awesomechristiansex Archive

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1	Dealing with my husbands new panty rules and looking for advice I think this is a good opportunity for communication and negotiation. I think the optimum way to have this conversation would be to ask him for a time to discuss panty rules. At the start, instead of speaking your mind, ask him what are his goals for giving you panty rules - that you want to understand his goals and desires. Then listen to what he says. Provide some brief feedback showing that you understand his goals. Then, keeping that in mind, lay out your concerns, comfort issues, and the op…	/r/RedPillWomen	29/12/25 03:41 PM
10	How to inspire my husband to start working out? Personally, if he can't handle constructive criticism, that's an issue in and of itself. I abhor nagging and all that, but if my wife said that she would want more sex or to do things I liked more if I put in the work on myself for it, I'd be all over it! For reference, this actually did happen. By her relaying how it would benefit me to be more attractive to her, instead of coming at me negatively or passive-aggressively, I got serious about doing it. I actually doubled my lifting ability in un…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/03/24 03:28 AM
2	What is actual abuse? You're welcome, and I'm glad it was helpful. And for clarification, because I was trying not to be overreactive in my reply, but well balanced... however, this is reddit, and some other people make erroneous assumptions instead of ask questions. I 100% agree that it is never the victim's fault when someone else is physically abusive or threatening. I am glad you stood up for yourself and that he left willingly. And I agree with the other poster, that it is better to have one less parent living w…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/24 10:31 AM
-2	What is actual abuse? Per the rules - Male/older/RP experienced - It could potentially be one thing if you had yelled at him, then not let him respond and locked the door. For him to physically express his anger without hurting you - that, imho, could be excusable. However, if you weren't yelling at him or being abusive in any way, and he won't let you have privacy and time alone to cope/decompress/etc. from him and the situation... that, in my mind, is utter disrespect towards you and should not be tolerated. As Jor…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/24 04:06 AM
1	What EXACTLY is a red pill woman? You're welcome and I'm glad that he communicates to you what he likes and doesn't like. Open communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship (friendship, business, etc.) and a lack of healthy communication causes a death spiral. I can't recall ever hearing someone say my spouse just communicates too well with me, I wish they'd communicate more vaguely or start leaving things out...lol.	/r/RedPillWomen	26/04/20 01:05 AM
3	What EXACTLY is a red pill woman? Also, as guy, let me add this... ASK YOUR MAN WHAT HE WANTS. I'm not yelling... just want to add some strong emphasis on this. This applies to dress, makeup, sex, and everything else. And if he doesn't know, I'd suggest giving him a choice - It can be as simple as do you want me to wear a dress or pants? Do you want a blowjob or titjob when you get home from work today? In my case I know exactly what I prefer and my SO was trying to go off of other womens' (or magazines, TV shows, etc.) advice a…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/20 11:38 PM
7	Ladies, please be careful around men who are not sex positive! Agreed. There is an extremely large chasm between a desirable man who exercises self-control over his primal sexual desires and the man who has negative feelings about having sexual desires. The first is a very rare gem, the latter, a regretful mistake waiting to happen.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/20 07:51 AM
2	Happy Friday! What men want... What justskimoffthetop and wlucascampbell are saying to me is just them working with their husbands to follow these biblical principles. When you understand and live the principles, everything becomes so clear and even easy in a way. If I'm truly loving my wife as I love myself, won't I take excellent care of her? Won't I care for all her needs and even want to give her praise and gifts and whatever things according to her love languages? And if she lovingly follows my leadership, will I not fee…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/20 06:04 PM
14	Happy Friday! What men want... There are a lot of different "types" of people and what they say they want vs what they want. I've noticed this with both sexes too. I am a secure man (think Christian red pill) and I fully support my wife finishing her education and both her current, as well as future proposed career, among other things including helping her learn anything she wants, getting hobbies, and having self-care time (as Laura Doyle mentions is so critical). I was not hesitant about any of the things you mention, but t…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/20 03:12 PM
2	Question about married sex life I would say ask him then. If you're open to some or all the things he has been watching in fantasy, yet oddly not sharing with you (guilt, fear, etc.?); if you help him feel safe to open up to you without judgement or pressure, there is likely some good elements there you can incorporate and enjoy together.	/r/RedPillWives	04/04/20 09:56 PM
