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It’s not about facts it’s about the teaching of those “facts”. TRP is there to guide men that are having trouble find answers to their dating woes. That’s what makes it an ideology. There’s people telling other people how to carry on in their lives to potentially improve themselves. It’s also not entirely off facts since they have made multiple mistakes in their teachings. A lot of RP people in different subs expressing the message about how not to be and how to be to be a viable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/24 07:09 PM
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That’s not what I was doing. I was being sarcastic in how men are predisposed to violent acts and if they chose something else, what the topic was about, violence could in theory go down and less men in jail. Hyperbolic tale of a better world. Women can be toxic but where would I derive that from in the conversation being had
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 12:47 AM
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lol. Seems like you were the goal post mover with how nothing is invalid and now you block people lmao. Oh look at that. Against sub rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 10:16 PM
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I never said war isn’t bad. But clearly it’s a better financial and social thing for men to do. The reason is men’s bravado. Men have to be tough to be a man. Doesn’t get manlier than putting your life on the line. It’s the same reason not every man doesn’t join, there’s nothing to prove. Why join and be miserable when you could do something else that isn’t fatal.
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/23 09:47 PM
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Men like you that are clearly unhappy with women being in the army since they don’t meet your standards. Men typically join the services before they have established their adult life including having a wife. And if they have a wife it works in their benefit to give theirselves extra money. So yes. Men do join the army for financial reasons and for their bravado. Not hard to grasp. If they had anything else going for them they’d join another field of work.
/r/AntiFeminists31/12/23 08:26 PM
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Yeah. That’s why work isn’t fun. It’s mandatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:14 AM
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Yeah. But when you have to decide between paying bills or following a dream job you’re gonna prioritize a living wage over fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 05:10 AM
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Women kill not yet fetuses because they are the only ones that can create life. Men also ask women to kill because they can’t and don’t want the child. In current news Anthony Edwards’s from the NBA had texts where he said to “get an abortion lol” and to film herself taking the pill. If men could abort kids they would too but that’s not how biology works. On one hand killing is bad but on the other being held liable financially is also bad. Can’t have it both ways buddy. How about better child p…
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/23 04:13 AM
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Being at home is also boring but so is work. If you’re trying to say that a job can be fulfilling that’s a separate thing. Fulfillment comes in many ways just how fun can as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 12:43 AM
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Is that why men also leave their kids? It seems both parties can and do leave their kids not based on gender but rather shitty behavior
/r/AntiFeminists19/12/23 12:41 AM
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I wouldn’t say a lot of people like working. Definitely a minority of people. I feel like the most fun I’ve seen coworkers have is outside of work when people can complain about work and have fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 10:39 PM
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Not everyone is in the same state as you though. That goes for men and women. Just cause you’re ready doesn’t mean the others are. Life has a lot of variables and they may have other variables that are more important than a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 07:36 PM
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If anything this question just makes me want to bring up work reform. No one likes working.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:59 PM
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Everyone does. And everyone needs to work to provide for themselves in some way. Not many people are blessed to be born or wed into a wealthy family.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:14 PM
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Everyone has to work. Men that work are also unhappy. It’s the only way to survive. If you don’t you end on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:48 PM
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They just worked for free. When women were second class citizens all their work went to the husband. Not sure why men think men did all the work and provided everything. Not every man in history was rich. Most liked in poverty and used their wives and children as slave labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:46 PM
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Maybe you should go back to school and take some writing classes. Or is that too feminine for you and your weak masculinity?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:49 AM
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“I don't do any of it. I'm a man. My female family members or my girlfriend do all that stuff.” Can’t remember either? lol. I guess when you do nothing you don’t put any effort at all. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:01 AM
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You say you’re busy. You also say you don’t do anything. You are a paradox. All because you are a manly man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:53 AM
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Lmao. Like what? Nothing? You seem to do a lot of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:52 AM
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Can’t even wear pink? Cause blue is for big boys right? Do you get to pick what you wear or is buying clothes also feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:47 AM
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That’s what it is. You’re making a false scenario for an upper hand. Anyone can do that. Not impressive nor convincing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:42 AM
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If men were less toxic and understood housework is needed by both parts more relationships would flourish but men have that hurdle to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:41 AM
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Lol. A lot of mental gymnastics to think you are not a man for helping. I guess self esteem issues are different in different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:40 AM
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So toxic masculinity is bad. Glad you understand
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:20 AM
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It’s an anecdote since not every relationship has kids and father in jail. It’s just a made up scenario you use to move the goal posts so you’re always right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:20 AM
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So your point is just an anecdote you create. Not a normal relationship? Kinda unfair but if you want to win I guess that’s why you gotta do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:04 AM
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Same it’s a hoot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:03 AM
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Imagine if the men were less violent and more domesticated and did housework. Better for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 04:02 AM
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Could always help more. Unless you like being a burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:56 AM
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It’s in a sarcastic manner since you’re not factually royalty and clearly you don’t do anything. At least according to your own response. You’re a handicap to everyone around you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:41 AM
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Pampered prince. How’s that? Too delicate for housework. Cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:37 AM
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Wow. Nothing manlier than a mamas boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:14 AM
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Not everyone can afford to pay their way out of things. A variable that’s different with different people/ relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:13 AM
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Many are still suffering not getting enough. There are so many other things to try but you and others chose to live a stagnant life. Not surprising many people end up pushing their children/ slaves away when they’re dying and still end up in a retirement home alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 01:48 AM
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That’s the current trend and it’s failing. Your idea has people currently suffering. Are you that dense?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:43 AM
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You do realize that when the children grow up they’ll be the elderly in need which will place them in the exact shoes as the ones you’re clamoring about. I want to try a different approach that doesn’t involve an unwilling participant to take full accountability for others. It’s unfair to create chattel unless you’re pro slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:33 AM
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You’re propagating it more by bringing in more life into the world. In a way your idea is worse if you don’t want people to suffer and die. Taking a step back and figuring out the situation will not be an easy feat but you’ll have to start somewhere. Or keep doing the same thing and getting the same result.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 12:02 AM
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Stop having kids as slaves for the purpose of slave work in the future. start planning more about the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:06 PM
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It’s nothing new. Shouldn’t happen but it’ll never go away. Clearly the expectation that another generation should take care of a dying one isn’t working. Proof of overpopulation. Less people more control over resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:28 PM
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Those programs are already looking grim due to poor financing. seems like your idea of getting help is just putting it off on younger people. You don’t like accountability? Unless it’s for women of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 10:09 PM
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There are elderly that suffer that have kids. What then? Why add another variable when we can just tackle the issue head on. If hospice care is a concern worry about that and not how you’ll raise children to bathe you in bed as you wither away.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 09:44 PM
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No but if they don’t have kids that’ll save them enough for nurses. You love to be keen on women and their issues but fail to realize human nature in general sucks but are aware of it with how inevitable their behavior is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:00 PM
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It’s not. Plenty of idiots that’ll keep it going with their half dozen kids. The elderly can save money on kids and use it on nurses. Having kids for purpose of having them wipe your shit is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:47 PM
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Not many animals have ever reached billions except insects. Most are doing good if not better. Bees are taking a hit due to human interference. Nothing other than humans interfere with humans. Reproduction will never be the first issue but rather murder. Looking at the wrong issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:36 PM
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It is when you take other things into account other than men not getting laid. If the only issue you have is men not getting laid you have to understand what wonderful world you live in that you’re preoccupied with men and sex in your mind. It’s a nothing issue. Big population and if less than half repopulate it it’ll still continue for centuries to come. Don’t need 100% reproductive rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:18 PM
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I didn’t know the over populated planet had a population issue. Women should get back to giving birth and men should neg them into it since that is the most viable option. Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:03 PM
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I was talking to the other person. You failed to answer without getting emotional. Yeah it takes two. The other person somehow took men out of the equation.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/23 04:45 PM
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You did by saying it’s mother’s fault. Why don’t men try harder at parenting?
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/23 03:57 AM
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Why aren’t men responsible for raising their own kids?
/r/AntiFeminists30/11/23 03:03 AM
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Like many others on here, you’re discussing men and women topics at an unhealthy level where you have created a strong confirmation bias. To believe that only one side is at fault and the other is blamed for everything is unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 06:52 PM
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Men and women both have their issues. Acknowledging both sides are flawed and imperfect is part of the solution. Pretending that only one side is at fault will only create a bigger divide
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:18 AM
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It’s not really a dream. It’s just a bias. Both men and women have em. Woopje
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:15 AM
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If you’re not talking about the majority then why mention it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:06 AM
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Where are all men called that? That’s your interpretation of it because of your buas
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:05 AM
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They do. You don’t see it due to your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:04 AM
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Double standards exist from both sides. You see men call other men out since you’re a man. Women see women get called out. Both sides like to pretend like one side is neutral good while the other is bad. You fell too deep into your bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:04 AM
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Both men and women pretend that their side never does anything bad. Nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 05:01 AM
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“”Men say they are looking for a woman who cooks and cleans for them and who is "submissive" Right. The imaginary boogiemen.” No matter what you reply it’s you making an infallible man and a moronic women. As if men don’t want submissive women, just like the good old days.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:35 PM
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I told you your whole post. Can’t comprehend?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 03:26 PM
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The whole post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 06:59 PM
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I think not affording a house is what young people do. How do they have extra rooms?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 07:01 PM
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This odd sense of accountability that you only want out of one side of a relationship while the other somehow is free of fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:39 PM
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Yeah that’s why cold approach doesn’t work. It’s a script. And they can see it. So you interpret fictional movies and books as real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:31 PM
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Your interpretation is up to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 04:29 PM
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This sums up a lot of discussions though. People suck. Men don’t like women that don’t put out. Women don’t like abusers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:39 AM
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Yeah I’ve talked to people. I’ve also cold approached people. It’s different. It’s manipulative. It’s calculated. It’s not genuine. The whole point of cold approach is to control the conversation to give you higher chances of sex/ dating. It only takes the other person into account when the person approaching just becomes agreeable or fake funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:34 AM
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Im just copying you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 02:32 AM
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Nope. You’re just letting your emotions get the best of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 01:09 AM
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How so? I’m just adding more colorful language to your post. Women suck so they blame men yet men are blameless and telling men that doing chores won’t fix anything. That’s your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:55 AM
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That’s what this thread is. I’m using your tactics against you. Keeping it fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 12:49 AM
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I responded to you. There are a multitude of conversations within the thread. It has relevance to your comment which in turn has relevance to the previous one. But it’s only an issue when you can’t respond properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:32 PM
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What other fallacy did I make. Take your time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:01 PM
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I wouldn’t say it’s an issue of misogyny but rather unrealistic speciations. Kinda how men freak out that women characters have hair around their face even though women do grow hair on their face as well but are so disconnected by the hyper sexual characters that are added to games. If men are okay pretending to be a tough guy that’s cool, but they’re also creating certain expectations out of women that come from polygons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:57 PM
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Women wanting more representation isn’t negative. Men don’t mind pretending to be a muscular shirtless guy a lot of the time. Women want to see a variety of women. If it’s all games and it doesn’t matter why not make different type of characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:53 PM
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It seems in all areas it’s utilitarian. So you have kids cause they’re an investment, care givers, and income. In what part of that is the child treated with any respect or cared for? You literally just used my other examples of why people having kids isn’t out of good faith but rather manipulative to have someone care for them as they die. Why not save up money for your own care that you can save by not having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:49 PM
