasn't really a fan of the ending myself but overall it was a solid movie with a very important message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 07:37 PM
180

It's all projection. We age better because we actually take care of ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:17 AM
59

I see comments like this all the time on friends' social media and it makes me cringe. It's like seeing the 'Cool Girl' trope play out in real time. Like honey, where is your self respect? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:34 AM
70

Selena would never allow this nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:31 AM
63

Right? Imagine if men had taken the time to learn how to please women...but no, their selfishness ruined yet another thing they had going for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 10:21 PM
3

It's fun trashy reality TV! Some of them are such trainwrecks you just can't look away. Plus it makes for a fun game of spot-the-red-flags. 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:10 PM
6

Doesn't JGL's character end up with an older woman as well? I really liked that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 08:00 PM
61

The Wall is undefeated (for males)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:57 PM
18

I'm saying we need to learn to turn off that part of ourselves the moment we are disrespected. Learn to be ruthless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:55 PM
23

I think most of us here have a kind heart that sometimes distorts our reactions to disrespect. We need to find the balance of retaining our kindness while still sticking up for ourselves as needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:49 PM
35

Nothing more womanly to me than putting a scrote in his place. Ladies, we need to toughen up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:45 PM
6

You'll notice it's all the gross LVM white guys as well that no American women will touch with a ten foot pole. I feel so bad for the naive foreign ladies they manage to trick into seeing them as high value. 90 Day Fiance is an excellent show to see this in action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:41 PM
7

Same with the boys who say "YOU'RE the prize, bro". Gives me secondhand embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:11 PM
2

Does this approach actually work for any man who isn't a Brad Pitt-circa-1998 lookalike?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:10 PM
11

Yes. White men are definitely the ones who predominately shit on white women (especially the Asian fetishizers).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:01 PM
51

We love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 06:56 PM
6

LVM/NVM hate it while HVM adore it. Stay woke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:49 AM
9

Okay but why are you asking internet strangers how to FEEL?! I am ~so tired~ of seeing women doubting the validity of their perfectly normal reactions to nasty male behavior. So tired, y'all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:47 AM
149

Lol Stefan's just bitter because he went bald at 25 and it shows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:45 AM
55

We aren't people to them. Just bodies to be used and discarded or kept as a trophy. It's sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:38 AM
26

Also handy: him being nice to you pre-sex means absolutely nothing. Men will (and are proud of) faking kindness to get into our pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:32 AM
13

I encourage it! Makes for easy vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 03:29 AM
71

Like that line in The Breakfast Club: "If you say you haven't, you're a prude. If you say you have, you're a slut. It's a trap."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:37 AM
114

Don't you see? Clearly they need one woman to be the chaste wife and another to be the freaky side chick. Won't anybody think about their needs?! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:34 AM
45

I have to say, as a younger millennial, I love Gen Z ladies. They are taking no shit and are always inspiring me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 01:32 AM
4

This took me so long to learn but I think I've finally internalized it, and it's very freeing. I feel like I see through the bullshit so much better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:53 PM
14

Internalized misogyny is a helluva drug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 03:49 PM
126

Don't trust men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:29 AM
3

Or how about you just make your own damn plate and be a fucking adult. God these scrotes make me see red.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:13 PM
1

'Females' says all you need to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:31 PM
26

LOL RIGHT Please don't do this, ladies. Ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:54 PM
3

Thank you for this. Currently getting out of a situationship where all I did was give and I've been struggling with feelings of doubt about myself. Just...thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 10:39 PM
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