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1

And what have you done to express that you like this woman?
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:26 PM
1

And you're jealous of this man because this is the only woman in your town?
/r/seduction23/07/26 11:15 PM
1

But that's something you need to work on then. Sorry most women expect you to approach them first
/r/seduction21/04/26 12:27 AM
1

I dont see where OP said he wanted to date this girl. He just wants to play a game of vball like he has with this girl before.
/r/seduction21/04/26 12:14 AM
1

I texted her and no response for 30 minutes so I ran to reddit to ask how I should react lmao
/r/seduction21/04/26 12:13 AM
1

Exactly. I'm moving abroad soon just to let you know
/r/seduction21/04/26 12:07 AM
0

You do that and then bounce and talk to other women. You dont come on reddit and ask "why this keeps happening to me?"
/r/seduction19/04/26 10:07 PM
1

Then dont. It's your right not to ask again. You hit. Take the W and pursue other women
/r/seduction18/04/26 12:06 AM
4

This useless thread lmao
/r/seduction17/04/26 11:59 PM
1

Exactly. Chad is fucking but john is gonna be ghosted after the second date or is going to be made to wait It doesnt matter what she writes. It matters what she does
/r/seduction23/03/26 12:25 PM
17

It reminds me of when the late Kevin Samuels (youtuber) would ask women to rate themselves but tell them they cant use 7
/r/seduction21/03/26 11:22 PM
133

Track your dating with the Shawty app lmao
/r/seduction21/03/26 05:25 PM
44

It's called pre-selection
/r/seduction14/03/26 11:26 PM
1

And for you being one women there are plenty of women who fuck on the first or second date so there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to all this
/r/seduction13/03/26 11:38 PM
1

Exactly. Who cares about thick chick like she's the only one in the world
/r/seduction13/03/26 11:34 PM
2

who would not believe this?
/r/seduction11/03/26 11:31 AM
3

Give him some time. But guys on here cant even think to do that
/r/seduction11/03/26 11:30 AM
2

It wouldnt be "hey youre gorgeous" Already putting her on the pedestal
/r/seduction11/03/26 11:13 AM
1

Why are you calling a girl ointment?
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:12 PM
10

He actually got a response from her this time so he does not want to move on. He needs to seduce her into the bedroom. This is all part of the game
/r/seduction09/03/26 11:08 PM
9

and yet she can because guys will still want to date and sleep with her
/r/seduction09/03/26 12:23 PM
4

it seems he met her for the first time at a bar and got her number there, not he met at a bar for the first date
/r/seduction09/03/26 12:23 PM
2

It's 2026. You were supposed to offer to pay for her groceries /s
/r/seduction08/03/26 04:44 PM
6

I dont understand how you "accidentally" spend $2400 at a strip club. They talked to you and touched you that well to come up off that much money from you? If you got it like that just say that I hate to say it but for that price you could have just paid 5-10 women for it directly
/r/seduction08/03/26 04:41 PM
2

Youre right men are doing it less it seems like from online discussions but thats not gonna cause women to pick up the slack and start approaching us more . They would rather opt out altogether
/r/seduction04/03/26 12:09 PM
8

That could work too
/r/seduction03/03/26 05:53 PM
5

Like others have said, it's the nature of society. The man has to approach. Its in our nature. I'm with you though. I do think one major thing that could shift the landscape of dating would be for women to approach the men they actually like first
/r/seduction03/03/26 02:12 PM
-1

Yawnnn more attacking and insulting.
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:40 PM
3

I can tell not too many guys here have bothered to check her profile
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:28 PM
6

Exactly. One woman coming in here saying I didnt like it should mean nothing to the men reading this
/r/seduction03/03/26 01:21 PM
-1

See exactly you’re just in attack dog mode for no reason
/r/seduction03/03/26 12:32 PM
-1

Emotional. All your responses have been emotional and practically attacking men. You literally admiitted men dont find you attractive and you prefer women so Im so confused here
/r/seduction03/03/26 11:45 AM
0

A woman could approach first or reach out first on dating apps and a man still take the lead.
/r/seduction03/03/26 11:40 AM
2

But thats the thing. You dont know youre going to get 100 rejections in a row. Thats risk. What if girl 50 goes home with you?
/r/seduction03/03/26 11:22 AM
1

But you're the man. "my lunch break is only 30 minutes. I would prefer happy hour after work so there isnt a time constraint"
/r/seduction27/02/26 11:55 PM
1

I've never done a lunch date. I feel like it's a quick something to get out the way type of date, a mid afternoon thing versus a night thing that could lead to better flirting and walking/holding hands etc
/r/seduction27/02/26 07:14 PM
1

eh i wouldnt have done lunch. Drinks at a bar tends to be my go to
/r/seduction27/02/26 07:12 PM
1

I still dont understand how a consensual agreement between two people is sleazy. He’s selling a service and she is coming to him asking if she can get the service for free. That is sleazy. Give me free photography that you normally charge x hundreds for. People can get dates using different methods at the same time
/r/seduction25/02/26 02:37 PM
1

Once again how is it pathetic for a man to ask for a cup of coffee from a women trying to get a free service out of him?
/r/seduction25/02/26 11:11 AM
1

It feels like youre trying to wag finger at OP for no reason instead of wagging finger at women who see a service that OP is offering and want him to give it to them for free
/r/seduction25/02/26 01:17 AM
2

touch snow
/r/seduction22/02/26 03:03 AM
2

tldr means too long didnt read
/r/seduction22/02/26 03:02 AM
3

she gets another follower from a guy she kinda knows What do you want from her?
/r/seduction20/02/26 11:14 PM
1

