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Attacked by whom
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/20 01:03 AM
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That's reddit for you.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/06/20 12:56 PM
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I'm a fairly tall woman (5'7). I don't “say“ it I just date men of lofty heights without hurting anyone's feelings. It's not hard.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/06/20 01:17 PM
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The majority of people are stupid though. “A person is smart.”
/r/PussyPassDenied04/08/19 11:50 PM
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He is mad cute
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/19 08:08 PM
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Lol, what does me allegedly not liking how it sounds have anything to do with it? Young women are more likely to date young broke guys for their looks. In college most youth are broke and that's most people's chances to get at other prime coeds. I did know some girls who fucked older dudes for money but still had boyfriends their age as their main though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 08:07 PM
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White people
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 07:33 PM
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Most young women do want young men, physically they're preferred, but that's where money comes into play. Most 30 something men aren't attractive, especially the fair skinned types who don't know what lotion and sunblock is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 07:30 PM
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Tall girls do just fine too
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/18 10:48 PM
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Ironically it tastes better from the fountains at McDonald's.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/18 09:22 PM
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If you sire a child it’s your responsibility too, whether you like it or not, but let’s just go along with what you’re implying. Based on the points you brought up, why would a man who absolutely does not want to be a father risk becoming one by having unprotected sex? (Oh, we know very well why). It seems like women should not be trusted with this matter, based on what you said, yes? So why put that power in her hands? Something something personal responsibility...Hell, might as well never have…
/r/MensRights12/02/18 10:19 AM
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That’s exactly what I’m implying because life is not fair and yes, there are some double standards regarding the sexes. Bring up many of the talking points feminists like to and other what aboutisms, same logic still applies. Guy doesn’t want children ? Make sure he trusts no one in regards to protecting himself. No one. Not even his long term partner. No unprotected sex—ever, lest he want to risk being a father. He should provide his own condoms from a safe source, pull out mid stroke to check …
/r/MensRights11/02/18 04:57 PM
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Just as soon as I hear a good enough reason as to why a parent shouldn’t be responsible for their child—ah fuck. There isn’t any.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 04:44 PM
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I can be consistent. There’s no true wage gap, just different circumstances. Women generally work less hours and pursue more non-STEM degree anyway.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 04:41 PM
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Because everything in life isn’t equal or fair. If anyone, male or female does not want children then they need to take advantage of many birth control options out there. But people don’t a lot of times. “Oh, it’s fine I’m on birth control.” A woman might say. Really, is it fine if it’s causing this much noise? To those who so strongly don’t want to be fathers perhaps jacking off would be the best option. There’s plenty of time to enforce what you don’t want when you’re not a parent to be.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 10:12 AM
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When sperm isn’t needed to make babies, sure. Until then pay that child support.
/r/MensRights11/02/18 10:07 AM
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No need to tell them, they eventually figure it out through life experience. Some lower their standards, others make more money and some just neet themselves to obesity with video games in their parents home
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 01:30 AM
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No. Higher chances of STDs
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 06:27 AM
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Same here! Fly eagles fly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 07:20 AM
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Your snark detecting skills could use some work. I was serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:27 AM
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Lol Snark. Now usually you’d be right. You’re so used to getting attacked you can’t take a compliment or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 12:43 AM
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I’m sure there are women just dying to bounce their foreheads off of a gut for a buck, and taking whatever inches he has left to spare if it’s not buried in his fupa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 12:14 AM
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That’s because you’re a real man. Of course she did. And no there is no sarcasm in this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 12:00 AM
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Then 50% doesn’t have to get married. They can continue to have out of wedlock kids for all I care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:15 AM
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Because shit doesn’t go as planned (or maybe it does for some). Doesn’t mean that having kids within a marriage isn’t ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:07 AM
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Maybe. Or next time I could just be crazy for my partner as opposed to just feeling okay about him and using his ability to provide to prop up a house with a crumbling foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:18 AM
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It’s ideal for raising children and passing down wealth to the next generation. Of course there’s security and all that jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:13 AM
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I’ve already done that, only because freedom was worth more than dragging him to court over money I didn’t need. Wasn’t his fault I didn’t love him. Won’t do it again though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:10 AM
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Not interested
