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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 09:29 PM
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It ranges from them treating you as invisible to being downright rude to you about your presence. What is perceived as normal looking to others is a general observation of a large collection of people so of course people will appear normal. But when you start narrowing it down to experiences such as this, and comparing them to other people that's when you realise that while you appear normal, does not mean you are subconsciously perceived as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:02 PM
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Great, abolish the idea that men must be providers The second men don't act like providers most women become repulsed by them. So please explain how this is all men's fault?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:20 PM
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But he did get with Zendaya so that kind of cancels this out
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:49 PM
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Why are we bringing Tom Holland into this
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:41 PM
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I never once said they were not. I just said that physical attraction can sometimes be a major reason why relationships end. Sometimes it stops existing and therefore all the other qualities become useless. It's not something to ever take personal either. This is just my personal opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:35 PM
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It matters as far as a relationship lasting. Just as much as not being a shitty person matters in that too. Both have to meet a certain minimum for someone to want to commit to the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:57 PM
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Sometimes. I’m very attracted to funny, charismatic and enthusiastic men But if you have no physical attraction then the attraction to that is meaningless is what they are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:42 PM
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Any time a man looks at the dating situation objectively, he gets accused of being bitter and hating women. Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:39 PM
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That is not what this post is saying. It's trying to highlight an understanding of what loneliness actually is and you are choosing to ignore that part to suit your own narrative by playing the blame men card. Where does your response come into a single word this post has said? It clearly demonstrates how men have to respond to loneliness differently than women do. That doesn't make a man a misogynist to be able to recognise that. You should look up something called woman are wonderful effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:07 PM
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women are not born in loneliness they adapt to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:05 PM
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Women aren't entitled to friendship from men. I don't think enough women understand this. There's a difference between being friendly because you actually see them as a friend, and knowing of interest and deliberately treating them as such and then wondering why they distance from that. Any one who manipulates men to feel guilty for that behaviour deserves any criticism. Men have a right to not feel exploited and used for someone else's gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:26 PM
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Also for women talk about loneliness while knowing they can escape their loneliness at the drop of a hat. If a man wants to escape his loneliness, it's much more difficult and much more unlikely for success, as generally speaking, men and women do not empathise nor care about men unless it somehow benefits them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 01:12 PM
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Is that actually supported by evidence? I mean if the 80/20 rule is anything to go by..
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:47 PM
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Part of it, but I guarantee you most of unattractive men's confidence just comes off as creepiness. This is literally a fact from a psychological stand point. Yes men can do creepy shit at times, but what is passed or 'allowed' is generally dependant on how good looking you are as a man...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:47 PM
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The average guy sleeps around alot more than the average woman. That is absolutely and completely delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:45 PM
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Says the person literally online...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:49 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:47 PM
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“Boo hoo ALL men have it tough. ALL women suck.” Said the unbiased man. Way to put words in people's mouth but then discredit actual actions of some women. Whatever you say pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:18 PM
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You know being called emotional goes both ways but choose to ignore it since it doesn’t benefit you Most women leave when men do. You are literally contradicting yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:44 PM
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To think that what you read online is a majority of the real world is so dumb. No.. because this happened in real life. I switch off the online world.. . and boom I can't escape it why? Because it's right in my face as I live and breathe in the real world. men hate to be vulnerable and take practically everything as an attack the double standards of this is completely insane We get therapy, but do women get therapy for all the bad men they date, OR do they blame them all for being manipulative d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:45 PM
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All woman say kill all men. All of them Never did I say all women. But a lot women sure do like to state all men. But of course, that's not illegal in the workplace, or at all on social media.. But sure a man vents anything about women that has the slightest hint of misogyny he is condemned to hell and practically loses his life. One rule for thee, not for me..
