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| 98 | This is what happens when sex workers demand respect. It’s almost like selling your body teaches men you are an object to be used! Who woulda thought!? | avocadobarbie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 05:23 PM | |
| 26 | Posted in another female subreddit. Liberal feminism is 3 men in a trench coat! | MALE DEPRAVITY | avocadobarbie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | First post! This man asked me on a date initially, then a few days later changed to this. Blocked and Deleted! | NICE FOR WHAT? | avocadobarbie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:23 PM |
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| 90 | Stupid rant about Kim & KanyePREACH SIS!! we’re tired of “holding a brother down no matter what” and sacrificing ourselves and our children in the name of “not sending another black man to jail” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 02:07 AM |
| 20 | Hearing about scrotes everywhere I goAs a soap maker I’m super annoyed for her lol we go through calculations and formulating recipes to make amazing soap and this man uses….DAWN??!! god his skin is crusty and dry I just know it. If anyone uses anything other than my product in my house I’m insulted! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 01:31 PM |
| 30 | No Josh/Jason/James, sex work is not comparable to "Manuel" labor. Watch out for men who have no empathy for women's exploitation.It honestly depends on the individual. I’ve had bouncers help me out, and I’ve had bouncers put their fingers up my butt. Mixed bag unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 80 | No Josh/Jason/James, sex work is not comparable to "Manuel" labor. Watch out for men who have no empathy for women's exploitation.If somebody assaults/ r@pes you while your at your manual labor job THEY ARE GOING TO PRISON. Sex workers though? I’ll never forget the night a bouncer (someone literally hired to protect me) told me I was “just a stripper” when i needed his help. And he was supposed to be on my side! Imagine the fucking police and what they might of had to say about customers assaulting me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 04:59 PM |
| 229 | Men wonder why they aren't able to be included in our discussionsAs a deer, I’m not going to ask the fucking hunter how to NOT get shot. Duh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 05:38 PM |
| 48 | It is SO easy for women to access sexIt’s so weird to me that women can simultaneously live in a world where we know men will fuck literally anything and yet also feel special for being picked to be fucked. So strange. Male validation can’t possibly be special if it’s given freely to everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 04:33 PM |
| 16 | Men's reactions to having their lies exposedOh man! I just love “ this is why I lied! Look at how upset you are! I didn’t want to see you upset”….no Robert. You didn’t want to deal with the consequences of your very own actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 02:23 PM |
| 14 | Saw this on Twitter and it felt discussable/appropriate to share hereIt’s not creepy or weird if it makes some man’s peepee happy. Those are the rules /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 11:45 PM |
| 5 | Be careful who you chose as the father of your kidsBruh, I had to stop following that sub. 75% of the posts are men trying to justify abusing their partners. The shit you can find on there man makes me wonder if the dudes are just bragging, there’s no way adult humans are this dense. They know they’re being assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 08:01 PM |
| 7 | Men really have no shame - serial philanderer candidly admits his “escapades” during first dateReminds me of the time s guy took me out and proceeded to tell me about how he stayed with his ex because he felt sorry for her and how she wasn’t attractive, he told me about him constantly cheating on her and justified it by saying “ I believe every man cheats until he finds a woman who makes him happy”…. Who say that shit on a first fucking date (let alone AT ALL). I’m not mad at it though. I appreciated the blatant honesty and audacity. Trash takes itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 04:38 PM |
| 20 | Do you think most of us were very naive when we were younger?You might just feel like this because it’s new! It takes constant effort and attention. You’re trying something you’ve never done before! It’s HARD! And on top of that you’re literally learning pretty much that most men don’t have the best intentions. We’re in danger. And now we know this and have a duty to protect ourselves. That’s stressful, now you gotta be on guard. I feel like this will definitely become easier with time, hopefully becoming second nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:00 PM |
| 12 | I thought having same taste in music indicated compatibility and was always so flattered and proud when guys were impressed by the genres/bands I like... facepalmOh boy.. being a girl and listening to metal is one thing…being a BLACK girl and listening to metal?? Whole different can of worms. I don’t miss being a teenager. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 03:37 PM |
| 32 | Words and ActionsYou are absolutely correct. Men tell women all the time “I don’t want a relationship” but a woman will get a pass to trample that clearly set boundary. I personally think it’s ego. “Oh I’m gonna show him how amazing I am, I’m not like the other girls” so she sticks around playing girlfriend and letting him take advantage (when she clearly knows his rule doesn’t suit her) so she can maybe win him in the end and get that commitment. Everything would be so much better in dating if people just reall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 04:46 PM |
