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Question For Menavpd_girl/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:03 AM
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It’s not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:45 PM
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But most people don’t have to intention to react whatever they see in movies. People do have sex and want to react what they’ve seen in porn. And getting an orgasm is a very strong motivator. Like if most serial killers weren’t motivated by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:44 PM
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Are you talking about porn? I wouldn’t want a child with someone who’s watching barely legal teenagers gets fucked by her stepdad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 05:41 PM
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I tried online dating, it didn’t work for me and I don’t think it will. That being said, I don’t like cold approaches. Preferably I would like to date someone who I already know, maybe from school or work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:14 PM
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I’m still confused. When women point out that men become less fertile with age, what exactly are they blaming men for?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 07:42 AM
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That’s where this post is about?? Is shunning someone blaming them? And when women point out that men’s aging also lowers their fertility, how is that shunning them for dating younger women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:22 PM
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How is pointing out men become less fertile by age, even blaming them? Blaming them for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:17 PM
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Why would women risk exclusion from the tribe but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:13 PM
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Why would women risk exclusion from the tribe but not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 02:13 PM
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Clearly it is something that you personally think. I’m not sure how women pointing out that men also lose fertility by aging, is even blaming them. What exactly are they blaming men for when they make those statements? (People are also completely free to date whoever they want. When I first started dating, I dated men in their mid to late 20s (I myself was in my early 20s). I actually didn’t like it that much. Then I had a crush on a guy who was 3 years younger than me. Before I had a crush on h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:59 PM
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You’re asking them for mistakes, maybe they didn’t mind the mistakes they made because they learned from it. I can only say that at least that’s true for me. So maybe they don’t want to view them as “mistakes”. And like someone else said, it’s a weird question to ask someone out of the blue. What are 5 mistakes in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 01:34 PM
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Yes, this man is acting like it’s a scientific study that he’s done.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:40 PM
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Yeah but you ask this men to only ask women. And maybe these women are happy with there lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:28 PM
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And why shouldn’t you also ask 5 men? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:21 PM
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Im not saying they are flawed, just their logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 12:06 PM
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You think a man who was abusive in a previous relationship, is going to tell me he was abusive in a previous relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:14 AM
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Yes you’re constantly going back and forth between describing current society and what you think its flaws are and describing what you think would be the ideal society. I don’t think consent to sex means consent to parenthood. Which it’s isn’t. Yes men can’t have abortion or take the morning after pill, it is what it is. But they can (and do) choose to not play an active role in the lives of their children. And paying child support is not remotely comparable to being a parent. And in my country …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:56 AM
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Again how can you blame women for going for the “abusive asshole” (even though there is no way of knowing if he’s going to abusive or not). And for not giving the “none abusive” incel a chance (even though there is no guarantee that he would not become abusive).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 09:08 AM
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I can point out the flaw in their reasoning as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 07:56 AM
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So you can’t call him “non abusive” incel because you literally won’t know if he would be abusive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 06:00 AM
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So oh can women be judged for not giving the quite ”nice“ incel a chance while there is no evidence of knowing how he would act in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 09:01 PM
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Who says that when they “non abusive“ incel gets in a relationship, he’s not going to become abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:30 PM
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What exactly is your argument? What I think happens is, is what we are seeing right now, when women actually have more equality and freedom, those societies die out. Because not enough women voluntarily want to have children. Also women were completely isolated from one another. They were kept inside and out of the public sphere. How could they do conscious raising, organise, etc. This is actually unique to female oppression vs ethnic minorities who at least had somewhat more opportunity to come…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:38 PM
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What has fascism to do with anything? At the bare minimum religion shames women for not being virgins, for having sex before marriage, for not having children and not being married. Also the men is the “leader” in the household. How is that not a form of servitude? You’re forced to have children, regardless if you wanted them or not. You’re forced to be with a man, regardless if you want to be married or not. Than you’re forced to listen to him, regardless if he knows better. Can’t divorce him e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:31 PM
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So basically taking freedom away from women, noted. I’m not familiar with Isreal, but I think they’ve both have really progressive and really conservative people there. Also don’t have atleast some migration from Jews all around the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 12:18 PM
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How are women going to suffer from the dating they’re created?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:59 AM
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I have the same question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:57 AM
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What’s the solution here? In order for western culture to not be overtaken by cultures where women have little rights and freedoms, we have to take away rights and freedoms for women in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:53 AM
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What’s the solution here, take away rights and freedom of women in the west, so that other culture were women don’t have much freedom and right don’t take over?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:52 AM
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Nature doesn’t dictate morality. Just because something is “natural” doesn’t mean it’s good. It’s very obvious that men in the past have used their superior strength and violent nature to subjugate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 11:43 AM
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I don’t think most of those are issues to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:37 AM
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Are you under the impression that nature = good? Cancer is natural, pedophilia might be natural, etc. It’s actually modern medicine (not nature) that has made giving birth at least not as deadly. It’s YOU that believe that single mothers are the single worse thing that happen to society, not me. I don’t think those women need to be more responsible because I don’t think it’s a huge issue to begin with. But it’s YOU who think that so I can’t understand for the life of me that you think men aren’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 08:20 AM
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How would you know what people do in their private lives? You were there?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 06:10 AM
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Do you have a picture of every men any women has slept with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:49 AM
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How do you know what kind of men women have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:47 AM
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The culture takes a while to adjust. The cultural exceptions for marriage and children has also lessened.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:47 PM
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The main thing that changed is that women aren’t economically dependent on men anymore. As a result many women are choosing to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:55 PM
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I’m sorry but a random stranger on the internet isn’t going to stop me from having sex with men I find attractive. Also isn’t this a debate sub? Men generally can’t admit that top men are selfish for taking all the women for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:52 PM
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You literally said that men would coerce women into sex or otherwise throw them out of the tribe, that’s rape buddy. We’re talking about a hypothetical situations here I’m sure there are women who voluntarily want to have sex with men as well. If we are talking about modern humans who have our current knowledge then I do think most women would be careful for having sex. Since I’m assume that there isn’t birth control available on the island and everytime you’re having sex might lead to pregnancy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:27 PM
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Physically capable/ young women would definitely be better at hunting than old, sick or handicapped men. Why wouldn’t women be able to make fire or to build huts? You haven’t answered any of my questions either. Should I be feel sorry or sexless men or are women being raped? If I’m constantly being raped and possible will die in childbirth, why would I even want to be part of that tribe.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 03:02 PM
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So women need to be rape and die in childbirth? Why would I even want to be part of such tribe. I could just die on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:59 PM
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Right about what? It being more equal society? That would be impossible of knowing. I just had an issue with you saying that women’s only job was to put out, having children and raise them. None of those things are necessarily to ensure the survival of the current group of people. So basically you think women should be raped, possibly die in child birth (with was before modern medicine the most common cause of that) and then raise children that they never wanted in the first place. I’m not sure …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:53 PM
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As far as I know there aren’t “hidden” tribes in Africa. Many of them have taking over patriarchal ideas from neighbouring tribes/ religions. See I don’t know if this is true either. It’s something that I learned from sociology and what I’ve seen from historical documentaries. But I could also see how when humans need each other more for survival will lead to a more equal society. But in third world countries especially, many women are working in farms or at factories. Like I said that division …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:29 PM
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According to who tho? Rules that men would make? I’m not sure if you’re aware of this but it’s often believed that hunter gatherers tribes were more equal compared to civilisation that arrive later. The obvious reason that everyone needs each other to survive. That kind of division you’re talking about that women staying inside and raise the children and men work outside is actually a relatively modern idea. For the longest time in history women have always worked. They worked in factories and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:16 PM
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What? I have no idea what you’re trying to say? Is this supposed to be a reply to another comment or something? Are you trying to say that as a woman not having sex is the same as not helping with getting food or make shelter?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 02:07 PM
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This is a strange comment since a replied to a guy who asked me if I would have sex with the hottest guy on the island. I’m not sure what me being coerced/ raped into sex has anything to do with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:52 PM
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I still have my hands rights? Since I never used to toy and I haven’t gotten laid in a couple of years (and even when I was, it wasn’t a good experience anyway). I would say pretty long.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:49 PM
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I’m sorry you can’t seriously think that it’s better for a child to be placed in an orphanage or a foster care system than being raised by their own mother that loves them? I’m adopted myself and while I’m from a developing country that didn’t have the proper resources to take care of those children. I don’t think things would be much better for children to be raised in an orphanage or a foster family here either. Unless the mother is actually (physically) abusive it’s always preferable to be ra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:27 PM
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I actually have no idea what’s going on in women’s prisons, but those are women who already have been convicted of a crime something that is actually really rare since the vast majority of all crimes are committed by men. So no, women who are in prison are not a representative of average woman. If you would be on a dessert island with a bunch of women/ other people. The best thing would be to cooperate with one another. While in prison it’s everyone for themself. So I’m not sure how the situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:00 PM
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It’s entitled because this “need” can only be fulfilled with someone from the opposite sex. I do agree that some (physical) intimacy is preferable, I don’t think it has to come from sex or a romantic relationship. I think one of the reasons some men become “unstable” from a lack of sex is because the place to much importance on sex. They think they need to have sex to be a real men or that everyone else is having sex all the time except for them (hence incels). And I do blame the over sexualized…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:42 AM
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“Men are not the choosers” men who create single mothers were forced to do so? Someone was forcing them in having children and/ or abandoning them later? What’s a quality in a man (that would be obvious before he has children) that would make him a good father?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:17 AM
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Small sense of social responsibility? By having a human life grow in your body for 9 months. Then giving birth that might last 8h. A recovery from pregnancy that will last an other six months. To then have a child that you will need to raise for at least the next 18 years. That’s not a small sense of responsibility lol Men have no choose? Is someone holding a gun to a man’s head that is forcing them to create children and is he then forced to leave those children? And if men don’t want children …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 09:13 AM
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Is someone holding a gun to those men’s head and forcing them to create a family that they will later abandon? Do you think women intentionally go for men they know will abandon them and their children later?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:55 AM
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Yes as a woman you can’t win. Having no children, BAD. Having children, but ending op a single mother, BAD. Having an abortion, BAD.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:53 AM
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Life happens, relationships don’t always work out. “Family oriented” men will still cheat or leave you. How are those mens sexuality not subsidised when they can just choose to leave their own children at any moment?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:52 AM
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I think that difference is mainly there because we make it like that. I don’t think it has to be like that. And even though kissing/ hugging between friends might often be a formality. It’s nice to know someone is happy to see you. Personally, I dislike many forms of physical intimacy that takes place in a romantic setting. I don’t care for holding hands, I don’t enjoy being kissed on the mouth and I haven’t had any pleasurable sexual experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:23 AM
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They way men on here talk about single mothers makes it sounds like the vast majority of women are single mothers. I think it’s interesting how you’re blaming the parent that is actually doing the child raising. At any point a man can decide to make a woman a single mother. You blame women for making “poor choices”. How exactly is a woman supposed to know that a man is going to abandon her and her children in the future? Do you think we’re able to look into the future?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:15 AM
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Ah yes because every single woman you know is a single mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:04 AM
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In my culture it’s common for people to give each other kisses on the cheek. And i know their are cultures were it’s common even for men to hold each other hands or having each other arms around each other. Personally I enjoy a well meaning kiss/ hug from a friend much more than being kissed on the mouth. And this whole conversation goes away from sex being a human need. I agree that some human intimacy is preferable but that doesn’t need to come from a romantic relationship or sex. It kinda pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:01 AM
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All of this sounds extremely entitled. What’s there even to de done about this? You can’t force someone to genuinely love you. I would enjoy having great sex as well as a women. But because I rather of no sex than bad sex, I chose to spend my time and energy on something else. It isn’t the media that tells women that, it’s women on experience with men and sex. I do think that the media is to blame for making it seem like sex is everything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:55 AM
