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FIELD REPORTayogyrh/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 12:16 PM
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ADVICEayogyrh/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 11:11 PM
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Any advice on how to deal with a co-worker that you respect(ed) and admire(d) but found out she thinks incredibly low of you and talks to others about it? I just want to handle this in a mature and professional way. I look up to you ladies and need mature advice from women I would like to emulate.
/r/RedPillWives13/04/18 07:36 AM
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Same smh
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 07:46 AM
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Materialistically, I'm independent. I make more money than my partner and, with proper budgeting, could possibly support both of us on one income. Emotionally? I could depend on my female friends or my mother but I feel so fully supported by my SO that he brings out my feminine energy more so than any woman could. I feel silly, cute, sexy...free...when I come home to him and can shed off the assertive and dominant personality that my job requires. He brings me back to my basic feminine state of …
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 05:30 PM
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I wanted to try acrylic but I thought my SO would get creeped out at them. Instead, I have spent the last 6 weeks miraculously refraining from biting my natural nails and they're really coming though. He likes them painted but doesn't like the way they feel if I accidentally graze him with them. I like it for petting animals who like the scratching. Edit: There is a young woman I work with who does have acrylics and they're lovely. Too long for ME to function in but they look feminine and fit he…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 11:58 PM
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I regularly use a clean and clear cleanser, an ELF moisturizer, and I use Vaseline after the moisturizer has sunk in for a few minutes. Got rid of my dark circles in 3 weeks! I work all night, sleep most of the day. If I find myself going out during the day I use a 50spf sunscreen moisturizer instead of the ELF/Vaseline.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 03:07 PM
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Yeah, now that I've been in weight loss mode for several months, my SO has felt more comfortable commenting on women with smaller bodies than mine in positive ways. I'm not sure what's going on in his head though. My friend is like 120lb less than me and he says she's pretty and has a good figure but if I say I want to look like some picture I show him he says the girl looks disgusting...? I do hope this is true though, that they're just being nice or believe they can't get better suggestion fro…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 05:57 PM
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I wish I had this much extra time on my hands lol too busy enjoying my RPW relationship filled with passion and joy! Imagine how nice it would be if you put this much effort into improving yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 10:41 PM
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For me, it's like a rubber band. Wrapped around the two of us. If I walk away the band keeps stretching but is increasing more strained and harder to expand. Then you're finally let go of by life's responsibilities like a day of work or hardship that separates you and the band whips you back, there is no longer any strain. There's a slack around the two of you and the band is relaxed. I can just feel my chest compress with pressure (like a stretched rubber band) if we're forced to be apart too l…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 06:28 AM
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I think that I'll be leaving him a little love note every night before I leave for work. I used to write him love letters all the time but now I just send it in texts. I think he'll appreciate the throwback to our first two years together. I'd also like to have a dinner set up for him to cook. I work overnight and don't see him till 6am so he eats out a lot. If I have everything ready to go, I'm sure he'd like to have a warm home made meal.
/r/RedPillWives08/02/18 07:12 PM
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This whole "why marry" question is one I struggle with myself. We discuss it but then we ask "but what would change". My SO sees marriage (the legal agreement) as pointless because of how commonplace divorce is these days and I really have no point against that. The only marriage I ever witnessed was of my grandparents who stayed together for the money, not for love or even any kind of friendship. My grandfather loathed my grandma, I think due to him regretting tying himself down to her when he …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 04:28 PM
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I completely agree! These are valid reasons to end a relationship. They expose certain characteristics of a person. Perhaps the binging of TV relates to introversion and not compatible with someone who just wants to talk all day. Or being consistently late shows a lack of respect for your time. Living together exposes these differences and allows the pair to adjust their lifestyle to their partner's or leave and continue their own lifestyle. Not addressing these and just dealing with it could cr…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 04:06 PM
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A co-worker of mine had a child at 42 by accident. She had previously had her tubes cut, tied, and burned. They grew back after 12 years. He's a sweet and healthy 4 year old now. There are definitely increased risks but there's so many ways to live a life and sometimes...life happens to you.
/r/RedPillWives04/02/18 10:44 PM
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You could spend the latter part of the evening testing out dinner recipes? Also, possibly pick up a portable hobby! Crocheting, try sketch art by drawing one of the sleepy kitties, and fitness is a good one as another commenter said. You could start a yoga routine with all that free time! I picked up a jump rope for easy home cardio for less than $3! You could also catch up on reading. With crocheting, it becomes muscle memory and you can easily do that while catching up on your TV shows. Same w…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/18 10:18 PM
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I love that these are all starting on the day that my SO and I share off work together. It will make it a lot easier to set the mood for the week. This is such a great idea!
