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my groom/SO, yes. Anyone else who hasn't had this extensive talk with their SO, NO! we are both products of divorce and probably wont marry until we're ready to have kids. but often men and women talk about the rolls they will play in marriage. if a woman is ok with being stay at home and can trust that being stay at home won't ruin them, and they will be provided for since that's the life they have agreed to start with their husband to be, then i see no reason not to object a prenup. if that wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/16 03:14 AM
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Hot women tend to be the nicest, cutest and best women around, average act entitled and tough to protect themselves. wow we're on the same page just about. never heard someone say it before me though. The hottest women get a lot of shit from the other ones who call her a whore and bitch but have never met her. what is branch swinging in your terms? and here women don't settle down in their 30's that makes for grandchildren that you'll never get to see because you'll be dead. i mean i see success…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 04:17 PM
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Most women cheat - 80% thats a sad world to live in Most divorce has the man paying alimony (also, how long do you think alimony usually lasts?) - 90% // 10 years that is also scary i really disagree here. men get the shit side of divorce and usually end up paying alimony but tons of people have 2 year marriages that literally cant have anyone paying alimony. My parents were married for 25 years and my mom got alimony for 6 years after my dad made her quit jobs she was good at and didn't want he…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 03:35 PM
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I agree that not having a prenup could just be a woman's vindictive idea of how to get money. But in my circumstance, my so and I both have our own success and have no reason to believe one of us will ever be completely unable to find a job. My mom on the other hand only had a ged and my dad told her to be stay at home so when they divorced she was fucked with no education and no working background. If my so and I get a divorce I'll probably end up having to give him alimony which like I said I …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 02:28 PM
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well when you get married the pretence is that you are married for the rest of your life. That is what marriage is supposed to be. If you are both under that pretence, then a prenup in some ways is 'indelicate' and a show that you are not prepared to stay together for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 01:25 AM
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there are no good LOGICAL reasons. I would recommend it for every marriage, but I don't want one in my own. no its not because i'm a woman and want all his money, I make more anyway. It's because when i get married my partner and i know that it should be for life. so we need to go into the marriage with the mindset that it will not be undone. Whatever bullshit comes from not getting a prenup, to me, is our karma for not meaning it when we said, under god, "for better or for worse, through sickne…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 01:22 AM
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I apply most things with RPW except i'm not entirely feminine, but the characteristics i have that aren't feminine are very much enjoyed and appreciated by my partner and i know that, so i just kinda use it to help us fix problems but whatever works works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 01:15 AM
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Women even complain about getting hit on too much using dating apps. they're trying to brag without sounding conceeded. #firstworldproblems #thirdwavefemenismproblems #femenismiscancer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 01:05 AM
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But men literally don't have the cognitive ability to multi task as well as females. This ability allows us to read a room, and asses entire social situations much better. That's why we pick up on physical ques better, we're used to analysing them anyway at all times, men are not. It's like mean girls, in the animal kingdom they attack each other physically, like men do, women make sly remarks and use perfectly timed sarcasm to express their anger. This makes things confusing for men, because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 01:01 AM
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I try to be nice to everyone but THE BITCH COMES OUT when the same person day after day will ask me pointless questions and try to converse while im very obviously reading or doing homework. my mom is the queen of this because she never did her school work. So when I'm like "hey im studying in my room for the next hour" and then 10 mins later she asks me to come in the room to get something for her that was right next to her. 5 min later shes asking me how the weather is outside. another 5 min a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 12:54 AM
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Idk how far those comments went on, but in her defence i would say she was referring to if a man were too have all or multiples of very odd, suspicious actions going on at once. I highly doubt she gets concerned when guy is standing in a doorway and looking around kinda oddly. Just like if you see someone put down a briefcase in an airport, and they look speciously around to see who saw them, and then walk off, you would report it and be concerned. well if you're in a bar and see a guy who is wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 12:45 AM
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lol i've used "math is fun" all the way up into my AP stat class. It's been there for me through everything. When letters were added to my math class.... it was there. When that wasn't enough and they started making up "imaginary" numbers....... It was there for me. now that I'm computing probabilities for type one and type two errors in a statistical binomial setting, it's still here for me. MATH IS FUN TILL I DIE!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 12:29 AM
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Most divorce has the man paying alimony 50% (1/2 time forever, other half 3-10 years) Most divorce leaves the man without custody of this kids 60-90% Most women would have degrading sex that she is normally opposed to for a hot enough guy im confused by that, like if the guy is hot enough is it actually still degrading? like if you are still sexually attracted to them while and after having whatever kind of weird sex you have, then the sex was still good right? Most women wouldn't be happy datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 12:19 AM
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whoa! your reality is not my reality. Yours is a lot darker and I would hate to live in it. Why do you think this? how can we make your reality a little less dark/ why is mine too bright? would some statistics with sources suit your fancy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/16 12:01 AM
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I think it also has to do with the fact that guys are more likely to just take whatever to get off. Like my so, when he was single, would fuck dumb chicks but never date them or really take them on a date. Kinda harsh but if they go for it then whatever. I got dates and flowers and drawings the whole nine yards
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/16 12:17 PM
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Hah I like the girl who had "ESPN" in her boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 11:24 PM
