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No You Clearly Haven't Had Sex Before Since You Don't Understand Anything About How It Could Possibly Work Outside Of One Hyper Specific Type Of Sex . You Completely Lack Any And All Imagination About What Could Possibly Be Done And The Complete Bafflement About A Woman Possiblly Taking The Initiative In The Bedroom Shows You Are Just An Ignorant Virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:06 PM
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Wow You Really Don't Understand How Sex Works If You Think The Person On The Bottom Has To Just Sit There Doing Nothing . I Feel Bad That Your Partners Have All Been So Shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:03 PM
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> And literally all I did was fuck her with a lot of energy and passion and some technique/skill And why is it incomprehensible to you that a woman could just do that too?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:54 PM
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Uh the woman takes the initiative and leads the sexual encounter? Uh she can be on top and shit? Like have you honestly never even heard of the cowgirl position? Seriously have you had sex before? I can't imagine a person who's had sex can be this confused about the basic fundamentals of how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:53 PM
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There's a lot of things but generally submission in men is seen as the worst kind of weakness and something that can even take away your gender of being a man at all. Some of the people who buy into this dumb bullshit are men and they will freak out from what they see as you trying to tear them down and imply they're weak people who are barely even men. This reaction comes from how these men are treated and/or how they see people treat men. One quick look through this very subreddit shows you ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 09:50 PM
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No, but thank you for admitting you're wrong. Even in your narcissistic and ego driven way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:07 PM
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That's not what the word means. Here's what the cambridge dictionary says: strange or unnatural and making you feel frightened unpleasant and making you feel uncomfortable, especially because of sexual behaviour that is not wanted or not appropriate So the issue is you need to update your knowledge of the english language and use the words you actually intend to use
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:02 PM
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What do you think the word creepy means?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:56 PM
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Who said there's any expectation of a woman doing any of that? Seriously, directly link any comment in this very thread where anyone said anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:55 PM
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So now you contradict yourself completely. Weird. Are you just an incel troll pretending to be a woman? Because you act like a walking talking stereotype of what incels think women are like
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:55 PM
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How do you know a woman is interested before talking to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:46 PM
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So unattractive men showing any sexual or romantic interest is creepy? How are you different from incels at this point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:39 PM
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Why do you feel it's reasonable to expect to be completely left alone when out in public? Doesn't that seem like an unrealistic and entitled expectation?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:37 PM
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Why do you think men are incapable of feeling love?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 05:36 PM
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Don't get mad, just don't lie in the future. It's not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:23 AM
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So you admit that I'm right and physical attraction matters. Glad we're on the same page but idk why you felt the need to lie in your last comment. Weird behavior there pal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:15 AM
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No I wanted you to act like an adult, I wanted to know what you thought. You refused multiple times to do such a simple task, and you think I'M the one in the wrong for being annoyed by an obtuse troll going out of their way to annoy me? Really? You can still share the definition of the word creep right now and we can pick up our conversation. Google is free
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:13 AM
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But being visibly in shape is well down the list of things women find attractive Have you tried to date while fat? Because buddy let me tell you, it's the number 1 thing for every woman you've had sex with. Without the look they would not want you. Because guess what? Sexual attraction matters especially when people are trying to have sex. So you're either ignorant or a liar which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 01:06 AM
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Ok you don't understand the english language then. Cool, great talk you little troll. We could have a decent conversation but YOU decided we weren't gonna do that. Remember that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:24 PM
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Yeah at this point she's just acting like a weirdo and freaking out because the definition of the word supports my definition of creepy and contradicts her non-definition of this word
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:19 PM
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Did you read my comment? I told you why you would do that in the second sentence of a 2 sentence comment. But now that I know you are not expert in this field, why are you acting like you know more than the experts? You trusting your own research over the experts Joe Rogan style and you think that's a good thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:18 PM
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It's definitely a thing a significant portion of men here believe and say Ok then prove it. Should be easy right? But that's fine your just dedicated to being a liar at this point. Go ahead and have the last word I know how important that is for you. But I do not engage with liars, goodbye
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:17 PM
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You can’t fucking Google a definition, if that’s what you want? So why can't you just do that? Why are you refusing to give me a definition of this word? You're being really weird and combative for no reason. There's no need to be so scared of just engaging in a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:15 PM
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... you need a source that there are men who say this? Yes I do need a source that it's a thing a significant portion of men believe and say. I actually want you to elaborate what I specifically said that could be reasonably interpreted by a sane mind to "I don't see men as actual human beings" Well we have a case of a hypothetical man and woman doing the exact same thing and you treat them wildly differently. You assume negativity in everything men do and positivity in everything women do. Your…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:06 PM
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Just give me a definition for the word creepy, why is this so difficult for you? You have access to a search engine right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:04 PM
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Sure but you really don't understand how your appearance could have impacted your dating life? You don't think that anything changed in the dating world in the past 20 years either? Come on dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:53 PM
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Just give me a definition for the word creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:51 PM
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Men expand their standards of their own accord. And per men, "most men are attracted to most women." Can I get an actual source on this? But ok it sounds like you just don't see men as actual human beings the same way you do with women. Doesn't sound like a great way to live, but you do you ms top 1% commenter on this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:51 PM
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You didn't answer my questions could you do that please?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:50 PM
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So what sources do you have that prove women are more lonely? This dude shared a bunch to support his claim, why don't you do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:46 PM
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Since you know more than the experts you should apply for some research jobs in social sciences. Feels like you'd be a naturally great fit for the job and can do some real good with combating all the misinformation you see out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:44 PM
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Being perceived as creepy doesn’t mean actually being a predator Ok before we go any further we need to have a consensus on our basic definitions here. What do you think the word creepy means?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:42 PM
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Why do you assume men are attracted to the women they "expand" their standards for but women are repulsed by the men they "expand" their standards for?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:40 PM
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How many men that you dated or hooked up with were men that you approached, carried the conversation with, kept his fleeting interest, and most importantly didn't come off as awkward? It's not men who "make their own cages" here, women are full adults who set their own standards with dating. This could all change if women wanted it to, but why would you give up privilege for nothing? You also have a severe lack of knowledge on how dating is for men so maybe stop trying to talk like an expert on …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:34 PM
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Are women really better at masking or is it a case of women not being seen as threatening so a weird woman is quirky and a weird man is a dangerous predator?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:28 PM
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Can you quote from the post where he wants her to be mute? I'm not seeing that word anywhere, looks like the didn't write it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:56 AM
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So you deeply care about the personality, dreams, and aspirations of every single man you've ever been on even one date with? Come on
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:55 AM
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Ew, this loose pussy energy is not a good look
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:54 AM
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It was an attempt at an insult, you don't even understand what an insult is. Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:53 AM
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You are an incredibly sad individual
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:52 AM
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You only have middle school level insults left because you know you're wrong and your ego won't let you admit it like an adult. Sad
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:44 AM
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Yeah this is a debate sub, do you understand that? Wow why are you being so rude to me? In public, people expect manners and polite behavior ya know You don’t walk up to someone and start quizzing them, that’s completely off putting. Yeah this is a debate sub, do you understand that? It's not normal social interactions you'd have on the street. Or do you get into real debates with randos on the street too? It’s so off putting that I doubt a woman would tell such a person to his face that his beh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:43 AM
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Are you being real right now or are you just trolling? I gotta know if you're just pretending to be stupid and are intentionally not understanding the basics of the english language
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:42 AM
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Yeah but knowing someone a little bit doesn't mean you know their personality and character. Either way, I just don't understand what is so horrible about having broad standards for starting to go out with someone. What is so fucking bad about deciding to go on some dates with an attractive compatible and interested person and then use those initial dates to figure out if you're actually compatible. That is what op is saying he does, why is that so fucking bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:37 AM
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Lil bud is obviously an insult but it's ok, I understand you're too scared to stand by what you say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:35 AM
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So you then admit to constantly being combative and rude since quizzing people is the main thing you do here all day every day
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:34 AM
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Hate to burst your loose pussy bubble but I have had sex with women before. But don't you know that loose pussy energy has nothing to do with the actual size of your pussy? I never said loose pussies are bad jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:34 AM
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but no, society expects a certain answer which means lying in some cases. For example if someone asks if they look good in an outfit or asks how my day is Damn, so you don't tell people important truths and let them look bad? Couldn't be me I'm a hetero guy so I would be asking out women Then why are you trying to talk from a woman's perspective? Don't fucking mansplain women to me dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:02 AM
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I do baby, I do. Your cute little attempts at insults aren't landing either