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:25 PM
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My husband is 5’8” and has never had any problems dating despite not being 6’ Look I'm not saying anyone with average height or even my height struggles because of their height. I'm just saying that it's likely, that me, and your husband, I guarantee if you asked them, will have experienced some mild discrimination because they weren't a specific height whether that's in job promotion or dating. They are pretty damaging experiences as a result of something you can't control. I'm just being sugge…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:09 PM
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So you have a victim complex about your height? It's hard not to have a victim complex if any woman you show interest in prefers guys over 6 feet tall, and it's hard not to when you can't change it. I developed a sense of humour about it You can shrug off mindless comments about being called a midget, or a little kid, try shrugging off comments about being too short to date. and the reason I'm not datable is because I'm not 6 feet/handsome enough You just need to be comfortable in your own skin …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:58 PM
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And short men are told they have Napoleon complexes anytime they vent about how cruel women are about their height. Anything they do in their life has a stain because it is believe it is compensating for either their height or their looks. I agree it means men have more of a chance to make up for it. But to act like women don't have much better dating realities over men is delusional. I have seen women even I find physically unattractive with men who were 6'3 built like army veterans. How am I s…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:13 PM
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had difficulty dating because she is 5’10” and not model quality. Tall women will never be rejected or hindered or subjected to mockery because of a physicality they can't change the way men are, because of something such as their height. Shorter men, and men below 6 feet, get a lot of abuse for their height from women, especially on social media, and that social media mentality comes from somewhere irl. height most of the time, a requirement for a man. But not for a woman. Is a man more likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:04 PM
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IRL I’ve never heard any woman complain about a man’s height. Have you been living under a rock? Like the cavemen?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:52 PM
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Except women are "allowed" to be assholes about their complaints towards men. This is exactly what people don't get. Men are constantly told: 'Just be kind' while literally going around saying kill all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:49 PM
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A man who complains about the women available for dating is labeled (by society at large) an incel / Tate dick-rider / etc and is roundly denied. A woman who complains about men is labled (by society at large) a "kween who knows her worth" and is at worst considered "picky" but more often considered "totally reasonable" Exactly just toxic double standards meant to silence men anytime they have a similar experience. MEN AREN'T ALLOWED THE SAME EXPERIENCE AS US :O
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:46 PM
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No they don't. The end. Women get a pass. Show me one example of a woman getting dragged or fired for saying heinous shit about men. Just one. Please, I'll wait. They'll definitely struggle with that one. Not only that but women are allowed to completely shame a man for rejecting them and destroy their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:46 PM
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Women don't have stricter standards than men, Men don't have stricter standards than women. Y'all will blame everything possible for dating problems, besides the one thing that is truly hindering people from dating success. There are some characteristics that can be controlled vs characteristics which can't though. I feel like this is a lot what men complain about. While I agree that women might be judged more overall on their appearance, men are heavily judged on attributes which are completely…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:48 PM
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People settle because the what they have is worth not knowing what else is out there. It’s harder now cause of social media/dating apps but this is still the basis of dating and getting into relationships. Exactly. Social media and dating apps have given a warped view, of what women believe they are able to settle for and are actually able to settle with. Just because you can attract an Instagram model does not mean he will settle with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:41 PM
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I would "settle" because I've invested time and effort into bonding with a person, opening up This is what I cannot understand about some women's attitude an ego when they are choosing partners and suiters for long term relationships. If you actually achieved and found everything you wanted in a partner, and it's successful then great. But it's not always realistic and it's impossible for all men to meet all standards especially when some standards start becoming requirements, and especially so …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:40 PM
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Or maybe you're too self critical?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 08:21 PM
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I don't think my height is either, but hey each to their own.. .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:43 PM
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Maybe so. But most women chase the same type of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:17 PM
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If she's average then a lot of these guys are going to want to just use her for sex. So they aren't really dating options. In my experience women tend to actually subconsciously gravitate to those men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 04:33 PM
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Yeah but it's usually reposts and rehashed of baits, trolls and fake posts tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:58 PM
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People seem to be generally empathetic towards them though. What's worse, is that weight is something you can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:58 PM
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That's what I feel too. When it's so obvious how many times a guy can witness women picking partners who just constantly abuse them, but then actively admit they are repulsed by guys they know who wouldn't, of course the easy way out is to condemn all of them as either nice guys, or abusive assholes. It just proves there's no winning as a guy. I think there are actual nice guys out there who believe that certain experiences owe them sex. But no guy who can actively see how the dating game is, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 12:57 PM
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it's stupid to even consider blaming women for this. Not wrong entirely, but it's not in men's power to change anymore than it is the woman's their dating experience is their choice. no one points a gun to their head telling them to pick someone And if the large majority of men are unattractive to women, how can it be in their power to change it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:22 PM
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Date a really ugly man ​ Was he insecure about his looks Yeah.. . no wonder, wouldn't blame him if he was..