Good job More shit like this is needed on here I hope you put her through the mattress
/r/seduction20/02/26 05:10 PM
3

Many guys dont go to therapy and pull women just fine
/r/seduction16/02/26 07:18 PM
1

"I dont like the way you write thats why you have to resort to talking to women on the phone" lmao what loser shit is this?
/r/seduction16/02/26 07:00 PM
4

Idk if it's fake or not but why is OP being secretive about the hobby even saying "it's one of those hobbies"
/r/seduction15/02/26 06:37 PM
3

How can you come to the conclusion you're an addict with her if you've only grabbed her butt once?
/r/seduction11/02/26 09:23 PM
11

At 22 Im sure OP knows people gravitate more towards attractive people. He doesnt need to be spared.
/r/seduction11/02/26 12:34 PM
1

Please dont say this
/r/seduction06/02/26 01:11 PM
2

He wants to fuck but he doesnt want to find out after 6 dates that she's just the prudish type and he's wasted time
/r/seduction04/02/26 12:57 PM
2

I think it's a good topic. Has your car or lack of car had an impact on your dating life.
/r/seduction04/02/26 12:45 PM
1

how did you go from coffee to friendzone? where was the seduction inbetween? When did you take her to grab drinks then a live music venue where you can be close to her and escalate? When did you ask her to come back to your place?
/r/seduction04/02/26 12:40 PM
1

Why does it need to be this long? It doesnt make it genuine. Why couldnt it be condensed into like 10 lines? How did people use to write before chatgpt?
/r/seduction30/01/26 06:23 PM
0

Are you actually hooking up with them though off that message? Im not understanding what the issue is
/r/seduction29/01/26 02:01 AM
3

Then why are you on here asking other guys if you should still try with her?
/r/seduction28/01/26 03:19 AM
24

Well said
/r/seduction27/01/26 10:43 AM
1

But did you fuck?
/r/seduction26/01/26 11:59 AM
1

and was it a nightclub, the mall, the street?
/r/seduction26/01/26 11:51 AM
1

Was this all in one day? where was this at?
/r/seduction26/01/26 03:49 AM
9

Update us when you put her through the mattress
/r/seduction25/01/26 07:44 PM
1

You're never gonna know who's good on here and who is not. At the end of the day you only have yourself. Experience is going to be your best teacher. Watch youtube or IG clips of approaching and actually try something and keep trying while also bettering yourself
/r/seduction25/01/26 12:56 AM
1

Yes you made the thread you should engage. Tell us one girl you slept with recently and how you did it
/r/seduction19/01/26 02:52 PM
5

It's another "I changed my mindset" thread posted 7 hours ago and OP hasnt responded to one post in here and didnt actually post at least a field report
/r/seduction18/01/26 02:30 AM
2

where did this happen?
/r/seduction17/01/26 06:36 PM
6

You are desperate though which is why you made this thread without even giving it til the next week to see if she's a woman of her word
/r/seduction17/01/26 06:32 PM
3

Buying sex with dinner, buying sex with drinks, buying sex with dates
/r/seduction16/01/26 11:09 PM
1

Yawnn once again. It's not a guarantee. OP is just presenting a tool someone can put in their toolbox It's not gonna work on every woman Weird on you to wag finger on something that is optional
/r/seduction16/01/26 11:06 PM
1

You're not trading drugs for sex. And you're making it seem like weed is heroin. If I invite a woman back to my place for a glass of wine am i trading wine for sex?
/r/seduction16/01/26 11:01 PM
0

It's still a consensual activity between two adults...
/r/seduction16/01/26 01:57 PM
12

Maybe some people are cool with that if you're just looking to fuck and that's ok. You're not a tool for being 420 friendly
/r/seduction16/01/26 01:55 PM
1

Welp at the end of the day we'll never know because the woman could not communicate her feelings to him
/r/seduction15/01/26 01:02 PM
1

She didnt even tell him she was a mother until after they fucked. You know what, it's not his loss On to the next one
/r/seduction15/01/26 12:58 PM
3

I hate this for you OP.
/r/seduction15/01/26 12:31 PM
1

"Youre a lowly life form for wanting someone to say what they mean and mean what they say" lmao what is wrong with you? It's like youre just here to argue
/r/seduction15/01/26 12:30 PM
1

Did she invite him to the baking though?
/r/seduction15/01/26 12:26 PM
2

How can you tell someone what their experience is? You understand two different people can have two different experiences in the same city/country?
/r/seduction12/01/26 12:40 PM
1

Exactly. Fuck it take a risk
/r/seduction08/01/26 11:27 PM
5

Exactly. OP did a risky move that half this subreddit would be too afraid to do. It's not your loss OP. The right woman would enjoy it and want to see you again
/r/seduction08/01/26 12:18 PM
1

Why dont you try to do something on your own first instead of asking the internet how to proceed?
/r/seduction06/01/26 12:05 PM
6

Bro do what you want. You're asking guys who cant even speak to women for their opinion. If the shoe was on the other foot, there's a strong possibility she'd be looking to break it off with you
/r/seduction05/01/26 01:29 AM
2

Exactly.. Damn guys everyone wants to be mr nice guy on here.
/r/seduction04/01/26 07:30 PM
1

Meet and approach as friend then. No paying for anything for her.
/r/seduction04/01/26 07:10 PM
4

Im guessing OP is young too if he has to ask why he's not getting responses or he doesnt know how dating apps work
/r/seduction04/01/26 06:12 AM
1