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ah, i connotate whore with sluts, but my definition doesn't fit either of yours. But i guess there really isn't a name for a girl who can fuck around like guys but not be a dick. Because to me a "player" is an ass hole. but just having casual consenting sex, idk should it even have a name? i dont think it does for guys. can't normal people do this? (im rambling if you can't tell, this interested me a lot) Tattoos and piercings on hot women are hotter than the sahara desert agreed!!! Rational per…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 05:25 PM
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"I imagine it to be even worse in American universities, where social studies professors act as witch-finder generals destroying the lives of young males, in spite of the fact that their lives are already in better shape than the supposed shit lords they're screwing over." correct but they also put these actual deadly PC ideas into their students minds. alt-right isnt as radical as it looks. In the 60's we had 2nd wave femenism, which is very different than todays femenism. They were fighting fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 04:38 PM
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i would say thats just your preferance i know plenty of people who would rather not have a whore. or someone with tattoos and piercings. Many rational personality types, even males, have some form of sapiosexualism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 04:29 PM
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lol sure but she was the queen bee in that movie
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 03:54 PM
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idk some of them, but the backlash you get from females for being hot can humble a person. I went to 3 different high schools and had the same experience in each. The hottest girl in school was always the most down to earth. All the other girls who are right under, always bash the hot chick. But the hottest girl can take care of her own, know who talks behind her back, and is nice and friendly despite that. It's like mean girls. the hottest one was lindsey lohan and everyone liked her more becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:49 PM
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no one ever puts her in her place Please elaborate on that one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:17 PM
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Calm down,the context is if the woman is obviously busy. I've seen this happen plenty of times its a normal occurrence and eyerolls like to proceed a polite response like " I'm a little busy right now but I wouldn't mind talking later" or "excuse me would you give me a moment to finish what I'm doing". I think people just do that out of excitement though, I do that all the time to my bf when he's busy and gets home. Im not trying to be annoying I'm just happy he's home. Idc for cat calling in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:14 PM
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Oh no I also agree that women are as "socially immobile" from the 50's as men and it isn't all trained into them by their parents.It was bred into us and into men to act this way. These gender rolls are woven into society but slowly dieing. Men are evolutionarily more physical than women that's just biology, but your body chemistry has nothing to do with who should be the bread winner. as time goes on i think it will start to equal out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 02:00 PM
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Imgur censored the word "trigglypuff". Mark zuckerberg is working with Angela Merkle to censor "offensive" speech about refugees who are causing havoc in their country. Every time we try to rally. people literally try to silence us with noise. Pc people interrupt respectable calm libertarian leaders who oppose their views with obscenities, all in the name of "hate speech". it's not hate speech that the "1 in 5 women are raped" is a completely biased statistic, it is fact. I'm about to go to bed …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 05:21 AM
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I feel you, the community has changed my view on the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/16 05:05 AM
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men are more visually triggered sexually then men, so how does that equate with your statement? I mean hypergamy in women makes since to me and equals out men desire for visual and physical demands. Men want a woman who will be a good mom which means they have the right physical features and comfort that they want. Women want a man who will be a good dad and "captain", which means the higher standing he has in society the better. The more likely it is that he's an honourable, and respectable man…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 07:34 PM
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You're certainly entitled to you're opinion, but I, and most of society disagreed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 07:09 PM
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Yeah they ban people who brigade them and don't read the rules. That's not the question. I was asking why TBP people pressure reddit to ban subreddit a and content
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 07:07 PM
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That was worded incorrectly. I did feel accepted I just felt like the people on RPWi were more relatable to my specific situation. I love all RPWsubs and I love you guys in both of them. I did feel accepted, I just related to RPWi but regardless every single RPW I've talked to so far has been absolutely wonderful to me, to include you. You not only work to better yourself in your relationships but you work to make yourself better, for YOU. And in my opinion, idk how a woman could believe that mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/16 04:07 PM
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its much harder to go to college by the time you're 20 or 30 and you're peak time for still soaking up knowledge like a sponge, is your early 20's. So ideally, and my hope, if i ever have kids, is to have them a year after graduating and being settled with a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 10:12 PM
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I don't know how any woman can simply accept being considered inferior, a complementary being only good for supporting a man and making babies, but that's your issue and frankly I couldn't even begin to care about it. if that's what you think red pill is about, you have seriously misjudged and need to do some research before you go out and make an idiot of yourself. I am not subjugated, i can promise you. My SO and I don't even want children. How did you gain this magic ability to know everyones…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 07:35 PM
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ok that is what i thought, and what i still agree with. (: thanks I loved that post by the way. you explained that so well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:29 PM
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And I have read that, and agree with it, and love it, and understand it. I was just trying to explain things in a way someone who is new to the idea of red pill, will understand because it took me a while to see past all the negative things people said in order to see the true soul and helpfulness of these communities. one question. "Low man, high/low woman (LHL) - a lot of feminist relationships are like this, and they can work, and people can be happy in them. There is also a chance that the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:17 PM
