babnick Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
88	Lessons Learned	Inner Game	babnick	/r/seduction	04/10/25 07:02 AM
75	Had To Deal With A Flake	Field Report	babnick	/r/seduction	03/10/25 11:01 PM

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3	The ultimate list of unattractive traits that turn off women even if they were initially interested in you. I never apologize for having a strong sex drive. I had to walk away from women who couldn't handle that. One thing I have learned once I levelled up is that women treat you differently when they know you have options are not afraid to walk away. Also fellas, you have to be selfish and put your needs first and never tolerate disrespect. It sounds bad but believe me, women respect a man who sets boundaries and never compromise on his goals. DRIZZLE DRIZZLE	/r/seduction	19/04/26 09:02 AM
1	Is being known as the womanizer of a group a bad thing? Don't change!!!!!!! Being known as that guy will work in your advantage. And the good thing is that other's put it out there, instead of you doing it. Believe me brother, you are right where you need to be. If they ask you about it, neither deny or admit it. Keep them guessing. Women are drawn to men who women preselect or find desirable. Of course there will be women who will be put off by this. But this is the minority. You're one step of the other dudes in the group.	/r/seduction	16/02/26 06:58 AM
7	How do you become "that guy"? I have seen and been around the men you talk about. Eventually I became that man. And the one thing we all have in common is an "abundance mindset". That means we don't get hung up on one woman. We know there are plenty of fish in the sea. Believe this one thing if nothing else: women treat you differently when they know you have options. They also behave differently when they know we have no problem walking away. Dress well, improve social skills and work out. Learn how to flirt with them. They…	/r/seduction	11/02/26 03:44 AM
1	Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learned When I was your age I was also slaying them and you weren't lying about the emptiness. It does get tiring after a while and mentally draining. It takes a toll. Unless man experiences this he will never know what it is like. It is not all it is cracked up to be. And you're also right about ghosting. I don't care how you look or how much money or social status you have.......EVERY MAN WILL GET GHOSTED SOONER OR LATER. Real men accept this is part of the game. Your contribution was well-thought out…	/r/seduction	06/02/26 07:45 PM
0	Base level attraction matters — no game can override it Look at Jay Z.......................	/r/seduction	31/01/26 05:46 AM
7	Base level attraction matters — no game can override it Whenever women say looks don't matter I used to laugh. It is such a fallacy. We have 2 eyes for a reason. That is why every dating app or site makes you upload photos. To be sure for some women it isn't as important as say personality. But there has to be some level of attraction. Rizz and game will only go so far.	/r/seduction	30/01/26 02:10 PM
2	Building a Rotation: Being a Player is the only realistic way men can find Love Don't believe that bullshit. Women want a nice guy to settle down with for sure. But the stats don't lie: 80% of women are chasing the top 20% of men on dating apps. The odds are skewered against you if you're not in the top bracket. These women know these men have options. Which makes them even more attractive to them. Weird but that is the female psyche.	/r/seduction	25/01/26 07:52 PM
17	Building a Rotation: Being a Player is the only realistic way men can find Love This is by far the best read all week. I am a strong proponent of having a rotation. This, along with having an "abundance mindset", will make a man invincible in the jungle that is modern dating. Fellas, take it from an OG.....when a woman knows you have options, she values you a lot more and less likely to play games. Nothing gives women the ICK when she knows that she is a man's only option. They will never admit it but they desire men who other women desire, as the article clearly states. Wh…	/r/seduction	25/01/26 07:48 PM
2	Why most Indian guys come off desperate and thirsty when flirting Remember....there is always some truth in stereotypes. The Indian men I have been around come across as desperate and that creepy stare. Me and my fellow Americans working in Qatar came up with a name: The Indian Stare. Masculine men don't act like that.	/r/seduction	11/01/26 10:00 PM
3	Why most Indian guys come off desperate and thirsty when flirting If you have to ask.................	/r/seduction	11/01/26 09:56 PM
7	How I went from being a virgin to having meetings and sex. I feel you on this. I am 53 and it never gets old. Some men never "get it out of our system" as they like to say. I love women and I live by the motto "there is no pussy like new pussy". However, I don't spend a lot of money and time pursuing women. I attract.	/r/seduction	31/12/25 08:15 AM
5	The emptiness of sleeping with unattractive women I was waiting for this. It was inevitable.......like death, taxes and a Trump lie. Never fails.	/r/seduction	26/12/25 03:52 PM