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:45 AM
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I’d be screwed because I wouldn’t want a family without being married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 11:31 PM
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Maybe in regards to money for men, but as far as looks go most men are hit by 35, well most European descendants that is but they can’t help their genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:29 PM
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White people problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:14 PM
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Black men’s fault, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:59 AM
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The fools. Come nightfall and after a heavy meal we will strike.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 01:21 AM
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That’s your business, more power to ya. They’re not fucking you so what the fems say don’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 10:29 PM
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I feel like anyone who comes to this subreddit and asks this question should know exactly why women want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 04:38 PM
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Oh he does, usher is average compared to when he was lifting with visual abs. He’s loss some mass and tone but still looks good. That Seth guy looks like he never lifted a weight in his life and looks boarderline womanly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 04:25 PM
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Okay wow, that’s an unattractive fat and pale man. This is acceptable dad bod to me. https://i.imgur.com/94UZGgW.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:03 AM
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Only works if their shoulders and arms are broad with a narrow waist, otherwise dad bod is just skinny fat for vast majority of men. They’ve got to have a face thats relatively untouched by the higher BMI so the jaw doesn’t lose definition. Hard pass on most dad bods in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 04:47 AM
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I suppose if it seems like sex is all you can offer...well there ya go. I have never been told that in my life, now online that’s another monster.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 08:48 PM
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Or one could just read.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 04:37 PM
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Read my entire post slowly, especially the last sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 01:59 AM
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Atttactive men are seldom seen as creepy. but do they realize how harmful this word is to men? Imagine you were black and your best friend (who is white) calls you a ni@@3r to your face, that’s what it’s like. Lmao, the fuck on. Compare it factors one can change like weight and behavior, not race or height for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:41 PM
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Because if shit hits the fan (assuming she gave up working for childcare for many years, depends on him for income, etc) she’ll have some insurance if he changes his mind and they spilt). A woman’s 20s are extremely valuable. Or so goes the logic. That “insurance” plan is abused a lot these days so...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:06 PM
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I think it's remarkably stupid to sign up to be a "perma-girlfriend" and give up your best years to someone who could easily trade in for a younger model-- but there are women who do it. https://m.imgur.com/I1tGpaP Talk about a poor return on an investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:03 PM
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I’m not trying to prove anything, unlike you. Especially when people say one then and do another.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 06:59 PM
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I think your actual traditional ladies will probably do just fine locking down a traditional guy (I should know, I am a traditional guy) but that it's not worth trying to act that way to get commitment from a guy that wants a traditional girl when you are anything but. I wish I could upvote this again. And that issue can spill over in other ways too. Women who feel lukewarm about their future husbands but lock him down anyway because he can provide. They all crack eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 05:50 PM
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I like men who can be emotional under expected circumstances, but emotional men, on par with my own emotions? No thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 03:58 PM
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Shhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 10:44 PM
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I had a bit of both, but most of my values came from my late long married god grandparents. Their dynamic was traditional husband and wife, and they were loving, religious and stern. I rejected Christianity as a teen but still hold a lot of what they taught me to heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 10:23 PM
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Usually confident and better lovers. Plus they had the chance to experience all sorts of women and are usually pretty serious when they’re ready to get into a LTR as they know what they want. Surprise, surprise they generally don’t want whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 08:56 PM
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You're basically saying that you walk down a street and you see ONE guy you find attractive! Doesn’t mean he’s a “chad” (or in my case a Tyrone or an Antonio) though. If I see a guy with dark curly hair and tan skin he’s half way there for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:49 AM
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I haven’t watched a single Star Wars movie in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:24 AM
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If it didn’t matter both sexes wouldn’t lie about it so much, albeit for different reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:26 PM
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That’s unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 05:06 PM
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I like men with morals just fine. I just don’t want him to have any while he’s fucking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 03:31 PM
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Well, my ex certainly could have used the most basic of information provided by TRP, lifting and not being such a whiny bitch to name a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 05:38 AM
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These hands