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Can’t answer. I win. Thank you for trying twice and failing twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:47 PM
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I never said you did. That’s the question. You told me to read the question. I interpreted it differently and asked you what OP was asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:41 PM
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By making a dead bedroom they’re not doing their wifely duties of proving sex so in turn they’re lazy and useless. What can the husband do to make his situation better?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:33 PM
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I do make sense. You don’t. That’s why you had to delete your comment lol. Wanna try explaining how an elite husband deals with a lazy useless wife? How did the awesome husband even pick such a bad partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:23 PM
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lol. As soon as I ask for your take you flee cause it’s exactly as I’ve said. Funny man. Hope you have kids and a wife and they end up resenting you over the years as you blame them for your shitty life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:01 PM
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Dads don’t care. Clearly you just want to opt out of a shitty wife/ mother. What’s your answer to a shitty wife/mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:58 PM
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Other people’s want to be grandparents or aunts and uncles shouldn’t affect what you want. That’s such a weird thing to think about. “My mom wants me to fornicate and have kids cause she’s bored” Humans are capable to comprehend that kids aren’t necessary at all. People just succumb to their monkey brains and do it without thinking it. There’s plenty of reasons not to have kids and the main thing is that people don’t plan it out that well. So many lives are played with and toiled because two peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:52 PM
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Take custody of the child. Take care of the child. Why do you pretend that men have no say in their child’s upbringing? Divorce is the answer if you’d rather not try with the wife. Why do you think women get custody? Because men just don’t try in being fathers or husbands. They’d rather start a new life since the first one sucked and failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:48 PM
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It makes people look for something better and fail to realize what’s important. People are too hyperfocused on looks and how they are perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:00 PM
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People only tolerate their partner in the initial phases of dating as well since they don’t want to be alone. I feel like after being with someone for years that would be more normal. It doesn’t mean they’re not in love since showing love and affection is different for everyone. Also with age you can’t really be all over someone like when you’re younger, it’d probably be uncomfortable. It is doomly prophecies. People will always be able to fall in love and people will also find ways to be misera…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:37 PM
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Standards are increasing for people that spend too much online comparing the perfect people with the average populace. I feel like for people that haven’t rotted their brain they’ll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:35 PM
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I feel like most people don’t know why they want kids to begin with. It is all biological but if people put a little bit more thought into it they can probably see way more benefit in not having kids. Kids can easily ruin a relationship since it’s adding more pressure to the relationship yet people have them as a way to save a relationship or don’t plan anything about the child. It’s absurd how people suck at parenting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:34 PM
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So men have zero power in a relationship? Yet they are infallible? You see how men can fuck up relationships and end up in a dead headroom? By being this dense and ignorant of their own actions. They distance themselves out of situations they don’t want to deal with. You see how that can cause a distance between wife and child? No wonder men suck at being fathers and husbands, they’re too self centered about their needs when it’s a family unit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:31 PM
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That’s what your question is. Somehow the man is infallible, the wife is at fault, and the husband is somehow free of fault. How can a husband and father be free of fault in a situation they have power over. If your wife is a bad mother you’re just gonna shrug and blame her? You’re not gonna try to pick up some slack and do better for your child? You see how that’s also shitty behavior? “My wife sucks, house falling apart, child is being neglected, her fault, let me just live my life”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:21 PM
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I read the post and that’s the issue with the question. It’s idiotic. Parenting with a mother and father takes two. For the dad to look at their household telling apart and not caring is also problematic. So the mother has issues and the husband just blames her? The husband doesn’t care for the wife or the child? Just goes not my problem? You can’t single out one parent without also pointing out what is the other one doing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 08:19 PM
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People that say, “go for it, just ask them what they’re doing here or if they came alone or basic info to pretend to get to know them because you’re trying to fuck” Canned routines wouldn’t be effective at all. It makes people feel uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:48 PM
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Why is the man always so infallible? Men can’t falter? Only women? Why can’t men help support their partner? Isn’t that what a relationship is for? Supporting each other? I agree that a bad mother can exist but bad parents in general aren’t far from abnormal. Both men and women can do it. Why are you only focused on one and not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:46 PM
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It doesn’t take more genuine interest. It’s literally just “how can I talk to this person, a yes with these cookie cutter general questions that anyone can answer”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:02 PM
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So a mother regrets being a mother, where is the father in that equation? Parents: plural, two. Why is your fault on parents only the mother. What responsibility is being a husband and father? Just working a job?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 04:00 PM
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Bro. You literally are placing all the blame on the mother and somehow the father is exempt of any fault. You’re the idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 07:52 AM
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So men can just opt out of responsibility from parenting? How? They’re parents too? That’s exactly what I meant that men love to someone pretend like they have no say in parenting. They do but they choose to be back seat parents. Somehow men aren’t dads but women are mothers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:24 AM
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I am making sense. You choose to be ignorant. The modern man wants to resent the family. Woman makes bad choice so it’s only her fault even though the man is part of the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:20 AM
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Clearly. Not better. More human
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:15 AM
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What about the father. What part do they have? None?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:14 AM
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It’s very manipulative. The whole premise is to approach with the intent of dating or sex while acting coy about it while being the one behind the wheel of the whole discussion. Kinda how men don’t want to be taken advantage of financially but can because the women manipulated them somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 03:03 AM
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Cold approach also takes away the human factor since you’re just using a cookie cutter method on everyone. You won’t get the best responses since there is no effort other than approaching someone. People are definitely tired of wasting other people’s time when it comes to dating and coming off as apathetic will definitely not get you good attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:47 AM
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Anyone can talk to strangers but not many strangers want to be bothered while doing chores or just hanging out
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:45 AM
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Its codependency. Some people can deal with it, but not many.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:44 AM
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Yeah. Men do that a lot. They work and they think they do a lot. Women do childcare, cook, clean, and work but aren’t doing anything right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:41 AM
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So only she wanted to have kids? I love how men take themselves out of relationships and blame everything on women. “She wanted kids, I just am there. I have no say in my relationship. I didn’t want the kids or a submissive stay at home wife”. Sure thing bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:40 AM
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Men get told to try romantic things or clean because the majority of them don’t because they don’t try and that’s what causes the relationship to die. They don’t clean or put effort into their partner yet expect sex and everything else while they mainly have to work. How can a woman have energy to for sex when after work they have to do house chores and cook?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:39 AM
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Implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 06:40 PM
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From what I read in the convo you seem to confuse your peak at a young age and think everyone else does lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 05:42 PM
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How come they can’t get equal pay if they’re in control?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:34 AM
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You’re literally talking to a guy pretending to be a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:03 AM
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It’s because they’re a woman pretending to be a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:03 AM
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It’s hilarious. They’re hiding by having Woman on their account. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:30 AM
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Because they’re pretending to be a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:25 AM
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You’re using women as if you’re not one. Are you lying online 🤡
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:24 AM
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That account is clearly a man acting to be a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:23 AM
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It’s better yet somehow men and women have fallen distant. Sure bud. In terms of technology it’s better and I can live a better life without kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 06:01 PM
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You’re an idiot for falling for the ideologies I disproved. I’m not against men, I’m against men’s incorrect ways of battling for themselves. Being on a short leash for sex is always a bad look and equating sex to an actual necessity is comedy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:37 AM
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It’s your self esteem so improving it comes from within. If you give up that easily you clearly aren’t working on your self esteem which is important all around not just in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 02:27 AM
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You gotta at least lie about that online. Have some self respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:56 AM
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Lol. You lost and now you’re running. Alpha as heck
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 01:48 AM
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And you see where that argument fails right? Water is a necessity and sex isn’t so they can’t be used in that metaphor as you and the other idiots that love to vomit it whenever they can. Also im a guy lol. Im just having fun pointing out such silly arguments from your side that are willing to die on sex is a necessity lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:39 AM
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If that’s the case it makes even less sense. Does that mean men that are not having sex are without water even though everyone has faucets available at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 12:14 AM
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Thanks. Maybe if I go online and look for things to be mad at I’ll be bitter like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 11:22 PM
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Yeah only successful people are in relationships. I forgot. What’s the requirements again? Oh wait, I can socialize and understand these “constructs” that hold men back so much are mainly in their head and lack of social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:30 PM
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Lol am I? Sorry I’m not desperate for sex to make idiotic metaphors equating pussy to water. Women owe me sex. How’s that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:27 PM
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Those are all gray hypotheticals. And if that’s an issue for the government than that’s on them. Another reason no one wants kids is why bring them into a burning world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 10:26 PM
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Lol. Now it’s an economic issue. You guys love to flip flop in this sub and have all the answers
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:25 PM
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And what’s gonna happen with that? Nothing. They’ll still participate in society. Just be unhappy. People deal with worse things in society like poverty and hunger than just not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 08:17 PM
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It is valid. You don’t like it so you deem it invalid. Water is sexual release. Water comes in different ways just like release. How does everyone have access to water in his scenario but at the same time comparing it to men that have no sex. Wouldn’t that mean they also have no access to water? If anything mine makes way more sense than that lame excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:43 PM
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Having children is not a requirement in life. It’s not just lack of sex but also a realization that kids don’t make or break a relationship. Why drag yourself down for a third of your life when you can live your whole life as you please
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 07:08 PM
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Because it’s not a necessity. It’s such a weird hill to die on for a lot of guys and it makes them lose credibility to other issues that actually matter. Someone’s need to cum with another person is a nothing issue. If you want something deeper out of sex then it’s probably through a partner and that’s where the issue would lie, difficulty to find a partner, not sex. Sex is a craving like dessert. You don’t need it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:57 PM
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If water is release then I’ll get my water from a bottle/ (masturbate). I’m still drinking water. Lots of ways to get it. Everyone has access to it. If you’re being picky about the water that’s on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:29 PM
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Do you asked your friends about their sex life? Probably not. Most people wouldn’t. So if OP doesn’t ask their friends or family then she wouldn’t have anyone to base of off
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 06:16 PM
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Men constantly confuse sex with validation. Sex is only part of it. If there is no connection with the person it’s aimless sex. Putting sex up that high on a pedestal is only detrimental to men. “But you wouldn’t get it if you’re not getting some”. When the other side literally down plays it as if it were a dessert it’s because it really isn’t that vital as some make it seem. Fun fact: in relationships you might still have to masturbate since its not rational to make your partner deal with your …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:44 PM
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Lol. Someone asks for others opinion since they’re unaware. “Wow so out of touch”. Way to go. Let’s exclude people asking questions from this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:31 PM
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No one’s changing the goal posts. The guy literally compared sex to an actual human requirement. You’ll be fine without sex. And both sexes have access to water/ available to get release. If I drink water from a Britta filter/ masturbate I’m still getting water/ release.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:29 PM
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Lol. That’s all you have to say, clearly your take is bad. Men and women have faucets at home to quench their thirst. However they quench it is up to them, same thing for how the release their needs. It’s different but it’s still available to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:27 PM
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The funny thing is that unlike the necessity of water, sex isn’t a need. You could be without sexual organs and still survive. So not really a valid comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:06 PM
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How is it a problem for society? Isn’t it just a problem for those men? This is where men become less serious and more like edgy hormonal teens where “who knows what’ll happen if I don’t get sex”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 05:05 PM
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Lmao. I didnt.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 10:02 PM
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Lol. No one’s trying to gaslight you. I’m not upset. You’re just sensitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:11 PM
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Lol. You’re the one that responded to me and keeps doing so. Yet somehow it’s my fault. Hilariousb
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 04:20 PM
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You did and I literally explained how
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 07:25 AM
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Lol. You’re hilarious. You’re the one that butted into me commenting another person whom I asked for proof of their point and you somehow skewed it to something you are so desperate to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 11:09 PM
