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You should read dating essentials for men by Dr Glover (author of no more mr nice guy) pretty much confirms this idea spot on
/r/seduction21/04/23 01:00 PM
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Why are you wasting your time on a Reddit seduction sub. You have mental health problems and need therapy like the other comment said. Don’t feel alone it seems like half the people who post on this sub do as well. Focus on a life you want. and stop venting for sympathy.
/r/seduction14/10/22 03:54 AM
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How much is it
/r/seduction13/10/22 02:50 PM
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I agree it’s also terrible advice. It’s not like they are mutually exclusive. Learning to talk to women is part of the process of self development. You don’t need to go to the gym for years before learning to have a decent conversation. Do all the self improvement together and that will make everything you do better. That’s why I think hamza and other YouTubers get this kinda stuff wrong. Categorizing everyone as a loser because they don’t make lots of money or have a 6 pack is the stupidest thi…
/r/seduction10/10/22 04:07 PM
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Yeah same most people on here on complete incels
/r/seduction08/10/22 10:37 PM
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Dogs are a huge responsibility and just using one for sex is not a good idea for a lot of people on here. Just take pictures with dogs that aren’t yours or volunteer to dog sit for people. Otherwise do your research before buying a big commitment
/r/seduction28/09/22 05:35 PM
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Just say “take it as a compliment” and it doesn’t become awkward
/r/seduction26/09/22 03:10 AM
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Can you give some examples of men bringing you down? Seems sorta odd maybe you let some of it in your head
/r/seduction26/09/22 01:16 AM
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Playing with fire on YouTube is the only real tinder expert
/r/seduction25/09/22 11:43 PM
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What makes you think women get approached on a constant basis? Maybe that was true 10 years ago, but with the rise of online dating and digitalization it’s pretty rare women in the west get approached in daytime settings like they did before instagram was taken over by the masses. If anything people in general are happy someone takes the time out of the day to talk to them
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:34 PM
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If you say you’ve done everything you can and have the pessimistic approach just sounds desperat or a little hopeless, but I don’t think that’s the case. Looksmaxxing doesn’t generate sexual chemistry just interest initially. My best success in college was signing up for different clubs and going to the events. I met my first gf my freshman year that way. Even if you get a lot of matches online a lot of girls will flake and say there too busy studying or other bs to not meet up. So play your car…
/r/seduction17/09/22 10:22 AM
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Have you considered you taking the approach to this to seriously? College shouldn’t be the time to seriously build rotations and invest your time into women. Invest your time into your skills and take opportunities to join clubs and social circles. You’ll get more attention when you’re not desperately seeking it
/r/seduction17/09/22 09:36 AM
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My advice to you is just learn to have fun and take some chances. You probably won't ever see the people from your highschool ever again but don't pursue relationships before graduating. Not worth it imo. If you want to go to college and also date lots of girls I'd focus on doing what you can to get involved in enough clubs and making sure you get good grades and try to get into a fraternity. Don't be negative. Get a better self image and try to get into lifting
/r/seduction13/09/22 07:46 AM
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Sushi buffet
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:17 AM
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Trust me they're not even 5/10's
/r/seduction12/09/22 06:09 AM
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Also if you have a roomate be respectful and dont have sex while they are home. My roomate kept bringing screamers over and I literally had to tell him to shut up and do that shit while I'm not here
/r/seduction12/09/22 04:53 AM
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Maybe it's sorta established norm that dental work is common practice related to health care. We typically pay for visits and also orthodontist work many of us grew up with braces so we would not have problems as adults. Teeth have more function then asthetics. Pretty looking teeth are also healthy teeth Fixing the height thing or alternating your appearance like plastic surgery is not common practice. It's astronomically more expensive and usually can't control it. Also this whole height issue …
/r/seduction05/09/22 06:24 PM
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Well yeah thats gotta go then first
/r/seduction05/09/22 08:52 AM
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Wearing inserts as a concert is super fun though. Turning 6'3 you get a great view and girls ask for piggy back rides
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:23 AM
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How insecure do you have to be to purchase that
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:21 AM
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How is he being dishonest. He could literally just tell her he's into high top shoes. Unless she directly asks how tall he is who cares.
