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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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378	If a man ever says something along the lines of "I am a terrible person" or "I am an asshole", take him at word, thank the Gods that he showed himself early on and GHOST/BLOCK AND DELETE. Men who say such things have nothing good to offer you. I promise you. Yes! I’ve learned my lesson. Even things like when they are partying and say something like “I’m the devil.” My experience, they are gloating about the cheating and lying they are getting away with. They want to be acknowledged without getting caught. Also, sad confessions that they think they aren’t good enough for you or not a good partner. If they truly believe that, they will prove it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/21 08:00 PM
30	Gabby Petito This case has me reliving the nightmare marriage I escaped almost a decade ago. The way that she has internalized all of the things he’s said to her about herself. The way she takes the blame for all of the violence. The way he’s carefully laid landmines over time so that he can trigger memories of his abuse in public without being physically abusive in public so she will act “crazy” and garner him sympathy. It’s so close to home for me. The police arrested me after I defended myself as he tried…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/21 06:14 AM