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No. You honestly lack so much comprehension it’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:38 PM
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All I asked was for proof and you and OP have none. So how is this a valid point. Using your cool lingo doesn’t make it any more truer. It just makes you think you know something when you don’t. You’re just word vomiting things you heard someone else say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:13 PM
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Got it. So you can’t find one but I have to believe you and OP that everyone is mean to men online. Women get no hate and only love. It seems that the only fallacy here is you trying to make a point out of thin air. The only thing learning things like “Just world fallacy” do is make your biased view even more skewed. As a man you were already bummed out about dating. Now you feel just and heard and think you figured it out. Just cause you’re struggling doesn’t mean the rest are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:13 PM
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Then show me one thread where that is the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 04:32 PM
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That’s gonna happen regardless of the conversation online. There will always be people that have no idea what they’re saying. But you, op, and others are just saying it’s all the time. Meaning that there is never any actual help online. And I guess if you look at posts all jaded like literally every comment here saying “it’s anti men sentiment” when there are so many examples of helpful advice towards men. But let’s ignore those since they don’t help your narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:10 AM
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It’s funny OP gave an extremely vague example and a lot of other commentators just ran with it as if additional context wouldn’t assist with anything. It’s just “people think guys bad women good”. Guys sure like being victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:16 AM
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Can you show an example of that or is it something we should just believe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 01:14 AM
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I’m okay bud. You clearly need more help then I’m willing to provide. It’s pointless
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:38 PM
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So you want me to do all the thinking for you? I’m good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 04:33 PM
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We were having a side conversation. If you mistake your lack of comprehension for anything else that’s your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:39 AM
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Well if I’m debating you it proves my point. You seem confused about your sexuality so I’m sure a lot of other things confuse you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:49 AM
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I did. I also figured out you get escorts thanks to your post history so you continue to be a hilarious individual lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:37 AM
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Lmao. It’s hilarious that’s all you take from the fact you misinterpreted their sarcastic comment as a serious one. And you want to be taken serious/ think you’re correct lol. How delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:28 AM
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Clearly you missed the sarcasm. You hoped on it like a whiny babe.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:19 AM
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It’s funny men talk about women’s feminine traits as negatives while also being whiny man child like they’re upholding something better on their end lmao. “Um women use femininity to lie while men are kewl and awesome cause I’m a guy that’s kewl and awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:39 PM
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Most conversation do. It’s usually generalized information. Use it at your discretion. Why do people need to hold your hand and explain everything to you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:43 PM
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Aren’t you guys suppose to be smart?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:40 PM
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Why do you need it spelled out to you? Don’t you guys “study” human behavior and dating behavior. It’s obviously a known fact looks matter to both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:37 PM
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It goes both ways. Attractive woman have control over men as well. It’s not a hidden truth. Why do you need it spelled out? When people say looks aren’t everything there’s always context to it. Looks so matter but people can end up with a range of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 07:35 PM
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My guy. Your low self esteem is your fault. Not mine. And I don’t tell woman to make bad decisions or how to improve their lives. Who am I as a stranger to do that? You really can’t grasp that you are insignificant. Your needs are insignificant. To believe that because you don’t want woman to be promiscuous but also want them to want kids because you want it to happen is an absurd mental thing to add to your self esteem. What you want is between you and the poor soul that has to hear about it in…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:22 AM
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My guy, no one cares about what a stranger has to say about their choices. Who are you to think wholeheartedly you know what’s best for a stranger to do with their life? Live yours and let others live theirs. Just cause you’re lonely and want most woman to fit your parameters doesn’t mean you deserve it nor does it mean it’ll come true. Worry about what you can affect and stop being weird
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:40 AM
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That’s what you said. When men do it it’s hypercritical. Do you even remember what you write? Hilarious. The reason men get called out isn’t because it’s their preferences, it’s rather because of how they behave. Don’t want a promiscuous woman, awesome. Here’s the thing. You don’t have to date them. On top of that you also don’t have to preach to woman that men don’t want promiscuous woman or tell them to do better. Live your life and let them live theirs. That’s why it’s “hypercritical”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:31 AM
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Men are the true victims. SMH
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:59 AM
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It is toxic when it comes to policing woman. If woman want to have casual sex, kinda how guys do it, just let them be. This thread is because men continuously are saying how promiscuous woman are bad or not wanted. If you as an individual don’t that’s your preference, but to then say it as an absolute that woman should change is stupid. Whatever your preferences are, why does everyone need to be involved? Kinda silly. Who you want to date and end up dating is solely up to self. Instead of simply…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:52 AM
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Most people that have sex don’t have kids. Birth rate is going down globally. What an odd thing to bring up to prove a point. You think it’s a smart point, but it gives more validity to why women hate men for telling them what to do with their bodies. Who are you to 99.9% of woman? Nobody.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:28 PM
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The answer is simple. People can suck. Both men and women. Instead of being practical, people would rather whine online. What OP said is fair. Men do complain about that. What men should do is stop whining and simply move on. If you don’t want a promiscuous woman, and the woman you are seeing is, simply move on. Why the constant chatter about women having to improve themselves for strangers? Having preferences is normal. Criticizing people instead of just moving on shouldn’t be normalized. What …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:55 PM
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Not really. If vetting gives you more viable options isn’t that better? Guys are fine with it until it doesn’t work in their favor then they complain and whine. Women are trying to get control back from men by calling out men for some of their behavior. Why don’t men follow suit? This is an issue that both reasonable men and reasonable women would agree. The whole paying issue is so silly when you really look at it. Man likes woman. Ask woman out. Pays because it’s what men do or because he init…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:39 AM
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Lol. You showed one example. You know what you do to a girl like that. Stop texting her. You know what you lose? Nothing. Men do. Men just would rather go through a date in high hopes of affection when they could do more vetting before spending any money. Until you see men at gun point they do have a choice. It’s their lack of action that perpetuates this. They figured it out yet continue doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:10 AM
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If men have this knowledge then why do they continue to let it happen? Also men are partly at fault. They go on a date with anyone that agrees instead of doing some vetting. With apps it’s a numbers game. How many can you ask out which is different then someone in person that you share common interest with and have a better rapport. A coffee date is suffice for most first dates so it isn’t that much and it’s a fun putting for both. That’s something both parties would and should agree to pay for.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:51 AM
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Not really. It’s a silly assumption. I’ll just friends as an example. I’ll invite a friend to good or a drink and if it’s my choice I’ll pay since I want to spend time with my friend. And they will do so as well. Fun initiative to keep in touch and have fun. You’re not wrong in that men ask out more but I feel like men also ask out anyone that’s willing to say yes. A date isn’t always gonna lead to anything more. It usually doesn’t. And when you ask out someone with little to no history then the…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:26 PM
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How about men speak up against it? If it bothers them why not bring it up and continue to be a victim. Maybe ask the date how they plan on paying. Context is always important. Who’s asking who out? To some people the one initiating is the one that pays the first time. As to how it goes after that is up to them. If the guy doesn’t wanna pay they don’t have to. You’re not being held at gun point. Wouldnt you think if a woman does that that’s not a woman you want so what is the loss there? Men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 11:08 PM
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It is when it’s not present. That’s the victimization. If you are struggling financially it’s probably not good to be in a relationship for men or women. How is that misandrist?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:59 PM
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It’s not misandry unless you’re a sensitive little boy. That goes for any gender. See how the first part of the comment didn’t specify gender. Only the latter to make fun of you. You’re good at becoming a victim for a strong boy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:50 PM
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Lol if you’re hurting at the wallet maybe you shouldn’t date. And if you’re getting conned into paying someone’s bills maybe you also shouldn’t be dating. If it bothers you that much be a big boy and say no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:47 PM
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It’s not the same. Opening the door isn’t really an amazing feat
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:01 PM
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Chivalry is also mostly just basic manners. Opening doors? Wow amazing human being. Paying for things is also more so on the individuals preconceived idea of what should happen. As a guy I’ve had girls pay for my part as much as I’ve paid because I was fun to them. I feel like some guys feel like they should pay and do so on their own volition before they’re even asked. To be chivalrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 10:00 PM
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Chivalry is also mostly just basic manners. Opening doors? Wow amazing human being. Paying for things is also more so on the individuals preconceived idea of what should happen. As a guy I’ve had girls pay for my part as much as I’ve paid because I was fun to them. I feel like some guys feel like they should pay and do so on their own volition before they’re even asked. To be chivalrous.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 09:56 PM
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This is a big factor. Like why add another variable to an already dire situation. Can’t afford basics, let me gamble on a stranger that could make my life better or also worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:51 PM
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It is complaining. It is whining. Also borderline gaslighting. Just cause this rhetoric loses credibility when it’s belittled like that it doesn’t change what they’re accomplishing. Women make bad decisions. Men are so much better at everything including casual sex and understanding no strings attached. Women should do what men say and save themselves. Instead of their choice of random men in the dating pool let the men do the choosing. This is the basis of this rhetoric. It’s always under the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:04 PM
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Studies will get you no where. This is exactly why men fail. They’d rather be online sharing studies about how women are dumb and wrong and they should give them a chance. AKA whining. A universally unattractive trait. Pointing out that hot men get more chances is stupid. Since it also goes without saying that the inverse, attractive women get more chances is also true. And I wasn’t speaking about you in general but rather the rhetoric you’re using. If you have no problem then why are you compla…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:33 AM
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They could if they know how to have a conversation. It may not be as easy but it is possible. And that’s something men want. More ease of getting laid and into a relationship. Which is a fair remark. It’s them explaining that it sucks. But to then go online and saying women make bad choices as seen on these statistics so the should give me a chance is kinda wild. Like why would they give you equal opportunity over someone they simply find attractive? Maybe if they like you as an individual they …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:22 AM
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If you think that little of women then why even try dating them. Obviously they’re idiots according to you. But to give you a better answer who doesn’t like money or vices. That’s a big thing for both genders. It’s 420 in the USA. Lots of men and women getting high alone or with friends or others. And as for other things women like is very vague. Different women like different things. You can get with them without any of them. And if you think that lying is the only way yo get with them you have…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:07 AM
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Yeah they complain about being left out instead. Two different genders with two different issues. Men instead whine about being left out of hookup culture and it’s women’s fault cause they’re not getting picked. What do you say about the men bitching in this scenario? All sides make mistakes yet you somehow figure out the solution for social interaction with math? Literally every issue you’re pointing out about women men have an equivalent This whiny attitude about women is a big reason why cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:52 AM
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You’re still saying women are wrong. They should instead subject themselves to another unknown variable instead of one that they are currently choosing. Because you a stranger know better for another stranger? Because you figured out the equation for human compatibility? All these flaws also apply to men. Men also go for more attractive women. Why not point that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:43 AM
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You are. That’s what this thread is about. Women make bad choices with men by giving certain men a chance and not others. Somehow the men in the equation are free of fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:36 AM
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That can be true too. The biggest take away is that all sides make mistakes. It’s silly to have these constant debates where one side is wrong. What about the other side? Yes they’re making mistakes. But so are the men also making poor choices with women just having sex alluding they want a relationship when they don’t. Then the mistakes turn into whining by men how women aren’t pure or dumb for their choices. This is the part where we are in this thread. Only the women get picked on although it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 01:21 AM
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Women make poor choices according to men that are bitter because they’re not being picked. Women/ other men are just living their lives but some choose to judge because they’re left out
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 12:48 AM
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No. I just don’t have time. Id rather not be bitter online about such stupid nuances. Good luck being angry online and in person You said wearing an outfit is cheating lmao. Tell that to a women in real life. You’ll continue to get the same results you’ve had so far
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:18 PM
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Im not gonna read that only to respond to every one of your points out of respect for myself and my time. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 11:16 PM
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You’re the one that can’t argue your point so you keep bringing in other ones. Asking someone to not use dating apps as you’re getting to know each other is fair. It pertains to you. STDs is a key reason alone. Asking someone you are getting to know (practically a stranger) to change their daily choices is not reasonable. Why would they change for a strange. Why not just stop seeing each other. Isn’t that a more proper response. Also typing more isn’t a more eloquent response. It’s a waste of ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:54 PM
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That’s a different conversation. That’s low key cheating. You’re equating wearing an outfit to cheating. This is essentially the same as people blaming women for getting harassed for what they’re wearing. You keep trying to equate different issues when they’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:30 PM
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Yeah. That’s all understandable. Growth. Age. But this is mostly talking about when initially getting together. If you’ve made it to relationship status then a conversation is easily had. At the beginning it’s questionable of why would I change when we just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:20 PM