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Depending on what culture you’re from, you can do a lot of those things with your friends. You can hug your friends, give them a pat on the pack, maybe even hold their hand, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:38 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:30 AM
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I’m not making a statement that women have or don’t have high standards when it comes to (casual) sex. But for women to have quality sex (sex with men they find attractive, who they are comfortable with, who are good at sex and cares about the women’s satisfaction) isn’t actually easy. Getting sex for women: - with a random stranger who doesn’t care about you -> easy - Having quality sex -> not easy at all
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:28 AM
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You can hug, you can hold hands, give kisses on the cheek, etc. That’s all physical intimacy. If you are talking about sex as in penetration, that alone doesn’t even feel good for most women. In our current society you do need money to be able to buy food, to go to the doctor, etc. Ofc not having money is going to reduce your quality of life, your health and possible means an early death.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:26 AM
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And physical intimacy and socialisation can only be fulfilled by having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:36 AM
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And those men can’t masturbate? And I agree with OP are those men becoming mentally unstable because of the lack of sex it because they think they’re entitled to having sex and are incapable of finding meaning in anything else than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 06:35 AM
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Two things, isn’t this literally what men on here complain that women aren’t doing? And aren’t men the ones who are sleeping with women they don’t find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:19 AM
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Do you have any evidence for this? Because I have had any “dick appointments” in the last couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:15 AM
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This seems to imply that women aren’t enjoying those hookups. I keep wondering where my chad is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:14 AM
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I love what we having going on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 05:11 AM
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Are women who end up in prison a representation of the average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:44 AM
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I wouldn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:21 AM
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Im sorry but a lot of our products and food are being made in developing countries we’re women actually do a lot of the work. In our society it’s not important to for children to be taught or someone to take care of the old or the sick?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:14 AM
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But they’re not undesirable because women are choosing not to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:09 AM
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Is that what it means?! I just choose that one because I thought it was cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:06 AM
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I would say that’s still quite a lot. So the average women has 12-24 times a year casual. I will love how men here just completely make things up without any evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:05 AM
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Are they? How many women regularly have hookups you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:30 PM
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So the only why they want a meaningful relationship is so they have access to to sex? And if they would be attractive enough, they wouldn’t want meaningful relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:29 PM
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And the average men does?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:17 PM
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If men are going to rape women, why would that even mean that the less desirable men aren’t getting any?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:17 PM
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So I’m supposed to feel bad for sexless men while women are getting raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:56 PM
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Because those are authoritarian regimes that gets you killed if you speak out against them. I’m not sure what point you’re trying to say here. Against that’s literally the title of this point that men and women can never be truly equal. Yes in that sense a society could never be truly equal. But goes beyond gender inequality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:43 PM
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This is why I can’t take men on this sub seriously. It’s not a honor to be someone cum dumpster. So you risk STDs, unwanted pregnancy, etc and your not even guaranteed you will like it or orgasm all for what? You can’t seriously believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:39 PM
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I think you’re misunderstanding my point and you’re not really answering my question. This post originally was only about women’s rights and how women can never be truly be equal to men. Again, what does that mean? In what way aren’t women currently equal to men? And how are women’s right different from any other human rights? (Based on your own question it seems like you do agree with me on this one.) And to answer your question there was a lot of inequality in the past. A number of different g…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:50 PM
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Im sorry but being a Chad sounds like positive thing. Interesting that they have no problem shaming women tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:36 PM
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No, I’m confused why women’s rights are so different/ special from other human rights? White people could decide to take rights away from black people, straight people could take away rights from gay people. All kinds of human rights that we currently have, could be taken away from us. I’m not sure why that means that “women could never be truly equal to men”. And I’m still confused what that means. If women currently have all the same political rights in the west as man, in what way aren’t we e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:33 PM
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Women did during the world wars tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:28 PM
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Maybe start shaming top men for having a harm and control there sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:26 PM
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So they’re getting raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:19 PM
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Society “forces” you to choose a job. Men are completely voluntarily. Its interesting because as far as I know there isn’t even a shortage in jobs like that. But many countries have a shortage of teachers and nurses.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:17 PM
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The title of the post is that “men and women can never truly be equal”, whatever that supposed to mean. And you seems to defend it by saying that women could never have equal rights without the help of men. Okay and how is that different from any other group? Gay people could never have equal rights without straight people. Ethnic minorities could never have equal rights without white etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:15 PM
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Who is forcing men to do those jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:12 PM
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Men keep women completely isolated from each other what makes it extremely difficult for conscious raising and organising. Men have also convinced women of their own inferiority. In large part due to religion. And again this isn’t unique for women, they’re were black people during slavery who were “content” being slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:09 PM
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And how is this different from any other civil rights movements? The end of segregation in the US, apartheid in SA and slavery would not have been possible without the help of white people. Black people are also a protected class in the US if I’m not mistaken, does that mean that black people can never be truly equal to white people either?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:05 PM
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And how is this different from any other rights? Do you think that freedom of expression, etc are just given? Many states are becoming more authoritarian as we speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:56 PM
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Could black and white people never be equal because white people “gave” rights to black people? The civil rights movement, the end of slavery and apartheid in SA could never have happened without the help of white people. Human rights in general are extremely fragile and it’s not because we live in a democracy today that it will always be a democracy. Many states all over the world are becoming more authoritarian as we speak. No right is a given and I’m confused why you think women’s right are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:53 PM
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Having hookups didn’t satisfy my desire whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:33 PM
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Women might have an easy time getting sex, but it is actually difficult for women to have enjoyable sex. It’s “easy” for women to have sex when they have zero standards. But, newsflash, just being fucked by someone who doesn’t care about your satisfaction or safety doesn’t actually feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:31 PM
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Im not sure what you mean by “gettable” but if you mean that sex with men is often disappointing, than I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:08 PM
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Depends. Is he my type (just because he’s hot doesn’t mean I will find him attractive)? Do I like him? Is he attracted to me? Does he like me? Because I don’t want to sleep with a man who just want to get laid but doesn’t actually find me attractive. Is he actually good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:05 PM
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It’s not about being fair or not. You (and a lot of men on this sub) seem to have two sets of rules, one for women and one for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:53 PM
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Men are physically stronger than us and more violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:52 PM
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Im not blaming men for women liking them. Im blaming them for their actions. Again you never explain why it’s okay for men to be selfish and take all the women for themselves. But it’s not okay for women to be selfish and only sleep with the men they desire? Top men could decide to only sleep with one women and leave more women for the less desirable men, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:43 PM
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I never said those men were forcing those women. But the consequences of there action leaves a lot of men single. They could chose to just sleep with one woman. But it’s perfectly okay for men to behave like this and not care how this affect other men. But it is an issue for women to all go for the top % of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:39 PM
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The way we think about sex is very male oriented. So women just accept as normal. Its expected for a women to give oral, for men it’s an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:36 PM
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There just “perform” to get themselves off lol and most women (esp younger ones) do give oral. How would you even know that a majority of women aren’t good at giving bjs lol? At least they’re doing something. It’s not uncommon for men to pressure their gf, or whoever they have sex with, to pressure into certain sex acts they don’t want to do like anal or bjs. Or just in general push women for sex when she doesn’t really want to. And then they are surprised that a woman acts like a starfish. I ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:33 PM
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So in one comment you say that altruistic or selfish doesn’t mean good or bad and in an other you say that women not being altruistic is a problem? And again, top men taking all the women are also not altruistic. I’m pretty sure they are a aware that the lower rank men are not getting any and they still prefer to have their haram. And no I don’t think women should be forced to be with men they don’t design, because I don’t think any of this is a problem to begin with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:27 PM
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You brought up being altruistic and it’s seems from your last comment that women not being altruistic is an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:15 PM
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How many women give bj vs how many men perform oral? Most of the time sex ends when the men reaches an orgasm regardless of the women has had one. I’m also wondering what it is that you even want women to do in order to not be a starfish. Act like your favourite porn star? I think if a woman genuinely acts like a starfish she either doesn’t want to have sex or isn’t comfortable enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:13 PM
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So when men follow their biology there not selfish lol. Then I guess women being hypergamous isn’t selfish either since it’s in their biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:09 PM
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Why are you guys acting like women don’t do any labor? Women have always worked, paid or unpaid. What’s the idea, women lay on their backs the whole time being fucked?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:08 PM
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Before you actually had sex with someone, you can’t really know if their good at it or not. Also I was young and inexperienced so I didn’t really know what was normal or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:04 PM
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A lot of trade jobs make more money than stereotypically womens work. Also I’m not sure why a girl should be punished for the rest of her life because she had sex (possibly even raped).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:03 PM
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What do you mean other options? Like not getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:58 PM
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Are the top men altruistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:57 PM
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So hot guys are not selfish for taking all the women? Talk about male brotherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:54 PM
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The person who I replied to said that women hymens need to be checked once they’re 18, I’m just wondering what exactly would happen if they aren’t virgins anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:39 PM
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No because if some women just don’t want sex, than some men aren’t getting laid, not because women are all going for the top % of men, but because some women have no interest in sex anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:38 PM
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What time are you even talking about? The 50s? I very much doubt that there was less crime then.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:36 PM
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Just mentioning it seems to imply that women are selfish for not caring. You didn’t mention how the hot guy doesn’t seem to give a shit about the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:34 PM
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For started I actually went down on them, only one of them returned the favour. So no, I wasn’t a dead fish. And I do agree that some on the blame is on me, and the situation itself. But you would think men having a higher libido and all. And complaining about the lack of sex, that they would make sex a more enjoyable experience for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:31 PM
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I’m not sure if you’re one of the pills guys but isn’t the whole theory based on the fact that all (or at least the vast majority) of women are sharing the top % of men? Interesting thing, I’ve had some attractive men approach me in real life. None of it let to sex. I sexted with one of them but nothing further. The men who I hooked up with were average at best. On top of that they were disappointing sexually as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:27 PM
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I assume that’s not really true at a dessert island. While that’s true, a lot of men seem to not even wanting to listen to their female partners. Again, maybe I just had bad experiences with men but that definitely declined my interest in sex even if I’m horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:23 PM
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You said you didn’t disagree. As far as I know, forced marriages at the age of 18 and hymens checks were never the norm in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:20 PM
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It’s more of a figure of speech. But I’m not going to go into details here lol But according to men on this sub, every women can easily score a chad. I’m wondering where my chad is tho? And is he actually going to be good at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:06 PM
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I just want to figure out your pattern of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:02 PM
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Women get horny too, that’s true. But having sex with men is often disappointing. So it’s better not to have it and not risk any diseases or unwanted pregnancies.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:01 PM
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Why should women care about those men, but not other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:59 PM
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What if that man doesn’t want to get married to that woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:58 PM
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If we are talking about an dessert island, what’s even illegal? Men are physically stronger than women, they could take advantage of that. Apparently they would also have all the resources on that island, they could take advantage of that. We all know that women love being chattel, prostitutes and live in brothels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:56 PM
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You are changing the story, are the unhappy single or are they trying to date/ dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:54 PM
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What’s going to happen when they’re not virgins anymore, you’re going to kill them? Imagine women not wanting to go back to such society.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:51 PM
