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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
146	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality?	Discussion	axlee	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 11:44 AM

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1	statusmax: writer, artist, musician considered? I think it depends on the age. The younger you get, the more artists get bonus points. The older you get, priorities change.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/23 10:35 AM
1	Is plastic surgery an example of toxic femininity killing women? What demographic doesn’t struggle at all to get attention from the other side?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 08:18 AM
1	The body-shaming of short men on social media has reached epidemic proportions, yet there seems to be no mainstream discourse about it. Why? You’re out of your mind. Women are far more interested in men’s heights than other men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/23 07:53 AM
1	Which city has the most good looking men? Same for women but not as obvious (Copenhagen, Oslo, Helsinki, the Baltic capitals and some cities in Germany are as good depending on which style you like - as long as you like them blondes). For men though, it's a different tier.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 08:40 AM
3	Which city has the most good looking men? Stockholm, Sweden for men. It’s unreal, the average is actually 6 feet and they all look like male models. Fuckers dress really well too and all go to the gym.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/23 06:46 AM
1	Not receiving sexual attention causes lot of issues and society doesn't acknowledge it Trust me they love that Henry Cavill is into WoW or DnD or whatever. But they’d love it equally if he was into monster trucks, fly fishing of house appliances, as long as he’s Henry Cavill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/23 03:20 PM
1	What's wrong with average men? Men have no demands...they're not picking, they're being picked.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 06:44 PM
5	Women’s preferences in men aren’t as unique as they think they are Why is it then that so many rich and successful guys have tall wives? Of course there is prestige attached, all models and beauty queens are tall	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 06:20 PM
–	Are women's standards for men "high" or "superficial"? It's confusing because everyone has been taught the opposite since millenias. That women are the pure gender who see right through looks while men are horny dogs who only care about appearances. Turns out real life is the opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/23 10:35 AM
–	What does your “ideal” dating life look like? Notice that he didn't mention violent women, criminals, assholes, or anything like that. He just said smoking hot. Most of the resentment from dudes isn't that women get with "hot" guys in their 20s, it's that they get with sociopathic assholes who happen to be hot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/23 01:15 PM
–	"Insecure" and "Controlling" are the new buzzwords used to shame men's standards and gaslight them into believing normal boundaries are toxic. CMV. They get so shamed that at least a good third of Tinder profile proudly announce it to the world	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/09/23 08:53 AM
–	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? Women have been actively fighting against being approached in real life for the past 20 years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 06:55 PM
–	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? What is the real bar, according to you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 03:26 PM
1	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? There are twice as many single young men than there are single young women, obviously something is off. There is simply no way that the majority of average young men are in relationships, because the data says that 65% of them young men overall single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 02:43 PM
–	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? How many likes / date proposals do these women receive when they create an OLD account?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 02:22 PM
–	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? Subscribe to tinder as a 35 years old overweight woman and tell us how many likes and date proposals from normal blokes you receive? I can assure you, she'll exist. Now subscribe to Tinder as the male equivalent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 02:21 PM
1	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? It all depends on the criteria of said "pickiness". You're making it sound like all criteria are personal, when in fact most of them come from social pressure. It was not that long ago that left-handedness was a bad trait.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 02:19 PM
–	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? It doesn't sound like your exes are like the average single professional male looking for a girlfriend/wife. What did they have that made you pick them, then?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 12:42 PM
–	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? Do you think most single men get rejected before or after having been able to show their "adulting" capabilities?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 12:30 PM
–	The idea that « the bar is so low » for men is more and more prominent among women. Do you think that it’s true? Does it match reality? Looking at the other comments here and seeing that yours goes against the grain, would you say that they are correct? That the bar exists and is low but only for physically attractive men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 12:07 PM
1	CMV : Refusing to change to attract women out of some sort of principle is only holding you back and not proving a thing to anybody What are you on about ? The vast majority of men in history of the species haven't reproduced, while the vast majority of women have. This is a genetic fact. So, no, most men in history haven't "pair bonded". What does it mean that we are descended from twice as many women as men? It can be explained like this. Of all the people who ever reached adulthood, maybe 80% of the women but only 40% of the men reproduced. Or perhaps the numbers were 60% versus 30%. But one way or another, a woman’s od…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 09:39 AM
1	Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at all Height and face trumps most of that shit, just look at the social dynamics in any bar/club/OLD	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 06:14 PM
–	I'm (30/m) confused by what women mean when they want to feel protected. Are you sure about the vice versa part? From experience it only goes one way, and any emotional vulnerability the other way is severely punished down the line.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 06:11 PM
1	How is it that each woman has tons of guys chasing after them (on average) when they're 51% of the population How many likes does it show at the bottom of your tinder account?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/23 12:07 PM
