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I have no time for the PUAs and plate spinners of TRP. Sometimes, I think that TRP is dominated by the 18-30 year old age group that is not looking at the long term picture beyond, "Don't marry.". As to respect for women, its hard to muster given common hypergamy. TRP is good in the sense of being a negative theory. It gets female nature very accurately, but as you note, it ducks the important question: can the destruction of marriage as an institution by modern feminism be reversed? After all, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 08:49 PM
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Beats not learning from personal experience and instead favoring contradicted theory any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 08:35 PM
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Good points. Hypergamy goes beyond cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 08:31 PM
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The one's that forgive are usually married to alphas. Its no contradiction. The archetype of a battered woman who stays because of her natural attraction to alphas is commonly discussed everyday on TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 08:29 PM
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My perspective as a person new to TRP is that it considers both genders to be cheats. It just posits, with justification, that the societally accepted picture of the woman as the eternal victim, and her man as the quintessential Lothario is a pile of hooey. Further, it considers marriage to be a defunct institution, killed off by modern feminism that has loaded all the risk to the man. In this world view, real to many, partially real to some (like myself), and dystopian to others, it focuses pur…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 08:27 PM
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Anti intellectual much?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 08:18 PM
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The alternative to alleged bigotry being more of the same kind of wool over my eyes? No thanks. Wasted 38 years of my life on that nonsense, raised in a very RP society, that I revolted against, only to find that the people I despised because of their traditional attitudes towards gender relationships were right all along, and I was the idiot. I think back and see how several of my friends have been cheated on, abandoned, sucked dry of any sustenance, and TRP makes sense. TRP doesn't go far enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 08:10 PM
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Learning from personal experience is the mark of wisdom. TRP is an incomplete theory that fits the facts so far. Repeating the same mistake because a course by a non-scientist play acting as one asks me to ignore the evidence of my own eyes, is stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 07:52 PM
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Perhaps because it may start setting prices on modes of behavior that many women indulge in any way?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 07:49 PM
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<clears throat> ussy ass Now what was I about to say?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 07:47 PM
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I distinguish between learning and indoctrination. I am a scientist. (Not one of those fraud social scientists)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 07:42 PM
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I basically married your "sister", who broke our marriage vows. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:38 PM
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I am a newly awakened man who is dealing with a lot of "anger", so thanks. But I think what we are calling anger, is actually furious rage at finding out that I was fed a pile of hooey by someone I once trusted with my life. Cut it anyway you like. It is betrayal. I am a man who keeps his word, good or bad. I am simply incapable of accepting betrayal as normal. Yet, TRP teaches me that betrayal is the natural state of woman. There is a massive clash between my personal sense of ethics that I hav…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 04:33 PM
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White girls aren't worth wasting your time over.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 03:58 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 03:19 PM
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To get indoctrinated? No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/15 03:16 PM
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A peculiar misogyny it must be. Extols the mother, trashes the wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 03:40 PM
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One of the best answers in this thread. We are men. We can't relax around women. Ever. They are always, regardless of how Red Pill they may be, looking for weaknesses to use against us. Its nothing malicious. Its their nature.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 07:41 AM
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I know that my stbx did utterly nothing while I struggled to build a new life for us in hostile circumstances. I had to work, and then come home to no food, and do the laundry, while she spent the whole day chatting on Facebook. Not counting the number of times I had to take time off from work to attend to her occasional illnesses, run to shopping hungry after work because she couldn't be bothered to make a shopping list, etc. She used to care when we were bf/gf or engaged. Sorry. I can see my m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 03:48 AM
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Best method would be to conduct a poll. It is a lot easier to work towards an answer if you have numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/15 03:38 AM
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Maybe, but that wasn't the question. I am a 3. After my lifting routine brings me the body I deserve to have, I will likely rise to a 5-6. I can get women in that range. No matter how jacked or strong you are, women's natural tendency towards hypergamy is destructive of marriage. The more interesting question is - how do you control it, and use your TRP knowledge to create what both you and she really want? Remember, women know what they want at the end of the day, its just that they can't seem …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 02:56 AM
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I am thrilled for you, but for a majority of men, being a father is a natural deep seated instinct, just as deep (and related to) as having sex.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 02:23 AM
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Thanks for giving a relevant answer!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/15 02:21 AM
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Already have. The article has no relevance to my question. Maybe read before responding?
