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Ask better questions. It's not that hard to get someone to talk about themselves.
/r/seduction11/06/18 05:41 AM
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If you live in a city, there are hundreds of thousands, if not millions of people. Not everyone in your city is asocial or snobbish or only hangs out in their own social groups, that's an excuse that you're using to justify not approaching people.
/r/seduction10/06/18 09:54 PM
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I'll just add that you should be careful not to make her feel crowded in something like public transport. She'll likely already feel on edge as she wouldn't be able to escape if something were to happen, so be careful not to loom over her or make her feel trapped and exacerbate that feeling. Close distance only when you know she's feeling comfortable with you.
/r/seduction06/06/18 09:31 PM
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but I also use dating apps for entertainment. I don't expect actual results from a dating app, but it helps me figure out what pictures get responses from girls so I can put up those pictures on my social media. Then when I meet a girl in real life and get her Instagram, she sees all those Tinder vetted pictures.
/r/seduction06/06/18 07:08 PM
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First is physical, I'm usually not very picky, I like all sorts of body types from super petite to voluptuous to athletic to thick. Honestly I think it just comes down to if I see that she takes care of herself physically. If she's visibility anorexic or obese I'm not interested because she doesn't or won't care for herself. After I approached and we're having a conversation, I look for signs of her being comfortable in herself, curiosity, open-mindedness, and sensuality. I try to find women tha…
/r/seduction05/06/18 05:17 PM
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Sonny, true love is the greatest thing in the world. Except for a nice MLT, a mutton, lettuce and tomato sandwich, where the mutton is nice and lean and the tomato is ripe. They're so perky, I love that. But that's not what he said! He distinctly said "to blave." And, as we all know, "to blave" means "to bluff," huh? So you're probably playing cards, and he cheated...
/r/seduction02/06/18 05:05 AM
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in a society as socially rigid as Asian societies are, I'm surprised this kind of counter-culture hasn't arisen sooner.
/r/becomeaman28/05/18 02:56 AM
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exactly this. Self amusement is useful for a guy who's just learning to approach to not feel so self conscious about how he looks, but lots of people seem to use it as a crutch to their lack of conversational skills. OP, learn how to tell stories and be passionate, and don't try and substitute self-amusement for a personality
/r/seduction28/05/18 01:32 AM
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That's thinking so many steps ahead it's ridiculous. Sure my ultimate goal is to find someone that I'd like to spend many years of my life with, but when I'm walking up to a woman during daygame, I'm just trying to screen her to see if there is anything more than a physical attraction, and if there is to close the phone number or get a date. I don't approach women with any expectation of outcome, either for "true love" nor for a fwb.
/r/seduction27/05/18 06:02 PM
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I'm starting to do it at 34, so I hope you'll be fine. It's working out okay for me so far, been on more dates in the last 3 months than the previous 3 years so clearly somethings working. Of course go to clubs unless, of course, you don't like clubs or you don't want the types of girls who go to clubs, then don't go to clubs. Try and find hobbies and groups that you enjoy doing as your primary priority, and that would also attract girls as a secondary priority. For example, I really enjoy my ba…
/r/seduction27/05/18 03:21 AM
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you find out if she is interested by pulling the trigger and trying to move the relationship forward. Ask her out on a date, and you'll get your answer
/r/seduction24/05/18 05:19 AM
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You have a lot more issues than introversion, good luck with all that
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:11 PM
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Solving insecurity issues is for therapy, not seduction
/r/seduction23/05/18 04:04 PM
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Dude, calm down. Hot chicks have a lot of guys after them, it shouldn't be a surprise that a lot of them are in a relationship
/r/seduction18/05/18 05:19 AM
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Are you learning from the failures? If you don't walk away from a rejection with some sort of lesson, you're just going to keep making the same mistakes over and over
/r/seduction18/05/18 12:34 AM
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If anything at a gym, you might be able to approach if you're taking a class together
/r/seduction18/05/18 12:28 AM
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have you invited her to meet in person again since, or has everything been through text/snap?
/r/seduction17/05/18 09:03 PM
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there's something about this in Models with receptive, unreceptive, and neutral girls. Sure you're only going to be able to game with girls who think you're attractive, if they didn't you'd be put in unreceptive and get rejected. If she's really into you, she'll be receptive and make it really easy on you. Game is about convincing the neutral girl, who probably finds you good looking enough, to pick a side and be receptive or unreceptive.
/r/seduction16/05/18 06:54 PM
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There will be a point where I will be asked about my previous experiences, should I lie ? no, you should ALWAYS own your shortcomings, if you lie she'll see through it pretty close to immediately, and being called out on your bullshit is much worse than explaining how you've had bad social anxiety and you're trying to make yourself better.
