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SEEKING ADVICEazureeyks/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:56 PM
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🙌🏻 I wish you all the best. Enjoy that mink coat and your chai. You’ve got this. And well done on levelling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:29 AM
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I really really wish I did this and a little sad I’ll never get a chance now as I’m levelling up and refuse to date a LVM ever again. I’m so impressed. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:20 AM
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Hahahahaha what a boss babe! 😂🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:16 AM
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I had a baby to a LVM and just had enough. Porn. Pot. Not cutting off ties with his ex (they even spoke about HER sex life together. Gross) I just left after telling him I wasn’t happy. No amount of his gaslighting worked cause I was done. Good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:55 AM
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Chemistry is necessary for me. It can’t be built, but I like that spark and passion straight up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:17 AM
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Birds of a feather sweetheart. I would be disgusted and shocked as well. We often don’t see this until it’s too late. Meaning when raised in a dysfunctional family or with a dysfunctional adult, we are a LOT more lenient with abuse (in all forms) and mental illness, because it’s our “norm”, we don’t know any better. BUT we learn, we leave, we heal. And it’s a long process and journey. But one for the better when we come out on the other side. Those little children, esp your son (s?) need a role …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:33 AM
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I am so sorry this has happened to you. I wish you all the best. Escape when you can. Try putting money aside now. Maybe make a new email address, contact legal aide and custody orders rolling. Emergency loan, emergency housing or bond loans. I can’t imagine what’s going through your head right now. You’ve got this. One step at a time. But you deserve so much better as you know. Be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:25 AM
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What!? Hahahahaha my god that’s a new one even for me LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:43 PM
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Hmm. Just be careful like you are. And think on it. My friends husband told other women that she was cheating on him, that they were seperated or on a break etc. they weren’t. She was happily married and he was picking up chicks. (even tried it on with me! I’m the one that told her what he was trying to do, yet she believed him and didn’t talk to me because I was the one lying eyeroll 2 years later she came crying to me because she found out he cheated on her with at least 10 other women. Includ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:41 PM
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Why did his ex and him seperate? I would be cautious it’s love bombing. Draw you in quickly with gifts and flattery and then true colours start to show when he’s got you. Just continue doing what you’re doing. But don’t get too ahead of yourself. True character will reveal itself in time (4-6 months with some!) if he’s a genuine guy he will understand reservations. 🤞🏻 he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 10:24 PM
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I know right! I wanna slap myself silly. I would have left real quick, but I chose a LVM and got pregnant. Don’t regret bub. Definitely regret his father. Thank god im outta there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 07:11 AM
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Sounds like my ex. Except mine didn’t hide it. Just slapped the phone beside me or ON ME 🤦🏻‍♀️ *Edited spelling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 04:13 AM
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There’s someone for everyone. So my friends definition of ugly or unattractive could be attractive to me. With that being said the men I’ve dated, I’ve not had a overwhelming urge of omg they’re HOT. I definitely “settled” with the majority because I’m more attracted to personality (funny that. Because I’ve been treated like crap by so far 99% of them) So no. In my personal experience “ugly” men do NOT treat women better. I’ve found them to be even bigger narcs and the ego is HUGE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 04:36 AM
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I’ll be honest. I only got half way through. This is too toxic to continue in my personal opinion. He’s getting you triggered (which is horrible sending you photos of a woman, but it’s a celeb and he’s no chance anyway- but adding salt into wound saying he’d like to date her) and you’re biting back and going off. You’re still so young. Get you a man that’s going to respect you in all forms. One that has you as the screensaver and one who will protect your feelings NOT purposely go out of his way…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 08:59 AM
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Thank you. Only onwards and upwards from here on in. Thanks to this sub I’ve applied strategies and talking to (so far) two HVM Hard not to feel suspicious. But it’s early days and I’ve no qualms to weed them out if I see a ounce of undesirable behaviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:42 AM
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Yeah. Until that’s all he wants. Every time you’re intimate. My ex couldn’t even have sex without finishing with porn. Headjobs - porn too Hand jobs - gotta grab it and strangle it. Finished with porn Sex- you betcha, even had the phone slapped ON MY BACK so he could watch porn Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:28 AM
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If a man can’t appreciate you now. And you’re changing yourself to keep HIM happy, then that’s not a good relationship. Change for yourself. Keep yourself happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:20 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:52 PM