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:50 PM
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Sums it up right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 09:28 PM
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The problem is that the majority of guys seem not to be attractive to the majority of women. As a result, a lot of guys are and likely will remain single for the foreseeable future But some women act like they are the ones with the dating problems
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:26 PM
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Indians are more rejected for their race than any other, before they even begin
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 07:24 PM
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The thing that angers me the most about this, is that, women normally never will risk having their social awkwardness, social ineptness, be dismissed or be labeled as weird, creepy, dangerous, etc. As a man you have to be tip top perfect, to even be considered a viable option to a woman, in all areas of your life. As a woman, you can be disrespectful, hate men, have no social skills or self awareness and still be one of the most sought after women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:21 PM
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The difference is though one gender seems to get away with it more...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:55 PM
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'man cheated, all men are bad'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:57 PM
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Go back and read my very first comment, then return to my comment. Thanks again.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:48 PM
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I literally never changed my stance once. I always said women have the upper hand, and you are doing nothing but proving my first point as to how feminism is protecting your standards which, if men had, would be perceived as shallow and disrespectful to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:39 PM
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So this said woman has simps, men pursuing her and is able to date men more attractive than her. And the men complaining have nothing… and she’s doing it wrong? There are more men than women in the world. Women are chasing the top percent of men and you are proving that. It's just hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:58 PM
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But how is a woman being unrealistic if she’s succeeding? Men aren't able to be unrealistic and succeed. That is the difference women cannot understand because it's a reality you do not have to experience as a woman. You do the picking, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:55 PM
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I know think they deserve an instagram model They don't. That's the narrative people like to spin to silence the fact that women have some shallow standards. Such as being 6ft, 6fig etc. Not overweight, but date an overweight woman, etc. Double standards and hypocrisy everywhere for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:05 PM
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You don't think they actually mean it, do you? Yes. They really do mean it, lol. Men are much more realistic and self aware. Women are not due to the protection modern day feminism has given them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:12 PM
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and without someone claiming they look tired or sick. As a guy, you think I've never had to suck up being told flat out that I look 'tired or sick?' Looks like men don't get this luxury of make up...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:10 PM
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This post proves nothing but just how oblivious women can be to their advantages lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:29 PM
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But he's being "pick me" so other people frame it as his loss or demise You can't win. You have self respect and work on yourself so you feel better after rejection, it's 'pick me' If a woman does the exact same thing it's empowering for her and all women involved. Also, why should he settle for women who don't like having a physically active lifestyle? edit can't tell if im agreeing or disagreeing with you, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 12:37 PM
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drags people down. A bad attitude. That's just gaslighting for people who are unattractive who most know they would reject.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 08:47 PM
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Pretty sure it requires consent from both parties for a relationship. So a 5'1 Indian gets to choose whether to be with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:07 PM
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Yes, because they should take accountability for their choices. Men don't get to do the picking in relationships. At least not the same way women do. Did you even read your own comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:08 PM
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I like how for these issues it’s women’s fault and no accountability for the men that are being “sluts” online. Why should men be taking accountability for the men women are picking themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:06 PM
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Most men who get friend zoned are just young men in love. Most men who do approach just get labelled a creep if it's not made openly clear enough. I understand men can contribute to that behaviour but it doesn't help receiving signals that could be perceived no more than politeness. Especially if that behaviour is the same with every other guy she interacts with. Most men are going to take that assumption in today's world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:08 PM
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whatever you say love
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:55 PM
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Women and men both perpetuate this idea that men will 'fuck anything' and never actually see them as more than a friend. That's why you have women who think they can spout 'just take me as I am'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 12:44 PM
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Lol. They get a bad rap because society wants to belittle those in situations which they know are tougher than theirs because that's what suits their narrative. 'Oh, I tried hard because I had a good attitude so that's why you fail' said the 6 foot tall guy or woman who literally could attract any man in a room from her physical beauty alone. It's fucking absurd the amount of stick short men get. Not only this but women perpetuate on social media all the time about how short men are so undatable…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 10:10 AM