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Wouldn’t you know your partner enough before you got with them? they aren’t hiding their wardrobe from you. You’ve probably seen a good amount of them. If they go to festivals and all that then they’ve probably shared photos or you’ve seen them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:10 PM
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Change of clothes and changing their wardrobe are different things. But if it’s to the point of being negative then how did they get to marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:05 PM
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Men whine if they can’t participate in casual sex. Men whine when women aren’t saving themselves for them. The guarantee that not being chosen by another person hits because though they have the belief that they’re the one even though there is no guarantee is odd mental gymnastics. It’s just point of view created to make them feel like they keep making bad decisions instead of moving on. Do people make bad choices in dating. Yeah. Is there a guarantee you can find the one right away. Not really.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:57 PM
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It always surprises me how much guys just don’t like women. You don’t have to date women. Be asexual. Be alone. Just stop fabricating these stories because you got hurt from a breakup. Men are just as much as drama queens as women. Just move on. With this mentality all you’re gonna do is create a self fulfilling prophecy by always being on your toes about being hurt, turning your partners off, then they break up with you because of the cycle you’ve perpetuated, then get mad they don’t stay even …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 07:20 PM
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Men say women are weak. They don’t let them be in war considering that. Then men complain. Also considering what happens to women as POW it also adds another factor to it. Also men love to go to war. Same way they also get a big truck or a muscle car with their money from service. It’s a simple part of the mind. But luckily the population is fat and unhealthy to join the service so maybe only the actual cream of the crop of the population will join and not people like that dumb guy sharing secre…
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/23 03:56 PM
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Luckily the youth is apparently too dumb and fat to even be considered for the service
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/23 03:52 PM
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The difference is men whine (not attractive on anyone) about women having sex. Most men wish they could have casual sex easily and can’t. Simply put its FOMO. They also want a specific women, a hot asexual women (until they meet them of course). So they want a unicorn of a woman that has their life on stand by and they also want full selection so when they meet a promiscuous women that ruined their selection then they slander them cause that’s what a sane person would do. Some of y’all are in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:39 PM
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No one hates you. You’re victimizing yourself. Which in itself is not attractive. In the way unicorns aren’t real beautiful people are few in between. Men’s hyper focus on the most beautiful is stupid when there’s a larger population of average women but the internet has rotted their brains. To bring a rating system to themselves and others have caused themselves nothing but harm. Here’s a lose example of a lonely person not knowing what a average woman looks like possibly like yourself https://…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 04:15 PM
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To be personally attacked because someone doesn’t date you is such crazy self victimization. If someone doesn’t want to be with you for whatever reason, just move on. Isn’t that for the best. You’d rather they get with you out of pity and be miserable? There are preferences. You have some. And that’s up to you. Others have different ones. Until your personally told that it’s for all those reasons you don’t really know what it was. It’s always a possibility it’s your attitude or personality. Whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 03:56 AM
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I’m sure men also lie that they would date anyone but anyone doesn’t mean someone unattractive. It usually doesn’t. Woman have traits they want. Men have traits they avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:59 PM
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And men never lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:13 PM
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That seems like a given. I don’t get what’s the hubbub. Don’t guys want someone attractive to
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:08 PM
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I keep repeating it because it’s the point of the whole premise. If I want something specific I’ll look for it. That’s fair. If I want to change a social construct because I, one person, don’t agree with it. Irrational. And you were trying to debate as you delete the whole thread. Okay lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 02:35 AM
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Men always had agency. All RP rhetoric did was give men a fantasy of what they’ve “missed out” that previous generations had. But it’s all story telling from men to men. It’s all rose colored lenses talk. All the positives you mentioned that comes from RP has always been the case. The added part of RP rhetoric that women don’t like and is annoying as a guy since you make guys look bad is the constant whining about how women are not pure and are promiscuous. There’s nothing wrong with wanting tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:51 PM
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And that’s fair. It’s an odd way to put it but fair. But why have gripes about society as a whole only because you are having issues dating. The women you want possibly exists. Why should all women hinder their lives for you. Why don’t you just work for it. And stop complaining that it’s not easy. No one said it’d be easy. Why’d you delete the thread lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 10:41 PM
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Misread and convoluted responses. My bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:48 PM
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And you miss the point. At first this person is a complete stranger to you. So you want all women to save themselves to be able to be chosen by the exceptional (sarcasm) man that you are? Why? It’s up to you to do the leg work. Stop whining about it. It’s possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:36 PM
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That the house always win. That fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:33 PM
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Not hostile just bringing you down to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:28 PM
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Reverting back to old life is a big thing for some of you. But why would it? How would it? It wouldn’t. And not in your lifetime. It’s just a fever dream created by sleepless nights of being single instead of just living your life like the women that you hate are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:25 PM
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But why. Why does a complete stranger have to do what you approve of. Who are you in context to them? Nobody. You don’t matter up until the point when you meet them. Which is chance and opportunity. And if it’s not what you want, as easily as you had your hopes up for a relationship, just let go. It’s not that deep
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:23 PM
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It’s not. But guys just want 100% of a datable pool to then get their pickings from. But why are they owed that? Why can’t people do what they want. Kinda how men can be choosy. It’s fine. But to then get mad that someone is promiscuous is silly. Just move on. There’s so many other people in the world. Why chose to stay mad at an uncontrollable factor. A factor that is literally someone just living their life how they want to I think a big issue is men want a pure woman at a much later age. So w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:11 PM
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Yeah. If they wanna eat trash then don’t date them. It’s that easy. Doesn’t that make it easier. They’re helping you dwindle the population of people to date down. Why do they have to change for you? Or anyone in particular.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:03 PM
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Marriage is down in general. Dumb construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:56 PM
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I’d say saying intelligent is wishful thinking that they’re not idiots. “Geniuses” wouldn’t necessarily be a good match socially like in conversation with the average women. So it makes sense. I wouldn’t wanna date someone I can’t really communicate well with. I’d rather want an equal. Also why can’t the attractive person be smart too? Also I’m interested in how this information will be helpful to people on this sub. The ones that think less of women already knew they lie all the time. How is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:49 PM
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Part of the reason “policing” people is looked down on is you are one person. Your decisions and you life is that of your own. Why would anyone or should anyone reconsider their life to help satisfy yours. You are also part of the problem with your actions. You try to downplay it by egging on “haters” but you are part of the cause and affect. You let your promiscuity possibly ruin a relationship. And it’s actions of adults. Poor actions on a few individuals. And it sucks mainly for one person. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 08:36 PM
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Yeah. Take care. And when you think about judging a completely different culture try to understand why it’s different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 07:01 AM
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It’s still delusions of grandeur. You’re normal. I didn’t ignore your question. I answered it accordingly. You’ve asked multiple what ifs about what if the women did it. And I’ve answered them all. Including this one. Women don’t. But if they did it’s still gross. Kinda how there’s a term for that, passport bro. Older men do that when they want to fuck younger women. It’s gross. Since they know it’s transactional and they can do it. They can’t get with women normally and why would they. They fou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:55 AM
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No. Your ego is inflated because your family told you you’re special. Outside your family you’re a normal guy. Striving and being is different. Do people recognize you on the street? Probably not. You blend into the crowd. I haven’t heard a women talk about going abroad to find a husband or get laid. Usually they don’t have issues doing that at home. But I have heard it from desperate men. Desperate people don’t go online clamoring about how one side is wrong because their handicap to winning is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:00 AM
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Oh that makes sense. Your family inflated your ego. It still goes without saying. Even if you don’t want to be normal that doesn’t change reality. There are few people that are extraordinary. You matter to those around you. But outside of your social circle, which built you up pretty high, you are a stranger to everyone else. I mean you wouldn’t be the first desperate guy to get married to a woman for a different country. You offer them a green card. This is all creepy things to even mention tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 01:20 AM
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Got it. Well I appreciate the convo. I’m still befuddled. The reality that guys want to exist and the reality that actually is real are completely separate and it’s only gonna lead to unsatisfactory results. Because if you also read my rebuttal you’d see that women also overlook certain characteristics. Women are people too and flawed as are men. I gave you an example of weirdo women. I Can continue. They are flawed since they’re people. But the picky women are few in between. A large majority o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:36 AM
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Lol. So if you aren’t having issues and are casually fucking/ being promiscuous yourself then why is it bad when a women does it? That’s where the misogyny lies. Right under your nose. Like this is the issue you and many guys have. Yet you’re doing it. In theory you’re causing these issues. More of the self fulfilling prophecy. If you’re casually fucking then that means someone else’s gf can’t be pure and not promiscuous. But you’re needs over others. Maybe it’s less about women and more ego cen…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 11:32 PM
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I’m fine. Honestly. Never had any issues with relationships. You’re the one going online still whining about how hard it is for a guy when it’s not if you just understand that what your looking for is off putting and so are the guys that go on misogynistic boards about how women should be waiting for strange men to wait and select them. Complete strangers should have to decide that they’re worthy. Just cause some of y’all missed out on things that are more normal in teenage years doesn’t mean th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:45 PM
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Not trying to but those are ideals that I pointed out are of misogynistic guys. As a guy a freedom you have is sexual freedom. Women on the other hand just need to not give in to their sexual needs because then they’re promiscuous. When in reality it’s just nature and normal to have a libido. If guys could have casual sex with little to no effort they would. Not all since some want relationships. And there’s also similar demographics between men and women of relationship minded and casual and as…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:31 PM
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I’m not shaming. I’m just stating that at a certain age some of these standards aren’t possible. Finding a less promiscuous or a virgin is key for men that are against women’s choices. And unfortunately for some of them the age is past that. If you wanted that, high school was the age to be able to do that. In your late 20s it’s unlikely. And until they realize that they missed out on something that they want that’s when they’ll realize it’s okay. It’s just time to move on on that part. Or go fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:49 PM
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You can choose who you date but the aftermath is something that you yourself create. It’s a cyclical self fulfilled prophecy. Create standards that are hard to find. Beauty plus no promiscuity is rare specially as you get older. What some men fail to realize is that that time has passed for many unless you plan on dating teenagers. Most people have already had some relationships and had sex like you possibly have. Then it’s resentment of society for slowing women freedoms that turned them into p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 04:11 PM
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When people like yourself get bit picky about who they want to be. Treat it like an interview. When their candidates don’t work out because they’re not pure or rather they don’t want to be with the interviewer then it’s just resentment of peoples choices. You can find a modest women. There are many out there. But they probably don’t meet your look criteria or other superficial aspects. And the superseding is when you get to ask all the questions and if they fit your prerequisites then you want t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 12:13 AM
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Men give more money to their family and when it’s interpreted as to the woman then it causes obvious resentment. And that is changing with todays economy as well. No one can really get away with one income anymore. It’ll require two incomes and a better cooperation from both sides. You can want whatever you want my guy. But when you only create more challenges for yourself and end up upset at women for not doing what you want then it becomes problematic because you want your needs to supersede o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:09 PM
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I didn’t mention weight so that info is not needed. And men’s effort is wasted energy since they do too much when no one asks for it. So it’s a self fulfilling prophecy of failure. Yeah it sucked back then too and it sucks now too. At least there are more freedoms. Men had to work hard jobs and now we work comfier jobs. Women used to not be able to work and had to hope for a good husband to inherit her belongings. She stayed home which isn’t necessarily a plus. Lack of self. And he worked hard j…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:48 PM
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Historically it makes sense. To a degree. And I’d say men hate woman more since they just want a girlfriend at their whim. If they want one they want one and anyone making it harder is an enemy since someone online convinced them it was easier decades ago without context how women were practically property. If the family has no sons then all their inheritance went to the husband of their daughters. If there was any. And now historically they aren’t far removed from having some atoning and men te…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:04 PM
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Interesting. Me too. It is odd how it’s one v one when they’re trying to date each other. It’s like why do you want to be with a sex you pretty much hate socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 02:47 AM
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Then why are you here doing this lol. You just go online telling guys to work out and get abs and tell women that they’re not being helpful by giving you the walk through to get with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 01:02 AM
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Lmao. When you use that type of vernacular you are too far gone from a real human interaction. Good luck man. Hopefully you find your own personality. I’ve been trying for abs for a while so I know it’s hard but I have other better traits that allow me to be normal And not hyper focus on something silly. What I do have is better health which like I mentioned earlier improves you in many ways physiologically but you’d rather listen to strangers online then actual science about your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 12:37 AM
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Not really. It’s another choice that you may not have considered. If you don’t like “whores” You could also just live single for the rest of your life and hopefully learn to not be bitter
/r/AntiFeminists11/04/23 12:22 AM
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I’ll give it a try
/r/AntiFeminists11/04/23 12:08 AM
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You’re right. You should go date men then.
/r/AntiFeminists11/04/23 12:07 AM
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I want a free house. Where can I sign up
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/23 11:51 PM
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What’s wrong with divorce. If you were unhappy and wanted to esperare you would. So why can’t they. Also marriage and kids are on a decline because of economic factors and other social issues like this type of behavior.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/23 11:39 PM