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What you are describing now isn’t enforced monogamy about at least your holding men accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:49 PM
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You know what I would do for enjoyable sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:46 PM
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Do we reduce ourself or do men reduce us?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:38 PM
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And a men alone is not going to die in the desert island. And also, are you implying that those women aren’t having sex for pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:32 PM
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I love that it’s okay for you to not get married (or at least divorce) but at the same time we need to enforce monogamy so women aren’t worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:31 PM
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Regardless they are single and it doesn’t mean that most women are dating the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:23 PM
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What projection? I’m a woman saying what I would prefer when it comes to sex. Also ofc increasing your looks is going to help you get laid, especially because you can’t tell by someone looks if they’re good at sex or not. But if you want someone around to have sex with, than that would be my advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:21 PM
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You and many other men on this sub seem to think that women only want to have sex with extremely attractive. And while I appreciate your advice for men to take care of themselves, I think it’s interesting that you haven’t mentioned actual skill to make sex pleasurable for the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:07 PM
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I never said that only attractive men are selfish, a lot of men are selfish when it comes to sex. It’s funny to me when men complain about the lack of sex, both the single ones and the married ones in a dead bedroom situation. You ever thought about making sex more enjoyable for your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:01 PM
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Have you even entertained the thought that just more women are happy single?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:43 PM
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Why is you’re focus solely on becoming physically attractive. I would much rather have sex when an average looking dude, who’s actually good, than an attractive man that is extremely selfish and doesn’t care about my satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:41 PM
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Who’s says all the women even want to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:35 PM
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So if women stopped casually having sex with attractive men, we wouldn’t need police or prisons anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:27 AM
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So if women stopped sleeping with attractive men, we wouldn’t need the police or prisons anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 10:26 AM
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Thats still extremely vague. Protection from what? And who’s offering that protection now, the police?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 09:54 AM
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But again, what does that say about the women who do watch lesbian porn? Why would they be straight? Even if a lot of lesbian women don’t enjoy lesbian porn, that doesn’t mean some don’t. And sadly, with this generation of young people (bout boys and girls), they might actually think that is what lesbian sex looks like since they have watched porn (long) before they’ve had actual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:30 AM
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I get that but personally when I was still watching porn, I found lesbian porn extremely boring. So I do think for women who enjoy lesbian porn, they have to be bisexual at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:50 AM
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Why would straight women watch lesbian porn then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:30 AM
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What other things?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:29 AM
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Let’s assume that there were 8 categories in that study, only 13% (all the other around 12,5%) of women have to watch lesbian porn in order for that the be the ”most watched” cagotery. Also aren’t all of the other categories straight porn? So regardless, the majority of women are still watching straight porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:55 PM
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Let’s assume that there were 8 categories in that study, only 13% (all the other around 12,5%) of women have to watch lesbian porn in order for that the be the ”most watched” cagotery. Also aren’t all of the other categories straight porn? So regardless, the majority of women are still watching straight porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:48 PM
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I bet you also have an issue with child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:33 PM
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Because they still constantly obsess over women. If they were actually going their own way and paid no attention to women, that would be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:30 PM
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Im socially awkward woman as well and I tried online dating. And let me tell you something, those dates were awkward af. So for me personally I can’t see online dating ever working.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:27 PM
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I can’t speak for the average woman, but online dating hasn’t worked for me and I think it’s unlikely to work for me in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 08:15 PM
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What woman wants to date a man whore with no standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:07 PM
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The whole marriage was toxic. Jada never wanted to marry Will, but he handled her mother pressured. When she became pregnant, she gave in.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:59 PM
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Sex with a random person doesn’t generally feel good for a woman. She needs an emotional connection, feel comfortable with someone. For men, it’s much easier to enjoy sex with someone they barely know or not even like. And like you mentioned, there are a lot more risk for women too, pregnancy, sti, (sexual) assault and a bigger social stigma against it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:39 PM
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Are you under the impression that sex and dating are a human right? Do you think you will die without it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:34 PM
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Im not sure how any of what you mentioned would make life more fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:32 PM
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Is every single women you know dating assholes? Is every man (male friends, coworkers, male family members) you know that’s in a relationship, an asshole? You should just be a decent person for the sake of being a decent person. And just being nice will not be enough. I consider myself to be a nice person and I always struggled with making friends. It’s the same thing, being nice alone, doesn’t mean people want to be in a relationship with you or be friends with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:10 PM
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A lot of women definitely don’t have body counts going into the double digit by the time their 21 lol. I don’t think women should be warned about hookups because men don’t like it, they should be warned that it’s actually not that enjoyable to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:47 AM
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Wow imagine women wanting to have sex with attractive men, groundbreaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 07:38 AM
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There is a big difference between hooking up with an average looking guy vs hooking up with an ugly homeless dude lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:37 AM
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Doesn’t this go against the whole theory that any women can sleep with any hot guy (but she can’t make him commit)?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 05:15 AM
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Are you going to tell me there aren’t things in your life that you regret, that there aren’t things in your life that you wish you’ve done differently? We all make mistakes and it’s impossible to go back in time and change them. The only thing we can do is learn from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:43 AM
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The people I hooked up with weren’t highly sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:40 AM
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Doesn’t this go against the whole theory that every women can sleep with a “chad”?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:39 AM
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No but I don’t think that’s true. The one guy who I sexted for a little bit, I actually was open to hookup with him but he didn’t want to (he might have been in a relationship). The other guy I wouldn’t want to sleep on the first date because I feel like potentially we could be in a relationship. The first guy i wouldn’t be able to trust and wasn’t serious. I agree that most women need an emotional connection to enjoy sex. I don’t agree that they heavily value looks for hookups.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:28 PM
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Just hookups or guys they had a crush on? because very often they guy they’re crushing on, I don’t find them attractive at all. This has been true for multiple of my friends. There are only two guys in my life that I would consider to be “chads”. One of them I sexted with a little bit, but nothing happened. And the other approached me once at a party (we went to the same elementary school), but again nothing happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:52 PM
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Okay then none of them were chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:43 PM
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Yeah that’s my opinion on oral sex regardless if he had done oral with his ex gfs or not. Because I’m not obsessed with what my current partner has or has not done with his previous partners. You’re comparing having had hookup with being a drug user or a pornstars?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:13 PM
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But she wasn’t tho. She was inexperienced and didn’t knew what she wanted/ what she liked. As long as he doesn’t expect me to give him oral, it’s fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:06 PM
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No one said anything about “earning it” before you did. Imagine a woman who learned through experience that she actually doesn’t enjoy hookups and can only enjoy sex with men she has a connection with. What exactly is she supposed to do? It has nothing to do with “earning it” and everything to do with the woman having to be comfortable with you in order to enjoy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:56 PM
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Do you view sex as something you earn or as a mutually enjoyable activity? If a man doesn’t feel comfortable with giving me oral sex I would respect that. My assumption would just be that he had a bad experience with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:52 PM
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So basically you want her to have sex with you even if she’s not going to enjoy herself. You sound like a great guy. Those women are really missing out on something. So if she was in a physically abusive relationship, you should also have right to beat her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:49 PM
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For thinking it’s a personal attack on them when a woman doesn’t want to sleep with them on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:40 PM
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The thing I tried to explain for the 1000th time the reason why she doesn’t want to have sex with you on the first date has nothing to do with you or how you look. She can not enjoy sex with someone she doesn’t have a connection with. And why do you define her “best” as that? Also it’s kinda sad that you value your own life so little and the only reason why you even exist seems to be the chance of having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:38 PM
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Why is her best defined by her sleeping on the first date? And you clearly see sex as a reward for the amount of “work” you put into a relationship instead of it being a mutually enjoyable thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:23 PM
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Imaging thinking a woman who wants to wait for sex until she’s comfortable with you as a personal attack. This is why I called you emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:19 PM
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It’s not a double standard? People can’t learn from previous mistakes? And for that time and effort you are getting a relationship lol you guys making it sound like the only reason you even want a relationship is because of the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:05 PM
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If the relationship is the goal and you are getting that, and the men she had hookups with didn’t get a relationship, than how are you paying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 02:01 PM
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And he had an affair with a pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:58 PM
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Do you view being in an committed relationship as “payment” and sex as a reward of being a good boy? What if a woman through experience learned that she actually doesn’t like sex unless she has an actual connection with the guy. What is she supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:55 PM
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But you can also view women having a lower libido as them being biological superior anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:52 PM
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I do think it’s sad that some women see sex as a reward to be given to men instead of a mutually enjoyable experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:48 PM
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“Husband material” the horror.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:42 PM
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Did she actually say that you need to work for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:38 PM
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For me neither.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:33 PM
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What if a woman learned from experience that she doesn’t actually like hookups and can only enjoy sex with a man she has an actual connection with, what exactly is she supposed to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:31 PM
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I never said I wasn’t attracted to them (I would never have sex with a man I don’t find sexually attractive). But I think “objectively” speaking they weren’t that good looking. This is my problem with the whole “chad” discourse. How attractive does a man need to be before being considered a “chad”. Does he also need to have other preferable characteristics, like being wealthy and/ or great social skills? It’s such a vague term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:28 PM
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Are you telling me that men never cry? Even when they’re alone? I find this very hard to believe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:01 PM
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What kind of feminist are saying that about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:59 PM
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I can’t speak for other women, but the men I hooked up with really weren’t that attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:57 PM
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And they call women emotional…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 12:55 PM
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Women are less violent, more empathetic, better communicators, live longer, are more flexible, generally have better immune systems and create human live.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 06:03 PM
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Does this have anything to do with feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:43 PM
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But you’re forgetting that women also face more risks, both socially and biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 05:23 PM
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I have never in my whole life heard any women say they want a men of a certain height. Taller then them, yes. But never “he needs to be taller than 1m80”. Many women, myself included don’t even want a man that is towering over us.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:37 PM
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The point is that men don’t even know how big (or small) a D cup is. Generally speaking, people think a D cup is big, but if you are skinny, your breasts don’t have to be that big before they’re considered a D cup. Most men aren’t aware of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:30 AM
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I think it’s just a niche group of women who find him very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:41 PM
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But I don’t think most men are aware that actual cup sizes are relative tho. Someone else in this comment section mentioned how the average cup size is 34D.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:40 PM
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Im sorry I ment to say how can any woman even know her own cup size. Like if a man says he prefers a D cup, what does this even mean if he’s not even talking about how actual bra sizes?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 09:08 PM
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I have some friends who are both overweight (maybe even obese) and they are also pretty shy so that doesn’t help.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:57 PM
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Were large age gaps really ever the norm? What I remember from school is that in the west (unlike other cultures) extreme age gaps were never the norm. This is because men and women after a relationship would start their own families. So both of them needed to be a little bit older. While in other countries women will move in with her parents in law.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:39 PM
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I’m not sure who you think decides that value, but I got much more male attention after my glow up when I was 21, then when I was an ugly 18 yo.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 04:30 PM
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I think the point was that men don’t even know how cup sizes really work and they are relative depending on your size. You could have two women with a D cup and one of them have much bigger breast than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:57 PM