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Everything men say, is based off of what women have said. They learn from their beliefs and actions. Not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 08:29 AM
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penis inside her, she probably thinks you're just like a cute friend who has no attraction to her. That is just completely misandristic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 08:01 PM
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but that doesn't make it the woman's fault. I'm not saying it does. I'm just saying it's what most men consistently experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 11:12 PM
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Yes, he can choose not too. But ultimately that is not changing that another man out there will always jump at the opportunity if a woman gives that opportunity, regardless if you, or I did not. Leading men on, is a reference to women who like the chase. They get a thrill from men they have absolutely zero intention of having any relation with other than politeness or buddy buddy, and use that to make them believe they have higher status than they actually do. Because in reality those men who th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:54 PM
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care to elaborate? or not, typically when you don't have a strong enough point to respond with I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 10:16 PM
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delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:56 AM
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No, it's because women have options, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:45 AM
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I.. don't think that's the case, considering men's tinder is the equivalent of a radioactive warzone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 11:19 PM
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Like I said. It's an ego boost.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 10:50 PM
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I'm a bit late to the party, but FUCKING FACTS
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 08:26 PM
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Like, oh my god this guy that's a 10 with all the options.. didn't put any effort into me?? Holy shit, is it because maybe I don't put any effort or prove why he should stay? No that can't be it surely...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:10 PM
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Men 'friendzone' themselves. They choose it. Women also choose their men that they complain about. What's your point here? they Will F anything um, no they won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:04 PM
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interested romantically, you decide to become an orbiter hoping she changes her mind. Any man in the friend zone placed himself there. He could easily not be her friend. Counter point, women are continuously giving men mixed signals, and actually leading men on because it boosts their already inflated egos because they are too afraid to point blank reject a man. Also - you do not choose to be an orbiter - because most occasions happen where the woman is in control. The only time you are not an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:03 PM
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4/5 times she only wants to be best buddies with me. Absolutely nail on the fucking head. Then you have women constantly justifying why they are rejecting an entire gender only to go and chase the same man every other woman is chasing. They literally admit it and are proud of it. Then use it as a tool to get on social media and base their entire personality around shitting on, and hating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 07:02 PM
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Lol that is literally the definition of modern feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 07:09 PM
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But it doesn't guarantee success. This is the problem I have with Andrew Tate in general. Not only is he completely controversial and capitalising on vulnerable young men, but none of what he says, even if you achieved it guarantees success with women. People like him really believe that because it happened to him that means it can happen to everyone else too. This goes for a lot of successful people. They think 'oh I did it, so that must mean everyone else on the planet can be rich and successf…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 07:40 PM
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you're welcome to sing a song to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:33 PM
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are you looking for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:16 PM
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It is when you lump together 4 BILLION people 'All men are trash' is not misandry? And you are single also because of your choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 08:12 PM
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What do you want a pity party for all the unfaithful men? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 07:54 PM
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self-pity self-made misogynistic fundamentalist echo chambers, but other realities exist. It's misogynistic to criticise women's behaviour? It's misogynistic to say that you lead men on and enjoy their attention while crying about unfaithful men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:55 PM
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Hypocrisy is holding others to a moral standard you do not apply to yourself. Yes. Expecting commitment from men you know will only have sex with you. Is the exact same as knowing a guy wants a relationship with you but you refuse to. Edit: Also note, Just as you claim 'a man put himself in the friendzone because he's not entitled to sex from me' You are also NOT entitled to commitment from men, if he doesn't value you at commitment level. Ie you offer bare minimum but ask the extreme standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 06:53 PM
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It is though. If you are complaining about men who won't commit to you ie use you for sex, but put loads of men in the friend zone, that's hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:03 PM
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Because I think you forget the phrase 'you wouldn't take fishing advice from a fish'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:30 PM
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Honestly? At this point? Let them. It's easy for you to say in a position as a woman with very few issues in dating experience. It's like me being rich and having no empathy for the poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:11 PM