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 03:59 PM
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Ok. That is reasonable. However, I have already made a similar post to TRP. If that gets shot down, or worse, somehow gets me banned, I will follow your directions. Thanks for taking the time to explain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 03:05 PM
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I posted it here because TRP mods made a sticky suggesting that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 02:02 PM
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Very Star Treky explanation. Still doesn't answer the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 02:01 PM
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Lucky husband. I got none of that. Divorcing these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/15 01:41 PM
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It is obvious why they are doing this. TRP's membership has gone steadily up. Now, despite the fact that TRP is an incomplete philosophy, that scares the living daylights out of them. Why? Men with TRP influenced attitudes are going to have somewhat different takes on several issues relating to inter gender relationships, in discussions in other groups. Many times that take is going to make a whole lot more sense than the prevailing dogma. That means that more men, previously unexposed to TRP, a…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 02:13 AM
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Good analysis. You forgot to use yet another apt analogy - those that jump from job to job too quickly become unemployable very quickly. The message for the men, especially those who aren't millionaires, is to be a fulfilling startup company, or an NGO with lofty goals. A certain demographic of women will go for them, regardless. It will be a very small demographic, but those are the one's worth admitting into your lives.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 05:26 PM
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This. A masterful man doesn't unbend.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:45 PM
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I think there is a basic conceptual mistake you are making. Stoicism isn't about being an unfeeling philosophical drone, as you put it. It is about accepting pain, viewing it for what it is, and exhibiting silent courage in bearing it. It is not about being Data. Its about being a Vulcan. At its most fundamental level, it is about mastery. Of self. Its a life long goal. What you write later about girls is revealing. Why is a man supposed to order his life around what girls may like? Isn't that f…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 04:38 PM
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My stbx wife's betrayal of our marriage vows.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 02:17 PM
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No need to ask. Kick her out. Document her infidelity.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 02:10 PM
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Nice username. What is the guarantee that she won't later say it was rape? Happens a lot because of social pressure.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 01:46 AM
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That explains a few things. I got banned from there too after responding to a post by a girl who had been with 80 men and her guy let her go because of that. Asked the moderators about it. No response.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 04:16 PM
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Self loathing can be healthy. I am full of self loathing these days as I recall the myriad ways in which I allowed my stbx wife to use me. It keeps me angry at myself, and hopefully will keep me from ever making this mistake again in my life. Hold on to your pain. It helps define you.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 03:59 PM
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Try tangling with Coorgis, Nagas, Gurkhas, Sikhs and Kashmiris. They will kick anyone's ass and then some. These are ethnic/religious groups, not races.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 12:21 PM
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You are full of shit. Indian here. 6 ft plus. Have arm wrestled white guys and held my own. Not jacked or anything. Real strength is in your core, and more than that, your mind. There is no Indian race, given the history. However, we are the original Aryans. The kind of people you describe are generally from one of the malnourished states, like UP, Bihar, etc.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 12:10 PM
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It is an excellent question. As a soon to be divorced 38 year old, it exercises my imagination at times. I am by no means old enough to qualify answering your question. I am getting back in shape. If an opportunity presents itself in the form of a woman who is actually worth it, and isn't a hoe in a circle of harpies, being in shape will boost my chances. I know I will be a great Dad. That is something I feel in my bones. However, what precisely defines a good husband is dependent on a lot lot m…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/15 03:02 AM
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That goes without saying. I am just concerned that this is not a sustainable strategy unless you have settled there on a permanent basis.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 01:15 PM
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I am happy to hear things are working for you. Do you think that moving to China was a big part of this?