/r/seduction16/05/18 05:16 PM
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I only recommend dating coworkers if you would be perfectly fine with losing the job. I used to date coworkers all the time when I worked at shitty fast-food jobs, but I wouldn't at my company that I'll be working with once I've graduated because I want to keep that job. Coworkers are easy because you're around them a lot, but not worth it if things go south, you give up a lot of control over the situation and the girl has a lot more ammo to make your life miserable if she should choose to
/r/seduction16/05/18 02:36 AM
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I wouldn't
/r/seduction16/05/18 01:57 AM
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lol, cut out the cheesy lines, they have never worked for me. Give out as many genuine compliments as you can. The more you give out real compliments, the easier it'll be to scan a girl, find something you genuinely like, and come up with on the spot. They are always better received than a line
/r/seduction15/05/18 11:37 PM
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don't pressure her to have sex if she doesn't want to, just move on
/r/seduction15/05/18 04:10 AM
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any approach is a success because you stepped out of your comfort zone and challenged yourself. good job
/r/seduction15/05/18 03:03 AM
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There probably isn't any meaningful and unbiased statistics regarding the perception of seduction and pickup. Maybe consider conducting your own survey
/r/seduction14/05/18 08:50 PM
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I got a date the other day with a 19 year old that I cold approached. I've had success regardless of the age of the girls, but most of the younger girls I approach have been on my college campus. I agree that I get a lot more success with older women however, but I haven't had many of the problems you're talking about I'm 34 and just started approaching a little over a month ago
/r/seduction14/05/18 08:41 PM
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You sound depressed, have you considered therapy?
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:32 AM
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That's a quote from Samuel Beckett
/r/seduction14/05/18 01:20 AM
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"Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better"
/r/seduction13/05/18 06:24 PM
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it's where you approach a girl who is a total stranger to you, she's not involved in your social circles, she isn't in your classes, she's not from work, nothing. You just go up and start a conversation with them
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:25 PM
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Anywhere and everywhere. This girl I approached after I ordered a coffee, she was standing around waiting for her drink to come out. I approach on my college campus, the downtown shopping center, grocery stores, etc. I don't particularly go out of my way to start approach, I just live my life and jump at every opportunity I come across
/r/seduction13/05/18 01:04 PM
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Because they've gotten good at it, and you only see the success and not the work they had to put in.
/r/seduction12/05/18 09:27 PM
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you need to move to a more target-rich environment
/r/seduction12/05/18 03:09 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZXsQAXx_ao0
/r/seduction11/05/18 01:56 AM
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I suppose, I am still really new to this community, so I'm only basing my opinion on what I've seen here recently. I really like James Marshall's style and I've just started reading Models
/r/seduction10/05/18 04:03 AM
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this is pretty much exactly what I do already, but I'll still try and close if it feels like we're clicking. I also like going to the on campus starbucks or pizza joint for some instant dates
/r/seduction10/05/18 01:36 AM
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huh, I post to both subs often. I don't know why seduction gets such a bad rap. Honestly the whole point of seduction, in my mind, is that it's supposed to be a beautiful experience with between two people. It's understandable I suppose because so many people get hurt so badly in relationships, that they see any sort of training or strategizing as being dishonest because people are justifiably paranoid
/r/seduction09/05/18 05:28 PM
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please don't tell her that you like her, show her that you like her by asking her out on a date
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:24 AM
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I've been doing daygame for 3 weeks roughly now. I spent the first week essentially treating it as a social freedom exercise, and I didn't really produce much in terms of actual numbers, my first week I got 1 number which ended in the friendzone. The second week I realized that I wasn't shaking with nerves anymore, and I was easily making eye contact, I got four phone numbers with 2 dates and 2 ghosts on week 2. This week is only two days in so far, I got two phone numbers and one instant-date y…
/r/seduction09/05/18 04:18 AM
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you're not a bad looking dude How do you improve? Well going out of the house is a good first step. Maybe do some social freedom exercises
/r/seduction08/05/18 08:17 AM
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I followed the IDGAF mentality of showing up uninvited anytime, and even entering his house despite his protests. entering a house despite protest is a fucking crime and in my state criminal trespass can have penalties up to 6 months in jail. Not giving a fuck is a useful attitude, but calm your fucking tits.
/r/seduction08/05/18 06:36 AM
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That's because text strips away all humanity. Texts sucks
/r/seduction08/05/18 05:23 AM
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are you a joke?