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I want a hubby. That’s my goal, obviously not only goal, but I’ll be one day settling down with a HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 07:27 AM
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It is superficial out there unfortunately. But I’m also a firm believer In there is some one for everyone- meaning what others think of as a turn off, others will be turned on. I think working on confidence and mindset is the way to go first (I’ve got to practise what I preach) Sounds like you’re taking bull by the horns, you’ve got this 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 01:37 PM
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I would swipe right on you if I was a guy. It sounds like a really good bio to me and “selling points” Don’t undersell yourself trying to get a date. If they’re intimidated by you then they’re not at your level. Be proud of yourself and confident, which it seems like you are. Maybe it’s the photos you’ve got up that’s not guaranteeing a lot of matches?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 01:09 PM
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What was he! 12 😂 I read something in this sub last week about a man who’s wife or girlfriend went away for a week and when she came back the house was absolutely trashed. He did nothing, even pissing on the floor or mopping it off the seat with the whole toilet roll!! The lengths they go to never cease to amaze me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:31 AM
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Could not agree with you more. I just escaped a narcissist relationship myself. Unfortunately I have to have contact with him because we’ve got a son together. But doesn’t stop him from abusing, manipulating, gaslighting, or trying to anyway. I feel sorry for those trapped in quarantine in a abusive relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:34 AM
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Omgggg that poor woman. But also good on her for finally cutting him out! What a piece of shit. Not a real man at all. And fully admits it all! Go and get some professional help you narc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 06:16 AM
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Third joke. Same response every time from You or have you flirted back so he thinks it’s acceptable? Either way I could let one joke slide (in past. Maybe not now but depends on convo and context) But third one. It’s a no from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:03 AM
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Past experiences make us who we are. So you shouldn’t feel horrible for your experiences and tribulations. You’re here now and self aware. Use your knowledge and experiences to move on forward, and love yourself for who you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 03:00 AM
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Single mum here. Hello Firstly I’m really sorry about your fiancé cheating on you and giving you a STD. Are you ok? How mentally exhausting having to go through all that and process your own emotions AND parent at the same time. As for advise on dating. I’m no where near ready to yet. I’m busy focusing on myself and children, and too scared to lol. I don’t want to go through it all again and invest so much of myself emotionally and physically, just to get treated how I was. So I’m focusing on my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 02:57 AM
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If he’s showing HVM values, I say go for it! I’ve recently turned 31. I’m considering going younger too. Because older definitely hasn’t worked out for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:35 AM
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I read the whole thing. TWICE. But my brain just turned off because I couldn’t honestly tell you what I just read. Honestly felt like my brain threw on some white noise for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 01:08 PM
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Devoted or insecure. It’s a fine line. Posting thirsty pics on Instagram probably has him worried so he’s doing the everything “right” so she doesn’t leave. Basic respect for one another would indicate HV :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 12:49 AM
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A HVW wouldn’t treat her bf disrespectfully. And a HVM wouldn’t be trading self esteem for her attention. Imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 12:33 AM
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jUsT rEpLiNg To ThE TiOlEt pAPeR cOmMeNt. I lIkE tO UsE mY SoCkS aNd LeAvE ThEm On BeDrOoM fLoOr So I CaN UsE AgAiN lAtEr. tRy ThAt mAn. AlSo No HoE iS InTeReStEd In NiCe GuYs lIKe Us mAn. tHeY aLl WaNt A ChAD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 01:44 PM
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Sounds like my ex. 15 weeks ago I left LOL I feel so much better. You’ve got this. He’s poison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:55 AM
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I read this in such a Chad voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:30 PM
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Way to go girl 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 05:50 AM
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Ugh. Andi, Andy, Andrews are a nope from me 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:24 AM
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Tag her in here if you can. There is NO way. Unfortunately these LVM know how to prey on empathetic emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:24 AM
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🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 01:13 AM
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Oh my god. I’m speechless reading both of these!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:45 PM