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Please believe me, I have read everything in your side bar, and the wiki. I was just trying to explain this in a way people who have just heard about red pill, would understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 05:11 PM
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Oh ok i thought so, but yeah i misread your other comment and was like "i cant fight with a mod on what their subreddits views are".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 04:34 PM
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I agree. But after being a subscriber to r/the_donald and seeing all the censorship we deal with, and the reactions from my own family for sharing my opinions, I feel like censorship is starting to run rampant and could kill us as a country. Not so much censorship, as it is peoples inability to talk about politics without taking personal offensive. BTW: im not trying to promote The donald here, i do not want a political debate right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 04:31 PM
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Yes that's exactly what i mean. How are you dominant if you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 04:24 PM
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she said specificity about this type of relationship: "they can work, and people can be happy in them." so she does believe it can work harmoniously. Yes I agree it is not red pill, but she does admit it could work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 04:23 PM
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I didn't mean to say that your sub supports marriage (just deleted that now) just that they don't oppose it as a part of their core beliefs. RP (C/FO) relationships are not the only types of relationships that can work, just as monogamy is not the only relationship format that succeeds or fails. I'm sure there are non-monogamous couples that are very happy - I don't deal with that type of relationship, and I have no advice to give someone trying to balance more than one partner. I understand tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 03:54 PM
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there is no dispute over female submission, there is only some marginal tinkering with concepts of deference vs submission, but always flowing from the woman to the man that is basically what I meant. Your sub is more likely to be ok with people debating weather or not you should be submissive to all men or just your man. But people don't understand Red pills definition of submission. They hear that word and jump to oppressive thoughts. here's how i described it on a different thread. "many red …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 03:34 PM
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I started off with this same confusion. After a few weeks of talking with mods of the different subs, main contributors, and lurking to get a good summary Here is what i've learned. Just a heads up, i'm not claiming all of this to be true, this is just what i've been able to asses from my experience: In the rejection of tradcon, does TRP now consider itself a MGTOW influenced (or embracing) movement? I'm using this in the looser understanding, not of rejection of women in favour of celibacy, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 03:11 PM
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As a woman, if what you want is a traditional home, you're selling yourself short by using up all that time trying to make a lot of money. i completely agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:43 PM
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Although I agree that having a family and taking traditional roles is currently discouraged unjustly, I don't believe that is the reason women are more likely to pursue furthering their education, getting a job, and lacking in filling their traditional roles. The new norm is currently having a readjustment period. Some women are living under the older idea that their first and largest duty in life is to be a mother and wife. I find it important to build my own success and education before consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:17 PM
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And there lies the root of my confusion! I like the sub for being a parody, I hate the sub for pressuring reddit to ban content.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 01:44 PM
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I have, like I said I've talked to the mods of TRP and RPW. it's a realistic view. Some men do like women to be completely submissive to them, and some intelligent very reasonable women like being that submissive ALL the time. But it takes trust for them to allow that, and it fits their personal pursuit of happiness. I refuse to ridicule anyone who wants to be that submissive or that dominant as long as they don't degrade women as subhuman. If two people consent, I don't care how their relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 01:42 PM
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Observations are kindly noted, (-: I have one person on here giving me some shit for thinking most blue pill people are pro reddit censorship. That's why I asked the question in the first place, and they were trying to act like I had no reason to connect the two. So if I came off defensive that's why, sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 01:38 PM
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Thank you. are you red pill male? if so would you agree with this as being the submissiveness RP is usually referring to? i need to find a way to say this somewhere BP people will read it. When i heard about these subs i thought RP was an awesome Idea. The more i read this sub, and some other things on TRP, the more i started to think they could just be safe spaces for misogyny. So you know what I did? instead of asking people on this sub about their beliefs when they never even go to red pill, …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 01:28 PM
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So is he. He's trying to point out that R/Islam may not explicitly say it, but it does support sexism towards women by supporting the Quran.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 01:18 PM
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That was a mute point that he added in there about the guns. I don't believe this guy cares to debate gun laws here and I think he made that pretty clear by not continuing with that subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 01:01 PM
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The red pill has a portion of men who are blind and hateful. Even if it is hateful, it's good to allow people the right to make a complete ass of themselves. Sometimes that's the only way for people to learn. Even if it's strongly supported on reddit doesn't mean it will work out in real life. Luckily we live in a country (if you live In the us idk about the uk) where sexist men have a hard time climbing the social or corporate ladder. So their input means little to none outside of the Internet.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 12:18 PM
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I don't understand a lot of today's women. They think acting subservient to them will earn them better treatment that is the minority of women, like a small, small group of women who you can mostly find on reddit and not in real life. I don't think many red pill men want a woman who is submissive all the time, and it's not submisivness in the sense of "do what i say now without me giving you a good reason". It's submissiveness in the since of being able to trust you're partner and stepping back …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 11:41 AM
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I'll be honest, I can kind of respect that reasoning lol. I love a hint of anarchy especially in people with big heads like you said. And I can admittedly agree that the guys RP sub can produce some shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 10:55 AM