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:33 PM
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A dry snatch is like a soft dick, the body does not lie
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:32 PM
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Some of my redpill-esque comments are downvoted in the more common areas of Reddit. Women and men in those areas especially dislike my views about obesity and attractiveness. Which is funny because fat people who become normal tell no lies because they know better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:26 PM
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Dudes brother says she was a good person who he loved as a sister. Obviously he was getting more out of it than pussy to keep her around for a decade.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 02:25 PM
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Most women laugh at others dumb enough to stay in a relationship that long while only being a girlfriend. A decade wasted and nothing to show for it. If he wanted to give her the boot she wouldn’t get much (if anything) since she’s just the girlfriend. Talk about a poor return in exchange for prime years.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 04:20 AM
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10 years together and no ring? Guess being a unicorn didn’t pay off. Hell, she did the right thing before she wasted all of her youth on that guy. Yeesh. Your brother will be alright. Not married, has the house and is relatively young too. Everyone wins.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 03:40 AM
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If they aren’t working out then eating less should be easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 03:45 AM
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Well, I was below average because I was overweight in my formative years. Traits like coyness, introvertness and low self esteem go hand and hand with that. I missed out on a lot of normal shit like having a bunch of girlfriends, trying out makeup, going to parties, stuff like that. Don’t drink much and didn’t smoke weed until I was 21. Honestly if I were a male I’d be a neckbeard. It didn’t transfer into seeking validation with many partners though. I just ate and isolated myself. Now the weigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 02:30 AM
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If it’s actual attraction maintenance goes a long way. There’s always someone hotter out there, but if you have the hots for your partner and actually like them, well, that’s a recipe for success. Problem is a lot of women settle sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 10:25 PM
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Oh, a little bit of well placed dread from a man can go a long way. Very motivating to keep your shit together. Or maybe I’m just a sadist, either or I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 04:13 PM
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That’s interesting. I thought most women had that one guy. And what good is a “type” if a woman doesn’t date around that much? In my case that guy was forever sat on a pedestal and ruined other men for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 02:38 PM
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Shame. It was a good read. Countered a lot of your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 08:39 AM
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Well, what else am I supposed to do if I’m not working because of small children or what have you? What, a man is supposed to spend all day at work and come home to a dirty house and a cold stove? Jesus Christ. I’ve done it, it’s not that bad. Yeah, it can get annoying but working sucks more so...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 01:46 AM
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Yeah, I don’t remember sex being all that great from the moment I started fucking (17 years old) to...honestly my mid 20s. Oral sucked, being penetrated felt okay to good, on occasion I felt nothing at all. That was weird, it’s not like they were small, above average in fact, but then again I get so wet the grool takes away my own friction. Not a bad problem to have I suppose, just have to stop and wipe it away. I still wanted it though. I should have said something but I wasn’t sure what I want…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 05:08 AM
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This post I saw on the redpill recently pretty much sums up what happened. https://i.imgur.com/D7xyWA8.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:42 PM
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He didn’t, which was why it was so depressing. No one deserves that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:34 PM
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When his dick was new, during the honeymoon phase. But it was my fault for settling so lesson learned. Probably the most civil breakup in the history of breakups.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:29 PM
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Having a child didn’t hinder my libido. I was pleasuring myself some 3-4 months after giving birth, I just didn’t want to have sex with my ex husband because I wasn’t all that attracted to him. Ideally I think having sex 3-4 times a week is ideal. The week prior to my monthly...every day, if not multiple times. I think my libido is slightly higher than most women but probably not on par with a man. Having a child that slept wonderfully throughout the night after 3 months old probably helped with…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:20 PM
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His hair is terrible because he’s thinning. And he’s average I guess, if you like white men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 05:47 AM
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Of course I’m stuck on “raw appearance,” it’s what makes men attractive. Not that fake, oh, he’s confident or oh, he has a lot of money kind of “attractive” but genuine, my panties are grooling type attractiveness. Sure there are people who can make themselves look better by—gasp—taking care of themselves, but none of that really has a thing to do with personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 12:11 AM
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If a man has "a sexy presence" then he can be a 4 in physical attractive and boost it to a healthy 7 Nah I disagree. If a guy is a 4 he’s a 4, his “presence” (personality) wouldn’t bump anything to me because i cant over look him being a 4. Personality doesn’t make a man more physically attractive, its not something that can be tossed in, only his looks can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 11:35 PM
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Online. We’re usually fat and feminist but if you find one who’s willing to lose weight and doesn’t buy into that men are devil bullshit you’re in luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/18 03:30 PM
0

