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| 3 | Geriatric 65 yr old scrote is telling people that I led him on…Hypertensive ass! I love it. This old nurse is proud of you! Remember, do no harm but take no shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 12:17 AM |
| 583 | Jordan Peterson + Childless WomenI’m a Gen X/Millennial who, like most of my generation, was taught that life for women had a proper order of operations: go to college/university, get a job, get married, have kids. We were told we could have it all and be effortless and successful. It wasn’t until my late 30s when I realized we were all lied to. All of those goals above depend on how much you’re willing to be stepped on. Have obscene debt from school, tying you to a job. Marry whatever LVM picks you, and while working full time… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 02:30 AM |
| 47 | Something icky to laugh about tonight. We were talking about planting grass for our cats and ofc he had to make it gross and awkward. My intuition was telling me from the start he was weird, but societal gaslighting told me to give him a chance merely bc he was giving me attention 🤷♀️. Blocked.If he feels it’s totally hilarious and appropriate to say weird sexual things this early, you know the creepiness will just escalate. But of course we should just be a cool girl and giggle and let it go. It’s just a joke. He’s a really good guy. Barf 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 06:18 AM |
| 31 | Red and False Green Flags :: My Epiphanies from The Tinder SwindlerPoor Cecile is the perfect example of a pickme. Caught up in the Disney fantasy of happily ever after with her Prince Charming. Then the fantasy starts to fade, and she worked harder and harder to keep the dream alive. I felt badly for her, that could have been me once upon a time. But also like come on honey, you flew to a different country with him and his supposed ex-partner and child on THE FIRST DATE?! I’d like to think that even in my worst pickme days I’d have more sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 09:37 PM |
| 28 | What's your phone numberI see it as a sign of control issues. They want to message you outside of the safety of a dating app, with its rules and regulations like don’t be an asshole and don’t send pictures of your dick. It’s also control over you; he owns a piece of you by having your private phone number, something women have guarded since there’s been phones. Additionally, phone numbers nowadays are instant keys to your full name, address, place of employment. It’s unsafe for women to give out their number, but they … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 09:23 PM |
| 85 | I don’t understand why men are so cruel. Rant.100% this. Their insults usually have nothing to do with reality. If you don’t sleep with them, you’re a prude. If you still refuse, you’re a whore. If you say something they don’t like, you’re stupid/fat/ugly, and since women to them are simply there to look good and worship them, those are the gravest insults they can sling. They also project what they hate most about themselves onto women. I’d bet this guy hates his body, and feeling threatened by OP’s post, projected that hate onto her. That… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 09:17 PM |
| 213 | How many of you ladies have found HVM since following FDS?I just created this account to comment on FDS freely (my other account is too closely linked to me), but I can say yes. I broke up with a man who was “good enough,” but always made me work for our relationship. I can honestly say I am now with a man who has many HVM characteristics (never stop vetting!). He treats me the way I always dreamed of. I’ve never felt more loved or taken care of. I don’t need him, but he adds to my life. It never feels like work. And I know that without FDS, I’d still … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 12:26 AM |
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