auxmygawd Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	She doesn’t believe in love	Inner Game	auxmygawd	/r/seduction	17/07/22 08:22 PM
1	She keeps on throwing me in and out of her close friends on IG	Conversation	auxmygawd	/r/seduction	02/08/22 03:35 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	did I fucked up or still there hopes? Sure ! I might reply late tho :)	/r/seduction	19/08/22 04:43 PM
1	did I fucked up or still there hopes? Dinner can be romantic but I’d definitely would save it to the 2nd date. Also dinner = high chance for alcoholic drinks. Plus after dinner you can always take her out to more drinks or an activity before. Coffee is just platonic, serious and has absolutely 0% romantic potential	/r/seduction	19/08/22 04:27 PM
1	did I fucked up or still there hopes? Good. And don’t beat yourself too hard about it bro. We all make mistakes and we all need to learn from those mistakes. You got this G	/r/seduction	19/08/22 04:24 PM
1	did I fucked up or still there hopes? Yeah by not doing anything. Trust me the more you pull onto a girl the more she’ll be disgusted by you. Go on dates with other girls that will give you an aura of abundance (aka options) a girl will automatically become more attracted to a guy who has options. Don’t text, don’t call. If you see her in school just say hi (IF YOU BUMP INTO HER OTHERWISE DONT) but nothing more. Abundance is your key to get her back. Next time keep control of your masculine frame and dont get annoyed when a girl say…	/r/seduction	19/08/22 03:30 PM
0	did I fucked up or still there hopes? Always take a girls words with a grain of salt. Yeah that indeed means you’ve been rejected. A girl that really wants to see you will find time and cancel her other plans. This is her way of nicely turning you down hoping you wont follow up.	/r/seduction	19/08/22 03:25 PM
2	did I fucked up or still there hopes? Don’t date girls with strict parents. Also that might be BS. Sometimes girls tell you that they have a curfew but you’ll see them hanging out with their friends on IG stories at 4am. Proper date idea : Bars, dinner, activities. Coffee dates are horrible cause there’s no opportunity for fun. Coffee dates are too serious and you should avoid it like the plague. Anyway the girl rejected you and you responded in a very negative way. You screwed up. Take your loss cause anything you do now will only …	/r/seduction	19/08/22 03:18 PM
-2	did I fucked up or still there hopes? The first mistake was you taking her out for coffee. Thats a friendzone date. You should always immediately express your interest and take her out on a proper date ! Not coffee lol. I would’ve also not dropped her off at home. Take the L and try other girls.	/r/seduction	19/08/22 03:09 PM
64	Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?" I had a similar situation once where I asked for a girls number. She asked : Why? I just replied : Why not? I got the number fyi. I think the best reply to your case would be something bold and short. Something that would get her curious. Example : “Cause i’m a walking adventure.” Good luck !	/r/seduction	19/08/22 02:57 PM
0	Sex on first date? It depends on the girls. Although you should probably be worried in a way if she’s willing to smack so early on. Girls that are more reserved and not so easy tend to be of more high value and make better partners. If its your goal to just have sex than thats fine.	/r/seduction	01/08/22 08:22 PM
2	What to say when she says she has a boyfriend/ seeing someone? This !	/r/seduction	01/08/22 07:59 PM
2	“Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS. Its exactly it lol	/r/seduction	01/08/22 07:57 PM
18	what can I do to develop an abundance mindset? You don’t need to talk with 7 women at once if you only genuinely like one. You just need to master yourself not to smother her. Go hang with your friends, do an activity or learn new skills for example. There’s so many things you can do with others or alone. Focus on being content with yourself.	/r/seduction	01/08/22 07:49 PM
0	“Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS. This happened to me with the girl i’m seeing. She didn’t open my message for a day. So i texted her “everything ok?” Cause I thought it was highly unusual. So she ended up telling me she went out with her friends on a drinking night, got drunk blabla etc etc. She apologized and responded fairly quick after. Neediness isn’t sending a double text. It’s the way you do it. By sending her “Hey is everything okay?” I didnt come off needy, I came off concerned for her well-being and women love it when …	/r/seduction	01/08/22 11:59 AM
3	“Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS. Don’t text. Call ! Make a date. Women love directness. The only time texting is okay is when you’ve gotten close or when you’re dating. Don’t have full blown convo’s through text though. All girls prefer calls.	/r/seduction	01/08/22 11:52 AM
2	Do you guys tell girls that you are older than you actually are to get with them ? Age really doesn’t matter that much to women. Women just don’t want a lame, boring, platonic talking guy with no confidence. Try and focus on not becoming that.	/r/seduction	01/08/22 11:50 AM
1	Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened. Also do you message her through WhatsApp? If so thats good. Don’t text through IMessage or Snapchat. People remember faces, not names	/r/seduction	01/08/22 09:37 AM