Oh, well he’s going to get his dick sucked then. My boyfriend does most of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 11:17 PM
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You know damn right only black men can get away with looking older because once they’re 25 you don’t really know how old a black man is. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:53 AM
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It's selection bias. The types of women who post on this sub are to some level angry and jealousy of men. Now I’m offended. I like red pilled men. And why would I be angry or jealous of men considering I have it so much easier than most of them anyway? (At least until I get old).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:49 AM
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Unless he’s black.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/17 02:40 AM
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Ah, we had a spider in the shed before. That son of bitch was huge. I walked in to grab the toolbox when I saw the bastard wrapped around a 2x4, like it was going to pick it up and smack me with it. So I told my ex husband about the spider and he laughed as he walked in the shed to kill it. Well, when he saw the beast he pulled me out the shed and slowly shut the door. It was the spiders shed for a few weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/17 06:40 AM
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Good god yes I do and I can’t keep my mouth off of him. He’s got hunter-esque almond shaped eyes and great jawline. I especially love his wide shoulder to narrow waist ratio. Obviously I found him attractive from the moment we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/17 07:51 PM
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Klay Thompson might be the only reason I have to watch a NBA game and not die of boredom. Talk about the total package.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 06:05 PM
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No, just an intp woman
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 01:42 AM
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Fair skinned people have thinner skin regardless. So compared to the men I like they look older by default on average anyway. Sorry for any confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 01:40 AM
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You’re my favorite poster here, you know that? Lol. If you don't want to fuck them then why do majority of you play games and continually play the game as if you are interested. For the same reason ugly men strive to make money. Oh. I know why. It's because you're trying to feel a man out on whether or not he's an alpha male. Here’s the thing about that, it doesn’t take much “trying out.” Those kind of men don’t tolerate that shit and they are just lovely. (No sarcasm) Shit testing is probably w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 01:36 AM
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What? This is assuming all the dead bedroom situations have to do with your partner being unattractive when that's not even the case. Of course not every case. Most do though. It comes from lack of mental attraction and emotional stimulation and overall a lack of connection between the two partners. Why? Because women care about feelings. I suppose that’s easier to digest. Yeah, I’m sure there’s a lot of mental and emotional connections to be made with a man who just so happens to be more attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 01:13 AM
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I’m sure they do, but generally people who are attracted to their partner won’t go without fucking them for years. Surely, that “my wife doesn’t want to fuck me” trope comes from somewhere, don’t you think? And it’s funny, women will lose their sex drive with a man who provides everything but’ll find it with an attractive man who makes less.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:56 AM
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Unattractive men have resources, something they work towards because they know it’s their best shot at getting women. Of course those same women are going to want them to think they enjoy it. At least until they can stand it no longer or branch swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:52 AM
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Because they are lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:48 AM
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We don’t care if unattractive guys are confident, he’s still unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:47 AM
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His character and personality doesn’t matter if he’s not attractive, or should I say if the woman doesn’t find him attractive. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:44 AM
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Attraction can be faked if there is some gain to be had. If you want his money of course you’re not going to tell him otherwise. But they all crack eventually, especially when the bag is secured.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:42 AM
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Take a trip to r/deadbedrooms then. Women settle for the sake of financial security at the cost of a wet pussy all the time. It’s why you believe we don’t judge by looks first too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:41 AM
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We do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:37 AM
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Guys don't wrinkle up as fast as girls to, and a guy with age is a guy many a sweet lass will see as a wise man. It’s about the same, and we see them as weathered too. Unless of course they’ve been moisturizing their skin since their youth (a lot of fair skin people do not because they can’t “see” their dry skin) and/or have more melanin.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 12:34 AM
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I didn’t know it needed to be admitted. I thought it was common knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 08:13 PM
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Need betas? I would rather go the cat lady route than to subject a man to my disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 11:37 PM
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Sometimes it’s for the best. Especially when both parents are able to care for the child separately.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 08:50 PM