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Maybe bring it up and say you’re not comfortable with his items being left there at the moment, but doesn’t mean it will be that way forever. If you don’t want things like that happening before marriage/engaged then you need to say something before he gets too comfortable. If he doesn’t respect what you have to say, then you’ve got an idea of what type of man he is. Is he a HVM? Does he pull his weight when he’s at yours? Do you feel comfortable with him in your presence? How long have you been …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:37 PM
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That poor woman 😞😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 07:47 AM
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You’re very right. I didn’t do it cause I’m mourning him, as I’m the one that left. I just needed some evidence to use at mediation for custody battle that’s about to go down. :) I unfriended him on Facebook last night. After deleting every comment, like, tag and share on his profile I’ve written to him and did same on mine. Lol. And blocked him on all social media. I can’t use any dating apps now though because he’s on them and I don’t want him looking at my profile. That and I’m not ready for …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:08 AM
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Funny thing. I’m bored too. But not in quarantine yet. But I’m sure it’s coming soon. Soooo I jumped on bumble to have a look for my ex to see what shit he’s written on there for myself. And I found 4 photos that are 3-5 years old. And the bio “Fun loving kinda guy I’m a dad and a hard worker Tall and thin 190cms” Then listed non smoker. Social drinker. Undergraduate degree. Looks great on paper. BUT I’ll tell you NOT DIVORCED FROM HIS (second) EX WIFE Cheated on his first wife Has two kids to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 03:26 AM
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🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:46 AM
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When I was 18 I tried making myself look sexy FOR MALE ATTENTION. I would go back in time and slap that girl silly now. Thankfully I never got myself onto trouble and never pulled it off lol. But still. It’s amazing what’s ingrained in us from so young. My mum still wants male attention. Constantly parenting her. I want nothing to do with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 12:44 AM
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Matthews, Luke’s and Daniels Also I will never ever date a Connor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:46 PM
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My ex has never been summed up so perfectly 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:07 PM
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I once read someone - you see people for who they really are when they talk to those who serve you. Ie waiter, waitresses. If he’s doing this in public ON A DATE- that’s a huge red flag giving you a slap in the face. Cross him off tour list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 12:05 PM
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Oh absolutely. That’s why I noted past 30 there’s no hope lol. 25 at max
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:24 AM
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Bye boy I wouldn’t tolerate this. Maybe from a 15 year old fresh outta high school. My mum Told me. Once a man is past 30- they definitely won’t change. So what you’re seeing is what you get. Sounds like he’s putting in a lot of effort at the start to reel you in. And then going to stop doing things for you once he’s “got you” You’ll Just be a good stay at home mum raise his kids and do the housework. No free time and friendships for you! NEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 06:10 AM
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To give us recovering pickmeshias amazing advise I think :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:06 AM
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Ugh porn sick ex. Was so disappointing smashing a floppy not even half way through. Foreplay was - ME sucking his dick and maybe a kiss 😂Stayed far too long with that idiot. But wait there’s more. And I’m so ashamed to admit how much of a pickmeisha i was. He could never cum, he would WATCH PORN while I was trying to give him a BJ and 3-4 times a night jerked off next to me whilst I was trying to sleep. AND once whilst heavily pregnant and attempting to get some loving. He literally slapped phon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:56 AM
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Love this. But I’ve read this a couple times now from a few years back and on FB and word for word too. But definitely a queen thing to do to the first OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:26 AM
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0 of 11 here. God damn I’ve played myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:00 PM
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Omg 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 11:55 AM
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My ex called me baby all the time. I wasn’t impressed when he told me he has called all his ex’s that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:09 AM
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I’ve only found this sub about a week or so ago. We don’t all start off doing the FDS in relationships. That’s how I ended up here when I ended my last with a LVM. When I AM ready to date again I’ll be using this. With a three month old attached to me won’t be for some time. Thanks for the link..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 02:29 AM
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Fellow Aussie here too. There is a bit of a cultural difference I’ve found. I’ve always offered to split bill or buy my own drinks and have found that it’s pretty standard. Maybe coffee instead or during the day date? Following as I’m interested in what other ladies say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 06:28 AM
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Definitely making excuses for him hun. He’s active on social media!! Meaning he’s on phone, so easy to send a text. And 4 days later and nothing?! Nope. Don’t even do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 09:29 AM