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1) this question doesn't mention the red pill, I know that that post doesn't include the red pill 2) I would be like "yeah I understand I don't read everything in the side bar" but ITS NOT IN THE SIDE BAR. It's at the top of the page, not a stickied post, a singular link that will stay there for ever and ever until a mod decides to remove it. 3) since blue pill was made as a criticism of red pill, i think it's fine to assume that the link at the top of the page, not the side bar, represents the …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 10:51 AM
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lol i feel you there. I get on BP to procrastinate and make myself angry for no reason. Afterwards I always go back to "yeah but they'll never make it anywhere important with that view". That's stood true so far, from what I've seen at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:37 AM
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oh my goodness I accidentally pressed the shift key while typing the word "censorship". Darn it! I NEVER SAID REDDIT DOES NOT HAVE A RIGHT TO cENSOR OR FILTER CONTENT I AM PRO BUSINESS RIGHTS. I was focusing on what argument people on reddit have, that support this. They make my chosen hobby of spreading your ideals, intentions, and lingo to young women so they can avoid them much easier. "you're ideals and intentions" you don't know my ideals and intentions. Red pill people have many different …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:31 AM
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You want us to defend some perceived hypocrisy, but none of us have that hypocrisy. So, kind of a flop. that's great and all, but the question was based off of a reasonable idea that most people in your subreddit would support something so bold on the page, and fundamental to its creation. Sorry for not being a mind reader, hence why i asked the question. but it actually is harmful to the men that read it. In which case trying to argue that we should keep it around because it is part of that con…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 02:17 AM
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well quarantines are better than the rampant banning that happened out of no where. But i didn't know that, thanks for the info (:
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 12:05 AM
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The fact that the person who created the subreddit and represents it supports this and bases their subreddit off of it, tells me its not a flop. And people here have promoted censorship on reddit in these comments. here, since you can't just go and read the stuff in your own subreddit I have some examples compiled for you: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheBluePill/comments/4aedii/we_really_need_to_ban_the_red_pill/ https://www.reddit.com/r/raldi/comments/3djkz4/we_call_for_reddit_to_stop_providing_a_…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/16 12:04 AM
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To all these Blue Pills saying they didn't know blue pill supports censorship on reddit and banning certain subreddits.... HOW? It's literally at the top of your sub always where it says "This subreddit stands against hate speech". here if you would like a quick reference this is where it links to: https://www.reddit.com/r/raldi/comments/3djkz4/we_call_for_reddit_to_stop_providing_a_hosted/ I would think something so bold on your sub would be well known and a cornerstone of your subs beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 11:01 PM
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have you ever clicked on the thing at the top of the sub that says "this subreddit stands against hate speech"? its very bold, you should click on it and read it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:58 PM
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my argument is not a flop, just because you don't believe in banning subreddits doesn't mean your sub doesn't. ever clicked on this big thing on the top that says "this subreddit stands against hate speech"?...... maybe you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:57 PM
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welcome to Capitalist america, where our morals shape the death and demise, or complete success of a business and a business has no morals other than those that agree with the customer. If reddit wants to hint at an open platform, it should be an open platform. if they want to be facebook and hide realities from people, so be it. But because this is one of the last few massive free speech sites on the surface web i see that decision as bad for their business. Soon enough you'll have to have a vp…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:53 PM
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well it's not measurable unless it can be linked, but i understand what you're saying. But if these evil people really want advice and they can't find it on reddit, they'll just get a private vpn and go on the deepweb. You'll never be able to link the two then. Not just that, but rarely do people get on the deepweb do so unless to do something shady. I'd rather have these people in a community that can freely oppose their plans and POV than one limited to people of the same thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:42 PM
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admins' willingness to ban FPH and coontown that was only under ellen pao and her shortly lived SJW reign. i agree with your opinion though
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 10:02 PM
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no they just think Reddit should remove it. Reddit, hasn't removed it, and like i said there are plenty of platforms with screening tactics so people wont be "triggered".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 09:59 PM
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I would say that using Tommy Chong as their voice in the commercial is a good hint at them being open platform. I mean he's a king on here and although I don't feel like you should punish victimless crimes, the federal government does and weed isn't legal everywhere yet. showing an open space for taboo ideas seams like the kind of thing an open platform would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 09:57 PM
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I identify red pill because i believe people can put a science and logic into dating. RPW has a very different group of people than TRP. They promote debate and ask for criticism and are welcoming to it, unlike TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 09:53 PM
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sorry, My B, my luck i get in one smart ass comment and it blows up in my face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 07:07 PM
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I just typed out a 6 paragraphed essay response to this that used science and stuff on alien blue and my fucking phone died. It was really nice, I even agreed with you a little bit and then it vanished. I'm gonna pm you. Respond or don't, but i'm not typing that shit out again and i really wanted to debate you on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 07:07 PM
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like i said. I can't argue with a brick wall. You have no data, you have no proof, no logic, no evidence. You are just a troll. go back under you're bridge, you are not constructive here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 06:39 PM
