avocadosnumber1023 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
101	What are your standards (and have you been able to find a partner who met them - esp if people have told you those standards were too high/"unreasonable")?	DISCUSSION	avocadosnumber1023	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/07/21 04:52 AM

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5	Staying safe on OLD If you can, only meet up with people where you have 1+ mutual friends (you can see this on some apps, and occasionally I’ll text the mutual friend if I’m close enough to them to get a vibe check) I also do a quick Google/linkedin/facebook check to make sure they are who they say they are/aren’t blatantly in a relationship	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 02:13 PM
84	It isn't "classist" to want a guy who is financially stable. Some FDS followers are working class women. I cannot think of anything more privileged than telling women who have known poverty, that it is shameful to want a man who won't drag them back to poverty level. So true! Esp after having been in that position with an ex who kept mooching, I've realized it's such a turn off feeling like a "sugar momma" Also I'd want my partner to be at least equally successful as I am to be able to respect them (whether that's financially or in other respects), and I just don't want to date someone who makes less than I do/needs me as a "provider" (esp with the gender wage gap...)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/07/21 11:50 PM