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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Self sabotage. Yes but then I think of Miss Marple. Sure being an amateur detective and solving mysteries is not realistic but if there is an illusion I'm buying into, Miss Marple will do me less harm than romanticizing potential relationships. So its stay independent and solve murder mysteries or be married? It's an easy choice for me. If I meet someone that makes me think differently, great, but they are going to have to be pretty amazing to compete with my future vision of spending my golden years as a spin…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/22 06:34 AM
2	HVM prefer monogamous relationships Those poly people are doing the "No True Scotsman" fallacy. They exclude the "bad ones" to create a "nice" picture of their community. Thank you for explaining the fallacy at play. I have trouble pinpointing why reasoning doesn't sit right, this is a good bullshit filter to apply.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/22 09:35 PM
80	It’s been 2 years since Brenna Taylor was killed. As an Asian woman, I cannot speak for Black women. Watching and reading comments with of Black women dealing with the challenges of misogynoir (sexism & racism) makes me really empathize and want to amplify their voices though. She deserves justice. When it's a man, it's an injustice. When it's a woman, it's a viewed as a tragedy. Society conditions us to see women as tragic figures, we are conditioned to accept tragedy but not injustice. Also black women are held to an insane standard, at least in the in the US. The one I can relate to the most is the constant pressure to be 'nice'. I'm a white woman from the US and I've been yelling from the rafters for years, 'Being a bitch is not illegal, you can't criminalize not being a 'nice girl'. I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/03/22 06:56 PM
3	A simple trick to combat negging... Be cautious with this. Men that neg turn ugly real quick when they don't get the response they expected. In their minds, they view negging as flirting, and countering it with a put down can cause a situation to escalate rapidly. If I had a dollar for every verbal altercation I've been in defending myself, I'd be able to pay for a body guard. They lose their shit when you call them out. Look, I have a sharp tongue and if shit talk was an Olympic sport, I'd be the Flo-Jo of that. Untouchable. And …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/22 10:02 PM

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