| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | 40 yo - fear of being aggresive | Fundamentals | back2me78 | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 04:42 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Is there beauty in the struggle?Achieved? You haven’t achieved anything, it’s just your turn because she can bounce out at any time | /r/seduction | 08/08/26 07:51 PM |
| 6 | How to keep her hooked foreverCan you keep a horse tied up forever when it’s itching to go for a run? If you do it’s called abuse | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/26 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Tall black dude struggling with dating anxiety, rejection sensitivity, and feeling behind. How do I rebuild?How about stop giving a shit about your height, how you look, what you say or don’t say. You come across like you are just asking the girl to validate you. You are doing NOTHING wrong, stop needing women’s acceptance to make you think you are behind or unattractive or whatever. You putting way too much power in a woman’s hand. They feel that from you and it turns them off. They want your validation, you are the leader and they need to be worthy of being led. Just talk, say whatever . Make a comm… | /r/seduction | 08/08/26 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Screw the bad boy bullshitStop adding label like “bad” or “nice” to your manhood - both are fake and put on’s to get a result. Be yourself and chase your own happiness in interactions - if it feels good to you and you ain’t hurting nobody do you - bad and nice | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 08:55 AM |
| 2 | 40 yo - fear of being aggresiveThat is some great advice - apart of me wishes I would have acted on this sooner but got to get that out of my head. It makes sense. I’ve been that Prince Charming giving way too much energy towards her not knowing or at least forgetting what I look like. Sometimes I forget how big I am. That is a spot on observation of what I need to correct. I was told by one woman I can come across as codependent - well I wasn’t, I just thought I was supposed to make sure she felt comforted always. When she h… | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | 40 yo - fear of being aggresiveYeah the truth hurts but yes there is some people pleasing tendencies I have - habitual I guess. Im not sure where I got off the path - I would think simple masculine traits would come more natural but I’ve struggled asking women out in the past - just refusing to do it. As if they are some of burden to take on. I know that’s not true but that’s how I feel sometimes. Thank you for the advife | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 05:24 AM |
| 2 | 40 yo - fear of being aggresiveNah you didn’t offend me at all - I’ve just heard that term before about myself but don’t really feel that is truly me. It’s a facade I play - im not comfortable being gentle all the time because it gets exhausting trying to make sure someone isn’t offended | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 05:19 AM |
| 1 | 40 yo - fear of being aggresiveAll around. I’ve been told “gentle giant” and I hate that term - I hate always feeling the need to take care of others and also afraid of my power and strength. I literally second guess nearly everything I say when I with a woman because I don’t want to offend. | /r/seduction | 07/07/21 05:00 AM |
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