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How good any women even know her own cup size if men and women are using different metrics?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:55 PM
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I think the fact that women like tall men is actually very instinctual, because women like to feel small and protected. For the 6 foot tall guy, how many women actually say that this is an exact requirement? The first guy you mentioned is actually cute?? Just because you, I assume a heterosexual male can’t see that, doesn’t mean he isn’t. And for the other two, as far as I know they generally aren’t considered to attractive? Especially Post Malone. So idk what’s that about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 03:48 PM
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And how exactly do you know this? Also what about boys bullying girls?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 02:45 PM
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I bet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 06:14 PM
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And how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 05:55 PM
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That’s also true for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 04:05 AM
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The person I replied to literally said “it’s easy not to hang out with bullies”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:17 PM
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If those fathers want to be part in their child’s life, they can? Edit Also this has little to do with the original post that claimed women are lazy for being SHAMs??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 09:14 PM
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Isn’t what your saying contradictory? If you don’t have to hang out with bullies, how were you the victim of bullying? I’ve been bullied by both girls and boys when I was younger, you can’t really avoid them when they are in the same class as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:56 PM
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But paying for child support isn’t the same thing being a father and helping to actually raising a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:33 PM
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Yes that seems to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 05:29 PM
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2 of those videos don’t prove anything and the other one asks if the woman wants to trade places with her. She ends up not answering. But that’s not the original “joke”.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:40 PM
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There were always boys who were severely bullied by other boys. For some reason they don’t develop a hatred against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:36 PM
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Also this whole discourse abour Lizzo being beautiful or not is just dumb. I can still appreciate her for her music wether I find her attractive or not is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 04:00 PM
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The thing is that I don’t necessarily find Lizzo attractive. I’m not part of the “oh Lizzo is so beautiful” crowd. But she does actually has a pretty face and I like her makeup style. My main point is that men pretend like this is something that has actually happened and I very much question it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:53 PM
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Yeah same. I’ve seen this posted a lot but without any evidence that this actually happened even once. And same, I would think it’s weird that someone thinks I look like her because I really don’t look like Lizzo at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:40 PM
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Is this something that actually happened? I see this a lot, but I never seen any proof of any women reacting like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:38 PM
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What’s toxic femininity?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:33 PM
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It’s interesting because Ive seen your reaction a lot from women who’ve been bullied by other women. But it’s much rarer for a man who has been bullied by other men to distrust men as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:33 PM
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I don’t know where you think that is, but it’s definitely not on Reddit lol. Also the whole SHAM seems to be very romanised lately. And it seems that more men want a SHAM than women wanting to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 03:31 PM
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Maybe it depends on where you live? When I didn’t shave, my mother commented on it. There was a model where received death threats for not shaving her armpits. I saw a video of someone who said they wouldn’t hire a woman if she didn’t shave her legs, I remember the boys in my highschool saying that they would make fun for women not shaving their body hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:51 AM
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So if men didn’t have a sexual interest in women, they would just be rude to us? You know what I find interesting, is that this is often implied but doesn’t explain why gay men (I know this is a little bit of a stereotype but seems to be true) tend to have female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:40 AM
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I already hate walking on dates, let alone jogging lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:35 AM
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What do you mean be a man who takes care of you? Aren’t you not taking more care of him? I mean you would do all/ most of the cooking and cleaning and stuff. It’s not just about abuse. What if he leaves you, what if he days or becomes very sick he can’t work anymore. What if you just aren’t in love anymore and get annoyed by his presents.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:05 AM
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Why would you think that women would be attracted to someone purely because they are “nice”? How do you even define being an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:01 AM
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I never said anything about criminalizing it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 06:54 AM
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Idk I just don’t like his glasses and his hairstyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 03:40 PM
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Many women/ feminist have been critical of the stay at home mother/ wives model.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 03:41 PM
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It depends on your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 07:27 AM
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Personally I don’t think physically looks attractive, but I would definitely want a husbands who is that helpful around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:38 PM
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Get in a relationship with a woman who makes more money than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:29 AM
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Isn’t that the whole point of “pump n dump” to deceive? Aren’t they otherwise just fwb? And I think the way he describe serial monogamy doesn’t really exist in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:24 AM
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The difference is the intent. Pump n dump situation, the man never had the intention to get into a relationship with the woman he’s sleeping with. And he’s deceiving the the woman. While for serial monogamy, I’m pretty sure in most cases, there was an intent for the relationship to be longer. But it just didn’t work out. No one is being deceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 09:02 AM
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What if she doesn’t want to get married? What if she’s a lesbian?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 07:14 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:41 AM
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Two for women: not if you’re fine with not having biological children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:26 AM
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But Reddit is majority male. So allowing those kinds of opinions would probably mean that they soon get overtaken by them. I don’t think the point of those subs was ever to debate, but to share opinions between already like minded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:47 PM
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How are most of them antitrans? I’ve been banned from multiple feminists subreddits because of being critical of the trans movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:41 PM
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Because you are not for child sex robots, but those people aren’t hurting real children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 08:23 AM
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Because they’re not hurting real children.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 07:16 AM
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Wait he didn’t want his wife sleeping with other men? Isn’t that the whole point of having an open marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:55 PM
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That’s really not the point of this post. Do you believe pedophiles should be allowed to have child sex robots?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:16 PM
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So you’re fine with child sex robots then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:15 PM
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It’s really not tho. I’m from a country that doesn’t have a “war on drugs” but because of the relatively recent increase of cocaine use and other drugs, we see an increase of drug violence as well. See this what I really hate. You can’t take away the responsibility of people buying the drugs. I’ve been in situations where someone has offered me drugs and I was always capable of saying no. That’s actually an other reason why I wouldn’t want to be with someone who does drugs. I wouldn’t even reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:13 PM
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An addiction could always get worse right? That’s the thing I would worry about. Even if he kinda has it under control now, doesn’t mean that will be true in the future. Also it’s just bad for his health. I don’t want to build a life with another person who I knew most likely isn’t going to become that old. Also if your planning to have children, that is very obviously a bad example. And for the ex-boyfriend, I’m afraid if you were an addict once, you are more likely to become addicted again. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 08:07 PM
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That’s a good question. I don’t think I could date an addict. Maybe I might give him one chance, but if he slips up, we would break up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 06:48 PM
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This has nothing to do with the original argument? But admit it, it’s a little bit sad and funny that men will program a robot in telling he’s funny and strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:33 PM
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The men that I replied to said that men don’t want robots that look indistinguishable from real women and don’t have the capability to talk. From the post that I’ve seen they specifically want sex bots (ofc extremely attractive look ones) that are indistinguishable from real women who have some kind of AI that gives them the capability to talk. This post is specifically for those people. Yeah sure there would probably some men who are into bestiality and what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:31 PM
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Lets change psychopaths, with men who have violent sexual fantasies, beter?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:25 PM
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You say it will never talk, some men specifically want to have a sex robot with AI and so it can offer some human kind companionship. It’s not because you don’t want it, that no men wants that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:21 PM
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Argue with the men who want sex robots that are indistinguishable from real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:07 PM
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No I agree with what you’re saying. The arguments pro sex robots aren’t arguments I believe in. It’s that i have seen other people make them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:04 PM
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Are there any studies you can link about decriminalisating prostitution leads to less rape, because I heard it’s the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:02 PM
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But there would be a market for it? It’s just that companies don’t want the sell them because it’s socially unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:59 PM
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Does it matter if they are mass produced, they exist. And I’m sure child sex robots will exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:32 PM
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There are already child sex dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:26 PM
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What about the market for child sex robots?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:56 PM
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I agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:52 PM
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I agree with that. But I believe you can make very similar arguments against female sex robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:40 PM
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Yes I agree, I don’t think this will solve women being abused at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:34 PM
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Again, it seems like a lot of people misunderstand my post. I don’t necessarily think there are a lot of Jeffrey dahmers. My post was more targeted towards people who do make the argument that having female sex robots as an outlet for violent men, is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:33 PM
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You say this, but I literally seen post that make the argument that it would be beneficial that men with violent sexual fantasies can have a female sex robot to abuse, instead of abusing a real women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:25 PM
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It’s because those posts never include male sex robots.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:20 PM
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I’m not a native English speaker and a lot of terms in your post I don’t really understand. What’s NA and what does “honey trapping pdfs” have to do with anything. And I agree, I don’t think the majority of people would be for child sex robots. It’s just that the arguments why female sex robots should exist, could be just as easily made for why pedophiles should get child sex robots. Since those pedophiles aren’t hurting real children. And no I was never sexually abused as a child. Which I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:18 PM
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The argument that it would be beneficial for psychopaths to have sex robots, isn’t mine argument, it’s the argument of pro sex robot people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:00 PM
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What does “as for male bots idc tbh” mean? So basically all kinds of sex robots, male, female and child, should be allowed to exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:57 AM
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There might be some men who have violent sexual fantasies, without actually acting on it. On top of that, the fact that rape and sexual abuse is illegal, will still stop some men from acting on their fantasies.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:50 AM
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Child sex dolls already exist (not sure if they’re legal or not). There are some people who believe child’s pornography that is already made, should be legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:47 AM
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But again, no actual child would be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:40 AM
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If there is nothing morally/ ethically wrong with abusing female sex robots and its even a good thing because in that way, psychopaths have an outlet without hurting actual women, then why would it be ethical/ morally wrong for pedophiles to have sex with child sex bots?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:38 AM
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I found both those movies extremely boring. Why is that a redflag?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:34 AM
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I am a woman? Look at my edit. I’m just wondering why you think pedophiles shouldn’t have child sex robots (that wouldn’t hurt actual children), but male psychopaths should have female sex robots to abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:29 AM
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Why not children?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 11:11 AM
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And that’s very naive of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:51 AM
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How could you leave at any time? There is still a stigma against prostitution. Which I believe will always exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:31 AM
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Wow yes an 18 girls who’s sleeping with a 50 yo man has so much power.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:22 AM
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But is it better for women? You talk about “society”, women make up 50% of society.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:34 AM
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You mean the best she has treated them sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 11:46 PM
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Are from a country where it’s legal? I would agree that even for the people who want the legalise prostitution, there doesn’t seem to be much thought of it afterwards. What I meant to say is that, if something doesn’t become illegal anymore, without regulation, that sounds more to decriminalisation. Which is actually some pro sex work people are for instead of legalising.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 10:56 PM
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Isn’t that just decriminalisation? Aren’t those women supposed to get tested every so often in countries where it’s legal (or at least that’s an argument that I hear), how wouldn’t that make it safer for the client. I’m not even sure what improvements you’re taking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:48 PM
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But that’s not making it fully legal. There are (sadly) a lot of pro “sex work” feminists who do want to make it fully legal. Who are often much more well known. I’m not sure how under they’re model it wouldn’t be better for the clients?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:41 PM
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No, the goal is the abolish prostitution. It is not to destigmatise it or normalise it. The means how they do that is by making selling of sex legal but buying illegal. Getting rid of demand so there will be no supply. So that a woman in prostitution can still go to the cops if needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:37 PM