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Here’s why you’re asking for too much online validation. I’m actually a guy. And I empathize with what you’re saying. And I hate that other guys are “instructing” you on how to behave. Lack of individualism is growing due to the internet. And what you are looking for is someone to hold your hand and walk you through the whole thing. But cookie cutter solutions don’t exist. If I like a modest quite girl what is she into? Similar men? Bad boy types? Certain ethnicity? You don’t know and can’t get …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:37 PM
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It’s not easy but the only people telling you to get abs is other guys. I’m sure there are women that like them too but the number of women that would’ve been fine without them would honestly surprise you. Have you seen videos of pick up artists? It’s just men egging each other on on what women want. That’s what you’re doing but online so it doesn’t look as weird or lame. And like I said. Advice is one thing. Instructions are different. You want to be able to walk up to a woman you like and ask …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:44 PM
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Everyone would hate that. It’s not hard to understand that the person faking their personality to get you to like them. It’s fake and it gives ick. Respect yourself to be yourself before you try to get with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:46 PM
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You want an easy way to do it. And there isn’t. It’s human behavior. What works for one person doesn’t work for everyone. And if you can’t execute it how someone is telling you to do it it’s not gonna work. And if the person you want to impress doesn’t care for the things other men tell you to focus on it also doesn’t matter. It’ll be easier when you realize it’s not easy at all. Your behavior further perpetuates that men are children that want a mommy. Telling them what to do and how to behave
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:44 PM
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You don’t. You can give advice/ guidance like you would teach a child. Or you could just hold their hand and tell them exactly what to do. Which is what you want. You prefer men’s advice because they hold your hand and tell you what to do instead of leaving it to your interpretation that fits your life. Men tell you to work out so you listen to the instructions. That’s not really advice. I think the issue is not being able to differentiate them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:32 PM
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You don’t want advice. You just want to be told who to be for the person you wanna be with. That’s not substantial. Hope that makes it easier to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:14 PM
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And this is an example of “effort”. Doing what they’re told to do isn’t effort. Why would you allow a stranger to tell you how to live your life when you don’t really know them. You just have a crush on them. You don’t think it’s odd? And I’m sure it’s not just the abs. Maybe it’s your experience with the gym and the endeavor you went to get them and maybe who you became as you got fit. Being fit has other physiological improvements on self which would affect personality as well. Men literally w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 09:04 PM
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With phrases like black pill in your vernacular I’m sure that’s true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:43 PM
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Lol. Not every women likes abs. You’ve been online too much my man. Just how they’re picky you are too. You wouldn’t date every women you meet so why is it bad when they’re selective. And if you’re not picky then you’re desperate. Which is not really and attractive look for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:39 PM
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It’s their version of effort. It can be unnecessary effort. Which leads to unnecessary resentment to nothing but a mere crush. The same way people fall for someone they could easily let go when they’re turned down but for some reason they hold on to it and grow bitter. The same way you wouldn’t wanna date every woman out there women don’t wanna date every man out there. So it makes sense when you join the 99.99% of people they don’t date. If you jump through hoops for a date, something no one is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:31 PM
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These are experiences like how people go on Yelp to gripe about their experiences. Seldomly are they good. Usually it’s about a thing that’s not common and out of anyone’s control. It’s just grown adults whining about how their expectations aren’t met when in reality there is a reason for it but they are too far removed from reality they see their whining as justified. When all you do is complain about being turned down and are justified for it then you never realize why you were turned down and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:27 PM
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To think you’re so smart and holy in your way of thoughts is wild because if you truly believe in this type of idealisms you’d understand that it’s never 100% true how you make it seem to be so not only do you sound like a angst filled smart ass tween that wins arguments by walking away. For you to think like your time is valuable as you are on other forums talking with other hermits about humanity is hilarious. Looking at people like binary numbers that you can study and comprehend with your co…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:04 PM
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Lol. If that’s how you read my post then you have a comprehension issue. And you don’t because your points have no standing unless you’re jerking yourself off with other like minded thinkers online. You just join these conversations and drop your spec of “knowledge” and then run atop your self appointed throne of someone worthwhile and a genius and say you’re too good to continue a conversation your started
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:52 PM
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Yeah. A lot of people here are looking for things handed to them because their unrealistic expectations (their wants and needs versus what efforts they put out there and what they offer(stability is a big one here)) it can be hard and challenging but to become an angry adult child and blame the opposite sex because their “efforts” weren’t met with love it’s wild. It only gets harder the more hermit level/ online persona you become. Even when being helpful men think that women are useless and don…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:49 PM
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lol. It’s crazy how this response has been a go to for years when they can’t respond properly. Its always used by a similar demographic of incel type of people that get their credibility from talking in an echo chamber. Thank you for leaving that echo chamber and blessing us with funny comments and an example of who not to be. Hopefully others will understand that if you’re online too long like yourself you lose your humanity and become an online weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:17 PM
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Men’s questions suck. A lot of them is asking how can I find a cute virgin when they do nothing socially to be around the demographic they want to date. They just get upset that one isn’t allocated for them to find and pick. The effort is where men fall short
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:35 PM
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Along with your similar themes of vague questions. One thing that doesn’t work and creates a lot of anger that can be read in posts is when it’s a one sided crush and then they’re devastated when the crush isn’t reciprocated. It’s normal to fantasize of something that could happen but to do it continuously and not see it as an unhealthy pattern is damaging to everyone involved. The persons ego and the crush because now they have to continue on not knowing what they did wrong since they’re behavi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:33 PM
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My guy is treating women like an item that they bait and capture lol. No wonder some of you have issues finding someone to talk to. You think so little of women that you can’t perceive how you treat them. And then have the gall to be upset that you get ignored. Keep being weird and you’ll be avoided. That’s the case for men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 06:30 PM
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I think it depends on how deep the insecurities are. If they’re under control then they aren’t much of an issue but if your insecurities are about how you want to control your partners life in a way that is obscure since you guys just met then it can be seen as problematic. And both sides can do it. Men and women can say no opposite sex friends. Insecurities are all a fabrication of self so once it is externalized it throws people off since it is an idea that is self made What traits are you tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:27 AM
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You know what would give the opposite sex an ick. Insecurities that are ingrained because they are t comfortable being themselves. If you’re gonna fake it til you make it you’re only gonna have to keep up a fake persona or hate yourself/ them for making yourself change cause no one asked other then strangers online.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:30 PM
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The people in those circles wouldn’t care about those type of choices as much as people in this sub that want a certain modest women. Which is not wrong. But both people want different things and are in different social groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 11:16 PM
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The thing is most people can withhold things of their past that they don’t want to share so even if you’re together they won’t share specially if it’s something they’re over with/ trying to hide/ escape. All that to say that if there is chemistry and other factors then let it be. Also OF isn’t always sex. It’s other things. And if they got money from it hopefully they saved enough to not go back. But this is all just a silly question that won’t be true for a lot of people. The people that do tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 07:38 PM
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There are people that look attractive yes. There is beauty in everything including architecture and nature. So it’s a given. But these attractive people aren’t the only ones that exist. There is a larger median average looking people that people don’t categorize themselves in or give a chance. It’s always the beautiful hot people which is weird. There’s a diversity of people but let me hyper focus on a small demographic of it. If you do or if you focus on hot and not then it’s a weird personal i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 07:47 PM
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Attraction is also based on the individual. Not everyone I find attractive will be attractive to others. And holding a conversation is important. If you could date someone ideal that was extremely brining to you it wouldn’t last. You’d be upset that you’d have to end it or try to stay as FWB. Some commonality is needed. And if starting a conversation is the issue then it’s not so much the looks then is it. Also going for someone that you’d possibly consider in your attractive level would be bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 05:41 PM
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You forget the part where you talk. If you can’t have a conversation looks only get you so far. And attraction is completely random. There’s not a barometer for it that people go through in their mind. At least sane people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:35 PM
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When it’s casually brought out. All this data
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:52 PM
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Makes me wonder when you will casually bring this into conversation to a date, possibly fiancé down the line, without coming off as a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 08:43 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/124uexr/talking_to_women_as_people_first_usually_gets_the/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 Here’s a recent post where men just don’t like what women do. If men want a relationship they want it and if the women doesn’t they’re wrong. Why? Cause they don’t try? Maybe cause they’re not as needy? Who knows. But it is common that men seem to get overtly attached early on for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 10:14 PM
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You’re missing the factor that not every women wants to be with you either. If they don’t reject you immediately which you won’t like then you’ll also hate being friend zoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 08:41 PM
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How have men done that? I don’t read a lot of this literature that men love to read to blame women on how they’re wrong. I typically have normal conversations with men and women without expectations from any gender and I’ve done fairly well. Cause I’m not trying to dissect them socially with a group of like minded guys. And what is it that women need to do to help guys out? A lot of what these online groups completely miss out on is the human factor. That they are flawed but mostly okay. When yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:58 PM
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When society has changed why does only half of it have to? What incentive would they have to? For a stranger that has these preconceived notions about how they should behave? Anyone that focus on what anyone else should do is odd behavior. No one owes you anything. Some people want just want it easier. They want to feel wanted and pursued. And that’s fine. But not every woman needs to do that to you. You need to find one that cares. You literally thrown a blanket statement over the gender you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:46 PM
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Who says they don’t? Other guys online? And that’s what I mean. It’s a self fulfilling prophecy. Guys online thinking they know enough for both sides. It’s emotionally/ socially ineptitude. It’s literally guys online going how women are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 06:02 PM
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And that causes issues. When men and women are equal on many grounds it comes down to human connection. Empathy. Emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 01:00 AM
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My guy. You literally did say that. For being sensitive. Sensitive people are emotional. You know what screams emotionally unstable. Having all this random info about how dating is when it’s really not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:44 AM
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Having emotions isn’t feminine. It’s normal. It’s guys that make themselves think they need to be this provider and figure when in reality they just have to be normal. And because guys think that emotions are feminine they don’t open up to guys, since guys have predominantly guy friends. And it’s a cycle. And then women have to be the sponges for these emotionally unstable men. And the kicker. It’s apparently the women’s fault since men think women want that. If an emotionally unstable person. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 12:28 AM
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I’d say it has to do with emotional balance. Not that one is better but it seems that one key drive men want a gf is to have someone to talk to and be emotional too. Men save it up and bottle up emotions only to put all their eggs into a somewhat new person that they want to date. Women have a much better support group as is. So they are never in dire need of a partner for anything. They have a solid base. I have friends that have a large group of friends for board game night and other activitie…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 11:46 PM
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It’s not. So if you could masturbate and you’re still adamant about needing a woman for this biological function, what does that convey? That you want/ need a women for sex. You just don’t want to state it and veer off any details. If you don’t like words in your mouth then put it in your own words don’t allude. But this is what it seems like you’re trying to say without saying it with that verbiage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 03:03 AM
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You could also just masturbate. You don’t need another person for that biological function. So how is my statement wrong when all I did was dissect your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:58 AM
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Yeah. You didn’t say anything at all. I held the conversation with your weak replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:33 AM
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I’m not. You guys are just mad in general and don’t like any rhetoric that isn’t women bad let’s talk about how they’re wrong and not us. You literally said that said you want women for sex and I’m the one that’s not right. You guys aren’t emotionally ready for a gf. It’s that simple
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:15 AM
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You can masturbate. Are you really using the women are sex objects for men point? That’s all you see them as? You’re just not ready for a relationship if that’s where your mind is. You can try casual sex if you have the ability to do so. There’s options. It’s al options. You just want an easy solution
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:07 AM
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They are. It’s up to you whether you want to be close minded about it. Date women, men, or neither. I feel like everyone that read that felt attacked by the dating other men part. Which if you criticize women this much then why try dating them. The other valid option is staying single. Which you and others fail to understand. It’s all choices. There is no government issued partner. You can be single and upset alone. Being alone isn’t the end of your life. You can use that time to grow as a perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 02:03 AM
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And you think that they’re been helpful. If you think they’re affecting society negatively you’re doing the same but for men. And it is. It’s the same as saying men aren’t emotional or angry or dangerous. It’s a generalized statement for half the population to get one side mad at the other. The same way most men are normal so are most women so these characteristics are not true for most people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:14 AM
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It can be but to say this generalized stuff is silly. It’s an echo chamber of guys being mad at women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:09 AM
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Because it’s always externalized criticism. Not internal. It’s always the other sides fault for why there is no cooperation between both sides. You say you are in a relationship. Is it possibly because you and your girlfriend aren’t insane like you make women to seem to be and the other guys on here make themselves be.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 01:03 AM
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What you call desire is codependency. Men love to be codependent without putting the work in. Once men think they found a proper person to date they just assume it’s gonna be the case. Like it’s a done deal. I want to date you and we will be an item. And that causes issues when they are just getting to know each other. Codependency makes men solely reliant on one person immediately when they should’ve had a support system prior. And that’s when men feel let down. Because they’re girlfriend isn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:55 AM
0