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The same survey shows that 2/3 of men were chasing the top 1/3 of women; basically doing exactly what the guys around here accused women of doing. The difference is, the study also showed relaxed standards from men also, some are forced to look to women who they don't even find physically attractive, just so they don't end up alone such as very overweight women for example, whereas women were less likely to relax their physical demands of men. Women 'messaging' those men proves nothing that thos…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:08 PM
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20% of men "very attractive" but still messaged men not in that 80%. You mean the very last sentence from his own opinion on the article he wrote, or the data that was clearly backed up and actually given in evidence? You are literally reciting from the same article I read.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 08:56 PM
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So everywhere and nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 10:27 PM
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This is anecdotal but the men I see really struggling tend to be below average themselves or delusional to what their own league is. Are you sure? Because it seems to me that it's been backed by studies that men are very forgiving with women's appearance. When women have requirements of mens height or facial attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 10:30 PM
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It's not mens fault either.. If it's patriarchy's fault men also get hurt by it, and not by their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 09:13 PM
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I don't disagree with your argument from a woman's point of view, but women are also abusive when rejected, not just men. I still feel my argument stands regardless of your perspective, even though true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 06:36 PM
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This hypothetical person, much like me, needs to lower their standards to match what they have to offer. Men have lowered their standards to the floor. Women have raised theirs to the ceiling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:18 PM
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They're both at fault, but one gets seen in a better light. Men are treated like they are entitled to sex when they are put in the friend zone, yet women act like they were automatically entitled to commitment when they are placed in the fuck zone. It's hypocrisy, and of course, as usual, men branded as evil in every angle of this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 07:32 PM
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You’re so good at knowing things about the opposite sex. Good job. Again you seem to think you know an awful lot about men. Saying that men wont date anyone else that isn't a size 2, Everything you are speaking right now, you are speaking about yourself. But no I'm the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 06:36 PM
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Not to mention, women aren’t allowed to have such desires in men without them being the devil. Please stop trying to paint yourself as reasonable. You aren’t. Literally contradictory because you are literally saying that men are evil for not being attracted to all overweight women while expecting us to be happy with why women want tall men. Still, pretty expected from women like you. Hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:09 PM
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but it’ll still be harder for them to find a partner who is attracted to them. You're coming from a bias and not understanding the difference in what can be controlled vs what can't. A lot of men would kill for the opportunity to be able to work for a better height. But guess what they never will be able to, probably ever. But society places so much value on it and you wonder why you have angry shorter men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:28 PM
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Lol, you are acting like men only like hourglass shape figure women, just as much as women claim that women don't only like tall men. Lol if it's not both then it's not one or the other either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:50 PM
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Either way, it’s completely false that all you have to do is not be obese. Maybe not, but it has the same impactful difference, as a guy being tall or objectively good looking will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:47 PM
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Basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:56 PM
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size 2, whether it’s healthy or not. Get over yourself. I think obesity is a pretty severe problem that women seem to be romanticising. Men are being shamed while rejecting women at an unhealthy weight. Maybe you should stop gaslighting. Statistics are showing very clearly men are very forgiving with looks while women tend to be more shallow with height and looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:54 PM
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Men are just as picky about looks as a lot of women can be. Yeah if they are 6 foot tall and handsome they will be picky. God comments like these annoy me so much. So ignorant, to how many men you are clearly admitting to rejecting. If you go for 20% of looks criteria then of course men will be picky. Most men in this sub will take what they can, as long as they are not obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:54 PM
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That's probably got something to do with the fact that, *shock,* weight is something you can change.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 11:17 AM
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Tall guys (6 foot) to be specific, are 10% of the worlds population, and you wonder why posts like this are being made. No problem with a preference, but don't complain about men complaining if you have requirements on height.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:42 PM
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What's the problem if the women in question want consensual sex with "the hotter guy"? Because you are not seeing the point that there's a difference between an attractive guy and a hot guy. There are very few 'hot guys' that you would describe. Is one of your 'hot guy' requirements tall by any chance? Do you need to be reminded of that percentage?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:32 PM
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Being an unattractive woman is actually worse since women are so valued for their looks. This is beyond delusional. The only requirement men have for women is to not be obese... And the fact that your tag is 'date within your league' LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 06:31 PM
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It's almost like men just wanna chill out while women just want constant progress. And people wonder why men don't want to date anymore. Risk-reward factor is inflated to the most unrealistic degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:15 PM
