awesomedeluxe Archive

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3	Okay, /r/seduction, I'm hitting up the field tonight. I'll give a FR tomorrow. hey yeah i know how that is once you get used to k-closing you do it all the time. remember that going for the k-close pretty much always builds attraction, even if you miss--and the other 10% of the time it gets you out of a set you didn't want to be in but starting out it's good to have a couple of crutches to make sure you actually do it. the book you read has a couple of routines for that--i recommend the "are you a good kisser?" line: if she says yes, kiss her. if she says maybe, tell her y…	/r/seduction	09/08/12 10:42 PM
5	Seddit, what are your go-to questions/ jokes/ games etc. to spark life back into a dying conversation? didn't see my favorite one in here--nothing. sometimes it's powerful to just be completely comfortable with silence and just keep looking her back in the eyes. she will either break the silence herself or mirror you (in which case escalate quickly).	/r/seduction	08/08/12 02:39 AM
3	this is painful... an FR one of my favorite FRs in awhile. thanks for sharing this. it sounds like you were pretty suave for the first 90%. just keep this in mind for how to be sexier for the last 10%. part of that was on her and part of that was on her roommate but keep in mind that once you get back to the apartment it's as important as ever to still be playing with her and getting her hot. you don't even seem like you want to have sex anymore chilling out and talking about tunes with her roommate.	/r/seduction	17/07/12 05:16 PM
2	How do you cheer yourself up? just focus on yourself and making yourself better. as long as you can look at yourself and see that you're accomplishing the things you want, things like this won't be able to get you down.	/r/seduction	17/07/12 04:57 PM
9	xMODx] We are not spamming you. r/pickup is doing a poor job convincing me that they do much picking up.	/r/seduction	25/06/12 11:26 PM
2	Does anyone dislike making friends with guys that are 'better' than you? This is really brilliant and deserves a lot of credit. OP is focused on what he gets from the group and is afraid he's being outshined. But focus on what you bring to the table instead and your value will skyrocket.	/r/seduction	17/06/12 08:57 PM
4	What has caused you to say "no" to an attractive woman trying to sleep with you? I've heard a lot of people in game say trying to demand "respect" from a girl these days is a fool's game, and that emphasis should be on being non-reactive. Thoughts? What's it mean for a girl to respect you and where do you draw the line?	/r/seduction	23/05/12 12:02 AM
7	A simple checklist for day/night game to go from approaching to number close. Suggestions are welcome. I think this is a nice cheat sheet, but I worry about IOI's. You'll hear a lot of people say this, but IOIs can hurt your confidence as much as help it--some people wait all night for IOIs and never k-close. And you always gotta be closing! My advice is this: know IOIs, and when you see them, enjoy them. But don't wait for them--I've k-closed plenty of times without them, and other guys have too! Remember, 9 times out of 10, going for the kiss will either a) get you a kiss b) build attraction or…	/r/seduction	21/02/12 05:54 PM
2	Repost of what to do when a girl flakes on you really, this has been one of my favorite tools since I learned it from your post last summer. you rock!	/r/seduction	21/02/12 05:42 PM
1	What in the world is the point of friend zone oneitis... for the girl? Emotional comfort. Seduction basics (Mystery Method) are that you've got to attract the girl, build comfort, and then seduce. If you build comfort first, and only build comfort, then that's all she's going to look for from you. A lot of people see girls who friendzone guys as somehow actively malevolent, but I don't think that's (usually) the case.	/r/seduction	24/01/12 05:54 PM
7	Don't wait for the awkward goodbye kiss at the end of the night while exiting the car or at the front door. [FR from a chick's POV] Great to see a girl's perspective here. Just to share some advice back: if you're not into a guy that's totally cool, but if you're on a date with someone you're in to, don't try to "test his game." Most guys, even if they're awesome dudes, don't know much on seduction, and this kind of stuff could lower your value in their eyes. This community is to help people make more awesome connections, not less--so use it to help you get guys you like!	/r/seduction	26/11/11 06:12 PM
1	The 20/80 Rule And How It Can Help With Women Was this a new girl? For new girls, I always recommend you only meet them somewhere easy for you (like after work / class). This makes it easier to stay positive even if they don't show	/r/seduction	26/11/11 05:05 PM
2	Any casual herb smokers find that smoking ruins your game? unless you're doing something fancy, sprinkling adderall on top of weed wouldn't work. the active chemicals would be destroyed during combustion. a vaporizer would probably work	/r/seduction	25/11/11 09:15 PM
5	Rule Checklist for texting or text based communication Good general advice, especially for people starting out who like these kinds of firm rules. One thing: Making a date with her? - Call her. It is more personal and it is harder for her to dodge and you get a firm response from it. Nothing wrong with calling a girl to set up a date, but if you're more comfortable texting, just text. If she agrees to the date just because she felt pressured during the call, she'll probably flake anyway.	/r/seduction	07/11/11 05:46 AM
8	TofuTofu here to answer your questions... What are some techniques you use to minimize flakes? Especially when you have dates set up a week in advance or are meeting a girl from OKC. Daygame techniques for groups--in particular, how do you isolate the target? Do you sometimes get both girls' numbers just to be polite, and then just text your target later? Was it hard adjusting to game after coming back from Japan? I always feel like being white makes it super easy to open in Asia. Thanks man, you rock.	/r/seduction	27/10/11 07:43 PM
3	Straight to the point. Tough love on why your game isn't as good as you want it to be. Too negative. He's not wrong--in most cases, he's right--but that kind of negativity does not promote good game. Also, D.C. is not nearly as bad as roosh makes it out to be.	/r/seduction	11/10/11 08:22 PM
1	Does anyone else find situational openers far more effective than direct? Direct is fun too. When I come up to a girl on the street and say "hey i think you're cute" I don't have to hesitate for a second to think of what to say. I'm just saying what's on my mind.	/r/seduction	22/08/11 02:52 PM
3	[FR] Failed in closing HB9, ended up closing awesome HB8. would love to know what kind of spanish you pulled to shut that guy out	/r/seduction	04/08/11 03:35 AM
1	Do I risk losing my gf by being clingy and complimenting her? frogma's comment was spot on. i would underscore this: make sure you're inner game is solid and you're not relying on her too much for validation. the jealousy is a bit of a warning sign that you may be doing this. as long as you're not letting the fact that you have a great relationship with a 9 define you, then you've got a great relationship with a 9 and should just keep being genuine.	/r/seduction	31/07/11 05:37 AM
2	Cold Reading: Easier than you think!! girls can be fickle. you could say pretty much anything negative about PF, and GB would probably agree. like feeding fish to a seal. it's easy, but i wouldn't want to be in that spiral of negativity.	/r/seduction	27/07/11 03:22 AM
30	"You should know, I'm always right about everything" A shit test, except the princess actually believes it haha I got this today! I asked her the color of my underwear. ...actually, she guessed it right, but it really doesn't matter because I was having fun	/r/seduction	20/07/11 08:58 AM