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:00 AM
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Waiting for that quote
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:59 AM
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HE DOESN'T CARE AT THE START. WHAT ARE YOU PEOPLE NOT UNDERSTANDING ABOUT THE WORDS "AT THE START"? Jesus christ it's like you people are just illiterate bastards. This shit is crazy, read the words on the screen then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:59 AM
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So they're not the same. Thank you for proving my point
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:58 AM
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Idk ask him those questions. Men are not a monolith after all And why would any woman risk the wrath of an already unpredictable man by risking insulting him? Idk, why is insulting men your main hobby that you partake in many hours per day every single day? Clearly you don't actually believe this and it's just more sexist drivel No thanks. People with bad manners are in no position to make demands of others. Then you better stop making demands of others, you do it all day every day. Your posting…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:57 AM
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Definitely gives the impression he’d be better off with a blow up doll or something. This you? Do you think blow up dolls talk?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:56 AM
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How do you know his personality and character before going out?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:55 AM
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Get out of here with this loose pussy energy 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:54 AM
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Holy shit you are such a condescending bitch who can't even read. You are such a sad individual I can't even be mad at you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:54 AM
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Oh you're just an idiot. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:53 AM
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I don't know what your last sentence is supposed to mean but you should honestly just start replying to what is written on the screen rather than what you made up and is not actually written on the screen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:52 AM
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Being honest isn't always the best idea in some social situations, it can lead to awkwardness or worse Yeah that's what you deal with as an adult. Grow up and say what you mean. Stand by it if you truly believe what you believe. Don't be scared homie but if they're single it's a bad idea to give what is effectively a rejection. So out of fear you go on dates with every single man who ever asks you and you never say no to anything these guys ask? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:51 AM
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Why do you think it's inevitable for people to get fat? Why do you think it's impossible for his standards to change after say 40 years of marriage? Who said it's the ONLY connection?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:49 AM
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I didn’t blame the for anything other than not rescuing his children from an abusive mother when courts favor men. But the courts objectively don't favor men and that's objectively you blaming him. Learn the english language, troll
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:48 AM
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I didn’t hear he wants someone who never talks. I heard he wants someone who doesn’t talk much So why did you say he wants a woman who never talks if you know he didn't say that? That, along with the statement that he doesn’t care about her personality before starting a relationship, and only cares that she’s not fat, will be heard by pretty much any woman as “I don’t care who it is, I just want a warm hole who won’t get fat or bother me.” Right but you just said how you understand he didn't say…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:32 AM
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You're the one inventing things he didn't say just to insult him. Please provide the quotes where he says what you claim because I read it again and still didn't see it. You wouldn't be the first person ever on this sub to make something up to get mad at or insult someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:31 AM
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My point is you're saying the thing you said you didn't say. Did you also miss the STARTING OFF part of his post right after the thing you quoted? What do you think STARTING OFF means in this context?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:30 AM
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But what percentage of women in his preferred dating age range are overweight or obese? Does op have the same definition of overweight as the people who made the standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:29 AM
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So you took a screenshot, cropped it, added the red circle, then posted it here and still can't see the part where he says NOT MUCH OF A TALKER and instead inserted SHE NEVER TALKS? Really? Did you even look at what you posted before posting it? Why are you all adding shit he never said into his post just to get mad at him?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:27 AM
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Can you quote where he says any of this in the post? Because I can't see it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:26 AM
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At this point it has to be intentional, I can't honestly believe this many people can not read
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:26 AM
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Why are you hearing a different statement than what he says though? He says he wants someone who talks less, you hear he wants someone who never talks? Why is that? You hear he doesn't care much about her beliefs, goals, and dreams STARTING OFF and hear he doesn't care about her beliefs, goals, and dreams AT ALL. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:25 AM
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If you don’t care who the person is you have a gf shaped hole and no one wants to be your hole filler This you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:23 AM
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Maybe he's just curious, idk. Why are you lying about it though? You don't have to be in argument with everyone who wants to argue. If you believe something you should be able to be honest about your beliefs when asked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:23 AM
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Did you miss the part where op said he doesn't care about that STARTING OFF and cares about it as he dates them? Seriously did you read the post? Did you also miss the part where you said: Shes with a guy who admittedly really doesnt care about her personality until shes proven herself valuable enough to him overtime (and prob sex). And you just agreed with: Do you care about any man's personality without him proving himself valuable enough to you overtime? Which is a gender flipped version of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:22 AM
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So in your mind not talking MUCH is the same as not talking EVER? Those are the exact same statement to you? Because I don't talk much but I certainly talk. Did you also miss the point where he said he doesn't care much about her beliefs, hopes, and dreams STARTING OFF? Did you miss that? Because he's talking about why he would START dating someone, not ALL that he wants in a relationship. Try reading the post it's all there and very easy to understand if you are fluent in english
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:20 AM
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Genuinely yes it is more likely that 80 comments from the same 5-10 people that consistently struggle with reading the english language are currently struggling to read the english language. I've been around here, I recognize the names. It's all the same trolls that constantly read into things men post about women. They constantly invent hate where it does not exist and literally add words into the statements made by men that completely change what the men are saying. If you think this doesn't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:18 AM
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Ok so you're the exact same as op. Why did you hate on him for doing exactly what you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:16 AM
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Sure pal, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:14 AM
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You literally want a doll- correct proportions, pretty face, doesn’t talk “much”. If you don’t care who the person is you have a gf shaped hole and no one wants to be your hole filler This you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:14 AM
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Shes with a guy who admittedly really doesnt care about her personality until shes proven herself valuable enough to him overtime (and prob sex). Do you care about any man's personality without him proving himself valuable enough to you overtime?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:13 AM
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Have you heard of the concept of dating? What do you think that is if you have heard of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:12 AM
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Where did he say compatibility didn't matter? He obviously said STARTING OFF these are his standards for wanting to date someone. Why can you not start dating an attractive person who you get along with and see if your goals and values align as you're dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:11 AM
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What if he gets along with a lot of different kinds of people though? Is it really so bad to not have extremely detailed and specific desires for a hypothetical partner's personality and interests?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:10 AM
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Please provide a quote from the main post where he says this. Please show us where he said she should NEVER talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:10 AM
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Please provide some quotes from the main post where he says he wants a silent partner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:09 AM
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As much as average. Is it really this hard to understand? Are you a native speaker of english?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:09 AM
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Dude it's crazy how so many people here just aren't reading your post. If it's any consolation I got what you were trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:08 AM
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Please quote the part of the post where he says she shouldn't talk at all
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:08 AM
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Why is being a quieter than average person considered the same as never talking ever by now multiple women in this thread? Can you please provide a quote from the post where this guy says he never wants her to talk? Shit I'm a quiet person but I certainly still talk. None of my partners have ever wanted a silent person. They're just compatible with someone who's quieter the same way I'm compatible with someone who's a bit more talkative in a conversation. It's not so extreme as you make it out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:07 AM
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When did he say he wanted perfect proportions and that they never talk? Please provide direct quotes from the post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:05 AM
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So we're evangelical republicans now?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:04 AM
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So if you're a parent you can commit any crime and should never be sent to jail/prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:02 AM
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Really? Every single case every single time? And you've personally witnessed every single custody case?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 01:01 AM
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Wow you really will never criticize a woman for anything she ever does huh? This bitch objectively constantly abused her kids and you still blame the dad for what she did. You realize women are adult human beings right? 97% of men who file for 50% or more custody, win it. You realize 97% is less than 100% right? Jesus christ even in your own defenses you can't even understand basic math. Just stop your trolling is pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:59 AM
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How many moms gave their kids up for adoption? Do we call that a deadbeat mom? Do you think it's equally possible for a man to have a kid without the woman knowing as it is for a woman to have a kid without the man knowing? If you think one step further it's pretty easy to understand many aspects of why people may consider there to be less deadbeat moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:58 AM
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Yeah this is definitely why there's less deadbeat moms. If dads could end the kid before they existed plenty would have done it too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:56 AM
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What is your definition of privilege?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:55 AM
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Yeah it's not like a mom can take the kid and move and would have financial control of the kid's life or anything. Nope a small child can just easily go drive to dad whenever they want and go buy a phone whenever they want right? 5 years old can definitely do all that by themselves with the money they make on their own
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:54 AM
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True and I guess every woman who gets an abortion is a toxic piece of shit too right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:53 AM