This. Im confused why she's going into attack mode and insulting over a simple statement
/r/seduction04/01/26 05:48 AM
15

Im like what's unethical about this lol smh
/r/seduction02/01/26 09:46 PM
56

Exactly. Its always the guys that slept with 100 women talking about it's not all that
/r/seduction31/12/25 12:13 AM
1

I would imagine a cell phone or gopro style camera
/r/seduction30/12/25 11:48 AM
1

go the direct route "Yo bro i hit you up the other day about kicking it at this place whats good?"
/r/seduction30/12/25 11:47 AM
1

What was the outcome? Did you start getting more women in your bed?
/r/seduction30/12/25 11:43 AM
3

Exactly. This subreddit wouldnt be needed if the advice was just "find a girl that likes you"
/r/seduction30/12/25 11:30 AM
4

Yes cuffing season is a common phrase
/r/seduction28/12/25 12:12 AM
1

LMAO go out side and go talk to real women. Smh
/r/seduction28/12/25 12:07 AM
1

Oh this wasnt your field report. I dont understand you posted this to mock the story?
/r/seduction28/12/25 12:07 AM
1

Finally a damn field report leading to you putting her through the mattress
/r/seduction27/12/25 11:26 PM
4

Shit 5 years he might as well just try anything at this point but he probably won't because still better to cuddle with her in his eyes than nothing
/r/seduction25/12/25 10:59 PM
3

You dont need other hints. If you had other options you wouldnt be worried about her
/r/seduction23/12/25 10:04 PM
1

We dont know you. Do you have friends you can ask?
/r/seduction22/12/25 12:54 AM
7

I dont think the OP wants to beat his friend but I understand where OP is coming from. He feels he's overshadowed by them so he doesnt get the results he wants
/r/seduction21/12/25 10:31 PM
1

I dont see anywhere where you've said you are planning a date and gonna invite her back to your place? Youre asking the internet what she wants smh
/r/seduction21/12/25 10:27 PM
1

so? Just shoot her a text thanking her for helping you in finding her phone then tell her you'll see her again at the gym
/r/seduction21/12/25 02:32 AM
1

Put her through the mattress again
/r/seduction20/12/25 03:05 PM
1

But you can straight up tell her yea ill swing by but i aint just coming over to feed your cat. Any opening to come over to her place should be taken. Swing by the store and grab a bottle of wine to turn the night romantic. Put that netflix on and get comfy
/r/seduction20/12/25 02:48 PM
1

Just be yourself is lazy advice. If that worked for these guys they wouldnt need this forum
/r/seduction20/12/25 02:39 PM
5

Exactly. This waiting for interest and IOI's and all that. Im too grown for that.
/r/seduction20/12/25 02:20 PM
1

Maybe the OP edited their post but he said he approached IN THE WILD
/r/seduction17/12/25 11:50 PM
3

Exactly. Walking off after 10 minutes because she didnt grab your dick upon first meeting you is crazy talk. You need to be going places where you're gonna have fun regardless. Drinks with live music and good vibes Adult arcade that serves drinks Bar hop
/r/seduction17/12/25 10:13 AM
3

But another guy said 6". Cant see that either unless pants are off. Heck cant see 6 figures unless you see a tax form or bank account. I could be 5 figures and spend like i make six figures
/r/seduction14/12/25 12:39 PM
3

i suspect there are guys in here who are 5's themselves only wanting to deal with 8's and up lol smh talking about why would you fuck a girl you feel you look better than
/r/seduction14/12/25 08:38 AM
2

It's like you're being intentionally dense. How does you having a wife help OP?
/r/seduction12/12/25 11:34 PM
4

man... this guy is fucking me but he's not showering me with compliments about my looks...
/r/seduction12/12/25 11:16 PM
15

Exactly. He mentioned all these podcasts, books, and apps and then i was like yea this reads like an ad but doesnt tell us what actually improved in his life.
/r/seduction12/12/25 11:53 AM
1

I doubt that. I would report for not being on topic
/r/seduction10/12/25 11:17 AM
7

These guys dont actually want help on here. They just want to critique every post because it's easier to that then to actually work on themselves
/r/seduction09/12/25 11:54 AM
0

This aint it bro but hey you tried...
/r/seduction08/12/25 02:04 AM
1

Because you and OP are thinking "why dont i just ask the women how to approach them and they'll tell me and I'll have success" and thats just not how it works in this game
/r/seduction07/12/25 11:51 PM
7

Because a lot of insecure guys dont like a guy who's doing better than them They feel more comfortable being around guys who are struggling just like them
/r/seduction07/12/25 11:42 PM
-11

"women how should I talk to you give me the answers to the test"
/r/seduction07/12/25 11:38 PM
2

Yes we call them hitting the wall and being cat women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 09:36 PM
3

Yup we need more details. What does OP actually say to try to get them back to his place? How far is his place? Does he expect most women to come back with him?
/r/seduction07/12/25 04:49 PM
1

So whats the purpose of this thread then if youre not trying to seduce her? Why do you care how you come off to this random woman who's already taken?
/r/seduction07/12/25 01:04 PM
1

Man when you hit your 30's you gonna feel so much better. You typically will be making more money and therefore will be fixing your life up
/r/seduction07/12/25 01:00 PM
16

It's like the dude took personal offense to the OP for some reason
/r/seduction07/12/25 12:43 PM
6

And where did you take these women on your dates?
/r/seduction04/12/25 12:38 AM
0

are you a virgin yourself?
/r/seduction04/12/25 12:25 AM
0

Ok because you’re the end all be all of what works and what doesn’t
/r/seduction02/12/25 11:45 AM
-4

