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| 1 | Plate asked if I could get her a job part time where I work. Bad idea?Look man. Only you can really make the choice, but I’ve had an experience like this. You will very likely get a sea of “don’t shit where you eat” comments, but here’s my 2 cents. It depends on the job itself and your goals. For me at the time when I was hooking up with a girl I worked with I was a waiter and she was a bartender. I had interest in moving up at this job but there weren’t any rules against employees hooking up. A lot of drama happened between me and this girl and it really sucks to… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/19 04:42 AM |
| 2 | To send or not to send...Cause I made her cum all the time I made the mistake of dwelling on this with my ex. This doesn’t mean anything. New dick doesn’t always mean better dick, it means dick that is not yours because she’s not attracted to you anymore, or found someone she sees as more attractive than you. If you can make her cum all the time you can do that to other girls, so focus on them. Absolutely do not message this guy, it makes you look like a bitch. Why do you care? She clearly doesn’t want you. Who cares wh… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | In desperate need of advice/help. I feel bad for ghosting and will have to see her regularly. What do I do? (Long but bullet points for easy reading)Thanks for the explanation. And you think she has this? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | In desperate need of advice/help. I feel bad for ghosting and will have to see her regularly. What do I do? (Long but bullet points for easy reading)As in just professional conversation and don’t go out of my way to talk to or entertain anything she says? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | In desperate need of advice/help. I feel bad for ghosting and will have to see her regularly. What do I do? (Long but bullet points for easy reading)Okay that’s all I needed to know. I was raised to be a nice guy so I still have the deep-seeded traits. Reading NMMNG helped a lot but they’re still there. How should I act at work and what else can I do to grow from this? Taking it as a MASSIVE learning experience | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | In desperate need of advice/help. I feel bad for ghosting and will have to see her regularly. What do I do? (Long but bullet points for easy reading)Done and done. Anything else I should be working on to grow from this? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | In desperate need of advice/help. I feel bad for ghosting and will have to see her regularly. What do I do? (Long but bullet points for easy reading)What about her makes you think this? I’ve seen it mentioned here and everyone says run but I didn’t think she was. What about her makes you think she is? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | In desperate need of advice/help. I feel bad for ghosting and will have to see her regularly. What do I do? (Long but bullet points for easy reading)Yea did a terrible job. Thought she was attractive and it was the first girl to really show interest so I ignored everything Unfortunately Had absolutely 0. Working on it now Agreed What makes you say this? I’ve seen people mention it here but I didn’t think she did. What about her makes you think she has BPD? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How to get over post-oneitis depression?I’m in a similar situation. Dream girl was actually interested back and I fell hard, ignored MAJOR red flags, got fucked over, and she ended up ending things and breaking it off. She was the first girl I was ever involved with so I was extra-needy in trying to make it work/get her back. I also did about 2 months of beta orbiter of trying to be her friend/trying to hook up again with some patches of no talking in between. Sacked up about 2 weeks ago and stopped replying to her completely. Social … | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Messed up a “Let’s just be friends” rejection but I think I redeemed myself. Did I play the aftermath right?You think with a girl like this she’d initiate a meet up in the future? I know it’s advised against/frowned upon here but at least with where my head is at now, it would feel good to reject her and fully show her she has no power over me anymore | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Messed up a “Let’s just be friends” rejection but I think I redeemed myself. Did I play the aftermath right?Only thing I wanted from her was sex so once that was squashed by her I didn’t really want anything. I wanted work to be normal and not communicate/give her attention outside of work. Hadn’t actually thought about it this way but I guess I did handle it correctly. I was more thinking based on TRP principals whether I could do better/the same in the future | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How to not put so much value into what others think of me?Don’t think I’d catch feelings again because I see all the red flags and for all the ways she acted. Agree with the bullet points, I’m glad you said this because I was going to act this way anyway. I would probably hook up with her again but that’s all I would want. After everything that’s all she could offer me | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | How to not put so much value into what others think of me?Any advice on this? I feel like I have a lot of things I want to accomplish I can’t set myself on one mission/identify the difference between a goal and a mission | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | How to not put so much value into what others think of me?Would definitely have done this already but I have to work with her. It’s a small place and we are required to interact often I’m not sure it would be a wise move. It would make a job I like annoying and unbearable | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How to not put so much value into what others think of me?Definitely agree with this, I’m working on it any advice on how to stop looking at the micro and set my mind to the macro? Her still liking me confuses me. When we spoke 3 weeks ago and I brought up hooking up again she said “I really value our friendship, I think we should work on that first because it’s been neglected. I don’t think we should be hooking up right now. Jumping into things is what got us into trouble in the past. We should just be friends and if we do anything down the road we sh… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How to not put so much value into what others think of me?They seem like green lights but when we talked about hooking up 3 weeks ago when I said we could resume and it would be fine she said “I really value our friendship, I think we should work on that first because it’s been neglected. I don’t think we should be hooking up right now. Jumping into things is what got us into trouble in the past. We should just be friends and if we do anything down the road we should just commit.” That’s why her actions lately have been so confusing. At work when we ta… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Girl went back to her ex. Annoyed about it. Should I have seen it coming all along?But think about it she was talking about another guy yet fucking u...yet didn't talk complete shit about him etc. Can you expand on this? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl went back to her ex. Annoyed about it. Should I have seen it coming all along?This is the exact type of response I was looking for by posting here, thank you. Any advice on not thinking about it and moving on? I’ve been lifting, reading, going out with friends, getting over my fear of rejection by talking to people and other girls, but she’s still on my mind more often than not | /r/askTRP | 28/05/19 05:31 PM |
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