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Look I have nothing gain to by talking to you on here. If you think any differently you're lying to yourself. My offer to talk still stands just to show you I can be nice without some kind of incentive. Idc about your arguments right now because they're are based off of you're shitty experiences and not the entire female population. As fez from that 70's show would say "I said good day" http://www.reactiongifs.com/said-good-day/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 06:09 PM
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Right and hows that nuclear engineering thing working out with your current job as a CONSTRUCTION WORKER?.....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:17 PM
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See I get where you're coming from but I think its equal and it's just a give and take. yeah I can manipulate men with my body, but 1/4 of them only see me as a body anyway and will NEVER take my opinions seriously. I'm also way more likely to be raped than you. Doesn't matter how tough I think I am, I could pass infantry training and would still be the first target for sexual assault over seas. Hence why they shouldn't be allowed to even train for that position, but that's a whole different soa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 05:12 PM
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No it really proves that you base you're argument off of individual past experiences and you're feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 04:54 PM
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Yeah... Just as I expected. You're no better than the women that fuck you over if you think all of them are like that. like I said everything you're saying is based off of emotion. You can't blame all women for your asinine attitude. and you certainly can't act like you have the capacity to love, if that is truly your Pov. get out of the hate phase. Its killing your chances and any hope you have of being a peaceful functioning member of society. If you ever want a female to talk to and can be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 04:43 PM
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I know many men who start cheating and or looking to divorce as soon their wife gets a depression or anxiety issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 12:44 PM
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This is why relationship advice for men is about what to do, whereas women get to hear what to expect. RPW is all about what YOU CAN DO to better your relationship or your chances of finding a mate by bettering yourself. emotional arguments with no logical reasoning or evidence: Because they aren't. A female is only capable of giving a shit about what benefits it gets. No benefits? Fuck you Yep. Men work, females take. If he won't work for her unconditionally, he's out on his ass You could try b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 12:20 PM
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Cool, that helps. I understand the respect thing. I've seen some women on RPW who feel you should be submissive to all males. I don't know exactly what they mean by that, and that's where It confuses me. Because if you are that way with every male, then they don't have to earn your respect. Or does them being a male automatically give these specific women a sense of respect for them? Because like you said, for it to truly be submissive there has to be a since of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 11:34 AM
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See I understand that but too me that's not submission that's just built up trust and team work. I'm trying to understand if RP thinks there's a difference and what that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 11:26 AM
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Ok, but this is a very refutable theory because it covers a concept of which there is very few other esteemed scientific documents about. therefor I would consider it criticism. what about it isn't refutable and why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/16 11:22 AM
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No, because then the female will scream rape and even if the law doesn't finish the revenge, the white knights will. But that's not true in every case, otherwise way tooooo many people would be faking rape (like 5 X the massive amount of females who do it now). And plenty of men set rules in their relationship. but these ideas NEED to be ridiculed and you wonder why people hate you this much... If you really do care about logic and basic reasoning and things having a "science" to them. then you …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 11:29 PM
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I agree with that. I identify as Red Pill because i believe in the fundamentals. RPW recently opened their doors to more debate in their subreddit which is why i like them and am ok with identifying as RP because they are open to conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 11:09 PM
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Yes, as long as it is very obvious that the female is comfortable with that. My SO and i started out at FWB's and then fell in love so i can relate to this. I was much more sexually innocent than he was but I saw his past experiences as the natural actions of a man. If i knew i wouldn't be called a whore/ get a disease and could have sex with lots of willing people id be all about that. It scared me at first though, I was worried he wasn't a "nice guy" and he quickly proved that to be false. In …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 08:26 PM
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is that the main thing you feel is important for a woman to believe in her so? I feel like a lot of red pillers (man and women) think you have to be submissive to your man. I feel like no one should feel superior or of a higher being but rather exactly as you said. I should be the woman my SO is most sexually, emotionally, and mentally attracted to and vice versa. We should also accept things about our gender that makes it hard to understand each other sometimes, and work to find those things so…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 08:02 PM
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The Alt Right is the future of everyone, especially the red Pill
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/16 03:54 AM
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Hey there, I'm an ENTP too.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 09:15 PM
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ENTP This test helped me to understand my faults and find ways to correct it. This is beyond accurate for me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 09:11 PM
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respectfully noted, thanks, sorry. (:
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 08:41 PM
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I'm never able to afford new name brand items so I usually go to thrift stores and ebay and stuff, but I found one consignment store chain recently with pretty decent prices. It's not brand new prices, but it's not goodwill either. They have a ton of unique stuff like I said pretty cheap. It's called Buffalow exchange and from what I've seen they're in every major city in America so if you live near one, I would recommend going there for sure. They also give you 50% of the value of the clothes y…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 06:59 PM
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I moved to the south a few years back. Because of the millennial catty attitude most of the girls I come in contact with around here have, I have trouble making female friends. In my self improvement journey I've learned to stay away from girls who seam like they enjoy the drama around them. I'm nice to everyone though and give everyone a chance but I'm rough on the edges and I cuss like a sailer (I'm from jersey), girls here don't take friendly to that. Different attitudes in different places, …