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Im for that. But the whole point of the Nordic model is to abolish prostitution. Those are not the same people saying “sex work is work”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:31 PM
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Doesn’t legalization imply regulation? Isn’t that a big argument why it should be legal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:15 PM
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I think they do that as pimps, not out of the best interest for those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:14 PM
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Let me be very clear, I’m against prostitution and don’t actually want it to be legalized. But how wouldn’t legalizing also not improve the conditions for the client?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 03:00 PM
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It might be behind the scenes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:59 PM
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There are male feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:58 PM
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It’s already happening tho. What do you think the whole “sex work is work” movement is about?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 01:55 PM
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No I was never in that position were I had the defend my preference. Actually it was the opposite, where I thought someone was attractive, but none of my friends agreed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:41 AM
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Both? I feel people in real life don’t care about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:36 AM
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That’s something that happened IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 05:25 AM
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And a prostitute doesn’t do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 08:24 PM
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It’s not that there are never solutions, but venting itself just feels good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:05 PM
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Talking about your problems might not necessarily solve them, but for me, it does make me feel better. It’s not really healthy to keep everything for yourself. You could also go to a therapist if you feel like there is no one you can trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 04:05 PM
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OP is the one who started to talk about military men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:18 PM
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At least from what I’ve seen online, the main reason why more men kill themselves is because “men aren’t allowed to cry” and they don’t have any emotional support.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 03:17 PM
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You said women today don’t need men anymore for security. So I assume in the past they did? So they would be fine with military men in the past. But if a man is gone for long periods of time, how could he offer security anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 11:30 AM
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Yeah I was thinking the same thing. They want to be able to hook up, but you also risk diseases then and I’m pretty sure they’re fine with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 07:10 AM
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Isn’t this the supposed to be the reason more men kill themselves? They keep all there emotions to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:35 AM
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Yeah but there’s a big difference between getting attention from the guy you like vs a creep on the street
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:28 AM
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How could you offer security if you’re not even at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:25 AM
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Okay and women you pay for sex are also indistinguishable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:04 AM
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Isn’t a big part, at least for incels, that they want to be desired? Is that not the reason they don’t want to pay for sex? I’m not sure how a robot can make you feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 10:21 PM
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It’s almost everyday that I see a post about sex robots on Reddit. I genuinely can’t get this obsession. If you want sex that but with something human like, you could also pay a prostitute. There are also some very realistic sex dolls, but for some reason it’s not something that every men seems to have or either want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 09:36 PM
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From my own environment, most women aren’t interested in women significant older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:23 PM
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Ikr, how their women think they’re important in their own lives??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:27 AM
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Just because you enjoy casual sex, doesn’t mean you post thirst traps on instagram or vice versa. Like women who post that type of stuff, they do that for the attention. Doesn’t mean she’s sleeping with a bunch of guys. And in order for have casual sex, it’s not necessarily at all to post such pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:22 AM
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My favourite Disney movie as a little child was The Fox and the Hound. I would watch that movie sometime 2 times in a row. I didn’t care for Disney movies where the women were really passive like Snow White or Cinderella. I really liked Mulan. And I could not watch the Lion King because it made me cry. I really question how much Disney movies could have an impact on you as a person. Also, isn’t everyone the main character in their own life??
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 08:19 AM
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Important 8, 16, 20, 22, 1, 2, 11 Don’t care about 4, 19, 10, 24, 5 And for 18, I’m pretty shy myself but I like guys who are talkative
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:39 AM
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But masculinity and femininity are just social constructed idea how men and women are supposed to be have, that in itself is toxic (whether the actual behavior or toxic or not). Like bravery is associated with men and empathy with women. Those are both good traits, but why shouldn’t men be empathetic and women brave?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 08:01 PM
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And how would that be different from regular masculinity? I would argue that the construct of masculinity and femininity itself is toxic. And so there is no need for the term toxic femininity or toxic masculinity. Like gender roles and upholding gender roles itself is toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:34 PM
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I meant to say what’s toxic masculinity. Like is it men who don’t cry or is it other people telling men not to cry? Because I would think toxic masculinity is behavior done by men. So saying “men don’t cry” can’t really be toxic masculinity since it can just as easily be said by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:22 PM
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And what exactly is the toxic male behavior? Is it not crying or telling men not to cry?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 07:09 PM
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I assume if a man sticks around for 90 days he actually cares for you. And I assume you both are in love with each other. Than why not help him improve?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:52 PM
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Your post is a bunch of pseudo science. And what your describing I would still not call toxic. I mean it’s not good or respectable but I’m not sure if I call it toxic. Also i woman not asking out a man on a date is not comparable of a mother who does nothing while her children are being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:41 PM
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And how is “men don’t cry” toxic masculinity? I mean women could bully men as well for not being masculine, are they then portraying toxic masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:35 PM
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Just because someone isn’t good the first time you have sex, doesn’t mean he can’t improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:31 PM
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Yeah no I get that. And yeah I think so too. Waiting until you both comfortable with each other and the built up to it, makes sex better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 05:29 PM
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25/female/single and even though I probably disagree with most of your world view, but agree with the 90 day rule. Not sure if it has to be exactly 90 days but I think it’s a good idea to wait before you have sex before you want a serious relationship. And I already said it numerous times that I don’t think women enjoy hookups all that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 04:41 PM
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Well yeah I don’t think anyone should be shamed for having sex outside a relationship. But I question the idea that women enjoy hookups all that much. And to answer your question again why I tried it. How could I know I wouldn’t enjoy it before trying it? Logically it makes sense, I’m horny & curious about sex, so you find an other consent adult to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:38 PM
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I guess that depends on how you define “enjoying sex just as much”. Women can definitely enjoy sex. But we do have a harder time orgasm and it’s more difficult to enjoys sex with a stranger. Also women’s libido on average isn’t that high. So no I don’t think they enjoy sex just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:23 PM
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The liberal media. No idk but I remember hearing that women and men enjoy sex just as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 03:05 PM
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No it’s because I thought I was going to enjoy it. That’s what the media/ culture tells you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:55 PM
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I tried it because I thought it was going to be enjoyable and then I stoppen because it wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 02:07 PM
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If I knew to people who were single and looking for a relationship and I thought to would fit well together, I wouldn’t find it strange to set them up together.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:23 AM
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My main point was that neither toxic femininity or toxic masculinity exist. There are just toxic personality traits both men and women can have. Also it’s insane you think being passive is the same as being toxic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:17 AM
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You think a man who beats his wife is in control of his emotions? You think men are never manipulative or controlling without being aggressive? Neither toxic femininity or masculine is real. There are just toxic personality traits that both men and women can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 10:05 AM
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Never read something more true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/24 06:37 AM
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Yes I know, I’m one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 01:36 PM
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What are you talking about? Porn has never been more normalised than today. But Spain might be the exception, because what I see from most western feminists, is not attacking things like porn. Instead they are claiming that porn, prostitution and hooking up is “empowering” towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 11:40 AM
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I don’t know if it ever backfired for me, but I might got what I wanted regardless of me flirting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:06 AM
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Can happen to the best of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:26 AM
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I don’t know what that means. I just know that if your going to test everyone without any reason to believe that they’re not the father, a number of those will be false negatives. It’s the same thing if you would test a bunch of people for aids when you have no reason to suspect they have aids. Some of those will be false positives. So you end up worrying people for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:10 AM
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Yeah that’s probably it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:02 AM
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What do you mean be stability? As in the survival of the human race? Because if so, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:43 PM
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Do most overweight women have a high body count? Or is that something you just made up?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:40 PM
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Is that the worse thing that can happen to men? Their blood line dying out?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:36 PM
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What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:13 PM
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I think so, not sure if it worked tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 11:01 PM
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Oh that’s a great idea!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:58 PM
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If you have no reason to believe your child isn’t yours, aren’t you worried about all the false positives?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 10:54 PM
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Is this person a friend of yours? She might just want to be supportive of you. If send that emoji to people before, didn’t mean I was in love with them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:39 PM
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The problem is that if you eat little a day, your body get used to it and doesn’t get hungry often. If I force myself to eat 3 times a day, I’m will get more hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 12:46 PM
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That’s not very traditional of them either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:10 AM
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Uhm interesting. I never heard of this. Maybe it’s because they’re worried the more attractive woman will cheat on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 06:09 AM
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Yes because internet porn has always existed and men died before it lol. There is already a black market and huge amount of trafficking and abuse because of porn. You’re right that you can’t just ban it. People need to understand why it needs to be banned. The least why can do is make it a lot harder for children to access porn (don’t have it on social media platforms) and also make it socially unacceptable to watch it and warn people of the danglers of porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:02 AM
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What?? If im a woman and I enjoy sex and I find a man who wants to have sex with me, what’s wrong with that? Edit And no one is forcing you to date anyone you don’t want. Doesn’t mean that you should be rude either.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:30 PM
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That still doesn’t explain why it would be morally wrong for a woman to have a lot of sex but not for men. Or why women need to be called sluts or other slurs for enjoying sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:19 PM
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This happened to me. Two guys didn’t want to have sex with me, because I was still a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:56 PM
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That’s a good point! I also never understood the lock and key analogy. I mean if I enjoy sex, what’s wrong with me finding someone who wants to have sex with me? The analogy doesn’t make much sense because they aren’t talking about the sex, but about whatever you need to do to get the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:21 PM
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I know. My point is more that, just because you’re skinny, doesn’t mean you are healthy or take good care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:07 PM
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What’s fun about having sex with someone that hate you tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:57 PM
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But fat acceptance doesn’t mean everyone is obligated to data a fat woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:12 PM
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Im almost a 100% you misunderstood them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:01 PM
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Why would that be a rare hypothetical?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 07:00 PM
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That’s still doesn’t mean that being shy means you have a bad personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:04 PM
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So again, there doesn’t exist a 1% for women? Because things like youth and virginity are things that all women have at one point and will lose at one point. Why is it her duty to utilise them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:03 PM
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Do you already have children with your current wife, so yes, do you really need to have children again with your new wife? Lets say your already 50, do you really want to be a young father again? I mean is a relationship for you just someone you can procreate with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:59 PM
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Yes even if I didn’t have a fear, I’m probably not going to be interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:48 PM
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Easy 6. I’m not sure if it would fix dating, but it would be better for society.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:46 PM
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So basically a top 1% for woman doesn’t exist. Because things like youth, attraction and virginity are all things you will lose one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:43 PM
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Never heard it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:41 PM
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A woman rejecting a man for his height, is just rejecting him because she doesn’t find him attractive. The same can be said about a man rejecting a woman because she’s fat. It’s not deeper than that. I do think it’s interesting that men will always bring up the “negative” traits everytime we’re discussing this. I’m naturally skinny and probably don’t eat enough (even though I’m not underweight and don’t look as such). And I actually think this is causing me some health issues as well. But almost…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 05:38 PM
1