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its 5% of white guys (I just looked it up), who are about 1/2 of the 55% white section of the millenial population. AKA unicorns. Maybe light colored hair then. A lot have lighter brown hair compared to what I generally go for. these statements clash. Most people settle with their own because that's most likely their looksmatch. If I were with a white dude I would be settling unless he was exceptional. I can look at a white guy people consider attractive, see the appeal and still he would do not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 05:33 PM
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no they dont lol you just described every indian, asian, hispanic, it's all an unidentifiable blur of the same ol shit. You know what actually sticks out? Being a guy with blonde hair I like guys who are of my background the most, blacks and Latinos (I’m black and Puerto Rican). I see guys with blonde hair all the time, doesn’t mean they are good looking. Or maybe they are to someone else, just not my taste. Most men aren’t attractive anyway, personal preferences aside. it's funny that you say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 04:52 PM
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At least there are more white women overall. Imagine if you preferred Latino or black men like me. There’s just so many unattractive white guys by default, a guy with olive/brown skin and dark hair automatically sticks out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:35 PM
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Who cares if he doesn’t want the baby. Men and women know what could happen when they have sex. If he doesn’t want to be the child’s life (which is fucked up but whatever) pay up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:29 PM
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Benjamins and Grants, baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:43 AM
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Because women are willing to settle for the sake of financial security it’s no wonder why men like the idea that their looks are less important. However, r/deadbedrooms says otherwise. I mean I get it. It’s a hard thing to accept, I’m a 29 year old woman who thankfully am aging well due to a good diet and more or less genetics (thank you Mom and Dad) but yeah, my days are numbered. And hopefully, when those days arrive I’ll be paired with a guy who can remember when we were hotter but legitimate…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 03:33 AM
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Yes, because you already know most women don’t care about most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 05:39 AM
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it can be painful for days after This can also be a pleasant reminder. That dull ache after you get your womb raided. But yeah, when it’s bad, oh my god it makes you never want to have sex again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 04:28 AM
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I was also given a degree and a 100k job for being black. Let me tell you, whew, I get all kinds of free shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/17 07:07 AM
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People say one thing and then do another though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 04:27 PM
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Who are you trying to convince?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 04:16 PM
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You just said you were with a man with money and security and still had sex with him. So really you kinda proved my point. I do Sex stopped a few years into the relationship. Around the time I no longer found him attractive. Longest stretch without it was 8 months and when we finally did do something he got dry, lifeless starfish sex. We didn’t even sleep in the same bed for the last few years. But he got the pussy sometimes I guess. I don't know you but you might just simply not be one of those…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 09:06 AM
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But you still had Sex with him....lmao. So he still got to fuck off of money alone. Actually, he got less attractive over time. I thought he was good looking at first. Idk what the hell happen, dude just fell apart, probably poor genetics. His impending baldness and unwillingness to lift anything was what killed it for sure. And I figured, well maybe I could over look that since he’s paying for most things. Couldn’t. So I left. Because really, if it’s all about sex in the end, he was wasting his…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 08:12 AM
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It depends on other things. How the man acts, how the relationship actually goes, etc. He can act anyway he wants. It won’t go very well if I don’t want to have sex with him. Desire is non negotiable. Buying power just prolongs the farce. Lol. These athletes are still getting pussy. That's what we are talking about. They're winning. Because they have money and status they will still get women. Well, if that’s what it’s all about I suppose they are winning. Ugly wealthy men should be careful then…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 07:55 AM
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Meh, my ex offered money and security. My pussy was dry as fuck. Not worth the bad sex. Not like I could shove his credit score up my snatch and get off with it. Then again I do love my boyfriend so I guess that’s a big difference. And those ugly athletes already know what they sign up for. Most of them are taken to the cleaners unless they’re smart. A more common scenario is what’s going on in that deadbedrooms subreddit. Eventually the women just stop pretending and walk away with half, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 07:41 AM
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Attractive men will win out every time in the end. But I suppose a woman could just take the money while she’s renting her pussy and fuck who she wants on the side (as most do in those situations). They’re troopers though. I’d rather be poor with someone who I find attractive. At least there’s a chance of improving wealth and status along the way. But that’s probably because my family is well off and I’ll be okay regardless, if I’m honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 06:05 AM
1