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Yeah I think it's more that women also don't want to be alone. Feels like all the "women are just so happy being single" stuff we see is one big obvious coping mechanism and the women are just as terrified of being alone and settle for some guy they don't like but can do things for them. Shit you kinda see it with how these women talk about what they want in a partner. Often what they mention are servile traits and actions. Honestly I think there's far more dominant women than they even admit to…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:48 AM
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> Have I ever met a man romantically who possesses those traits to a degree that I truly admire? No. I think what's so wild and causes the misunderstandings and shit is that all of my friends posses all of those traits so something is up. Either you're ignoring all of the men who do have those and you're attracted to the lack of those traits. Or the "that I truly admire" part is an incredibly high unrealistic standard that most women, maybe even you, don't meet either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:44 AM
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#NoTaLlWoMeN
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:36 AM
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How is your highlighted portion an ask for advice?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:35 AM
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Why wouldn't you say that though? Why would you lie to someone's face about what you like when directly asked? If you require a man to be 6' tall and it's your main dealbreaker why wouldn't you mention that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/25 12:28 AM
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That is not implied by that quoted statement. You might need to get hooked on phonics big dog
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:03 PM
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Please quote and link the comment I made where I said that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:59 PM
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Why do you assume the absolute worst of every man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:00 PM
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So you're saying women aren't attracted to good men? Seriously can you please stay on one topic of conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:28 PM
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Oh you don't know what the concept of context is in a conversation? Damn, you posted that comment as a response to the main post talking about women liking good men or not. Where in the comment do you say you're specifically talking about one man? Because I'm not seeing it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 07:22 PM
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A man she isn’t attracted to but who is eager to use her body for his one sided sexual gratification for the duration of their lives isn’t a good man, he’s a monster. This you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:35 PM
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It's embarrassing how you can't just admit to being wrong about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:34 PM
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So you admit it's not always aggravating and repellent, so why is that your default assumption about a man expressing any amount of sexual or romantic desire for a woman? Also you don't know what the word entitled means either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:16 PM
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Right so where is the word debilitating in all of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:16 PM
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Oh now you're editorializing and misusing the word fetish. I suggest you look up the definition again and get back to me when you can actually understand the word you're trying to use
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:38 PM
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So why was that your default assumption about a stranger you've never met and know nothing about? Why have you never once made the same assumption about a woman on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:37 PM
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So you just can't read at this point. Because you screenshotted it and highlighted my comment and you still didn't pull up any evidence of me defending the act of ignoring your gf to play video games. Seriously just admit you were wrong at this point and we can move on because your behavior now is just fucking embarrassing cope for being wrong. I literally never did what you are accusing me of doing and you can't find any evidence of me doing it either. If you were actually literate you would un…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:35 PM
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So yes I do know exactly what I'm talking about and I was using the word correctly. Thank you for proving my point for me. Hopefully now you've had the chance to calm down and can finally have an adult conversation right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:31 PM
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> A man she isn’t attracted to but who is eager to use her body for his one sided sexual gratification for the duration of their lives isn’t a good man, he’s a monster. This you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:29 PM
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The vast majority of men do not jet off to other countries multiple times a year, nor do they have any semblance of interesting lives where they engage in meaningful hobbies. They rot in front of video games and porn. This is just not true at all and the fact that you genuinely think it is shows that you do not go outside and interact with others and mostly stay inside on the internet. Frankly how are you that different from these men you hate so much? Maybe you see too many similarities with yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 05:28 PM
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Can you quote the part specifically where I defend ignoring your gf to play video games, because it's not in the lazy little screenshot. Use your own words like an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:41 AM
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Please quote and link the comment where I defended that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:28 AM
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Well then it's a good thing men in general don't do that. Maybe you only attract the anti-social weirdos if this is genuinely your dating experience. Something to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:22 AM
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Are we talking about a specific man that you are currently choosing to date despite clearly hating him? Or is this still the guy you made up?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:22 AM
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The superiority complex is in every comment you've made in this thread. But one example is right here: > I don’t want a guy to whine about it and say he wants to mope around and play video games at home all day Where it seems like you believe the guy either does what you want and is incredibly exciting or wants to do different things and you assume he must be the most boring loser of all time. There's infinite variations between those two absolute extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:46 AM
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Yeah I do know what a fetish is, do you know what a fetish is? Because from this comment it seems like you don't and are like always very arrogantly incorrect. Also lay off the catastrophizing, he's not fucking torpedoing his entire life if he did this. You is not mentally healthy behavior from you and hope you get help for these issues. Cognitive behavioral therapy is very good for addressing these incredibly assumptions and reactions to those assumptions that you have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:44 AM
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Well pics or it didn't happen. You both are weirdos who would lie about this. So I need to verify myself
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:42 AM
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You need to get outside more bro, women chase hot men who aren't monsters all the time. The key is to make yourself hot not to be a fucking monster
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:40 AM
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> No, independent women are not doing that. Ok so the comment I initially replied to was a totally meaningless non-sequitur? Weird > Trad women probably are, though, and our mothers, grands, and greats had no choice. Speak for yourself pal, the women in my family always had choices and chose men they actually like. Your weird family history is not the universal experience. > The red and black pills have proudly informed women they have no problem with forcing women to marry and endure a lifetime…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:40 AM
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I'm rapey because I think someone who automatically assumes that every man by default wants to use women for their one sided sexual gratification has issues with their perception of women's sexuality? Ok, whatever you say bud....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:34 AM
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Lol this is exactly what I'm talking about. Something that certainly is not exciting but can be very fun and enjoyable. Low key you might be cooking with this Indian-Chinese food fusion though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:32 AM
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Ok so what have you two done in the past month that has made your life so exciting? The real issue I think is people are misusing the word exciting when they really mean enjoyable. If we talked enjoyment rather than excitement here then I think there would be no disagreements at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:31 AM
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Ok so what has your month of activities been that has given you such an exciting life and ego fueled superiority complex about other adults who have routines in life? I love working on music and going to practicing my martial arts. Those are some of the most enjoyable and fulfilling things I do on a regular basis, but after doing this for 10+ years it's not exactly exciting anymore. I think most adults are like this and we still enjoy life and live decent lives. I think you just gotta dial back …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:28 AM
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I don't think exciting is the right word, it would take a practically impossible situation happening for grocery shopping to become exciting, and even then most of those situations would be bad. I think the word you're looking for is enjoyable rather than exciting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:25 AM
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Yeah none of that sounds all that exciting though, that's just living a life as an adult. It's just weird to be so wildly disrespectful towards men who are living the same kind of life as you but just doing different things and having different interests. Like your life is incredibly boring to someone who doesn't like camping. Would you want some guy to insult you about having some super boring life?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:24 AM
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Oh so now you think women are marrying men they are disgusted by? Why would they do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:43 AM
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When did I say anything about all women acting and thinking the same way? Are you genuinely trying to tell me that you've never heard any woman ever say that looks don't matter? Really? Come on bro, I made a very normal and easy to understand comment and you just took it in a wild direction
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:42 AM
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Oh yes and you have absolutely no fetishes at all and only have sex for procreation in missionary with the lights off and no dirty talk. Sure that's what it is. Calling in your little simp to defend your titties is not gonna help you either lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:40 AM
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The biggest instigators here always do. I'm pretty sus about her claim to be older than her mid 20s with the very immature, frankly childish mindset she's got about adult life. It's like she thinks instagram is real life or something
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:16 AM
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Damn what got you so mad about this post? You jealous of this woman's breast size or something? There's genuinely nothing in this post that warrants such an angry and hostile response
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:06 AM
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Ok but what makes your life exciting? What do you do on a regular basis that is exciting?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:02 AM
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Sure, I think it's also that benevolent sexism is perceived as better than equal treatment, which is funnily enough seen as sexist, by women who are looking for men to date. But the issue is that benevolent sexists also are more likely to be hostile sexists as well, compared to men who treat women equally to men. I think this can make girls and young women go after men who see women as inferior to men and treat her as such, but in positive ways as well, while ignoring a type of man who would see…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:57 AM
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I guess to humble brag about being hot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:49 AM
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Damn, so you think women don't like sex or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:46 AM
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Yes, and has a man ever denied that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:46 AM
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Sure that's a valid point, but how many men have you known who say that men don't care about physical attraction when they're looking for a woman to date? The reason posts like this are so common is that women do lie and explicitly say that physical attraction does not matter for women and it's actually a man's personality that matters. Obviously that is a lie, but posts like this come from boys or young men who are realizing this narrative they've been told their entire lives is actually false …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:43 AM