So basically a top 1% of woman doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:51 PM
1

Nog according to the question OP asks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:34 PM
1

My point is that MEN get to decide what value they find important in women, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:23 PM
4

I mean when men have the choice, the do seem to prefer younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:22 PM
1

Ikr
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:52 PM
-1

And then they say women are to picky and have extreme standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:29 PM
6

Personally I think it’s both. I think men generally have a preference for dating someone who’s younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 02:27 PM
2

A little bit lol. But I think it’s because I’m still studying. And I think for most people, when your in your 20s, it’s hard to guess someone age.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:59 PM
3

Personally I don’t really care much about age. I’ve been interested in guys younger, older and the same age as me. When I was 21, I had feelings for this guy who was only 18. Until then, I thought I could only be with someone my own age or older. I even remember making fun of this girl in highschool because her bf was 2 years younger than her. But the heart wants what the heart wants. I did feel kinda weird about it tho. Even though it was only 3 years, he was still in highschool and I would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 01:44 PM
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Did I say that? My point is that men get to decide what is a 1% women, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:39 AM
3

Isn’t it up to those men to decide what standards they have? If a woman finds a man like your describing, does it matter what’s she “brings to the table”? The important is that he values her right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 06:21 AM
1

Do people say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 11:10 PM
1

Than be alone if you think all women are unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:06 PM
1

Men could definitely reciprocate our pickiness if they wanted to? No one is forcing them to be in relationships with women they don’t like. It’s just that men are more desperate for relationships but especially for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:06 PM
2

Why are those men marrying those women? If you wife is that terrible why not stay single?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:02 PM
1

How is being shy & socially awkward having a dog shit personality? Shy people will open up with those they are comfortable with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:01 PM
2

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:21 PM
1

I wouldn’t have an issue with a guy asking his female friends, but my problem with some of those coaches is they they are manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 08:07 PM
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People are also complex. I can be very shy and awkward but I’ve also approached men in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 05:12 PM
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Is it our fault men don’t care about our personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 03:10 PM
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I think women care less but men are more desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:28 PM
3

Oh thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 09:27 PM
7

When I masturbate I never penetrate myself. Penetration is def not essential. But I also don’t think this was ever the debate. Also what’s digital stimulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 08:03 PM
0

When women say it’s not for male attention or for over validation from society, they are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:06 PM
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Who is telling men that women don’t care about physical attraction? And who is saying height is a non issue because women on average are taller than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 01:02 PM
3

They make a lot of contradictory statements. Like we need to find a good partner when we’re still young and marry him. Otherwise we are going to end up as a unhappy lonely cat lady. But also women are responsible for the vast majority of divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 06:40 AM
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How young are you? And you just need to be lucky. But I can ask you the same question, where is my chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 10:34 PM
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They might be cute tho. And inexperience can be somewhat an appeal for cougars.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:56 PM
0

According to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:37 PM
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Where do you get that idea from?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 09:34 PM
1

Not if she’s a cougar and he’s young.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:39 PM
5

Main thing that I learned is that a lot of men don’t seem to actually like women and the mainly want to date women who are younger than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:26 PM
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Yeah I kinda wish I never knew about the red pill either. I suspicious of all men especially if I hear the slightest red pill rethoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:25 PM
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True. That’s why saying it’s a privilege for women to have easy sex, no sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:39 PM
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What exactly do you think would’ve happened if the friend didn’t pull her friend back?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 01:51 PM
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When I was in my early 20s I want on a few dates with a guy in his late 20s. This guy was very inexperienced. But the differences in age and life stages were making my uncomfortable. Then I realized I prefer dating someone of my own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:42 AM
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Why wouldn’t she judge him? Like if I’m in my 20s I’m still living with my parents, that’s normal. But if i was dating a guy who was still living with his parents at 30s, that would raise my eyebrows. Why can’t he date a woman his own age with little to no experience or who isn’t judgemental? This just sounds like a new excuse to want to date younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:37 AM
1

And do you have some evidence for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:00 PM
1

Do they have more to offer to a low value men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:22 PM
0

You seem very full of your self. My assumption would be that most casual sex takes place in college. How does you having been in college disprove that? And how could college guys, who most likely still live with their parents and don’t have a job, be the “finished” product?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 05:15 PM
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It really isn’t. FDR who was responsible for most of the social programs in the US and was extremely popular, he even got elected 4 times. Could never have happened with just women. Imagine thinking that people should die from treatable diseases or that higher education should only be for the wealthy. But yeah reduce those things to just wanting “free shit”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 12:20 PM
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I don’t know what the NCAA is. But how could those men possibly be the “finished” product?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:07 AM
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Im glad I live in a country where people don’t go in debt for wanting a higher education or needing healthcare. Why are you acting that those are luxurious? And the US is not even close to being some kind of socialist utopia, despite women having the right to vote. On top of that, a lot of European countries are privatising more and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:06 AM
-1

You can’t seriously believe that? Doesn’t most casual sex take place in college?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:00 AM
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Wow great response. The vast majority of those women aren’t making bank. And prostitution has existed long before the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:59 PM
2

And how is that going to make men less lonely? Is the money going to actually solve the issue or not? Edit Because if you wanted to solve loneliness, which I think is a real issue (and not necessarily gender related, but who knows maybe men are somewhat more lonely than women), I would be all for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:16 PM
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What’s the purpose for this and how is this even related to dating? Also wouldn’t that incentivise people to become ugly, especially those who are already poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:11 PM
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In my country it’s not just the rich who get taxed 50%. But yes, because I want subsidised healthcare and education.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 09:00 PM
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What can or should be done against it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:49 PM
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And how would throwing away our morals be a good thing? I don’t want to live in a world we’re women are economically dependent on men. Or where divorce is either completely illegal or socially unacceptable. If the sexes are that dependent on each other why would more and more of us stay single. People can still get married if they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:55 PM
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The median income on OF is like 200 dollars or something, still I can’t open my fb without seeing an article seeing how this OF model is making like 6000 dollars a month. Feels like propaganda to me. But why do people need to get married anyway. Like I don’t really care that less people are getting married. I don’t think men and women are made for each other, and if the result is that the human race dies out, then so be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:20 PM
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Why would the alternative be more fair tho? Also the stigma against casual sex still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 07:00 PM
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The fact that people (men) where mostly marrying so they could have sex, isn’t necessary a good thing either. But I agree that porn has a net negative affect on our society. Also most women in prostitution/ porn aren’t making crazy money either. I see the normalisation of both also as a negative for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:19 PM
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Because they’re young and naive or at least that was true in my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:10 PM
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The median income from OF is like 200 dollars.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:04 PM
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Because it has nothing to do with actual inequality???
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:02 PM
2

Uhm would I rather not be able to divorce my abusive husband or no men who will commit… what a difficult choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 06:01 PM
0