| 448 | The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him.There’s a video of him straight up tellling everyone that she isn’t his girlfriend, she is the side peice while she was pregnant. She laughed and (I guess) thought he was joking. I honestly have little sympathy for women who knowingly date and fuck men with multiple children from different women. It’s gotta be the ego and wanting to prove that they are “different and worthy” unlike the other baby mamas. Like his proven and public track record somehow doesn’t apply to her or her child. These wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 09:18 PM |
| 25 | Guys favorite excuses for not giving you a relationshipAnything other than fuck yes is a fuck no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 04:19 PM |
| 257 | One of the biggest lies sold to women is the importance of upholding the relationship at any costCommunication is a fucking scam. I feel personally gaslit anytime a woman is told to communicate 😂🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 11:21 PM |
| 75 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.She has three children. Not two. This man contributes literally nothing. I really don’t understand why women date men who don’t do ANYTHING. Like not even 50/50. Straight 100/0. Wtf??! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 04:11 AM |
| 80 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beI really could have gone my whole life without reading that. Please put a trigger warning. I would have appreciated it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 01:01 AM |
| 144 | Fawning like "How are you single?"/"You sound too good to be true!"/"Are you real?"9/10 if a man comes up to me it’s “where’s your man”….. at this point in just gonna respond “he’s dead, I killed him” if you GENUINELY think I have a man why are you asking? Shits weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 07:28 PM |
| 451 | Woman translates the real meanings behind men’s dating demands. Just a reminder that men defined ‘femininity’ as submission, passivity, performance & endless forgiveness because it serves abusive men & makes us easier to exploit.“I need a woman who knows how to communicate” - I need a woman who lets me break down her boundaries and let me convince her I’m always right and she’s overreacting. Anything other than agreeing with me is being “argumentative” not communicating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 02:29 PM |
| 63 | Is it a red flag if he kisses you on the first date without asking first?Big red flag for me!! 🚩🚩🚩I’ve told a story here yesterday about when I was messing with a 38 year old when I was 22 who later assaulted me…well the first time I ever met this man was during a photoshoot. My photographer didn’t have a studio so we used his, he was an extremely good looking dude so my photographer wanted to use him in a few sexy shots with me. As soon and my photographer left us alone in the room, he turned me around and started kissing me super aggressively and it progressed quic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:03 PM |
| 32 | Help. I just got banned from other subreddits if you participate in this one. My comment was not offensive at all nor was I applying FDS strategies. I call bullshit but I guess I'll make a throwaway.That’s why I just slide up them dms baby! I keep my messages open solely for rescue missions. I tell her exactly how I feel about her situation and link her to this sub 🦸🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 04:30 AM |
| 21 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...You right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 07:23 PM |
| 61 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Exactly. The female gaze or women’s opinions of men have never mattered until now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 06:30 PM |
| 32 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Lol I moved to a new city and started with hinge and that didn’t work out well for me so I tried tinder and I saw the exact same profiles. The men don’t care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 06:27 PM |
| 94 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...I have to remind myself that men are lazy. They want to put in the least amount of effort possible. OLD is great for that! No need to fix your appearance or go to therapy so women are attracted to you in real life, nope! Use the one decent photo from 5 years ago and type some basic ass bio “looking for nice woman” and boom. Watch the pussy fall from the sky. The most low effort men will always be on OLD. Anything else is too much effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 06:22 PM |
| 353 | Relationship subs give me no hope for men or the future of womenThere’s a post up right now where a 21 year old girl is fucking a 35 year old man. He made a comment about her being “young and soo good” during oral sex and half the comments are other men telling it’s totally okay, that her questioning if it’s predatory is unnecessary, and she should just enjoy his company, or it was just a slip up. It reminded me of the time I was 22 fucking a 38 year old and he made a very similar comment… he later assaulted me. I really wish Women would understand that men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 03:16 PM |
| 55 | Vetting/strategizing is not the same as “playing games”, “shit testing” or manipulation.Women working in their own best interests has never been a popular or positive thing for men to embrace. Men really need us to love them more than we love ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 06:21 PM |
