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| 30 | When they tell you to settle for the guy’s attractiveness and the moment he levels up, he dumps you.Healthy at every size I think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 12:19 PM |
| 42 | What've you rediscovered about yourself since being single?Like you I used to cry 2-3 times a week because of my ex and thought I was oh so emotional and a crybaby. In over a year since I broke up with him, I cried once (when watching Coco) because there are no scrotes in my life anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 10:05 AM |
| 66 | Is the bar actually this low? That we are just so happy to find a guy who isn’t r*pey that we think they’re the one? 😐Dafaq is god cheese? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 02:31 PM |
| 61 | Why do so many men refuse to go to the doctor for injuries, illnesses, etc? Growing old with someone who doesn’t take their health seriously doesn’t seem like a good choice.Yeah but like don't you go once in a while to check if it is still migraine and not a brain tumor? I certainly do 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/21 08:55 AM |
| 88 | if a pacarana can lather his butt, pits, and balls then so can your bfSame as abusive men (normally) don't punch a woman in the face and call her names on the first date, dirty men don't announce "Hey, in my spare time I like to rub my dirty balls and then sniff my fingers and I actually prefer my nails dirty and long when I am about to finger you." The decline is gradual and first the woman thinks he just had a bad day, and then he slowly turns into a trash can he actually is, slowly conditioning her to lower her standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:47 PM |
| 11 | It disgusts me to see how men are dressed in public.I live in Western Europe and visited Southern Europe recently and the grooming gap is huge! Although the men were shorter, they were so well-dressed and clean and stylish and just mmmmmm, they were so much more attractive than taller western european men in sweatpants and molded shoes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:05 PM |
| 48 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.Reminds me of when I told my former scrote of a bf that my friend (happily married, stable financially) was pregnant. He was like "omg! Poor HerHusbandName! What are they gonna do?" The reality where people are happy to be married and excited to have a child didn't exist for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 20 | “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink”This guy made a blog out of teaching men things most children are capable of doing by the age of 10. Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 09:27 AM |
| 16 | BARE MINIMUM: The LEAST You Should AcceptMy skin is oily and it gets oilier if I shower more often and use hot water. Skin is weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 10:09 AM |
| 65 | BARE MINIMUM: The LEAST You Should AcceptNeither do I, and not because of water restrictions. I shower in the evening and there's not much happening to me while I sleep so I don't see why I should shower in the morning too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 04:21 AM |
| 98 | BARE MINIMUM: The LEAST You Should AcceptIs showering once a day considered LV? 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 02:55 AM |
| 30 | Study suggests that I don't give afThey still won't shower though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 12:14 AM |
| 34 | Congrats scrotes! Your screeching into the void and constant harrassment of FDS and its members has continued to propel us to the front page!I found FDS because someone said you/we were golddiggers,so I was like ok, if most men spark no joy, let me go learn how to be a golddigger. Still have no idea how to, but I learnt something much much better ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 11:41 PM |
| 29 | Well done Germany on blocking Pornhub. Hopefully other countries will follow their exampleLots of men here are so dead inside, I'm surprised they still have enough motivation to breathe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningIt's such a good movie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 10:43 AM |
| 15 | Why do men leave yellow stains on the sheets?I thought about it too, I think they shower for other people they meet during the day, to avoid being called stinky at work for example, but they don't care about sleeping in dirt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:52 PM |
| 34 | This is just ridiculous (don't forget to swipe)I don't know if there's a scientific reason, but I used to watch porn, not a lot though, maybe like 2-3 times per month, until I found FDS and learnt about it all its negative affects on women and society's perception of sexuality. The reason I never got addicted is because ist just so fucking lame, to waste my time looking for a video, to watch it, I could be doing better things at the time ya know, and I don't even mention how lame and pathetic it is in general to get horny watching other peop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 10:23 AM |
| 21 | Times I should have left my fianceI'm super proud and happy for you. Can't you send him an invoice for half of the cancelled wedding stuff? After all, you weren't going to get married alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 05:07 PM |
| 9 | Don't forget about blocking him on LinkedIn!This should not be difficult if they use the same email address for all of these platforms 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 08:55 AM |
| 133 | One of the Benefits of Living Together... Splitting the RentYes! I'm embarrassed of myself because I leave my clean laundry unfolded on The Chair for days or a coffee cup on my desk, then I think about guys who have full fridges of rotting food and shit on their asses or they use their dirty plate from breakfast to eat their lunch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 05:58 AM |
| 106 | Almost allowed others to convince me to approach him but I found FDSYeah, that's my story too - libfem nerd in relationship with a lukewarm nerd loser. No passion towards me or anything except porn, no energy, no emotions, mechanical sex, the whole guy was like an amazon review with 3 stars or overcooked unsalted fucking spaghetti. All my previous FWBs (libfem, remember 🙄) were more into me than this black hole of a person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 07:48 PM |
| 96 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂🙋🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:12 PM |
| 10 | The popular saying "Sex is like pizza, even if it's bad it's pretty good" is proof that men just do not see the world the same way as women.Neh, wrong, a pizza has never given me vaginismus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 11:38 PM |
