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I had a boyfriend once who got mad at me because he wasn't getting the quality of orgasms that he wanted meanwhile I hadn't had an orgasm in months. They are so entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/22 12:54 PM
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I hate BJ's so much but almost all men demand them. I've only had one partner who didn't like them. I had another few partners who knew I didn't like doing it and didn't force me. I need cunilingus though. So it feels like I'm being unfair if I need him to go down on me but I hate going down on him. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/22 02:31 AM
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Thank you for this. I have tried to piecemeal express these things in the past to men and they were completely puzzled when I would bring up that I was doing emotional labour for them. I am not cutting men off from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/22 02:14 AM
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Not all guys want oral. I was with a hvm for a long time who didn't want oral because he thought it was "for pederasts". He learned to go down on me though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/22 01:59 AM
49

When I was an undergrad, I dated a much older man, a professor (not mine thankfully). He used to shower me with gifts. The thing is, in retrospect, all the gifts were what he liked. He would buy me a dress if it was the dress he wanted me to wear. He would buy me the shoes, if they were the shoes he wanted me to wear. I feel gross thinking about how access to his capital was not freedom for me to express myself, but to become more of what he wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:32 AM
54

omg I would give him a surprise fake moustache if my boyfriend gave me fake lashes as a gift
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:27 AM
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I find the eyelashes to be really insulting. Fake lashes aren't even comfortable to wear. Why not get her something indulgent or pampering like skin or body care or perfume? Ick. Major ick. The fact that she requested pink and he legit just ignored the only piece of information he had about her preferences is laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 01:26 AM
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I was engaged to a guy who had never gone down on a girl and who literally did not want blowjobs. He learned how to go down on me and never asked for reciprocation because in his eyes, "Blowjobs are for pederasts"..."Why do you need that when you can have intercourse with a real woman?".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 03:29 AM
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I don't think he was trying to build rapport. I think he assumed that his opinion matters because he's so smart and so special and his dick is so big. His opinion did not matter. He did not have the knowledge to provide an opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 11:03 PM
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I wish I had heard this advice sooner. I would have left bad and painful situations at the right time instead of wasting months and years of my life on LVMs who wanted to willingly treat me badly. They knew what I deserved and just chose not to give it to me. It wasn't ignorance or neglect, they actively chose it. The problem is, I allowed it. No one prepared me for the world of dating. My mother married my father when she was 17 and they've been married over 50 years. She never dated anyone but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/22 05:14 PM
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I think that men might lie and say they are taking it but really be into "breeding" and baby trapping unsuspecting women. I also think that men who aren't ready to have children but who are married might ruin their wives' chances of happiness by taking birth control secretly so she won't be as likely to get pregnant. That being said, I'm still really happy that this pill could become a reality for many soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 12:17 PM
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Story time: I was totally in love with an American once. Part of me still has feelings for him even though we have been no-contact for a year. I met him 6 years ago pre-FDS. I was looking for a job and he was an alumnus of my grad school ten years my senior. I asked for a 20 minute informational interview. He took me out for lunch. Within a week he was calling and texting every day. I heard he was dating someone but he didn't make it seem serious. Plus I lived in another country. He waited month…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 08:15 AM
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Ladies, here is a travel advisory for you. In Switzerland, non-consensual sex is not considered rape and is not a crime. You have to prove excessive force or intimidation was used in a court of law for a rape conviction in Switzerland. I just lost my rape case despite doing everything right. I got myself to safety and went to my embassy and the police/hospital the day after the assault before taking a shower. I lost. The courts refused to hear my appeal. Now the Canton of Geneva is coming after …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/22 08:31 PM
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He was. I don't know what it is about me but a lot of men try to control me. I don't notice at first because I interpret it as care. But eventually I see that he's making my food and taking care of my clothes and driving me places/picking me up out of control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 04:10 PM
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He ended up meeting up with an ex girlfriend in London, UK. He kept talking to me multiple times a day but then had coffee with her and ended up with a case of cold feet that was very destabilizing. Then he started pushing for me to stay at home with him in Ottawa and to try to have a baby as soon as possible after getting married. I had a panic attack. Then I packed my stuff while he was at work a few months later and ran back to Toronto.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 03:06 PM
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My ex fiance, who I had broken off our engagement with because of deception, broke up with me a few months before graduation from university. He later said that if I had changed or behaved differently he had planned a grand second proposal on the stage of my graduation. OMG. So first off, ick. Second, my hard won degree was going to be eclipsed by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 08:01 PM
9