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/16 04:16 PM
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Infantry in the army, the 2 women who have passed the program both had some kind of extra help and neither have been deployed. Are you asking what job a women isn't physically capable of doing, or isn't available to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/16 02:17 AM
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Naw, we met for the first time because he helped my mom move us into an apartment while I was at my dads for the summer. He and some friends told her they were like 19 and 21 (they were not) and she payed them in beer. He then had to explain to my mom how old he was before askin if he could date me. I just found out how old he was from school.still would have met him though . Things like your job, college, and just getting active in your community are good ways to meet good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 11:22 PM
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I don't see how you don't see the quotes to be constructive to the debate. The guy i was talking too initially responded saying I would be surprised if he meant "they literally believe in fantastic things that have nothing to do with reality" trying to defend the original commenter because i made a remark. I was trying to show that he very well may literally believe something ridiculous like he stated because there is a community, small, but present, who truly does believe those things. The reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 08:26 PM
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lol we started off as casual friends with benefits and met in school because we'd both given up hope on ever finding someone to be with forever, and most people knew us to be one date and done people which they hated. We talked about our theories on why people divorce and why relationships never last. we started trying to put a science into it, and in that we started a relationship. Because we started off as best friends first we can be way more honest than we would otherwise, so we work to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 07:06 PM
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I understand there is crazies in every group but just as i feel true femenists should disavow the crazies they should also seek to explain to them why they disavow them. TRP could do a better job at giving people advice I think if they looked out for the crazies and tried to better explain why sexism isn't the goal of their sub to those people. I used his previous posts as an example of how easy it is to believe someone is making a point in good spirit rather than spite. And no, I get called out…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:54 PM
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I wish both subs would encourage people to ask gyrations there and here to get a good mix of POV I've told this to other people and I plan on trying to talk RPW about this. I identify as Christian. A lot of Christians believe in creationism but I believe in evolution. Doesn't mean I can't call myself Christian. (Not trying to get a religious debate just An analogy)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 04:16 PM
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Doesn't mean they identify with all their views. I just think it's smart to put technique into dating. I just want to point out that there's this mix of guys who don't need TRP men or TRP women and it hurts more than helps, this gets publicized the most and makes the subs look bad. But I feel like they help more than hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 04:03 PM
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A girl can't fuck up once and be extremely embarrassed and then learn from that? I've been a total bitch in front of plenty of people before. my SO will point it out to me later, I'll think on it, and Apologies to people's but if you don't stick around to see what happens next then you'll never know if she regrets her actions. I'm not saying date people who are bitches. Just get friendly first so you can make a good assessment rather then seeing one red flag and turning away forever. I feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 03:57 PM
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It's to be critical of him. He's here on a debate subreddit so I will try to initiate a debate. I criticize him in particular and want him to answer me in hopes that I can change his mind on those opinions. TRP shames and dislikes crazy feminists who want to oppress men, why can I be critical of someone who wants to promote sexism towards women? Real sexism not, just saying hey to a girl on the street.Did you just read my last comment or did you read the whole conversation I just had with this g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 03:29 PM
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Ok but I just admitted further up that RP women probably mostly do go by a philosophy other than mine. I identify as RP women because of the fundamental things to it. It makes since to me and is an inviting community for all ideas. I don't feel like RP men is as inviting because they're more aggressive about their opinions which leads to some hateful ideas. Go figure, guys are more aggressive. Logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:29 PM
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I agree with everything you just said. But this guy in particular is a part of the toxic mix that's gives TRP a bad name which is why I think his statement is from a pure feeling of hate rather than improvement of ones self. hence why he won't respond to me. Check out his history it's so wonderful hers some of my favorite quotes: "Then realize women are shitty substitutes for real friends and stick to jacking off and finding companionship in men." "Women are dumb and liars. Who gives a shit that…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:21 PM
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And how is it not biased of you to say that all red women are biased?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:12 PM
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Not biased, just my opinion, I have ideas and theory's to back it up but I can't say I'm right all of the time. That's why I like coming here to hear other people's opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 12:04 PM
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tell me, how blissful does it feel to be that ignorant? you just dodged my point with no argument against it. Don't just come here to state your opinion and then be a bitch to anyone who disagrees rather than construct a normal conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 11:43 AM
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But if we only exist in a red pill blue pill paradox then how does a purple pill even exist?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 07:35 AM
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OHHHMG YES! I THINK I LOVE YOU! Lol no one ever knows what I'm talking about when I mention that book. It's not my real name, but my parents read that book/ series when I was little and then told me, when I was older, to read it and that they regret not naming me that. I'm thinking about changing all my names later on in life and I want to Change my first to name to Ayla.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 07:31 AM
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'm red pill because of their core belief: "The focus of the sub is self improvement, but specifically on improvement that will make us more attractive, appealing, and capable of finding a good man" I think everyone should reflect upon themselves and think rationally about relationships. TRP men are either awesome or brainwashed misogynists like you who think women have to have a man in their life and only date to get money or labor benefits out of it. I don't agree with everything TRP men agree …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 07:15 AM