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:20 AM
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I wore 4 inch inserts to a dance club once and it was the worst decision of my life
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:19 AM
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It's not a question. It's a discussion
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:46 PM
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It's crazy how much people can change from real Interactions. I just wish we could move on from the whole height thing. We've become too dependent on online dating
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:48 PM
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Definitely. The bar women set is so high artificially online, but in real life everyday reality those expectations won't be met by the above average person. I've notice though we tend to react much differently face to face, I think girls and guys standards can automatically change based on how they feel in the moment. Any arbitrary number Is forgotten if you generate that attraction
/r/seduction27/08/22 05:38 PM
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yeah her baby is mixed race so I just thought if I did end up dating her it would look like we have am adopted child I mean yeah I don't want to judge her but I can't just ignore it either
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:12 AM
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I'm not and she's not but her baby is
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:07 AM
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I feel bad I told her I thought she's pretty and wanted to know her over snap video and now just bailing and explaining this is honest but still makes me feel shitty
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:07 AM
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I think I might go on just one date with her and just explain to her how I feel but atleast know her story or maybe a friend
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:05 AM
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I agree with you too on this
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:03 AM
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Thanks for the perspective
/r/seduction04/08/22 06:02 AM
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Her kid is black and she's not so that'd what I meant in the most respectful way
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:05 AM
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What are you talking about, I just said I don't want her thinking I'm only after sex. Children completely change the relationship dynamic. It's a irreversible life decision that impacts everything for the rest of your life. But I was considering not making a big deal about it.
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:03 AM
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Star trek saves lives
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:59 AM
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I want to date long term but i am trying develop my social skills and game to attract a girl I want. I figure it's the same conversations talking to alot of women but this is what I'm experiencing
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:26 AM
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Yeah it was her birthday the day she was at the club with her gf's. No judgment at all
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:58 AM
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Damn how hard is it to just have two way birth control
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:22 AM
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I sense there's some shame around the fact because she followed me initially and didint respond right away to my follow back request, It was like 3 days so I imagines she was hiding the baby so I wouldn't judge her Also seems like my type in many ways, but the child bothers me and makes me feel like I'm close minded
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:20 AM
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That's a good thought I will definitely write that down. I think deep down too I absorb the scarcity mindset when i should develop a more abundant one
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:18 AM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/seduction04/08/22 12:16 AM
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It's unfortunate. She seems like a good person but I really don't like kids let alone make a relationship be part of one
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:55 PM
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Are you being Sarcastic?
/r/seduction01/08/22 11:03 PM
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With text or another selfie?
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:37 PM
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Then what's the play? Not too late yet
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:32 PM
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I think technology has decreased attention span, Increased our anxiety, and made men socially retarded
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:38 PM
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For me it was my mom who made me uncomfortable with the idea of dating girls. She made fun of me for going to prom and basically invited alot of negative stigma around women that mentally fucked me for a long time
/r/seduction22/07/22 07:35 PM
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Buisness model is run on pyramid scheme. Hardly does individual coaching just zoom meetings from other "coaches" Facebook group is a total joke and almost non responsive. Videos are not good and he's fairly average at game
/r/seduction16/07/22 11:23 PM
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There's a lot of us that don't care about hooking up, just wanting to learn the art of generating attraction
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:48 AM
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R/tinder is probably like the worst sub on reddit. If you want to see depression just watch the rate my profile posts
/r/seduction14/07/22 03:39 AM
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Just remember that only something good can come from dating. Youre in the exact same place as you were before going out. And only a positive or a new experience can come out of it. There's no L's that's a bad mindset Dating tip, find a bar that has a dance floor. I had a date last week and although the small talk was a little uneasy I broke more tension limiting her to the dance floor since a DJ showed up to the bar. I got lucky that night and ended up at her place. All because I said fuck it I'…
/r/seduction17/06/22 04:14 AM
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I didint say he's any better. In fact I was a member of Kyle's Facebook group. All totally BS Doesn't interact with members or give practical device besides posting repetitive seminars from ideas hes steals from other people. Even his blueprints are utter garbage To each there own
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:56 PM
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https://youtu.be/-4r5PNueckY
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:52 PM
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Coach kyle is a legit scam artist
/r/seduction16/06/22 11:35 PM
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Great break down thanks
/r/seduction09/06/22 06:20 PM
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I dont mean to categorize black women in a negative way. It's just what I see on current trends from social media and target demographics. I don't mean to hate on him either, I just don't get it and find him a little strange
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:31 AM
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Didint know he was that tall. What's his height?