| 14 | He (27M) revealed he was a virgin…Do you want to be his first everything? Like if he’s a virgin I’m guessing he’s never had a serious relationship…so he has no experience in being with someone and navigating a relationship or what he wants in a relationship, then there’s him not being sexually experienced which I suppose ultimately if you wanted to work with him you could, but that’s effort. I would just be worried that he’s stalled in figuring out how to be a good boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 12:20 AM |
| 12 | FDS IS OFFICIALLY 200K STRONG!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳I’m so fucking proud of FDS 🥳🥳 women coming together is going to change the world! “ be the change you want to see in the world” and bitch we are!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 06:52 PM |
| 31 | I mean… I can’t disagree.Girl I got a plug in vibrator! I’m never buying anything else 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 09:12 PM |
| 130 | “Under the patriarchal rules they ascribe to, providing financial support should come with the promise of control.”Yes!!! My kids dad knew we were moving across the country, and he was totally cool with it and continued to be his absent self until the day before moving. He came up to my moms house with his family to “keep me from taking his son away” . I recorded him saying he’s only doing this because I left him and he’s hurt. My child was literally a pawn in his game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 09:27 PM |
| 125 | Men will date/marry women they aren’t even attracted to/like, if their appearance brings them status.As a black woman, black and Latino men has always been about the booty. At my white high school I was fat, when I transferred to a more mixed school suddenly I was “thick as fuck” and I got a lot of attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 08:50 PM |
| 105 | "with those who reported committing offences also admitting to misogynistic...having sadistic sexual fantasies about raping or torturing women. ...Such views and fantasies were not held by participants who did not report..." So not just harmless fantasy after all.You can’t turn the tables on men like that. It doesn’t work because they don’t see us as people. It’s not okay to rape an unconscious man because he’s a person with intrinsic value. We’re objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 02:05 PM |
| 54 | I knew I wasn't crazy to think that BDSM/rough sex is wildly incompatible with respecting someoneI’m so glad someone posted this comment. This was one of the worst ones. They have no problem treating women like trash man it’s disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 01:28 PM |
| 161 | Take your SO to a haunted house and see what happens.This reminds me of this French film that was remade for America, I think it was renamed Avalanche. I could be wrong though but it’s starred Will Ferrell. The movie was about a family who is going on vacation and an avalanche happened. The dad deserted the wife and the kids and left them for themselves. The rest of the movie is them pretty much trying to figure out what that means for their family. It’s very telling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/21 12:22 PM |
| 28 | When negging is made mainstream!I seriously cannot imagine choosing to become a master of manipulation and all the constant energy and lying rather than just being a better person. They could just listen to us and what we want but no..we’re not people and we don’t know what we want anyway. Ugh. So manipulation and being a con man it is!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:21 PM |
| 47 | Men who only pursue you romantically after your “glow up”Yes I’d say so. You started to take care of yourself and value your body, you’re probably more active and like to do more things now that you’re more fit. If a guy is fit there’s nothing wrong with wanting a partner who values diet and exercise like he does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 05:45 PM |
| 66 | The Real Reason Men Always Pursue the Women Who Want Relationships as “Hookups” - Summarized Perfectly in this TikTok *chef’s kiss*This is one of the most frustrating realizations about men. Their egos NEED you to need them. They have no intention of being with you but want you to want to be with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 01:31 PM |
| 13 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeI used to do the whole “IG model” thing to promote my OF, I still have over 100k followers on ig and there would always be one or two hideous scrotes making comments about how I’m hot but need to either shave my armpits, shave my buttcrack, how I look like a transsexual, my body looks fake, anything to try to bring me down. It always baffled me because I’m just like….who the fuck are you? Why would you think I care? Literally old crusty married fat men think I give a fuck that they don’t like my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 01:10 PM |
| 35 | I can’t help but feel there’s some propaganda going on to influence women away from education/ financial success… in favour of being a dedicated wife to a less intelligent, low earning partner. Here’s the evidence & my response:This is not the flex they think it is 🤣🤣 that shit should embarrass them. Like all of a sudden it isn’t a known fact of life that intelligent or more educated people tend to make better choices than less educated and intelligent people. Fucking duh 😂😂😂 obviously being single is the smartest option lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 06:09 PM |