You still quoted it wrong. It’s literally there. And it’s not. I’m sure some of you guys haven’t thought about it. It’s insightful if anything You typing it twice is “clown” behavior. Since that’s all you can say
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:48 AM
4

You can try asexuality. I provided two options but the fellas here only gravitate towards one. Wonder why? 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:29 AM
1

And why do they have to be? At some point they do but for it to be an immediate expectation that women should be there for men is odd. And vice versa. Everyone is their own person and when someone bombards you with emotional needs it’s a bit off. If a women or man come to you with a few issues that’s a red flag. But men want to do that? Because men have mental health issues? Men can talk to their male friends if they don’t have anyone else to go to. Getting pent up emotionally only to do it to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 12:02 AM
3

It was the royal you. I can edit it. Not you specifically Edited it. Now that you’re not feeling discriminated what’s your take
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:49 PM
2

Generally men are disguising want for conversation with a relationship. Anyone can talk to you and you can talk to others. Men want someone you can talk to/ vent, have sex with, etc. without putting true effort of a relationship. Men just want it how you want it without the comprehension that they are also a person with similar needs and wants as you. Men just think their needs are more important and they’re there to fulfill yours
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:42 PM
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Back in the day women really had no choice. Couldn’t work, couldn’t live safe without being with family or creating their own. So they relied on being chosen to be a stay at home wife. Now that women have more freedoms and rights they don’t need much from a man. They are more to equal to men. So now men need to court as opposed to before where it was more so the man’s choice. Men need to prove other worths other then their sex and pay. Specially in a time when a man single handedly can’t pay for…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:40 PM
4