It seems to me a lot of you guys dont actually interact with women. The guy gave play by play of what works for him and gets downvoted by guys who dont even fuck women
/r/seduction02/12/25 11:36 AM
7

The dj is more visible and brings music and joy to the masses. You can see his instagram and where he'll be playing and if he's popular enough, he's dj'ing for actual celebrities. Same thing with a popular bartender. Whats the software engineer doing that's social?
/r/seduction01/12/25 11:38 AM
1

What does this response have to do with the OP? OP said it's ok and you as a man can walk away if she is not into you Like where did OP say you should curse her out and demand she give it to you?
/r/seduction30/11/25 01:24 AM
1

Why should it be yes? Maybe he doesnt want anything serious. Maybe he wants to fuck first to see if they are compatible before offering commitment.
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:42 PM
1

Men dont need all women to
/r/seduction09/11/25 03:45 PM
5

Ah yes what I want to read in a seduction forum
/r/seduction03/11/25 07:58 PM
1

So this is just a complaining topic? What does this have to do with seduction?
/r/seduction30/10/25 05:19 PM
1

You dont ask them what theyre type is. These women just say anything sometimes. You are who you are.
/r/seduction26/10/25 08:28 PM
2

Remove the g
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:41 AM
1

Going for the kiss on the first date Asking her back to your place on the first or second date
/r/seduction22/10/25 12:33 PM
2

You have all these qualities but youre the one writing paragraphs about how she hasnt responded... If you can get her, you can get another her
/r/seduction22/10/25 12:29 PM
1

It proved your point but you still did it. You stuck your hand in the fire with the hopes that this time it wouldn’t burn you. What do you call that?
/r/seduction07/10/25 11:51 PM
1

Then youre 25 and you're fucking women left and right
/r/seduction22/09/25 10:42 PM
2

Exactly. It's not because he calls them bitches and hoes. Ray Ray and Pookie calls them that and still get pussy
/r/seduction21/09/25 12:11 AM
1

Because handsome and well groomed is not enough. It could be personality, location, finances
/r/seduction21/09/25 12:10 AM
2

Why do we connect our value in life to whether women like us?
/r/seduction20/09/25 10:59 PM
3

But once again if the woman likes you enough she will break that rule
/r/seduction20/09/25 08:07 PM
3

So you like him. What are you doing about it?
/r/seduction13/08/25 01:40 AM
2

Looking for an app to feed you lines to say to a woman lol smh Like those old sitcoms where guy wears an earpiece so someone can feed him lines to say to a girl
/r/seduction12/08/25 02:15 AM
1

Exactly. If shirtless, shot a moose pic works for the guy who is OP to tell them not to do it? I suspect most guys on this subreddit aren't even that guy anyway
/r/seduction11/08/25 06:04 PM
6

I dont think there's a right time to do it. I think for the average man it's more so developing themselves to become a guy who can have casual sex with women without commitment which is usually going to be later in life when you have more money and life experience while a woman can have a hoe phase in high school, college, her 20's etc
/r/seduction09/08/25 09:14 PM
2

Getting the girls number is not the only thing dating is so you simplifying dating to yes or no is plain silly
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:05 AM
2

She got her free dinner up out you then went about her business.
/r/seduction07/08/25 06:01 AM
1

Damn man. When you noticed the girl wasnt interested in you the first time, why did you end up hanging out with her again the next week?
/r/seduction07/08/25 05:53 AM
34

Exactly. If the woman in the OP had just kept her mouth shut about how people pay for her all the time it would have been a normal date
/r/seduction06/08/25 02:51 AM
1

Men like anything on a dating app and no man likes you back? Like you're getting no likes at all from any man in your age range?
/r/seduction03/08/25 12:03 AM
1

You take them to dinner and then it goes nowhere. Are they not leading you on?
/r/seduction01/08/25 12:59 AM
5

What does this have to do with seduction? Do you like men?
/r/seduction01/08/25 12:53 AM
0

It's nice/good guy advice. "treat her with respect and empathy" Nice advice to get sweet upvotes You think all chads, ray ray and pookies do this? Almost like a woman wrote this.
/r/seduction28/07/25 12:13 PM
7

Just delete this thread man
/r/seduction28/07/25 12:08 PM
3

Because you told us. Why are you treating this girl like she's the only one in the world?
/r/seduction25/07/25 11:58 AM
8

Yup i agree with this
/r/seduction25/07/25 11:56 AM
2

Have you fucked her
/r/seduction24/07/25 02:47 PM
0

Attaboy The next meeting should be her bouncing on your dick
/r/seduction24/07/25 02:44 PM
1

Has she sent u recent nudes since she's been back in town? Have u asked for them? When u say hooked up did you actually stick your peepee inside of her? Go for it again and waste your time and then come back here and tell us how nothing happened
/r/seduction24/07/25 01:53 PM
-1

You wanted girlfriend with girl not even old enough to drink (in America at least)
/r/seduction24/07/25 01:49 PM
3

Stop being so agreeable is what it sounds like. If she says let's stay in next time, stick to your desire to want to go out and communicate that
/r/seduction24/07/25 01:48 PM
2

Met 5 times never kissed never fucked... She got what she needed from you and moved on
/r/seduction24/07/25 01:42 PM
1

Virgin in your 30s. Maybe you should be looking for the 3s and 4s And what's this business of thinking only the 3s and 4s will give you an sti? Like you've never taken sex education?
/r/seduction24/07/25 01:36 PM
8

At the end of the day you still fucked so take the W and move on
/r/seduction22/07/25 12:12 PM
2

