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I'll second all of this as true from experience. Especially the last paragraph. Some lessons you have to learn for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 12:51 PM
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Here comes the random "I miss you" texts. Been gettting these from exes for 20 years back even when you had to alphanumeric text. Figured out the very first time they do it for validation. Sometimes just to know you are still into her. A lot of the time it's for a quick cheap lay but they don't want to come out and say it. It's never going to end well. Either way the only way to win is not to play.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/21 12:48 PM
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No. I already addressed this in my comment.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/20 12:32 AM
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He sounds like a stupid as fuck cuck. But I'm glad we have his vote.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 01:30 AM
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While I don't think the dude handled it 100% and was 'moral' about it, his story was very relatable and had some good wisdom hidden in there.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/20 01:29 AM
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Yes. I'll sum up best I can from memory. I wish the dude didn't delete it because it was a great essay, you could just tell he typed it all out to get it out of him and didn't worry about grammar. It would also come off harsh to the uninitiated or nieve idiots but grown men absolutely identify with what he says. He had a personal story very similar the situation in the OP. Going to work late, doctors appt, going with friends. He goes on to describe what she does and how he picks up on things. An…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 11:20 PM
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Very welcome brother. Honestly really enjoy getting to share notes with other dudes without any pretense. I'm like you, would rather have a dedicated relationship than spin plates. Spinning plates is a lot of melodrama and I feel requires you to play sociopath mental games to keep everyone stable. People catch feelings on both sides and suddenly your spending the night with a chick, and the chick from 6 days ago shows up to your place and sees and starts smashing all the windows on your car and …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 02:39 AM
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Best answer I've seen here. It's a way of telling her you know without having to say it in words and create impression of insecurity. I also agree with you -if you cave first the bullshit will never end, you have to actually commit and accept never reaching out to her ever again; she will have to contact you. If she doesn't, never ever reach out yourself because it 100% of the time won't work and you're worse off. I also respect you for being one of the few people here to admit it would hurt. It…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 12:58 AM
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I would normally not give advice like this on this sub,but I could sense your need in your post. I saw the advice you got about becoming the suave guy and not caring. Just remember even after you're the suave guy, it's a matter of time before another even more suave guy comes along and she considers branch swinging. No matter what, there's always someone better at something than you are. You can 'not care' (if you say so..) but if in a LTR thats a lie, you do care. You can have that attitude as …
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 12:48 AM
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It sucks because it doesn't look like you can use ceddit or removeddit to see comments bc of us being quarantined. Does anyone know a way around it? I'd like to know what the shill had to say about that, would be very revealing.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 12:22 AM
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If your woman cheats on you, theres a 99% chance she has at least 1 irl friend/family member who encouraged her to do so. If she goes out to the bar with whore friends 'single' girls it follows a common pattern boys. The beef curtain friends are going to be actively working on her, encouraging her to betray you. Purposely putting her in these situations and encouraging her. Women aren't like men abiding to honor even when no ones watching. They only care about honor if other people know what she…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/20 12:18 AM
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The good news is she's dead
/r/PussyPassDenied31/10/20 03:54 AM
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See, he's already lost more than half his weight
/r/PussyPassDenied30/10/20 11:53 AM
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If its the post I'm thinking of that was a weird af post. Not ex wife but "baby momma" Hhmm scewzz me while I bite my tongue... If that guy was for real he seriously doesn't belong here. I hope people here are smart enough to not use that guy as an example.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/20 11:31 PM
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It's an analogy. But you don't think women can understand you're studying them in order to artificially be better at attracting them?? Should we really lie to ourselves and pretend they're that stupid?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 12:27 PM
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Of course I won't cater to women. We fundamentally agree. I also won't show someone my hand if we're playing poker. I don't feel the need to volunteer information that will disadvantage me either.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 05:22 AM
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I think I can explain. There's an element not being touched upon here. You know how women want a guy who's just naturally hot? If they know you go to the gym all the time, tan or fake tan, spend all kind of time styling your hair and dressing nice - it ruins it for them. Women wait at the finish line If she knows you studied all this stuff about female nature and behavior and are using it to attract her, it ruins it because you had to learn it. This is very strange for us to accept sometimes bec…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 01:33 AM
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Sounds pretty cowardly to not stand for your own principles.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 01:26 AM
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Yes, this guy would lead us all to certain doom. Everyone being a coward and seeming to agree with these literal degenerate clowns will help the propaganda they already push that everyone agrees with them. Only the wackos do. You guys all live in California and New York? I say shit like this all the time, even women at least my type white women aren't buying this liberal bs anymore.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 01:24 AM
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A simp by definition cannot be using 'red pill' principles. Making yourself a doormat, and emotional tampon who will never get any is in no way red pilled.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 01:19 AM
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But the vast majority simply do not believe this. They have idealistic interpretations of themselves and the world. When women divorce their well meaning, meak husbands, they do so with the best intentions. They actually believe their husbands did something wrong, even if they don't totally get why they feel that way. And for some reason it makes sense that they need to do this or that and well that just happened, and well I know it looks like I'm the bad person but he's the actual bad guy and w…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 01:16 AM
