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Harsh reality but best advice. Unfortunately I was going through the same thing recently.
/r/seduction16/03/22 06:00 PM
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I’ve omitted some info but how deep am I in it?
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:20 PM
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I’m obviously omitting few details, some of which could be IOIs, but I do agree I was slow with escalation. I think I’ll still try to see where it goes, if it becomes obvious that I’m clearly in the friend zone then I guess I’ll just look elsewhere, but I don’t think it’s all over
/r/seduction12/03/22 01:57 PM
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Great idea! Any recommended tags to look for specifically, for a nearly 22 y/o guy? 😅
/r/seduction26/02/22 12:17 PM
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True, but it’s the best way to market/advertise yourself now. I heard numerous times that my social media is insert a synonym of boring/not intriguing. Unfortunately dating is like a market, so I’m gonna use everything I’ve got access to, to make myself even more higher valued
/r/seduction25/02/22 11:06 PM
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I don’t necessarily want to use it as a dating profile, but rather I’d want to make sure it isn’t dull and that I just look good in the pics.
/r/seduction25/02/22 02:55 PM
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True, I dislike how we’re using it as a replacement for real interactions, and how you essentially need to have it or you’re ‘weird’, but it’s a form of marketing for us nowadays unfortunately. Hah my mistake was probably not giving in when she was trying a lot, now she’s kinda pulled back and takes ages to respond. Speaking of which - do you think I should text her besides just organising something? I’m guessing sending memes or something funny would be a good start if it’s relevant to what we’…
/r/seduction24/02/22 10:16 AM
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Interesting, I don’t care much about social media but the notification popped up and I saw it lol. I probably care too little about social media given that my last pic was of me when I was 14, now I’m about to be 22 🤣 it’s time for an update once I grow the balls to do it and take a good pic Any advice on how to get her to validate more? She kinda insinuated on how I should’ve thought the first time we met as a group “nooo you should’ve been like “oh she’s good looking, maybe I should see what s…
/r/seduction24/02/22 08:08 AM
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Appreciate it! How would I turn it into a flirt? Or is it not exactly possible here?
/r/seduction24/02/22 06:21 AM
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Appreciate it! Assertiveness is definitely something I need to work on as I’ve been bullied before and I’m just naturally a person who prefers to build connections, chill and have a good time rather than conflict, but that doesn’t mean I avoid conflict. Do you have any recommendations for things I should look into, consider, maybe books or videos or something? Thank you
/r/seduction19/02/22 06:22 PM
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Hmm, it’s a little difficult for me, or at least that was my experience before - I prefer to work with one person and when someone joins in I feel slightly awkward or restricted, any advice for that? Edit - I.e. I wouldn’t flirt as much, I wouldn’t make sexual jokes/innuendos, etc.
/r/seduction19/02/22 05:46 PM
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What if they conveniently show up at the same place and join in? That happened to me a week ago and it threw me off big time
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:01 AM
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Thing is, she was really easy to talk to and she was very open, it just went downhill I think because of me getting a little uneasy with the complete strangers - I prefer to talk with one person if I want to get to know them/flirt
/r/seduction17/02/22 02:49 PM
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That’s true but I just don’t know what I could do if I do start running out
/r/seduction17/02/22 12:02 PM
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but what do I do after? I don’t know how to escalate even with kino being implemented, last time I went on a date I found it hard even with kino
/r/seduction17/02/22 01:58 AM
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