Yeah. I said you’re right my guy. And I will say it again since you need help with that part. And I responded to that part that wouldn’t it be beneficial for your health to not have to put yourself through these endeavors. Why try to date women when they’re so flawed? It’s an uphill battle some of the guys on this sub are tired of fighting. If you need help with comprehension you can take your time and reread a comment. Adding this so I don’t have to retype things for you again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:12 PM
-2

Or not dating at all. You can pick Funny how you “quoted” me and didn’t even get it right. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 11:09 PM
4

You guys are all here talking about how women are wrong for wanting things. While you want your expectations met. If you can’t understand that a relationship requieres a cooperation and understanding between two different people because you just want someone that fills in the companionship role and don’t care about their wants then maybe you don’t really care about them. There’s nothing wrong with not liking women or needing to be with one. Also my comment was at OP. I don’t know anything about …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:34 PM
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The companionship your looking for is with a sex you guys seem to despise for a multitude of reasons. Wouldn’t it be beneficial to your mental health to just live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:13 PM
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Have you tried not dating or dating men? It seems some of y’all just don’t like women making up all these excuses about why they’re at fault
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 09:48 PM
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You’re making it seem like being in a relationship I’d doing service in the army. These are all expectations you’ve fabricated in your mind. No one gonna ask you to do any of that in reality. The fact you think you’d have to post all the bills in this economy it just based on the same few decades where two incomes are needed to build a family it insane and dumbfounded of you. All the machismo stuff if things you tell yourself to be a real man when I’m reality most men aren’t fit. Not that they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:37 PM
1

Well that’s a bit different unless you are being critical about your diet. Like a hassle to eat with others because of your limitations that aren’t medical like allergies.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:19 AM
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This is such a silly take. Men expect to date only the “top” of women but never look at themselves and how average most people are. Yes there are overly fit men and overly fit women as there is also obesity on both ends. It’s a spectrum. Side note: the overtly ripped people are going through a eating disorder as well. If you ever have to count calories like they do to stay like that and take numerous supplements and possibly steroids to attain a physical body that you wouldn’t otherwise then it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 08:07 PM
1

“Men don’t lack emotional skills and let me tell you other reasons why they do”. Men do mature emotionally slower. It’s fact. It’s one aspect why you’re told women mature faster. It’s not just hormones. They get more thrown at them and they have to learn different skills like emotional control and more because of said hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:46 AM
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Is it laziness in terms of working or putting effort into other aspects of their life? My friends honestly don’t do much outside of gaming and drinking. I’m a more physical outgoing one and it is annoying when I bring up any activity that doesn’t involve that and I’m sure that it has prevented or affected their dating. They’ve been employed a long time. Doubt that’s the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 02:36 AM
2

Lol. Thank you for giving me an identity. And again. Having preferences are okay but men are completely unrealistic with theirs. Men always out things like height weight appropriate when they themselves aren’t. They want hot or general attractive when they themselves aren’t. And asking for a virgin isn’t bad but it is weird. If someone asks you out to the blue you’re not gonna say it pridefully if you are. Asking in person will always be an odd choice. Yeah do it online in your posts but when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:05 PM
2

Lol. Thank you for giving me an identity. And again. Having preferences are okay but men are completely unrealistic with theirs. Men always out things like height weight appropriate when they themselves aren’t. They want hot or general attractive when they themselves aren’t. And asking for a virgin isn’t bad but it is weird. If someone asks you out to the blue you’re not gonna say it pridefully if you are. Asking in person will always be an odd choice. Yeah do it online in your posts but when yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 05:03 PM
1

I mean you can. It’s just weird though honestly. If someone asked you if you’re a virgin you’re not gonna respond well. Specially if you are in the get to know each other phase. Maybe it’s someone that you like and are excited to get to know. How quickly does the mood change from hey “how’s your day. You’re not a virgin okay bye”. And it is a weird way of controlling or wanting to control someone… that you’ve never met. To add to it as well isn’t the likelihood to get a virgin, since that is the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:59 PM
1

I mean if men mainly want to focus on the weird ones then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:49 PM
1

And men want a woman that can clean, cook, maintain a household. Both sides have preferences that can help a relationship. The paying for everything one is odd and honestly not as common as men make it seem to be. Women are working and if they like you want to take you out for dinner or a drink or buy you something. And honestly what’s so wrong about anyone being able to fix something. I can’t as a guy. I do enjoy cooking which who wouldn’t want a home cooked meal. Who wants a partner that just …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 01:15 AM
6

The thing with preferences is sometimes they seem like fetishes as well. It’s odd. A physical preference, racial, weight, body count one, a virgin? Asking that like you’re ordering it is odd. Think about it. Preferences for things like education or maybe personality is different since that’s more subjective. I like funny people. I want someone smart in a certain field. Not weird. I want a small virgin white girl under 120 pounds. That’s weird. Guys are more visual and check box minded. While wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:59 AM
-1

Y’all find the most extreme news to prove a point lol. Most men and women out there are completely normal people.
/r/AntiFeminists16/03/23 12:01 AM
1

Being a housewife is caring for the home and kids. Look up childcare costs, meal preparation, every other duty to do at home. If a man expects a housewife then they need to understand that they can’t bring up money into the equation. Why ask for it only to throw it in their face later. I pay for everything so you must submit to me lmao. On an opposite note I’d love to be a househusband. Let me be at home and do everything. I love laundry, cleaning, cooking. I’ll even work part time somewhere too…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:04 AM
1

Check lists and preconceived notions affect a lot of people. Like you want someone so specific but put no effort into meeting anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:01 AM
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What Rock or what income are they bringing in or expect to bring in. There are some people that can but it’s hilarious that every guy thinks that they have to. Women kinda understand they don’t hav to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:33 AM
2

I don’t think this is the case at all. Men for some reason are the main ones that still think they have to be a provider instead of possibly considering a good relationship where both parties bring in money since the lifestyle now compared to the good ol times are completely different. You can’t really be a provider with 100k. That’s barely making it specially if you want a home and kids Money doesn’t make or break a relationship until that’s the status quo. Which it is in some relationships. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:31 AM
1