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Out-fucking-standing To some this is internalized already, but there are many that are not clear on the points brought up here. Especially regarding that nature of females, they don't actively realize or acknowledge (most of them) what they want. They will in fact tell you the opposite because it's in their nature to say what they think most people agree with. Also to cover their true instincts, deep down they know their instincts aren't moral. This is why women suck at giving dating advice.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 01:09 AM
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Great post! Any thoughts on 'rites of passage' we've lost in recent years? Some I thought of after getting to know some early 20 zoomers in the workplace, I'm shocked to find most of the guys have never been in a fight. This is a massive shift from 1 gen before, the millenials. My generation in my graduating class of 400 or so there might have been 0 guys who could say this. Nerds/geeks weirdos included. Some of these guys have no experience socializing. Basically spent their lives at home, then…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 01:22 AM
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Was not the case not long ago. This statement wouldn't have rung true 10 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 02:07 AM
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I'll tell you, dude's right. It's a hard thing to accept. If you're in the age bracket he's talking about speak to some of your friends from high school. They're going to reflect OPs perspective. Basically this
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 02:05 AM
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You nailed it. Not to mention, people do it for the wrong reasons ("friendship? --what's in it for me?", taking their phones out the minute anything interesting happens to capture it instead of living in the moment, etc). So many other examples. When you're socializing based on that mindset and with that many distractions it's no wonder people are all loners mentally masturbating themselves thinking one day they'll be having the time of their life somewhere on the beach with their "friends". Dam…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 01:54 AM
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This was really well written brother. Got me, sure I'm not the only one it rings true with. Fuckin life man.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/20 02:03 PM
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If you're trying to get a chick, you better learn how to work the insert button.
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:02 PM
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Phroggy hat? Frog is phucking spelled with an F
/r/TheRedPill11/10/20 02:44 AM
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Its helpful for guys like you to tell your story. For once your around people who actually give a fuck, so tell us. Or make your own post and do it. There's knowledge there.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 05:18 AM
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Fuck bro, experiencing same phenomenon. Did some shit for a few nights hooking up with a girl who is a real scumbag. Rips people off, lies about having cancer, etc. By every measure many would consider it a great night, if you're just going by getting laid. After the moment was over I just felt disgust. That I'd given myself to such a bad person, given her pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 05:11 AM
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Yeah bro you were another level of free than me. My peers in the 90s in rural/some suburban areas were still able to do that kind of thing. I had an older cousin who you remind me of; who'd just take his dad's gun, go out into the woods and shoot targets and other stuff like you. He moved into an apartment in a suburban/urban and would throw parties, had a great time, but he'd still act like he was in rural town. He'd be shooting with the garage and a redneck berm as a backstop in this place whe…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 01:34 AM
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I have absolutely no idea what you're talking about, but you're a triggered little guy aren't ya?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 01:03 AM
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You get to know her, but you also escalate. As much as you can given feedback from her. Don't be a pussy and turn into her girlfriend. You've got to let it be know you're here to get her. You're interested in her sexually but you also could give a shit if it doesn't happen.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 01:02 AM
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You've got so much to learn. I'll give you a start, the core of it and the problems I know you're having. You're trying to fuck her. Being nice won't ever convince her of anything other than you are desperate loser trying to trade favors and praise for pity sex. Nothing could be less attractive.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 01:39 AM
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Society is literally on the verge of collapsing. We're closer than we've ever been in the modern era. What's crazier to consider is that no one even realizes what it could be like if it all comes crumbling down. We will repeat the same mistakes if there are not enough red pilled people to learn from it. The good news is there are A LOT, more than ever before. I am speaking of the larger RP which includes TRP under it's umbrella.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 01:35 AM
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It's the difference between being a boy and a man. While it is pretty well tied to age, it's not 100%. There are blue pilled grandpas out there who've lived their whole lives as a simp. There are also many men who are either taught or learn the lessons themselves in their mid to late 20's. It's the difference between accepting and actually preferring a cold hard truth that you work from and have a starting point at vs a fantasy, so you can convince yourself all is well and not ever have to go th…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 01:31 AM
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but what he didn't expect is the cop is a hot horny affirmative action hire woman sergeant with a thing for bad boys.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 01:09 AM
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So what you're really saying is you've already cased a place out.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 12:56 AM
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Comparing how I handled different breakups and the results, also how I felt afterwards this poster has a 100% great analysis, amazing lesson. My first serious girlfriend, how I handled that -oof- it hurts to think of. When I figured out what the OP states next time on a subconscious level I understood was a truth. Every action confirmed it. I gave no or minimal reaction, didn't care about closure. Like many of you I learned you can't get true answers from woman with direct questions anyway. We'r…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/20 12:54 AM
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I'm officially requesting you post about this situation and share some wisdom. This one is so juicy I can taste it.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 03:14 AM
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This is a guy I'd like to get to know. Love your tude' dude!