Lol like hell we don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:50 AM
1

Pretty much this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/17 05:43 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:16 PM
2

That’s true. I like to think of them as year old labs. Lanky and leggy until about 3 or 4, that’s when they get a bit more bulky. Assuming they take care of themselves though...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 09:03 PM
1

I get the point you’re trying to make but jeez, the water ain’t that deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/17 02:03 AM
3

Funny you say that. I left my ex husband for reasons I couldn’t get over and left most things behind. Freedom was more valuable than his things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:58 AM
3

Lmao. No. Sorry, I was talking about what I would do and that I would prefer to be a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:43 AM
3

Wait a minute, I’m a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:40 AM
1

My hair is curly and poofy too, expected when you’re black and Puerto Rican. Costs me an average of 11 bucks a month (conditioner) and 30 bucks every 3 months for my preferred curl cream. That’s not expensive at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:39 AM
3

One person has to give it up. I would. I’m a home body anyway. That way the children would be with their mother, the home would be taken care of and I could take care of myself, you know working out and things of that nature. Wouldn’t sign a prenup though. Just in case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:27 AM
4

That was beautiful. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:13 AM
2

So tell her to get a better job, as a matter of fact show her this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:12 AM
1

I wouldn’t be able to trust someone to do that if I didn’t have some emotional connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 05:48 PM
2

What she wants, all women want, once in a while, if for a man they want to just take her and dominate her and even so far as to skip the foreplay and get to the dicking. Just quoting this for the people in the back. Spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 04:52 PM
0

That and the idea of being forced is pretty damn hot. I know, it’s taboo, but meh I like the idea of having my insides knocked around without warning. It’s just a fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 03:50 PM
1

“Nope” only answers part of what I said. Again, what is the point of this exchange as it stands? I obviously cannot be swayed and have no reason to lie about being attracted to faces initially. It’s not like I haven’t seen men in nice clothing but still want nothing to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 07:06 AM
3

Okay, yeah to you. Clearly, I feel differently so what’s the point of this exchange now? Does it bother you that much that despite what you are insisting I do not agree? An unattractive man won’t miraculously become more attractive because he’s well dressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 06:50 AM
1

Well, shit I need to write a letter. I’ve got a few companies in mind who aren’t aware of their quota. You want in on it too? A few series of tanning sessions and a perm and you’re in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:16 AM
2

Yes, when in doubt keep doubting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 01:43 AM
3

So doubt it. Good looking people look great in anything anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 01:41 AM
1

This is funniest crock of shit I ever read in this subreddit. By the vibe of this post everyone should re-up on Black passes every tax season. Why would anyone want to be anything but black? We get the best jobs without effort, I mean people just hand them right to us with no vetting. I bet you employers just pass up on names like “John Smith” and “Nancy Sue” until they get to a “Malik Williams” or a “Latoya Brown.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 01:33 AM
3

You would when the first time you saw him. Now it doesn't matter, but at the start it does. He was wearing a t shirt and sweatpants when I first met him. Nothing about him screamed, “I took care in choosing this outfit.” It wouldn’t have mattered, I was immediately drawn to his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 10:37 PM
4

Yeah, and they eventually end up in dead bedrooms.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 09:14 PM
3

Of course, universally ugly faces are a given, but I strongly disagree. It’s a great disservice to proclaim ones face doesn’t factor in much. That whole, women care about personality trope. Yeah, that’s a lie. I wouldn’t find my boyfriend any more or less attractive based on what he is wearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 09:06 PM
5

Yeah, if your face is attractive in addition to of all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 07:54 PM
4

Neutral, to me it’s like, oh he isn’t ugly, not in the slightest, but he does nothing for me. I’m capable of finding neutral looking men extremely attractive but usually a certain type. Generally the dark wavy/curly haired and olive to brown skin type. Most men are white so by default they don’t exist as sexual beings to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 04:46 PM
4

Women find most men physically unattractive (mostly neutral/non-sexual) until she learns his personality. There’s no “until.” If he’s unattractive to me his personality would not matter, It wouldn’t work out anyway. Face and height are huge. It can make up for an average build (which I don’t mind at all.)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 04:31 PM
2

I remember watching his old videos on mtv back in the 90s and my mother told me in the video “rock with you” he didn’t have any work done yet. I thought he was pretty cute. His peak look wise was in the thriller video after his nose job.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 06:18 AM
1