4	What do you think are the factors leading to so many men’s lack of romantic success besides hypergamy? Because a single woman can still have intimacy whenever and wherever she wants it, unlike a single man. Being single is a choice for most women, and it's not for most men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 10:17 PM
8	Getting sex isn't an accomplishment, or something to be ashamed of It's very well known and proved that women are more attracted to men with wives/gfs than single guys. Also they're more attracted to men who have slept with their friends.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/09/23 10:43 AM
–	CMV: What I’ve Learned as an Average Guy Among Attractive Friends You're conflating getting in shape and playing the guitar. One helps, the other doesn't. A skinny guy who plays the guitar like a god is still a skinny guy, and no amount of cool tunes will help him. If that guy had spent a tenth of the time bulking up, he'd do better with women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 11:00 PM
–	CMV: What I’ve Learned as an Average Guy Among Attractive Friends The talent doesn’t matter, that’s the point	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 10:33 PM
–	CMV: What I’ve Learned as an Average Guy Among Attractive Friends Nobody gives a shit on how well you can play the guitar, if chad comes and say he can play wonderwall then he’ll be the “artist” and you’ll be left with your useless course	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 10:26 PM
4	If you’re too scared to talk to women, that’s natural selection at work Average men get matches? That’s a new one	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 12:42 AM
3	CMV: The most reasonable explanation for the disparity between the number of young men and women who report being single is that women are "sharing" the most desirable men. Well they are, every time a woman talks about her FWb, you can assume the guy is having multiple ones. It takes a special character to be labeled a FWB as a young guy (and yes, height looks etc)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/23 05:58 PM
1	Bluepill is mostly right on relationships, Redpill is mostly right on dating and meeting new people It’s more than a guy gets to roll once a week, but a woman gets to roll a hundred times a day with OLD. Women can afford to « wait » for the exact combination they want because it’ll come faster to them anyway. A man who wants to hit exactly all his checklist will have to wait forever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 06:56 PM
1	Telling people to get a better personality in order to date is pointless The biggest factor in this new online world is the quality of the pictures. Social capabilities have no impact whatsoever. You‘re stuck in 2008.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 06:53 PM
–	What do you think of hypergamy? > Even if your rate of conversion is 1/10000 it makes you rejected more, but it also makes you selected more. It has to. That's the point you're missing, it doesn't have to. When you increase the absolute number of highly desirable available men, it moves all the average men down the stack. The more highly desirable available men around, the worse the average man will do, as these men can hold the attention from 5,10,20,100 women without a problem. Women are perfectly fine waiting in line. That …	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 12:17 PM
–	Women get resentful from splitting half the costs with their partners They can date them and they do. Being exclusive is something for average men, for outliers they don't need to be exclusive/respectuf/considerate etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 12:09 PM
–	What do you think of hypergamy? The effect doesn't cancel out: for women, they used to go "down" in requirements once the pool of ~hypergamable~ partners had dried down. There were just so many guys checking the usual height/money/status boxes. Now, it effectively never dries down. So they can chase it forever. Men, on the other hand, get indeed "exposed" to many more women, but it makes them rejected by more women. It does not increase the average man's chance of success, if anything it decreases it. What matters in dating su…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/23 09:54 AM
6	It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no. He never said that either. He’s just talking about approaching, that’s it. Men have to do it. Women don’t do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 10:53 PM
2	It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no. He never said that	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 10:25 PM
1	It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no. He said nothing about intimacy; he talked about being allowed to approach people. Intimacy is what comes next, but he never mentioned not caring if the woman rejects him.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 10:07 PM
5	It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no. He never said that literally, intimacy always starts with an introduction, and someone has to do it	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 09:58 PM
7	It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no. Oh shit he dared as a man to want intimacy, that must be objectification!!! Do you listen to yourself? Do you react the same way when a girl says she wished to have a loving beautiful tall husband?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 09:51 PM
15	Today society is PERFECT for men No one besides a small percentage can enjoy the fruits of this modern society. But everything that you wrote here is true for them. Unfortunately, that’s 10-15% of men, basically the tall ones who aren’t hideous. The rest is left aside. Casual sex is for any woman who wants to have it and the men who check the right boxes, not for “men” in general.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 11:00 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? Natural selection is selecting for traits that can survive until mating age and are more successful than others at performing said mating. That also includes helping offsprings achieving the same goals. Nothing to do with diversity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 05:32 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? Eugenics are not natural selection	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 05:19 PM
–	How are men supposed to meet women? Just listen to average looking men who actually pull women regularly, ignore the rest. Good looking/tall men give shit advice, women give shit advice, and people who can’t pull it off give theoretical advice. Listen to anyone who is <5’9” and successful with women, they’ll give you the real practical answers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/08/23 05:10 PM
3	If a man struggles with dating, romance, or sex, why is the default assumption that he is misogynistic or at least has problematic views on women, and that he doesn't see women as people? It’s not socially accepted, these guys are vilified in the mainstream. Look at Tate. It’s like saying nazism is accepted because you know a nazi YouTuber.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 12:51 PM
4	If a man struggles with dating, romance, or sex, why is the default assumption that he is misogynistic or at least has problematic views on women, and that he doesn't see women as people? There have not been socially accepted bad things that can be said about women at all for the past ~15 years. When it comes to men, it’s open season.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/23 12:31 PM