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No one was called stupid, and it wasn't about a worldview. It was purely about speculation on a person's character based on their usage of a "gotcha" word that is very loaded in this time and age. But since you want to talk about stupidity and be a smartass, you should know that the word irony doesn't mean what you think it means, idiot.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/10/22 05:05 PM
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I'm Canadian and I don't feel this should be shameful or shocking at all... Idk what's wrong with everyone else here.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/21 05:19 AM
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Yeah but then we wouldn't have seen that beautiful headlock takedown.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/04/21 05:15 AM
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Wasn't this posted here like a day or two ago? I'm not super offended by reposts to be honest - You kind of need some amount of reposting to keep a community alive - but at least wait a few weeks...
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/21 07:30 AM
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I don't have a line, but here's what my approach would be. I'd try to seriously answer the question in my mind. It's generally a good thing to know what you like and dislike in life. Instead of being lost and opinionless, floating in a world of greys and maybes and okays. If you can look within yourself and understand that question and your answer, then you can start joking around and being smooth about it.
/r/seduction21/12/14 04:49 AM
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damn man, that's sweet, we got niggas from John abbott on seddit, i didnt even know
/r/seduction27/09/14 12:12 AM
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Looks like someone on seddit reads JAC Secrets ;)
/r/seduction24/09/14 12:24 AM
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GoSounds like you had a good night. Unfortunately, I don't have much to say on the rest of the post, your quote caught my attention! :P It was a very enjoyable read, however. Very to the point, just the right amount of details and analysis. Me, being the silly cocky funny dude that fucks with people, my answer would have been: "I can't do this.. good looks aren't enough" "Shhh sh sh girl, don't worry you have a good personality too." "Well,
/r/seduction15/09/14 12:39 PM
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Remember, you're not complimenting and being positive with her to get a reaction. You're doing it (at least, I want you to do it) because you're a person who has a lot of value and wants to share his value and positivity. In turn, the girl will take what you're giving out and feel more comfortable. Hopefully.
/r/seduction20/08/14 03:14 PM
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Yeah, this is one of those weird cases. From what it seems, and for lack of better phrasing, you're going to have to qualify her to yourself. Like funfwf and IllicitG said, she's intimidated. If you want a good pickup and a good experience, you should take it upon yourself to make her feel comfortable. Remember, compliments and such are only needy if you're coming from a frame of desperation. If you give her positivity and emotional support and be a real dude to her, she'll open herself up in no…
/r/seduction20/08/14 02:33 PM
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Always happy to read your posts, man. You've always got good things to say.
/r/seduction05/08/14 07:54 PM
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Sure, "higher value people" might show up late, because they're so busy with "high value activities" taking up their "high value time". But here's an actual "high value belief system". The high value guy believes, among other things, in punctuality, honesty, reciprocation. He doesn't care about being early or about being late, or being late to give the appearance of high value (Deception is dishonesty!). He just comes on time because that's what good people do. I'm living in Germany right now fo…
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:21 PM
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In regards to your Reflection, don't put yourself down like that because of how you might have been lucky. Remember, firstly, that you're bound to find a success after so many rejections, and rejections are very common. As for the boring conversations, I wouldn't beat myself up too much. Sure, we all want to be master pimps and seduce every woman we see, but that's not real life. Does a perfect pickup even exist? I'm sure even the smoothest mPUA's still mess up - and try to get better. You're ma…
/r/seduction24/07/14 02:11 PM
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It's your decision, that you must make as a man. And you will value yourself on the decision. Which is more shameful, the man who coils in the revelation of the lie, or the man who admits his deception with easy eyes and strong steps? If you're going to tell the truth, don't be apologetic. Don't be uncomfortable and anxious about it. You tell her, and that's just how it is. Probably you'll get away with it because her first impression of you was nice. If anything, she'll see you as mysterious an…
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:10 PM
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There's nothing wrong with being "alpha male". What matters is your own values and beliefs. If you let the fact that you're the center of attention get to your head, you'll fuck yourself up. Keep your beliefs and values true and stay congruent with yourself and you'll never have a problem. If anything, being an "alpha male" and having the attention and superiority lets you exhibit your values and beliefs that much more. The thing to keep in mind, then, is that if your values and beliefs are wron…
/r/seduction03/07/14 10:11 AM
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Awesome. I recognized you from your last post. I remembered the part where you walk by your apartment and tell the girl she can either come up or you walk her back to her place. I really think that's a cool move. :p Anyways, this is an equally awesome field report, and very nicely written, too. I felt giddy like a schoolgirl when you finally kissed her. Great post, there's nothing I can critique. Can't wait for the next one.
/r/seduction27/06/14 12:13 AM
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I really love the RSD videos you find on YouTube from all the different instructors, they always have great things to say. My favorite, of course, is Tyler. Other than that, we're pretty big on "Models" by Mark Manson. My personal favorite, though, and sadly not well known, is the Book of Pook.
/r/seduction19/06/14 11:30 AM
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I don't think you should have a problem. The primary things you want to fulfill in a relationship with a woman are her sexual and emotional needs, so you shouldn't let her intelligence (Or lack thereof) interfere with your ability to make her feel a certain way.
/r/seduction24/05/14 03:20 PM
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I agree with you on what you said there, but I can't really remember too many of things from MM. I'm due for a re-read! But you're right about it being very accurate on how seduction works. The thing is that MM was built for Outer Game, and in the seduction community of today which is focused on Inner Game, a lot of people look down on it. Sure, you have to have a lot of emphasis on attracting regardless of your game, but my main point here was that Inner Game will turn Comfort into something ri…
/r/seduction21/05/14 03:40 PM
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Someone just gave me gold... Sweet. Now I have no excuse. I have to make a post about it.