| 8 | Pregnant feminist who makes way less than bf will "pay for herself" in the name of equalityIn Western Germany women were not allowed to work without their husbands permission until 1977 and it shows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 10:32 PM |
| 78 | Remember, men have no problem using you for relationship benefits until they find someone betterPorn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Just a few dating strategies:Looks like we are the opposites, I tried intermittent fasting to support my former scrote so he didn't have to see me eating while he was trying to lose weight, and all I could think about was food, I could feel my old disordered eating thoughts appearing in my head again, so I stopped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 04:14 PM |
| 12 | Just a few dating strategies:About diet: what helped me to stop obcessing over food was literally allowing myself to eat everything I want, anytime. Turned out I don't even want to eat fries and chocolate and cake all the time, and I like simple food and vegetables. I know it sounds so simple, but it works. Men... Idk, I already know I like men less than fries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 07:34 PM |
| 12 | Keep SlayingMy mum brought me up like this (my father died early but from what I can remember, he didn't treat me like a brainless princess either). Nevertheless, society happened and I was insecure pickme for years 😂 But yeah, society is slowly changing too and its wonderful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | THE LOWEST VALUE MEN ON TELEVISIONMy avatar suits your username 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 07:28 PM |
| 35 | THE LOWEST VALUE MEN ON TELEVISIONEvery scene with him just gave me such anxiety, I can't imagine a woman like Claire having to deal with his uselessness every single day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Women are choosers and it literally does not matter what men wantI hope they were talking about chicken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:11 PM |
| 18 | Things That Perturb LVM 🤡Mine complained I caused his "moisturiser addiction" 😂 He smoked cigarettes, ate junk, watched porn and hours of netflix every day, but moisturiser addiction is of course the worst. He proudly rejected sunscreen to not get addicted to it too 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 110 | Things That Perturb LVM 🤡Applying make up without hiding it. Having a skincare routine. Both are waste of time to them because in these moments you don't pay attention to them. Doc Martens. You outperforming them in sport/exercise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 08:42 AM |
| 73 | Not even surprisedI didn't want to think about it, but can't help it: how many women decided to not go for a mastectomy, hoping other options would help, and later died, because their partners had the same reaction and those women didn't want to lose this trash? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:37 PM |
| 7 | I love being tall. There I said it.5'8"5 (if I converted my 1.74 m correctly) and I try to hold my back as straight as possible and wear big ass platforms because I would like to be taller too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 18 | People were so mean to Stephanie Buttermore for the crime of gaining weight while female. Her boyfriend, Jeff Nippard, is a good example of what it means to be a high value partner.Same, my normal bmi is 21-22, and as soon as I lose a bit of weight I lose my period, I mean I don't really need to be underweight to lose it. I wonder if it is actually normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 06:26 AM |
| 15 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?Mine would ask "do you want to suck dick?" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 11:32 AM |
| 24 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Acid reflux, vaginismus, anxiety, insomnia... Its all gone after just a few weeks, except vaginismus, but I will go to therapy about it soon, and I'm just so happy most of the time :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 01:27 AM |
| 40 | “Me and her dated for a very long time. I was planning to marry her but over the course of 8 years she aged a lot, so I changed my mind.”Козёл. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 09:26 AM |
| 5 | Men think that it's WOMEN'S fault they're addicted to porn 🙄At approximately 23. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 09:00 PM |
| 36 | The pandemic is making me take the company of my own for granted - posting this to remind myself that only I can give me lovely things I crave for. Throwback to the time I took the train for 1 hour in heels for pancakes and coffee alone 🥞 Never settling for "walking dates" againSuch a beautiful bag, what is it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:05 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InMy third language is German. It is a lovely language, however I would never suggest to learn it if you don't absolutely have to and if you don't enjoy being cognitively exhausted every evening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:02 PM |
| 7 | It doesn’t have to be terrible 24/7 in order for you to leave.100 times yes. There are areas of life where proudly saying "I'm not a quitter" brings great results, but relationships is not one of these areas. I struggle with it big time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 08:55 AM |
| 128 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?I had an ex who used to point at each my new pimple and say "Pimple". It didn't make me feel insecure as he probably planned but it was irritating. Also for 3 years the only compliments he gave me were "Nice ass" (constantly) and "Beautiful eyes" (literally once). I'm reading my own comment in disbelief how I didn't dump him sooner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 36 | I had a man say "enjoy your servitude" when I told him about my job that pays me more than his.He sounds dump. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:03 PM |
| 30 | My parents tried grooming me, but I wasn’t having ANY of it!Me too! My mother always told me studying was my only task when I was a child, I didn't have to cook or clean or do anything else at home. Basically same way boys are treated. I grew up and learnt how to clean and cook because I like clean space and being alive, healthy and not overweight. How difficult can it be?.. Why men don't learn, that's a mistery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 08:10 AM |
| 6 | This artist's work hit me hard! @violetclair on instagramShe wanted to have kids and she didn't have them at the time, it's a valid reason to be unsatisfied. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 09:15 PM |