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And when did you decide you could speak on behalf of all women. I love every fucking thing about my SO and for you to decide either of us dont is not your place. If you can't argue rationally then you're just here ranting about your horrific self-absorbed view on women. Which is ignorant and not constructive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 07:06 AM
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Why the hell did you ask this and want a discussion and want people to accept your opinions if you're going to reject every woman's opinion on here because you've generalized them all and decided that "what they do is different than what they say"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 07:00 AM
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1)you're assuming all/most women, even if they're in a good relationship, would try for a different guy (not just that, but cheat on current guy) just because he was more attractive? 2) That guy will never approach her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:53 AM
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she'll date the ones she likes the most because that's her only choices
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:42 AM
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And you are what I think TRP should try to model as. Because you not only go there and try to express your thoughts, read others, and help yourself, you also come here to get even more information. What I'm saying is, guys that get cocky because of that sub, just come here to defend themselves and not learn, are the bad eggs that give you guys a bad name. I wish more guys would think like you and I wish TRP would encourage guys to go and be open minded on subs like this too in case strictly male…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:33 AM
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See the end part is where you get that wrong. The girl whose in anime club won't be approached by the swim team guys. Her pool will be limited to the anime club/ nerds. So while she'll be at an advantage there, it's harder for nerdy girls to date anything but nerdy guys because there's more nerdy guys than girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:26 AM
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Yeah but like if the first time you meet a girl she acts like a total bitch so you write her off forever, then you won't find girls that want to change. That's the mentality I was trying to discourage. She may regret acting like a bitch later and learn a lesson that day about self reflection but you wouldn't know if you wrote her off. you'll know if a girl is a unicorn if you talk to her and her words Match up with her actions. But you won't know if you don't talk to her
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:20 AM
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See but that generalization that women tie emotion to everything is why TRP doesn't work all the time. Instead of contemplating everything and thinking different women can think differently, they often generalize to make since of things. I feel like making those assessments has no meaning and is counter productive if you don't have data or proof.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 06:05 AM
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Ok now wait my love SO falls into many of those category's especially the nerdy interests. He's also awkward in public places that embarrass the shit out of me, but are then Sooo funny to look back on. EX: meets my uptight dad the second time. Is having normal conversation with him. Gets kinda nervous and starts replacing the word "um" with "fuck" while he's pausing to think. Literally doesn't realize this until 3 mins later after the conversation has ended. I love that he's quiet. I know that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 05:54 AM
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i think its bad advice. I feel like TRP really only needs to cater to beta males or guys in need of confidence/ technique. I think often, guys who have it all down come there just to be told their right all the time. That gives them over self confidence and turns it a little mysogynistic. That's where I think you guys get a bad rep and I feel like if TRP encouraged guys to go to a good subreddit to ask for women's advice too, then you would weed that out a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 05:34 AM
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This is why they think doors are 10 feet tall and their boyfriends are packing 8 inch cocks. LMAO if a girl told you, you had a dick larger than you did it was to be nice. Idk when you became the speaker for all womens thoughts, but op presented the commentor with Data. Don't throw generalizations out there without data.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 05:28 AM
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Ok, so you can make bold generalizations like that, about how stupid most women are, and then back up the idea that it's bad for men to assume data from credible sources are correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 05:22 AM
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idk why the fuck your posting comments on a debate subreddit if you don't want people to respond. maybe you should be constructive or GTFO..... lol (-;
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 05:13 AM
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Oh I'm sorry I didn't realize that your definition of unicorn is a person that is perfect and never makes mistakes ever. In your case, go along with life because they don't exist for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 03:54 AM
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ok deby downer I have no reason to explain myself to you because like i said, its anonymous (no reason to brag either). have a good night.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:20 AM
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no, if you truely believe that and don't broadcast it, then you'll act upon it. You'll be more likely to take the first mistake a female makes as a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 02:02 AM
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whatever, excuse me for thinking reddit was a community for people to anonymously talk to eachther and have constructive conversations with people they otherwise would not have talked to. I have a fiance, i'm not desperate for a guy. I'm literally just a friendly person who opens myself to constructive conversation on reddit. I just wanted to talk to people and learn their opinions. Females can talk to guys for a purpose other than to "secure" them. So please, pardon me for trying to be friendly…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 01:59 AM
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i could believe that for sure. I'll need to make a post there sometime and talk about that. That would be interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 01:35 AM
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no I'm saying that by thinking females who are rational and can find fault in themselves might show themselves to you more if you didn't live under the pretence that they don't exist at all. you'll be less likely to make assumptions on first impressans and more likely to meet new people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 01:32 AM
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red pill women is very different from red pill men, at least i think so. Heres one link i found https://www.forums.red/p/RedPillWomen/1041/explaining_the_rpw_sub TL;DR: "The focus of the sub is self improvement, but specifically on improvement that will make us more attractive, appealing, and capable of finding a good man" i just believe in a science in dating and putting logic into anything. I like the women's sub because they all seamed to care about self improvement but i'd say about 1/2 of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/16 01:01 AM