So how did you pull her to come back to your place for this sort of famous girl?
/r/seduction24/06/25 10:56 PM
1

No means no
/r/seduction06/06/25 01:13 PM
3

The hoes trying to do mental gymnastics to say it's not their fault for sleeping with you
/r/seduction29/05/25 11:50 PM
1

Yawnn the old "let me act dumb routine" The guy who takes you to steak dinner can still cheat on you You're judging a man's interest in you on how much he's willing to open his wallet on the first date. You dont even care if you like the guy or have chemistry with them. Just "how much is he willing to spend"
/r/seduction29/05/25 11:45 PM
2

I gotta ask, whats difference between clear and brown wrap?
/r/seduction29/05/25 11:36 PM
59

So what do you want? You want guys to keep trying and failing with the same girl?
/r/seduction20/05/25 05:51 PM
1

"Sounds like my type of girl. Let's go (insert something fun spontaneous like streaking on the beach, bar hopping, downing shots of tequila etc"
/r/seduction20/05/25 03:51 PM
1

What did you actually do at her house? Lmao my feet smelled
/r/seduction20/05/25 12:46 PM
3

Exactly. This shit comes off as blue pill simpery but it's nice feel good advice
/r/seduction20/05/25 11:28 AM
1

So you're looking for a woman who doesnt care what her man looks like huh
/r/seduction18/05/25 08:16 PM
1

I dont understand. So you didnt answer her question? So did you continue the conversation? Did you get her number? I mean what?
/r/seduction18/05/25 08:11 PM
1

Youre allowed to move on. You dont need permission. You're allowed to date other women. Have you even hit?
/r/seduction18/05/25 07:40 PM
2

You dont have to be a pro. Most guys are not dancing at a club so if you are even if it's not the best moves, you're gonna get noticed
/r/seduction18/05/25 07:33 PM
2

Thank you. Exactly. 20 and 21 is a big difference. He cant even go drinking with her legally.
/r/seduction18/05/25 07:31 PM
2

If the shoe was on the other foot she would have been blocked you. You're allowed to not want a long distance relationship or to keep in touch
/r/seduction15/05/25 12:04 PM
11

Just because you don't keep in touch doesn't make her a sex object. Communication is a two way street
/r/seduction15/05/25 12:01 PM
1

Have you done anything besides kissing? Has she felt your D against her body? Have you gripped her ass?
/r/seduction30/04/25 06:44 PM
3

What did you do during the date to suggest you wanted to sleep with her? Did you flirt, escalate pull her close, invite her back to your place? Did she cover a round of shots? Do you have success with sleeping with women on the first date?
/r/seduction26/04/25 02:53 PM
1

Can you describe how it became messy when the kids were included?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 04:18 PM
3

Where is the report from you?
/r/seduction19/04/25 08:55 PM
2

"it's their right to do so" is a lazy response and doesnt address why they would do it to OP
/r/seduction19/04/25 08:53 PM
17

Yea this is bait
/r/seduction19/04/25 05:19 PM
9

And she still slept with him just because of the dream of a beach house? But no I dont see where the lie was in that story
/r/seduction19/04/25 05:18 PM
3

😂😂 Nothing to do with seduction. Nothing posts
/r/seduction19/04/25 05:15 PM
0

But if its working for the OP isn't that what matters?
/r/seduction17/04/25 08:39 PM
1

Exactly. To her he's just another face but to him she's his world
/r/seduction16/04/25 02:27 AM
1

Yea that sounds like a game on her end to literally have you at the gate then change her mind and want you to sleep over instead.
/r/seduction15/04/25 10:51 PM
2

In my 20's I used to pick them up from their place It's crazy to think about it that they would give me their address off a dating app or a club Now in my 30's I usually meet them at the spot Note i dont have a car right now anyway as of 2024
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:43 PM
1

Exactly. Hey I have a bottle of wine at my place, come enjoy it with me Hey come back and watch a movie with me
/r/seduction29/03/25 05:42 PM
-1

Telling people to focus on themselves and their goals is never bad advice
/r/seduction24/03/25 12:48 PM
2

Yet you're coming on here asking a question about a woman who doesnt even care who you are... You can now save your money for a woman who would really appreciate you.
/r/seduction23/03/25 10:48 PM
2

I would rather a talker than miss quiet.
/r/seduction23/03/25 10:44 PM
1

Not in this scenario. We need to know how old OP is. Because mall then walmart to buy liquor means he's at least 21. He coulda went to a bar
/r/seduction15/02/25 10:03 PM
2

It aint easy in the streets but youre waiting around for 2 hours while she finishes up her other date
/r/seduction15/02/25 10:01 PM
1

Why didnt you book a hotel then or back to your place?
/r/seduction15/02/25 09:59 PM
1

Have you tried getting a better job?
/r/seduction14/02/25 03:18 PM
2

Yall dont give any background. Just "I want sex in a car tell me how" Why does it have to be in a car Why not a room? Why not a motel? Why not her place?
/r/seduction14/02/25 03:17 PM
2

You made this same thread yesterday
/r/seduction14/02/25 03:01 PM
10

Well i guess you guys better ask chatgpt how to make friends...
/r/seduction14/02/25 02:18 PM
1

Exactly. Why is he asking our permission?
/r/seduction14/02/25 02:06 PM
1

This situation doesnt make sense. You gave a colleague a small gift and then hastily ran off to come to reddit to ask what you should do next? Work colleague, college? What do you want from her?
/r/seduction13/02/25 08:31 PM
1