I know this might be triggering for you and is obviously a horrible memory but I am genuinely curious what he did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 08:00 PM
14

Men do lots of things to lock us down even though they aren't going to be locked down themselves. My former fiance had me move in with his parents while he was working in another city. The explanation was that it was going to help me shorten my commute to work. It did. However, I was also under the watchful eye of his stay at home mom during the day, his horrible father in the evenings, and the maid with the big eyes and even bigger mouth on the weekends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/22 07:57 PM
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Girl on a date generally looks put together and/or lovely with a cute outfit, makeup, hair done, maybe even nails done, waxed/shaved/lasered whatever hair he might find undesirable, possibly taking birth control. Guy on a date wears same jeans he's worn all week and the only shirt he found that was not wrinkly, perhaps even a fresh tshirt, he does a quick hair ruffle and he's good to go!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:15 PM
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So very true. I mean, I've already invested time and money to even get to the table for a date. The least he can do is pay for my ten buck lunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/22 05:13 PM
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This is my new mantra. Someone please design a sticker of this so I can put it on my laptop and notebook!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 06:21 PM
2

There's gonna be a run on decorative glass bowls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:19 AM
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At least give me an exotic fruit like a mango or a pomegranate. After all, he probably would have said to me (multi-ethnic lady) "Wow you're sooooo exotic. Where are you from?" Then I would reply "Canada". Then they would push, "But your look...where do your people hail from?" *falls over*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:19 AM
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He saw the look of horror on my face when I asked him about his weird fruit bowl placement tossed me a pear and said "Here you go!" with a great big smile. It was chilling and hilarious. We are no longer friends. He is now married with kids to a young blond woman who is insanely in love with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 04:15 AM
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He didn't say what that breakfast is though. For all we know, he could be like my former womanizer friend who kept a fruit bowl by the door so that he could hand the girl a fruit and get her out of his apartment without cooking a real breakfast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:50 PM
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Like sands through an hourglass, these are the scrotes of our lives...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:41 PM
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So let's see, he hates good looking women. He thinks good looking women who don't want to talk to him are pompous. He's only screwing literally the "uggos" if you will, to screw over the good looking women. He's fat. He's hung up on a high school ex. But hey, he's a real prince because after he has sex with you he will ALLOW you to sleep over. I can't even with this walking red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/22 06:40 PM
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Story time: I went on a date with a 47M the Saturday before the Monday Valentine's day. He arrived with a Valentine's gift in hand (homemade cookies, mini teddy bears, a chocolate bar). We had a lovely dinner and chatted for hours. At some point he let it slip that he had never had a long term relationship. He also admitted he had become addicted to swiping on apps. He drove me home and gave me a big hug with a kiss on the cheek. Then essentially ghosted me until I checked in a few days later to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 06:50 PM
6

*pikachu face* Who is Chad? I have never met Chad!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 02:39 AM
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OMG the audacity. Here's the thing, that almost happened to me! This guy and I went out and had a lovely day together on the water. He wanted me to come to his place after for dinner and I said no. He then dutifully followed up the next day and asked me out again. He was weird about scheduling the next date and then confessed that he still had feelings for his ex. So I told him to hit the road. That's not exactly what he did... He was quiet for a few months and then resurfaced to ask me out agai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 03:03 AM
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I had followed RedPillWomen because I wanted to know what it was. It seemed to celebrate femininity. I liked that. Then I saw more posts and comments. I got 'rapped on the knuckles many times because in that sub you are not allowed to give any advice that includes "breakup with him/leave him". So I saw posts by what seemed like lovely women, trying to achieve a standard but then being told to stay and fix some dumbass man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 02:46 AM
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Remember that = hates men (in their eyes)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 02:44 AM
8