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What makes your life so exciting? What did you do today that was exciting? I think when you get older you'll realize that a good life can be very boring at times, life is generally boring and things that are constant excitements in life are generally bad things happening to you. But hopefully you'll also find the joy in the boring times of a good life and you won't ruin a good thing by chasing excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 01:39 AM
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Looks like he's not the only one dodging questions lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 03:01 AM
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I wasn't trying to answer your question, I was questioning the relevance of your question. If you want to start a different conversation about high school love then by all means make a new post. But to make that comment on this post that seemingly has nothing to do with what you posted is kinda weird. Like the post isn't about hating on popular kids in high school so I'm confused about why that was all your comment was about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:49 AM
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Was op really talking about high school love?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 02:39 AM
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Whining again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 11:40 PM
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Whining again
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:55 PM
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At least you admit to whining all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:47 PM
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Sure but what you're ignoring is the word "just" in that sentence. When you say "women JUST want a man who treats them like a human being" you're saying that's the only thing that matters and any man who does ONLY do that will have success. What you can say instead is "women want a man who treats them like a human being" because, while that is still close to the first statement and a little too vague to be useful in my opinion, it is not stating that that is all a man needs to do to have success
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:50 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1ivwk2c/comment/me9eut6/ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1iv3kha/comment/me2ziab/ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1iv3kha/who_is_the_most_misogynistic_man_who_know_irl/me2k505/ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1iup9vg/discussion_about_main_ppd_posts_looks_and_ncount/me2658p/ https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1iv1exm/most_i_want_a_traditional_woman_claims_translate/me25p4q/ https…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:33 PM
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I can but what's the point when after digging through the thousands of comments you made from 12+ hours of posting every single day you'll just deny it or disappear entirely? Again, you're just a liar so what's the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:14 AM
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You've whined about more than just that. Your comment history is public. But whatever, you're not an honest person anyway so who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:50 AM
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You have, and plenty of others have whined about the kind of men they attract and choose to have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 12:42 AM
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Nah bro you got some serious problems with reading and understanding English if you think that's what your response said. Take the L and move on with your life like an adult. But I know you can't, so go ahead and get the last word in. I know it's very important for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:37 PM
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Furthermore, I don’t have a way of verifying it. Well then you have no evidence and I do. Only an idiot would go with your points in the face of objective evidence. Sorry but you're just wrong. Take the fucking L like an adult and move on. Also the standards for BMI say that a 30 or above is obese. Take it up with the people who made BMI standards if you disagree. Leave me alone you obsessed troll
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 11:35 PM
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Well you're still alive so you obviously don't believe this you dumb little troll
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:15 PM
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Fuck off troll
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:02 PM
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I have no idea what professional athlete women look like So you just didn't look at the picture I posted. Yep you're just a dishonest troll. Answer my question, how are these measurements verified? Answer my question and we can move on, refuse to answer my question and I will block you like the troll you are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:01 PM
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This is the first time you've linked this to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:59 PM
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Oh I didn't know you were extremely autistic. Sorry, when I talked about the world ending I meant human civilization and to an extent human existence at all. Hope this helps :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:46 PM
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Lady you linked it to me once, maybe get a hold of what comments you're making to which people. And no I'm not gonna do anything for you because you didn't even look at the picture I sent you of Amanda Nunes weighing in at 135 lbs. You for some reason don't believe the ufc is an accredited mma organization that is overseen by athletic commissions dedicated to keeping accurate weight for the fighters before the fights. Sorry but maybe that random website with no way to prove any of the measuremen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:42 PM
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So how do they verify these measurements? You still have not told me that. And I already showed you a verified photo. Amanda Nunes in that picture I shared was weighing in for her 135 lbs title fight. Meaning in that specific photo she has to be 135 lbs, she's literally on the scale in front of the athletic commission. She is in that picture 5'8" and 135 lbs, that's an objective fact that you can not argue against. She is still much bigger than the women you claim are 5'3" and 176 lbs. That is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:39 PM
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> The world doesn’t need to “work” Oh so you're fine with the world ending. Cool dude, you're insane and I'm not wasting anymore time with such an insane troll like you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:03 PM
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You just said there are no good men, you claim to be a man, that would mean you are not a good man because as you just said, there are no good men. What part of this is so confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:00 PM
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Ok then give up and stop going online to talk about dating. Do something else with your life if dating is so hopeless
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:00 PM
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Sorry pal but I just don't understand how you can think the world can still work just fine with half the people gone. Even in your personal life there's not one single man that does something good for you? And who's talking about oppressing anybody? Where did that come from?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:31 AM
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Don't hold your breath, she always disappears when proven wrong. She's the most prolific troll on this subreddit so don't take her shit too seriously. Just have fun with it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 08:00 AM
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> These guys will go on these holier than thou misogyny rants, so I dont care. Lol So you think this is a good thing and support men doing this more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:59 AM
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You constantly support other women whining here. It's the most common thing you do, why lie like this when your posting history is public?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:58 AM
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Except that's not true, married women are also better off than single women the same way married men are when compared to single men. Sorry but as people we can't just throw away half the population and have everything go fine. We are not islands of rugged individualism, we all need each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:54 AM
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Damn, you're not a good man? Should probably work on fixing that bud
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 07:52 AM
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Sorry babe but you're lying, no amount of bolded demands will change that. I'm the only one posting objectively verified height and weight stats. It's a fact that the woman you posted is not actually 5 inches shorter and 40 lbs heavier than Nunes in that picture where she is weighing in in front of the world. Show me verified height and weight of these women if you want to convince me. Not just what some unverified rando says about random women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:54 AM
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That woman is also not that height and weight. Where the fuck are you finding these pictures? How do they verify these measurements?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:51 AM
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Lol what a fucking cope you've got there. Sorry but I went to a top university in the world, people had time for friends. If you don't have friends it's not because you don't have time, it's because you're not being likable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 06:48 AM
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Oh that's where you're wrong, these insignificant examples are exactly what people talk about in the weaponized incompetence discourse
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:46 AM
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Do you always buy the exact same things as your partner every single time you go to the store? We know you're a troll but come on this is ridiculous even for you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:38 AM
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Is it weaponized if they're just dumb? That's op's point, sometimes a guy is just stupid the same way a woman is but she is never accused and attacked over weaponized incompetence
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:30 AM
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Imma be real, I've never looked at what percentage sour cream I'm getting and I've never heard anyone ever talk about the specific percentages of sour cream and nobody I've ever met has ever cared at all in any way about sour cream percentages, and there's never been a sour cream percentage problem. It's interesting that you show the flip side of this weaponized incompetence discourse. That a lot of the complaints come from people who are rigidly neurotic about insignificant things that only the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:29 AM
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Sure but are we really gonna act like there aren't any women who are control freaks and always nitpick the chores their husband or kids do and come behind them to do it again the "right" (her very specific) way? Because in this conversation we should keep in mind that some of this weaponized incompetence is more of a "if you want to do it then just fucking do it" response to the badgering and insults from the control freak partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:24 AM
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Like Amanda Nunes here is 5'8" and 135 lbs here and is much more muscular than the pictured woman. It is physically impossible for that woman to be 5 inches shorter and 40 lbs heavier https://preview.redd.it/g7x3mubvieke1.jpeg?width=1000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e2b6ac6d69db44ac037241961fe0b84e5d48b958
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:14 AM
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But I didn't say that's unhealthy, the defintions in the BMI index says that's unhealthy. A BMI over 30 is objectively obese. So you're wrong about that and you're lying in your example anyway. This woman would have to have a fully metal skeleton to be 5'3" and 176 pounds and not be fat at all while also not being muscular at all. I'm dead serious with this next question, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 02:11 AM
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Men or just the one man you're referring to? Because you didn't show that some mass amount of men think a 27 bmi is obese and disgusting. You just need therapy and maybe to take a break from your unhealthy obsession with this subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 04:16 PM
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You need to learn how to read, only one of your examples is calling a bmi of 27 obese and disgusting. Or are you saying that a bmi of 30 is healthy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:16 PM
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Because you have no experience and a lot of mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:14 PM
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Wow, you're 40 and you're still acting like this? Ok lady, how about you point me in the direction of this girlfriend store so I can go pick one up after work today
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:13 PM
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Yeah link those comments
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:34 AM
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You have never clearly never gone on a single date in your entire life. Go out with a woman with no friends and then come back to us. You'll see I'm right
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:34 AM
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> They're obviously not looking for sex or a partner otherwise they'd have it. How old are you? Because only a child would honestly say something like this. Only a child would think relationships are formed by a guy going to the girlfriend store and picking out the one he likes the most. You're either trolling (likely) or a child (less likely) which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:30 AM