Too busy trying to get out of 1 woman's friendzone when other women exist.
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:33 PM
2

Exactly look at this shit "I just feel like giving up on cold approaching, it feels pointless and like girls just don't see me like a human being who has a family, who is a brother, a friend, a son, a grandson. They just see me like I'm some dog trying to get in their pants." Who cares all this in the dating world?
/r/seduction13/02/25 03:22 PM
-1

Youre a lonely thirsty man are you not?
/r/seduction13/02/25 02:41 PM
8

Yea i need more background context. Where is OP located? Edit: i've seen this guy's profile before. Does youtube vids helping guys with game. See his profile
/r/seduction11/02/25 02:29 PM
1

Exactly. I hate it for these dudes
/r/seduction11/02/25 02:17 PM
2

Plenty more women in the sea. The woman that likes you wouldnt be cold to you
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:35 PM
2

These younger women want to get the most they can from you. You shouldnt have said you were out of her league. You're the man not her. If she doesnt like the place you suggest then she doesnt like you. Dont let these hoes use you
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:32 PM
1

But she's not the one paying so it doesnt matter her suggestions.
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:29 PM
1

You cant really create a moment at a movie. Did you have your hand around her shoulders? Did you suggest something else?
/r/seduction09/02/25 09:26 PM
2

Exactly. These type of guys think they just need her to say yes to his date idea one time. It's gambling
/r/seduction09/02/25 07:27 PM
1

You did fine. It's ok to walk away when you're note getting that energy from her. You dont have to get the number of every girl you talk to or mental gymnastic her into responding to you.
/r/seduction09/02/25 07:25 PM
2

Its stacked against men on most apps simply because more men use apps than women. Then you look at the profiles of many man and you see no effort, no good looking pics, then these same men cry "women wont pick me" You choose to be apart of the 80% instead of working to be a part of the 20%
/r/seduction09/02/25 07:17 PM
1

Did you fuck this girl you went on 12 dates with?
/r/seduction09/02/25 03:26 AM
1

You a grown woman doesnt know why men want sex from women and will ask other men how to be a better version of themself to get it?
/r/seduction07/02/25 05:54 PM
-1

Why not just put in your description box (recent homeowner) or leave it out altogether and save it for conversation Or you can hint at it via activities you like to do (go to ikea, home depot, garden in your backyard etc)
/r/seduction07/02/25 05:21 PM
-1

Im not a Drumpf supporter but once again he probbaly can get 10000 women to stand in line for him even if 20000 wouldnt.
/r/seduction07/02/25 02:56 PM
1

If the personality you have right now is working for you then continue to be it.
/r/seduction07/02/25 02:54 PM
8

Not too fussed but fussed enough to write a paragraph on reddit about her
/r/seduction06/02/25 02:12 PM
1

Please get rid of the sweater at the beach pic. why would you have a sweater on at the beach? It's ok to ask random strangers to take a photo of you. Tell them youre a tourist or something
/r/seduction06/02/25 02:07 PM
-3

Bro keep fucking until you get tired of her
/r/seduction06/02/25 01:22 PM
20

Exactly. OP wants to white knight for this woman. I'll be better than all the previous guys like its some romantic movie
/r/seduction06/02/25 11:42 AM
1

You cant test your theory with only one woman. How was the date itself with that one woman? Was there chemistry flirtiness, mutual touching etc?
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:33 AM
1

"hey you wanna join me for food" "No thanks im on a diet" you damn redditors.
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:11 AM
4

Leave man. You're acting like shes the only woman in the world. You said what you said. No need to now try to come back hat in hand
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:08 AM
1

yawn back in my 20's i picked up women at their doorstep.
/r/seduction11/01/25 11:48 PM
1

You dont have to do everything listed. It's the mentality that you should follow. Use money to build a better life for yourself.
/r/seduction11/01/25 11:27 PM
1

how old are you?
/r/seduction11/01/25 11:19 PM
3

He's right. It's not living above your means if you can afford it. Doing well in school so you can land a good job after college, save some money while still living with your parents, then moving out to a nice one bedroom, driving a nice or decent car, taking a trip here and there is not fake
/r/seduction23/12/24 02:28 AM
2

I used to do the coffee dates for low pressure first time but they never lead to a second date. It's just too boring. Grab drinks instead at a lively place
/r/seduction22/12/24 04:05 PM
0

But like OP is saying, you're not asking a woman about ingredients in a soup at night on a beach with just you and her.
/r/seduction21/12/24 06:24 PM
2

That he might never see her again. It was worth a shot to him
/r/seduction21/12/24 06:18 PM
1

50 year old man has to ask how to get with 30 year old woman with boyfriend lol smh. Is she writing an essay on the internet about you?
/r/seduction21/12/24 05:07 AM
0

Tell us more about these handsome girls lol smh
/r/seduction21/12/24 05:04 AM
1

You don't demand her for her number. Whats wrong with you?
/r/seduction09/12/24 10:20 PM
1

What does this have to do with seduction?
/r/seduction09/12/24 10:19 PM
2

He has a whole youtube. Check his profile
/r/seduction02/12/24 03:50 PM
5

Alright it's been two hours. Were you able to get it up? Are you knee deep in the pssy right now? Are you standing up in it?
/r/seduction01/12/24 05:31 PM
2

Money and status are things men go for in women usually. Of course there are exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:00 AM
1

Be a fuckboy. Being a fuckboy is what half of this subreddit needs to be, not mr nice guy If girl 1 aint kissing you then what are you worried about? why are you worried about her feelings?
/r/seduction30/11/24 06:07 PM
1