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 03:01 AM
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Great analysis. Completely agree. Good to speak with someone else who comprehends the situation. I didn't know about the group chat, and the exclusions. Frankly it's gross. They are growing up in an actual dystopian nightmare.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 02:20 AM
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Your comment, clearly meant to be an insult, doesn't even make sense. You sound like a butt hurt bitch. This sub sometimes.. What does the fact that women love attention and drama have to do with his hobbies? In any way? How tf is that logical? If you're not then be real. Give us some example of hobbies you'd reccomend finding all the quality female friends at? You going out and painting naked dudes and drinking wine with the ladies or what?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 02:00 AM
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Bravo, holy shit this got me good!
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 01:51 AM
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It is crazy bro. Same here. It's weird though because you expect that the young guys coming up are going to have continued on and done even crazier things than you. You get to know the new zoomer kid at work and realize he just spend the last 15 years playing video games and talking to people online. He's not good at "talking to people" 21 year old dude at work, pretty normal for his age. Dudes never been in a fight. To me that's just strange. Some people would say good, but I think it's a miles…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 01:15 AM
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They are gonna be rare but they're out there. You're here aren't you? It's not your fault. It has to do with culture, and with what is valued. What you're taught academically and by popular media as well at a young age but it's more than that. Things you experience, or allowed to experience growing up. Only 1 generation difference but completely different conditions, rules, and activities. One Small example: In the 90's or even like say 2003 if you called the cops on a mother for leaving their k…
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 12:55 AM
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This is the hard truth right here. Its a trope but it's a good tool of understanding. If someone wouldn't help you hide a body, they're not your friend. One of the many things millennials were the last to experience is true friendships with loyalty. Things that were considered important and honorable virtues until recently. I've got buddies I share secrets with that go back 15-20 years and I've never told a soul and won't. It was still valued to be an honorable, loyal, and decent man of your wor…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 11:01 PM
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This blew my mind. Amazing analysis!
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 11:40 PM
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I'm not so sure about this one. Normally, and for most of my life I'd agree with your assessment. But in the current year shits different. I'm really not so sure he's the worse for this video. Somehow, with people who spend their lives looking at a screen I think this could work for him. Ironically referencing it on one of the getting laid apps could get him an in as well. If it gets him views, he could make some $ and parlay into a channel.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 06:26 AM
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This is really well written, 100% true. I really had a light bulb go off when you mentioned bringing together all relations of each person. In all seriousness we used to have a beautiful culture. But what you're missing is this institution was already destroyed in the late 70s maybe earlier or whatever when they brought in no fault divorce and made all these feminazi laws. It's just another honorable, noble thing thats been ruined for western society. You can't pretend marriage in 2020 is in any…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 05:18 AM
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Maintain a separate residence boys.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 05:08 AM
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Woman are incapable of...DAMNIT
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 05:07 AM
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100% good description of an effect I've noticed as well. I'll go a step further and say if your girl cheats, there's a very very good chance she has a friend or friends who encouraged her to do it.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/20 05:04 AM
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I can. Many have awakened. Anything is possible.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 06:46 AM
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Also an IQ test and a penis.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 05:33 AM
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This is the path forward fellas. Good or Bad, better or worse. This is where the train is a running. And yes, women are unfit to hold political power. In fact I don't even know about democracy unless highly restricted.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 05:32 AM
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I stand with you. Some things are more important than getting off, or having women desire you. Besides after you do it for a few years you'll realize there's nothing that special about it. I'd gladly trade never getting laid again for having degeneracy removed from our society.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/20 12:43 PM
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I agree with this, there are women who aren't like this. I lived in an urban environment for a very long time, they are rare there.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 08:12 PM
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That is how it should be, yes.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 08:10 PM
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>> To be fair, showing some emotion because your dad died is not exactly displaying weakness and is not a vulnerability you should be afraid to show. On the contrary, it demonstrates you’re not a completely emotionless robot, that you care about family and that you’re capable of being invested in things that are important to you. All reasonable, positive things. This is 100% logical and true. It also 100% doesn't matter to the female psyche. It's not necessarily something they think about consci…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 04:14 PM