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 09:26 AM
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Break up. Sleep around. Spare this fine specimen of manhood. In 5 years, go have a chat with your gaggle of harpies, and see if they have any suggestions about finding true betas.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 07:46 AM
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I have never lacked confidence. I never had the looks. Now, I am getting fit again. My career is set. Its a job I love. Even if I never find anyone worthwhile, and die alone, I think I will be ok.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 04:27 AM
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Yeah, being too tall can suck. I sometimes don't find stuff in my size at stores (different from when I used to live in the States), so I understand where you are coming from. Low T - no, I didn't take anything. It probably contributed to the failure of my marriage, as I had a low sex drive due to depression and lack of a real turn on - she used to be very fat. I am at a stage where, despite being on the physical mend for quite some time, I have again stopped caring if I ever have sex again. Thi…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:12 AM
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Contagious is right. Women are slaves to their female peer group.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 06:48 PM
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Not as blessed as you in height as I am a few inches shorter, but I have always had a don't care attitude towards people who don't agree with me on things I am certain I am right about. Being a 3 as far as looks go, can do two things to you - you either become a neckbeard weasel creep, or you become a don't care type of person. I am the second type. I have started lifting. Long way to go as I had let my body go to shit. I was diagnosed with low T a few years ago, so exercise should help. It will…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 06:41 PM
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You saying there is hopes for the likes of us? Not yet 40, but soon. Wish I had never met my stbx wife.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 02:30 PM
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Maybe it is subtle, and the only one who could notice this (the mother) has a vested interest in not talking about it. Think about it - would a beta who is married to a 32 year old woman and just had a child, know who she banged when she was 22?
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 02:24 PM
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That is what I felt throughout my marriage. Now, I am damaged goods, with two past partners, not that I am likely to ever trust a woman in this matter for a while, even if someone comes along, given my age (pushing 40). All I wanted out of life was simple. A warm home, built on mutual devotion, love and blessed with beautiful children. It wasn't meant to be. Though I am new to TRP, I don't think I am going to buy all of it. The cynicism doesn't sit well with me.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 02:10 PM
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This. Women really need to watch what kind of women they befriend.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 01:52 PM
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You and your husband are blessed. It is difficult these days to expect a woman to be a virgin at marriage. My stbx wife had been with 8 men before me (that I know of). I had been with one other woman. Then there are news like: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/11133203/Could-previous-lovers-influence-appearance-of-future-children.html
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 01:51 PM
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Don't forget: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science/science-news/11133203/Could-previous-lovers-influence-appearance-of-future-children.html
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 01:48 PM
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Agreed. I married a hoe. Worst mistake of my life.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 01:45 PM
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And yet women regularly throw away devoted husbands because they confuse male attention for true devotion. Perhaps this self destructiveness is encoded into our genes.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 01:43 PM
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You are a little young, but you need to resist what the idiotic society around you is telling you. There is an alternative. Break up with him. Try out sex with a few random guys. Go back to him if you want after that. See if he will take you back. Hint: if he is normal man, he won't.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 01:41 PM
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Wise words. Having her own passion. I am going to remember that as a filter should I ever go wooing again. My stbx wife was a social butterfly. That is what ultimately killed our marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 08:02 PM
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Wish my stbx wife was even a tenth of the wife you are.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 07:37 PM
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Your husband is incredibly lucky.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 11:11 AM
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You and your guy are very fortunate.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 04:29 AM
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The part where parents either kill them in the womb, or as young children, or subject them to a life of mistreatment and overwork. Doesn't sound like love to me. Maybe you will, in the security of your Western house with all the amenities, find something to snigger at, just like the best cock carousel riding Western woman. Live a month in an Indian village. It will burn out the ignorance you seem to base your life on. I am done with you.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:46 AM
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Do you have any idea how much work the average Indian woman living in small towns and villages does? She is not like your average American prima donna who can't cook or clean. She tends to the livestock, in villages, carry water from the well (back breaking work), deal with cowdung cakes (used for cooking - disgusting), serve as midwife for births in the neighborhood, in urban areas (cook and clean other people's homes to bring in a second income), sell milk (milk cooperatives are often dominate…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:35 AM
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Maybe. But the risk itself is a bigger factor.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:40 PM
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Why don't you check what the sex ratio is in northern India? Prepare to remove your jaw from the floor.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:16 PM
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Excuse me for butting in, but I am from India. North Indian culture is fairly heavily misogynistic. I grew up here. I have seen how girls are discriminated against (actively malnourished by parents who can afford to feed their kids). That is, if they weren't aborted to start with (the Indian law against sex determination has done diddly squat). My feelings on women in general, and American women in particular, are quite raw given how I was fucked over by my wife. But means nothing for the ground…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 03:14 PM
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Given that jail is unlikely to lead to many heterosexual encounters, ...
