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I think being bad at pretending to care makes you a bad communicator. Take a corporate office job for example. Even if you’re a lead accountant, you need to have the ability to be friendly with your coworkers, your boss, and other stakeholders on a day to day basis. People in an office setting will often drone on and on about things you just couldn’t care less about (their grand kids, their “fur baby”, their favorite plants, boring weekend activities you didn’t ask to hear). Part of being a team…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 11:07 PM
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I’m sure a lot of guys (here and irl) would say the same about women. Not trying to be rude, but you can’t expect people to build their own character when you constantly are cutting them down for arbitrary reasons. The “soft bigotry of low expectations” has hard consequences that can be easily be attributed to the childish attitudes and actions both men and women have about things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:58 AM
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This, so much this. I wish I could know what the light-switch version of attraction is like it is for men just so I can explain to them better how the dimmer setting works and how the “neutral” threshold is most men I meet. It’s the character, interests, and personality that makes a difference. (I’m engaged and not looking, but my fiancé and I have these debates often because we both find this topic fascinating)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 05:26 PM
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I would say this study comes to that conclusion because “responsiveness” that males exude could be fake, from a female perspective, and just be a way to try to get you in bed. On the other hand, men probably aren’t as concerned that women are faking their “responsiveness” for a one night stand. That’s just what I took from the abstract, and I’m not paying money to read the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 09:56 PM
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I can’t find it (of course) but Vice posted an article about a month ago with the point of view of a man who didn’t want to pay child support for an unplanned child. His argument was that women have the right to an abortion, he offered to pay for it, but she kept the child so the child should be her financial responsibility. This is a real court case going on right now. I’m not in anyway advocating that this be the answer, but if this idea was put in place would that make you feel differently ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 07:02 PM
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I see, with all of that in mind, I feel like the problem you’re having is a little bit deeper and may be related to your desire to not be vulnerable. So imo the only way to get you out of this mindset is to either show you ways to be less vulnerable (which It sounds like you’ve already tried and it’s led you here), or to change your view on vulnerability. I hope this isn’t too personal, but I’m going to tell you something that happened to me so maybe you’ll leave with a new light on being vulner…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/19 03:01 AM
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If women treating you badly is what you believe shaped your current view of women then try to remember that by doing the same to other women you are attributing to the continuation of the cycle. If they are left feeling worthless by your actions then by the same token they may start to develop the same feelings you have but towards men. This would lead to other men being put in the same position. By treating women better you may break the cycle Your experiences and feelings are valid, but I hope…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/19 11:11 PM
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Some women don’t, ill give you that. But at the base of most successful relationships, I believe, is a set of morals both parties mostly agree on. I feel like “nice guys finish last” is overused by guys who think they’re nice and expect women to fawn over them in return for doing commonly decent things which would in turn make them not as nice as they think they are. I’m sure there are some genuinely nice guys who have been repeatedly fucked over but I don’t think that makes up majority of the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 05:36 PM
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I know this sounds crazy because from the way your speaking you've never had a successful interaction with a woman in your life, but happy normal people care about each others feelings and want the best for each other. In fact that's how relationships are formed, by giving a shit about someone else's opinion particularly on morality. But you wouldn't know these things because for some reason you think it's inherent that men find it perfectly fine to emotionally hurt women by sending something so…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 08:16 AM
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Sending nude photos of someone around without their consent is a piece of shit thing to do no matter how little you know them. How the hell are you gonna talk about being on a “high horse” when you feel so important that you get the set the standard for what people think is moral and what is not? This comment is disgusting, they were just trying to share their opinion on the topic and you felt the need to belittle them unprovoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 07:54 AM
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the right personality can make anyone attractive. I've seen this personally in both guys and girls. I think part of it is something you're born with, It's natural wittiness. I have this only when i'm with friends and comfortable. These people can do it everywhere. which brings me to my second thing, confidence. not cockiness, confidence. It can be hard to find the middle if it's something your truly working on. I have a friend who does't tell anyone who he sleeps with, his political beliefs, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 02:17 AM
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not unless you take it as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 02:07 AM
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In my opinion if you have access to both that you should use both and either find a middle ground or try them both out. If a guy is to aggressive he may get better advice from a female. If you're two passive or insecure, you're going to need to some uplifting and toughening guy advice. Only going to one side for advice if you can ask both could lead to complete confusion and overglorification of someone who may be in the wrong in reality just because people want to help out their fellow man/woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 02:02 AM
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https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test I'm an entp, I went to the red pill sub, felt kinda weird, didn't get it. I came her, really interested, now I get it. Because of my personality type. One specific thing mentioned is the romance and relationship section about entp's is constant self improvement and want to better your relationship: "ENTPs' idea of fun is often rooted in self-improvement, and people with this personality type bring their partners along the way, as much in a sp…
/r/RedPillWives17/04/16 02:12 AM
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