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That refutation is complete ass though and doesn't actually refute anything. Come on bro, you really think it's better to be described as a woman beater than it is to be described as nice? How old are you dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:25 AM
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Ok but what else are you gonna do? Just give up? Ok do that if you want, just leave us alone and stop complaining about dating. Do something more productive with your life then. You need to grow up one day, stop acting like a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 04:22 AM
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That's not true and a complete side step of my question. Sorry but there are plenty of unattractive men with great personalities, people like them just not romantically or sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 08:06 PM
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I think it's that you're an attractive guy and that frames your awkwardness in a positive light while a guy who isn't attractive but is awkward gets framed in a negative light. This is really why my main advice is always to make yourself more attractive before doing other work on yourself. There's honestly not that many personality issues that can fuck up your dating life if you're attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:09 PM
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Uh no that doesn't happen in my experience. I'm sure some do but I've never been hanging out with them. Would be really weird if I was hanging out and a guy pulled out his phone to show off the woman he was dating or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:07 PM
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Well if you meant you couldn't care less, then you really should care. A woman with no friends is not someone you want to be in a relationship with. Massive red flag for terrible and extremely clingy behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:04 PM
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And you know this how? Because one guy said it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:47 PM
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Did you look at their screenshot? Are you saying that someone with a nearly identical username as you made an identical post on the same subreddit at the same time?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:45 PM
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> Why would this honest person envy people who are not honest? Hmm maybe just maybe, they envy the financial security and freedom that comes with being rich as opposed to the soul crushing pain of being poor?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:43 PM
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Sure, but what if they're not attractive? Do you really think women date men they aren't attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:40 PM
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True but honestly if you're fit then you're somebody's type. May not be super hot but you will have your niche as long as you don't have like facial deformities or something, and you probably don't I've only seen one guy in my whole life with that as the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:39 PM
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Honestly you just need to read this article to understand why a man who does everything the right way but fails would be jealous of or otherwise upset by a different guy doing everything the wrong way and having success. https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/08/31/radicalizing-the-romanceless/ It's not that all these guys think they should be the hottest man in the world with every woman wanting him, it's that he should have more success in dating than an abusive rapist who doesn't wash his ass. This …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:37 PM
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Yes we can't say anything about anything because you're acting like if there's one outlier that disproves the trend then the trend doesn't exist, or if we can't read someone's mind we can't make observations about their actions. In the real world there's always an outlier, so that means if we follow your reasoning we can't talk about anything because there's no trends and we always have to cater to the outliers no matter how tiny the group of outliers is. There's always doubt about someone's tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:33 PM
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So does he represent all the men here or just himself? The question is the same and the fact you didn't answer it reveals a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:29 PM
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The experience I shared and the experience the guy you asked "do you pay for dates" are similar. Are we rare? I don't know, I don't have all the answers or everyone's experiences in life at hand. Yes you are in fact very rare, frankly I've never met any man who's dated many women who pay anything for a date in the early phases. Once in a relationship things change but this is all before that step. It's always a pleasant surprise when a woman is willing to pay at all and it's not a sign of reject…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:29 PM
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There ya go, was that so hard? That's all I needed, just an answer to my question not your whole life story. It's totally from my dating experience but that's fine, you're just way luckier than I am I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:59 PM
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It's a good mindset to have, but I fear this means you have very few women friends if expecting men to pay for dates means you can't be friends with them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:58 PM
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Dog I'm not wasting my time with a 3.5 hour long youtube video. Make your own statements with your own thoughts in a concise manner. It's not hard. But at the end of the day your point is that we can't talk about anything because of your impossible standards. So what's the point of commenting at all if your whole idea is "we can't say anything about anything"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:54 AM
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Ok you're right good W for you. Now does this guy represent all men or just him?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:52 AM
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Your experience is very unique, good for you but not the experience of me or really any other man I've ever known. For me and every man I've ever known, even if she's smart, attractive, ambitious, funny, curious, and politically aware if she's putting up money for the date then there will not be another one 99.999999999999999% of the time. Just how it is buddy. Also you should try reading his comment again because no, he actually never said anything about any scenario where a woman pays for the …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:51 AM
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You do recognize that this is the madonna/whore complex right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:46 AM
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You'd have to know for sure the reason she didn't want a second date was because he didn't pay for the first date. Also, making a big deal about paying for a meal is insane on whoever focuses on it. Then I guess we can't claim to know anything about human socialization and why things happen as a consequence. But also your examples are ridiculous exaggerations and generally are not how people talk to each other. So I guess it's just a case of ignorance or bad faith here. Either way, it's wack
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:40 AM
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Ok so you think objectifying people is good. I disagree and I will honestly never agree with that perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 06:35 AM
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I'm trying baby, I'm trying
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:58 AM
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We just did, try reading the comments again. Or are you saying it's good to value men for their material possessions and money instead of who they are as people?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:58 AM
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I notice you never answered my question, so I assume you are paying for the dates with all these wonderful smart and independent women. Thank you for proving my point for me
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:56 AM
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Did you read my comment? Because what you quoted is not what I quoted. When did this guy say that a 27 bmi is a whale? That's what I want to know. Or did you just massively exaggerate what he said to the point of disingenuously accusing him of saying something he did not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:55 AM
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Did you do that for the first date? The second date? Even the third date? It's great if you did, but the vast majority of women do not. Hell a sizable amount of women don't even do anything for their bfs on valentine's day. This is the kind of dating culture men are dealing with in America and I think a big part of our current dating issues
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:54 AM
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Why do you think someone's true self can't be awkward?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:52 AM
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Yeah the key is to check people's post history on this sub before engaging too seriously. There are quite a few power users who post here all day every day. These people are generally posting crazy shit and are horrible to interact with in any serious way. Essentially they're just trolls and it's good to treat them as such
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:51 AM
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Bro how did you describe strong attraction then say it's not the same as strong attraction? Either way just listen to women, they tell you themselves that they feel strong attraction to some men and some of these women even have sex with these men, sometimes after just an hour or two of hanging out at the bar. The point is women are human, they like to have sex with people they are attracted to, they might even date those hot people if their personalities are compatible. The goal for a man shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:49 AM
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Sure but then what happens when the man has the same mindset as you? If he has to plan and pay for every date he goes with women, what does that say about him? What does that say about the women he's dating? Essentially with this mentality and general trends in dating, in America at least, it's showing that women really don't give a fuck about men at all and just want to use men for a free night out. I feel like this is what causes the negative feelings about dating in a lot of men. Some of us d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:46 AM
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That's good to know, happy for you two
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:42 AM
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Oh yeah that's a great article and honestly the only thing op should need to read to get an understanding of the mindset she's attacking so hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 05:41 AM
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Damn look at bbl drizzy over here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:35 PM
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How are you so confused about this dude? They're talking about strong attraction, if you understand the english language then you understand what the words mean. Playing dumb like this is not helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:28 PM
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What's up with the strong racial element in these cuck fantasies? Why is always specifically a black guy cucking him? What secret desires are being revealed here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:26 PM
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You constantly whine about men. Like on a daily basis here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:17 PM
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You are special. Literally one person I've ever gone on any dates with who paid her half wanted to go on more dates. You are not a man who dates women, you do not know what women really expect of men they date. I am a man who dates women, I do have knowledge of what women expect in the men they date. Nearly all of them require the man to plan and pay for dates. It's just a simple fact of American society
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:14 PM
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I am staying single. Buy hey I'll stop whining when you do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:13 PM
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> Also men here: “any woman with a BMI over 27 is a WHALE” Who said this? But yes bmi is not great if you build muscle, men do more strength training than women, there are more men who are going to be overweight according to bmi but are perfectly healthy. For example a 6' tall man who is 200 lbs is considered overweight. I'm sure we all know that if the person is lifting and exercising then that size can be perfectly healthy for a strong muscular person. This is very simple logic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:10 PM
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Oh yeah, men are always bad and woman are always good. If something bad happens it's because of men, if something good happens it's because of women. You're definitely a serious person who says things that are worth listening to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:06 PM
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Well then you are a 1 in a billion type of woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:03 PM
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You offer, but do you actually follow through on the offer and then go on further dates with the men you paid your half with? Because out of all the women I've dated, one girl from college was the only one to ever actually pay half and then want to go on more dates. Every other time it was a sign of rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:02 PM