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:28 AM
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Have you seen his interview with jimmy fallon? He doesnt seem very confident public speaking, even has introvert qualities, but does seem to take an interest in women and vibes with them very well, almost like a well groomed Post Malone A ton of women on Tik Tok reply to his videos like "He's got such good game" I don't even think in my opinion they know what that even means, it's just his mere presence mesmerizes them
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:26 AM
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He was practically unheard of 2 years ago. Crazy how much fame someone can get entering the underground rap scene
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:19 AM
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The fact Pete Davison is on charisma on command videos baffles me. Sure the comedy helps with confidence but dude doesn't act or look any different from average guy who gets 0
/r/seduction09/06/22 03:18 AM
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Eye contact mainly?
/r/seduction09/06/22 02:07 AM
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Yeah nothing wrong with a kiss on the first date go for it for sure. Push pull is going to help a lot with flirting. It's only when guys are expecting sex or pushing subtle ideas to hook up where alot of girls who are looking LTR will get creeped out or friendzone you. Most important thing is you want to get to know the girl on the first date. If you just make it sexual shes not going to see you as bf material. You can bring up topics in a non sexual way, find out what her expectations and bound…
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:50 AM
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In my opinion you shouldn't, but everyone looks at dating dynamics differently. If you're looking for a LTR there's chances the girl will distance herself from you after you guys have sex, and it only ads more variables that make courtship more complicated I'd try to go on a few dates first create the emotional investment and sex will be much better
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:18 AM
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So why do you prefer Instagram over snapchat or phone numbers?
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:03 PM
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I can relate. I graduated college last year and as a 25 year old single guy it's pretty hard for me to find energy into dating, especially since I moved to a new state for work and having no social circles makes it unmotivating I still try to schedule dates on weekends. If I get a girl on hinge who's atleast an 8 or above I put the time to drive out to atleast practice my social skills I suggest try eating a healthier diet and optimizing your time in the gym for more energy. Before dates start t…
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:19 AM
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I dont think you're alone that often times it's pretty annoying to put a lot of effort into Initiating courtship and get nothing out of it , but it's pretty much always been that way for heterosexual couples for centuries. Previous generations of guys had to probably put less initiative then the current dating market now. The problem is social media has made the competition overtly hard for single men when any guy any where in the world can slide into a girl's dms and pay for her to come visit h…
/r/seduction17/05/22 04:14 AM
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I've never seen one
/r/seduction08/05/22 06:34 PM
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Houses are an actual investment. You don't get anything from owning an apartment besides giving 80% of your paycheck away. I rent my home with a roomate with no contract signed that doesn't Involve rental raises. Even in The Game project Hollywood's downfall was that no one invested in its property that bankrupted all the pickup artists despite its location. OP would be better off in a college campus just for the age demographic alone
/r/seduction02/05/22 05:15 AM
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Only if you're that dedicated to game. Apartments have gone up drastically pretty much everywhere so if you're not having success with your bachelor pad it's a guaranteed negative investment
/r/seduction02/05/22 04:54 AM
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Thanks for the tip
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:14 AM
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Lucky you. My last hinge date on Saturday all I got was a 85 dollar restaurant bill followed by getting ghosted after my last text, either I'm terrible with women or women are becoming more terrible lol
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:28 AM
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Doesn't matter how many matches you get. Probably only half of them will be interested in meeting up and of those only a small portion will fall through
/r/seduction27/04/22 03:55 AM
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I mean it works honestly. But when the follower count starts getting past a couple thousand then it's pretty difficult to get read even if you do match
/r/seduction24/04/22 04:53 PM
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If she's like a baddie type then say 'hey trouble" or okay ill be your boyfriend If she looks smart then ask a question on what she's passionate out or one of her hobbies If it's just an ig account in the bio go to her ig and d. M "thought we'd take it off tinder" Those three seemed to atleast get me a response
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:33 AM
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Didn't go for the kiss, she was cool but pretty shy so I didn't get too much chance for physical contact, seemed pretty alert about any advances I could make. If there's a second date I'd probably try to get more physical just need to create better atmosphere for it to happen
/r/seduction24/04/22 08:28 AM
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Thanks I'll try this for sure