| 264 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?That’s exactly what it is. A man needs to feel like he’s crucial to my and my children’s survival. I can’t possibly do life or take care of myself without him and his help. That’s why men hate feminism so much. For the longest they were the paycheck. The bread and butter. They were needed because I couldn’t do for myself. Well now I can, and since you bring literally nothing else of value you are no longer needed. Now we’re all “too independent”. I’m like…. The “need” for a man was hanging on by… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 01:02 PM |
| 68 | a day in the life of a woman who doesn’t use a separate account for FDSThey don’t have the wrong idea. They know exactly what we’re about. They hate that women are using their autonomy to make their own choices that actually benefit them instead of making choices to benefit men like we have been for centuries. We’re not human so we’re not allowed to act in our own best interests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 07:35 PM |
| 90 | Women are interchangeable, movie editionEverything always boils down to men seeing us as interchangeable replaceable objects who serve a purpose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 45 | real intimacy is so hard to findUhh…. I get what this is trying to say, but this ain’t it. Definitely be on alert for men who ONLY want you in positions where they don’t have to look at you, but come on now, my lv ex loved missionary so he could look at me and kiss on me (which I loved) but I personally prefer doggy style to come. It just hits all the right spots! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 57 | At what age did you realize male validation means absolutely nothing?When I danced (age 23-28) I’d watch men use the same line on all of us. “Oh my god you’re the most beautiful girl in here”…”you’re perfect”…over and over again. It’s just words. I make your pp hard but so does literally every other girl in here. It’s not special. Hell, even Adriana Lima (famous Victoria’s Secret angel) said she doesn’t let the attention go to her head because they’re are men out here who fuck McChicken sandwiches. Dudes act like their attention is so special when they give it to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:43 PM |
| 28 | Men will try to make you look crazy for lashing out at them after they ignore your boundaries over and over.Men get confused and call us crazy because none of the other objects they own object to the treatment they receive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 12:00 PM |
| 30 | I'm done with men shorter than meMy ex husband is an inch shorter than me. His attitude about him being short and low self esteem was part of the reason I chose to leave. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 03:23 PM |
| 2 | This is what happens when sex workers demand respect. It’s almost like selling your body teaches men you are an object to be used! Who woulda thought!?According to other comments she isn’t a sex worker! I’m going to delete my post as my assumption was incorrect! Thanks ladies for pointing that out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:01 PM |
| 4 | This is what happens when sex workers demand respect. It’s almost like selling your body teaches men you are an object to be used! Who woulda thought!?Oh wow! Okay I genuinely had no idea. I can delete the post as my assumption was incorrect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:59 PM |
| 197 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.I definitely learned about my body by hooking up! I learned that my vagina is very sensitive and doesn’t like random dicks and fingers in her. Even with protection my poor lady bits are crying! Hello instant BV or a yeastie, or maybe I’ll get extra lucky and have to go see my gyno for a UTI. It’s not like the casual hook ups are even trying to make sure my bits are properly lubed, excited, and ready to go. My own pussy told me to get my shit together 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 04:44 PM |
| 157 | If someone tells you that men are picky show them this!I learned just how much men DONT give a fuck when I was a dancer. At my old club we had every kind of woman, including looks and personalities. From gorgeous college educated women to crusty junkies. Men are getting dances and trying to fuck all of them. Yeah, they have their preferred girl(s) but if they can’t get their attention for whatever reason they have no issues going with a dancer who looks nothing like their type. I’ll never forget the night this customer loudly exclaimed that he was “… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 01:33 PM |
| 290 | And y’all are still using OLD?YESSS!!! this is why we’ve all been watching Disney movies, playing house, and “dreaming of our weddings” since we were all fucking 5 years old. The indoctrination must start as soon as I start to have a personality so I never stray. Women will happily sacrifice themselves with enough brainwashing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 01:53 AM |
| 133 | Queens, we have angered reddit again...😂 The comments are really nice.I love when this happens! ladies out there will see this and get a chance to come to the dark side! We have cookies and self respect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:15 PM |
| 238 | What part of leave me alone do LVM not get?I’ve said this before and I’ll say it forever. Men are committed to misunderstanding us. They are intentionally being obtuse. It benefits them to insist that we don’t mean the things we actually say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 12:36 PM |