What does “top tier” men even mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 05:58 PM
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Yeah those men would def not have casual sex before the sexual revolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 04:16 PM
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I think it’s good that the stigma of having sex before marriage and masturbating disappeared. But I think hookups mostly benefit men and not women. Edit When I said it doesn’t really benefit women I meant because the risk are to high and the reward (actually orgasming or even enjoying the sex) are to low.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:58 PM
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Im not the one making a post saying sex is mandatory in a relationship. Like a replied to someone else as well, you could at least try to use your hands, tongue or penis. Edit It’s not a deflection. Yes leave her, if you are not sexual compatible or if you don’t find your gf/ wives sexually attractive you shouldn’t have been with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:57 PM
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You can’t use your hands, tongue or penis for that? If you need to use a vibrator I could’ve done it on my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:17 AM
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Are you fulfilling her needs tho? Also using a vibrator is cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:16 AM
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If he needs to use a vibrator to satisfy me, I could’ve easily done without him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:13 AM
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Ofc they did buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 11:08 AM
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Me? I have not been diagnosed with autism and to be honest I don’t think I have autism (my psychologist mentioned it to me). But as you can see in my username i have AVPD in it. And even though I haven’t been diagnosed with that either, I would be very suprise that I didn’t have it. And it did very much interfere with me life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 08:02 AM
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Many women have gone years undiagnosed by actual professional, but random men will be able to tell. Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:37 AM
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I know some women who are officially diagnosed and you could not tell. Also what does masking your autism even have to do with being a manipulator? And I wasn’t talking about myself either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 01:11 AM
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I didn’t think about the fact that they might be overrepresented at places like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 12:22 AM
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Women who have autism are also generally better at masking their autism, so it makes sense they would’ve less issues with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:13 PM
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I never said they didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:43 PM
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I never got to the stage were it was a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:42 PM
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I never said they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 08:06 PM
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I guess that make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:52 PM
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This sub is for discussion everything with dating right? It was never a platform specifically to discuss autism and their struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 06:05 PM
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Like I said, I can go on dates, they just never lead to anything. Either those men were just interested in sex or it was a mutual feeling that things weren’t going to work out. But it’s definitely not true that I was rejecting men left and right who were swooning over me. And terrible dates, have a negative effect on my overall mental health, so I don’t really bother with online dating anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:52 PM
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Yeah but most of those men weren’t interested in dating ME. Going on 1 or 2 dates, that make you feel miserable after, isn’t really a blessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:48 PM
2

Why would those men die early from autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:37 PM
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I’m just curious why it seems like almost every day on here, someone makes a post about men with autism. I mean most men don’t actually have autism right? And how many options do I have? I tried online dating, didn’t work out. Tried approaching men in real life, didn’t work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:35 PM
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Fix what exactly? I never complained about the lack of men wanting to commit. I Just said that hooking with a guy a barely know isn’t really something I enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:29 PM
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First of all, it didn’t last 10 years? And again, are you under the impression that women discuss their sex life with their parents? And three, this has nothing to do with your origin point that hookup culture is addictive. There are probably a lot of women like me that tried casual sex and quickly learned it wasn’t for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:19 PM
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No I don’t. I’m a socially awkward woman (possibly autistic). Never had a serious relationship either. Life’s unfair, having good social skills makes life easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 05:14 PM
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Are you under the impression that I was talking to my parents about my hookups? And to be honest, my parents are fairly liberal and wouldn’t really have an issue with it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:54 PM
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Is that possible tho? I mean isn’t autism genetics. Than I would assume that just as many people had autism before than they have now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:51 PM
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Im genuinely curious why there are so many post about autistic men. Edit Aren’t women with autism also not better at masking their autism? It would makes sense they have an easier time with dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:43 PM
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Who would’ve warned me? Popular culture tells you there isn’t anything wrong with having sex with people you barely know.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:34 PM
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Because they’re sloppy and don’t look at the expiration date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 04:33 PM
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But you need to throw out the old food. Assume someone doesn’t really clean they probably also don’t do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:30 PM
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I took part in hookup culture, because I was young and naive. And quickly I learned that it was nothing for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:27 PM
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Yeah I never had a long term relationship, but the men I hooked up with weren’t that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 03:26 PM
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Pretty sure some people have died from not keeping their house clean. Also if you’re not sexual compatible, you shouldn’t be in a relationship anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 11:52 AM
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How does this anecdotal evidence proof that women are more creepy? Men have asked me if I had an OF account, if I wanted to make porn video with them, if I was a lesbian because they would love to have a trio, said that they would f me. And men have inappropriately touch me numerous times.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 10:27 AM
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Why does he need to date down in age? Some women are late bloomers too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 07:24 PM
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So basically I’m going to be unhappy no matter what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 03:57 AM
1

Except that those women are divorcing their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 09:09 PM
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I don’t think that ever happened. Like you said, if I already knew them prior that’s different, but not completely strange women. I have had nice talk with completely female stranger tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:16 PM
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Yeah I can tell that you don’t feel any pity for women. As a relatively young woman. I’m being told that I should use my best years to find a mate. So I don’t end up being single with 20 cats. But then I look at the divorce rate, most of them initiated by women. So why shouldn’t I spend my 20s into securing a degree, a good job, traveling with friends and what not?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:58 PM
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What problem? You seem to imply that women end up miserable if they don’t marry when they’re young. But based on divorces rates, many women aren’t happy being married either. So how can you joke or threaten women with terrible loneliness if they choose to stay single when they’re clearly not happy in marriage either?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:43 PM
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That doesn’t disprove that those women were unhappy in those marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:31 PM
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If women are so miserable being lonely and marriage is the best thing that can happen to women, we are 70% of divorces initiated by them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:22 PM
1

Yeah I don’t really believe in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:17 PM
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I think it’s everything. Most of the post I’ve seen were specifically about dating and sex. They don’t seem to care that much about not having friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:12 PM
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I mean look up “male loneliness epidemic” in this or other subs or just the internet on general. According to some people it’s a very real thing we are supposed to care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:05 PM
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I don’t believe in the lonely men epidemic either, but according to the manosphere, it does indeed exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 03:00 PM
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Then I guess all those lonely men (I mean there is a male loneliness epidemic right?), should just wait a few years and boom, the women come flocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:56 PM
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Most of them written by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:51 PM
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Because women don’t want to date old men, they end up single?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:50 PM
1

Why would it be karma? So if I help him in achieving is goals, as a reward he’s going to leave me for someone younger/ more attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:49 PM
10

According to who?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:47 PM
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Good?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:42 PM
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“Tricked them” lol Most young women just aren’t attracted to men who are significantly older than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 02:42 PM
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Im not even 100% if this guy likes me. But less say he does, my big fear would be that he would leave me once he’s more attractive and successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:56 PM
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I don’t get it? Isn’t this literally what the redpil wants? Like they want women to choose less attractive men, but who have their lives together and will make good husbands and fathers? So it’s seems like a bizar complained.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:22 PM
1

I want to “save” this guy I know, in a way to make him more successful and fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:15 PM
1

Why are you acting like this is some kind of civil right movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:06 PM
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Is anyone forcing them to do this now?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:05 PM
1

So he’s more attractive, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:06 AM
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Yeah but why do they disapprove it? I would think/ hope it’s out of concern of exploitation from those in prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 08:05 AM
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I do agree that sometimes when you are in love with someone, you don’t see red flags. And so I don’t have an issue with parents (not just the father), warning their daughter (or son) for someone who’s possible abusive. But I don’t know is how much control the father are given with the system your describing? Like others pointed out, how does my father even know who I’m compatible with. And parents aren’t immune to manipulation either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 06:09 AM
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Who says the weird quiet wouldn’t be abusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 05:52 AM
1

But an average men is more fit than an average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:58 PM
3

Even if you watch it for free, your still support the porn industry by watching it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:17 PM
3

High risk as in what than?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:11 PM
2

It might not have been your main argument but you brought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:59 PM
2

See than the statistic is completely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:01 PM
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Lets say there isn’t a higher risk in divorce for dating a porn actress. If any of those men who bring up that statistic would more likely date one anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:54 PM
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Having an OF is not illegal? And i definitely know about women who had trouble find regular work after. And I question how much a former prostitute is that much of a high risk. Do you have any evidence for that? Pls don’t make excuses. “High risk” while redpill men promote age gap relationships, intercultural marriage and dating women without a higher education. All those have a higher risk of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:31 PM
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To be honest women should. But I’m not just talking about dating. Date who ever you want for whatever reason (or not). The hate that some men have for (former) prostitutes/ porn actress goes beyond dating. It’s also difficult for women to find a regular job after prostitution. Which is unacceptable and obviously traps them in prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 03:06 PM
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Yeah like when women weren’t able to make money of their own, dating was definitely less economic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:55 PM
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But I don’t think it’s fine if other do it? If it was up to my pornography would be illegal and for prostitution we should follow the Nordic model in order to abolish it. I just don’t think women who participate/ have participated in the past in prostitution are worthless human being who should be punished for the rest of their lives. My problem is that almost all have the hate goes exclusively to the women who participate in it and almost none goes to the men. Who are at the bare minimum just a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:53 PM
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I don’t think it was completely besides the point. But you might be right, OP might have used a stronger word than he intended to. I do agree with you that I don’t think women have a very strong opinion on any of those. It’s really men who hate sex workers, not women. And just as disgusting as my son paying for OF or hookers.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:49 PM
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First of all, I’m against prostitution and pornography. Would be a little hypocritical of me to take part in it. Second I just don’t want creepy/ loser men jerking of to my naked body.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:41 PM
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Besides the point, OP is talking about what women find disgusting. If he means by that most women will find having the idea of having an OF themselves disgusting than I agree. If he means that women find other women disgusting with an OF, than I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:35 PM
3

These days?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 02:01 PM
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I agree with you that the women who get invite at such podcasts aren’t representative for everyday women. But I also don’t think they you know how the average women think? I don’t find having a OF disgusting. I mean I wouldn’t never make one myself, I don’t think it’s a good idea and I hate how normalized it become. But I don’t find women who have one disgusting? Same for being a whore? What do you mean, and actual prostitute or a woman who slept around? If the women genuinely enjoys sleeping wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:59 PM
1

Are you implying that the average men is more attractive than the average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 12:13 PM
1

That might be true, the average men still isn’t going to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:57 AM
1

What? Women are much more likely to watch what they eat or diet. And the average men isn’t going to the gym regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:49 AM
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It’s that the average women is spending much more time on her looks. Having a skin care routine, wearing some makeup, wearing nice clothes, doing more with her hair, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:45 AM
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I mean when I said economically, I meant as you use all those term coming from economics. The way you scientifically analyse the dating market, seems to be a huge simplification based on pseudo science.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:41 AM
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I want a man that I’m attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:48 AM
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I ment the become asshole because they go treated better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:14 AM
1