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:05 AM
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How do you bring that up? Sit next to me not Infront of me
/r/seduction23/04/22 09:36 PM
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Give her a hug and break the touch barrier
/r/seduction16/04/22 12:30 AM
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Algorithm. I initially got a lot of likes with my hinge account and because of that I get seen more often then I do on tinder. Most girls accept my rose on hinge Algorithm put me on top when I signed up Tinder I don't get seen even by boost I'll get lucky to get a match in the week
/r/seduction06/04/22 12:28 AM
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Positive affirmations, self reflection and self improvement will help your negative mindset You should read Models by Mark Manson for learning about yourself and dating. Greenlights by Mathew McConaughey in terms of living your greater purpose. Books helped me alot
/r/seduction28/02/22 03:37 AM
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Nope
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:19 AM
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As a former fat guy the gym changed my life and I'm never going back.. Alot of fat guys I know struggle alot with online dating and get extra insecure cold approaching. Some guys with confidence and charm do well either way but can do much better if they go on a diet and go to the gym
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:15 PM
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It's not what you say it's how you say it. Girls love compliments, just don't be creepy in the way you say it
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:41 PM
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I think you gave some great points. I believe the main reason why guys in seduction like clubs is because it gives them a literal "social safe space". They think it's less threatening to practice approach skills, which in reality Is kinda a poor way to practice communication and building attraction, especially if you're really un attractive. Clubbing is almost all non verbal language and your perceived attractiveness that gets you alot of success. It's generally way too loud and dark in there to…
/r/seduction30/01/22 08:57 AM
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Attraction is created through honesty and clear intentions. If you just lie to her you're just being a douchebag. The premise of having a "rotation" of girls only works if each girl knows and is okay with being in an open relationship or fuck buddies. Stay away from the word "casual" either define your terms or end them. You'll be alot happier with yourself when you do
/r/seduction30/01/22 08:32 AM
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I'm not disabled and I imagine certain things are harder for you, sorry you have to deal with that. We all get dealt cards and need to learn how to make the most of it. It's not the end of the world I'll just assume you're in the United States or a first world country. You are already have an advantage most men in the world don't have, you're probably not stuck in India in a poor dating market making virtually nothing. You're probably not deformed in the face, not mentally disabled or autistic. …
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:05 AM
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Yeah kinda, with that attitude
/r/seduction30/01/22 04:26 AM
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I started with 1.5 but I'm 5'10 200lbs so I bumped it to 2.5 mg The only thing I feel at 2.5 is me getting really hungry and wanting to go to sleep. I don't take it on a completely empty stomach which I heard does make a difference. Also never had a problem taking it with one or two drinks
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:53 PM
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I'll check him out thanks for the info I actually have taken phenibut but I seem to never actually get the dosages right. Sometimes I feel nothing or actually don't know if it's working or not but Def helps mellow out.
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:26 PM
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I'm taking a read at them. Which vegas clubs do you recommend the most or are they all the same?
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:14 PM
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Send her a quick boomerang of something you're doing, and say how's it going? See how she reacts
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:27 AM
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Why can't you just answer his question
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:26 AM
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Well I don't even think it's how clever your response is or how good your delivery at this point. The most attractive women on dating apps treat it like a game because they can match with whoever they want to. I dont have time to switch to day game with my new job. I'm just over it
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:47 PM
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I'm not getting laid because girls don't or stop responding on every dating app conversation.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:31 PM
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I agree but would argue that average men don't know how to be different. The reason all the original pick up artists back in 2005 were successful like mystery, strauss and d Angelo were because they peacocked and created routines know one else new. It wasn't until they gave away the secrets that thousands of men followed and evolved into cringe and repetitive programmerd robots Today millions of men try to have the same haircuts, same gym routines, same jobs, same sports and don't find uniquenes…
/r/seduction05/01/22 08:51 AM
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Financial stability is more important then how much money you make. And being passionate about whatever it is you do is 100% more attractive than how much money you make.