| 21 | This artist's work hit me hard! @violetclair on instagramPC is the Queen! Princess, technically, but definitely a Queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:51 AM |
| 66 | NopeReLAtiOnsHipS aRE HarD wORk! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:20 AM |
| 31 | Why do men refuse to break up with you when they are not into you?Because they are lazy and they know if it bothers you enough ("it" means the shittiness of the relationship and their behaviour), you will eventually do it yourself, just like everything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:04 PM |
| 14 | Sex with a HVMI agree with you about exercise minimum 5 times a week. It makes sense for models, actors and other people who get paid to look good. For most of us it's just not worth it. (I'm talking about gym now, which is 1 hour minimum, and much longer for most men). I've been exercising 7 days a week for a little while now, I enjoy it because everything is closed where I am and this is not the worst thing to do during quarantine, also its just 40 minutes, but as soon as life gets back to normal I will go … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 10:01 AM |
| 2 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"If you are seriously asking, I do mix them sometimes and never had any problems 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:00 PM |
| 8 | If he sucks up your time rather than enriching it, he's low valueThe last part is so true! My weekend wasn't as versatile as yours because I need to study a lot, but it feels so much better than realising on a Sunday evening at my ex's dirty apartment that I've wasted 2 precious days of my life on Netflix and arguing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:24 PM |
| 20 | If he sucks up your time rather than enriching it, he's low valueI misunderstood and thought you have done it all today and was about to ask if you woke up at 3 am 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Can we talk about Botox and lip fillers and plastic surgery?I got botox between my eyebrows and I'm very happy with the results. It makes me not to think how concerned and tired and grumpy I look when I see myself in the mirror. Which in turn makes me feel less concerned, less tired and less grumpy. It's not all black and white. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 06:56 PM |
| 14 | What’s the worst neg you got?"You don't look like you study computer science! " I get confused every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Shoutout to all the Queens battling Anxiety/Depression and STILL leveling up unlike these trash menHey, I have diagnosed ADHD of combined type and I'm getting my second degree. It is a struggle, medication doesn't work the same way every day, sometimes I concentrate on something unrelated and don't get any studying done. I constantly feel like an imposter and panic and prepare for the worst. But I'm strong and stubborn and I will be done in less than a year. You can definitely do it, lots of people with ADHD get all kids of degrees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:25 AM |
| 5 | In this society, we are all pickmes by default, we have to unlearn it, and this work is hard. FDS is life outside the caveI thought exactly the same recently! I had these standards naturally and I think we all do, but somehow we are later taught that it's a woman's job is to accept shit and be patient and serve a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:34 PM |
| 13 | I’m genuinely confused. This thread was about making female friends. Is this supposed to be funny?As a Russian, no thx. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 05:53 PM |
| 68 | UnReAliStIc mALe bEaUtY sTanDardS!!!Almost all the women who are not perfect, are at least 7 out of 10 (sorry, I know it's not human to rate people, but I don't know how to better describe them). Almost all the men who are not perfect (let's say who don't have six pack, although who cares), are fucking 2.16 out of 10 and fine with it. Unrealistic my ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:44 PM |
| 64 | Just let him goProbably gaming and waiting for the inspiration/motivation to actually do things, also maybe waiting to enter his prime, because we all know when 35 y o men with a belly, bad skin, dirty nails and an early mid life crisis travel the world, all the women queue outside their hostel to have sex with them on their bunk bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:50 PM |
| 2 | My ex telling me I "have" to talk to him. I only reply if its about our son.Reading this gave me migraine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:38 PM |
| 9 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortI once mentioned to my ex that I like David Bowie's music. So he gave me a t-shirt with Freddie Mercury for my birthday. I mean, they are both dead British musicians, to remember the correct one would be too. much. effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 09:41 PM |
| 7 | LVM starterpack*They turn every conversation into a dick measuring contest, it is so annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:50 PM |
| 12 | The Cycle of Sexual FrustrationSaaaaame, but it was 3 years for my pick me ass 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Thank you FDS! It was my birthday yesterday, and owing to all that I’ve learnt from FDS, it was a special one. This one was about self value, no past toxicity, and positivity with family and friends. FDS taught me that seeking validation is undermining oneself, and that it’s about levelling up.Happy birthday! This bag is beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 01:39 PM |
| 18 | As soon as I hear he watches porn, I'm no longer interested nor attracted.Ladies, how do you find out early on that a guy watches porn? I mean, it's not something you casually discuss on the first date. My last ex was a porn addict, and there's no way I'm going to knowingly be with one again. How do you know as early as possible and don't waste your time? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Congrats! I did the same almost two months ago. I used to wake up anxious and grumpy and constantly felt lonely, of course I blamed it on corona and thought maybe I was getting depressed again. Nope. I wake up happy and excited now, although my days are normally just filled with work and studying and exercise, everything is closed here again so I have nowhere to go and can't meet friends, but life is just so peaceful without my LVM ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Love when men stalk your reddit profile just to comment abusive stuff on all your posts because you post here. It only further proves our point!How empty and pathetic his life is, if he has time to waste on this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 10:33 AM |
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