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Because this isn't the past and we do have equality now, I don't think anyone loses unless they regret the sex. I've had sex with guys who i thought understood that there was nothing emotional (ie met them the same day at a party or event), but then they do later which makes me feel bad and have to explain. I apologise for not being as upfront before, often they assume that because i'm a female that strings are always attached. Since I don't think of those things and just act what's natrual to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 08:27 PM
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See that's how i feel and it makes girls hate me. There's some jobs that women will NEVER be able to do. And in the same since, There's never going to be a franchise like hooters that only employs men for looks. At least not for a while. We have our own way of gaining success that's just as easy (if not easier) than it is for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 08:09 PM
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It's like in America when you call someone a liberal. You aren't trying to say their beliefs are literally libertarian (which is what republicans are started to sway to), you are referring to the connotation that liberal is very left wing. Not trying to start a political debate. just using an analogy to explain. It's the connotation of the word "feminist" that many people don't want to be associated with. If someone seams like a misogynist or i'm trying to explain a feminist view of mine I just …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 07:40 PM
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well I don't have anything to hide like someone else said (somewhere on this thread) the only way you can know is by talking to the person. Reason I say I am one and they exist is because I want people to talk to me, I want people to know that they exist and that im NOT a rarity like you might think. So the purpose of that wasn't to brag, like it may have come off. I'm really just trying to bring light to the idea that this is a larger pool than people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 11:48 AM
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No because the basic concept of a "unicorn" that is the underlying factor of many guys problem is that females refuse to reflect upon themselves. So the red pill female community is basicly that collection.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/16 06:12 AM
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It doesn't end well if only one person does it. but if all of you were confident enough, it could counteract those white knights.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 11:45 PM
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OMG sorry lol ok yeah were on the same page. idk why, but for some reason i thought you were attacking rp women or me or something in that, I got confused and defensive. very sorry. (:
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 07:53 PM
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im pretty sure i just said the same exact thing. so what's the point you're making? who are you saying doesn't have the capacity to improve themselves? RP men or RP women? because either way that's totaly false
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 07:41 PM
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I agree with everything you just said. But in the context of the original comment, he blamed women for every "well off" man's problem in dating. The handful of assholes who give TRP a bad name for making comments like the one above, are who i'm talking about. Maybe they're hateful, maybe they're misguided. But If they only go to the fisherman (guys) for advice, then they'll never learn the error in their ways and become even more arrogant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 07:32 PM
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you know, confidence and you're outlook on things is huge. not believing you can find a unicorn, may very well be the thing that's keeping you from finding one. food for thought. I don't have to find one, I am one, my SO and I kick ass. good luck on you journey finding one. I'm sure she's out there.... waiting for you to mount her..... tee hee...... giggity... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 05:21 PM
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yeah but shitty people are everywhere and don't have a gender preference. So it's expected that shitty people go with shitty people. If only shitty girls like you maybe you should reflect on yourself....? and its not based on luck, not shitty people, like not shitty people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 05:02 PM
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Thank you! not just that, but if you pander to this wave of "femenist" women by finding ways around the shitty things they do, you aren't helping anyone. more "unicorns" would exist if people called them out on it more rather than bitching on the internet. I think the red pill probably helps guys who need more confidence so I don't discourage the sub. But we do exist. Don't believe me? go to r/redpillwives
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 05:00 PM
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i can tell 0_0 ... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 04:55 PM
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ok there is too much in there that I don't agree with to like analyse each one. That will take forever and won't be fun for either of us lol. Instead I'm gonna pm you something and maybe I can change your mind. but explain why relationships are only good for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 04:42 PM
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Although most of the red pill, i'm sure has improved from advice that people give them, It might not always be the best. let me explain my statement a little more. One of the biggest red flags I see when looking for a guy is this expectant attitude. Often I have guys who are very successful come on to me and when/ if I reject them the usual response is shock. Somewhat because of what you mentioned, they've been told that as long as they do these things they can pick up women. But it's also that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 04:31 PM
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that's not true at all, and you really shouldn't speak on behalf of all women. I care about a mans job and house and car but like I said that's the minimum requirement. But yes some women, not most, only want to fuck so yeah, why would they care about your job if they'll never see you again? to me it seams like the red pill sometimes wants to pander to these asshole women when there are plenty of women out there who aren't just out to fuck, and aren't assholes Although I understand where you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 04:16 PM
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you know just because you're well off doesn't mean you're not a total asshole. so lets not get ahead of ourselves and put this entirely on women. in fact that's a real problem with some "well off" guys is that they expect, because they're stable in life, that all the pussy in the world is gonna line up at their door because they have a job and a car. But atleast for me, Being well off, as in having a career or working towards one, is the minimum requirement. so once you have that maybe work on b…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/16 12:06 PM
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