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Still can't find them. This is just a sad fact of life, a man must provide and pay for women's time if he wants to date. It's a universal standard that straight women have and no amount of men talking about why it's fucked up is ever gonna change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:01 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:00 PM
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I'm glad we agree that valuing men for their material possessions and money is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 09:00 PM
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Yeah it's really an issue of dehumanization in posts like this. If one thinks of men as people then it makes perfect sense why someone who does everything the right way without success has some jealousy or other negative feelings about people doing things the wrong way and having success. This isn't even a thing that needs to be debated it's so simple
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:59 PM
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Where are they? 99.99999999999999999999% of the women I've ever talked to have the same expectation as you. So where can I find all these women who actually want to be an equal partner and not my dependent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:19 PM
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I date men who plan and pay for dates Well well well, look at that. Not surprised at all. So if you can't be bothered to pay for anything, where can a man find the women who would?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:14 PM
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You think people never lose a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:09 PM
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Do you pay for your dates with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:08 PM
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Do you pay for your dates with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:08 PM
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You have a very extreme interpretation of language then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:07 PM
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Will you be planning and paying for the dates with this man? Have you done that in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:06 PM
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Okay so don't date those people. Clarify while planning the date that it will be "Dutch" or 50/50. Yes and watch the woman suddenly have a super busy schedule and can't ever find time to meet up anymore. Be honest, how many of your dates with men have you planned and paid for?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:06 PM
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Yes and neither is pussy. So go talk to your fellow women about their fucked up standards too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:03 PM
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I’ve also seen many women say they have no problem paying for themselves They say that but do they do it? I've been on plenty of women who are open feminists, talk about equality, etc. but only one of them has even split the bill on a date and wanted to go out again. The vast majority of women pay for a date if they're rejecting the man. If a man wants a shot at another date, he has to pay for the vast majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 08:03 PM
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Who's talking about sole provider?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:59 PM
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So you don't pay for the dates you go on with women? You get women paying for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:58 PM
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Do you plan and pay for the dates you've been on with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:56 PM
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I think it's really sad to think of yourself as only good for providing money. What if that's just how others see him? If every woman he didn't pay for on a date rejected a second one? If when woman talk about dating they say one the main things they want in a man is a provider? I feel like you have be extremely ignorant and live with your head in the sand to think this is just all in ops head. That he's the only one treating himself like this There are a million things that you can add to a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:53 PM
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Would women rather be valued for their material possessions and money?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:47 PM
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People in the same class still make different amounts of money
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:46 PM
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Your fantasies are not far removed from your real feelings. You like the bad men in fiction for a reason that is tied to your real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:44 PM
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You should change your name to alwayslying0, would be more accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:42 PM
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What 7 years of daily 12+ hour ppd posting does to a mf 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:39 PM
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And since you're doing none of those things, how are you putting your best foot forward? What does it say about you that you're completely unwilling to do anything for the man you're dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:38 PM
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> A woman needs a reason to hang out with a man Yeah and the reason should be wanting to hang out with me, not because I'm paying for your time. That's just being an escort. > Spending time with men on dates is not enjoyable for women Wow you are a massive sexist and should just not date men then since you clearly hate men and don't want anything to do with us
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:36 PM
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Women like this don't see men as actual people, hence the women and males thing she's doing. She just wants a man as a trophy and to brag about how much money he spends on her and how much he does for her without her doing anything in return. Really just admitting they are a really selfish and shitty partner that is likely to be abusive when they don't get their way
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:35 PM
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I think your list is insane and you have these standards to claim that your singleness is a choice. It's all just one massive coping strategy. Your bullet point list is just childish bullshit. You don't need to prove yourself and impress your date but the man does? You don't do anything for the date but expect a man to drop hundreds on you before he even knows if he likes you? You're treating yourself like an escort and you're only gonna attract men who treat you like one. Also for the fellas, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:32 PM
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So change who you are. I agree with that, you should change if you're not having success. But that's the opposite of "just being yourself"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:29 PM
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But it's not included. Show me the stats, I'm not just taking your word for it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:28 PM
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Speak for yourself homie, YOU do that not men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:28 PM
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Damn that's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:27 PM
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So jeans and a t shirt is immodest in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:37 AM
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Women get indignant about this too. It's just human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:36 AM
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Yeah but a person being themself can be confident and cool in one situation and awkward in another, or are you saying you've only ever been awkward or confident in all situations? But let's say he wasn't being himself, what should he do to start being himself on dates? The big issue with your advice and everything is that it is incredibly vague and therefore nearly impossible to put into practice. This "just be yourself" line is designed to be dismissive and just a thing to say to make the speak…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:33 AM
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Alone is better than being with someone who doesn't really want you. We're talking about basic self respect and standards here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:11 AM
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> Mine was more "outdoorsy hippie vegan progressive" so dad bods were barely even a thing much less people discussing their attraction to them So was mine, and dad bods were a thing there. Maybe you went to some tiny school while mine was like 40,000 students, I don't know. Either way the whole dad bod craze of like 2015-2018 was really fucking weird. Just a mass amount of women lying their asses off on a topic nobody asked for any opinions on lol. Shit even hit the New York Times, really weird …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:04 AM
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Well those comments do exist in this comment section, I've seen them But at the same time, people talking shit about a guy wanting "raw" attraction (love the new buzzword everyone is gonna overuse into meaninglessness) is still really fucking weird. I just don't understand why it's bad to want someone who feels a strong attraction to you. Seems like something everyone should want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:02 AM
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So how did you miss all the comments on this one doing exactly what you say nobody is doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:51 PM
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Because people are not doing that But other people are doing that. You're not doing that, which is cool, but plenty of other people certainly are doing that. Just look around this comment section and you'll see people doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:48 PM
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> I attended undergrad in an extremely liberal town that attracted many students from other very liberal areas and do not share your observations. I attended a similar university and I do share the core of his observations at least, even if his examples are pretty wack. The most common lie would be women saying they don't like fit muscular men and actually love dad bods, but then nearly all the guys going home with girls from parties, clubs, and bars and who the most success dating in general we…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:43 PM
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98% of rapes are done by men. This is incorrect, if rape is defined by nonconsensual sex. Now when rape is defined as non-consensual penetration of the victim, then yes that makes sense. Because you have defined rape as something that practically no woman can even physically do, not because women commit less non-consensual sexual activity. If made to penetrate is included in the rape stats then the number of rape victims in each gender are practically the same. How are you so ignorant about this…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 11:10 PM
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I swear we need to include age in the flairs on this subreddit. Some of the wild shit getting posted here would make sense if it's coming from an actual child.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:23 PM
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> It’s Lilith, sometimes the bottom of the barrel gets scraped after she’s posted continuously every 12hrs for a week. Lol just a week? She's been at this for 7 years and nothing has ever changed. She has all the same opinions and makes all the same posts about all the same topics. She's such an obvious troll people really gotta stop feeding her
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:18 PM
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> I see your posts on here a lot. I feel like you are on a journey and that you genuinely do care what people think and mostly engage in good faith, though your arguments sometimes feel borrowed from femcel spaces, and like you’re trying to refine them. I hope that over time thinking about all this stuff helps you to understand men’s perspectives better and see them more as people with feelings and hopes and dreams and mutual interests. Lol nah bro, look at her posting history. She's been making…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:13 PM
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Plenty of women are mocking men for wanting this. It's happening in this very comment section. Why do you feel the need to say "nobody" does something when you actually mean that you specifically don't do something?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:26 PM
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they look at the appropriate search terms What are the appropriate search terms? Do you think men who can't even understand that they can be sexually assaulted by women are gonna use the appropriate search terms? the only one with any type of bias going on is you. Ill ask again, what do you do to help men victims???? The same thing you do, nothing. My assumption is , you just care to shit on women and put the attention on them by saying hey ! they do it too Well your assumption is wrong, kinda w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:55 PM
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Well if 115 lbs Zhang Weili can lift Shaq with a high crotch single leg takedown then the average woman is strong enough to defend herself with proper technique. How many years of martial arts training do you have? I have 15, trained with plenty of women. Only an ignorant idiot would think a woman could never defend herself against any man no matter what she does or learns
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 05:49 PM
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Ok let's say you're in south central LA, very high crime black neighborhoods out there. Is it reasonable to fear all black people in that area because of the violence they commit in that area?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:37 AM