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 09:04 AM
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Marriage died a long time ago. Thin women are alive and around. Don't understand your point.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 09:03 AM
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Same comments apply to retirement, which I touched on obliquely. Germany for instance has a system that is social security on steroids. They are financially stable, and unlike the US, not raiding the trust fund, each time they have something else to spend money on. It definitely helps that they don't have an overgrown military budget that comes from needlessly messing in other countries' affairs, and wanting so many shiny toys, or a highly wasteful health system that still reads like an insuranc…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:23 AM
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Problem with that is, even the fat smokers don't die fast enough to make a difference. Socialized medicine as you call it, is practiced better in other countries. The US spends more on healthcare per capita than all other Western nations, which have even more heavily socialized health systems. US still has a health insurance system, not an actual health system. The real problems are: the retirement age is too low, culturally, Americans lead very unhealthy lifestyle, and despite Obamacare, preven…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:13 AM
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AWALT and hypergamy. A woman that looked like Taylor Swift wouldn't be locked down, no matter what she said while marrying you.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:09 AM
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I think that hitting anyone is physical assault, no matter what gender. Unless it is self defense or protection of those under your care, its a crime.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:57 PM
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There are cases when misogyny is an apt description of an action. Female genital mutilation - that is misogyny. Dowry deaths/bride burning - that is misogyny. Gang rape - that is misogyny. Female foeticide or infanticide - that is misogyny. Ritual polygamy where a 60 year old man can buy a 12 year old girl and make her his 4th wife, or concubine - that is misogyny. Paying a woman less because she is a woman (I am NOT talking about the widely refuted 77c / $ lie) - that is misogyny. I however see…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:00 PM
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I don't think they had gotten that far.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:15 PM
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Always use protection. Get yourself tested every few months, just in case she has picked up a disease that she somehow managed to gift you.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 01:03 PM
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A woman has to be a convicted serial killer meth addict to not get custody these days.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 12:54 PM
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Interesting view of geopolitics. Never thought that way before.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:28 PM
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I love and respect my mom. They don't make women like her anymore. Confirmed RedPill herself. Along with my dad (RedPill), she taught me to be hard working, punctual and respectful. She has had a huge influence on my life. Tried to raise me as a RedPill, but I allowed my stupid teenage years to make me a blue piller. Spent time in abusive relationships, when I should have walked. Even married an American woman against her advice (I am Indian). She consented once she saw how stubborn I was. After…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:22 PM
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Its a statement of her perceived right to live a hypergamist lifestyle. We Indian men also have the corresponding right to let her live alone though some beta moron will make sure that her inner vampire has a neck to latch on to.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 04:13 AM
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I follow a personal code of honor because I need to be able to respect myself. Regardless of consequences.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 10:35 PM
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I wish I had known this before getting married.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 08:12 PM
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Donnercockenbaum, if you want to be more authentic.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 08:11 PM
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