| 86 | "I know it's not actually 'cheating' per say" uum excuse me what 😀I stayed with a piece of shit and now he’s continuing to be one I don’t understand!! How do I fix this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 03:21 PM |
| 13 | Sick of short males crying "discrimination"Men are so committed to misunderstanding us that I don’t think they’ll ever take anything we say seriously. They always know how we “really think and feel”. Accepting our point of view as valid would destroy everything. I swear in their minds, we’re just like them, but we’re all just lying about it 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 02:31 AM |
| 90 | Sick of short males crying "discrimination"That’s literally a males reason for living. Sex and female attention. That’s why men assume we live life on easy mode in general. Its simply because women have easier access to sex. That’s it. That’s the WHOLE reason our lives are “cake”. Nothing else matters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 05:04 PM |
| 50 | This just in ladies, lazy proposals are the pinnacle of romance and just the best!Well…if they weren’t laughing they’d be crying. It’s just cope. That’s why they try to convince other women to accept less by saying big thoughtful proposals with diamonds are ridiculous. They don’t want to see other women win while they’re losing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:02 PM |
| 224 | The sign reads “Convince my boyfriend to propose to me.” Harry: How long have you guys been together? Her: 7 Years. Harry: I can’t help you.The book is actually really good though!! It teaches women that if he’s not calling you, seeing other women, drunk when he sees you, doesn’t want to marry you, not sleeping with you….he’s just not that into you!! Very simple. Then each chapter gives examples of HVM making shit happen for the women the want in their lives. The movie is just fucking weird honestly, but we know Hollywood couldn’t actually make a movie about women seeing through men’s bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 04:25 AM |
| 248 | Golddigging husband wants hardworking wife to buy him a new PC (so he can undoubtedly waste time playing video games). All the comments were praising him but god forbid if a woman does the same. Men just love to project.Men used to not take pride in having a woman provide for them. It used to be embarrassing as fuck. Somehow overtime it became cool and manly to lay around, play video games, and jack off all day while your girlfriend or wife pays for everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 08:09 PM |
| 29 | Guy Shows A Provider Mentality. Some Women are Like "Yes, DO It!" Other Comments Show a PickMe Deprived Mentality - Ladies, Learn to Embrace Being SpoiledI don’t need you to do anything for me!! Pick me! I only require attention and brownies! So quirky and cool. I hate it here lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:55 PM |
| 108 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperwork“How DARE you tell me to raise me standards! That’s exactly how you end up alone!” Poor pickmeisha will never understand that being alone is better than the bullshit she’s choosing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:41 PM |
| 117 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.Who wants to date someone who’s “dense as forged steel” , “not confident enough to ask women out”, or “ has complete social anxiety that renders him from functioning in social settings” I mean really? He clearly doesn’t hear himself or most likely just excepts women to just aCcEPT HiM aNd AlL hIs FlAWs….ugh. Fuck this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 08:54 PM |
| 240 | “Men always complain about being friend zoned, but do they know how much it hurts to be fuck zoned? As if our friendship only had value to him because of possible sex?”Men don’t see us a humans. Our friendship isn’t valuable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:35 PM |
| 26 | Pickme Logic: I know he's a player and I'm already sleeping with him but will ignoring his texts get him interested in more?“He’s also playing hard to get” what?!?? 🤣🤣🤣 no bitch, he actually doesn’t want you. The mental gymnastics! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:32 AM |
| 40 | What happens when a forever girlfriend finally gets married.I’ve never understood the desire to be picked this badly…to literally put up with anything and everything to win…what exactly? A miserable life!What the ever loving fuck? I’m gonna put myself through hell to win the man who will continue to put me through hell. What universe is this?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 09:04 PM |
| 22 | I finally had to leave one of my favorite online communities because of the misogynyYou literally cannot post a picture of a woman on Reddit and her not be sexualized. It’s impossible. There was a video posted of this girl who had the surgery done when she was a baby( I can’t remember what the procedure was called but they pretty much removed her thigh bone and attached her lower leg to her pelvis so that her ankle would work as her knee, very cool shit) And men were commenting about how they would still fuck her…. As if she asked….as if that’s what the post was even about. The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 02:09 PM |
| 168 | There’s no way these ladies are serious…🙃The bar is so low now that we’re past men not doing anything at all for us. Now we are expected to do work to prove that we are worthy bangmaids . That’s how far the bar is now. It’s on the other side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 04:38 PM |