This is definitely a thing. Sometimes someone will ask if I'm high maintenance. I tell them that I am the exact appropriate level of maintenance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 06:20 PM
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I went out on a Valentine's weekend (2 days before the 14th which was a Monday) date with a man (47) who I had been talking to through Hinge for a couple weeks. We had good banter and he sent voice notes in addition to texts. He arrived to the date with a Valentine's gift of mini teddy bears, chocolate, and homemade cookies. I was tickled pink. We then had a lovely dinner and he drove me home (it felt safe enough to do so). During dinner we talked about dating and he admitted that he was "addict…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 03:32 AM
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She should start the emotional affair now whilst preparing to exit the marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 08:40 PM
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They will also neg you in the name of BrUtAl HoNeStY. I had a virtual date and then went out with a guy and spent the day kayaking. It was going fairly well. He wanted to cook me dinner but I was exhausted and didn't want to go to his house on a first date. We scheduled a second date then he was being weird about wanting to reschedule. Then he confessed that he's reconnected with his ex who he had told me was just a non-serious covid thing. I dropped him and he kept contacting me once a month fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 07:59 PM
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At least those girls actually show a photo of the boyfriend. On my social media the girls are just posting photos of the gifts the guys have given them. One such gift was a ring pop with a note that it will be a real diamond someday *facepalm*. Oh the cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 06:33 PM
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You are not being stupid for having questions. Try counselling to help communicated better. Based on that you can make decisions. You should not have another baby under any circumstances. Why are you stuck with almost all the housework and childrearing while also providing so much of the income? This is madness. An overweight, lethargic husband is making you do all the housework, not raising his own child, and making you work full time as well? What are you getting out of this? Is marriage reall…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 04:26 AM
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Hope pray and wait for God's match for you. That might come later than expected. Be the best you can be for God and yourself. The husband will come.. You are so so young. No serious professional man will take you seriously until you finish undergrad.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/22 08:14 PM
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You sound lovely and like you're with someone who does not care about your preferences and needs. It has been two years of this. How many more will you tolerate? Him doing something physically do you without consent, invitation, and not stopping is a big problem.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/22 09:55 PM
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It's also a matter of emotional labour, planning, researching fun things to do, being helpful and supportive with the other person's burdens. Money is just one thing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 08:08 PM
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When you have the conversation bring that up to him. There's a lot more to a relationship than who buys dinner.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 08:06 PM
0

You are very young and this is not fair. He has much more money and maturity. He can take care of you/bills. He should want to as an older and caring person. He's not showing you care. Taking the virginity of a young 18 year old girl when you're a grown ass man is just wrong. Can you really afford to be in a relationship who isn't showing you care, who doesn't take into account your circumstances? He is also doing something completely reprehensible by "future faking". At some mysterious point in…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/22 07:07 PM
1

Wow this is horrifically mean-spirited as a response. In most civilized countries, child birth or any hospital stay is free and publicly funded rather than a for-profit venture. To judge her for wanting to spend a little on herself is just not fair. Before motherhood and even after, a woman is still an individual with needs and desires. She may have framed the binge eating reference badly, but I think she meant that that's a vice she can't indulge in to soothe her pain. Ugh, this was just not co…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 02:39 AM
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I personally wouldn't have moved in with someone before being engaged, but that's a different situation than the one you are working with. Just be conscious of time. You're 26. It's not that your uterus will shrivel up at 35 and you'll be barren or that you'll become invisible to men at 30, it's that your 20s are a great time to date around and find the right person or even a great time to spend getting to know yourself. It would be a shame to waste that time on the wrong guy.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 03:07 AM
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Ask him what is 5 year plan is and then ask how you fit into it. If you don't like the answer, gently but firmly say that it does not work for you and present your own 5 year plan. You are not married. You are not engaged. You have no serious commitment, so your 5 year plan has to be truly about what you want and not revolve around an imaginary future with him. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/21 11:31 PM
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i can't speak to African American male or female behaviour. I'm not black or American. However, I can say as a warning to white girls, if a brown guy is dating you, it might just be for the perceived easy access to sex and lower standard of care. Guys like that will ultimately marry a brown girl from their community because she is marriage material when the time comes. I've seen this play out over and over again. The only time I saw a well to do brown guy marry a white girl was because she propo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 03:37 AM
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OMG That's a pickup artist thing?!?!?!? I literally had two older men tell me about their relatives (father, aunt) who were dying of cancer in the last few months. I hardly knew these men and they were going on and on about their sickly relatives and asking for support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 02:49 AM
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This seems like a really disgusting evening. A girl does not want to talk to you or drink with you and so you fashion some excuse to continue to bother her so you can "win" against another guy. Seems like you just played the clock until she was so drunk she couldn't resist you and the word for that is not seduction, it's assault
/r/seduction15/07/21 05:49 PM
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Sounds like he read the game and wishes he were Style
/r/seduction15/07/21 05:41 PM
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