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Yeah it's wild, plus I'm a natural light heavyweight so I've always been at least bigger than average and in my many years of training I've been fucking tossed by women smaller than me. Go figure these techniques survived for thousands of years because it works. Plus you don't even have to take my word for it, little ass 115 lbs Zhang Weili has on video easily lifted Shaq with a high crotch single leg takedown. Women are a lot more capable than they're given credit for and these weirdos who don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:35 AM
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So then you can see how in a society that conditions everyone to believe that women can't ever sexually assault a man in any way there's gonna be far less men looking up the appropriate search terms and therefore your cliental is going to have a selection bias. If women are the ones who can recognize they were sexually assaulted and speak in the same language as your charity then it follows that it's mostly gonna be women finding your charity and therefore your clients are going to be mostly wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:30 AM
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Idk I did it, wasn't too hard for me just took time and consistent effort. Now I feel very safe in society even in situations where others would not because I know if shit goes down I can effectively protect myself against 99% of people. It's a nice feeling, plus it's just a good skill to have in your back pocket on the off chance you might need it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:28 AM
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Well people should be better than just going off of their base animal instincts. I recommend the same for everyone, if you feel unsafe in society then learn how to protect yourself so you stop feeling scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:26 PM
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How are victims made aware of your charity? Do you think there could be a sampling bias in your charity?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:24 PM
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Right but these are national stats so they are they apply to every area of the country. Now answer the question it's a simple yes or no, don't be scared homie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 08:23 PM
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Right but these are national stats so they are they apply to every area of the country. Now answer the question it's a simple yes or no, don't be scared homie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:33 PM
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And they are also men, they say all men are an active threat to women and no woman should ever be alone with any man. That includes them. So maybe you should ask them why they have an uncontrollable need to assault women when they are alone with any woman
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:19 PM
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Right but these are national stats so they are they apply to every area of the country. Now answer the question it's a simple yes or no, don't be scared homie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:17 PM
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No it doesn't because these are national stats. Answer the question it's a simple yes or no, don't be scared homie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:15 PM
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No it doesn't because these are national stats. Answer the question it's a simple yes or no, don't be scared homie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:10 PM
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Doesn't matter where, these are national stats. Answer the question it's a simple yes or no, don't be scared homie
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:05 PM
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Ok cool, do you have any proof of how many women say they want 50/50 relationships and then enter into 50/50 relationships? Because I'm a man who dates women and you're not, I can tell you from dating women that nearly every woman who claimed to want 50/50 didn't want that until it was the last date they wanted to go on, then suddenly they can pull out their wallet and pay their share of the date. So I'm curious where you get your opinion since it can't be from being a man who dates women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 07:02 PM
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> No man I associate with thinks that women are safe with or should trust men Damn you associate with some crazy ass predators. Why do they think women are not safe alone with them and why do you hang out with men who are threats to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:59 PM
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Yeah but if you have actually had 10 years of quality training then the size discrepancy doesn't matter, you're still gonna kick the ass of like 95% of men in the world. Don't matter how big you are if you can't block leg kicks or can't defend submissions you're gonna get destroyed very easily by any adult who knows what they're doing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:58 PM
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> Imagine you were half the size you are now with half the strength, trying to survive in prison. That's probably similar to he underlying evolutionary fear baked into most women's brains. Yeah that can be scary, but I'd do what I already did in life, I'd learn how to fight so I can protect myself using superior techniques and strategies to overcome a size disadvantage. Why don't women do that if they're actually so scared of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:56 PM
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> A piece of advice given to me was “just walk up behind her and touch her” - I didn’t listen to that advice and as I made more female friends, this seems to be a common experience. Yes it is common, but it's not gendered. This is like the default flirting strategy, just go up to a hot dude and start groping him. Idk why you single out men like this when both genders are doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:55 PM
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I know rape isnt at the same rate as I collaborate with a charity against SA, and 98% of perpetrators are men, 82% of victims are women. How did they get these stats and how do they define sexual assault?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:54 PM
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Ok but no person can exist in multiple places across the globe at once. So if I'm in America you would say it's reasonable to fear violence from black people because the stats show that black people are 13% of the population and commit 50% of violent crime, right? It's just stats bro, nothing personal, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:52 PM
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> Women possibly fearing me because I'm a man takes the least amount of understanding to understand. I don't see why I should be offended by it or why it's a big deal when they're just looking out for themselves and isn't really about me, it's nothing personal. Ok, but why do you think other groups should be offended by bigotry directed towards them when those bigots are just looking out for themselves and it's not actually about the person on the receiving end of the bigotry? It's nothing perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:51 PM
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So in your opinion bigotry is good as long as it's directed at men, and you're a man. Damn bro, try developing some self respect, this is very unhealthy extreme pick-me behavior. Just don't be a bigot and treat everyone equally, it's not hard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 06:50 PM
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Ok you're just a troll and not a serious person at all. Good job
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:56 AM
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Because men don't go to prostitutes. Nobody I have ever met has even considered using a prostitute. It is something a super tiny minority of men even consider doing so it is irrelevant to this conversation about general trends regarding men and our behavior. So no, the risk is not always there. You are just extremely paranoid like the men who don't let their partners go to the club without them because of the risk of her cheating with some hot guy at the club. After all, more people have sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:00 PM
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Yeah but I'm not getting sexual on the date, I'm genuinely pretty bad a verbal flirting and my general social anxiety makes things difficult with new people. Hell last year I broke a 5 year dry spell. I think I kinda am the type of guy you're talking about. I've failed way more often than I've ever succeeded. > All you know is what a man who is socially comfortable sending sexual signals to women experiences, and that is not the same for every guy. If you got a record of how I've talked to all t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:55 PM
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OP used it to argue women say they want 50/50 but don’t actually practice it. Implying the findings of that study support that. This is where you go wrong. You'll also see that op linked his post asking women if they want to go 50/50 and women mostly said they demand their man provides for them. Women are the ones saying they don't want 50/50, what are we supposed to not listen to women anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:52 PM
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That is a good idea, it'll work since people have horribly short memories here. But be honest with me, how is a man who women don't want to have sex with supposed to cheat on his partner? Remember I'm talking about consensual sex so no prostitutes (which the vast majority of men will never even come close to engaging with in the first place). This again doesn't make them better partners, it's just that it's harder for an unattractive person to find a willing sexual partner
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 09:51 PM
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Well good thing reddit has a function that lets you save comments and can be viewed from your profile. Next time you come across these comments, save a couple for later. Because at this point I just don't believe you since you can't show one example of this super common thing that's apparently happening all the time. Not really. If a person does want to cheat, they will. A man can pay for sex, and that's still cheating. Ok now you're just being ridiculous, it's ok to be slightly wrong about some…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:22 PM
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So no actual examples, but isn't it just logical that a man who women don't want is gonna have a harder time finding someone to cheat with than a man that women do want? It takes two to tango after all. Either way that's not saying that men without options are better partners though. That's just some childish arguing to score points against the cool kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:59 PM
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You do know that the word creep means a sexual predator right? What part of any of this makes a man a sexual predator? > So Im vetting out friendless guys, broke guys, guys who are socially awkward, and guys who dont dress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:33 PM
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Can you show the class just one example of a man saying creeps don't exist? Or is this like yesterday where you make some rage fueled rant against a type of man that you completely invented and who doesn't actually exist and you can provide no examples of what the fuck you're talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:32 PM
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Show me one example of a man saying men with no options are inherently better partners. You people keep harping on how common this sentiment is but nobody can show me one example of what the fuck you're talking about. Maybe that means you're just wrong or even lying
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:31 PM
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But you don't need to learn how to build sexual chemistry more than you just need to be sexually attractive. I've experienced sex with women who are more and less attracted to me and it quickly became obvious which women were more interested. I didn't need to explicitly do anything to build sexual chemistry with the women who were attracted to me. We would just have a good date and go back to my place for some kind of nightcap with music and then I'd create an opening for getting sexual, she'd r…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:29 PM
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> Women aren't robots that are programmed to put out x amount of sexual energy for you once you hit certain levels of physical attractiveness. Well yeah, but to borrow a common phrase about men "if she wanted to she would". It's important for boys and young men to understand that someone who is actually attracted to you and wants to be with you will act as such. She will respond to your texts, she will take initiative, she will treat you like someone worth being with. Because after all, this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:55 AM
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Yeah go figure snarkily replying then immediately blocking someone to disingenuously get the last word is against the rules of the subreddit. Maybe next time just don't reply, idk why you're acting like you're forced to reply to my comments
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:48 AM
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What part of that quoted statement is saying that men without options are inherently better than men with options? I feel like my question was very straightforward
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:46 AM
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Even so, I think that the best way to counter the arguments of these people is to focus on each post individually, tackle their arguments and not focus on the person's biases; in this particular post she is definitely NOT comparing two things. Bro are you reading my comments before responding? I've only been criticizing op for what she posts in this post and comment section and you're arguing against me. What is going on? Her main line of argument is not that optionless men are worse in relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:31 AM
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Absence of evidence is not evidence of abscence. Ok but it's also not evidence either. It in fact does imply that op thinks negatively of men without options if she never says anything positive about men without options but has endless amounts of vitriol for men without options. Come on man you're not really this naive right? Example: Person A: “I like oranges. They taste great!” Person B: “Oh, so you hate bananas then? Perhaps if you opened your mind to other fruits, you wouldn’t be so prejudic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:58 AM