/r/RedPillWives29/01/18 10:14 PM
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Every day every person should be working to be better so you are not alone in your goals! I learn new things every day that help me improve on myself. What may help you prioritize your goals and set a game plan is making a list of all the things you believe you can improve on. For me, I have listed faults such as being too quick to judge, a sense of entitlement, frequent negative trains of thought. The list isn't short for me! After you make your list of what you'd like to improve on, work on on…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/18 09:55 PM
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That's a GREAT starting point to bring up 'plate' vs LTR potential and what her goals should be. Let her bring it up.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 07:39 PM
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It is a bit off-putting to women who are not at least slightly interested. That would be something I think you could gauge better than me. If she starts to chill out then it could be beneficial. I think it's best try to keep her focused on school and such for a few more years before introducing her to sexual strategy. It would be good for her to understand that consequences of things such as sex too young and presenting herself as almost a sexual object but I don't know what would be the best wa…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 01:37 PM
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I'm not a man and I do not think like one, so from a woman's perspective, not an order but a suggestion...yes, I think that if you are openly treating women in a way you would not like your sister to think is acceptable treatment for her you should definitely be more discreet. It probably wasn't you and I wouldn't say she is damaged. Like another commenter said, it is probably just a phase but I'd like her to get out of it quickly without any harm done. It probably wasn't anything you did, it's …
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 12:27 PM
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I am the eldest and my little brother is 5 years below me so I cannot confirm in regards to that from personal experience but it seems logical. My SO is very much so like the most successful male that was in my life when I was growing up, which I feel is relevant even though he was my grandfather, not brother.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 11:54 AM
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When I was 13 I watched the movie 'thirteen' even though my mom told me I wasn't allowed to. She should be grateful I saw it, it scared me into being a mostly good kid. You're not forcing her to stop, you're just exposing to her the consequences of risky behavior. Maybe start commenting on women you think she should emulate, saying they're good women and why, but in a casual way. Many girls just copy until they get their own style and vibe. If she hears that those are the women that impress men …
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/18 11:45 AM
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And what is the question?
/r/askTRP13/01/18 04:20 PM
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Lol I don't like to imagine him leaving but that thought keeps me going with my slow but steady weight loss despite my concerns.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 01:47 AM
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So what do you suggest I do?
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 09:20 PM
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Questionable how?
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 08:43 PM
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Again, read my post history. I follow r/loseit. I am losing weight. I am active. I just feel insecure about my relationship security. I do not, have not, and will not feel okay with gaining or maintaining a fat body for his pleasure.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 08:29 PM
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If my personal experience is not relevant, then why are so many others simply because they happen to be considered common? The person responding is insulting my SO and me by suggesting he is lying to me about something very personal to him and has been for 6 years. I do not find it great that he likes fat women. Check my post history, I have been trying to lose weight despite fear of him leaving me for it. I understand this sub likes to see relationships as black and white but there are shades o…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 08:19 PM
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I'm not a supporter of HAES. That 'movement' disgusts me and has convinced my SO that I'm healthy. I never invalidated the original observation of the post. I agree with it! I just wish the man I loved had the same outlook on physical expectations so I didn't have to fear him leaving me for a fatter woman.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 08:17 PM
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I hope so. A few years ago when I talked about losing weight he would get really upset and he has threatened to break up with me because he would no longer be attracted to me. I'm glad you ladies don't have the same experience but you all have down voted what is clearly a personal experience and not a rule. I was under the impression you ladies were supportive. Maybe he was just messing with my head for the last 6 years!
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 04:43 PM
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I'm plus size and my SO enjoys that specifically...and I feel dread all the time! There's so many fat women! Ones who have more money to buy better clothes, who have bigger butts. It's terrifying. I freak out. I have skinny friends so that I AM the fat one! I wish he liked thinner women so I'd feel secure actually losing significant weight which would make me healthier. I'm glad it's working out for you though lol!
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 11:04 PM
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Large tips is attractive to me. I'd be embarrassed if my SO left a crappy tip. Peeing in the shower is a non-issue, just rinse out the shower. How about both genders put the cover down so nothing accidentally falls in the toilet? Equal effort and it's respectful of clumsy people like me. Problem solved. Watch the game as long as you want, I know my family is boring, they just want to see you. Why are these issues? Such a waste of time and emotional frustration.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/17 06:33 PM
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Great list and that jar idea is so lovely! My family was never very big on Christmas so I'm excited with this being my first year where I won't have my family around but I do live with my SO now so I can go crazy like I've always wanted to. I can't wait to implement a tradition for us.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 01:31 PM
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For what's available to read here, sounds like he's executing what he thinks is dread in the poorest of fashions. If you insist on keeping the relationship you should peruse the sidebar on how to up your game, focus on your appearance and exhibiting value in the ways you feel you're best at. Maybe he's hinting (poorly it seems) that he'd like you to pay more attention to your appearance. If the comments continue after you've made improvements physically, make it clear to him that his comments ma…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 01:21 PM
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I was able to accomplish 2/4 goals this past month. I found some food my man is really into that is simple to make. I was also able to save $100 OVER my goal of $300. The counter space situation is more of a long term project than I had expected and I don't have a scale to determine if I lost any weight. A pair of my pants is a little looser now than last month I think. This month: Make a great impression at my new job. Cut out drinks other than water. (Waste of money, applies for everything exc…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 12:43 PM
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I have a particular friend who listens to my words but chooses to move forward with her own plans. It's frustrating to watch. She accepts what I have to say and isn't offended but still ignores the advice.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 03:08 AM
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I will definitely look into that. I checked this morning and saw that the scheduling was being edited, so I'm hoping by the end of the day there will be a couple shifts added in for me. I'm not sure how my management would take it. I'm pretty inexperienced in life so I'd find it ridiculous for management to see me seeking financial security a 'bitch move'. That's wild! Does it affect the employer negatively?
