| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 16 | Useful information | Fundamentals | babaliito | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Seducing or Attracting | Lifestyle | babaliito | /r/seduction | 11/01/20 05:44 PM |
| 0 | How to get a girl out of my head? | babaliito | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 05:02 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Useful informationtotally agree! thanks for further explanation | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I portray myself in two ways depending on where I am. Need helpGiving advice here won't help you much coz I can't cover all important topics. I recommend you to read a book Models by Mark Manson. There you will find useful information on how to develop your mindset better and a lot other important things. And remember it's a long term process for long term benefits. Change won't happen overnight and it depends on how willing you are to change yourself for better. Good luck | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | What phrases do you like telling yourself to improve your state in the moment (while still in the venue) right after the sting of a bad rejection or after multiple rejections? If you have noticed that your energy/voice seems to be worse after a rejectionYou didn't understand my comment. I wrote 'values' not 'low values' and it's huge difference. Not all of your values are low and you need to transform the low values to high ones. And you do that by working on yourself. When you achieve high values and state of mind where you value yourself more as a person you won't need any excuse for yourself after being rejected. It's a more complex than reading advices on this subreddit. You have to dedicate yourself in becoming individual who prioritize hi… | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 04:07 PM |
| 1 | What phrases do you like telling yourself to improve your state in the moment (while still in the venue) right after the sting of a bad rejection or after multiple rejections? If you have noticed that your energy/voice seems to be worse after a rejectionWhy do you need to tell anything to yourself in order to feel better after rejection. If you are aware of your values you will just move on to the next one and not give any attention to eventual rejection. It's not about saying something to yourself it's about state of mind. If you are telling yourself different kind of excuses after you being rejected, that means you are not yet at the point where rejection don't have any importance to you. | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 2 | I portray myself in two ways depending on where I am. Need helpSo you are creating a let's say, some kind of fake representation of yourself because you care about other peoples opinion rather than being yourself. your excuse of losing reputation of serious/polished individual is a defence mechanism. You said you are a smooth talker and you are pretty much successful with women so why do you limit yourself - limitations create limited people. stop giving so much attention to what people think of you and start a process of breaking limited beliefs and habits… | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Can anyone who succeeded and grew despite starting off with anxiety or poor social skills give me advice?Mark Manson - Models Read it Good luck | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Just asked if a girl was free this weekend (she said yes) and I don't know what to doYou didn't think you will get that far? You wont get much further if you don't get rid of insecurity and lack of confidence. | /r/seduction | 26/01/20 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Remember this rule; Don't be a SIMP.Maybe your mindset is 99% trash and not girls. Its easier to find flaws in a girl than analyze yourself and maybe find out that you are the problem and not somebody else. | /r/seduction | 26/01/20 10:32 AM |
| 1 | How to not get attached to one girl so easily? How to not be a simp but not be a jerk?Read Models by Mark Manson and that should start the process. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 11:53 PM |
| 24 | Just got rejected and I feel like my heart was broken before I even went on a dateListen to him, best advice in few sentences. Don't invest more than a girl and you over invested her in light years. You showed too much desire and you are not interesting enough to her. You need to be emotionally bigger than her. You are needy and you need to read that book above to see what are we talking about. If you don't work in self improvement every next relationship will end like this and it is very unpleasant feeling afterwards. Most of us have been there, so all you need to do is lear… | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | I need some helpMaybe you don't need advice on how to upgrade your appearance but you need advices on how to upgrade your game and communication skills, since you don't know how to lead a girl who approached you. It takes a lot of courage for a girl to approach you and when she does that means she is already attracted to you. The problem is that you don't know how to maintain that attraction, so she becomes bored of you because you don't have anything to offer her besides your good look. I keep saying that peop… | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | What to do if girl feels your desperation .This guy told you the truth, hardcore truth. I'm trying to tell people here that things won't fall from the sky for them. Guys you must educate yourself and work on your self development. That is not a two day process. Get to know yourself better and your values. It's hard for me or for anyone to give you just few exact advices that will make everything work. That's not how it goes. You just learn for yourself. Don't invest yourself in relationship more than a girl, you must be emotionally bigge… | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 01:11 PM |
| 2 | What to do if girl feels your desperation .You were probably more invested in her and showed bigger desire so that fucked you up. Make that as a lesson so next time you won't do the same mistake. Try to focus on other girl or something that will make you not think about her. Don't overthink too much what you could or couldn't do. If she eventually reach for you play smart. Read Models by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | i need help being more dominant towards my boyfriendIf he knows how to be emotionally bigger than you, you won't ever be dominant in your relationship. | /r/seduction | 23/01/20 03:31 PM |
| -1 | Please just dont focus on women but self development.Dude just wanted to share a friendly advice why are you so hostile, who the fuck cares how long you have been here and how short he has, if you don't want to take an advice just scroll on. P.S. you last constatation was so not true, 'never believe that woman will think you are great because of the things you did for yourself' this means you cold be so shallow and stupid but if you do things for others and prioritize others rather then yourself she will think that you are great. | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 10:36 PM |
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