/r/seduction08/05/18 05:08 AM
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absolutely. Always push yourself to be a better person and constantly change yourself
/r/seduction08/05/18 05:04 AM
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For me, daygame has improved my confidence so much I would do it even if it never worked and I didn't get any numbers at all, but it does work and I do get numbers quite a bit and I'm nowhere near "EXTREMELY talented at seduction" nor am I ridiculously attractive
/r/seduction08/05/18 05:03 AM
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Doing favors for girls is a great way to end up in the friend zone
/r/seduction07/05/18 05:30 PM
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seduction is a skill, and like with any skill you're gonna suck a lot at first. Try out different styles of approaching, look for mentors who can tell you what you're doing wrong, read a lot, and practice practice practice.
/r/seduction07/05/18 07:30 AM
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fix what? Nothing happened
/r/seduction06/05/18 08:24 PM
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As someone who is pretty new to all this, this is an excellent piece of advice that I've never considered before. I've been working on things like my story-telling, eye contact, keno, and all that stuff, but knowing how to bow out gracefully seems just as important as those things.
/r/seduction05/05/18 07:38 PM
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With your words
/r/seduction05/05/18 03:35 AM
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your anecdotal experience doesn't make what I said bad advice. You got luck AF that she didn't decided she felt harassed and got you fired. That can very easily happen and having sex with coworkers gives them a lot of firepower if they decide, for whatever reason, to ruin your life.
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:20 PM
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You can sleep with your coworkers only if you wouldn't mind losing the job
/r/seduction04/05/18 06:02 PM
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pros: You know all of the girls are single and interested in finding someone for something You can let your personality shine instead of just relying on pictures cons: These are women who would go to a bumble event, so probably not the highest quality
/r/seduction04/05/18 12:31 AM
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still probably even has some things about her body she doesn't like! Generally, 10s have even more things about their body that they don't like
/r/seduction03/05/18 01:40 PM
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as a man who works with some engineering girls on a regular basis...no they do not smell like perfume
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:07 PM
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sure, in every animal, there are things called "mirror neurons" which fire when the animal performs an action, but also when the animal observes that same action being performed by someone else. If you approach a woman she's going to feel scared because you're a man, and men are a big threat to women. If when you're talking to a woman, you act nervous and tense, she will see that, her mirror neurons are going to fire her nervous response, and her uncomfortableness is going to compound; however, …
/r/seduction30/04/18 03:45 PM
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This sounds about as convincing as the "fluoride in the water supply makes everyone a communist" theory
/r/becomeaman30/04/18 06:51 AM
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learn to be loose and fun by yourself, and it'll bleed over to the rest of your life.
/r/seduction30/04/18 03:34 AM
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if you're dancing and having a good time, have her go dance with you
/r/seduction29/04/18 07:21 AM
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I've only been doing approaches for a few weeks now, and most of my anxiety has pretty much subsided, but I got a really bad relapse a few days ago when I saw a girl who was dressed really provocatively during daytime. She was smoking hot and wearing this almost sheer top with no bra and I just saw her and it felt like my first approach again with my legs shaking and brain short-circuiting.
/r/seduction28/04/18 10:35 PM
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think of it like this, that guy was so intimidated by you and you looked like you were such a threat to him and his relationships that he felt like he had to diminish you in the eyes of the girls. Also know that that kind of behavior communicates insecurity to the girls, so now not only did that guy make those girls pay attention to you, he also diminished his own value in their eyes
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:21 PM
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Why do you feel like the response would be to intimidate the other guy? You probably already do which is why he only made fun of you because you were behind a wall, and he was likely just trying to impress the girls he was with. Try not to worry so much about what some loser on the street thinks about you
/r/seduction28/04/18 07:12 PM
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I feel that part of the frustration men have today is that the tables have turned. Men want the LTR and settle down, while women are more DTF and not wanting a commitment. Na mate, YOU want a LTR and settle down, not necessarily all men, the women you've interacted with are DTF and don't want commitment, not women in general. Society is fucking made up of billions of individuals, and they don't agree on anything. If you're not finding women who want a committed relationship that speaks not about…
/r/seduction28/04/18 03:20 PM
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you're projecting your own desires and preferences onto society
/r/seduction28/04/18 02:40 PM
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They are solvable, but there is no way of guaranteeing a successful outcome because either square is just as likely to contain the mine and no information about which one is safe. You have to guess. Game theory has nothing to do with minesweeper because minesweeper is a puzzle, not people making rational decisions. If you're saying that women are all solvable, you'd also be wrong, there are a billion different contingencies and circumstances that are unknowable that will ruin your chance. You co…
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:58 AM
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The way you worded your initial response and when you responded to my reply made it sound like you were talking about minesweeper. Why did you talk about squares if you were referring to game? You already mentioned that you disagreed with the metaphor, so why did you continue to use it and not contrast and highlight what you disagreed with? Why did you say the boards I posted was solvable?