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woman don't fit the standards/are considered unattractive, changing things won't help. A little rich thing to say under a post from OP struggling to find unattractive women who are attracted to him.... You're just proving his point. All you are proving is that women are shooting too high and putting many men in the friendzone before they've even tried.. Hence the entire point of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:02 PM
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No amount of cute dresses or hair changes can get you a man if you really don’t fit the standards. No amount of praying will make me 6 feet tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:57 PM
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Except the difference of what you can work on is palpable. Men can't change their height or their face. Most of what women tend to get rejected on are things such as their weight among other stylistic options that she has the power to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:46 PM
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Not only this, but even less attractive women are able to date up and have more options than unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:45 PM
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Unfortunately, if you're short and / or attractive, this will not likely get you dates This is what people here don't seem to understand. You can do all of this, have a great life and it doesn't magically make you physically attractive. There are murderers, or men who have done jail time who are physically attractive, but guess what there were women who still wanted to sleep with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 07:22 PM
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I wasn't talking about you I was talking about influencers such as Andrew Tate with the alleged trafficking etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:20 PM
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moral evil and men should deal with it for the benefit of women. This is my issue when women are condemning any influencers who are genuinely trying to support men. Yes some have done horrible things that make it hard to support them, but it doesn't mean everything they say is inherently wrong. I am sick of this idea that improvement life quality for men is somehow a threat to women. This lense in itself is just a threat to mens mental health and perpetuates the issue every time you condemn a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 03:42 PM
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but what's needed now is new to men Not just needed, but sometimes completely either unrealistic or unattainable. I always notice mens mental health increase positively when they stop trying to cater to women's needs and instead cater to their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:33 PM
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Yeah, no, this is just the "reasoning" incels use to justify being assholes to women. so they don't like assholes then they just date them instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:59 PM
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odd isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 11:58 PM
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Having a social circle doesn't guarantee someone in that circle will consider you attractive enough to date. Especially when women have options and will likely not be picking from their social circle and are more likely to pick their men exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 05:32 PM
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many say what you say only to cope You going to date a 400 pound woman who smokes 50 a day? I doubt that. Most people I have noticed definitely come with way more baggage which makes being single way more appetising. Also, I'm saying based off of the position that it's not going to change, not from the position that it will. Also edit, I said miserable relationship. Not a relationship at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:22 PM
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I would rather die having been relatively happy single, than die knowing I was in a miserable relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/23 09:03 PM
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If you’re shitting on peoples features that you don’t find attractive then yeah people might judge you I mean.. that's basically what you do if you only care about a man's height or face.. yeah.. exactly... stop gaslighting me, and stop trying to manipulate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:19 PM
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People will continue to fuck who they want to fuck and your feelings aren’t going to change that. What exactly is the alternative? Because people judge a man because he's not a attracted to a single woman. But women are encouraged to not be attracted 60% of the worlds male population How is that NOT a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:26 AM
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Men will take anyone they can get these days. Because they appreciate the value any woman can bring in their life. No matter her circumstance. You are trying to justify why rejecting millions of men, is 'not lighting a fire.' Do you realise how stupid that sounds? Maybe you want to use a calculator to work out how many men in reality some studies proved how many men women are prepared to reject for 'the man'? Not 'lighting a fire' is seeing one or two guys and saying 'I'm not attracted to this p…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:54 AM
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You're missing the point. Rejecting 60% of men isn't rejecting a handful of people. You are rejecting almost an entire gender..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:46 AM
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compete with How can any guy compete with 6 foot and rich men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:26 AM
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And I think that speaks for itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:18 PM
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”I like the guy but” is a perfect excuse. We don’t owe strangers shit. No one said you did. But we aren't the ones rating 60% of men as unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:55 PM
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I liked the guy but, My issue with this belief is that there will always be another 'I liked the guy but..' excuse. It just perpetuates the constant cycle that a man can't be human and has to be perfect. The kind of guy that literally doesn't exist in the real world. And a lot of women fall victim to believing there is this fantasy man who'll be everything she wants. In my eyes it honestly just proves the lack of appreciation that women have in general, and also exposes just how expendable we tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 09:31 PM
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Imagine what they would do if they felt they had the control they claim men have. This right here.
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