You said that handsome men become assholes because assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:47 AM
2

Most people aren’t rich or supermodels, now what?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:31 AM
2

What? Is dating purely economically according to you guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:24 AM
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Can’t you look around you? Is your father a doctor? What about the women in your family? The women you work with, who are they dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:55 AM
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Okay you keep thinking that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:35 AM
2

What adult enjoys texting tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:03 AM
2

But the same with be true for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:58 AM
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But when you’re just hooking up for free, you can also stop anytime you want when you realise you don’t actually enjoy it. It’s not so easy when there is a monetary incentive. Also when your hooking up, I assume it’s with a guy your own age who you find hot. While if your sugar dating it’s most likely with someone you wouldn’t give a chance otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:55 AM
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Yes all women test all men they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:51 AM
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Because they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:33 AM
1

Okay what’s going to happen with average looking men once they start getting more attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:31 AM
3

Those men seem to be very insistent and I’m not really that assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:21 AM
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Do you really want to be with someone who’s testing you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 01:14 AM
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I thought we could’ve bonded over something, but I don’t think we got anything in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 11:01 PM
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Now you lost my interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:54 PM
2

If your going to refuse everytime, than there is literally nothing I could do tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:26 PM
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For the two political stances I know from you, both of them are liberal. So idk what else I should make of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:25 PM
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I have offert men this, they refused.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:24 PM
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Im not a american either, but I can tell you are liberal tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:16 PM
1

I forgot, your probably for prostitution to. At least I could bond with conservatives/ right wingers with something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:08 PM
1

We probably have something in common, like are you transphobic?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:58 PM
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I mean at the time it wasn’t the top comment tho. I’m not leaving, what now? Like you’re also bringing this up a day later. I wasn’t responding to this anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:47 PM
1

Im sorry I misread the title. I thought you said is there an abondance of men like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:46 PM
1

I do indeed enjoy the sound of my own voice. I replied to a specific thing someone mentioned in their comment tho. This person is completely free to engage with me in that discussion or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:21 PM
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Im not allowed to comment on something someone said?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:09 PM
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Yeah ikr, it makes sense you wouldn’t spend to much money on the first dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:34 PM
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Why not split the cost in half? Or I pay for one, he pays for the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:43 PM
1

Oh too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:35 PM
1

I was going to say that not all of us can have English as a first language. But saying “it will never not be funny…” is just an expression. If it’s wrong, it’s wrong on purpose. I still think it’s funny how serious guys are talking about dating, pareto distribution lol. Where is the logical fallacy in that? It’s an opinion, I never stated otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:31 PM
1

Thanks father.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:15 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 04:23 PM
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Lol. For your information my English is better when I’m actually putting some effort into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:29 PM
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It will never not be funny to me when men use scientific term to explain the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:18 PM
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Thanks grammer nazi. If I knew you were Belgian I could’ve said it in Dutch.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:17 PM
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This is a man? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:35 PM
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Your the funniest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:33 PM
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I don’t know what coogee dates are. But I’m probably going to say no, depending on what kind of dates are still allowed. I want to be able to do fun things together so we can get to know each other better. I could understand that maybe there is this really special place/ activity for him that he doesn’t just want to do with anyone. But if we can only do boring dates than it’s a no for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:30 PM
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Are we going on any dates, because if not, how exactly are we supposed to get to know each other?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:24 PM
2

But if women in their 20s were attracted to men in their 30s, wouldn’t they be attracted to men in their 40s when they themselves are 30? And also, I’m not denying that you are now more successful with women than you were in your 20s. But couldn’t that also be because now you are more mature and confident. I’m only 25, but I already feel much more confident and wiser now than when I was 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:54 AM
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You make it sound like you are dating younger women out of spite, to take revenge on women your own age who didn’t want you when you were 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:28 AM
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Because when you ask people for advice they will tell you, oh he will most definitely say yes. Also at least when you’re the one approaching, you can get the men you are actually interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 09:10 AM
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I knew they would do a favor for me. Or I knew I could talk to them. Which I don’t even think is that bad anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:57 AM
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You need a flair stating that you are a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:37 AM
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In love is to strong of a term, but I can tell you about the guy I had the strongest feelings for. I stopped college after half a year and started working. In the summer they would hire some students. So I’m working at this small department and there are this two new guys who are friends. One of them only works there for a week or so. The other, I thought was a little bit arrogant at the beginning. But once I started to know him better, I started to develop feelings for him. He was tall, blond, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:36 AM
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So being treated good => negatively affect your personality. And being treated badly => positively affect your personality? What’s going to happen to those ugly men once women start giving them just as much attention as they did the good looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:19 AM
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Being ugly makes you a good person?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:59 AM
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This person said women and unattractive men. So I’m assuming he’s talking about the average women and unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:44 AM
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Yeah true, I approached plenty of men and got rejected almost everytime.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:28 AM
2

So what you were saying first was a lie? So why are you complaining? Isn’t this a win win? I mean men are attracted to younger women anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:18 AM
2

The person I replied to said 90% of women so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:04 AM
4

So again, those women aren’t interested in you from the start, they’re interested in you because you got your life together. Btw lots of men could do more to their appearance to make them more attractive. Like losing some weight/ workout, having a nice haircut, having a skin care routine, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:56 AM
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The average woman is a cave troll?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:50 AM
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And so they literally have the same mentality has the women in their 30s. If they are only interested in you because you already have your life together in what way do they want you from the start? They could go for guys their own age, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:42 AM
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Not monetary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:36 AM
5

Than those younger women didn’t want you from the start either.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:32 AM
3

Yeah but those women in their 20s who are now interested in a guy in his 30s, wouldn’t be interested if he was also in his 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:09 AM
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They are tho. Their constantly saying how the unattractive man is going to be a better partner than the hot one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:06 AM
2

And how is that refuting what she says?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:56 AM
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Imagine thinking that being with someone you find attractive, is to high of a standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:46 AM
3

I was going to say the same thing, is the women really going to enjoy that sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:44 AM
1

Oh thanks for the clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:35 AM
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That’s how it sounds like to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:35 AM
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But fasting is a deliberate choice. If you go to the dead bedroom sub, you will see that there are also a good amount of women posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 05:33 AM
2

But I replied to a specific comment?? Unlike the person who replied to my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:47 PM
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I’m not allowed to comment about something someone said even if it wasn’t the main point? I’m sorry Reddit police, it won’t happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 09:32 PM
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How evil of women that they don’t want to f their fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:54 PM
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But is that loneliness or are you just sad you aren’t in a romantic relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:39 PM
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You mean her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:37 PM
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Depends on what kind of neurodivergent and how extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:21 PM
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Don’t they have friends either? Why is loneliness being reduced to romantic relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:18 PM
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But not getting as much sex as you like, doesn’t mean you are lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 08:18 PM
1

You got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 07:11 PM
1

I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:36 PM
1

Do you have the intelligence of a child? You just sound stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:28 PM
1

Is a relationship just sex for men? Don’t women also enjoy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:24 PM
2

Just because they aren’t forcing it upon someone throat (a strategy they know that will backfire) doesn’t mean that the end goal isn’t for everyone to become vegan. Be being vegan, you show other people that it can be done, not to difficult. It would also be easier for people in the future to become vegetarian, because there will be more vegan option everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:21 PM
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Are you under the impression that the goal of most/ all vegans isn’t for all people to become vegan eventually? And consumption of meat does hurt, in the first place the animals who are being killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:11 PM
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Can’t you read? I said I wasn’t interested in debating whether prostitution should be legal or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:06 PM
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If you realise that with hookups or just don’t like them anymore for an other reasons, you can just stop hooking up with no problem. The same isn’t true once your income depend on it. And even if delete your OF accounts, most likely other people have shaved your pictures and might be found on other websites. It might also be more difficult to find “normal” jobs after you did porn. So no, I don’t think this is comparable to hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:59 PM
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You think having a onlyfans is better than “being a slave for a corporation”? I have you seen what the median income is on OF? Once you share those pictures, they will never leave the internet and it’s gonna be more difficult to find a other job after that. Prostitution, yes having an OF is a form of prostitution, traps you in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:56 PM
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Im not interested into debating whether or not prostitution should be illegal. But saying “if you don’t support prostitution, don’t buy it”. Is just not how it works. If someone finds something unethical, it’s not enough for that person to not do it, no one should.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:41 PM
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Why does that matter at all? If anything it’s interesting that female humans can orgasm at all. because most females of other species can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:36 PM
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If you don’t like slavery, don’t own slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:31 PM
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Is the average men a 10/10 men? What’s wrong with people below 10/10?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 05:26 PM
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It is apples and oranges because one doesn’t even exist biologically speaking and the other does. Are humans not allowed to be prejudice of lions either? In what way are women more “emotional” than men? I think you are also forgetting that anger is an emotion. With that difference is that I’m against war and don’t want anyone being drafted. I just think it’s fair that only men get drafted if we really need to choose.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:18 PM
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It is because it’s not the same thing lol. You are comparing apple and oranges here. There is a biological component to as why men are more violent, that isn’t true for the so called races. And contrary to what you might think I don’t hate men. I’m mostly indifferent for the fact that only men get drafted for reason I already explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 08:17 AM
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The differences between the so called races are insignificant that biologically we are just the human race. This is not at all comparable between the differences of the sexes. Most species the males are more aggressive than the females. This is just inherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 05:45 PM
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Same. When I was in my early 20s I mostly dated men who were in there late 20s and I could really tell that they took advantage of the fact that they were older and had more experience than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 07:56 AM
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Having a handful of women on the top while everyone else and the vast majority of other people in power are still male, doesn’t make it a female system.In your own articles it even says “Unmarried queens, however, were more frequently attacked than other types of rulers. “ so were they more aggressive or were they seen as weak and thus more likely to be attacked?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 06:37 AM
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You comparison makes zero sense. You were complaining about only men get drafted and “meh equality”. You were first talking about the conflict in Ukraine and Russia. Are women in power there? Than you were talking about a WORLD war. Globally, is it women that are in power? And even in the west, even if what you say is true, the people with the real power are those with wealth, not the voters. And suprise suprise it’s still men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:19 PM
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I’m aware they are still death and I’m not happy about it? But as long as the vast majority of politicians and other people in power are male, I don’t feel bad that only men get drafted. Really? Women have lack of empathy for men? Not those men who send you to war in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:49 PM
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Men created the war in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:32 PM
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I don’t think this is true. Some countries the men are very macho and direct in other men are much more passive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:08 PM
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