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Sadly what happens when you get with a narcissist, along with other crap they put you through. I’m at a age though where I can select what FDS “rules” apply to me. Whilst I nod and agree with all of them. I’m still independent and haven’t relied on a man for money yet in my 30+ years. Being a blended family too I couldn’t expect him to pick up and pay for everything when I have two children to previous marriage. However he had no qualms doing it to me. This is why I’m backing off dating for a go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 11:49 PM
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Just read up on it on google. Found a website. Check out this paragraph. is the attitude you want to project. Everything she does is cute. All her shit tests are bratty outbursts. Her silly little opinions are adorable. She is there for you to tease and taunt and patronize. Condescend to her at will. Refusing to take a girl seriously fills her with indignation… and horniness. She’ll chastise you while stroking your thigh lasciviously. They can’t help themselves! It’s almost like women are at bat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:34 AM
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You and I. It’s hun. Sad thing is I’ve got a three month old and having to co parent forever lol. Good thing is, his son will never be raised to be a porn loving, emotionally abusive power trooper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 08:22 AM
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Get this. The now ex and I argued for 18 months over housework. “I a work! All you do is sit at home all day and do nothing!? Why is it expected of me to do housework. If I had time off I would help you out” Anyway a few days later he quit his job and was unemployed for 8 weeks, so so you think he helped around the house? Nope. Instead I got “I’ll take care of outside and you do inside” (3 kids in total, 2 bio and one step and I was pregnant, and looking after a man child that did NOTHING) Not o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:53 AM
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I agree. This is far from subtle. The next step is murdering imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 03:20 AM
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Girl. If you’re reading this sub now. Do NOT date that man!! Be careful, he’s showing you exactly what he’s going to do to you!! Narcs always subtly tell you exactly what they’re like, and then down the track when you question it they turn around and say “you already knew this” “I told you that” I read this and just felt cold inside and worried for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:45 AM
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“Bullet dodged I guess” 😂😂😂 Far out. Gotta love narcs and their victim and self righteous mentalities. I’m so over pigs like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:10 AM
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Sooooo tape across the mouth and the Xmas lights used as cuffs/tie. Wow. What a message. That poor boy stands no chance growing up with a father like that. And those poor girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 01:53 AM
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I wish, when I was 19, that I had the common sense you two ladies do, and that I had confidence in myself and with what I wanted. I’ve just turned 31 and realised I need a massive shake up and to dump that poor pick me attitude. So I dumped him and left with a newborn. I’m worthy of so much more. It’s important to know your value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 06:18 AM
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😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 05:24 AM
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Also wanted to say I didn’t read all of what you wrote, only got to the last paragraph about him talking of mustering family etc. but read your summary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:46 AM
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Not all men suck. However the ones you’ve come across are just evil. Be smart and trust your gut and those screaming red flags. You’re so young still. I don’t know where you live but once alcohol is legal 18-21 depending where you are- it’s gonna get a whole lot worse, My words of advise is - self love. Spend time alone. Go on dates with your girlfriends. Be happy with being alone and love your time alone. It’s tricky to master. But once it is you will see red flags faster and cut the men out st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:44 AM
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Oh hun. No you can’t stay with a man that treats you like that. He should be wanting to take you out. On dates and out on the town. NOT leaving you at home or stating that’s not his scene, when it clearly is. 5 years on is a LTR, if you’re not included in things now then I’d say it will not change. You can do better with someone that treats you with respect and includes you in activities. He will value your time, love and effort. Your “man” clearly doesn’t value you enough. I’ve been where you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 05:56 AM
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Red flags hun. How long have you been together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 03:57 AM
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What a joke. Well done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:12 AM
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Yes reading every thing in FDS makes me realise that ending things a fortnight ago was the best thing to ever do. And any time I miss his toxic ass, I read what I should expect. I wasn’t even getting bare minimum. Ignored the red flags and begged for little scraps of affection and relationship. Walked away with a 2 month old. Lol. Good on you hun. Bring on 2020 fresh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 03:10 AM
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Check out the Madonna whore complex to see if he ticks any of those boxes too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 02:54 AM
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