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They're really not bro. Getting messages from 41 year old Tucker and 3 overtly sexual messages from Rikesh, Mulumbu and Petraj each aren't the opportunities you think they are. Yes, women are flooded with attention but they absolutely do not have the opportunities to date you think they do. Its why they find it so refreshing when an attractive man actually approaches them, it just doesn't happen often.
/r/seduction25/07/24 05:43 PM
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Once your body breaks down the alcohol it literally becomes poison for all the cells in your body. By drinking you are literally making yourself simultaneously retarded and physically disabled but also throwing yourself into an emotional abyss that lasts anywhere from 1 to 3 days. You should not need to make yourself retarded in order to approach that 31 year old 6/10 at a pool bar.
/r/seduction17/07/24 06:40 PM
1

You missing the nuance. OP put out a crazy list of things men should expect to pay for then implied were cheapskates for not doing so. I am a cheapskate, none of the things I described would ever be over $10. Not a single guy who lives in the developed world should spend even an iota of mental energy deciding whether or not to spend $10 on a woman. Are you really here arguing about a cheese cob and mediocre coffee?
/r/seduction15/07/24 05:29 PM
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As a broke waiter getting his fair share this aint true. Take my girls on walks through the parks, bring them food and desserts from work and only spend when going to cafes if the weather's shit. Deep down though the provider in me feels guilty when I'm enjoying a woman without taking care of her. It's why I never see a girl if I can't at least feed her.
/r/seduction15/07/24 04:50 PM
3

Your best chance of turning this around is going silent for at least two weeks. If you can't last that long without texting/seeing her, you're already too far gone for us to help you.
/r/seduction08/07/24 10:27 PM
1

Cmon bro.
/r/seduction05/07/24 01:30 PM
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Solely on the age thing it goes the opposite my bro. I've worked in hospitality for 6 years or so and I can tell you most if not all the girls I've ever worked with have always preferred older guys. I don't mean 1 or 2 years either, I'm taking 16-19 year old girls only wanting guys 25+. Many reasons why, more money, maturity, better sex, access to better opportunities, better drugs. Especially at clubs where you're competing with horny 21 year olds who either live with roommates or at home. A 30…
/r/seduction05/07/24 01:59 AM
2

Even in hypothetically ideal scenario you still imagine yourself being hurt in the most traumatic way. Pathetic. Before you even thinking about saying hi to a woman, fix whatever issues are making you so pitifully insecure.
/r/seduction04/07/24 10:10 PM
7

Texting a girl everyday, you speak on her behalf saying shes taking it slow/inexperienced. The pain that's coming your way will be a valuable lesson...
/r/seduction04/07/24 12:38 AM
1

Still talking as if women decide to do spontaneous things with shorter guys out rationality instead of him making their pussy tingle.
/r/seduction03/07/24 08:34 PM
3

Texting is informal bro, save the real questions for in person. Keep it light and playful. Remember, she's probably texting 5 other guys asking the same questions.
/r/seduction02/07/24 03:43 PM
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You don't follow at all. I very clearly said voice, all a phone does is transmit the sound of your voice bro. Instead of attempting to pick holes in people's points, try and grasp the essence of their message.
/r/seduction02/07/24 03:10 PM
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Im telling you bro, text game is not worth it if your all round game is good. Keep texting to just qualifying the girl, seeding logistics and confirming plans. However, abundance mindset is the one ultimate principle. If you are truly confident in yourself and willing to lose any girl, feel free to flirt by text as you would in person. We're doing all this to have fun, not follow a series of steps laid out to us by a 44 year old pua guru who hasn't pulled a girl in 7 years. It's just in my exper…
/r/seduction02/07/24 02:30 PM
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Writing as a method of communication has only been adopted by the common man for a thousand years but humans have been mating for a hundred thousand years beforehand. You can not build attraction over text. It is unnatural and will only lead to your frustration. You have far better luck using your phone as an actual phone and calling her, do not underestimate the power of your voice to a woman.
/r/seduction02/07/24 02:10 PM
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I thank God everyday women value more than just physical traits otherwise us short bruddas would be starving.
/r/seduction01/07/24 07:48 PM
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Genuine question then. What exactly differentiates a man with vibrant options, as you put it, compared to a man with an abundance mindset but does not necessarily have the options. What behaviours does he exhibit that women can sense that get them to engage in that very different way? I ask because I've been both and am fairly confident I've acted the same. Or maybe I'm blind to my own flaws and refusing to accept I've been guilty of oneitis.
/r/seduction01/07/24 07:44 PM
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Is this to say then that the girl I've been seeing for a while, who makes considerable effort in telling me about all the guys who want her and do things for her is a jelaousy/interest level test? All these guys that are richer/better looking than me she says no to whilst being fully available for me is her way of subcommunicating she likes me? I understand game and the purpose of shit-tests but deep down I can't help but feel disgusted by the mention of other men. I know girls are insecure but …
/r/seduction01/07/24 06:37 PM
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The Creator of the Heavens and the Earth ordained for men upto 4 wives. You like one too much? Like her sister/best friend/coworker too.
/r/seduction30/06/24 07:35 AM
1