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 05:02 PM
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Definitely, at the very least! I usually bounce back pretty quick from large expenses or financial emergencies because I'm quite frugal but it's still stressful. I think my meager savings will do but I also just wanted to be productive at home and wasn't sure where to start. If he won't take it, I'll find something either he wants or the house needs and surprise him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 02:54 AM
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Fortunately my family has never been big on gifts for Christmas. I did find her a gift from Goodwill and made her take it though. A STEAL if you ask me. A full beautiful dish set for $9.99. That's a great suggestion though. I have 2/4 of those items and I bet it's super cute.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 02:50 AM
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I'm still employed, on payroll, and I know when I will be back on. December 23rd at the latest but probably in 3 weeks honestly. I threw a fit, it was productive. They may also find a shift or two a week for me but that's not guaranteed. From my quick research on a .gov site, I have to be unemployed technically.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 01:19 AM
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Wow, that's so insightful. I was feeling really stressed about him possibly having to cover my bills when I expect myself to be contributing equally. I didn't think about how it could make him feel if I did what you described. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 01:08 AM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 12:51 AM
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We just focus on saving money for experiences. We agree to go to a place, usually the beach or the capital, to explore and buy beer that's too expensive. This year we wanted to visit DC when it's snowing so probably February we'll be "exchanging gifts". This is also a combined anniversary gift because our anniversary is the same week as Thanksgiving and we usually don't have time for ourselves with family everywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 12:18 AM
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I'm so envious! All I can think about is babies! I feel like I'm going crazy! I nearly burst into tears when I see newborns and little kids. Logically I know it's not time and my SO and I are not ready but that doesn't stop me from day dreaming of him interacting with our hypothetical children and swooning. Congrats! I wish you the best.
/r/RedPillWives15/11/17 01:38 PM
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I am actually obsessed with the super feminine but understated style of French women, particularly Parisian. It's silly and probably immature of me but I just love how effortless the look is and I love the concept of having a wardrobe that flows all together. It would be so simple, mix and matching. Nothing is perfect, the flaws are turned into assets! The far West style of black and white perfection is sort of like a sickeningly sweet syrup to me, I want some savory on my plate too. Minimal mak…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 01:22 PM
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When I began working in retail I had to train my face to look fake helpful, friendly, open. Look up micro expressions. You'll get images of quick expressions that show different emotions. Focus on the calm or happy ones, practice that in the mirror at home. When using a fake smile, try making sure your eyes squint a bit, the creasing caused is recognized as happy while without it, most people see it's fake. Your brows and eyes say a lot as well. I also think it's important to be honest, if somet…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 12:05 PM
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For me, this is something I need to put further into practice. I don't nitpick in the usual way...I tend to make suggestions of other ways he could be doing stuff that I think would be easier. Which I think is still nitpicking. I need to let him do things his way...either he's right and mission accomplished or he's wrong and he'll find another way without my input. I was the eldest in a home of a single mom so I basically became mom2. This led to me becoming what my little sister calls 'bossy'. …
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 02:48 AM
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Turn on the wax warmer he likes, make the bed, clean the kitchen, put all the clothes where they belong. I usually simply clean up after him and he seems satisfied. I have taken to introducing more mindful evening practices like a different genre of music every night and he'll do homework while I do some yoga. I think he's enjoying not watching TV, he hasn't asked to change it back. I'm trying to create a calming and restorative atmosphere for him. I no longer burden him with "what do you want f…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 02:41 AM
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I have a bad habit of either putting stuff in the freezer or in the pantry and he prefers those items in different place and I know this but I just always forget...I continue to leave the eggs out and put all bread in the freezer while leaving jars of sauce in the pantry that should be in the fridge according to him...and the bottle! I'm still catching on to his preferences. He respects my sourdough in the freezer, I can keep the jam and butter in the fridge.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 06:25 AM
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My SO and I have fallen a bit into a slump as well. We have a small studio apartment in a microscopic town where the latest store closes at 11pm. We don't get home till 11pm. It gets monotonous. I have been baking, taking care of the house, and I'm making plans to improve our apartment into an interesting and functional space instead of just a rectangular box. Turning off the TV would help. Maybe switch to soft background music to fill the silence. Get out of the house, even if by yourself. You'…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 03:53 PM
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I spent my day off yesterday picking up goodies from the shops to decorate the house and fill the fridge. I picked him up some egg nog because he's been talking about it and also his favorite candy bar. Midday he actually delegated a pretty important task to me. He accidentally paid rent to our previous property management even though we switched. So he put me in charge of calling and getting a refund. I wasn't able to get a resolution from them yesterday (someone who has the answer was out of t…
/r/RedPillWives08/11/17 01:32 PM
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Beans and avocados! Protein and fat rich foods! Ellen Fisher on YT (pretty red pill imo but doesn't really talk about that) has a variety of avocado dressing type recipes. I also suggest nuts/seeds and the butters made from them. Fatty, filling, and of course delicious. If he wants to maintain try finding the amount of calories he burns daily and meal plan based on that.