1	Have you swallowed the Red Chewable Tablet? Btw, house looking great in my eyes. If she wants real estate model, no one lives here-level clean, that's on her. Not my monkey, not my circus there.	/r/RPChristians	03/04/20 09:17 PM
1	Have you swallowed the Red Chewable Tablet? I disagree... He said he would pitch in when it made sense... what that means to willow, especially based on past and perhaps present husband, doesn't mean that's what the poster meant. I could say the same thing and my "where it makes sense" is to help her out with the things that need to be done that she can't reasonably handle well. Probably about 30-60 minutes of effort on my part and the house will look great. Tl;dr Try to ask for clarification instead of using personal bias and assumptions…	/r/RPChristians	03/04/20 09:15 PM
1	Have you swallowed the Red Chewable Tablet? Yes, totally sinful - not at all in line with the command to love your wife.	/r/RPChristians	03/04/20 09:12 PM
6	As a teen, where do I start to become a lady ? First off, I commend you for overcoming a difficult upbringing like that. That makes you a diamond in the rough amongst the coal and rubble, at the very least! Are you looking for Christian femininity or modern cultural femininity?	/r/RedPillWomen	01/04/20 03:39 PM
1	Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men? There are subreddits for both Marriage /MarriedRP and Christian /RPChristians are versions of red pill just as you described!	/r/RedPillWomen	30/03/20 06:36 PM
1	Is this a good idea... ? Need outside perspective. 2nd that... post in OYS weekly!	/r/askRPC	11/03/20 09:42 AM
1	Is this a good idea... ? Need outside perspective. Can you ask them to have a confidential down to earth discussion with just them, not her, and see just how much they understand or are willing to see?	/r/askRPC	11/03/20 09:40 AM
1	Is this a good idea... ? Need outside perspective. I've seen a very similar situation like this, and while everyone is unique, there is much to be learned from similar experiences. Is she open to Christian marriage counseling? Individual counseling (make sure they specialize in BPD/cPTSD and also dont just commit to the first counselor you go to!)? SOZO can be done over the phone. I highly recommend it, however, it may drudge up things in her past she has been suppressing (like sexual abuse) and may make her worse first, not better, as she is go…	/r/askRPC	11/03/20 09:30 AM
1	Nofap and christian life. I have read many translations of the Bible and hold Yahweh's word above what any pastor, preacher, or leader says. Where does it say in your Bible that the act of masturbating is a sin? (And if anyone points to the sin of Onan, please read the context and use your God-given intellect, not some brain-washing religious message beaten into you! In addition, some real study on the matter reveals that what he did in Jewish society by spilling his seed - was to use her for his sexual pleasure, while s…	/r/askRPC	11/03/20 09:03 AM
1	When, if ever, is lying acceptable? Also, a good "line in the sand" regarding lies and deception - if a lie or deception is honorable, I do not see it as a sin (see Bible for many examples). If the lie is to cover up a sin and not repent, or causes harm to an (honorable) person, etc., then it is sinful and should be repented of openly, thoroughly, and genuinely. I believe our english language is too limited and vague with words on this subject. Similar to "love" vs the 7 words for 7 different types of love in Greek. So realizing t…	/r/askRPC	11/03/20 08:46 AM
1	When, if ever, is lying acceptable? Agreed. A long term relationship to someone who will lie like this is not likely to go well. You mentioned she was scared of your anger... if you are not a safe place for her or are verbally, mentally, or physically abusive, then her lying out of realistic fear of you makes sense (similar to Rahab lying about the Israelite spies). However, if you merely meant she didn't want to face the truth by taking responsibility (and possibly repenting, etc.) for what she did, then that sounds like a lying …	/r/askRPC	11/03/20 08:37 AM
4	Whose game are you winning? Absolutely amazing write-up!	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/03/20 07:56 AM
1	Building your slut: Part 1 - Anal I think the OP is attempting to say (albeit rudely) that one of the best ways to warm most women up to anal is using your tongue. None of what he said is "required". Don't make it legalistic! Its sex... between living human beings who have diverse feelings, concepts, and physical sensations. I agree with what he said as being very good guideline to noobs for PiA. Case-in-point... I personally know a wife who resisted every attempt at even warming towards anal. Said it was going to hurt for sure.…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/02/20 07:45 AM
1	Building your slut: Part 1 - Anal Great post! See my post on how silicone on silicone is perfectly fine when using pure, body-safe silicone.	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/02/20 02:15 AM
1	Building your slut: Part 1 - Anal Hey, just wanted to post this because I hate this myth! A quality silicone (platinum, medical, etc. grade) toy with a quality silicone lube will not degrade the toy at all! Obviously test first... don't want melting silicone inside you. If either are tainted (pun!), then they likely have toxic chemicals in them that leach and you shouldn't be using them on or especially inside your body imho. You can Google "silicone sex toy testing" to find great info on this. There are some sites that only sel…	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/02/20 01:39 AM