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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
513	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted.	PORN SICK, LIMP DICK	aventadorrin	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 12:15 AM
151	What’s wrong with vanilla?	PORN SICK, LIMP DICK	aventadorrin	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 06:38 PM

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1	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. THANK you. That was him our ENTIRE relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/21 06:13 AM
4	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I’m not an option to him anymore, not after he sent that text. He’s been blocked. No one but him has ever told me I have a drinking issue. I personally don’t think I have one, but I was willing to respect his boundary if he respected mine. Which he didn’t. So I’m going to take the effort I was spending on him and spend it on me, instead.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:38 AM
3	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Thank you for your support. You all are really giving me the strength to kick him out of my life and leave him out there. He’s said so many more fucked up things to me that I’ve excused or forgiven because of his manipulative silver tongue, but this is the first time he’s been shitty to me over text where I can go back and look at it as a reminder. No more. I can’t let myself be treated this way. And . . . not to toot my own horn, but I swear I’m much better looking and have a better body than m…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:35 AM
1	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. That option closed when he sent that reply. He’s been blocked. He doesn’t deserve me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:24 AM
1	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Fuck him, but only with his own hands. 🖕🏼	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:23 AM
2	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Yeah. He can go back to his fulfilling teenage dream life. Bye boy. 👋🏼	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:18 AM
2	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I definitely can’t be. He was blocked as soon as I saw that message. I hope his porn addiction is worth losing me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:16 AM
3	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Right?? Porn is something you only do when you’re alone (for most porn users), and if you have an actual live sexy partner then you’re not really giving up much. Drinking, on the other hand . . . that’s a much more social activity, and it’s not like there’s a substitute, especially in Japan. So there’s already an imbalance there—and then to keep doing it anyway?? Wtf. What was even the point of making that agreement with me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:15 AM
2	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I don’t even know. He’s said some pretty fucked up things to me and I was a dumbass for excusing him. No more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:10 AM
2	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Hahaha, seriously. SO defensive every time the word ‘porn’ left my mouth, no matter the context. I’m realizing he has, a lot ):	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:09 AM
5	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I’m so sorry that you’ve gone through this as well. I think it’s the romantic in us that hopes our love will be enough to just . . . make them treat us right. But it isn’t. It’s time to move on and find someone who doesn’t need to be changed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:07 AM
1	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Thank you!!! I will definitely be trying that out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:06 AM
2	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. The fucked up thing is that I don’t even really have scarring. ): I get red blemishes that fade in a week or so. Thank you so much for your comment ♡ I feel so much better about this whole thing after posting here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:05 AM
2	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I do have oily skin! I’ve purchased a line of cheaper products from one brand—I just need to actually set my routine. Thank you so much for the advice!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:03 AM
2	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I know I’m dead right, haha. I saw it with my own eyes. He has straight up lied to my face about this in the past, and that above anything else is just . . . if you’re so goddamn stuck on jerking it to total strangers on the internet to the point you’ll lie to your partner and attack their ‘flaws’ and stubbornly hold on to the ‘assumption’ claim, you have a problem. And you’re making it my problem. No fucking more. when they go low, we go high I like that! I’m keeping it. Thank you for your comm…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 05:02 AM
3	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Oh, for sure. I’m going to love myself and make sure I’m not treated like this again. Because no man is going to do that for me. This time around, I know most of the signs to look out for, so hopefully I’ll be able to navigate a little better. Thank you so much for your support ♡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 04:57 AM
4	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I hope he does feel terrible about it. It’s the least he could do lmao	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 04:55 AM
2	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Absolutely. It’s heartbreaking to see through their actions that the person who is supposed to love and care for you just . . . doesn’t. Makes me feel unlovable. Which means it’s just time to move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/10/21 04:52 AM
3	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Oh wow, I think anti-androgen is exactly what I need. Thank you so much for the tip!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 11:36 PM
44	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I really didn’t go fine-combing every little thing! I have two jobs and am a full-time student—I have WAY better things to do with my free time than concern myself with every little thing that I felt was wrong. Ugh, I am the only one who ever apologized for anything, even when he is the one who started shit by being a jerk. I would apologize at times just to put the contention in the past. Every time I brought anything up that he was or wasn’t doing, it was a fight. I tried so many different app…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 08:29 AM
18	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Not a single person besides him has ever mentioned my drinking, not even in passing. I think he also started developing a problem with my drinking because he’s the one who becomes volatile, throwing things and yelling when he starts drinking . . . I’m usually drinking too, so then he pulls me into a fight, and when I finally verbally retaliated I suddenly become the abuser with the drinking problem. I’m really sorry to hear that you went through that. Being on the receiving end of projection is …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 08:23 AM
17	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. That explains so much of his behavior. There are things he just never does, but any time I bring anything up it’s always ‘you’re so ungrateful and now you’re attacking me after everything I do for you! YOU don’t do anything! No effort you make matters!’ I’m just tired . . .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 08:18 AM
9	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Thank you so much for your support. ♡ I’m doing the best I can to save up enough to get out there on my own.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:41 AM
15	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. He is 42–there is an age gap. I know, I know, but I met him before I found FDS and by then I felt trapped. No more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:40 AM
11	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. My thoughts exactly. He can stick with his hand forever and ever, amen.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:39 AM
15	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. After.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:38 AM