Just keep fucking her until she decides to end it. You dont owe her a relationship. You want fucc right?
/r/seduction30/11/24 05:54 PM
1

Everyone wants to play good guy on here. Thats why theyre here. Be the asshole OP. How many women have ghosted you without regards for your feelings? How many guys wanted a relationship from her and she "just wants to be friends"?
/r/seduction30/11/24 04:46 PM
2

how long were you with her? whats your age?
/r/seduction25/11/24 10:28 PM
2

Exactly. She has to tell the full story about herself. She just got out of a 16 year relationship and has a child but does not want to use dating apps. It's going to be hard for her because she's not gonna walk around with a shirt on saying she's only looking for fwb from older men.
/r/seduction25/11/24 10:27 PM
1

how are the women gonna see the shiny car inside the bar? Why do you guys always make these narratives up in your head?
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:41 PM
1

Once again what does he do to have 11k followers? Is he a musician, artist, skateboarder, fashionista etc?
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:31 PM
1

douche bags to you still get women so what are you talking about?
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:32 AM
2

hooker or 9-5 is the only job options?
/r/seduction20/11/24 01:27 AM
1

It's fine to tell her no but sure you can try some of the other suggestions like getting her to dance with you first
/r/seduction16/11/24 11:10 PM
1

Its not something you really talk about over text, it's just something you do when the mood strikes. One of my go-to lines was complimenting her lips and wanting to see if they taste as good as mine.
/r/seduction16/11/24 11:08 PM
5

I wouldnt have unfollowed but yea i def would have stopped reaching out. She's not the only girl in the world
/r/seduction16/11/24 04:18 AM
6

So then what do you want. You said you've been with lots of girls and many dont go anywhere and when one wants you to marry her, you feel she's pressuring you so then what do you want? You say you can walk down the street and see a man's expression that he's trapped in the relationship knowing nothing about this guy. Thats crazy
/r/seduction16/11/24 04:08 AM
1

Is it ok for a woman to go on a date with you and then lose interest after? Women do it all the time
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:20 PM
1

Are you asking if guys approach women? What exactly do you do when you like a woman? Like what is your current strategy?
/r/seduction12/11/24 07:36 PM
3

I cant figure out your personality through reddit. You said youre this sweet intentional attractive woman and yet no one wants to see you again or cant even get a date or even someone to want you casually So yes when I'm asking you these questions, im trying to figure out a story or if there are external reasons Maybe you look too good and guys are intimidated.
/r/seduction12/11/24 07:26 PM
1

Age and location?
/r/seduction12/11/24 06:50 PM
9

Exactly. Stop following rules on the internet. But of course use common sense, dont approach at a funeral for example
/r/seduction11/11/24 05:26 PM
1

An app to find cheap motels on this subreddit lol. These dudes need to go find friends who'll let them use their basement or couch or spare bedroom or even bathroom
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:38 PM
1

Fuck what some internet dude thinks about your strategy. You do what works for you
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:31 PM
7

Then they downvote you for even asking...
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:16 PM
4

Way more men than women on the apps. Not in the average guys favor
/r/seduction10/11/24 05:44 PM
3

But once again if seduction is the art of trying to seduce someone for sex, why does the average women need that? But then again why do guys go into female dominated spaces like femaledatingstrategy or TwoXchromosomes? I suspect they want to learn how the other side talks Some people come to mock or look for an argument too
/r/seduction08/11/24 04:25 AM
2

Because porn is a boogeyman. There's no value to watching it so it's easy for people to pick on it. Go to any youtube video about being a better man. One of the things always mentioned is to stop watching porn.
/r/seduction08/11/24 04:20 AM
1

Facebook dating is completely free fyi
/r/seduction05/11/24 11:01 PM
1

I hate it here but felt compelled enough to insult a random guy smh you cant make this shit up
/r/seduction02/11/24 09:21 PM
0

have they given you their number? Do you actually want to pursue any of them or are you just telling us women talk to you now that you're quiet?
/r/seduction02/11/24 09:18 PM
3

Yawnn we get it you're mad they're not responding to you. Women are crazy. There is that what you want to hear?
/r/seduction31/10/24 11:30 AM
2

But your OP has nothing to do with you trying to learn to seduce men. You're throwing stones and now trying to hide your hand. Maybe you've made another thread asking for assistance that I didnt see
/r/seduction31/10/24 10:45 AM
1

Seduction is literally the act of seducing women usually for sex. You came into this subreddit specifically to wag your finger at men basically for doing so and then said a guy used me so they're sleazy now.
/r/seduction31/10/24 10:29 AM
3

Thank you!! This whole thread makes it seems like men are just the enemy to women and women don't like men at all. Women go home with men all the time. A man going home with an escort means he is paying for the sex
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:44 AM
1

That doesnt make sense. Like how did you arrive at that conclusion?
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:41 AM
2

Choice, she doesn't remember, she was drunk, it's the fastest way for her to end the interaction.
/r/seduction31/10/24 09:26 AM
2

They can know it all they want but if it works it works. This is just another tool in the box someone can use or attempt to use to their advantage
/r/seduction21/10/24 07:22 PM
6

Red pill tells men they get better with age and more resources. It's not just a thing parents tell their sons The guys on reddit just dont want to hear it or wait that long when they see other guys in their age bracket having success with women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:59 PM
2

Men still want to have sex with an actual woman. How many guys are gonna run to sex dolls to satisfy that need?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:48 AM
2

What's roleplaying about saying no to your woman sometimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 01:31 AM
1