Don’t people cry on this sub? And the whole point is why criticize one group for caring and then go care for the other group. Both sides are literally just picking sides land then complaining about it lmao
/r/AntiFeminists12/02/23 04:41 AM
1

Isn’t this called consent lol
/r/AntiFeminists12/02/23 04:37 AM
1

Gangbang was a bad choice. It’s mostly the aggressive sex and acting like all women can fuck like porn stars. It is unhealthy. Viewing something as opposed to creating something in your mind are two different things as well. Something I’ve noticed is men need porn to masturbate while woman don’t. Which is honestly healthier. Also I’m pretty sure that toxic personality trait is mostly a joke. It’s very trendy to say that now. Books are more healthier. There’s much more healthy aspects from books.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 08:41 AM
-2

Lol. Saying it’ll be simple and then ramble on.
/r/AntiFeminists23/01/23 08:21 PM
1

Let’s go shop for one together
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/23 03:35 AM
1

Damn. Or maybe poor time management and no drive to win aimless arguments there’s so many possibilities.
/r/AntiFeminists22/01/23 12:22 AM
1

Lmao. Says the guy getting back to me 5 days later.
/r/AntiFeminists21/01/23 04:37 AM
3

Hasn’t it been proven that current AI is shit. Even Microsoft’s. It’s broken technology.
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/23 11:46 PM
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Okay boomer.
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/23 11:45 PM
3

It’s cringey if anything. It’s honestly so interesting that dating has become a war zone with how hateful both sides are acting like one side is constantly to blame. It’s issues that has been building for years. It comes with the progress we’ve made as a society and it sucks that it it’s affect certain aspects but there’s definitely more to enjoy out of it too. It’s just making sure you enjoy more than being bitter and weird online.
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/23 06:20 AM
1

Visually this sucks. And the reason why is the same reason guys don’t want kids either. Choice. With more information now people that are educated are not interested in the downsides of kids. You get an heir to what? I’ll probably leave them nothing. I can barely get by on my own with rising prices everywhere. Lack of socioeconomic help. If you have any younger individuals in your life you know schools aren’t the best. There’s so many reasons to be apprehensive or just say no. I’d rather enjoy m…
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/23 11:10 PM
4

It’s crazy Kevin Samuels got so much content. I’ve never met people like the ones he interviewed. It’s hilarious and will be missed.
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/23 10:50 PM
-2

And you believe them? They could’ve posted something else too and gotten banned some other way. Believing things blindly online is funny
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/23 08:27 PM
1

That wasn’t my position at all lol. Not once did I claim she’s a higher number. I don’t rate like weirdos.
/r/AntiFeminists18/01/23 07:26 PM
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Couldn’t he gotten banned from another reason or perhaps deleted his account? We’re believing a person that can’t explain themselves?
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 11:25 PM
1

Thanks. It’s eco friendly and free. In the economy right.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 10:25 PM
1

Lol. Thanks for replying to this. It was meant for another response. Hilarious you took the time. Appreciate it
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 10:25 PM
1

Lmao. Still using triggered not ironically online.
/r/AntiFeminists17/01/23 07:38 AM
1

Read my last response to you. Why are you flipping it on me now? I never claimed to know the science of rating. Maybe you can teach me. Where’s the literature?
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 07:00 PM
0

Lol. He seems to just want to be right by clinging to a small percentage of people. Porn is an issue and it’ll continue to be one. Not only are men left to their own devices and can delve into whatever they can find, but the same content is at everyone’s hands including younger individuals. Its only gonna affect relationships long term if there’s no understanding that it’s not real and not healthy. It can be fun to watch maybe like pro wrestling
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 08:57 AM
1

Porn hurts men. The likelihood that men only watch sweet wholesome positive porn is pretty low. It’s kinda a rabbit hole of what you can find. It can create unhealthy expectations for both sides. Do you need it to fulfill that need, no. But you choose to. It’s a similar way how marijuana isn’t addictive yet quite a large amount of people smoke a few times a day and need it to continue with their day. You choose to make it a ritual.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 08:51 AM
1

Lol. The fact you think you got my gender right is hilarious. Even after I told you otherwise. You’re so far up your ass I get why you like the fellas and are antifem
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 07:49 AM
1

Lmao. There’s the cool guy vocabulary. It seethes huh
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 05:44 AM
1

Lololol. You’re hilarious. You’re so confident yet so wrong. That’s your power
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 05:30 AM
1

Lol. Imagine believing with complete certainty you know the sex of someone over the internet. What magic does thou have.
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 12:47 AM
1

Ouch. That hurt. The language you folk use and the type of demographic this sub gets proves otherwise
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 12:46 AM
1

I know. I’m not one. If you read any of my comments I’m questioning people’s false beliefs that are created in these echo chambers. I haven’t once tried to defend her honor lol. I’ll never meet her and neither will anyone here.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 11:42 PM
0

No. I don’t like to be spoon fed what to think. Appreciate the help though. Very kind.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 11:12 PM
1

Assumptions and projections are separate. What am I projecting now? It would be helpful to provide more info then just insinuating. If you’re saying my comments contradict I guess it’s cause the second one you’re mentioning is suppose to be sarcastic. I edited it for you.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 08:41 PM
0

Yeah. But thankfully you made me cry when you were being mean to a woman. The white knight in me cried and that lubed me up. I wish I was lucky and had a community of other men I can circlejerk with about online like you guys. Guys good woman dumb is all it takes to join? Gosh. You guys got it easy
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:27 PM
0

Lol. So one woman is a terrible cop but all the other men don’t? Statistically in this scenario, the men make up 80%+ of bad cops. I’m not white knighting. I just don’t care what people do. And it’s just hilarious this is a nothing story but it went wild on Reddit, a largely male dominate site. But yeah I’m white knighting even though I haven’t really protected anyone’s honor. I’m just laughing at this sub for being so weird about their rating of her. Like how did everyone agree she’s a 3.5 or w…
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:25 PM
2

Lol. Oh no poor men in a sexless marriage. Let’s go cheat instead of being a true alpha and figure out a solution. I think half the men were married half just wanted some. Either way they weren’t coerced. And if they’re in a bad marriage why not get divorced? They obviously don’t care enough to not ruin it. But it’s only the woman that’s committing adultery and bad person.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:22 PM
1

I want your proof. You’ve stated that enough that there must be a graph or something. Just prove to me I’m a dumbass I don’t really care about anyone I’m never gonna meet and to even try to quantify something like that.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:18 PM
1

I’m not assuming. You honestly think that the percentage of everyone unanimously thinking one person is ugly is 100%. That’s unlikely in every way. Statistically. I just don’t get why people just like to lie online lmao. At least about idiotic things. This lady is an Uggo huh cause she fucked a lot of guys (in sarcastic tone, read it as if a neck beard read it). She’s the only one that publicly has a high body count. You still waiting for your virgin wife? What’s the statistics on that?
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:16 PM
1

Lol. As soon as I ask for proof you divert. Nice. I just like having discourse online with people that think they have strawman arguments. Your so smart you don’t have to prove anything huh
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:14 PM
1

You’ve replied that so many times. Where’s the math or proof? That way I can agree I’m a dumbass.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 08:36 AM
-4

Lol. You guys have to censor yourselves. True alphas. Everyone in this predicament got themselves in it for being horny and stupid. But a man does it it’s a bad choice. Yet she gets to be the poster child yet y’all hate her and how she looks? Yall guys are more sassy and gossipy than woman.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 07:44 AM
-1

I’m a dude that finds weird rabbit holes and laughs at how people get from being online too much. But it fits your story better for me to be a woman and dumb and a hoe in-line all the successful men complaining online
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 07:42 AM
-1

You know I have a crush on her? You must be really smart to know something I don’t about myself without meeting me. If you guys saw her on a dating app prior to seeing her in the news you guys would be ecstatic that a woman liked you back. But then who knows. It seems I’m in a sub of geniuses and hot dudes that can get any girl but are arguing about the weekly gossip article
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:54 AM
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Again, this is only because of what you know. You guys think you’re so smart and better with the foresight that’s been provided for you. You expect people you never met to do better? Cause they were guys? You guys never met any of these people. This is honestly a nothing story other then how hilarious it is. To look at this story and see the state of the country in it or manhood is insane lol. This is all online circlejerking. What are y’all really talking and doing in real life. Being the kings…
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:51 AM
1

Not really. It’s two conflicting interest. This is a polar opposite of the other. It’s funny cause this doesn’t even matter in real life. It’s just people arguing online.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:29 AM
1

You are un-ironically a comedian This whole sub is about hate lmao
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:21 AM
3

How do you know he wasn’t. People cheats even when they’re in the best possible scenario? It’s just assumptions. Y’all are so gossipy lmao.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:16 AM
-1

Yeah. Probably at least one before he knew. So he is still first to blame
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 06:13 AM
1

This isn’t necessarily a antifeminist thing. This is just further proof that the police force is honestly full of idiots not doing their job. Yeah you have one woman fucking guys but you also have like 7 guys being just as stupid and horny. This costs so much money for training and who knows what else a competent force could actually achieve. It’s also more anti open relationship. Which if that’s true then it’s an agreement. At all times women and men were involved in some agreement for this. No…
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:47 AM
0

How? For not being a psychic.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:46 AM
0

Who failed first?
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:37 AM
-12

Not everyone is getting a “hot” chick. These metrics aren’t even that. It’s just hate lmao
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:32 AM
0

As in him or the other cops that had no self control?
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:25 AM
-16

Y’all lying. If she went out with you without this stigma she’d be way more.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/23 05:24 AM
0

That’s not true. Working on yourself in any way is always good. Men simply want a relationship in the same way they want a funko pop in this scenario. If they want it then they want it. No real thought. Just part of the collection. You want a partner. Someone you care about. And have similar interests not just a person to fulfill a role. Funko pops aren’t fulfilling. Working on your job is. It’ll benefit you and your partner. Isn’t that worth something? Men honestly suck at understanding certain…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:21 AM
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