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| 1 | 25 years old, no social life or friends, and never had a girlfriend. However, girls seem interested in me but I feel I need to work on myself first.You sound exactly like me and that's why I want to help you out. You will regret it when you pass up opportunities like this. Trust me, you will. Like some have pointed out, you can work on both simultaneously. Seeing how having experience with girls is important to you, I say working on seduction is also working on your "life"; just don't let it become the only thing that you work on. Make a commitment to improve your social skills. Join clubs, find meetups that interest you (meetup.com), and t… | /r/seduction | 11/11/15 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Got a coffee date tomorrow after months of complaining here about how women find me attractive. Just looking for advice.This man is spot on. Take it easy... You're the selector, not her. Then just go and have fun. | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Picking up girls while walking the dogAsk her if she has a dog or she likes pets. Or make a statement that she seems like the type that would like certain animal or dog species as a pet. Take it from there :) | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Recent epiphany: I feel good about just being me.This should be upvoted more. It is gold! | /r/seduction | 26/08/15 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I am ashamed about my past...I think he meant before two months ago when he "lied" to himself. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 07:11 PM |
| 3 | How can I love myself fully?I know how you feel. I think mindfulness practice could really benefit you as it teaches you to come to terms with yourself, both the good and the bad. Check out r/Meditation. They have lots of useful guides. | /r/seduction | 13/08/15 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you think my looks are an issue?Smile more, from the heart. You're a very good looking guy. It's not the looks that played a role. Probably confidence and smile. | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Getting rejected for the first time, in a long time.thought you were cute | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 08:25 PM |
| 2 | What is the psychology behind being mean, brutally honest, and indecent to women and them wanting to be with me?But not all girls would get the message. Some may think you're just joking and still holding that purse expecting you to hold it for them. What would you do in that situation? | /r/seduction | 09/06/15 06:12 PM |
| 1 | **[FR]** - 3 months single: The ups and downs of my 5 best approaches and hookups since. Day 1.Great write up man. Really enjoyed it. Out of curiosity, what would you have done if she wasn't interested after you switched seats? | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 05:46 PM |
| 2 | I am a female and need advise on how to close with new guy.It seems like when you were playing "hard to get", the more interested he was. When you became needy and forthcoming, he became less interested (he very likely has options). Don't text him or respond to his texts so fast, and see if he comes along. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Why don't girls like nude photos via internet?It still relates back to anonymity. People on you facebook friend's list are your friends and family. They know a lot more about you than strangers on reddit. Some of these nude posters may have a different identity that they put forth when they're with friends and family, and for them to post such photos on FB may go against the image that other people already have of him/her. Others don't do it because they don't want to be labeled as a slut, showoff, etc. Reddit offers a safer haven for them … | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 03:01 PM |
| 2 | My first day yesterday of attempting to seduce. Could use some pointers."sounds good, I'm not interested in long term either." | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Am i a selfish seducer?I see why it can be annoying to be in your situation. You're helping your friends a lot here, and I think eventually they will approach the girls with you. Right now they just need the extra help. If you're frustrated about your friends taking the girl that you're interested in, then maybe you can have a talk about it and decide on some sort of communication that would signal to them that this is "your girl" during the actual interactions. | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Best way to avoid awkwardness after being rejectedIt's awkward because we think it is awkward. My advice would be to not focus on how awkward it is when you run into this girl, and instead focus on how you would have acted before everything happened. Remind yourself this that the awkwardness is created by your mind and is not a true reflection of the situation. | /r/seduction | 30/05/15 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Racial insecurity1 kid is in the first pic? | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 02:35 AM |
| 6 | Best way to avoid awkwardness after being rejectedI had few experiences, even at work. Initially the girls made it very awkward because it seemed like they were avoiding me. I handled it as if nothing had happen (I wasn't devastated when they rejected). Just act like you would have acted with them before they rejected you. After a couple of weeks, we were back to where we were. It seems like they are more attracted to me now. My guess? They fancy the fact that I had the balls to ask them out. Don't overthink it. No harm no foul man. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 02:08 AM |
| 3 | What to do after i get in the room.Tell her that you give killer massages and ask her if she would like one? Massage her shoulders and neck to ease the tension a little bit, then bring yourself closer to her as if you're going to kiss her neck. There's many ways to do this, do whatever your boner tells you to do (don't start dry humping though, at least not yet); just take charge. Kiss, whispering in her ears, roam with your hands, etc. | /r/seduction | 16/04/15 05:30 PM |
| 4 | People with approach anxiety, how many approaches did it take to get rid of it?And if you leave from the cold water for too long, it will be once again uncomfortable when you get back to it. | /r/seduction | 17/03/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Lined up a few Tinder dates, but I've never been on a date in my life!"If you never get stuck, you'll never get unstuck." | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Lined up a few Tinder dates, but I've never been on a date in my life!I think we all want to know how she knows how a woman's vagina tastes like =) | /r/seduction | 04/03/15 10:55 PM |
