averagesnowman69 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
21	Encouragement to those waiting to get out of the maze		averagesnowman69	/r/Divorce_Men	08/05/24 08:09 AM
11	Signed divorce papers today		averagesnowman69	/r/Divorce_Men	12/05/23 01:05 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Trip ideas? Plenty of options. I’d say “go where you’ve always wanted to go but haven’t considered or fulfilled because of previous life constraints”. The reason I say this is because the first trip I took as a divorcee was on a cruise…a cruise I’ve always wanted to do but kind of dismissed the idea as my ex was repulsed by them. It felt good on two levels: (1) because I did something I truly wanted to do, and (2) gave it meaning because it was a wholesome to reminder that it’s me I should always focus on a…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/24 01:44 PM
4	The letter I wish my wife wrote me after she filed for divorce. Wow. Hard and rough, I’m sorry you’re going through that. If it’s of any consolation, now that I’m 2 years post divorce, I do wish my ex would’ve done something like this. As brutal as may seem, it leaves things super clear and leaves no room for doubt. Your path forward is but one way, my friend. Keep calm and divorce on! Sending you good vibes and courage!	/r/Divorce_Men	17/02/24 11:45 PM
1	I need help. Stay strong and repeat to yourself « I know I made the right choice ». Courage, my internet stranger friend	/r/Divorce_Men	19/09/23 01:51 PM
1	Want to divorce wife after her affair, but don't want to see my kids less, leave house, and lose half my stuff. IT’S WORTH IT. A statement that does not encompass all the tears and blood and screams you will shed, but does sum it up in a wholesome way.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/09/23 10:09 PM
2	If you were to remarry, who would you look for? It’s a hard no for me.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/09/23 05:07 PM
2	HELP: Did You File Taxes Together or Separate? (Divorce Not Finalized Yet) Great, good for you my friend. Same thing as many people have already posted: get that in writing somewhere...a friendly email, a casual text. Lol, I understand you. To share a little of my experience, when we broke up we said we would always stay in contact and, like you, we could always count with each other. Every day goes by and that sentiment gets smaller and smaller. I know it's because it's part of the healing process--not because I hate him or grudge. But the separation is inevitable. Yo…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/23 10:06 AM
2	HELP: Did You File Taxes Together or Separate? (Divorce Not Finalized Yet) I'm in similar situation, but a good friend and therapist told me this: once you're in the process of divorce, you're flying solo. His/her problems are no longer your problems to solve. It has nothing to do with selfishness...in one way or another, we all still love our STBX, reason why we all go married in the first place. But these "if so's" mean nothing as a shared party. She will prioritize her well-being, as shall you. I know you want to help--god knows I wanted to help my STBX, but it's ti…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/01/23 02:28 PM
3	Was divorce the biggest failure of your life? For me it was too. It’s my biggest failure. Nevertheless, I just say it was my highest accomplishment too. Just like you, I worked my ass out to stay afloat: physically, mentally, financially, emotionally…I did things I never thought I’d do, I started new projects, I met new people, I started rebuilding my life. Like you: worked until I cried blood. I, too, spend thanksgiving alone. I spent Christmas back at my parents after having “no one” to spend it with. New years was just another night. YOU…	/r/Divorce_Men	03/01/23 01:43 PM
2	Merry Christmas Merry Christmas my fellow brothers in pain! It gets better (or so I've been told)	/r/Divorce_Men	25/12/22 12:35 PM