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Being an absolute beginner, nearing fifty, is just a difficult place to be in, I'm afraid. I agree that dating a partner with less dating experience themselves might be the best fit. However, going a lot younger (>10 year's) often comes with it's own problems (different life stages and "topics").
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:09 AM
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No. People are heavily influenced by their socialization but also have free will. I think the best description is that of a corridor of options that people have. For each person, that corridor of options will look different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:12 PM
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Have you ever been in the position to break up with a romantic partner? Not because they did something unforgivable but because the two of you grew apart/realize you're fundamentally incompatible? It's a pretty shitty situation. You still value the other as a person, likely even a friend, and wish them no harm. Yet you come to the conclusion: this relationship has no future. So, what do you do? Many people are conflict avoidant, they don't want to hurt their partner. So, they postpone the break-…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:38 PM
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Why the hell would anyone rationally fake an orgasm and continue having pleasure-less sex with a partner and feel the guilt of lying to them? Because they don't want to hurt their partner. When they can tell their partner how to pleasure them? Often, it's not a matter of technique, there are bigger issues. Most relationships don't end abruptly. It's a built up of resentment, a back and forth of "should I be ending this?". In this phase, unwanted consensual sex isn't rare. Concerning your last pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:45 PM
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Om my, the bar really is in hell 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:23 PM
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Young men are e.g. great when they're idealistic, humble, curious/adventurous and open minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 08:54 PM
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No, this sub is peak entertainment. And I've learned a few things. I like subs that keep challenging my viewpoints, so I'll be staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:12 AM
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Dismantling the white picket fence dream/when motherhood doesn't make her happy: - Revolutionary Road (USA 2008) - A Happy Event (France/Belgium 2011) - The Lost Daughter (Greece/USA/GB/Israel, 2021) - A Million Minutes (Germany 2023, only English subtitles)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 08:46 PM
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I think the Epstein case, just as Wenstein, shows that rich men often don't genuinely attract women but instead rape and abuse them and that their power and wealth helps them get away with it. It is - or maybe rather was - a red pill fantasy that men can be ugly fucks (inside and out) and still suceed with women if they're just wealthy enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:57 PM
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This adresses none of my concerns regarding the dating visa though. So, how would it be ensured that the women using the dating visa are actually dating? What counts as dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 06:01 PM
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I've got no issues with preferring female immigrants, just as I would welcome other immigrants with desirable traits (education, money, language skills). I just don't like the requirement that these women have to date. How would that be checked? Don't you think that many of these women would be dating on paper only? Feign interest to stay?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:43 PM
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Traditional cultures also have rites of passages for young men, sometimes even only for young men as a) there isn't such a clear sign of adulthood as menarche for women b) traditional cultures are usually highly gender segregated and the young men leave the sphere of the women and children and enter those of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:13 PM
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Which tells us a lot how these men view their (male) sexuality - something dirty, that taints women - and gender relations: there are women who deserve to be tainted. Sounds like a lot to unpack.What kind of therapy/counselling do you provide?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:16 AM
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I rarely feel unsafe yet don't like male attention. That's because, nowadays, the majority of people (especially the younger ones) absolutely suck at flirting and make it an uncomfortable experience for everyone involved. Good flirting is a skill. It's a playful interaction that's supposed to make the other person feel better, even if nothing more comes out of it. It's an interaction that's energy is giving instead of taking: I'm offering you a "dance" (with words, looks, body language). It's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:36 PM
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No true Scotsman fallacy. Yeah, I know, in theory, Socialism is great. I just hasn't been implemented correctly! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:25 PM
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Funny, I didn't interpret it as a shit test. I'd be afraid she'd take my answer and present herself as my dream partner to lure me in. Cluster B alarm bells.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:22 PM
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That's easy, getting my tubes tied. Ideally, by then, my partner also has all the kids he wants and does the same. Both sterilisations failing is extremely unlikely. But in the case it does, we're having another kid. The scenario of having two wonderful children with the man I love and then aborting another seems especially painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:31 PM
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Many from the pro-choice side argue for abortion as back-up birth control yet deny it when asked directly... My radical moral stance against abortion is primarily a personal one. Legally - due to the argument of bodily autonomy (which imo is the only relevant argument pro abortion) - I'm in favour of laws that allow abortions in the first trimester/until viability at the latest (for any reason) and later on if the health of the pregnant person is in serious danger (determined by a doctor) althou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:12 AM
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Sure, and it's a blessing! However, contraception isn't 100% reliable either, so the "what if" question remains. For me, that means having the child. And having a kid with a casual partner sounds like a huge gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:17 AM
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As I'm morally opposed to abortion, my credo is: Don't have sex with people you don't want to have kids with. Currently, that means celibacy. 🫤
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:25 AM
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I think they don't want it as they'd actually be held to higher morals themselves. Religion usually also teaches giving instead of transactional tit for tat. Ultimately, I think, red pill guys don't want a really conservative lifestyle. They want to eat their cake and have it, too. (Just like many "feminist" women btw, who claim to want "equality" yet he needs to earn more, do more etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 05:04 PM
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'cmon, that's what we are here for. 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:15 PM
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This! 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:56 AM
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What made you attracted to the abusive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:52 AM
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I think it's really sad that so many people only make the 50/50 lifestyle work when it's too late. I mean, if it works after seperation why didn't it during the relationship? What's to learn for couples who are still together. Honest question.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 05:43 PM
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I don't see the contradiction. I agree that men should put less value on female validation on a societal level. It's not good that men who aren't successful with women are labeled as loosers. Sexual attractiveness to the other gender should not be used as a metric how "valuable" a human being is. However, on an individual level I fully understand everybody who doesn't want sex with a person who does it out of financial motivation only. Sex is not only about getting off and validation, it's also …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 08:39 AM
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