Oh, well that makes sense. I probably misunderstood more than you wording it incorrectly. So that’s my bad. But I will share what I have noticed what my own boyfriend does when I’m in a mood. Usually two things. He’ll ask something along the lines of “do you need me to do anything or is this just a rant?” And most of the time it’s just a rant, bitching some would call it, lol well really what he calls it. I try to keep it to minimum because I remember how I loathed my ex husband complaining abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 09:38 PM
1

There’s no need to apply any strategy considering I’m not angry, amused, but not angry. My main gripe with your post is that you truly believe the only reality is that of a male point of view. Which again, is the source of my amusement. And if you go through my history I’m not exactly blue pilled, it’s mostly bullshit when accepted in full, like any strong leaning mentality. And if you choose to go through my history, get a feel of my experience and change your own view in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 08:32 PM
3

She/he already summed it up for you. If you want to be obtuse that’s your prerogative. Perhaps you should use that male intellect of yours to figure out how to remember to not leave open food around. Especially when you already know your partner dislikes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:26 PM
2

In what reality could a dismissive and close minded woman maintain a 30 year marriage? And with those alleged qualities to boot? Lol Now being that you are a man, a keeper of reality, I’m sure your reply will be entertaining—or should I say, enlightening.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 07:12 PM
5

Didn’t you know? Only men know what reality is. The same men who believe their milk turns into wine when they’re 30. Lol, sure, OP. This long guide is stupid, just leave the girl if find yourself dealing with dumb crap like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:42 PM
3

Something something insurance rates until they reach 25...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 04:38 PM
2

Thankfully it’s alive and well in my reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/17 03:49 AM
3

You’re in luck. Abortion (not to mention other birth control services) can help prevent that. So while those low income women are in school or whatever, they won’t get knocked up and in return they’ll be more likely to become tax payers themselves and give back to the system, as opposed to taking from it for 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 03:44 PM
2

To a certain extent. I mean, if we walk into a room and he suddenly pounds his chest screaming “I’d fight every mother fucker in here” I would have some concerns if it weren’t done ironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 09:53 PM
1

Because it’s not worth addressing bull shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 12:10 AM
2

True that. I can’t eat the same portions I did 50 plus lbs ago. Too self aware of satiety signals now. Honestly you got hate being fat more than being hungry. People don’t want to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 06:47 AM
2

Definitely sexist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 06:36 AM
2

Lol no we are not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/17 05:56 PM
1

I think women really do have it worse than men on average I definitely have it better than most men and believe women have it better than men on average. And I’m just an average looking woman. I can only imagine what above average women experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 08:24 PM
0

Oh, sure a woman might not do it 5 times in a weekend anymore but it won’t turn into starfish sex aided by artificial lube.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 03:56 PM
0

If I want him inside me I’ll do all those things. Float around the house while I clean, and cook with only the finest ingredients.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 08:32 AM
-1

Some men just have IT. No effort needed. Powerful feeling if you ever feel that way around a man. You could spot his ass in a million man march if the sex is good too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 08:25 AM
2

I don’t give subpar sex to men I love. From 18-24 I was with one boyfriend who very seldom got a “no” from me. I wanted him all the time and it didn’t take much to get me going. Developed an oral fetish with him and needed no invitation to blow him constantly. Everyday if he wanted. Tried anal once and hated it. But we broke up. From 24-28 I was with my now ex husband. Can honestly say I didn’t love him, may have thought I did at the time. Sex died within 2 years but starfish sex happened within…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/17 01:14 AM
1

So just fuck men and get on with your life
/r/MGTOW10/12/17 12:41 AM
1

We would be forced to ask for less if there weren’t any “buyers.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 12:52 AM
9

This reminds of the first time I ever laid eyes on my boyfriend. I was eating alone when he walks up to me and says, “Hey, would you be upset if I told you I want to have sex with you?” Lol he said it straight faced too. I looked at him for a few seconds and told him “nope.” His unmitigated gall paired well with his face. I’ll be the first to admit that I’d be pissed if I didn’t find him attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/17 12:21 AM
1

There’s no genuine attraction if he needs a guide to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 06:44 PM
1