| 14 | If someone does not meet your standards, it is better to just not date them at all, rather than date them and try to change them into the person you actually want to date.Ultimately in my opinion it all boils down to “I want HIM to change so I don’t have too” …if I can get him to be the man I need him to be I don’t have to be alone. I don’t have to face myself and my actions. I don’t have to self reflect and have standards. Finding a hvm requires being a hvw and that requires CHANGE on my part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:33 PM |
| 73 | A “real woman” and he isn’t joking 🥴Duh. How can you take care of his kids when you have your own? Women are so fucking selfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:56 PM |
| 5 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.That’s when they just get a new replacement! We all know what happens when a woman gets diagnosed with a debilitating disorder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 04:14 PM |
| 307 | Porn actress on TikTok admitted that stopping a scene had consequencesEvery sex worker knows that boundaries and saying no ruins the fantasy. You cannot say no and make money. It’s impossible. You’re being paid to be used in ways other women refuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 02:28 PM |
| 489 | This is a new low…Don’t worry ladies, this was posted on Instagram a few days ago and the women all ripped this bullshit to shreds in the comments. Nobody is buying it anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:22 AM |
| 158 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.Very true. You’re treated like a beautiful object. You are something to gain, something they’ll use to impress other men. You can’t have feelings or desires or needs outside of what the scrote has projected onto you since he’s not interested in what you’re REALLY all about. It’s like they honestly wish they could just go to the Beautiful woman store and just pick one up and take her home just like we used too with our barbies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 12:22 AM |
| 22 | Just received this message. A request that I not call men scrote 😮💨Scrote scrote scrote! Scrotitty scrote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 08:53 PM |
| 17 | Don’t save his number in your phone.Every time I saved a mans number he would very quickly show me why that was a stupid decision. I stopped doing that like 6 years ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 04:08 AM |
| 88 | Black women are not protected, LVM plans to rob a woman and goes to her home pretending to want her number.THIS. THIS IS THE WORST!! this is literally why black men get a pass to ruin and destroy black women and children. “You really want to see another black man in jail!?” Black Families will protect literal child molesters and rapists with this logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 01:12 AM |
| 42 | A woman asks for advice on her husband's porn addictionI have learned that “communication” means agreeing with him. I could tell a man my boundaries, how they make me feel, and that I’d like them to stop crossing them and it’s seen as “arguing”, “overreacting”, “starting shit”, or “being controlling”. Only when I give up and just start agreeing with him to end the conversation is it seem as productive communication. There is no compromise because anything I ask for is “controlling” and is seen as insane to even ask for and won’t even be considered. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Men on reddit advising women to talk it out after a male slaps them during sex (without their consent) is this normal?This one guy slapped me during sex once without consent…he later assaulted me on a different occasion so I don’t really think having a conversation with him would have mattered… It’s almost like men who do stuff without consent…don’t care about your consent. Crazy stuff. Edit- also I’m so sick of assault being okay if it’s during sex. Totally not okay to slap your girl (or anyone ) out side of the bedroom but once a man says it’s his kink, it’s no longer assault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 03:21 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the reddest red flags you’ve ever seen on a date or during a relationship?He said “I believe every man cheats until he finds the right woman” …it was at this moment I learned to NEVER let a man drive me anywhere. If I had my car I would have left immediately. Edit: I remembered another one! This fucker openly admitted to cheating on his ex fiancé. He didn’t understand why I didn’t want a second date. This was actually one the nicest dates I’ve ever been on too, which made it suck more lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Can we make '#YouToo' a flair? As in, "Wow, I thought you were a good guy, but you're actually horrible just like the others?"Et tu brute? Sprinkle some culture in there lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | For women of color/ minorities, be extra careful of fetishization or familial racismIt’s not just white guys, black guys fetishize mixed and light skinned women. I had to dump a guy a long time ago because he called me “his little banana cream pie” as a pet name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Some men say, men going for much younger women or even teenagers is just "biology". I just realised adult men who try to be with teenagers/much younger women usually end up alone.When I was a dancer, I had a regular customer who would take me and my son out to eat and take us shopping. Of course he would always hint at wanting more from me then just hanging out and buying me stuff. He wanted me to be his girlfriend and he said he’d take good care of my son and I. He would tell me stories about the women that he would date when he was younger and tell me about the mother of his daughter and how he was just a huge player in his 20s and 30s, never wanted to settle down. Unt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 04:46 PM |