10	The emptiness of sleeping with unattractive women Every man has been here. For me it was when I just started in the game. Numbers are a confidence booster to young men. But I have seen men do this even later in life. Low-hanging fruit are irresistible to some men that haven't mastered their lust and mind. I used to get that empty feeling and it stuck with me for a while. When a man chooses to level up, his numbers will fall off. That is because he is going for quality of quantity	/r/seduction	26/12/25 01:16 PM
0	The Female Manipulation Index: 11 Tactics That Bend Reality, Steal Peace, and Leak Power Spot on. At some point or another I've experienced some of these and have run the gamut. Looking back at past relationships I can see where I was taken advantage of. Sometimes I think they do it subconsciously as they are pre-programmed to do this, while others definitely deliberately use these tools as a weapon.	/r/seduction	09/12/25 09:44 AM
0	My Experiences in Bangalore, India How is he virtue signalling? The man has his standards. What is wrong with that?	/r/seduction	07/12/25 02:34 PM
2	Do You Guys Give Women Who Flake On You A Second Chance? Why or Why Not? Reading the comments here and some of you don't know the difference between a flake and something genuinely coming up. Just like some people don't know the difference between being friends and being in the "friend zone". Flake is when a woman cancels a date for no apparent reason. Then any self-respecting man should delete her number and move on. Something genuinely coming up could be work or family-related or other emergencies. That is not flaking. When this happens. then it is on HER to resche…	/r/seduction	30/11/25 09:51 AM
2	Had To Deal With A Flake I would have done the same thing. I'm sure if I played the long game with some of the women I walked on, I could have had some success. But that takes time and emotional committment. Why do all that with no guaranteed outcome when I could easily find a woman who is interested in me?	/r/seduction	04/10/25 06:15 PM
0	Lessons Learned I'm cut from a different type of cloth compared to most men. If I recommend that men live by a certain rule, then I also live by those rules. No way I'm staying in her friend zone to meet her friends for "social value". A man's social value should never come from women. Besides, if I cut her off it means I want nothing more to do with her, or even her friends. Women sometimes set artificial timelines on intimacy to gauge a man's interest level or to see what he really wants. If a woman does this…	/r/seduction	04/10/25 09:18 AM
1	Had To Deal With A Flake I made this post to encourage men to level up and stand on principle. A woman flaking is nothing new. That will always happen. How a man responds is what makes the difference.	/r/seduction	04/10/25 06:21 AM
1	Had To Deal With A Flake The reason why I delete their number is because I have absolutely no reason or intention to message them again. I don't block them so they are free to reach out in the future. But for sure it will not be coming from me.	/r/seduction	04/10/25 06:15 AM
7	Had To Deal With A Flake Let me put it in context for you, at least from my perspective. If I ask a woman on a date and she can't make it last minute because of legitimate reasons like work or family or just plain lazy, then the burden is now on her to reschedule. If she doesn't make an attempt to do this, then that shows low interest. I never waste my time with low interest women. That is the key to my success with women.	/r/seduction	04/10/25 06:10 AM
1	Had To Deal With A Flake Right on brother. That was an easy one. The fact that she didn't even mention the date would have made it much easier for me. When a man levels up he is going to have to walk away from many potentials.	/r/seduction	04/10/25 06:01 AM
0	Broke deadbeats who pull beautiful women...how do they do it? Yet you will spread your legs for fat, broke dudes that have no hope of social upward mobility? Women are an anomaly.	/r/seduction	27/09/25 08:49 AM
1	Do high quality men need to make any effort to get dates? High quality, or "high value" men never have to work as hard to get dates. Sure, for some women you might have to put in some work. But for the most part if a woman senses that you are high value, she will actively pursue you. Why???? Because she knows she has competition and the man has options. A MAN WITH OPTIONS NEVER HAVE TO PURSUE WOMEN! Remember that.	/r/seduction	21/02/22 06:32 AM
1	Next Level Seduction: On Seducing Married Women We are kindred spirits. We speak the same language. Forget all the moral judgments. Seduction in itself is an art form. But seducing a woman who is already taken is a skill most men will never master. I have seduced many married women. I separate them into 2 categories. Women who want to be seduced and women who want to take charge and do the seducing. One of the greatest trick a man can pull is letting the woman believe it is her idea and let her do the seducing. Fellas, one of the most importa…	/r/seduction	19/10/21 06:42 AM
1	Here is what I did to stop developing crushes Finally, someone who gets it	/r/seduction	03/01/21 08:15 AM
1	Taking joy in rejecting women I do enjoy doing it. It's funny how most women never expect to get rejected. It's as if you've committed a mortal sin by rejecting them. And you're right. The more you reject them the more they want you.	/r/MGTOW2	31/10/20 08:03 AM