/r/RedPillWives06/11/17 09:26 PM
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Great suggestion! I'll be signing up for that free trial tonight. Edit: moved update to OC.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 09:28 PM
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I know I'm a few days late but I wanted to think for a while on what my goals should be. I will lose 5lbs, and at my size that should be pretty simple actually. I will have $300 saved this month. I'm at $160 already. I will find a quick and easy meal my SO likes! He is a foodie type with specific taste. He likes complexity in his meals so it's a challenge, especially since I'm perfectly content with plain foods or just pizza for dinner. I don't really have the palate to determine if he'd like it…
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 01:32 AM
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He's been so supportive of me. I've recently had increased work hours and increased labor required and it's been incredibly exhausting and painful at the end of the day. He helps me stretch out my body so I feel better in the morning and doesn't get upset about me falling asleep as soon as I get home. We're really focusing on building a nest egg for emergencies so this extra work is sort of necessary for now. Today was my first day off since I moved in with him so I've been working on unpacking …
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 01:13 AM
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Moving in with him this week. My roommate has officially severed our friendship over me focusing on him and not her. He has been incredibly supportive of me during this very stressful time. I've lost a close friend and I'm moving away from any others I have. This is so I stop putting him on the back burner, so I begin focusing on us. Hopefully I'll be able to get a job transfer to a closer location within the next two weeks so I can stop spending so much on gas and we'll be able to begin saving …
/r/RedPillWives23/10/17 09:18 PM
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This! :-) I cook for my SO even if it's meat because I've come to terms with his choices the same way he's understood mine and I love him. Neither of us put each other down and we respect each other. It can definitely work. Plenty of people eat other diet styles and different from their SO. There's no reason why not eating animal products is any more incompatible than someone eating Keto when their SO eats a regular non-regimented diet.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 10:00 PM
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When it comes to tidying up and little chores I ask myself if it'll take less than 10 minutes to do per chore. If it will, I do it on the spot. It's amazing how fast you can do these things. Today I cleaned up my SO's parents house that we were house sitting in less than 20 minutes, including vacuuming. It will soon become a habit to just deal with it when you see it. Another thing, I try to only clean if I'm in a good mood. If I'm in a bad mood I usually leave the mess until I calm down. It hel…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 09:26 PM
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You don't have to, I'm almost two years vegetarian and almost transitioned fully to veganism. My SO was uncomfortable at first but he realized it's important to me and actually loves the lightlife beef crumbles, makes great taco meat! He's actively suggesting new things that are veg*n that HE wants to try but will probably never go vegan and we've happily accepted each other.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 09:19 PM
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I've been lurking for a while but slowly using the advice you ladies and some gentleman have posted. It will take time, my SO is a shy man and honestly quite stunted in life, but I believe he is on his way to understanding that I'm done with being a controlling, neurotic bitch towards him and moving into position to take charge. I'm proud of myself, this sub helped me see him in a different light. Combined with r/deadbedrooms, you ladies have helped me move from the dead bedroom we had that was …
/r/RedPillWives17/10/17 12:43 AM
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Obviously the reasons for each are different and one is much more destructive to your body, but aesthetics? Identically unattractive. Both equally unappealing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 02:19 AM
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When we met, I was into thin guys like my SO was. Now, 5 years later, I'm still into thin guys but I do wish he'd put on some muscle and fat weight. He's been working on eating a lot more and going to the gym. I'm very excited for his bulky days to arrive. I'm ready for the bear bod! His dad went that way, so I expect he probably will to.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 08:07 PM
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Pushing yourself physically is inspiring in many ways, but the physical manifestation is not always attractive. Bodybuilding is just as unattractive to me as an obese man. I would even say that most women feel this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 07:24 PM
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