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Some may not be that crass to directly hit it. They'll just lose respect for you.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 04:10 PM
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Something I learned on my own, and a young age. I was into some dumb shit and it was about to come to a head. As a kid, to me, it seemed the end of the world. My girl and I were cooking and hanging out and I seemed distracted to her so she asked what's up. She barely had any knowledge about what was going on. I told her how worried I was about everything and what was going on. I opened up about what I had been doing and seriousness of my business. That something had gone wrong and even details, …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 04:08 PM
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Do it now you're likely not going to have that long
/r/TheRedPill19/06/20 04:14 PM
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I would agree to this if you're a younger person like 25-30 at most. After that your attention seeking behavior begins to seem cringe to more and more of your peers.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 06:54 PM
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We are certainly in a unique position, with a unique perspective what an amazing amount of change to see in a single generation of growing up. There's nothing quite like it in history.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/20 06:46 PM
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I have to say, people should be careful what they share with their doctor. Make sure you fully understand the consequences of anything you tell your doctor. Understand mandatory reporting. If you're really depressed or whatever, don't joke about killing yourself. Everyday tons of people are locked away for 48hrs for something like this.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/20 01:33 AM
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Right? Who the fuck stops just for gum? This detail bothers me more than anything else.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/20 02:25 AM
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Just to be clear my reaction to the situation summed up is - don't take it so seriously or let it bother you. However if she is doing it in a truly mean spirited way then you don't just put up with that. If you decide to end it than you can tell her if you want but I wouldn't. It's more a symptom of a larger problem anyway. However if you think you can just sit down with your woman and logically tell her being called a bitch bothers you, and to please not do it anymore -and that is going to work…
/r/askTRP21/12/19 09:58 PM
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You're spot on. This guy suggesting you get all upset and have a temper tantrum is a bad tact with women. If you do that you are guaranteeing she will be using this particular insult any time she wants to get a rise out of you. The answer lies in realizing she's just pulling your string and to not give a fuck. If it's no joke and for real she's actively trying to hurt you, then what are sticking around for?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 08:02 PM
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Don't think this is 100% best way to handle. If you escalate like that you are basically admitting how much it bothers you. If you don't think she'll circle back around after this you've got a surprise coming. I really think it comes down to not giving a fuck what this bitch says about you. You know she's just pulling your string so why get so upset?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:58 PM
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Really need to hear the story about the chick who talked about banging your brother please. Sounds interesting, and I'd be curious your thoughts as to why. Thats some pretty out there shit!
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:55 PM
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What a facade. Chick won't even look at him when they walk by each other in the hall. This shit is pathetic beyond words. How the fuck do these people not see themselves? Everyone doing this shit.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:47 PM
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I always had a natural disdain for the show even when everyone else seemed to be watching it. I tried but it came off as so contrived and cliche bullshit. This is a great post, op and some of the articles linked in the thread basically articulated why for me. I'd never given it much thought, but this was exactly how I felt about it.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 12:40 AM
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Yes this is just the damn truth. I really liked his post and actually don't think what he says is invalid completely. However you're right. It's just such a shit show out there you have to reel em in hard. In the cock on the go society we live in now being in any way passive or even classy will get you sidelined in the beginning. One definite lesson here though is the value of not looking like you're trying too hard. It's important to not look like you are purposely trying to create the impressi…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/19 03:28 AM
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Heart of the matter. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/19 01:14 AM
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Taking them off of the pedestal really changes your world. They all have pussies, that doesn't make anyone special. It was actually a chick I fwb who calls when shes drunk who really drove this point home to me. When we first met she asked me a series of questions, some of them pretty probing for a first date. So eventually I started asking her about herself which she went on and on for awhile. I decided to be just as candid as her. Eventually when she got comfortable I hit her with similar ques…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 02:22 AM
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Good post. Probably an accurate prediction if we don't turn it around within our lifetimes.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/19 03:09 PM
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Great post. Fellas this guy gets it.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 11:51 PM
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