| 0 | How should I respond to "You're too old for me"?Take her word for it, and move on. If she is serious, then you can save yourself the trouble of trying to win her over. If she is just testing you, do you really want to get with someone that plays games. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you reject someone properly?really depends on how oblivious or stubborn the person is. You can try responding with few words as possible, no kino, no teasing, and taking a long time to respond via messaging/calls. If they still don't get it and still coming on strong, then there is no other way than "i just don't feel that way about you." I personally find it very annoying for girl, who you're not attracted to, to act all "friendly" when I know she has an agenda. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Never say please.I was just pointing how the contradictory in your words. | /r/seduction | 17/01/15 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Never say please.if words are unimportant, why should we "never stop saying please and thank you"? lol... | /r/seduction | 16/01/15 05:08 AM |
| 2 | "You're so smooth" - First F-CloseHalf the game is attitude, and he's got the right attitude. I don't see what's wrong with him posting something like this. | /r/seduction | 14/01/15 08:33 PM |
| 2 | You have to get fucking ANGRY with yourself."feel the fear and do it anyway" | /r/seduction | 14/01/15 08:29 PM |
| 2 | How often do you guys swing below your weight class?only if it comes with A1 steak sauce | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 06:29 PM |
| 1 | How to make her WANT you.Nice write up dude. What do you mean by doing it "too soon"??? | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Notes and tips from 5 months of heavy tinderingThanks for taking the time for writing this up. It was a great read. Will definitely save this and let it all sink in. | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 03:35 PM |
| 1 | You're "league" is higher than you think.That's what movies and society would have you believe. Most of the people at my gyms (YMCA) are far from "huge". Just toned, and that's what a lot of people are going for. Sure, you can do that at home, but it's much easier to do at the gym due to many benefits. | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Something a girl said to me....Dick pics. Duh. Lol | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 04:49 PM |
| 5 | You're "league" is higher than you think.Your statements hurt my head. If you know not everyone going gym is jacked, then what's with your "not all women are into jacked guys" response to his comment to go the gym? | /r/seduction | 28/12/14 04:47 PM |
| 1 | I've completely given up and lost hope. I don't know what to do anymore. Need some advice.Shave your head. Or use rogaine (or cheaper generic version). Most people have had success with rogaine. Shaving your whole head get rids of the appearance of balding, and it looks pretty manly. | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 04:48 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A date with a girl I met at an event. Kclose but couldn't Fclose. I gave a full review of the night and pointed out the mistakes that I thought I made. Please help me find what else I can improve on.How old is the girl? | /r/seduction | 26/12/14 04:47 PM |
| 1 | A random dude put his hand on my hand, I liked it.You were supposed to play along ;) | /r/seduction | 25/12/14 04:10 PM |
| 1 | A random dude put his hand on my hand, I liked it.Hi Joanna | /r/seduction | 23/12/14 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How to get a cashiers number when you can't pick the till?I don't think he is. | /r/seduction | 22/12/14 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Trying to break out of my isolation, need some help.Sounds like you have social phobia. You should bring it up with your therapist so that she can help you with it. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy can be very effective in addressing social phobia. Getting your gym membership, AND actually going there to workout will help with your self-esteem. Don't be intimidated by the buff guys there. It's all in your head, and you will eventually stop worrying about it. Same goes with interactions with other people, girls included. Being confident and just havin… | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 11:34 PM |
| 3 | What kind of bodytype do you think has the most success with women?Do what you like your body to look like. I have my ideal body in mind, not solely because that's what women like, but instead it's what I like and strive for. | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 11:28 PM |
| 1 | What kind of bodytype do you think has the most success with women?Having rock hard abs takes dedication and discipline than having it being the only thing going on in one's life. You're basically saying in order for one to be good at a sport, you would need to be doing nothing but playing that sport, which just isn't the case. Competitive bodybuilding, is a different story. Passion doesn't always equal insecurity. | /r/seduction | 20/12/14 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Girl asked me to bar with her and her friends. Don't think it'll go well, how should change it?"everything you want in life is on the other side of fear." | /r/seduction | 17/12/14 03:12 PM |
| 1 | I am a beautiful young female with a frustrating problemI think you were downvoted for missing her point :( | /r/seduction | 11/12/14 08:23 PM |
| 1 | You made me realized I was so wrong!"I just wish I could fuck more 110lb 5'9" blondes. Everyone is so fat." The post was great before that.. lol.. | /r/seduction | 08/12/14 11:27 PM |
| 1 | My funny joke backfired in that it acctually worked and i choked and ran.Loved the story. You could have left out the last part, the link to a pic (unless that's you). | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Finally, I did it. Approached/Kissed/Closed :)How do you get from your open to asking her to go your place? Curious. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 04:18 PM |
| 1 | A valuable lesson I learnedI love your post. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 04:04 PM |
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