1	Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened. Here’s how I do it with the girl i’m seeing. I just call her randomly mostly and sometimes announce it like : Hey i’ll call you after the weekend. Or “i’ll call you this day” If she doesn’t pick up just leave her a message saying : Hi I tried calling you, give me a call when you got time. If she’s interested she’ll call you back pretty quick. The girl I like always calls me back within 5 minutes if she misses it.	/r/seduction	01/08/22 09:36 AM
5	Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened. OP call her in a week. Don’t mention the fact you texted her. And just ask her out direct and hard. She’ll most likely say “Sure, when/where?” Give a hard date and meetup spot.	/r/seduction	31/07/22 11:24 PM
10	Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened. Should’ve called and asked her out.	/r/seduction	31/07/22 10:48 PM
2	What to say after a few days of no contact? Don’t text. (Video)Call her. It’s more engaging and fun. Don’t try and push yourself too much to send “high value” texts. It’s a load of bull. Best you can do is to either (video) call or text her to hang out	/r/seduction	31/07/22 10:41 PM
2	Absence makes the heart grow fonder There is some truth to it but honestly the whole “no contact” or “ignoring on purpose” doesn’t work, women aren’t stupid they will know what game you’re playing. Personally I can naturally feel when a woman wants some space or when she wants to talk. I suggest not to text but to call her women prefer this as well. Don’t call her everyday but call her once a week and set a date, if she wants more of you she’ll initiate or ask you. In reality as a man all you gotta be is yourself. Be humorous, con…	/r/seduction	31/07/22 08:13 PM
1	How often should I text a girl? Don’t try to calculate a woman’s interest by how much she initiates. Some have build up a fence around them (due to past experiences and pain) so they just won’t initiate until you’re much closer (they trust you) or when you’re actually exclusive. I’m currently seeing a girl that almost never initiates but she gives small subtle hints I pick up that she does like me a lot. I’ve also been in a situation where I literally never texted a girl besides to ask her out. She’d never initiate conversatio…	/r/seduction	28/07/22 07:16 AM
3	How can i take it further? Eh idk…. Maybe like uhm. ASK HER OUT lol	/r/seduction	19/07/22 05:46 PM
0	Pull back gone too far The problem is you obviously abused the pull back. If she’s already initiating most of the convo’s you can just keep it going, no need to fall back. Also in some cases there are also women that know they’re hot and have a lot of “boys” in line for them. They will rarely reach out cause they don’t care about losing one guy. The best you can do with those girls is just ask them out once a week and never message and call. She will see you like her but not smother her like the other guys with unnece…	/r/seduction	18/07/22 05:21 PM
1	She doesn’t believe in love Thanks ! I didn’t cave for her demands though. Like hard pass NO.	/r/seduction	18/07/22 08:00 AM
3	She doesn’t believe in love Cool, I will ! Thanks :D	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:50 PM
1	She doesn’t believe in love I get your point, def have been in situations where this applies but I doubt thats the case now.	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:44 PM
1	She doesn’t believe in love Normally I wouldn't pursue. But yeah feelings... lol hard	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:43 PM
3	She doesn’t believe in love Is that always the case though? She said she's fine moving forward as we did after we talked	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:42 PM
1	She doesn’t believe in love Solid advice. Thank you 😊	/r/seduction	17/07/22 09:17 PM
4	She doesn’t believe in love Then why’d she say she’s still willing to see where things go?	/r/seduction	17/07/22 08:57 PM
1	She doesn’t believe in love Eleborate?	/r/seduction	17/07/22 08:46 PM
2	Why do I only get hit up by monstrously fat chicks on dating sites? I'm a good looking, athletic dude. You can even find out how many people swipe left on you and I was shocked. Like you I’ve dated models, artists and high profile people that many would see as “hot” I kid you not from the stats bumble sent me 85% swiped me to the left…. And I’m anything but boring lol. The problem is man. The girls on Tinder/Bumble live in a fantasy and a crazy power position. They pick exactly what they like. If one thing is off about you “boom” left swipe. Also never pay for premium. I did that and you hardly g…	/r/seduction	15/07/22 10:29 PM
1	Is it pretty much impossible to get close to someone that is still in love with their ex? Pull away. Wait a while. Don’t text. She’ll get back to you or you can slide in her dm’s in like 2ish months. You should make her see that you’re not her boytoy/relapse.	/r/seduction	13/07/22 09:27 PM
3	Tips for getting girls in Korea? (Mainly Seoul) You probably either drag on too long or aren’t confident/assertive enough. Korean guys (especially in bars/clubs) act like pigs. You never noticed? I’m not saying you should do the same but be very direct with these girls. Anyway in clubs you can forget it. Those girls probably barely speak English and are only interested with guys that have a table (Table = guy is rich) unlike westernized countries money is important in choosing a partner cause of pressure from the girls parents. I know this su…	/r/seduction	08/07/22 01:04 PM