/r/seduction05/01/22 08:42 AM
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Bruh its like 20 degrees outside where I am
/r/seduction04/01/22 01:04 AM
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Hot drinks aka coffee
/r/seduction03/01/22 11:52 PM
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I'd check out bars on the beach and in Brickell
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:02 PM
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There's successful men who don't know how to get women. More to relationships than success
/r/seduction29/12/21 01:09 AM
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My friend tries this strategy at the club and is actually a great dancer and it does nothing for him The guys I see get grinded on are the ones who don't ask permission and while I know that's fucked up to a certain degree that's what I see happen in front of my eyes the last 20 times I went to the club
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:47 AM
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To be honest If he wasn't famous he would not get off so easily being creepy at times. Status has alot to do with his success at flirting at how much he can get away with
/r/seduction12/10/21 10:53 PM
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https://youtu.be/IfmBMLg6VTI This guy still gets girls on crutches
/r/seduction07/10/21 08:00 PM
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You must be john anthony lifestyle
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:45 AM
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Steal their purse
/r/seduction30/09/21 06:17 PM
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I flip the script. Put them on the spot for bringing it up as if they are buying you a drink
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:42 PM
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I'm currently focusing on my inner game not on dating. Im 24 moved back in with my parents to pay off student loans.. When you take control of your finances, physical and mental health the dating just falls naturally into place Mystery said that every guy needs health, wealth, and love (Mazlo's pyramid of needs) in order for us to attract partners While your focusing on yourself that doesn't mean you need to stop practicing on your confidence. You can still practice learn seduction on women and …
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:33 PM
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Yeah I suppose you are right there is knowledge more experienced guys can share I'll I'll that in mind. Alot of guys have been programed to behave certain ways its good to help out with the basic stuff
/r/seduction14/09/21 10:02 PM
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There's alot of black and red pillers that use seduction subreddit to back up their ideologies. 10% of the sub actually give techniques, skills, field reports etc while 90% is geared towards nice guy questions "how do I get rid of approach anxiety" "how do I talk to girls as a teenager". Alot of useless shit that doesn't contribute to seduction. Sometimes there's good advice but like all subreddits it gets saturated under a bunch of bs
/r/seduction14/09/21 07:23 PM
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Unfortunately the majority of users of this subreddit are not PUA Gurus or confident men. Its mainly incels and nice guys that don't know how to approach women at all that ask mindless questions to the same problems
/r/seduction14/09/21 06:35 PM
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If you know her irl then why waste your time on there? Send a voice message if she's down to meet or get a phone number instead
/r/seduction12/09/21 05:05 PM
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Yeah pretty much , seems cringe and needy as hell. I've gotten replies from story comments from girls with 350K because they know If you engage in anything you'll just keep liking their stuff. If you want something to go somewhere on social media you need to DM like the hundreds of other guys and make yourself stand out. It's a waste of energy anyways in my opinion
/r/seduction12/09/21 04:39 PM
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That's pretty good. Forgot there's always hook questions
/r/seduction01/09/21 11:38 PM
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Thanks for the info If she didint respond to the text would sending snapchat or other things be a better option?
/r/seduction01/09/21 04:42 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:38 PM
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It's not about me being desperate. It's literally cuz In some instances a girl is walking away or going somewhere I say hey I think you're cute want to get together sometime? And when I do get it it's the same routine People go about their lives and afterwards before setting up dates they always ask for social media Not looking for same day bangs
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:34 PM
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Not overall value just preconceived social value. I suppose my problem is sometimes I only get a 5 minute interaction and they don't know anything about me so thats why they get on social to find out about me I'll try that
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:32 PM
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Mark Mansons mentions this in models
/r/seduction12/08/21 11:13 PM
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I've been working out alot more recently but I think the bigger picture is like you said reading the situation before hand. The Clubs are loud and it's hard for me to convey what I'm saying half the time. I also spend most of the night on the dance floor trying to improve my body language because it's terrible along along my posture
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:49 PM
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Since these are day places does the approach change in any circumstances?
/r/seduction12/08/21 04:45 PM
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👌 will do
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:54 AM
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Appreciate your analysis and feedback. Good news yeah I am somewhat fit and enjoy lifting weights, Chrisma's not basement gamer level but needs work. Bad news is last "date" wasn't great so its go big or go home with this one. We've have one date and a meetup but didint go super well IMO. I think based on the idea of being built and proving dominance, it would be wise to learn the basic and do a few indoor climbs before hand to have that advantage. If feeling ballsy maybe doing a few challenges?…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 07:36 AM
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I think we all make same mistakes if we want to look at it as one. I think its important though we look past peoples pasts and focus who they really are now
/r/RPChristians30/08/18 02:19 AM
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Thanks man
/r/askTRP21/08/18 11:29 PM
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Theres a south park episode about this
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