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:43 AM
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you must not be very good at looking at things if you think there is a way to guaranteed success on those boards.
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:30 AM
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Sometimes, you have no choice but to guess https://simplephobia.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/minesweeper2.png https://simplephobia.files.wordpress.com/2011/06/minesweeper1.png
/r/seduction28/04/18 12:05 AM
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I like this analogy
/r/seduction27/04/18 10:54 PM
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Don't beat yourself up over it, these things happen sometimes. Use it to learn a lesson and keep improving
/r/seduction27/04/18 05:37 AM
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Draw some attention to yourself, say hi or something
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:22 AM
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just say hi to them. Openers are easy as fuck, you just say hi and maybe compliment, then ask for their name
/r/seduction27/04/18 01:20 AM
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work is generally boring af, and having a cute guy flirt with you can be a good distraction. She may love it, it's hard to tell until he makes an attempt.
/r/seduction25/04/18 03:12 PM
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because it's weak, it shows a lack of self confidence, and it tends to be a big turn-off for a lot of women. Maybe this would have flown in the 90s era of the "sensitive man" but it's totally a losing strategy in today's sexual marketplace
/r/seduction25/04/18 02:31 PM
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I was going to say yes until I read this Onto the topic, two months ago I expressed my feelings to her, and a big crush it is.. uggh
/r/seduction25/04/18 02:06 PM
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why do you think that all women want relationships?
/r/seduction25/04/18 01:15 PM
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sorry, I didn't mean to troll your pitty party I'll let you get back to feeling sorry for yourself
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:56 AM
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if I could make you prettier I would
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:54 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcAsad-E9CQ
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:48 AM
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"you miss 100% of the shots you don't take" Wayne Gretzky Michael Scott /u/b0100010
/r/seduction25/04/18 04:00 AM
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The penalties for California battery in most cases include a fine of up to two thousand dollars ($2,000) and/or up to six (6) months in county jail.6 Nope
/r/seduction25/04/18 03:57 AM
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regularly: school and downtown sometimes: bars and clubs infrequently: social circle and dating apps
/r/seduction25/04/18 03:39 AM
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it's what insecure men call confident men
/r/seduction25/04/18 02:37 AM
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congratulations! Keep it up and eventually those shakes will go away and you won't feel quite so hot Think of that anxious like beginners DOMS when you first start lifting weights, first you hate them, then you get used to them and start to appreciate how they feel because you know that you had a good workout
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:36 PM
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just wow
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:16 PM
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tell her you just want to fuck her brains out
/r/seduction24/04/18 12:35 AM
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I don't know because I don't know you Maybe you're afraid that you'll be rejected because of your scar and everyone will see and no one will like you for the rest of your life Maybe you're afraid that if you approach a girl, she'll have a boyfriend and he'll come up and beat you up for daring to look at his girl Whatever you're afraid of it's keeping you from doing something that you want to do, so you should try to figure it out and face it.
/r/seduction23/04/18 03:06 PM
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your approach anxiety is coming from a place of fear, so you need to try and understand exactly what you're afraid of. When you critically examine why you're afraid you'll start to understand how irrational and unfounded your fears are and realize that the bad outcome you're built up in your head isn't as big as you think it was This is a good short story that illustrates what I'm trying to say a bit more elegantly than I can describe https://theunboundedspirit.com/short-story-the-elephant-and-t…
/r/seduction23/04/18 02:43 PM
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she flaked, and she may have a good reason, or she may be afraid of feeling like a slut and regret the interaction even if she enjoyed the sex, or she got back together with her ex, or a million other things. You calling her was probably a bad move as it makes you look a little bit desperate but it's by no means a deal breaker. Put her on ice for a week or so and hit her up randomly. If she blows you off again then it's not going to happen.
/r/seduction23/04/18 02:21 PM
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What is the absolute worst thing that could happen, and how would you respond?
/r/seduction23/04/18 02:16 PM
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Don't throw good money after bad Just move on
/r/seduction23/04/18 05:10 AM
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1) get her to go out with you 2) get her to sleep with you 3) be fantastic in bed 4) tell her you don't want a relationship
/r/seduction23/04/18 03:53 AM
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you could ask her
/r/seduction23/04/18 01:48 AM
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really old in your 20's kek
/r/seduction11/04/18 04:38 AM
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that's good, you then have an natural reason for her to come back to your place to help decorate the tree. Too bad you can only pull it once a year
/r/seduction10/04/18 05:21 PM
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if you've had a huge crush on her for weeks and you didn't make a move, that's on you
/r/seduction10/04/18 03:45 PM
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be willing to look a little silly or stupid or creepy, it's not the end of the world Practice leads to improvement
/r/seduction10/04/18 03:23 PM
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