Should be a post that stands for itself. Cheers.
/r/seduction29/06/24 01:13 PM
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You communicate like a feminine beta so we will assume you are on. Go ahead and pull back, she'll replace you in 3 hours with a single Instagram story.
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:39 PM
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Opposite. The answer is obvious but noobs don't like/want it: years of experience. There is no substitute, no holy grail of a book you can read that will ever come close.
/r/seduction27/06/24 11:36 PM
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Since your Muslim akhi let's look at it from an Islamic perspective. Its obvious that long distance is unnatural and frankly pointless. When the Sahaba were sent out for campaigns the Prophet would not let any married Sahaba go for longer than several months. Mutah was famously allowed, and then prohibited, due to a certain campaign that meant Sahaba were gone for a long time and had the possibility of never returning ( Mutah being temporary marriage to another woman). If you really love her, yo…
/r/seduction27/06/24 10:11 PM
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Your crushing on a girl whos either a) still emotionally attached or b) emotionally unavailable. Keep it pushing g, she's not the one.
/r/seduction27/06/24 09:04 PM
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Let's just be straight up, asking girls out straight away is boring, lazy and predictable. It gives her too much to think about and she'll just feel overwhelmed and not run. Instead. You qualify her first, subtly screen for logistics then invite her to something cool you'd already be doing anyway and her coming is a bonus.
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:29 PM
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I agree with you. Let's just be straight up, asking girls out straight away is boring, lazy and predictable. It gives her too much to think about and she'll just feel overwhelmed and not run. Instead. You qualify her first, subtly screen for logistics then invite her to something cool you'd already be doing anyway and her coming is a bonus.
/r/seduction27/06/24 01:28 PM
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Naive af, she replies in 2 mins to the guy who makes her wet.
/r/seduction27/06/24 12:50 PM
4

Achieve difficult, specific goals that will give you trust and confidence in yourself. There is no shortcut to becoming a man, relish the suffering because there'll be a lot of it.
/r/seduction19/06/24 03:24 AM
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She told you no and you still don't know how she feels? The state of "men" today...
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:43 PM
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Fundamental assumption: you are not entitled to anything. Not a compliment, not them investing in conversation nor them giving you responses you feel you deserve. Option 1: Quit at the slightest resistance. Option 2: Skill issue, git gud. Be totally outcome independent and self-amused, hope the energy you exert reflects back on them.
/r/seduction17/06/24 12:34 AM
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Your logical brain is hijacking you, you assume there's a problem and therefore immediately go into problem fixing mode. There is no problem and so nothing to fix. Just be patient and let the girl open herself upto you. And stop showing her cutesy physical intimacy with these kisses on the cheek, unless it's normal in your culture like with the Greeks and Italians.
/r/seduction15/06/24 11:54 AM
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In caveman days you'd be seen as weak for giving valuable resources to someone who is still a stranger. Our biology is still the same so this still holds true today. She's not your girl, not even your friend. Let one of her orbiters buy her stuff.
/r/seduction15/06/24 11:12 AM
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You're from the most populated country on Earth, you have no excuse. Or are you one of those who thinks he's entitled to white girls just because he speaks English.
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:13 AM
2

So? There's more than enough food for everyone.
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:10 AM
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Your speaking to the choir here mate. Most men don't know themselves and have no real identity therefore no confidence in themselves. Their thoughts are regurgitated memes and advice from friends and family, their feelings are hijacked by ads and shitty tik toks telling them what to feel. So in this guys case, you have a guy who goes on dating apps for no particular reason, messages a girl for no particular reason, dates her twice for no particular reason and will probably do so for a few months…
/r/seduction14/06/24 06:09 AM
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Like most of the guys here: external validation. Add sexual fulfillment and you have two of the biggest, and I'd argue sole, reasons to spend time and effort learning pickup.
/r/seduction14/06/24 05:48 AM
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Easy answer: she isn't interested. Long answer: Past few years, especially since COVID, I and a lot of people have noticed girls response times getting longer. Could be many reasons; overwhelming options, dating fatigue, leading busier lives. Whatever the case, what used to be a long reply in 2015 (~ 3 hours) is now quick. I've had girls reply multiple days if not a week at a time whilst still being happy to see me. Its annoying tbh but it's another reason why you should never be solely speaking…
/r/seduction14/06/24 12:59 AM
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Ok saar, back to your Tim Hortons shift now. I'm peckish for a French Vanilla...
/r/seduction13/06/24 11:03 PM
0

What's with all these racist creeps popping up here recently?
/r/seduction13/06/24 10:59 PM
2

You want the wrong thing. The number is just a means to an end, the end being intimacy. Before asking for her number invite her to something cool/fun you would already be doing anyway whilst being completely outcome independent. If she comes, great. If she doesn't, you'll meet another girl there anyway.
/r/seduction13/06/24 06:58 AM
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Sounds like they saw you as boyfriend material and not a lover and so therefore pushed you away as a lot of women simply aren't interested in a committed relationship. Common phenomenon, just search "why women punish men they like the most".
/r/seduction11/06/24 04:47 PM
1

They're not bitchy with the guy they like g, keep it pushing.
/r/seduction10/06/24 01:58 PM
0

"Clinical depression" aka mental deterioration due to neglecting tour self-maintenance. Pathetic.
/r/seduction08/06/24 05:52 AM
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Theory of talking to people with intimacy in mind? If it took books to do that the world population would be 5% of what it currently is.
/r/seduction07/06/24 12:17 PM
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You don't need books, you need to take action. Do ten approaches, fail 8 or 9 of them and then reflect on what you did well and not so well. Then you'll do 10 more, and another 10. Once you are consciously aware of your weaknesses, start reading. Pick Krauss or Mystery, forget Manson unless you wanna pull on your level.
/r/seduction07/06/24 04:09 AM
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Is this sub for aspies now?
/r/seduction07/06/24 01:56 AM
0

Did you adequately communicate that you have a penis? Your goal was never the number, your girl was to spend intimate time with her. A number is a last resort for when an instant date can't be achieved or when you have agreed plans.
/r/seduction06/06/24 09:07 AM
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