You trust this woman to be going straight to her house? Bring rubbers
/r/seduction02/08/24 11:15 PM
0

Why dont you wanna be a passport bro? I dont understand
/r/seduction02/08/24 06:44 PM
5

Yall kill me. Go there and give us the experience. Take risks people
/r/seduction02/08/24 06:37 PM
1

Do what you want man it's not that serious but yes i would lean towards not doing it
/r/seduction02/08/24 06:33 PM
3

When's the wedding?
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:56 PM
2

Exactly. I could give that line to five women and 3 might just hit me with a lol or flip it on me, not block me
/r/seduction28/07/24 04:05 PM
1

So what is your current method and why do you need to ask others to come up with witty lines for you?
/r/seduction25/07/24 01:30 PM
1

You're getting slammed for initially saying never approach at the gym, bad idea. Now you're asking for help on how to do it lol
/r/seduction25/07/24 12:40 PM
1

As long as men like women, these apps will be used
/r/seduction15/07/24 02:46 PM
2

I'm not understanding why "the birth rate going down" reply is all the way at the bottom
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:27 AM
1

Im so confused. Why would someone male or female want to be married at 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 03:06 PM
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Well yes both should be direct in a perfect world. Why aren't some men direct? Maybe they dont want to hurt feelings same way as women Maybe they dont want to burn a bridge
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:59 PM
1

Youre physical safety isn't usually an issue when you reject a woman is the direction this thread is in basically
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:58 PM
3

Then you better leave this subreddit if you dont wanna hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:50 PM
1

Exactly. This silly ass thread. This would have been a better question for men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:42 PM
1

You cant use phrases like "vast majority" You just dont know the vast majority of experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:37 PM
1

Have you read any of the other responses? In what you just told us, she went immediately and apparently must have known who did it and had the bruises to show them. Many rape cases are not like that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:21 PM
2

*hasn't
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:13 PM
13

Because the app forces me to pay to see women who actually like us. Swiping on every woman is just the long way of seeing which women actually like you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:20 AM
0

Who determines that it's not good?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 12:05 AM
0

They're choosing to be single unless the perfect man in their eyes comes across their path. If women want to be less single, they have to start choosing the men that are there. (I'm not saying the dirty broke criminal but average John who works and has his head on straight)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 11:48 PM
3

Exactly. Numbers wise it's just not in men's favor. I get called handsome when I meet a woman in person but on the app I use, I'm lucky to get maybe 1 match a month
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:29 PM
-1

Do you know who Elon Musk is? Do you know who the rapper Future is? Both famous men known for having multiple baby mothers No woman is gonna come in here and go "yea I'd rather have the millionaire" yet it happens in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 07:29 AM
3

Exactly. Men tell women they need to lower their standards all the time but these men on here think they're gonna find their untouched virgin women Welp good luck with that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:52 AM
9

"You have options straight men for lots of sex. Just become gay" That's insane
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:08 PM
5

It seems to me you're missing the legal purposes of marriage like the sharing of assets and decision making etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:32 PM
3

Sometimes mods change the flair to CMV because OP is making some sort of assertion. But no I agree with OP's title. Men are willing to fuck anything sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 01:00 PM
1

Are you attractive? Do you have female friends around you that you can ask to give you some tips to approach a guy you might be interested in? Are you in social settings like bars and clubs where guys approach women consistently?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:55 PM
6

Ok so be Brad Pitt then? Im neutral on the cargo shorts discussion but I'm sure cargo shorts is a non-issue for Brad Pitt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:36 PM
2

Who are you to tell someone who they should approach though? What gives you the right to tell that 4/10 guy not to approach that 8/10 girl? Please guys dont ever let someone tell you who you should and shouldnt approach. (within reason)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:28 PM
20

Where did OP say that at all? Come on stop it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 12:26 PM
46

Exactly. Look on social media. I see women complain all the time that men are not even taking them on dates anymore. I see women's dating profile saying "im not coming to your house on the first date" Trust, women complain about dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:20 PM
0

"some men lie" is not an answer to OP's question Clearly we know men out there get sex so how do those men get sex is OP's question
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 01:07 PM
2

And that's the answer I expected. "My presense is enough" Nah that's why man men are opting out of dating altogether so we are taking your advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:40 PM
-1

Which one is easier to do though, stop men from dipping out or be more restrictive with your womb?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:22 PM
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Welp there you go everyone. The statement has been disproven because of this guy and his friends
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:41 PM
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It may be but you said it yourself, you were trying to change his view.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:32 PM
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Why exactly do you need to change his view? The dating game has changed. Women make more money than before and now require more from men instead of less or else they will choose to remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 01:20 PM
2

Another factor is money. Dating and relationships cost money, always. Men think that any dollar they spend on a women means they should be receiving the dirtiest hot sex whenever they want because "HEY, I took you to dinner last week" like they shouldn't be doing that regardless. So then what expectation can a man have for taking a woman out on a date or multiple dates? What does a man have to look forward to? Why is the man expected to pay for most of the dates but is owed nothing in return? Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:49 AM
20

Exactly. We as the men bear most of the risk in dating. We're expected to initiate the convo, plan the date, pay for the date but if we do something the woman is not feeling, she's the one that usually exits the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 11:46 PM
13

Exactly. How is a man supposed to know her personality on the street?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 01:39 AM
1

Yes this subreddit is like the subreddit you go to after dating didnt work for you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 05:20 PM
14

Yea I definitely picked up on that subtle dig she was trying to make They try so hard to shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:22 PM
3

He only posts links to videos when commenting
/r/seduction19/09/22 06:09 AM
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