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It is. Youre just biased against me and biased for guys with no options. Ok but it's not, you're just wrong and stubborn I gave examples of men with no options not being the better option. Yes that's what I said, you also didn't give any examples of men with no options being the better option. So what did I get wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:51 AM
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Ok so you just have no idea if women generally want 50/50 then? Or are you hiding some study that has all the answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:50 AM
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You didn't show proof though. You used a previous post about a woman complaining about men as evidence that men are doing something wrong. If you're gonna say that men are making all these comments then your proof needs to be comments of men commenting the things you're saying they comment. Do you really not understand this? I gotta ask, how old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:36 PM
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Ah we see the natural defense of the redditor in the wild. When cornered with evidence of their own poor behavior they immediately pivot to an unrelated personal attack in an attempt to pivot the conversation away from the previous claim that has been proven wrong. Fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:35 PM
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That is not saying what you think you're saying. This is not a statement about men without options the same way this is for example: Will claim he wants a relationship because he cant get hookups. Even if he doesnt pump and dump, he clearly doesnt like the woman and is only tolerating her because she fucks him. You have very clear and pointed things to say directly about these men specifically when it's negative, but when it's even slightly positive in any way suddenly your statements are comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 11:34 PM
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> but the point her post is trying to make is not " a man with options is better" and that discussion is not the one that OP is trying to foster. But that's what her post is obviously about. You can't even show me one example of op having even one good thing to say about men without options. Where are you getting this idea that op has any positive feelings about these men from? It's certainly not from what she shares about her thoughts and feelings on the topic > She is challenging the notion th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:55 PM
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So you don't have any proof and you're just making shit up then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:54 PM
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Ok so you're just a troll Platonic loneliness is a valid thing, and many people do not agree that it should be ignored I never said it should be ignored, just not what people are talking about. Here's a pro tip for ya, if the person complaining about dating then they're talking about romantic loneliness and not platonic loneliness. So if you want to only talk about platonic loneliness then stay out of that specific conversation. Hope this helps :) Shall I make a post asking men if we should assu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:45 PM
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And those loneliness posts were all related to dating and sex. At this point you're just a troll or are suffering from a massive concussion. Which one is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:31 PM
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> Nope, a lot of them are about gender stereotypes and societal expectations Yes and practically all those stereotypes and expectations are related to dating and sex > Platonic friendships and social interactions are discussed here all the time through a gendered context Discussed very rarely compared to dating and sex. On the front page right now there isn't a single post that is not related to dating or sex. Stop with these ridiculous lies that are so easy to prove wrong > If you’re still conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:24 PM
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> That guys here have admitted is their view of women. Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:07 PM
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> This sub can address general gender issues as well as dating Cool, practically every single post ever made on this subreddit is about dating > And the discourse/discussion on loneliness and male loneliness is not confined to this sub Cool, where is this conversation happening right now? > Plenty of men here claim they are suffering from general loneliness and resent the assumption that they just mean romance Cool, glad you finally figured out that men are not a monolith. Now do you give me an …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:06 PM
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No I only responded to the way you were treating me, if treating you the way you started treating me for no reason makes me an asshole then maybe you should reevaluate your behavior. In this comment: https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1il4w7p/comment/mbspejj/ you intentionally misread everything I said into the worst possible way and twist it into something I never even said in the first place. Do you think that is good productive behavior in a discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:04 PM
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I didn't ignore anything, you just have no proof and can't handle being treated the exact same way you treat others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:47 PM
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> The title says they aren't "Better" not that they aren't "good" or that they are "worse" Sure, and if you're not better and every point in their argument is saying that you are worse, then what is the person trying to say about your quality as an option? That you are better than others? The same as others? Or worse than others? > Now, she doesn't make any favourable claims towards the guys with no options, I give you that, but she doesn't say a guy without options would behave worse than a guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:46 PM
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That's not proof though, that's a random woman making a post complaining about something they say is happening with no proof. So again I ask, proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:39 PM
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What? This makes no sense as a response. We weren't talking about the specific methodology of that one study. If that's your issue then contact the people who did the study
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:39 PM
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> Since this topic is commonly brought up by guys here wanting women to “give a guy a chance”, these are usually the types of guys with no options. Will claim he wants a relationship because he cant get hookups. Even if he doesnt pump and dump, he clearly doesnt like the woman and is only tolerating her because she fucks him. Similar to 1, as soon as he THINKS he can do better he’s trying to cheating. Though this guy finds out quick that no one wants to be his mistress without paying. The guy wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:34 PM
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Yeah she posts here all day every day, not the sign of a happy and fulfilled person no matter what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:31 PM
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> I've seen some male users claiming that women date "bad boys" when they could have dated men with no options who would worship them instead Ok so where in this statement are they saying that all men without options are inherently better than all men with options?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:30 PM
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> Its being mentioned because this sub seems to think less desirable guys are all good lovers Proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:29 PM
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> They aren't inherently better partners, but it doesn't mean the opposite. So why is op's entire point of this whole post that these guys with no options are universally worse options?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:28 PM
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If op isn't saying these guys are worse then can you show us which part of her post says anything positive in any way about these men? Is there a comment she made in this comment section that says anything positive in any way about these men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:26 PM
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So now that you know people on a forum about dating in conversations about dating who are saying they're lonely are talking about romantic loneliness will you continue to be confused or do you understand that this is a conversation about romantic loneliness?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:14 PM
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This link Edit: People in the comments are acting as if women already admit this, that they don't want 50/50, yet just a month ago I made a post
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:13 PM
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Weird, everyone outside of this subreddit thinks I'm great and socialize just fine. I walked into a party the other day and a stranger complimented me on the vibe that I somehow brought with me. Maybe the problem here is you and maybe I just started treating you the way you were treating me. Idk, but the point is women do expect their male partners to do things for them on valentine's day
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:12 PM
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Hmm maybe these are two different groups of guys and genders are not monoliths 🤔 Maybe the culture of college life and post-college life are different and the guys saying "we aren't approaching women" are in the post-college stage of life 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:06 PM
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Wild that practically no women here can understand the concept of feeling lonely due to a lack of romantic relationships. Sorry but maybe just listen to men when we talk about our lived experience the same way you demand men listen to you when you talk about your lived experience. It's really not hard to treat others the way you want to be treated
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:52 PM
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Thanks for admitting defeat kid. Stay in school, you might just learn something some day. And when you finally get into the adult world you'll see that I'm correct and women do want their male partners to do things for them to show their love on valentine's day
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:48 PM
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So you see how someone can spend $100 on his gf for valentine's day then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:47 PM
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But you didn't show any of that and if you look at op's linked post women do claim to want equal relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:46 PM
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That's just you dude, practically everyone else likes gifts
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 04:44 PM
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It's not a jab it's a genuine question. How old are you? I need to know if you have actual experience in the world because this is very basic stuff that you seem completely unaware of or you're just trolling. So which one is it? > Some women do, why? No not some. Practically all women expect their male partner to do something for valentine's day. And idk you have a very low opinion of the intelligence of adult women, I don't. I think women tend to care more about holidays and a holiday that's ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:35 AM
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> How do you know most women are demanding their partner buy them little trinkets When did I say women are demanding men buy them "little trinkets"? Come on if you've interacted with the world you know that women expect some kind of extra effort date and/or gift(s). How old are you? > I’m trying to make the point that not every grievance in society is solely because of women. Is this post saying that every grievance in society is solely because of women or are they saying women are responsible f…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:51 AM
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So the women who aren't spending anything don't exist according to you? Men spend more but actually that means women spend the same as men in your mind? I think you need to go back to school
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:32 AM
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How much do you think dinner for two at a nice restaurant costs?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:31 AM
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Here is someone in this very comment section saying men designed this process https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1il4w7p/women_dont_really_want_equality_relationships_as/mbs2rgo/ Why do people do this thing of saying "nobody" does something in the same comment section where people doing that thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:30 AM
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Do you have a kid with every man you go on a date with?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:28 AM
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Except society isn't part of your romantic relationships, two people are. Women absolutely set the tone for valentine's day by demanding the treatment from men that we all know is expected. Why do you feel the need to lie about this and play dumb like you don't exist in society with the rest of us?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:28 AM
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> I think most women would take that deal in a heartbeat. The women who spend $0 on the man they claim to love on the holiday about love would take the deal of paying $100 for valentine's day in a heartbeat? How does that make sense in your head? They can do it right now but are choosing not to, why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 06:25 AM
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