It’s cliche for women to proclaim that they aren’t like other women. You hear it all the time really, but as an INTP woman I really feel as though there some otherness to me and my interests, my discomforting coldness to most people, including loved ones. I’ve been told my entire life that there’s something off, weird and tomboyish about me. I’m not bubbly, outgoing or outwardly feminine, just neutral. Although I do take great care of my skin and hair, wearing light and naked barely there makeup…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 05:14 PM
1

Sure they do. Just ask the older men who have to use lube when they have sex with their 24 year old wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 12:58 AM
1

5 years is one thing, beyond that is another. When I was 18 ten years ago men in their late 20s and early 30s rarely could compete with my then similar aged counterparts. I’m talking about looks because most youth are broke anyway. Might as well enjoy it with another youth than trade mine to some older guy I’d eventually give maintenance sex to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 12:46 AM
1

I agree, they are the best . -intp woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 12:20 AM
1

Now I’m not disagreeing with this, but an awful lot of them are married though. I pay attention to what people do rather than what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/17 08:02 PM
2

Men who go on and on about their intellect tend to be either boring, introverted and/or lacking in social intelligence. From my experience of course. I suppose average intelligence is fine, you know well rounded, but then again I can’t fuck a concept in a man’s head so there’s that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 04:45 AM
2

Lots of things aren't entirely true but true nonetheless. Source: also a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 12:46 AM
6

Unless you are rediculously hot a woman needs to get to know a man before she really starts finding him attractive. Swing and a miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 11:03 PM
4

INTP here, it most definitely works on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 03:40 PM
1

Sure, a man with a fit body is attractive but honestly it's let important than his face. My boyfriend lifts because it makes him feel confident enough that I couldn't give two shits if he's slim or ripped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 03:27 PM
1

I see why she doesn't respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 06:11 AM
7

I am. Why do you ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 11:24 PM
17

I would be extremely distraught if I had to marry and an old fart for the sake of traditional values. I can just imagine the amount of lube that would be needed as natural wetness wouldn't be possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 10:31 PM
1

Something something master keys and locks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 10:30 PM
1

My ex wasn't immature but boring. Perhaps some immaturity would have been beneficial for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 03:04 PM
0

Yeah, none of these guys do anything for me. Probably because I like that tan, olive skin, half black or just black with dark curly hair look. But I see the appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 11:08 PM
3

Trump wasn't even attractive in his prime years. At least to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 10:45 PM
3

I didn't lose 50 lbs to not be objectified though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 09:42 PM
1

Yes, because I asked him to. Funny, at first he looked as if I reached out and smacked him across the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 04:58 AM
1

Of course, there will be people saying there are women who don't fit what I just said, and I don't doubt such a girl exists, but she is at the very least uncommon (these girls tend to be INTP/INTJ types, and are literally less than 2% of the female population). Not to mention it's even harder to fine one that isn't either lesbian, unattractive, or already committed (it's rational for women to marry before the wall). Ha. I'm an average woman (face and body wise) but also an INTP. Ive had 2 LTR in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 04:38 AM
4

But we don't notice ugly guys so unless they say something and get really pushy (most men just stare because you know, not all men) it's no big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 11:49 PM
1

Depends. Are they hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 11:35 PM
1

Well, shit fire I married for lust and financial stability and that shit still didn't work out because I still loved my then broke ex boyfriend. And after being with two men since 2008 I never fell out of love with my ex, well now current boyfriend. Divorced my husband because that farce was just misery for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 03:13 AM
1

I almost dated a guy who was 5'6 back when I was 20 (28 now.) I thought he was incredibly cute and loved his olive skin and curly hair (I think his mom was black and dad was white or something). But yeah, didn't fuck because I found out he fucked dudes too and had HIV. But I can't honestly say I would prefer a man shorter than myself (I'm 5'8). I don't think I ever dated a guy who was under 6'0.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 02:30 AM
1

I used to do that. It's why I'm an atheist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 12:04 AM
1

5'5 and 180 is obese.
/r/MensRights08/10/17 05:52 PM
2

So stupid. We don't have enough T to get bulky like men. And you can't tone shit without lifting heavy anyway!
/r/MensRights08/10/17 05:41 PM
76

And more attractive too.
/r/MensRights08/10/17 01:52 PM
1

She's been doing this for a long time. I remember my parents watching her on comic view back in the late 90's.
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