bacharama Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	Man in need of help.	General	bacharama	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 08:49 AM
17	Is dating more messed up in the US than other Western countries?	Discussion	bacharama	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/06/23 09:01 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Redditors are so ridiculous when it comes to age gap relationships If a 24 year old woman can't make proper decisions about who to date due to 'frontal lobe development' or whatever these people like to cite, then perhaps we should change the voting age to 25...but somehow I doubt the same people freaking out over age gaps would endorse that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/10/25 09:05 AM
1	Is it possible for women to be hypergamic in a poor country? I'll have to find them, but I'm pretty sure that studies have been done showing that countries with large amounts of poverty, large wealth gaps, and less gender equality are actually correlated with being MORE hypergamous than countries that are wealthier, have a smaller wealth gap, and have more gender equality. This is because in countries that fit that profile, often the only way for a woman to move up is to marry up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/04/24 05:32 PM
9	So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh? Immigration is only delaying the issue. In fact, the EU is expected to already have a lower working age population in 2030 than it had in 2020, even with immigration taken into account. Also, financial incentives have failed every time to raise the fertility rate permanently above the replacement rate of 2.0. People like to talk about financial incentives and affordability being the issue - but birth rates are highest among populations with lower incomes. Scandinavia has a great quality of life,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/24 09:38 AM
–	What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted? I'm not talking about those ones. I'm talking about threads I've seen on reddit and Twitter of people shitting on 35 year old guys for going out with 27 year olds, which I have seen happen on several occasions. I agree big age gaps like the ones you mentioned are bad. I just think the discourse is ridiculous at a certain point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 09:08 AM
–	What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted? Age gaps are fine. A 33 year old man with a 25 year old woman is fine, but a lot of reddit and Twitter will have you believe its "problematic." My unpopular opinion about this - the rapid rise of "age gap of more than 3 years = bad" is at least partially driven by women getting married at a later age in life than they used to. A male preference for younger women is to their detriment. Since they can't go after the women due to societal norms, they instead frame it as "concern" and shame the man …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 04:49 AM
–	What's your dating unpopular opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you down voted? Wholeheartedly agree. Another common piece of advice here is its "not that hard" to be attractive to women. "Just shower, groom, and be funny and you're ahead of 90% of all other men, it's such a low bar" kind of stuff. First of all, it's definitely not that easy. Second it's another classic case where men are the ones who are blamed and everything is solely their fault. Women can complain about not getting a good man and that's permissible, but if you complain as a man, clearly you're not takin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/24 04:41 AM
72	Should I break up with my boyfriend when I turn 30 because he believes in the wall? You shouldn't break up with him when you turn 30. You should break up with him today.	/r/ExRedPill	13/12/23 05:58 AM
29	40 percent of Japanese men in their 20s have never been on a date When I first studied abroad in Japan back in 2012, the phenomenon of sexlessness, particularly among men (but also women, just to a lesser degree) was extremely well known. Also, they had slang and memes referring to alphas and betas ("carnivore men" and "herbivore men" they called them) not too dissimilar from the alpha-beta-sigma, chad-virgin, etc. memes of today. Japan was noteworthy at the time for decreased birth rates, increasing rates of sexlessness, and growing isolation of young men wit…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/23 06:41 PM
4	Man in need of help. I guess just seeking a certain grounding in the world. I'll be honest, I feel very alienated from it, and the mainstream discourse revolving around men doesn't fill me with hope. Women are to always be accepted and embraced, and I agree with that. The problem I have is when men are portrayed as disposable of no consequence in society. In addition, the feminist areas of society had plenty of exposure (such as all of the mainstream) while male points of view seem to increasingly be demonized. As a…	/r/MensRights	01/02/23 09:08 AM