/r/seduction21/05/14 10:50 AM
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If I'm going to make it a post, I'll have to make it a lot neater. But thanks!
/r/seduction21/05/14 09:41 AM
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Of course it's tailored to himself. Like a lot of people are saying, it's how you use it, and when reading anything in seduction, you should really prioritize things that make sense to you and your personality. Personally, I don't remember much of the Mystery Method. I started with MM, The Game, Magic Bullets, but then moved on to Inner Game stuff. Book of Pool, Mark Manson, and I really like Tyler from RSD in his videos on YouTube, always full of knowledge. But that doesn't change the things My…
/r/seduction20/05/14 09:18 PM
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How do you entertain yourself? You should have, like slcjosh said, an attractive life. And part of that means attractive habits, hobbies, pastimes. Play chess, play music, talk, watch silly videos, have cool things to talk about. Mementos, souvenirs. Nostalgic video games. Having fun with a girl isn't complicated. I mean, you are going back to your place, after all, so why not simply include her in your activities? If you've already kissed her and made moves, she knows what you're doing at your …
/r/seduction20/05/14 08:58 PM
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Great post, man. Lots of good stuff in here. I guess it's helpful to remember that even the most sure-looking people have insecurities. Don't let yours be an excuse. You made very good use of the situation, it takes perfect timing and performance to get the girl and still be the good guy.
/r/seduction20/03/14 10:52 PM
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1I'd assume he's talking about when you meet this girl. I'd wager that the girl wouldn't immediately jump your bones, you gotta put the right effort and game into it. OP is saying that as a simple inner game mentality, to think back on how you met girls in the past. They didn't like you for what you said, but how you said those things and who you are. So they probably would have liked you anyways. Knowing that, just act comfortable around girls. Be yourself, and consider that every girl you meet…
/r/seduction14/02/14 05:33 PM
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Short, sweet, as detailed as it needs to be. Good read and good job. :)
/r/seduction14/02/14 06:13 AM
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/thread
/r/seduction03/02/14 04:11 AM
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Not just dumb bitches are attracted to muscles. Maybe for the dumb bitches all he needs is muscle, but if going to the gym and making yourself look nicer works for your inner game, then that's what counts. Plus, it's not like girls spend hours putting on makeup and doing their hair just for fun. They do it so they look better for us men. We're allowed to do the same by going to the gym.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:07 PM
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With that attitude, no, you won't be on top of a group. Remember that you are an introvert. People who are introverts generally have a better sense of who they are and what they will do, just because of the introversion. Use your introversion to your advantage, a powerful brain capable of introversion is a brain that can move your life forwards immensely. And, like the other guys say, fake it till you make it. You don't have to act extroverted. You can just be a guy that has shit settled and kno…
/r/seduction27/01/14 06:10 PM
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Think of women more of like assets that need to be taken care of and maintained properly. Some people might feel a little uncomfortable with viewing women as objects or assets, but the main message here is spot on. Women are humans, too, and though their biology and brains are fundamentally different, we both have the same goals and needs - one of the biggest, and the one that requires interaction of the two species, being sex and reproduction. It's only normal that we should respect women and t…
/r/seduction04/01/14 02:11 PM
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She was successful in taking me home that night. That's the right mindset.
/r/seduction11/11/13 03:57 AM
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Can you link to the NaturalAFC post you mentioned? :)
/r/seduction10/09/13 02:50 AM
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My comment was in response to OutlawPUA's response to seddian about how to talk to stupid girls. OutlawPUA said that they're probably not stupid and that seddian isn't hooking them well enough for them to elicit anything constructive. I agree 100% with what you said, and I was suggesting that the possible reason seddian isn't getting "stupid" girls is because he can't relate to them.
/r/seduction09/09/13 12:03 AM
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What about girls that are legitimately stupid? You can't blame them for being stupid, they're a product of society and media socializing them to only care about shallow and vain things and celebrities and all that stuff, but that doesn't change the fact that there are some sedditors that are intellectual and just can't relate to these girls. It becomes not only a question of changing your routine and changing your techniques, but also having to relate to their intellectuality. Whenever I try to …
/r/seduction07/09/13 03:51 PM
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Wow, they are really overthinking everything. And what's so bad about "dates" being guys and girls actually participating in something instead of "dinner and movies"? Then they say that courtship nowadays requires a lot less effort? Get the fuck out of here. It's just a big blunder of content analysis; Lots of disappointed and unsatisfied girls and guys everywhere and they assume this is the people that make up hookup culture. But they're just normal people. It's easy to find romance if you're l…
/r/seduction18/01/13 07:07 PM
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id like some more info on the HB10 number close :)
/r/seduction11/01/13 09:43 PM
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If your state is strong enough, just use the claw. But in general, just game as you normally would and then say you're going back to your friends and she should come. Lead. Draw her into your reality.
/r/seduction08/01/13 08:50 PM
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Remember, this isn't just what you do while you're playing the game. I'm relatively new to this community, and it's my first time really offering advice, but you have to detach from the outcome. Your satisfaction, your happiness, your self-perception must come from within. They must come from you. Like wedoitlive said, get out of the negative feedback loop, get back to what's really important; Your life. You can't expect to build a beautiful house without a strong foundation. You need to get you…
/r/seduction07/01/13 04:29 AM
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