| 92 | I don't give a shit about what men think or what men care for in a womanThere are tons of self-help books marketed towards women teaching them how to keep a man or make a man happy or be a better girlfriend or wife. I read a few of them when I was trying to make my relationship work with my lvm. There was a set written for both men and women So that the husband could read about the wife and wife could read about the husband. Well I read my portion. I bought him his portion and he couldn’t be bothered to even crack it open. Men aren’t socialized to make their wives a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:39 PM |
| 13 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.Women : I like men who don’t abuse me and pay for dates Men : I wanna break open womens skulls and drink their brains.. The rest of Reddit : these are OBVIOUSLY the same! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Cry me a riverEvery post I see and every interaction I have with men can be summed up in one sentence: “women aren’t people, they exist to serve me” This man had no problem using women to try to fill this void, completely disregarded their humanity. Then there’s the genny girl who he doesn’t even know. Doesn’t know a single thing about this woman but somehow loves her and if she wasn’t in a relationship they’d totally be together. She’s not human to him either. Just a made up fantasy to him who would almost c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himMy kink is paying for everything that my man needs! I’m not a good digger! After I’ve paid for our meal and driven my king back to his home where I pay bills I love to be ignored for hours while he plays video games. That really does it for me and when he’s done I’ll be happily waiting on the bed for him to fuck me for 30 seconds. A man has needs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Wishy washy scrote that earns 6 figures asked me over to his house for "pizza" and I left him on read. He did this for 3 days in a row and he eventually gave up. A reminder for the ladies here not to correlate high earning with high value.This was posted in another sub I won’t name lol scrotes screaming “SHE CLEARLY IS A GOLD DIGGING INCEL” All because she didn’t accept a lame ass HOMEMADE pizza date AT THIS STRANGE MANS HOUSE!?!? 😂😂😂😂😂 what universe is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Men who buy sex have much in common with sexually coercive menMen who like to force women into sex acts also like to pay to force women into sex acts. More at 11. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Sex work is not empoweringWhen I was a massage girl, I’d regularly have customers ask me if I ever got horny or excited while massaging my clients. They’re logic was that I was a straight woman who likes to fuck men so OF COURSE I just couldn’t contain myself when I had a crusty old white mans shriveled up ED dick in my hand. They really do believe that these women are supposed to LOVE this work. To be fair for a while you can fake it, and it is easier to fake it when he’s a high paying customer, but that mask falls off … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 03:25 PM |
| 14 | Don't get plastic surgery just to attract menI’ve had a boob job, 2 BBLS, and lip fillers. I was hoping that having an Instagram body would make me more desirable and make men want to lock me down more but it had the opposite effect. Now I’m a fun toy. Awesome to look at and fuck but too afraid to lock down because they’re insecure and don’t like high maintenance women. I swear it makes their Madonna whore complex come out so much more. My ex loved my ass and boobs but would yell at me about other men looking at me. They want the super hot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid.This woman is a literal homeless shelter 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:19 PM |
| 17 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.That’s exactly what they’re doing. The scrotes admitted to it on Fboy Island. Dude straight up said he tells women something super emotional and it gets them to open their legs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....Bad bitch here, I’ll take being single if this is what’s being offered to me. This man is bitter beautiful women don’t want him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 02:59 PM |
| 7 | The sex industry is the most Racist and discriminatory industry there isMe too!!! It was seriously a cancer in my life. I couldn’t juggle not wanting to be objectified by men but here I am objecting my damn self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 03:49 PM |
| 86 | The sex industry is the most Racist and discriminatory industry there isI created a new account just so I could speak on this. I was a sex worker for 6 years and I’m a black woman. The sex industry is the ONLY industry in the world where your “employer” can openly reject you based on race. You go get naked for this strange man just for him to tell you “they have enough black girls” meanwhile they’re aren’t any you can see…. Male customers will tell you straight to your face “I don’t get dances from black girls” or “I’m only wanting to try white girls tonight”. I’ve … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 01:24 PM |
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