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Always, always, always take her information (number, ig, snap, etc.) Women are usually pretty bad at following-up, so it’s always up to you to push things forward. You have more control that way as well.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 05:50 AM
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Lol did you have advice, or did you just come to pass your judgement? My question wasn’t about her trusting me if you read my post thoroughly. I already admitted to fucking up on that front. My question was about the testing.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:04 PM
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Thanks for the response. Yeah, at this point I’m kind of just fatigued of having to prove myself and my commitment to the ltr jumping through hoops to make her happy. I do respect myself and my value. I’m currently struggling with emotional investment in the ltr, sink cost fallacy, etc. which makes it hard to cut it off completely, but I hear you. I just have to power through it. I think I’m going to start living my life a lot more freely in 2021.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:04 PM
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Facts bro.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:00 PM
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Thanks for the response. I agree with your realization and realize that I fucked up too. I think there’s a difference between a woman testing your frame and a woman testing your integrity. I think the former is awalt and it’s just to be expected, but I think the latter is just kinda fucked up after 2 years of dating and stems from insecurity. I realize that things could’ve went differently had I just given her what she was looking for and I can accept the responsibility for that, but is it reall…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:00 PM
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This makes sense. Usually our disagreements stem from something her “friends” bring up or point her attention to. Otherwise, things are fine.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:56 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Going forward, I think what I’ve learned from this is to be unapologetic and do what I want to do, regardless of how she might feel. That way I won’t feel like I have to withhold anything because I won’t care what she thinks. She blames her insecurities on me not bending to her will by apologizing and assuring her that I won’t do it again, but I hear you and agree. She definitely has more insecurities than what I’ve seen in past ltrs. I’ll enjoy my new year and revisit thi…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 05:55 PM
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No problem brother. It'll take time, but just keep the course and you'll get there.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 04:05 AM
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btw, comfort tests should only be applied to LTRs. It's not as hard as you think it is. It's similar to tapping into your BP tendencies with a slight twist. Just go with what feels instinctually-right to do without thinking too hard about what kind of test it is. You should be able to tell naturally if you're being tested on your boundaries or if you're being tested on your ability to show affection.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:25 PM
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Well, by you saying you're feeling "cucked", I'm assuming that at some point, you either consciously or subconsciously may have subtlely displayed this feeling externally in some way, shape, or form. I could be wrong though. Anyhow, if you wanted to see if she would go exclusive with you, why didn't you just ask her directly? Asking upfront if she wants exclusivity with you and assuming her answer based on her response to a completely different question are two different things.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 04:07 AM
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Ok. First thing, don't post walls without breaking it up into paragraphs. It makes me REALLY not wanna read. Now, onto the post... You've been studying RP for 8 months, which is honestly not a long time. It takes YEARS to really download this shit and get it in at an instinctual level (Think about it, you're contradicting DECADES of blue-pill programming. It's gonna take time), so don't be so hard on yourself about it. Second, this is an LTR. This is not a plate anymore. The rules are a bit diff…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:56 AM
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tbh she probably sees your SMV sinking at this point since you broke frame and got butthurt about her response to raw dogging. SMV isn't gonna lock a woman down to only fuck you when you aren't exclusive to her. She's going to decide that. Why would you even consider wanting to cum inside this woman who isn't exclusive to you and probably has other guys filling her up anyhow? You're asking for trouble with that. To me, it sounds like you're saying she's a plate, but treating/thinking of her like…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:46 AM
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>I asked her if she is banging other dudes since we never established what we were besides buds that fuck. What in god's name made you ask her this? Usually, if you're in the proper mindset, women will ask you this. You seem like you've attached value and a sense of loss to this woman if she were to leave tomorrow. That's not great for what you're trying to do.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:34 AM
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Ok, this post is so all over the place that I'm just going to start where I feel best... You sound like you've got a LOT of shit going on. The problem is, you've got a victim mindset to your shit. Your life is on hold only if you make it on hold. Stop saying "I dont have ..." and instead say "How can I get ..." No friends? Go find and make new ones! No internship? Apply for jobs, revise your resume, improve your interview skills, and repeat until you get a contract YOU LIKE. (It shouldn't be har…
/r/askTRP02/10/18 03:22 AM
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