130	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. With you lovely ladies by my side, I am strong enough to not entertain ANYTHING. 🌹	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:38 AM
22	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I wish I couldn’t relate to this comment 😕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:34 AM
10	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Thank you ♡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:25 AM
19	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Seriously. All it does is bring stress.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:24 AM
9	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Thank you for the advice!! I live in Japan and have almost zero experience with skincare products . . . can I ask you what your favorite products are to use for each category?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:24 AM
15	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I think you are absolutely right. I’m too good for him—the only way he’s been able to keep me with him has been to break me down to his level. No more.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 06:22 AM
15	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I still don’t know what he was trying to get across with ‘magnanimous grandeur’ . . .	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 04:38 AM
14	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Where were you when I first met him 😩	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 04:37 AM
26	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Swear to god. They expect us to give up big things for them, but the second porn is mentioned it’s tantrum time. I don’t understand it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 04:16 AM
23	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. It is extremely frustrating! I’ve always had hormonal acne like you, and the only time it cleared up is when I was taking BC with estrogen. Now that I’m on Mirena, it’s only worse—and I get so discouraged because he blames it entirely on me and says that my breakouts are my fault and preventable and I must WANT acne just because I have it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 04:09 AM
46	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. It will be hard, but I think once I have a couple of experiences with normal men who treat me right, there will be no looking back for me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 03:52 AM
30	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Thank you so much. You all have helped me to feel so much better about myself 🥲 He’s been blocked. He can keep his pixels.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 03:50 AM
20	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. 🙌🏼 Stocking up on that anger right now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 03:49 AM
32	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Thank you so much for your thoughtful comment. I never considered that he was lashing out because I called him out on breaking his word. I definitely blocked him as soon as I saw that reply. Anyone who can say something like that to me doesn’t truly love me.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 03:48 AM
18	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. You’re right. I’ve already wasted too much time on him. Time to put it toward me instead.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 03:46 AM
39	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I have heard of it . . . but I guess being personally on the receiving end of a tirade like that from someone who is supposed to love me can make it hard to see things clearly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 01:28 AM
45	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I don’t understand men who would rather jerk it to virtual strangers than have the real, beautiful thing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 01:26 AM
27	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. It is?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 01:25 AM
19	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Yeah ):	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 01:24 AM
24	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. You’re right, I won’t be waiting on his porn sick ass. I blocked him as soon as I saw his reply. Thank you, that means a lot to me ♡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 01:23 AM
145	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Thank you ♡ It’s hard because I DO love him. But he’s turned out to be a person who isn’t worthy of my love. So yeah, time for my glow up!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 01:05 AM
90	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I literally did a double take at ‘magnanimous grandeur’ hahaha. Boy, sit down. You know you aren’t impressing anyone. Knowing him, he’ll probably just move on to his next victim.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 01:04 AM
26	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Ugh. It’s such a terrible situation to be in when you only want to heal haha. I’m doing my best! Thanks for your support ♡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 01:02 AM
100	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Nail on the head . . . I don’t downplay anything he does—he’s just so worried about it because he already knows what he does is 💩	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 12:40 AM
296	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I definitely changed my mind about that, but didn’t bother letting him know before I blocked him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 12:39 AM
365	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Fucking porn addicts 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 12:30 AM
64	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Thank you, and thank you for the advice! I’m currently staying with a family member who has an equally exacerbating effect on my well-being and thus my acne, but I’m saving up to change my situation as soon as I can.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 12:28 AM
471	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I blocked him as soon as he sent that reply. I’m not going to ‘be here’ as I said, but I don’t owe it to him to even say that after his response.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 12:26 AM
111	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. I hit block as soon as I read the first sentence of his reply. That’s some audacity he has.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 12:25 AM
104	My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted. Some details: I paid to get the Mirena IUD for HIS pleasure so that we could be intimate without the fear of any pregnancy. I also decided on an IUD because I gave all my money to him and could not afford birth control pills (that were actually helping with my acne). The Mirena has completely fucked up my chin area with acne breakouts—not to mention the stress that I am going through is making it worse. Acne due to the IUD is completely understandable, but I am insecure about it and cover it wit…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/10/21 12:24 AM
5	Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them? Oops, totally missed that. Congratulations!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 11:30 PM
7	Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them? I hope you mean ex boyfriend?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 11:29 PM
33	Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life? After enduring my STBX’s porn addiction and its effect on our relationship and my self esteem, it was SO RELIEVING to find FDS and be validated in my hatred for porn. He almost had me convinced that I was the one with issues for having a problem with his addiction.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/21 08:32 AM
12	What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴 Uuuugh that’s the first thing that got me about Phil—the way he behaved around his FIL’s WIFE because, oooooohhhh, she’s got bIg BoObIeS. Totally makes sense that my LVM ex liked Phil so much.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/09/21 11:51 PM
12	Learned the reality of male friends the hard way today I love this comment. Completely accurate and puts into words what I felt but could not articulate about the “friend zone.”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/08/21 02:33 PM
4	How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up. Wow. I feel this really hard—except he’s not my ex yet 😕	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 08:52 AM